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Jabba, it's not itchy when it grows back as long as your not wearing panties on your head.

This is important! Sorry that I forgot to mention the effect of some kinds of medication. Antidepressants are notorious for causing difficulty with ejaculation or delaying ejaculation. That said, when a man has trouble with premature ejaculation (PE), he may find that he gains extra stamina if he's on one of these medications, not that this is an ideal solution! PE can be managed without medication. It often occurs when a man has relied on masturbation most of the time and has been in a hurry to climax. He gets used to having orgasms quickly and needs to discover ways to delay them. A companion who won't provide the condom you prefer needs to think carefully about what she's doing, in my opinion. If I know a day or two ahead of time, I would be happy to ensure that I have what someone wants available. Not only is this good business sense, but I really do want clients to be happy with all aspects of our time together, including this one. As Berlin noted, one of our principal concerns is how a condom has been stored. Expiry dates are important, too, but if the condom has been stored in a too-hot or freezing car or carried around in someone's wallet or pocket, even if it hasn't reached its expiry date, it may be liable to break while in use. Sadly, there are some people who try to sabotage condoms deliberately, and we need to protect ourselves from them, too. I'm glad to read this, Porthos! You might be astonished to know how often many of us are asked to provide condom-free services, though. A couple of weeks ago, a prospective client told me that one reason he likes mature companions is that, once we're no longer having periods, we don't need to use condoms because there's no risk of pregnancy. That's not true, of course, but he claims that not only has this been his experience for years, he hasn't had to pay anything extra for it. I didn't believe him and declined to meet him. I think that it's possible to make a CBJ very erotic and deeply satisfying. I do understand why men prefer to have oral sex without condoms, but I often wonder why too many men pay little attention to the risk of STIs from oral sex. There are a lot of very nasty germs that can live very happily in a human throat, undetected for a very long time. There's no way to know whether someone has an STI or not and, sadly, the risk is somewhat greater for the one whose mouth and throat are being employed than for the one who seeks access. Of particular concern to me is that an incurable form of gonorrhea surfaced in Toronto last fall. Gonorrhea is already the second most common STI. It's very important to find ways to make safe sex sexy!

Start by checking this site out here... www.cowboysdiary.info to make sure the ladies you are interested in are NOT mentioned on this man's site ;) It will save you both time and money :boobies:

Unfortunately, not all guys are diligent about where they store their condoms, and making sure they haven't expired. And then of course, there are the rare psychos who like to poke holes in condoms. If you're unsure if your chosen provider keeps your brand on hand, why not let her know in advance that you like to use a particular brand and then she can be sure to have some?

Actually that's not quite true, Sasha previously known as Kim was a regular fixture in the Diary for years, for using misleading and fake photos of women 20 years younger than herself. Those archive postings have since been lost when I moved the diary to a new host. She was posted so frequently she had a nick name on the diary known as the "Cougar in the Tree" due to a poorly taken and posed photo of her stuck in a tree lol. The photos she uses now are of her but are very dated.

This may not be the same but when I was on a certain type of antidepressant my sex drive and erection were all the same but had extreme difficulty achieving orgasm. I was like the energizer bunny kept going and going. I tried different lubes some that xy his and hers helped a bit. Different toys we vibe was nice I found that the cheaper condoms worked best. But ultimately sex is as much emotional as it is physical and because I like to please a woman the more she enjoyed it the easier it was for me. Although this was for me may not be the same for other and like I said it was caused by the medication and not Ed.

This post means nothing without a picture! cat

Among the reasons I'm not a f/s player so no worries for me. When I started in this game, cbj's were the norm and it seems in the last 2-3 years bbj's has become much more common place and the fact it's often mentioned in reviews or recommendations attests to that. More and more you read john's state that that no bbj is a deal breaker. Not sure why this is the case, perhaps it's new john's pushing the issue or new providers offering it more readily or perhaps it was always happening and folks just chose not to talk as much about it...... Personally I think its a combination of all the above. Peace MG

