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Did you think that maybe your comment about "disease free" may have offended her?

Last night I was picked up and taken to a beautiful organic farm two hours outside of St John's. Our drive to destination was breathtaking and the home and property I visited was a place of unique beauty and charm. The large property was full of every kind of berry, flower and vegetable. I was taken care of the entire night, was awakened by the ocean surf and had a delicious breakfast served to me in bed. I was treated like a queen and I thank my wonderful host for such a delightful and memorable evening.

Halifax and other cities in the maritimes have no problem supporting the high end price tag, if they did the ladies that tour here would not come or continue to return. That being said there is something for everyone....

I'm glad you raised this, and that you've described the arrangement as you have. We haven't had the pleasure of meeting, but here are my thoughts -- and I'll bet they're what you imagined some guys might feel. Personally I've never booked through an agency because I hate, hate, hate the idea that the woman I'm spending time with will be getting less than 100% of the fee. Fundamentally (and irrationally, I suppose) I perceive an agency as a pimp; and I resent the idea that the agency would skim some of the woman's earnings, and that my cash might be supporting them. But in this case that's clearly a dumb and badly inaccurate description of the arrangement you have with the agency. It's clear you're entering into the arrangement having thought it all through, and you've already shown you have all the skills they do, so you don't need them -- you've just decided you'd rather outsource some of the administrative overhead work and you're happy with the terms of the arrangement. So, knowing that, it would no longer affect my decision to book you -- but I must say, if you also provided an option to contact you directly and ensure you didn't have to share the fee, I'd still prefer to do that.

Had a great reunion this morning. Went to the market, bought a bunch of kiwis. Now I am naked, in the sunshine, dancing to great music. What don't I love about my life? And can I suggest that we all pause for a moment and ponder the word 'kiwi'?

I've been doing some thinking about relationships. It seems that the idea of marriage or even being in a committed relationship doesn't carry the same weight as it did in my parent's generation. Of all my friends who have taken the leap of faith and gotten hitched, not one relationship has stood the test of time. It's either divorce city, or ending up trapped in a loveless marriage, sleeping in separate beds with SO's on the side. These days, marriage is akin to spending a few years with someone, grabbing all you can in the (eventual) divorce settlement, and then moving on, for better or worse. It's not if you get divorced, but when... sad state of affairs really. I've never gone that route, and in some respects I consider myself lucky. I'd be content with the prospect of a long term relationship, but even those are difficult to attain. In my experience, they've started out with a flurry of unbridled lust and passion... not love per se, but more along the lines of infatuation and obsession. The women I've dated were only too quick to begin talk of moving in and having children, which in my estimation is incredibly ironic since the unions ended up being short lived. These trends, or themes seem endemic to today's societal culture which doesn't seem to be grounded in anything concrete. This has caused me to shy away from the notion of romance and gravitate more toward the hobby, which I find refreshing in many respects - not least of which is the fact that it's very upfront and honest, which is more than I can say for many bonafide relationships. You always know where you stand here, as everything is based on full disclosure before the fact. At the very least, it eliminates any nasy surprises when you least expect them. That said, I still hold out hope for the future, but it begs the question, is perennial happiness achievable?

Fifteen minutes doesn't do it for me, and to be honest I like more than 30 minutes unless I'm unusually randy and want to get off without the usual expense. I would suggest you say sure and then quote them the half hour rate. If there wasn't a differential they wouldn't be making the request.

I have seen plenty (majority) of $140 for half and $200 for full hour ads (incalls as outcalls are at $240) and a few ads at $180 even, however, you are correct in saying that there are also ads at $200+, even $300. The $200/$240 hour rates are mostly on BP mostly by (non-asian) reputable agencies but also some indies and you are right I should have referred to it as Standard rate for Ottawa rather than average rate.

I like Lee for being a simple guy with an offbeat sense of humour, even in spite of posting that photo (which doesn't even bear a close resemblance to me) in the FB thread RG

Finally caught up with Old Dog and a few of this friends who have been enjoying the beautiful weather.

