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I recently exchanged a series of unfortunate e-mails with a potential patron who had never seen a companion before. I eventually declined his request because there were too many red flags. Too many questions and subjects were discussed that honestly freaked me out to the point of not seeing him. One or two of these questions on their own wouldn't have been so bad, but the combination of them all was enough to make me cancel the appointment. I'm also sorry if this turns out to be a little bit of a rant... >_<... Please do not ask me the following... Will there be 'thugs' waiting in the closet at your incall to mug me? Unless you're a thug, then no, there will be no 'thugs' in my apartment. I understand hesitancy and fear if it's the first time you've sought the services of an SP/MA, but this question is very offensive. Are you a cop? No. Are you? Are you D&D free? Yes. However, there are no guarantees. I don't intend to show you a 'report card' of cleanliness upon your arrival at my incall. Protecting yourself from STIs has everything to do with engaging in safer sex practices and getting tested regularly. STI prevention has nothing to do with trust. I could tell you I was D&D free, and you could say the same, but ultimately we hardly know each other. That's why we have safer sex. In terms of drug use, read recommendations, do your research, check out websites... use your judgment. I have no idea what to say as far as drugs are concerned. I think this question is shrouded with assumptions about who escorts are, and not based in reality. This question perpetrates the stigma that escorts are 'dirty', and into drugs. Are you an easy drunk? This is none of your business. We will not get drunk together. We are supposed to get together to have a good time, connect, and be intimate... Asking me whether I'm an easy drunk sets off a lot of red flags. Would you like me to be an easy drunk? If so, what does that insinuate about your intentions during the encounter? Do you mind just waiting for me, and I'll call you when I'm done having drinks with my buddies? Yes, I do mind. The fact that you'll be drinking with your buddies before our appointment is also a huge red flag for me. Especially when you're also asking me whether I like group and rough sex. Nothing you're doing is illegal at the incall, right? But aren't you afraid the cops will bust you? Obviously the night we get together will be the night you get busted, ha. ha. Our security isn't a laughing matter. I don't think there are any escorts or massage attendants that aren't afraid they will get targeted by an angry neighbour or landlord. Whenever I see a bylaw officer I think of the possible consequences of being targeted. There are multiple threads on CERB, and multiple resources online, that discuss the legality and risks involved in running an incall. Please do your research... End rant. ;)

Our justice system is also a joke. How is this tool not a threat to minors? I cant believe they are allowing him to mock our city and endanger and profit off our high risk children and teens! It makes me ashamed that I live in such a city. If we don't protect those who cant protect themselves, then the individuals responsible for his release are just as guilty as he is for whatever happens after this point. Disgusting! Posted via Mobile Device

Watching my children grow up as they discover they can achieve things they once thought impossible. Innocence gives way to excitement of the adventure ahead. Porthos

Talking (gossiping) about other SP's.

There's a completely false notion out there that the police have to tell the truth if asked point-blank whether they're police officers. It must come from television or something because it's absolutely not true.

- Seeing the cute little humming birds chasing each other near the feeder and hovering over my head - Smelling the aroma of fresh coffee after opening a new can And these --

Absolutely!

Going wild camping for 3 days...it's awesome. Especially when you don'T shower...at first you feel like a Cavern woman, one with the nature, after that you don't even smell your own body smell...thought on the way back home...the only thing you can think of is taking a shower. You need it badly. Your hair smell like bugspray, your skin old sunscreen, your crotch has a smell of old sock....and then the shower arrive. The bar soap become a bit darker, you use half of your shampoo...and you feel human. I <3 camping and the shower that come afterwards.

Soooo us fellas had a little gathering in the shop on the weekend and drug out the favorite board games and had some toddy's or a 100 or so and had a little fun :) What are your favorite board games ? Past or present Mine are : Monopoly Risk Axis and Allies Twister - fun as a kid....now ouch !! Snakes and ladders Sorry Crib Crocanole and of course Clue Childhood version : Colonel Mustard in the library with the candle stick Adult version : Mr Richards in Malika's bedroom with his penis stick ;)

Off-topic, but that made me think of this...

