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Maybe, just maybe that Sylvain does not mind being known as a hobbiest, like some of us.

Furthermore, I would say that quite a few of us are savvy and shrewd business people who employ effective marketing practices and possess money management skills. This market, as well as many others, is consumer driven. This is a luxury service that we offer and if the disposable income is not available competition becomes a bit more fierce. In these economic times it is important to set yourself apart but not compromise your ideals. If you structure a good business plan and have the ability to budget then slow times are manageable, just like they are for any successful business. My 2cents.

I am not a girl. I am not for sale; my services are. You don't buy your hairdresser, you pay for their services. Also, what is a "real" man? This whole campaign has irritated me from day one, when Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher started it. The men they used in their campaigns had an awful track record of misogyny - not very "real" men themselves. If these folks in Sudbury are having issues with finding condoms and syringes in their backyards, they might want to address THAT. It may not just be sexworkers utilizing those areas but also an issue of homelessness and addiction.

sitting at my sister's house, being entertained by my pitbull being chased around in terror by two small cats. but she keeps going back for more cause she wants to play some bad

I'm thinking Strawberry upside down cake (or perhaps Strawberry upside down short cake). I wasn't even close on your last one. (Was thinking something along the lines of "Love your things half as much as you love yourself", but thats the best I could come up with.) This thread is FUN FUN WORDS WORDS WORDS WORDS

Every lady I've been with......for a day or two. I'm not a callous bloke- they just shoot me down, lol. Honestly, my best fantasies are of the ladies I have met on here.

I do incalls 95% of the time and I always have a shower when I arrive whether I actually need to or not - on occasion even after the SP has said it wasn't necessary. I think it serves to boost my confidence and the confidence of the SP. It also serves as an indication that I am concerned about this aspect of our encounter and I am determined to get it right.

Still not feeling up 100% yet. Was sick last week for four days. Felt better by Thursday and then on Sunday it hit again like like a vengeance and I've been pretty much out of commission since then. Going for my first walk out of the house since Monday!

There are a number of things wrong with that article: speaking for sex workers, demonizing clients, wrongheaded john-shaming and rehabilitation campaigns, reinforcing the idea that sex workers are commodities to be bought and sold, etc. They seem have taken as a given that "it is not OK to buy sex" and then worked from there. I wish they had given some kind of justification for that premise so there could actually be the dialogue that they purport to want. It's hard to talk with someone when their starting position is "you're wrong and awful."

http://www.denverpost.com/athome/ci_21967690/feeling-grateful-yet-teenage-poultry-farmer-dishes-straight

After Tuesday, even the calendar says W -T - F!

Great to hear this (and to read another report by Capital Hunter). Hope to drop by next week - anticipating an ATF sighting.

Vancouver is not agency driven, like some other cities. Your best bet is to look at ads and recos of the independents, and contact them directly.

I poked around a bit, seems interesting. I'll read more later.

Pain-less operation? Music 11 ears

No one understands! How about this one?: O_ER_T_O_

Wonderful idea! And then, when we hit rock bottom, we can demand the government bail us out. I think you don't understand our business. SPs who treat their customers the way most businesses today treat their customers wouldn't be in business long. My biggest lament in life is that I'm treated better when I'm making my money than when I'm spending it. And that's a very sad comment on business today. The thing is, you're mixing apples with oranges. Corporations are entities that exist for one purpose only: to make profits. But SPs are not corporations. We aren't doing this simply to make money, but to make livings. Perhaps you should consider that we know what we're doing.

I know this is true Erin. "There is life after 40" :) Next: STANDS 0 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9

Too funny for words? 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,....35,36,37,38,39,40,life

Best wishes for you and the baby, Julie. Get lots of sleep now while you still can. lol

I think that often "open minded" is just a way of signaling that other options or experiences might be available at some time, or open for discussion, perhaps certain fetishes etc., but of course, ymmv lol!!!

open mined...Are open minded woman strictly for holding hands and going on a date?

For you ladies who want to live a fantasy I can show up with my fireman outfit. I still have it since I left the force.

