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1. Whats your "real" name? 2. How many men have you been with today? 3. So, have you been busy? 4. Is your real hair color/breast size/nails/tan real? 5. How did you get into the business? 6. Do you have a boyfriend/SO/partner? 7. Why don't you go Indie? 8. Can I stand you on your head while you give me a bj? 9. Why do you have to put the condom on now? 10. Can I have a tour of your place? 11. Who is that in the picture? 12. Are the sheets clean? 13. Did you shower? 14. Tell me the difference between the 1hr and 2hr option besides time, I might want to readjust our session. 15. Is that what you are wearing? 16. I thought you would be _________ (taller, shorter, skinnier, fatter, younger, older) 17. I brought rolled change for part of my donation, is that a problem? (paid $250 in rolled pennies and dimes) 18. Do you own this place? 19. You should take yoga. 20. Have you ever considered having your breasts done? 21. Do you have a bong? 22. Can you drive me home afterwards? 23. I have a friend in the car, is it ok if he waits in your livingroom? 24. How many children do you have? 25. Do you REALLY enjoy it or are you an awesome actress? 26. Can we "just hang out" cause I think we have a real connection. 27. What are the perks if I become a good regular? 28. Can I leave my shoes and socks on for the whole visit? 29. Whats the weirdest request you've ever had? 30. Has anyone ever hurt you during an appointment? 31. Does your family know what you do? And my all time favorite! 32. Your such a smart woman, why don't you get a real job? These are all questions I have been asked personally and they range from mildly annoying to WTF is he thinking! cat

Well this is a great thread for all to read. I have gotten this question a few times and it kind of leaves me with an uneasy feeling, What type of childhood did you have? Was there sexual molestation in any way? Did that lead you to this career? I know there are many myths out there that say our childhood events lead us to this career but I dont dfeel that is the norm. Everyone has thier own reasons for thier career choices and I wished some clients would not think that every SP had an incident, that lead to this career. I believe your upbring is a very personal area, that unless is brought up by the SP, it should go UNmentioned.

Woopsadaisy! Good on 'ya!!! ;)

Well even though I can't attend :-( there are four draw prizes for the social. At least I'll be there in spirit. I'll give the prizes to you tomorrow Angela RG

Very true Cat..... after reading your post I just had another peak at all of these beautiful ladies. I also realized I am a lucky fella..... I have had the pleasure of locking eyes with 4 of our Cerb ladies in this post which would make 8 eyes I suppose....and they are beautiful eyes !!! mmm hmmm Makeup not needed ! Perhaps after tomorrow I can say 5 ladies and 10 beautiful eyes :) I guess when I say locking eyes I mean my right eye.....my left eye is a wandering eye so it could perhaps be looking at your boobs at the same time ;) I have also had the pleasure of meeting one of the celebs on this post and she really does have amazing alluring eyes ! Gabrielle Union

I love wearing stocking of all kinds, I love the ones with the seam up the back, so classy and sexy. At this time of year though I always check with my gentleman friend if he is ok with the bare leg look. Even for a short time stockings are a killer in the heat. Its fun to show of our pretty bare legs as well. :biggrin:

Very, and I do mean very, rarely does this happen... and if they are "busted" it is usually a result of a compliant or the possibilities of human trafficking/smuggling. I've been going to spas 17+ years and have never felt in any danger of being busted.

Some of the most amazing eyes I have seen are right here on CERB. Sandi

Freedom is the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint. It is eternal and infinte bliss. Freedom to give and to share. To think, to know, to achieve and to grow. Freedom from failure becomes freedom of success. From hate befalls freedom of love. Freedom to live and to die. To laugh and freedom to cry. To speak and to listen. Freedom from wrong and being right. To choose and to reject. Freedom from lust and greed. Freedom from within and not having to hide. Freedom from body and mind. Universal.

Well, it is indeed great to see all these people who are tech savvy and willing to help a friend on Cerb. I wish I had such skills, lol! toine

I am always asked what I like..... I do have my likes but I am very much a go with where the sutuation takes us... I do like to ask what you like and don't like however. Sooo many times you ladies are doing what you feel the guys want or have requested..... when I am in your company I want YOU to enjoy what you like too and makes you feel good and warm and fuzzy and stuff ;) I will try my best to make it an enjoyable date for you too. and I won't ask you to stand on your head....still chuckling about that one. and I wouldn't ask you when you are getting a real job....because if you didn't have a real job I wouldn't be laying there with a big smile and a woody and having a grande old time otherwise. My accountant has a real job too.....she stuffs a big bill up my ass..... as does my lawyer, plumber, electrician and Revenue Canada. My doctor has a real job....tries to shove his finger up my ass but I won't let him ;) You ladies make me SMILE :D Yay for you girls !! My friends in this bitch of a real world many days ! xox

Too bad you couldn't attend....you could tell jokes and be the music man too :) Two of your favorite threads Take care of Angela out in the boat there cause we need her back to organize the social....she can't swim but I guess she does have a pretty darn gorgeous pair of buoy's there ;) to keep her afloat Sooooo.....4 door prizes from your fishing trip this week perhaps..... a pickeral, a walleye, an Orleans red snapper and a "Cat" fish ;)

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Now it should be noted, when you see a lady for repeat encounters, you both get to know one another a bit better, sometimes a lot better. And questions that would be no-no's on a first date, well on second, third, fourth, fifth etc dates are acceptable. There are still boundaries, but the boundary has expanded. The lady sometimes feels safe sharing aspects of her personal life, and conversely, you as a gentleman feel just as safe sharing aspects of your personal life with the lady But, and said with emphasis, if you are ever so lucky to meet ladies who you click with and see on repeat basis, what is said behind closed doors, stays behind closed doors. What you two share privately is just that, private. And it adds a special kind of intimacy to the encounter, that you trust one another to share. That said, for newbies especially, and for first time encounters, follow Cat's guidelines and you can't go wrong. Some morning ramblings RG