The real question is, where do men go when they're looking for a paid companion? Sadly, there's no one, clear answer. The advantage of BP is that men look there. I don't advertise a lot, but I have advertised on BP here in Vancouver and have met some very fine clients through the site. I'll probably advertise there again in the future. One client told me that he likes BP because it does more than host escort ads which he thought improved his denial options if he didn't erase his browser history. He didn't know about review boards other than the one that starts with P which he described as depressing and offensive. Unfortunately, Escorts-Canada, localescorts.ca and CERB are not very well known in Vancouver. A new escort ad site opened here about 18 months ago. It offers free as well as paid ads, a general forum and an SP-only area, too. I've advertised there and found that it was popular with picture-collectors and men who are quite a bit younger than most of my clientele. I've never been contacted by man from my preferred age demographic via that site so I can only assume that they don't go there or don't know about it. That could change. Figuring out where and how to connect with potential clients is not easy. It requires research, patience and maybe a clairvoyant. But if I knew that, by taking out a quarter-page ad in, say, National Geographic, I had a good chance of reaching the gentlemen I most want to see, I would do it. Unfortunately, Nat'l Geo doesn't accept ads from paid companions.

Naughty Nicki is contemplating on getting a small tattoo in the near future. I've got a birthday coming up very soon! Perhaps on the back of the neck with an inspiring message ( like the one pictured below) for everyone when they see it. And when I want to cover it up, I will just wear my hair out long. lol.

Being the last person to have posted in the "I Like Positivity Thread".....two whole days ago!! :( And people tell me I can't be subtle :p

I am a fairly open person and don't mind questions of any sort, as I am also quite outspoken. So If I find the question to be to personal or intrusive I'll let the gentleman know. What I won't take part in is gossip, gossip of any kind, I hate it and there is never good intentions behind it, jmo. Our conversation should involve myself and my companion, anyone else is irrelevant.

I think we should organize & go rip down all of his stupid little signs in White Ridge

Cat-opoly of course

WHAT ! You mean when I come to Ottawa Nat....I can't go have some drinks with Old Dog first, give you a call and pop on over, beat up the thugs from the closet, and then get you drunk if you are easy and then have wild and crazy drunken sex ??? I can't do that ??? Sorry to make light of it sweetie but those questions are soooo stupid I couldn't help but laugh .... Another testament to the bs you ladies put up with.

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I know I have posted that I usually do not like the massage part, but on this day I really needed a massage. Reflexology was still closed at 10:45, so I drove down the hill to Aqua. I was greeted by Sabrina. I believe she is in her upper 20's, dark hair, and heavy set with a nice large set of breasts. She was very easy to talk to, and told me she is a trained RMT. I got a good 30 min massage, and she is not a clock watcher. She works at both body basics, and aqua. She definitely seems to enjoy this job.

Having successfully had a birthday celebration that includes friends and family without feeling the need to commit murder. Well not many thoughts...yay for me!

You'd probably be better off asking in the SP sections for the relevant cities...

I'm pretty sure you can get that here too :) I assume that she has no recos :) There are some ladies here who have no recos because they ask clients not to write them. There are some who simply don't see many people, which makes them far less likely to get recos. There are some who may have recos from a while back, but nothing recent (this applies especially to well-established ladies, and those whose business consists largely of repeats). And, of course, there are those who have no recos because... well, because anyone making a malign assumption about that would probably be right in their case. Yes, sometimes when I've seen a lady with no recos it's been obvious why that was. But even then, the experience has been "Meh" rather than anything seriously bad. And I've also had the same when seeing one or two well-recommended ladies who I simply haven't got on with that well. Yep, for sure. I'm not saying CERB is perfect by any means, or that you can completely avoid doing the research... just that it's... better. CERB at least makes an effort to keep the scammers out, unlike BP/CL/etc. As far as the research goes... I've found that simply by being here reasonably often and reading the various recos and other threads people post, I've got a good idea of who I'd like to see and who I probably won't get on with so well. I guess that still counts as research... but it doesn't particularly feel like it at the time :)

