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This is important! Sorry that I forgot to mention the effect of some kinds of medication. Antidepressants are notorious for causing difficulty with ejaculation or delaying ejaculation. That said, when a man has trouble with premature ejaculation (PE), he may find that he gains extra stamina if he's on one of these medications, not that this is an ideal solution! PE can be managed without medication. It often occurs when a man has relied on masturbation most of the time and has been in a hurry to climax. He gets used to having orgasms quickly and needs to discover ways to delay them. A companion who won't provide the condom you prefer needs to think carefully about what she's doing, in my opinion. If I know a day or two ahead of time, I would be happy to ensure that I have what someone wants available. Not only is this good business sense, but I really do want clients to be happy with all aspects of our time together, including this one. As Berlin noted, one of our principal concerns is how a condom has been stored. Expiry dates are important, too, but if the condom has been stored in a too-hot or freezing car or carried around in someone's wallet or pocket, even if it hasn't reached its expiry date, it may be liable to break while in use. Sadly, there are some people who try to sabotage condoms deliberately, and we need to protect ourselves from them, too. I'm glad to read this, Porthos! You might be astonished to know how often many of us are asked to provide condom-free services, though. A couple of weeks ago, a prospective client told me that one reason he likes mature companions is that, once we're no longer having periods, we don't need to use condoms because there's no risk of pregnancy. That's not true, of course, but he claims that not only has this been his experience for years, he hasn't had to pay anything extra for it. I didn't believe him and declined to meet him. I think that it's possible to make a CBJ very erotic and deeply satisfying. I do understand why men prefer to have oral sex without condoms, but I often wonder why too many men pay little attention to the risk of STIs from oral sex. There are a lot of very nasty germs that can live very happily in a human throat, undetected for a very long time. There's no way to know whether someone has an STI or not and, sadly, the risk is somewhat greater for the one whose mouth and throat are being employed than for the one who seeks access. Of particular concern to me is that an incurable form of gonorrhea surfaced in Toronto last fall. Gonorrhea is already the second most common STI. It's very important to find ways to make safe sex sexy!

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Unfortunately, not all guys are diligent about where they store their condoms, and making sure they haven't expired. And then of course, there are the rare psychos who like to poke holes in condoms. If you're unsure if your chosen provider keeps your brand on hand, why not let her know in advance that you like to use a particular brand and then she can be sure to have some?

Actually that's not quite true, Sasha previously known as Kim was a regular fixture in the Diary for years, for using misleading and fake photos of women 20 years younger than herself. Those archive postings have since been lost when I moved the diary to a new host. She was posted so frequently she had a nick name on the diary known as the "Cougar in the Tree" due to a poorly taken and posed photo of her stuck in a tree lol. The photos she uses now are of her but are very dated.

This may not be the same but when I was on a certain type of antidepressant my sex drive and erection were all the same but had extreme difficulty achieving orgasm. I was like the energizer bunny kept going and going. I tried different lubes some that xy his and hers helped a bit. Different toys we vibe was nice I found that the cheaper condoms worked best. But ultimately sex is as much emotional as it is physical and because I like to please a woman the more she enjoyed it the easier it was for me. Although this was for me may not be the same for other and like I said it was caused by the medication and not Ed.

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Among the reasons I'm not a f/s player so no worries for me. When I started in this game, cbj's were the norm and it seems in the last 2-3 years bbj's has become much more common place and the fact it's often mentioned in reviews or recommendations attests to that. More and more you read john's state that that no bbj is a deal breaker. Not sure why this is the case, perhaps it's new john's pushing the issue or new providers offering it more readily or perhaps it was always happening and folks just chose not to talk as much about it...... Personally I think its a combination of all the above. Peace MG

I find the thinner extra sensation condoms are the better choice, they are not only thin but seem to me to be stronger than the regular ones. I use a little lube, inside, all the time, on the whole area. This adds extra tingling sensation, warming feeling, and so the 'no feeling' issue is minimized.The type I use is warming, unless the client has PE issues, in which case I don't. I have used the Him/Her lubes, and the cooling one is great to take the edge off of someone who does have PE concerns. I also find that the condom on also takes the edge off, which is a good thing. Most of the people who say they don't feel anything, or much less sensation, are using what their head tells them, not what their body shows them. A lot is involved in the preparation, prior to putting on the condom, the flow is natural and unlikely if they are relaxed and not all caught up in what they think they feel it goes very well. I find a lot of younger guys don't think twice about whether bare or not bare feels better or not better, they often only know what it feels like with a condom on, and have little to compare it to. Judging by the large number of guys who can cum with a cbj before they are ready, or before they go over to FS, I don't think condoms lessen too much sensation lol.

