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I am not so sure about your digit comment, each lady is different, some don't like digits, much, if at all, but others find that you need to get to their "G" spot to really get them going. Mistake to me is to have preplanned how things will go, I really think there is a strong element of spontanity to the experience that you can't underestimate. Even with the same lady, it might be completely different on what makes things click.

I was busy getting ready for a very special encounter on Saturday afternoon, a ménages à trois with Emily Rushton and Lonna Lux. Since embarking on this lifestyle on the bucket list was to engage in a ménages à trois, and this night was the night. I have been looking forward to this for a long time. I know both ladies very well. I don't consider them SP's, they are friends. And when we meet, they treat me as a friend, not a client. Yet as excited as I was, seeing my friends again, this time they were both together, I was also nervous as hell, almost but not quite, scared, but in a good way. This turned out to be a couple of firsts. For me, it was my first ménageever. You could say my virginity was going to be taken. For Lonna and Emily, while they have met socially, knew and liked one another, this was the first time they were duo partners. But despite the firsts, we all know, like and trust one another. It isn't an overstatement to say Saturday night it was three friends getting together for a very special time, it wasn't a client meeting two SP's at the same time. And although it may be a matter of semantics, it was a ménages à trois, it wasn't a duo. How this very special evening came about, well it is too long a story, that commenced in September 2010 and on November 10, 2012 came to be. And I can say it was an evening that would make Hugh Hefner envious. Emily and Lonna arrived on time at my hotel, within minutes of one another, both looking as young and beautiful as ever. We all sat in the living room having drinks, cheese and crackers. Lonna had some Red Bull, and WOW!!!...well no details here or anywhere but, well later on that evening, well you go girl. We sat around getting caught up on old times. Sharing personal things going on in our respective lives, matters we shared because we trust one another. But what we discussed was behind hotel room doors, and stays there. But it is special to know ladies that you can trust to share personal aspects of your life, and they trust you too. And Lonna, Emily and myself trust one another that way. I even made sure they knew it was my first ménage, and as such they were taking my "virginity." With that Lonna and Emily took me by the arms and dragged me (but not kicking and screaming) into the bedroom, where our conversation took another turn. They told me they were in charge and to do as they said. We got undressed and they pushed me down on the bed. As friends I like them, and trust them implicitly. So they took charge, oh did they take charge. Well the three of us friends started liking one another. Lonna and Emily liked me. I liked Emily and Lonna. Lonna and Emily liked one another. It was a bedroom filled with a lot of liking that night. But details of our liking are very private between the three of us friends however. We then were lying in bed, in post like bliss, me the luckiest thorn between two beautiful roses. And someone has a birthday coming up. Emily and I got together ahead of time (don't ask how...secret) and a birthday cake was arranged for Lonna. Emily covered Lonna's eyes while my drained and weakened body went to the kitchen to get the cake. I brought the cake back in, Emily and I singing Happy Birthday. Lonna cut the cake, and the three of us had birthday cake in bed (yes, Lonna and Emily can eat cake in my bed any day) Then I heard some giggling, and simultaneously I heard Emily and Lonna say sploshing. You'll have to look up the word, all I will say is birthday cake never tasted oh so good. I consider myself very lucky to have met and developed such a good relationship, well friendship, with two very special ladies. And that they both met, and like one another is great. That the two of them felt comfortable enough with one another and with me that their first time together was with me making my first ménages à trois a very special evening, and a wonderful memory. Thank you both to Lonna and Emily for getting together with me to make this evening so special Gentlemen, if you have the chance, schedule an encounter with Emily and Lonna. Each lady in their own right is an outstanding companion. And if the stars can align for you, like they did for me and you can see them together, do yourself a favour and arrange to see them for a ménage . Together they are dynamite companions, and have a special chemistry. Again, to Lonna and Emily, saying thank you doesn't cover it, but THANK YOU. In my mind, before this encounter, a duo was on the bucket list. But this evening turned out to have nothing to do with a bucket list at all. It was much much more. It was a very special evening with two very special friends, and a ménages à trois. It was and is a night I will always remember.