Although an optimist and even though a few minutes of self-reflection could be useful for some, I highly doubt this type of 'gentleman', and I use the word lightly, will ever come to the realisation that they might be the problem and not the other way around. It is often easier for someone to use projection to make themselves feel better about their own self in situation(s) that are not going the way they wanted to. Once they no longer feel in control of the situation, often, a false sense of entitlement, arrogance, denigration and passive aggressive attitudes follow quite easily while denying any wrong doing. Quite unpleasant to deal with!!

I'm a story teller and yesterday I found out that one of my stories was told in Spanish in Argentina 4 times last week by a teller who heard me tell it here in Ottawa. It's not even written down and that was only the second time that I'd told it. :D

The very delightful Kitty told me she'd be at Barb's today and Barefax Wednesday. I agree that Saturday afternoon seems to be the best bet to see her at Barb's.

I knew there was a reason why I liked you ;) I usually have a hanger available on the back of the bathroom door for my gentleman's clothes. If there are no hooks available on the back of the door, the door handle is just as good. If not, it is easy to hang the clothes in the closet you're using... IF they do not end up on the floor before we make it to the shower part first :) Additional comment: It's never an issue for my gentleman to put his clothes in my closet as I do not wear perfum so there's no chance of him smelling like 'me' when he leaves ;)

When I was just an INDY, I did not get bothered by the question, " where are you from", BUT now..... I have my ladies that I represent and have much more responsibility in protecting their personal information. I do not like this question" where is she from" because just like the hobbyist, they want to protect their identity and personal information. I will not give where they were born and raised. More than likely you get the answer...You will have to ask her yourself... ALSO!!! Do not ask a lady who is represented by agency " how much does the agency give you" First of all...I do not GIVE them a certain amount....THEY PAY me a certain amount for my work involved....and to be ask such question is simply no ones business, only the lady and I. That is like asking your colleague in the office how much they make on their paycheck. I work for them...not the other way around...

Some questions/comments inappropriate to bring up to a client. Some exact quotes, some are words to the effect... Will you become a regular (btw asked during the course of the encounter) Oh glad I'm meeting you, don't have food in the kitchen, now I can go grocery shopping (yes true, happened to me, do I need to hear she is broke) I'd like a recommendation. I don't seem to get too many (wonder why, and commented before the first hour of a encounter of two hours) opening lines from a lady "gotta pay the bills hun, gotta pay the bills" Just a couple warm fuzzies I've encountered. Fortunately most ladies I meet are just that, ladies. And those few bad ones make me appreciate the good and great ladies all that much more RG

My nomination for today's goddess is the sexy-as-hell Evelyne Lemay! http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=39297