Although anything is possible, if the lady is irresponsible enough to advertise/work as an escort and she has an STD, I doubt she would be responsible enough to be honest and tell you yes she does in fact have 'a disease'. I get where you're coming from as far as being direct and getting to the point but I could see where a lady would be taken aback by that question.

I like Lee Richards... he is a funny guy, he texts me randomly and he thinks we are both good looking enough to show up at a beach in speedos... heheheheheh

I like RG. He is a gentleman but also a funny frickin fella ! and so far he hasn't threatened once to kick my ass when I posted a real pic of him in the Fat Bastard thread. Also he sees the big picture in life....from a fishing boat with all the toys for boys to a set of hip waders and 2 feet for a motor. He has a life plan and it is pretty darn impressive RG ! Kudos big guy !

Angella of Ottawa, yes that's possible as well. Even though i'm not that young and i been in this industry for a wile. :) I would think they get that from reading my website but i guess not.

As someone fairly new to this hobby I can say I don't like the idea of seeing a SP for 15 minutes. If it takes me longer to shower, get dressed and make myself presentable then the actual act, whats the point? I may as well stay home and rub one out watching porn. On the flip side to that, whats it like for the SP's having a revolving door of men coming into their incall location, it can't be safe, not the mention the neighbors would definately notice this over a few clients a day. Anyway, thats just me, I like to know a little bit about the girl that I'm with, maybe talk and see them laugh first...its not just about the "release", its about companionship.

No I am not the chef..but I think if I can convince my wife my next job will be at a SC lol

I dunno Jafo... I tend to agree with you.... your plan and about 40 companions like this:

Yeah that's what i thought. But if i think about it i did advertise in bp in other cities and never ever had so many guys in one day asking me to see them for 15 minutes. It will happen once in a wile but not so many requests for 15 minutes and all in one day. Oh well i'm not going to stress this subject anymore i was just wondering why this happened. Thank you all Additional Comments: LOL ....Mr. GONE IN 30 SECONDS!

I've been watching Big Brother since season 1! I know the game inside and out. I've never subscribed to the live feed because I can find out online. I just found out that Big Brother is coming to Canada next year! My thoughts so far: I really don't want the coaches to enter the game. I feel like it would be pointless of having them in the first place. They just entered the house with immunity for 3 weeks. Makes no sense to me! -Janelle is one of my all time favourite player. -Boogie is a great player but his arrogance will get the best of him (i.e last weeks POV competition). -Will & Britney they don't seem to know what they are doing in terms of coaching.

I just got home from a great afternoon and evening with friends. The guitar was out, steak and lobster were on the menu, the beer was good and we went swimming at their beach. T'was the closest to skinny dipping I have done in a long time. :)

No offense, have you tried rebooting?

Alright. So here goes. I was watching the parade of nations at the Olympics last night, and it was as it always is... lots of very attractive athletes, joyful, exuberant, full of expectations of glory.... Then. Well then the Paraguayans walked by. I have no idea who designed the national outfits, but the ladies on the team were wearing low cut red dresses... BRILLIANT. They walk by and I am watching and then ... SHE APPEARS. I went "HOLY SCHNIKIES!" She was gorgeous!!! .... and that's how I discovered Leryn Franco, Paraguayan javelin thrower...

Go to Start -> Control Panel -> Region and Language Select the Keyboard Tab -> Change Keyboard under the General Option - make sure English (US/CANADA) is selected, and make sure the Keyboard layout is on US (English - US) ------ There is also option to remove any other keyboard layout - which could come in handy in case you press the hotkeys to swap your keyboard in the future!

Got my 5km walk time down from 52 minutes to 47 minutes today! Now, should I add 1km tomorrow or just try to beat my time??? Plus, down another 2lbs and my energy level has risen by leaps and bounds!