I don't think you use bp any different than you would any other site. You check the ad, you google the advertiser for their history elsewhere, you contact the advertiser for more information, and you might find that they have a website that they cannot post on bp. I don't think personally it is any different than anywhere else. It costs money to post ads there, and a variety of people post on it, just as they do anywhere else. In other words it is the advertiser you are checking into, not the advertising site. The stigma towards the site and all the advertisers is unwarranted and misleading, imo.

While I agree there is all sorts of shaming out there, I have to say - this is somewhat of a first for me, that women who have the body shape that is usually (95% the time) considered to be perfect...to be criticized or shamed. Just imagine how the people who do not fit into the perfect category feel. People like that (myself included) see, hear and witness negative comments regarding appearances that do not fit into societys idea of perfection, on a daily basis...and its not just via a few blogs here and there-it is everywhere. As for the online hate stuff-I find that the ones who say the most negative and vile stuff, are usually the kinds of people with very, very little going on in their lives-and use the web as their personal outlet to say things they would never dare say to anyones face because they are usually very weak in many aspects.

I was reading the newspaper one day while eating some sole, and I guess a slug that had crawled onto the newspaper when it was outside my door on the ground managed to find his way from there onto my plate and blended in with what I was eating. I probably should have just swallowed it rather than try and spit it out. I could not get the taste out of my parched mouth for hours. I guess they have some kind of slimy coating to ward of predators.

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I had the extreme pleasure (literally) of meeting Destiny a few days back and although she is a fairly new MA, she exudes sensuality. She has smoldering hazel eyes and even though she is very very French, she has a beautiful middle eastern look about her. I showed up and she greeted me enthusasitically as we chatted and got to know each other. She is easy to talk to, and adapted to a variety of subjects until the shower and massage. Without details, I just have to say that she fits in very well at CMJ and although new, you wouldn't know it from the way she treats a guest. Repeating is my density. I mean Destiny. And I will repeat for sure.

I'm looking for a pregnant SP in the Toronto (within 200KM). Are there any out there? Eather post on PM me. Thank you.

when i travelled, i tried to immerse myself with my host's culture after 'a few" sentry scotches, maybe even a bottle of saki thrown in..... the business partners took me to their favourite restaurant, and since my language skills were limited i let them order! when i met the cdn embassy guy that was assigned to assist me in negotiations and told him where and what we ate, he went nuts found out later that if not cooked correctly, it will kill you!!! oh well, survived it, my hosts were impressed how brave (read stupid) i was, but still remain friends today

I know this post is going to cause some wrinkled up noses lol But I am frying up some Liver and Onions tonight :) mmmmm. I'm still unsure of baked or mashed potatoes but there will be broccoli and carrots :) now I'm getting hungry lol

Big hair applied to guys in the 80s as well. I rocked the big hair look a la platinum blonde/ howard jones, but not quite like the flock of seaguls lead singer, I had a thin red leather tie too, everyone did, hey it was the 80's. For those of you that know me now I'm sure you're having a good laugh at my expense trying to picture me with big 80s hair. That being said there's a certain appeal to big hair on a woman, but it's hardly practical and when it comes to play time you're bound to get something caught in there that shouldn't be !

I think...big hair is on its way back :( Remember the 80`s , when there was no such thing as a hairstyle that did not consist of mousse, gel and hairspray..lol. And so if the big hair does come back full force-I strongly caution that only ladies who are under the age of 25 to go with those kind of big teased out hair styles ;)

I would be a very pretty butterfly ;)

I had seen Luxe on CERB and found out she had a website which I promptly visited several times. Each time I visited I got turned on by her erotic features and class. My desire to meet her was getting the best of me. Then fate put us together. Luxe was at the valentine social. When she entered the room I recognized her right away. She was stunning ! what elegance, what exotic look. This woman's East Indian background will turn heads anywhere she goes. I went up to her and started chatting her up. She is super nice; very sociable, beautiful smile and so easy to talk to. We discovered that we had a lot in common. I befriended her on CERB and invited her over. She would have preferred that I go to her condo. I explained that I hated the idea of having to dress and drive after a little party. She understood and gracefully accepted to come over with the right incentive. Luxe arrived on time by the second !! She was wearing a black fur coat under which where black tight pants and sexy high heeled boots. Her silky flowing black hair, her makeup and her fresh smell turned me on when I hugged her with a welcome kiss. We moved next to the fire place. Caught up on the conversation from the party. Luxe showed a personable interest in getting to know me. She is very attentive and sensitive to what I say. Soon we were cuddling, embracing and passionately kissing. We stripped right where we were. Sitting on me while fondling her generous breasts and caressing her silky skin was intoxicating. We were on fire. We moved naked to the bedroom. In bed this lady is a passionate lover with amazing oral skills. We were into daty, cbj and cowgirl. She is tight and wet and does not tire. She reads what you want, gives it to you. Makes you understand what she wants and you can't help but gladly give it to her. We had pop music playing in the background and our love making turned to rhythmic PSE that seemed to last forever and ended in a fantastic explosion. We lay for a while but the music soon got us dancing again. We had a ball !! Luxe was in no rush. We were having fun ! When it was time to leave; She called her drive. We hugged and kissed goodbye promising to repeat this again. Luxe is a fun personable hot and sexy lady. A real party gem ! If you're into partying and fun with a passionate erotic experience Luxe is your lady. I can't wait to be with her again soon.