I find the thinner extra sensation condoms are the better choice, they are not only thin but seem to me to be stronger than the regular ones. I use a little lube, inside, all the time, on the whole area. This adds extra tingling sensation, warming feeling, and so the 'no feeling' issue is minimized.The type I use is warming, unless the client has PE issues, in which case I don't. I have used the Him/Her lubes, and the cooling one is great to take the edge off of someone who does have PE concerns. I also find that the condom on also takes the edge off, which is a good thing. Most of the people who say they don't feel anything, or much less sensation, are using what their head tells them, not what their body shows them. A lot is involved in the preparation, prior to putting on the condom, the flow is natural and unlikely if they are relaxed and not all caught up in what they think they feel it goes very well. I find a lot of younger guys don't think twice about whether bare or not bare feels better or not better, they often only know what it feels like with a condom on, and have little to compare it to. Judging by the large number of guys who can cum with a cbj before they are ready, or before they go over to FS, I don't think condoms lessen too much sensation lol.

I don't think you use bp any different than you would any other site. You check the ad, you google the advertiser for their history elsewhere, you contact the advertiser for more information, and you might find that they have a website that they cannot post on bp. I don't think personally it is any different than anywhere else. It costs money to post ads there, and a variety of people post on it, just as they do anywhere else. In other words it is the advertiser you are checking into, not the advertising site. The stigma towards the site and all the advertisers is unwarranted and misleading, imo.

While I agree there is all sorts of shaming out there, I have to say - this is somewhat of a first for me, that women who have the body shape that is usually (95% the time) considered to be perfect...to be criticized or shamed. Just imagine how the people who do not fit into the perfect category feel. People like that (myself included) see, hear and witness negative comments regarding appearances that do not fit into societys idea of perfection, on a daily basis...and its not just via a few blogs here and there-it is everywhere. As for the online hate stuff-I find that the ones who say the most negative and vile stuff, are usually the kinds of people with very, very little going on in their lives-and use the web as their personal outlet to say things they would never dare say to anyones face because they are usually very weak in many aspects.

I was reading the newspaper one day while eating some sole, and I guess a slug that had crawled onto the newspaper when it was outside my door on the ground managed to find his way from there onto my plate and blended in with what I was eating. I probably should have just swallowed it rather than try and spit it out. I could not get the taste out of my parched mouth for hours. I guess they have some kind of slimy coating to ward of predators.

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Hello,I am Sebastion and am new to CERB but far from new to this type of forum.My subject for today is Mary.I discovered her from a wonderful set of waterfall pictures. I usually never write or participate in these types of assessments but feel compelled to do so. I met Mary a month or so ago and have seen her 6 or 7 times,some for multiple hours so I feel confident that I can give an accurate and truthful recommendation for this beautiful and intelligent young lady. The 1st date was in a hotel room which does not lend itself that personal touch but Mary's hosting abilities soon steered me past those awkward stages of the 1st meeting .The first thing I noticed was the unique shaping of her dark blonde hair style,some of the hair was directed over the rear of her head and I found it sexy and rather unique,this was adorned with medium sized gold hoop ear rings,coincidentally my favourite,its as if she was custom made to suit my every desire,incredible !She was dressed in a short form fitting black skirt and an equally captivating blouse that complimented the skirt.Every clothing article appeared to be very carefully chosen to accent her magnificent body. Mary has exceptional breasts topped up with long firm erect nipples that get very hard when aroused. Another thing I took note of was the hour glass shape,some women have it but lack the nice butt to go with it,she has both in perfect proportions,nice buns to grab a hold of,just an awesome bum.I was instantly under her spell. We chatted and bantered back and forth with the usual get acquainted conversation.I could tell I was in the presence of a very intelligent lady,and this was extremely refreshing.While doing this I scanned her body from top to bottom.She wore dress sandals and her toes were perfectly manicured and painted with a beautiful pink shade of polish.She had the same matching polish on her fingers,and they displayed the same well cared for and maintained appearance(and this is very important to me).A beautiful women should appear as such and she is a master at this.I gazed into her face and there were those "bedroom eyes",we gentlemen all know what those look like.They were capped off with perfectly plucked clearly defined eyebrows that displayed her impeccable attention to detail and perfection.I could also tell she had even curled and touched up her eyelashes.Her body had a golden honey like hue from ample tanning,no lines whatsoever,several tasteful piercings and a couple of low key tattoos strategically placed.What an exceptionally beautiful young lady.The only thing missing were a set of wings ! Mary and I discussed how she recently completed a mountain climbing expedition to Mt.Carleton,the highest point in the maritime provinces.She had a special photographer friend accompany her.They both carried back packs with heels,lingerie and accessories all the way to the top of the mountain. A very determined young lady,she wants to show everyone she has what it takes to "make it to the top".I guess the poor photographer friend being older had a hard time keeping up to her.I know myself Mary has unbridled energy,somewhat similar to the energizer bunny. The next step of our get together rolled along and Mary treated me to some oral pleasures second to none,in fact as painful as it was, I had to get her to stop otherwise I would have ruined the next stage,then came the main event.I was titillating with anticipation where this was going to go,I was so into it and in such a state of arousal, I was just lost in bliss I guess the word is. Mary pushed me down on the bed and thus began what was the best "lady on top" mattress Olympics I have ever participated in.I tease her regularly about being a gold medallist in this new Olympic event. The only drawback in this event for me was the fact that I am more of a "short sprinter". For a "marathoner", Mary would be a gift from God. My thoughts on this are that for an "agency girl" Mary is also the best I have ever encountered.I am very respectful of the time limits I have allocated ,and never have ever felt the slightest hint of being rushed,or that there is clock watching on her part.I guess I took that bull by the horn and I am the one cognisant of the time. This also is what sets Mary apart from others.I can do or say nothing more about my encounters with Mary other that they keep getting more and more exciting as time progresses and I cherish the time spent with her deeply,and await my next encounter with her in deep heartfelt anticipation Sebastion C