While not outright 'activism', there is some level of consciousness-raising and misinformation-correcting we can do in our personal lives whenever the topic comes up. Here's a magical phrase for hobbyists: "I dunno, I just read an awesome article on my favourite [movie/politics/porn] blog that interviewed actual real sex workers, and it turns out...." Use it with your friends, co-workers, family... whenever somebody says something ignorant, boneheaded, or just misinformed. When it comes up around drinks after work, or while watching the news with family. Then you can actually subtly inform people, bust stereotypes, spread awareness, and advocate for better/safer working conditions without actually having to come out and mention the Poly Parties ;) You don't have to march or wave flags, just make useful and factual contributions to conversations. And remember, you're not just talking to the person you may be arguing with, there may be 'undecideds' listening, who could learn something.

I'm a perfectionist(somewhat) and love to do everything right so here is a question to you all, ladies and gents. What are common mistakes that we do when having sex? I'll start by the first one, not kissing first. And this is what I mean by this, diving straight to the erogenous zone is not the way to go. I find that a passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay. Here is another one, digits: do not try to reach for gold, there is none. I heard ladies say that some guys will try to put their whole hand inside there and dig for something, what? no one knows. Comments welcomed.

Driving in the snow is like eating pussy. If you don't slow down and pay attention, you could slide in the asshole in front of you! So be careful this winter! This is a public announcement.

I am planning on seeing my daughter, who has moved out of town, so I expect to get what I want. Gift wise, that's not important, it is about family and enjoying life together. Hope everyone can enjoy family during the holiday season.

I'm in the same boat as you. Good luck.

Awesome. And true.

A large cast-iron frying pan would be nice. (More efficient for making mountains of french toast.) I'm also looking forward to having some winter fun this year. Every year I mean to go skating on the canal but every day that I make plans to do so ends up being a melty day. :P And I can't remember the last time I went tobogganing but I don't think I will ever stop enjoying it. Ditto for making snowmen. Ditto for snowball fights. Oh and skiing. Winter is a lot of fun so long as you bundle up! I mean sure it's bitterly cold, but there's SNOW. And silly, fuzzy hats!

My number 1 priority this Christmas is to make my Mom's day as happy as possible. I lost my Father this year and she lost her Husband of 40 years. It's going to be different but we have each other. I love the time before the actual day to get together with dear friends and enjoy the entire month of December. It's a magical and happy time of year to see everyone enjoying the hustle and bustle in the malls, the lights, the tree's and hopefully snow. I've always loved this season.

Wishing you a great day, and a fulfilling year ahead. Enjoy!

Wishing you a great day today. Have fun! :)

Keep in mind that the "G" spot is not that far in...2" at most. I'm sure I make a few mistakes...so I'm looking forward to reading what everyone has to say.

This topic never loses its shine! I prefer to focus on what to do right rather than whats wrong as no two lovers have the same definitions. I have some fairly simple rules for making things click for me... 1. Kissing is the main ingredient. It needs to be done slowly with a build up of tension then needs to move slowly to other parts of the body. Not flaky little butterfly kisses either, full mouth contact with lots of sucks and nibbles. 2. Creating body awareness is next. I like to focus on the skin to skin contact, feeling your fingers on me and mine on you. I will concentrate on specific body parts that are touching and that will be all that I feel. It takes the contact to another level entirely when you are touching a "nonsexy" body part. Those are the parts of me that crave to be included and make me weak at the knees. 3. Losing track of time is essential for me to relax. I like not knowing how long I've been kissing or playing. Don't ask what time it is. 4. Let me set the pace. I will get you where you need to go, I promise but please don't try to establish the cadence until I get to where I want to be. I know what works and all I need if for you to let me lead for a little bit. It will be well worth it for both of us in the end. 5. Don't hand me a list of "to do's". I will show you the door. I do find "wish lists" very arousing when you present it in soft whispers to my ear during opening kissing ceremonies. 6. I might be petitie but I don't break, don't be afraid to let go when the time is right. Intensity is most fulfilling experience when it's embraced and acted upon. A little man handling with the right guy is amazing. cat

receiving a fantastic massage today from a great person on this board...thank you :)

I have used the Sparks street office before, and they were pretty efficient. I would assume they are still there. I would agree that going in is the best solution, as things can go wrong. A few years ago my daughter tried to renew from the states, and at that time you had to have the back of the picture certified for a renewal. So they got it at Passport Canada and they didn't like her picture, too much glare. At the time I was going to be meeting her in Vancouver, and the only way we did get her a new one was to go through my MP, and even then she only got it the day of her departure.