Emily, I am so sorry this has happened. As others have said, first the individual in question needs to show more respect. This shouldn't happen to anyone, but when it happens to someone as wonderful as you, it's just downright unfair. It really isn't hard: --Use private browsing on whatever computer you are using --Never use your work computer --Even if you do the above, delete cookies, browsing history, etc. regularly. --Don't leave your computer on where someone can simply hit back and see the last websites you were on --Use a separate phone. If not, make sure no one else uses your phone and you control the billing statements and record of calls. My phone is my phone. No one else in my family uses it, touches it. They have their own! I also don't leave it sitting around. Even at home it is usually in my possession or in my office. --if you do have a separate phone, don't take it home! Leave it locked in your desk drawer at work, or in a filing cabinet. You only need it when hobbying. The rest of the time it can be out of sight and out of mind. --Delete browsing history on your phone, --have a separate e-mail address that doesn't automatically push to your phone. So if your partner does have your phone, and checks your e-mail, only the e-mails she's allowed to see will be there. --Delete text messages immediately after receipt. --Same goes with i-pads or other tablets. Delete, delete, delete. --don't keep escorts names and numbers in your contact list. It's really strange when there are all these names of friends and families followed by TiffanyXXX in your contacts. One of the reasons I really appreciate SPs with two names. Emily Rushton in my contact list could be anyone, and there are lots of people in my list that my SO wouldn't know. Work contacts, etc. If you do keep names and numbers in your contact list, make up a second name for your favorites along with a fake business name or some such thing to cover the trail. But frankly, better not to have them there at all. All of these things are common sense. Others might have suggestions to add. There has certainly been lots of discussion of this over the years on the board. Build a firewall between your hobby world and your real world. As you proceed always ask the question: what would happen if this became public, or what would happen if my SO found out. And the more prominent your position, the more important this must be. I'm a bit of a nobody, so really it's quite likely very few people would care. But within my immediate workplace, this would matter to some people. And certainly with my SO it would matter. At the end of the day, I truly adore the women I see. (Emily, I'm really missing seeing you in St. John's). Just as I wouldn't want my SO to be hurt, I don't want to hurt the other ladies in my life! Consideration and discretion. The two go hand in hand. Porthos

I'm a pretty tolerant person when it comes to questions because I really do believe some guys just don't know any better, so I usually choose to change the topic or reply with some witty answer. Having said that, the questions that bug me the most are: 1. How many guys did you see today/this week? 2. How much money do you pull in, in a day? 3. Would you give me a discount because I plan on becoming a regular (We've never met yet and I have not even agreed to an appointment yet). 4. Can I just slip it in for a minute. I'm clean. 5. I have a case of beer and some doobies. If you're not busy, do you want to come by and just chill? I think Cat's list was pretty all-encompassing.

1. Whats your "real" name? 2. How many men have you been with today? 3. So, have you been busy? 4. Is your real hair color/breast size/nails/tan real? 5. How did you get into the business? 6. Do you have a boyfriend/SO/partner? 7. Why don't you go Indie? 8. Can I stand you on your head while you give me a bj? 9. Why do you have to put the condom on now? 10. Can I have a tour of your place? 11. Who is that in the picture? 12. Are the sheets clean? 13. Did you shower? 14. Tell me the difference between the 1hr and 2hr option besides time, I might want to readjust our session. 15. Is that what you are wearing? 16. I thought you would be _________ (taller, shorter, skinnier, fatter, younger, older) 17. I brought rolled change for part of my donation, is that a problem? (paid $250 in rolled pennies and dimes) 18. Do you own this place? 19. You should take yoga. 20. Have you ever considered having your breasts done? 21. Do you have a bong? 22. Can you drive me home afterwards? 23. I have a friend in the car, is it ok if he waits in your livingroom? 24. How many children do you have? 25. Do you REALLY enjoy it or are you an awesome actress? 26. Can we "just hang out" cause I think we have a real connection. 27. What are the perks if I become a good regular? 28. Can I leave my shoes and socks on for the whole visit? 29. Whats the weirdest request you've ever had? 30. Has anyone ever hurt you during an appointment? 31. Does your family know what you do? And my all time favorite! 32. Your such a smart woman, why don't you get a real job? These are all questions I have been asked personally and they range from mildly annoying to WTF is he thinking! cat

was told that I look like but then again like and so those are my favorite actresses!

I'm only guessing but I'll bet it's a good guess to imagine that the ladies spend an almost equal amount of time communicating and setting up an appointment as they do with the actual appointment. Just how long does it take to exchange 4 or 5 emails? Check references. When I see a lady for the first time for 3 or 4 hours, I wouldn't be surprised to learn she had spent just as much time communicating, checking references, getting ready and getting there. When we account for no shows and cancellations and most gentleman wanting shorter appointments, I'd say she'd be lucky to have spent as much time off the clock, behind the scenes as she does in my presence. We need to keep this in mind. They give so much and ask for so little in return.