re: skinny shaming I wish plus-size clothing stores would stop running ad campaigns saying stuff like "Clothes for real women". Slender people aren't imaginary!

I'll share a couple, - the sound of the shower turning off and knowing her warm and wet body is coming near. - a baby's laugh. - ocean waves crashing on the shore. Vancouver Island has a special hotel I luv that has rooms with jacuzzi tubs over the rocks. - the wind blowing freely and peaceful sounds in a hot air balloon. - a woman deepening her breathing as she feels pleasure. - the sound of high heels. - the pop of a wine cork. - the crackles in an old record. Cub

Porthos, let me join you in wishing MN2 the best. He'll definitely be missed on this board.

Of course, FS without a condom is just not on. As for BBBJ vs. CBJ, I'll confess that I prefer without a condom. Having said that, the fact that a lady only offers CBJ has never stopped me from seeing someone that I wanted to see. I'd also add that I've had the pleasure of some CBJs that, quite frankly, left me weak kneed and totally happy. All, in all, I'd say that yes, a condom reduces sensitivity, but not so much that sex suddenly becomes unejoyable, or that I would lose an erection. And besides, how the condom gets put on can also be a lot of fun! Porthos

I too am a pro condom user sp. I suggest to some of my clients that insist they can't enjoy sex with a condom to practice masturbating with them on. I think this would help, perhaps I'm wrong but it seems like a good idea to me. We all have to get used to new things sometimes.

Here's mine. Chokes me up every time: The Pogues performing "And the Band Played Waltzing Mathilda". Youtube video . I'm not Australian, and not old enough to remember the First World War, but you don't have to be to be affected by this song. There's even a synergistic effect if you have seen Peter Weir's film Gallipoli (with added Mel Gibson bonus).

I don't think anyone should be put down for any reason weather you're skinny, fat, race, religion ect. It can be very hurtful, its disrespectful and if you ask me it's bullying. Plain and simple Unfortunately we live in a society were this happens to much and people need to start realizing it.

I feel the most at peace when I'm using public transportation. Weird, I know, but people are so wrapped up in their own thoughts, it's easy to sit and watch. I listen to music and imagine people's lives, observe their interactions, watch the houses go by... I sit, I think, I relax. I love public transportation so much that I'm often slightly sad when I arrive at my destination. If I have the time and luxury, I often don't get off at all and simply wander around the city. I could do it all day, especially if I'm listening to good music.

I have at least two places I could think of at the moment where I feel more at home or at peace. First, sitting on the deck in my backyard surrounded by trees, flowers and shrubs in the summer and watching all kinds of beautiful birds chirping away and feeding on the many feeders and fluffing their wings in the birdbath. Watching the humming birds feeding on nectar always makes me smile. Standing on top of Whistler, Blackcomb, and some other summits in the winter time at a height of 7000 ft and looking down - so traquil, so majestic, so serene!

Where I feel at peace? Very similar to OP except maybe not looking at stars (the shining moon and black sky at night scares me!! A childhood thing) but looking through my noise-proof windows and see half the city below me and the cars without hearing the noise. The red, yellow, white, blue, ...... lights, the green Gatineau hills (or snow covered) and the Parliamemt hill and the Ottawa river and the peaceful city of Ottawa as long as I am up there and not below and part of it (especially driving) gives me a peaceful feeling.

Watching/feeling the snow fall down on me, drinking a nice dry white, sitting in my hottub.

At 24,000 feet with unlimited visibility crossing the Rockies in my airplane. With the exception of the occasional communication with Air Traffic Control it feels like I've escaped the day-to-day bustle of life and the scenery is spectacular.

A jaguar.., predatory, powerful and fiercely loyal.