This is not my first time seeing Meg, she always satisfied my appetite when I seen her. This time around I wanted to make it a little different so I requested her to put on an outfit for me(all this is done through texting). I asked her to put on some panties, and just after I pressed the send button I remembered Meg never wears panties. She replied that she was going to look for some but my chances were low, lucky me she replies that she found some. After entering her place I receive a great hug and a kiss, I think she was just as happy to see me as I was to see her. She looked amazing, a little talk and I asked her if I could take a quick shower to freshen up. After my shower I enter the boudoir with only my towel on but that came off quite quickly. We both laid on the bed in an embrace and caught up from the last time we seen each other, with a little bit of kissing here and there. I mention to her position that I would love to try and she approves them and she tells me her favorites position also which are on the top of my last also. She knew how to please me and I returned the favor. I'm not sure how many time she came since I stop counting after the second time. Meg has brought me to climax many times but she would hold off at the right time so that I would not cum to quickly. Keep in mind guys that YMMV. Thanks again Meg.

I used the Passport office at 240 Sparks. I was in and out of there fairly quickly. passport also showed up quickly.

I didn't know kissing is against the rules at Barbs!!!. Good to know though. As for kissing, ladies of course have the right to refuse (the service) and so do we (the right to refuse the repeat dance). Usually kissing is very important to me and those who are receiving more than one song are those who allow hugging and kissing, otherwise I can sit by the stage and enjoy a glass of wine for hours and watch. Not sure what to advise except what has been said before, ask respectfully and if denied then save your greens for the next dancer who does allow. I never go after the dancer unless she comes to me first as per my policy and if she does, there is a good chance she knows that 1+ songs means hugging and kissing (Dancers share info on clients in the changing rooms) and if she doesn't come to me (yes it has happened too) I interpret that as a no kissing dancer (or one who doesn't like me). Remember this is a strip bar not a dance bar where men are expected to ask for the dance. As a suggestion for the latter part of discussion, there are some SPs here on cerb who are dancers too. If you like dancers or enjoy picking in flesh then you may wish to contact them via PM on cerb (not in the club which is a public place).

She is here in Ottawa. I just saw her. She just left my home.

In some clubs, like the Den and Barb's, kissing is against the rules. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen, but you should be careful about trying to get the dancer to kiss you. Like Il Re said, if the lady doesn't initiate, your best bet is to simply ask. If you just go for it and are with a dancer who has no interest in kissing her clients, it could lead to an unpleasant experience. It's fine to not get more dances if she doesn't offer kissing, but please be respectful and don't insult her or get huffy because of it. As for extra work outside the club, the most important thing to keep in mind is to, again, be respectful. While it's certainly not uncommon to be solicited for extracurricular activities, it doesn't happen --that-- often, so some dancers do get offended by these requests. As long as you aren't pushy or get angry if she rejects your request, you should be fine.

My take on contacting them is a bit different than those who've posted. If someone in my family was secure in himself and his involvement in the industry, then I would l actually welcome being contacted. This profession is so isolating when it comes to family. As long as you were going to be supportive and positive, it would offer an opportunity to share a common bond that neither party can share with "the family". It could very well be an avenue to developing a better relationship with someone you love. That said, be sure this is someone you want to get closer to. I have lots of family I don't want to know better. I'm thankful they live far away and do nothing more than post on their facebook to keep me informed of how often they go to the bathroom, work and bed. There are a couple of distant cousins tho that I wish I had known better growning up and wouldn't shy away if they came to me knowing my professional persona. They all know what I do, they just don't know "who" I am so if they had an inclination, I wouldn't be hard to identify... cat

okay this might sound a little corny as I love to bake an aspire to be on Cupcake Wars lol so for me I want 1 of those big huge mixers perferrably pink like the ones from kitchen maid lol I have been told that this is a kitchen appliance and is not a proper Christmas present lol but I don't care it's what I want lol

I'm a caucasian super bootie and I'm proud of it! :smileysmontrefesse:

Sincerest Thanks and Immense Respect. Lest We Forget.

