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Of course they're going to say that. Fear mongering sells papers. And yes, it's always wise to be careful whether you're seeing an SP or someone in your personal life. In my humble opinion, you are at higher risk of contracting something from someone you pick up in a bar than from a reputable SP. I say this because I have heard of more "civilian" acquaintances who have contracted STDs over the past few years because they neglected to practice safe sex than SPs I know who get tested on a regular basis. My conclusions may not necessarily be scientific but they are true.

The only person responsible for your own sexual health is you and you alone. And no matter what protection is used, they are risk reduction, not risk elimination. And any intimate activity between two or more people, whether in this lifestyle or not, carries with it some risk The question, as Cat said, is offensive, even if not intended to be offensive And the added offense, it strikes me from your post that you somehow think it's the ladies' responsibility when it comes to STD/STI's. Guess what, sex education 101, STD/STI's, it's everyone's responsibility Look after your own sexual health, don't worry about looking after any one else's RG

Dealing with a personal health issue that is really taking its toll on me. The past few days I have been very stressed and concerned and I have not been the person that I usually I am because of this issue. Lately I have been short, cranky, bitter, depressed and overall not a very forgiving or happy person. I feel that I have taken my frustration, etc. out on some of you here on Cerb so I offer my humble apologies for being a "dick" lately. Real life has quite frankly been a bitch lately so again, my sincere apologies. Such is life but geez!

Wish me luck, round 3 starts early tomorrow in Toronto. So if you don't see me on, just means that I am feeling crappy, not that I have abandoned all the good folks on Cerb! Thank in advance for any and all best wishes, good feelings, prayers, etc, I have been told this round is brutal. Anyway, my golf game needs a break, I am hitting the ball long and hard (hmmm, remember when that was how I described my....) and putting like a gorilla on steroids. The not for profit org supporting the kids of fallen and wounded soldiers is moving along and now planning a fall "bash". We had 600 kids at the camp this summer!! Hugs, kisses and lots of licks to all the Ladies of Cerb.

I would be most interested in understanding the reasoning behind the above... Woud you care to explain? Thank you :)

I always enjoy the originality, imagination & humour of Amelia Middleton's ads. Amelia: Extinct Until Now Amelia+Brandon Sitting in a Tree.... Seriously, how awesome is this? Put the Zest Back In Your Lime I had tears rolling from this! Also, her website is my all time favourite & has been since day one. www.stateofamelia.com/ Sandi

I always like names like Georgia and Georgina, and was originally looking at George for a last name. I picked Georgiana because studying 18th Century Europe and Britain is a bit of a passion for me, and Georgiana was a fairly common name in England during that century. I choose Sweet because I have a weakness for names that are also common words. (I also have a weakness for sweets, so that might have influenced the decision as well.)

Always loved the Three Musketeers ... Porthos is jovial, carefree, a lover of wine, women, and song. Comic relief and larger than life! Porthos

What is the big problem here?...they are licensed for the massage parlour, and the hairstylist I assume is also fully qualified. They dont allow anyone under 18 in... I know people who know them and there is nothing sketchy to my knowledge...they are discreet. You can get a haircut in Bayshore at the ALO location there too so it's not unprecedented. It appears that there is an Asian "relaxation" location on Baseline Rd where hair and nails are being done too...if it makes someone uncomfortable they wont go, but if they go and enjoy the ma, then I dont see anything odd...in fact I have just decided that I am going to go and try it..

For actual massage, lotion gets dry and doesn't really allow for a smooth massage motion. Oils are hands down better. I use unscented only. I use unscented baby oil. It is just mineral oil, simple, inexpensive, seems to heat up during use, and stays smooth and usable for a long time with just a little. It is hypoallergenic, and suitable for sensitive skin of all types (good for babies, good for everyone). And the brand I use (from Shoppers Drug mart) does not stain. I never give anyone a massage on sheets tho, that just seems impractical. All massages, considering the use of oils and lotions, the client is laying on a bath towel. I put the oil in a pump bottle, for obvious reasons. For the actual hj, then I add some tingling lube for the fun factor. After the flip by the time the client has laid out on the towel for even a few minutes, the oil has been absorbed into their skin and the towel with almost nothing left over except smoother and softer skin. There's just no good way to explain any kind of scent, in my experience, so I don't use any at all. :)

A typical question that has been asked over and over and over and over. Rest assured; regardless of your intentions, offense will be taken. The CERB search option and google are your friends... cat

Pleonasm- another term for redundance, repetition.

mine is not what it seems. I am not conceited if that is what people think. Big Willy comes from a high school nickname I had. I was named Willy because a friend thought I should have been called William, and being a teenager I did tend to think with my `willy`more than my brain, so it fit. The big is for the same reason you call a big guy `Tiny` I hope that clears it up I am not inferring anything....or am I ;)

Oh, yes, beef shawarma with garlic sauce plus home-fried potatoes/garlic sauce are my favorites too. I prefer to eat in the restaurant because it is pretty messy when I bring it home. One thing though, I will stop eating any garlic or strong smelling food a few days before my dates with SP's - just out of respect or so they won't kick me out, lol..