On Saturday night I had my third encounter, nay, more like a date, with Emily, when she came on tour to Toronto July 13-14 2012. And it was a four hour outcall to my hotel. Emily and I have hit it off in the past, and I thought an extended date with Em would be great. Great is an understatement. Without details, I can say Saturday night's date was the highlight of my summer, and summer isn't even over yet. I spent the afternoon in my hotel room, getting ready, watching the clock, my anticipation and excitement building, watching, waiting, getting ready and then, on time came the knock on the door. I opened the door and there was Emily, looking as young and beautiful as ever. I let her in and we greeted each other with a hug and kiss, oh ok, kisses. Now in complete honesty I have to say Emily's photos are not accurate. Emily is even more beautiful in person than her photos show. We went over to the couch, where I had a nibbler tray set up of cheese, crackers and some other munchies. I then went to the kitchen and got us each a drink. We got caught up on old times. I told her some things going on with me, and she told me things going on with her. Emily has a very colourful life I must say. I didn't know this but Emily is on the dating scene. But Em doesn't use dating sites to find a boyfriend, no. She uses Wal Mart. If you hear shopping carts crashing in a Wal Mart near you, and see an angry married lady yelling about a beautiful redhead trying to steal her husband, well chances are Emily is in town. I had to put my drink down while being Emily told me of her escapades at Wal Mart for fear my drink would spew out through my nose. She had other stories to tell, worthy of posting in the humor section on CERB, but I won't tell them, too many stories, not enough time. But more than once I had to put my drink down. You might have gathered Emily has a sense of humor. Well she does and then some. Not to mention being down to earth. She was even forgiving of me. I confessed I took one of her photos off her website and used it for wallpaper on my computer. And I sent copies of the photo to some friends who would appreciate the picture. She said it's an awesome picture, I have to agree. I'm not telling what photo it is, but Emily has my permission to divulge which photo I used off her website, so you'll have to ask her. Well as time went on we went to the bedroom to continue catching up. The snack platter was left in the living room, although I don't know why, Emily can eat crackers in my bed any time. We undressed one another and.....oh if I haven't mentioned it before, Emily is beautiful. Oh forgot what I was going to write with that memory fresh in my head. However the details of our catching up are private between Emily and me. After we finished catching up, we both were just lying in bed, Emily in my arms, and we were caressing one another. Doing what could be listed as a menu item (not that Emily has a menu), and I'll coin the term KCC (kissing, cuddling, conversation) We kissed/cuddled/conversed for awhile but unfortunately, as always, the time ended.....ended all too soon, and Emily had to catch a flight out. I drove her back to her hotel in my infamous pick-up truck and we kissed good-bye, leaving me not just with a memorable encounter, but a wonderful memory too If you are looking for a lady who provides a GFE and lets the encounter unfold naturally, contact Emily. If you are a visual gentleman, and you like her photos, give her a call, she is much more beautiful in person (some things a camera just doesn't catch) If you like ladies who are down to earth and have a sense of humour, give Emily a call, she is the proverbial girl next door (although sadly never next door to any place I lived). And for the gentlemen, we are very lucky. She has a busy schedule traveling from one end of Canada to another, living out of suitcases and hotel rooms so we get the pleasure of her companionship. Emily is a wonderful companion, a class act and most of all a lady, and should be treated as such. An encounter with her isn't just memorable, it is a fond memory too. And to Emily, thank you again for a wonderful date Saturday night. I'm looking forward to seeing you again.

Presumably the agency is absorbing the cost, but the girl still gets paid.

I've been impressed by how well the ladies I've been with have been at making me feel special within the hour or so we were together. Its not about chemistry at all. Its mostly about attitude, warmth, affection, humour, and perhaps most importantly listening to each other about what we need/want. When I'm with a lady, I'm respectful of her, I'm gentle, I enjoy just being with the lady, and she responds in kind. Sessions haven't always been as good as I had hoped, but I've never, never, never walked away thinking, that was a waste of money. Indeed I don't regret any of the appointments I've had since starting this hobby a few years ago; and I remember every lady I've been with including their stage names.