I grew up skinny and can relate. I was always teased.Then when you become a slender adult some will accuse you of not eating, purging, or other methods of gettig rid of your food. This can cause some to have eating disorders. It seems in the press someone is always being criticized for either being to small or to large. No matter what your size one will always be smaller or larger than someone else, the important thing is to be healthy. As there is beauty in all sizes. Most wouldn't admit to it but we all make judgements on someones appearence when first meeting them, wether conciously or not. Especially in this business. There is alot that can make a person attractive but certainly when a man is viewing a ladies pictures he is simply looking for his idea of physical beauty and that includes a certain body type/size. If we are all going to be honest anyone that is included on some of the best of threads has been judged as someones ideal of beauty and those left out have been, perhaps unintenionally, judged as well, as not being someones ideal of beauty by the mere fact of omission. In the end what is important for anyone is having a strong sense of self and knowing your worth. We are all valuable and everyone has redeeming traits/qualities. Some are just more obvious on some . But as judge Judy alway says beauty fades-dumb is forever and as I say getting into a book is far more fun than just staring at it's cover.:biggrin:

Laying in my big cozy bed, looking at the mirror beside it. I like to watch the view of the city from my high rise, watching the planes come and go and listening to various channels on the radio. I also enjoy old fashioned radio lol, something about having a local dj mix your playlist really satisfies me :) they always know what song I need to hear! Also having the mirror beside my bed gives me entertainment for obvious reasons! Lol xo ... That or being home in nova scotia. Being surrounded by trees is the most peaceful safe feeling ever!

Where I feel most at peace with myself is probably at home. In particular I love the fact that it is a rural property with the chance to have mega bonfires and on a nice evening with a new moon I get opportunity to simply sit and relax and watch as the flights to Europe pass over, with the Milky Way totally visible and stars beyond stars shining in the sky.

Anywhere there are dogs. They are comforting, always welcoming and never judgemental. Plus alot of fun and very interesting to watch. Every place is made better if there is a dog in it:biggrin:

I am also like Malika, I feel most free and at peace when I am traveling. I do not fly to far away lands, I much prefer to travel by motorcycle around North America. The most peacefull feelings I get are from riding the great twisty roads looking at the scenery under a perfect blue sky or watching the dancing flames of a campfire under the moonlight.

I don't have a place. Home for me is wherever my feet bring me. I swear wanderlust is my middle name. I have an urge for freedom and travel that will never go away. I feel more comfortable and more at home in small one apartment in Aberdeen where I spent two days or camping in the Sahara in Morocco where the world seem to stop.

There is so much in my life that gives me joy and peace. But I really like my alone time. To refelct on what I need to do next, or what has happened already. of course laying in the arms of my love. and napping with my poodle, lol...

I have to agree with Fredsmith on this one. I didn't take it for more than what it was - a hobbyist who has enjoyed Emily J. why make anything more out of it?? ....and i haven't even met Emily, yet :)

I am glad you share my feelings about my two choices. I love your choice too -- AT LAST by Etta James. But Josh Krajcik's rendition in his audition in X- Factor really gave me the goosebumps. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndsTHlX3RYw The facial expressions of the judges and his mom as he sang this song were priceless!

This reminds me of my recent unforgettable encounter - so beautiful so sensual! Exile - kiss you all over -

One day last week while I was in chat I noticed SweetJasmineJ and decided to check out her profile. Wow, am I glad I did. We ended up chatting which resulted in us agreeing to schedule sometime together. When the day came, I drove to the designated location in downtown Ottawa ( making sure I was on time ) and when I knocked on her door, and she opened it, a big smile came on my face. I sensed I was'nt going to be disappointed. She was dressed in this cute black sheer baby doll outfit and black panties. Her small petitie, tight frame, and firm breasts, were exposed ever so slightly and provocatively. Her pictures on CERB dont do her justice. She was absolutley gorgeous. After some small talk and DFK we made our way to the bed where we continued to explore each other. Although she is new to CERB I have to say SweetJamine held nothing back and her profile is dead on. She was absoluely fantastic and a class act. I highly recommend her to fellow gentleman. I will definatley be making further appointment requests in the not too distant future. AFT

I love the combination of the sound of the wind along with the low hum of a motorcycle engine while on the highway. As much as there is noise there, there is also a calming peace from the rhythmic steady sound, yet the lack of voices and chaos. I do some of my best thinking this way. Those who don't ride would likely not understand this as peaceful sounds, but there is a certain meditative quality to it.

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Craziest place I've ever had sex? Likely up in the branches of a tree, or on the roof of a restaurant overlooking a bustling street. Fantasies? I love playing dress up! Slowly building my costume collection, if I could dress up every day, I would! Schoolgirl, nurses, sexy foxes, flapper, Vaudevillian dancer! All of the costumes! :D One kind of embarrassing thing? I was doing a private Skype show for a client, and squirted all over my netbook from about 3' away. Bye-bye pretty shiny computer... --frown-- Additional Comments: This is freaking fantastic! Additional Comments: That is pretty much the best thing ever!