Getting into:icon_rolleyes: a spraying match with a skunk!

I am a creature whose natural habitat is the bed, the couch in direct sunlight and typically do what I want, when I want to. As "they" say "Redheads are direct descendents of cats"... cat

Don't we all love to do the following... oculoplania- Letting one's eyes wander while assessing someone's charm.

My only hope to win my bet is Dan and Danielle. I don't know if any of you know what's going on but on the live feeds, Dan is pulling off one of the greatest Houdini acts ever. Unbelievable. Additional Comments: Wow here is a quick synopsis of what Dan did. It might be one of the greatest moves ever to save himself. Incase you didn't know, Jenn wins the 2nd POV. She went on slop until the rest of the year, not really sure why she did that, I guess she just wanted to prove she could compete? Anyways, Dan had a 24 hour jail time as most of you know with the lights, music, etc. Once he got out, he went to the medic in the DR for feeling disoriented, whatever. Really though, during his time in crazy world, he came up with an elaborate plan. He held a house meeting dressed in black and had a funeral type of thing. He said nice things about everyone, but in the end threw Danielle right under the bus. He said she was dead to him. Danielle obviously starts crying and everybody goes to her. Dan goes immediately upstairs though with just Frank to the HOH room. He reveals everything to Frank about the quack pack, and how Ian was the mastermind to get Boogie out. He throws Danielle under the bus. He makes a final two deal with Frank, and Frank says they need numbers. Obviously Jenn, because she would be the only one to use the veto. Frank then goes to Dan, telling him they should maybe use Danielle in their alliance to make 4 then, LOL. Everyone downstairs is freaking out. People are wondering what the hell just happened in the meeting. The girls are consoling Danielle, the guys are wondering what Dan is telling Frank. Dan says he is going to go downstairs to apologize to Danielle. He tells Frank to tell everyone that he just came upstairs to apologize to Frank for his Diary room sessions for throwing him under the bus and that he respects him as a competitor. Dan goes downstairs. Everyone comes rushing up to Frank telling him he was way out line saying that bad stuff to Danielle. Frank tells them all he was just being apologizing. Dan goes to Danielle tells him sorry and that it was part of the plan. Danielle yells at him for not telling her ahead of time. Dan says she wouldn't have cried then. Danielle throws a pillow at Dan. Dan tells her sorry but he needed her to really cry, LOL. He tells them about his new alliance of 4. And now we wait to see if Frank can convince Jenn to use the veto, and then nominate Brit and send her packing. Crazy!!!

Agreed. Dan acted like a douchebag in tonights episode. Danielle needs to stop hiding behind Dan and start playing this game. She came into this game alone and there can only be one winner. The funny part is that when she was nominated I kept thinking she's going to be crying in her DR. And 5 seconds later she's crying in the DR.

It's been quite a long time now, I was just looking for a name that I could use or some variation of it which could be appropriate for a number of different sites. It seemed to fit then as I was still contemplating retirement.

Wow, Lexy let me definitely welcome you to Bwtr. Would love to see you here sweetie.

Calling my Pop (whom I don't call nearly often enough) and totally making his day. :)

Walked in todays Pride Parade with a friend, we carried a sex workers rights banner and got many thumbs up and smiles. Now on to the after party.