Well Folks.... I think it is time to have a gathering at the lodge and invite all of our beautiful Cerb ladies to let us show you how much we love you :D We will cater to your every need ! You just pull up a tree stump and we will serve you beers and piggies in a blanket, entertain you, play some games and redneck twister and later in the evening a full body massage for each and every one of you ! I am very happy to announce that I have lined up an extremely sought after group of fellas that used to headline for Chippendales . One phone call from the payphone and an immediate response ... they are coming !!! Ladies....One of these studs is a member of our very own lodge. Lets see if you can guess who ladies !! ;) For those of you who aren't into dancers we also have persuaded RG to come and play the piano to entertain you ladies :) He sold his boat and with some of the money went and got some hair there. Following the entertainment Phaedrus will man the BBQ If we run out of Turkey burgers we can quickly whip up some rabbit stew. Keep in mind ladies there will be no hanky panky going on here !!!!! Old Dog has lots of birth control tape like he uses on Sissy for those that feel the urge to fool around !! Andy is dying to show off his new summer boots This guy, what's his name wanted to be in charge of the games....but he only likes wheel of fortune apparently so we didn't accept his offer.... Some of the other lodge members are working on the games .....stay tuned folks.... More updates to come !!!!!!

I don't want to keep bashing Moncton I was raised there, my friends are there, and I have many memories associated with that city. All I can say is I hope that the scene gets better. To all you guys in Moncton keeping the touring ladies coming back and to the ladies that make the effort to keep coming back my sincere thanks.

I have in the past accepted a reference from an agency on occasion (but it is only because I knew the owner) I will not accept anything except a reference from a reputable companion (as in paid advertising, website, board presence) My safety and well being and that of those I have previously met is way too important to me and that is why my screening policies have gotten stricter. As well with the bylaws in some cities, it is not worth risking anything for any amount of money. I am reference friendly and it saddens me when other ladies are not, as the gentleman will see who he wants with or with out your consent, you don't own the client and you should want nothing more than for him to be safe.

Lol, I had no idea this thread was going around, I really don't check CERB very often except when I'm travelling to Ottawa or Halifax... anyways, I'm glad to be the inspiration for this thread, and I appreciate the kind words that so many of you have said about me. <3 Truth is, I'm extraordinarily lucky in a lot of ways, and I'm always accepted as female without any reservations or questions. I have friends, colleagues, and professors that I've known for years who haven't the slightest clue as to my medical history. Frankly, unless they're going to see me naked, I don't think it's necessary to share the intimate details of my past, so in my day-to-day life (and my activism for the most part) I simply don't bring it up. It's really only relevant to those that I plan to sleep with, and I find it can often become a distraction that takes away from the other issues in the discussion. My anatomy isn't the least bit relevant in regards to my belief that sex work should be entirely decriminalized, and when I talk about the topic in public forums, I'd rather the focus remain on the laws themselves. In terms of my own identity and how I perceive myself, I consider myself a woman first and foremost, with "tgirl" as a subordinate category under the superordinate category of "female". I think of tgirl as a similar term to "lesbian", insofar as both terms refer to a woman of a particular alignment or persuasion, but both fall under the broader category of woman. I really don't like the term "shemale", though, because that's usually meant to mean a person of a "third gender," who identifies as neither male nor female, but somewhere in between. I know that some people use this term to refer to themselves and I certainly respect their right to do so, but it's never felt like the right term for me, and I don't use it to describe myself in any way, shape or form. I'm just a girl with a unique anatomy and unique history, in a unique location on the amazingly-diverse spectrum of sexuality. As for surgery, I think of that as a private issue that I don't really discuss publicly, although I'll go as far to say that it's definitely on my TDL, as soon as the time is right. But in my personal and public life, I'm already accepted as the person I know myself to be, and that's a lot more important to me than my current anatomy. I'm also legally female in every respect, having changed my name and all forms of ID quite some time ago. Fortunately, I don't experience systemic discrimination due to my status, although that's unfortunately not the case for many of my trans friends. As a provider, it's extremely important that all my potential clients are aware of my services before making an appointment, because it's not fair to expect them to have a complete grasp of all the different terminology within the industry. I would feel bad if someone's lack of awareness led them to arrange an appointment where they're expecting a certain service, but not able to enjoy it. I think that's something that all providers should make a priority when arranging a get-together, just for ethical reasons, but for me, it's a safety issue as well. I've been fortunate that none of my unaware clients have ever reacted violently or negatively, but I know it's happened to others who aren't so diligent when making arrangements - and sadly, the law often gives a free pass to those who commit violent acts, and tends to blame the trans person for supposedly acting in a deceptive manner. :( Anyways, I hope that some of what I've written makes sense, and I'm happy to have been the inspiration of this discussion. From the posts above, it seems that at least a few people have expanded their horizons through this post, or at least learned a few new words and won't be likely to experience any unexpected "surprises." ;) Given that my long-term goal is to decrease the stigma experienced by sex workers, I truly feel that providers who are honest about their services and genuine in their approach can only help society view us in a more positive light. By trying to avoid misconceptions, I'm just doing my own little part to make that goal a reality someday, and I love how CERB has so many providers and clients who are doing their part as well. :)