You said they installed a different OS. Different than Ubuntu? Different version? Please be more specific in that regard for best help. Assuming it is still Linux based here is my first guess. Videos are DVD rips. If this is the case, you will need to install DeCSS in order to decode them. Once I know what OS we are talking about I can provide more specific advice. If it is Ubuntu/Kubuntu/Lubuntu, etc, etc go through the following. Install ubuntu-restricted-extras package through the software centre/synaptic. After that, follow the instructions from here:https://help.ubuntu.com/community/RestrictedFormats/PlayingDVDs Turning off compiz is a catch all solution that solves hundreds of problems. Are you sure the 3D drivers are even activated? That could explain some things. Ask if you need help with this, but they are under either "Additional Drivers" or "Restricted Drivers". Flash sucks. Alot. Flash on Linux is forgotten about. It may be just that for YouTube, but installing the above things may help fix it too. Would like to know what you mean by "different OS" and what you have for a video card for better help. Will be willing to help via real time chat, remote desktop control, etc if it comes down to it. I realise the above is very general and probably not very helpful, you probably went through much already. Those are my first thoughts and as we know more we can help further. Good luck.

I think its awesome when I am asked. I am not a mind reader and I sometimes ask if unsure. Communication is the key on both sides to a great date. I always go back to everyone is different and that is what makes life so interesting. Talk and ask away. ( me anyway)

I am not a techno savvy geek but I recently had to reinstall the drivers for my video card and all was good after that. Wish you the best in resolving your issues.

No that definitely wouldn't be the case. I'm thinking the jumpy scrolling and lack of full motion video are related. Just poor video performance in general for whatever reason. As for your video card going south, not likely, they tend to either work or not at all but it is possible that some video driver changes in the newer Ubuntu has affected performance of your particular video setup so dropping in a different video card, even one that would normally be discarded could do the trick, no so much what you have is broken, if you know what I mean. We'd need a lot of additional to say, hey here is exactly what you need to do (like the version of Ubuntu you are now running, helpful to know what you were running before that you were used to and worked so well for you too and of course details on the video hardware and chip set). I note that there are lots of YouTube videos on optimizing video playback performance with Ubuntu and even though your audio is lagging might find some help there. It should be an easy problem for the geek squad to solve sitting in front of the machine but in light of your missing files and that you still have a chance to recover them by going back, I think you'd end up the happiest in the end if you did go back as much of a pain as that may be. Wish I could be more help, I know it's distressing.

Working on my HST returns. I'm not disciplined enough to keep up-to-date, but I hate like hell to give the government a 30 day interest- free line of credit. ARGH!!!!!!

I still prefer to see feet inside something like this: or perhaps in this pattern:

Yes that is correct during a GFE Encounter or experience conversation is definitely part of the package. As you mentioned briefly reading the companions ads or website will give you a better feel as to what she is about and can lead you to some open topics. A few email exchanges prior to any date give both parties a bit of an insite to one another and the conversation from there should blossom (I ask any potential date to tell me about them-self, so I havs something to break the ice when we meet if there is a quiet moment). That being said if you are shy in nature, within a few minutes with any companion she should have you relaxed and chatting away in no time. Keep the conversation fun and away from business and or too personal and you should have no problems.

Thank you for your kind words and your wonderful input of information Sophia, I tried to give some rep points for your detailed responsed but it seems as if I have been a little too ''rep,trigger happy'' today at giving them away lol So thanks again! and your points were exactly what I was looking to do with my pictures Take care!

You could always book with a SP and specify before hand exactly what you're looking for and specify that you're not looking for the whole shebang. One thing to keep in mind though is that you're paying for their time, so rates will likely remain the same.

I HATE shoes. Just kidding :) Except sometimes I just want to wander the house in bare feet.... Anyone find bare feet kinda sexy??

How about Olivia Wilde? I've always thought she has gorgeous eyes :)

For me kissing is sex. I find kissing much more intimate and sensual than say intercourse. Some might argue I'm just not doing it right and that could well be true. I can have intercourse and never look at my partner....kissing I can't. The eyes are the window to the soul and I like to look in windows. Peace MG

If you found out that someone you were involved with had been a veterinarian, would it affect your relationship? A dentist? A physicist? No? So why would another occupation she might have had bother you? Think seriously about this. Tease out exactly what it is that you're hung up on, don't just settle for a sense of vague, undefined discomfort. If it's "she'd have slept with a lot of guys other than me", this could be equally true of any partner you meet. But it doesn't matter, because those events were in the past. You just need to worry about your relationship, in the present. If her past experience really bothers you now, then you're sexually insecure. The problem isn't her; it's you. If it's "she was intimate with men and took money for it", then you need to examine your attitude toward the women whose company you (presumably) pay for from time to time. There's nothing wrong with the work an SP does, and she's not cheapened by having done it. If you can't accept that, please stop seeing SPs. Me? Frankly I would admire the implied sexual maturity and her comfort with her sexual self, and 'd be happy for what she might be able to teach me because her experience would be far vaster than my own. If she was willing to share I'd love to hear her stories, because she'd have learned many, many, many first-hand lessons about human behaviour I'll likely never be in a position to learn myself. But mostly I wouldn't really care, because I'd be dating a whole person, all of her, as she is today, and as she wants to be tomorrow; and there's infinitely more to know and love and care about her than how she once chose (or chooses) to make her living. I'll leave aside the "but what if you'd seen her as an SP first?" because that falls into the same old "I've fallen in love with my SP!" discussion for the gazillionth time, and Search can provide all the insight you need.