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Twilight was fucking amazeing! The best of the series. I would watch this one over and over again and again. Sooooooooo worth it.

My discretionary dough had remained the same but my overal intertest in the game has waned big time... Peace MG

I;m surprised Greyhound can't come in and do it. They already have some offices for parcel pickup, so the courier service trucks come and go. Not sure why they can't have a couple of revolving busses going from province to province even if it is not daily service. in fact I was surprised when I was doing some travel arrangements for a friend, looking at the options, and that wasn't an option at all. Seems very odd.

With all due respect, have you considered using baby wipes or a face clothe to refresh Mister J right before an encounter? Even a 2 minute shower could do the trick :) I do not know if you use your own glass at home to do this but I am positive no lady would like you to use this practice at her incall. Yes yes yes and yes lol I find it quite easy to deal with someone who might not use mouthwash at the beginning of our time together by slipping them a listerine strip while kissing but it's quite uncomfortable to spend time with someone who just took a shower and still smells like overworked underarms... Please, use deodorant after your shower; if you don't wear it on a day to day basis, that's your choice but when visiting a lady, I really think it is a must to avoid that nasty and unpleasant smell :icon_confused:

Regarding why some guys go around oblivious to their stench, I will quote one of my dad's sage sayings, " a skunk can't smell it's own hole".

Dark confession: I still love and crave Egg McMuffins. But I haven't eaten them in many years, and hopefully I never will again. I'm off the corporate food habit.

I often stay in nice hotels with an onsite pool. Yet I hardly ever take advantage of this and go enjoy myself. I think that would make for a really fun incall. Being with someone that enjoys splashing around, and waterplay as much as I do. This would be good for a 90 minute or longer sessions. Start off with some fun in the pool, hopefully there are no onlookers or anyone to walk in and spoil it. Then go back to the room. Have a hot soapy shower to eliminate pool chemicals :). Then over to the bed for some oral, maybe a massage, some sex, some more sex, even more sex, collapse from exhaustion. Nap time. :) Maybe a little cuddle or snuggle. Mmmmmmmmmmmm........................ I love to daydream

I was watching a movie (called offline, 2012) tonight and an actress (Mischa Barton) was playing in it. Reminded me so much of a very popular Barb dancer. I wonder if anyone can guess who lol?

definitely Mark Wahlberg! Sexiest man alive -

I think Daniel Craig is a remarkably handsome man, especially in a suit. (Actually any man who wears a suit well is a man I can aspire to look like)

It's a small thing but the doohickey that makes my kettle whistle when the water boils popped off :(. Now I will need to stay in the room when making tea or I may just forget that I put the water on!

Fav take out food (which is not to be confused with fav take-out restaurant): Surf-n-turf filet mignon & lobster tail with cognac peppercorn sauce from La Favorita on Preston. http://www.lafavoritapreston.com/maincourse.html

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Most of the ladies do not have MBA's so expecting them to do what mainstream business's do (In the way they operate the business) is not realistic (Wrong expectations!) Mainstream business men and women with either a business education or years of being in a professional business environment learn certain "rules" for successfully marketing a and operating a company. These are things you LEARN over time but can benefit greatly upfront if you learn them early. For Instance... Such things as.. downturns (How to anticipate and how to ensure security) never admitting your slow (sales are down) most business professionals know NEVER to do this (Always say your doing great) ROI (Return on investment - how to make 10.00 into 100.00) landing a deal (Market, Sales Pitch and HOW TO seal the deal!) Addressing your customers needs (It's not always about the sex or the looks - the personality is very important and the way you make your customer feel is very important) phone sales (Mannerisms... not to answer the cell phone while driving or with screaming kids or yelling friends... or loud music playing) Time Management scheduling Follow Ups Repeat sales (Return clients) etc... A lot of the ladies learn this over time and trial and error... (and that can hurt a ladies reputation before she even gets started full swing). Things many people who work in mainstream business assume are common knowledge or obvious choices allude many people who have no formal business experience - and it's easy to forget that at times. This business has no prerequisites, you do not need any business skills to make money as a provider but if you had those skills you could make a LOT MORE money. A few of the ladies over the years have had MBA's and they usually excel rapidly and really do well in the business... and really you do not need a MBA to learn these things. Most are common sense but often overlooked or viewed as not as important. The most successful ladies are the ones who have the ENTIRE PACKAGE (Sell the fantasy, polite on the phone, never miss appointments, treat the guy like he is a god, have lots of fun and enjoy people).... It may just be a big act or illusion ... or it may be the lady really likes her job (Either way the customer should NEVER be able to tell the difference). If you do this you will rarely have slow times as your "Regulars" will keep you busy during these off season times.