This is something that`s been in the works for the past week. About halfway through the swear word I realize that I`m swearing so I end up saying alot of nonsense that starts with `f......` Thus far I've said: f.....arfing fuckapedia frouing shi...shu holy shirt and godclamit But the most successful swear replacement is 'oh curse word.' Not too subtle and I'm not sure I can get away with saying 'curse word me' during a hot session but who knows? Anybody want to curse word right now?? Thanks everyone for all the contributions. xoxo A

The first step in stopping your habit is to recognize that it may be a problem for you. Tell your friends and family that you want to stop/cut down on it and enlist their help. Ask yourself the question "Why do I want to stop swearing?" and of course actually stopping is not going to happen overnight. It will take vigilance over a period of time. Maybe you can start a "swear jar" and put money in for a good cause every time you let one slip. :) Some kind of punishment to give you incentive to reduce the incidents. But also reward yourself once in a while if you feel you've made a big improvement. The use of swear words to shock or get across a stark point IMO has been severely curtailed, because it is in such wide use. The "most flexible, adaptable" word no longer means much. Finding less crass words in a wider vocabulary will express what you mean more efficiently and elegantly. Best wishes! FR

Personally I can't and dont swear. It was always frowned upon in my family and it's a habit I didn't pick up. Which is odd because my siblings swear like a sailor. Exception is when I'm a. really upset b. frustrated c. in the moment of passion. I found this link with steps on how to stop. http://m.wikihow.com/Stop-Swearing Hopefully some of the content is helpful. JG

Trans-- or transgender is an umbrella term, used to describe a variety of individuals whose gender expression or gender identity differs from their sex assigned at birth. Really, a google search would help. This is a good place to start: http://www.apa.org/topics/sexuality/transgender.aspx Also, because it's cute and making the rounds of Facebook:

It stand for transgender. Which mean that Nikki was born as a biological man, but with the heart,spirit and mind of a woman. The physical body, envelop was wrong at birth. If you actually visit her website, you will find more information on what it is. I have only meet her twice, but she is truly stunning and one of the most kind-hearted person I have had the chance to meet. Anyone spending time with her would be really lucky IMHO:)

I spent an hour with Julia from Your MGF (Montreal Girl Friends). This was my first time using this or any agency. The booking was simple, done over the internet/email. Their website contains pictures and dates of availabilities in Ottawa. The RV was in downtown hotel, very clean. When Julia opened the door I was taken back by her good looks. She has long blonde hair, tanned skin and a beautiful body (her pics don't lie). After a quick shower, I found her in her amazing lingerie on the bed waiting for me. After some DFK she gave me a BBBJ that was so good I could not contain myself. We spent sometime talking and she is very easy to speak and smart. When I was ready, after a nice massage, we went at it in several positions. I am very happy with this experience and would repeat with this agency again. Julia mentioned that yourmgf is going to be coming to Ottawa more and more.

Lust, anger, passion, boredom, accomplishments, regrets,excitement, companion, room mate, soul mate, illness, lonelyness, contempt, adoration, best friend and sometimes enemy, monogamy and infidelity all part of my 36 years of marriage, i believe in love but realize it has many faces !