Some municipalities are defining the word "Escort" improperly here in Canada! In municipal by-law's some cities here in Canada have defined the word "Escort" as a person who goes on paid dates but does not participate in sexual acts with clients in exchange for money. They do this as they want to license escorts but they do not want to accept that the escorts are having sex for the money (that would make them pimps and pimping or "living off the avails" is illegal in Canada). We all know that the term "Escort" is a person who is a "Sexual service provider" also known as such things as a "Call girl", "Courtesan", "Prostitute", "hooker", "Whore", "Harlot", and many other names. Many of the names are demeaning and not respectful as we all know so the ladies choose to use better words such as "Escort" so that they are not grouped in with the women who solicit sex illegally on the street (Also illegal in Canada). In Canada being paid for sex is legal and paying for sex is also legal. What is not legal is pimping, underage of 18, public solicitation / communicating / procuring for the purpose of sex and keeping a bawdy-house. Your common "out-call" service provider who does not solicit in public, does not have a pimp, is of legal age and charges for sex is not breaking the law! So why can they not call themselves a "Escort" in some municipalities? Because the municipality writes these by-laws defining the word "Escort" to mean something that it is not! Most municipalities do this to try to get rid of the ladies. Many of you think they do this because they want to make money off the girls... but that is not true! They don't want the girls in the cities at all. They want to force them to move to another city or quit being a prostitute all together. They use any revenue made from the licenses to further police (and I say police but remember they are not real police they are paid city officials that are actually by-law enforcement and can not charge anyone with a criminal code charge - as much as some will try to make you believe they have this power) Some cities are going to even greater lengths by asking the local police to accompany the by-law officers and try to entrap a few ladies into public solicitation (so that they can stir some fear in the ladies). Yes, they are actually doing this! You can read a thread here on cerb where one lady was tricked into going for a drink at the bar in the lobby of the hotel where she met her date... the date tried to talk to her about sex acts and next thing you know she was being arrested. Yes this is entrapment and she did know better... but I guess she felt the conversation was private enough and he was a good actor (she paid the price) but this is low! She did not want to go to the bar to have a drink with this person and he pretty much demanded it just so he could trick her and charge her. Nice eh! Makes me sick too! A note to the municipalities, We know many by-law guys and probably city officials read sites like this. You should as this should be a big fear for you. Bulling people is fun until all the people you bully get together and form a community and rise up against you! The definition of a ESCORT is "a person who provides a SEXUAL SERVICE to a customer and exchanges SEX for MONEY" - For your information... this is LEGAL in Canada! Just because you make a by-law that redefines the word "ESCORT" to suit your needs it will not hold up in court! You can not pass a by-law based on your MORAL REASONS and you can not charge a ESCORT a LICENSE FEE knowing that they have sex for money as this makes your city a PIMP and you are in turn LIVING OFF THE AVAILS OF PROSTITUTION and you are breaking the law!! With the INTERNET and communities like this one here on CERB the ladies are starting to UNITE and work together! Activist groups are now challenging the laws in court that take rights away from sex trade workers - don't think that this will not trickle down to the municipalities who are also taking away legal rights of people! It will not be long till you bully the ladies enough in your city that they unite and challenge your moral based by-law in court. It will end up costing your city a fair amount of money and one nasty slap on the hand to tell you that you can not take rights away from people who are not breaking the law (just because you don't like what they do for a living!) You should take the advise of your town lawyers who have probably told you that passing a by-law like this can backfire, it's only a matter of time before the ladies unite against you (any many men support them - every day more are supporting the ladies publicly as well as it's not so taboo any more to employee the services of a sex trade worker. It is the oldest profession as you know! Keep in mind that with todays technology (the internet) it's much easier to communicate and form communities (Like this one) you and other cities could bully the ladies in the past (knowing they would not group together) but you are very wrong if you think that will continue in this day and age... it simply will not hold true! Bottom line... No matter what you do you will not get rid of prostitution in your city - Too much need and demand for it - let's face it... if no demand existed you would not have such a large number of ladies working in the profession now would you!?!