This is a very common thing with the ladies... Always looking for the "Reason" the business gets slow at times and always looking for answers as to why they get no shows and cancellation more at different times of the year. Most NO SHOWS can be stopped by screening your calls properly. Use the Caller ID and CALL BACK the number to verify it. Most guys will not pull a NO SHOW on someone without having the decency to call and properly cancel if you have their number. They know that come appointment time one very upset SP is going to give them a call asking WTF! It's not 100% but it sure helps for those who screen calls. It also makes the call a little more safer as that phone number is now a connection between the guy and the lady... I doubt someone dangerous is going to want to leave a number that can be traced back to them. Most of the ladies look for reasons when things are slow. I guess most of us do that when the business we are in takes a drop in sales/traffic/work load/etc.... You can spend a good portion of your day trying to figure this one out but it's not really worth the effort. It's WAY easier to just plan for these lows (Put some money aside for the slow periods) and just accept that this is part of EVERY business and it will happen. Stop stressing out and trying to point a finger at what you think is causing the slowness as your just going to convince yourself of something that is probably not correct. We have been tracking patterns in this industry since 1996 and the answer for this is... (Drum roll please)... It has no pattern EXCEPT for a few obvious LOW spots. 1) The end of Aug is SLOW every year! (Kids out of school, getting ready to go back to school, family summer vacations, etc...) This is the most popular summer weekend in the tourist industry!! 2) 1 week before and 1 week after Xmass (No need to explain this one right?) New years day too? NOT... 3) January/February for 2 weeks every year (We sum this up to winter blues and getting your credit card statements from Xmass! but we never know what two weeks it will be but for sure 2 weeks around this time it does drop... one year we did not see this and come April we saw a real low drop for 2 weeks and that was obvious weather patterns (Long winter/early spring ... warm winter/cold spring etc...) it does effect this business and you never know when this is coming exactly... so just put some cash aside for these times. 4) First nice weekend of spring (A lot of the ladies take this time off too) 5) Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentines, long weekends, really large sporting events (etc)... they also effect the business. The rest has NO identifiable pattern. You can try to blame it on the economy as a low economy brings more people into this business causing more competition and the overall amount of "Recreational money" the guys have gets a lot smaller so yes the economy does effect it but a low economy BUT it also brings more guys (New guys) in to the mix as well so it's not hit as hard as one would assume. Remember money and sex are the two big things couples fight about... When the economy drops and the money gets tight the stress levels go up, the fighting between couples goes up and the sex stops!! FACT OF LIFE... and I hate to admit it but that is good for this business for all you ladies!! When economy starts to get good again business will decrease a little at first! It's OPPOSITE of what everyone ASSUMES! As for NO SHOWS... This time of year it will obviously be higher. Kids are still home from school, Family vacations, relatives coming for visits, back to school shopping, etc.. etc... and all those people taking time OFF work for family vacations makes other people have to work more (Overtime to cover shifts, higher work loads, etc) it's all relevant.... A lot of LAST MINUTE things come up this time of the year for the "Family Man" and well... kids and family (for most people) come first so recreational visits take a back seat so stuff will get canceled more this time of year. Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations) This happens EVERY YEAR... Come September 17th (Or around that time) once the kids are back in school and the routine is back... things will pick up. Summer sucks as a lot more things can get in the way or throw a guys schedule off. Don't spend all your time looking for reasons why the business slows down.... it happens to EVERY PROVIDER & EVERY BUSINESS ... It can not be busy 100% of the time and it does take a little planning and anticipation.