Thinking of those serving our country and those who have served-we thank and honor you.

Some discuss this sort of thing on their websites. If you're seeing someone who doesn't, you can always ask.

she was amazing. check my PM on her.

Ladies how would you like to be covered in fur? With lots of cuddling too! XOXO Cub

I get my flu shots every year, I work with small children and the elderly. Do I get sick? Sometimes haha kids are disease factories. Do I feel better about getting my shots because I work with people who could die from the flu? Yes. Posted via Mobile Device

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My family does not celebrate Christmas, but if I ever to celebrate it with someone, I'd want to decorate a tree, or hang a couple of ornaments on a tree. It's not a thing, but that's what I'd want :P

Noticing today that for I don't know how long facebook has been placing ads on my profile. WITHOUT my permission!!! Like....for something called "Fruit Ninja", a single's site called "Speeddating", A friggin McDonald's ad! Does McDonald's really need ads on facebook??! Oh well.....at least I can still count on cerb to not turn me into its own personal highway billboard.....so far anyway :p

Congrats Carrie! I always love your posts and great advice, you are a true beautiful gem inside and out. Big Hugs and all my Love, Lexy

Voilà! Riding the North Face Riding the South Face Eve's Ecstasy Under the Sink Ouf! It feels hot all of the sudden...

That's always been one of the big problems with sex work activism: few customers want to stand publicly with us. Sadly, even fewer will place sex work issues ahead of other considerations when voting. But I think you're wrong that "decriminalizing" sex work will reduce the desire for secrecy and discretion. I think the choice to use the services of a sex worker is an intensely private thing for most customers (with the exception being those who prefer to take their business to the public streets). No matter how the laws or even public perceptions change, most of my customers would not want the whole world knowing when they're stepping out for sexual services. Many of my customers wouldn't be caught dead in a strip club or a store-front type massage parlour, simply because this is a very private thing for them, and they do no wish to share it with the world.-- Many of my customers are older and married a long time. In many cases, their marital sex lives are over, but they do not view their personal sex lives as being over. They wish to continue to be sexually active, but choose to do so very privately and discreetly, out of consideration for their spouses and families. You have to respect that. (--I don't say this to be judgmental. Only that that's how some of my customers have told me that they feel. My own husband loves strip clubs, and while I don't think he's ever been to a massage parlour, I bet he'd enjoy the experience. He has neither a personal nor professional situation that would be adversely affected by being spotted at either.)

Don't get me started! That's a sad comment. We obviously have some connection probs in the dashboard of our old Jetta. The speedometer rarely works, but lately the tachometer has started dropping too. Last night, this was freaking my husband (who tends to drive by the tach) out, but I don't know why. We've been driving this car for two years. By now he should be able to hear what he needs to know. What's really scary is how many automatic drivers have no clue what L1 and L2 are for, and when to use them. Especially here in The Great White North. It's about that time, and we're in for yet another winter of hearing drivers pointlessly spinning their tires on ice. Drop it into L1, people. Drop it into L1. You'll be so amazed.

My first reaction would be to say keep your mouth shut and keep that information to yourself and just continue on as normal. Do you really want them knowing you're a hobbyiest or SP yourself? Is it a conversation you really want to have? I'd say if you do approach them, depending on how well you know them and what your relationship is, it could make if very uncomfortable for them. What a person doesn't know, can't hurt them. Just my two cents.

One quick additional thought, all ladies, be they SP or MA are someone's mother, daughter, sister, niece, aunt, cousin etc. Just something to keep in mind RG