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Since starting this thread I've had several inquiries about where to find lingerie, usually related to specific pictures. When I can, I try and figure it out from the URL or picture caption and pass that along. But some photos are uploaded to general picture-sharing sites, so there's no way to tell where they came from. I've posted quite a few from the Lise Charmel collection (as Gia mentioned). We've also seen lots from Luxa, Aubade, Agent Provocateur, Fauve, Boredelle, etc. There are quite a few good online sources, but brands like Lise Charmel are hard to find in North American stores. I used to live in Halifax, but I have no idea who might carry fine lingerie there now. Ottawa's not so good either, and I even had a tough time in Montreal. Ogilvies and The Bay had some nice designs (Aubade mostly), but no Lise Charmel and I wasn't able to locate any boutiques via online search, I think because most of them are small privately-owned shops with little nor no online presence. Here are a few online links or sites I was able to scrounge from this thread ... http://www.lingeriediva.com http://www.nancymeyer.com http://www.spurst.com http://www.lingerieforum.org http://www.honeyslingerieboutique.com http://www.so-sensuelle.com http://www.dessus-dessous.fr/ http://www.flirtylingerie.com http://www.luxxa.ca Additional Comments: And here are my pics for today (appended to the above, since I can't create separate postings on the same day. Romanian Catrinel Menghia often models for Lise Charmel and Aubade. You may have also seen her in the recent Fiat commercials (with Charlie Sheen.) So many great pics of her to choose from, it's hard to know when to stop!

Neibours who quarrel in the street at 4 am and wake me up :(

It's OK if we can phone... but it an email was required, I'd be screwed. Quite a few of us guys use cheap, anonymous cellphones for our communication with SPs... so calling is fine, text is annoying (for anyone used to smartphones, going back to a non-smartphone is sooo frustrating), and email is impossible!

Not sure if you watch the After Dark shows but Boogie lost a lot of points for me in those shows. He was taking shots at every house guest, I get that he was angry about leaving but the personal shots he took at his fellow house guests left a bad taste in my mouth. His exit on TV was pretty good, but there's so much more to that goes on that most people do not see.

I saw the news interview with him and remember him saying he can't be in contact with underage, have a cell phone or a video camera - and he said that's crazy, my favourite things to do are with my cell phone and vid camera or something to that effect. I'm pretty sure he's soft in the head. And screw this innocent until proven guilty, it's KNOWN in SP world that he is a pimp and coerced girls if they did certain acts they would become famous via viral videos on YouTube. He purposely sought out vulnerable girls. He is the epitome of what needs to be eliminated in the sex work industry. Independent all the way. He makes my blood boil. I hope he gets labeled a rapist/pedo and put in general population in jail. Yes, I know those are strong words but it's how I feel.

Get a Vita-mix blender. It's what they use at booster juicers. you just put the whole fruit and vegetable in to get the fibre and all the nutrients. You can make soup, butter, ice -cream in it. bread, flour and so on. It's almost a whole kitchen in one. great for health nuts. Expensive, but should last a life time. best place to get it is at the Costco road show. here is the website https://www.vitamix.com/Home

I think it was an interesting topic, and allowed some people to express their thoughts and concerns. I didn't see anyone really doing more than fine tuning the discussion. There isn't any polite way of bringing up the idea, which I am sure many thought, when they saw the OP indicating she needed a drink to relax before an appt. Someone was concerned that she might not be comfortable doing the work, if she feels a need to aid herself into relaxation lol. These sorts of threads are good warnings, and good topics to bring up for new clients and new sps. Personally I don't drink. I am someone who believes that sexual activity (and performance, and even making good choices) is NOT improved with any alcohol or other drugs. Alcohol is a depressant, and can interfere with male sexual performance. Plus, I am at "work' whether I am doing a FS or massage session. I wouldn't drink and drive, and don't think that my clients should be having a couple before they head over for a visit. I certainly am not going to entertain for a 30-60 minute appt and encourage them to have another before they hit the highway either. On the 'at work' topic, no matter what sort of work we are doing, we aren't going to have a glass of wine before we start, not normally. Doing so in some sorts of jobs could get you fired lol. I think that if we want to be taken seriously as people managing and running a business, that we have to, at a certain point, reconsider the idea that this is an actual 'date', where we can relax and not be that concerned with the impression we are giving. For myself, my focus isn't on me being more relaxed, because I am at 'work', and my attention and focus is on what the client needs (within my own restrictions and services of course). My philosophy of a sober workplace lol.

Hey Sophie, aren't we all, LOL

And of course Gabriella Laurence

Our justice system is also a joke. How is this tool not a threat to minors? I cant believe they are allowing him to mock our city and endanger and profit off our high risk children and teens! It makes me ashamed that I live in such a city. If we don't protect those who cant protect themselves, then the individuals responsible for his release are just as guilty as he is for whatever happens after this point. Disgusting! Posted via Mobile Device

I am totally confused, can someone pm me details on lindas plz. Its a hair place where u go to get a massage in the back? Makes no sense to me.