Personal happiness and fulfilling relationships are entirely achievable -- but you knew that already. I think the real question is "how are they achieved?", and that's more complicated. Let me start by saying that relationships with SPs can be *very* rewarding and honest and valuable, but they do come with built-in limitations. They're a bit like relationships with training wheels, because they have such safe, clearly defined boundaries, and because the relationship is only there for a few hours at a time when you want it, and it's never there and places no demands on you when you don't. You can learn a lot about yourself and how it's possible to behave intimately with others in a client-SP relationship; but I think those are lessons we need to carry into other "real" relationships, rather than settling on those relationships as the final product. In other posts I've compared the client-SP relationship to the one you might have with a psychotherapist: the professional you're seeing is a real, whole person, and probably really does care about you, and you can have some very honest and intimate and important exchanges about really important things -- BUT it's still a professional relationship, it only happens within specific boundaries, and it only happens one all-too-brief appointment at a time. Your psychotherapist cares about you, and can play an important, healthy role in your life, but she's not literally your *friend*, she's your therapist. I'm certain that SPs can genuinely come to care about the clients they see often enough to get to know, but the same limitations apply. Other relationships: yeah, marriage is pretty disposable these days. I've posted at least once before here about the withering away of traditional institutions, and that we tend to look first to our individual fulfillment and happiness. In many ways that's a very good thing; being trapped within a broken institution (marriage, church, whatever) ruined many, many lives during the long period when nobody dared challenge those institutions. But on the other hand, putting ourselves first can make us give up on the things we belong to sooner than we should. You just need to find good, well-grounded people who are able to take care of themselves but also commit to, and make sacrifices for, the relationship and the life you can build together. And of course you need to be that person too: willing to compromise, work with the assets your partner brings, and forgive him or her for any weaknesses. It varies with the couple, but sometimes sex plays only the teeniest, tiniest role in that life. That's why the carnal joys of that first glow in the early days of a relationship may be a terrible predictor of how you're going to do together long-term. They're two whole different sets of skills and assets. I never married either. Explaining why would make this long post even longer, so we'll skip that. Really short version would be that I was a late bloomer -- in some respects, *too* late. I sometimes envy the people who found each other in their early 20s, married, and built a life and family together right from the start. By the time you're in your 30s and 40s, you're already off that path and the thing you're looking to build is different than it was in your 20s. But on the other hand, as you say, there are at more disastrous early marriages than there are success stories. You've just got to keep looking for mature, well-grounded people, those who aren't grasping or materialistic, who have some wisdom about them and have grown from their experiences in life. And agree to build a life together, and have fun seeing what that cooperative effort looks like, instead of using the relationship solely to complete our own personal, rigid checklists. The life you build with someone else is going to look different from the one you'd build solo; that's the cost and the benefit of involving someone else in the project. I think that coming to terms with that is one of the hurdles that gives many people trouble. The pool of such people isn't that large, it's true. And they grow harder to find as time passes. But it's worth the effort, and I know that these relationships do happen.

Wooo hoooo! Watersports!!!!!!!!!!!

Perhaps by the next federal election, The Conservative's popularity will have waned to the point where it's a minority government. Who knows? However, I'd like to see the Liberals and the NDP join forces and overthrow the present dictatorship! lol

I agree with Old Spice. More than often they are treated unfearly and that's true. I have a relative who have to be in a weelchair since a short time. Her situation/health is impaired since a while. I had to help her out to shop for a weelchair because at first she was affraid to go out alone. Since she takes a lot of medications, sometimes I have to keep an eye on her. It makes me worry. A taxi driver tried to abuse her physically once and I found this completely disgusting. I will have to go to court with her and support her. It is a situation I do not wish to anyone.

Sincerely straight or bi in 2011 there shouldn't be any tabou, humiliation or shame with the men who likes to receive strap on or prostate massage. I offered this service many times and many men who enjoy it find it normal, natural and very pleasurable. We live in a free world.

Annessa - I think the problem most of us have is with unsolicited PMs. If I member posts asking for a certain type of lady, I would consider that soliciting.