I'm looking for a pregnant SP in the Toronto (within 200KM). Are there any out there? Eather post on PM me. Thank you.

In reality condoms do have the potential to reduce some of the sensation during various sexual acts. However, in my experience there are many creative ways to make up for this issue. A mear adjustment of sexual position can easily increase the pressure and friction on the penis resulting in enhanced pleasure ie. any position where the ladies legs are pressed tight together. Additionally, the simple act of pulling back on the shaft/skin of the penis during either oral or penatration can easily kick it up a little. Be creative! If straight up missionary is not doing the trick mix it up until you find that sweet spot! Lets not forget that a very large portion of sexual enjoyment is mental so really let your mind get into it. Quite frankly, even the thought and mental picture of watching myself slowly enter a beautiful woman and hear her breathing change as she accepts me is enough to send me over the edge. Oh my! On that note I think I'm spent! Chuck

when i travelled, i tried to immerse myself with my host's culture after 'a few" sentry scotches, maybe even a bottle of saki thrown in..... the business partners took me to their favourite restaurant, and since my language skills were limited i let them order! when i met the cdn embassy guy that was assigned to assist me in negotiations and told him where and what we ate, he went nuts found out later that if not cooked correctly, it will kill you!!! oh well, survived it, my hosts were impressed how brave (read stupid) i was, but still remain friends today

Hi, DBDB, I saw this thread and jumped on it. I love talking about the dynamics of dominance and submission (so appologies if this gets a little long). A lot of people use bdsm as a way to safely process and come to terms with taumatic experiences in their pasts, or to face specific fears in a controlled environment. Likewise, it's not uncommon for someone to turn to a professional domme (or a professional sub) when they need a confessor - someone who will hear their darkest secrets and not vilify them for what they want or need. So, from that angle, femdomme as therapy is not unusual at all. In long-term D/s relationships (at least as far as I'm concerned), it's the duty of the dominant to guide her submissive towards becoming his/her best self -- just as it's the duty of the submissive to smooth the way for the dominant in order that she, too, can be her best self. It's a beautiful, symbiotic relationship. :-) I think, in a shorter-term, professional D/s relationship this would also be possible, particularly if the client approached his dominant in a way that was up-front about his goals and his need for her guidance. With regards to your specific question about assertiveness, DBDB, you might be better off engaging a professional submissive. While engaging with any SP requires that you know your own desires and be able to communicate them effectively, a professional dominant would (I suspect - pro-dommes, feel free to chime in here) be the right choice if you needed to become more attentive to, and aware of, the needs and wants of others. If you want to practice being assertive, there is nothing in this world like being in charge of someone else's actions to teach you the clear, direct communication skills, follow-up practices, planning, and consideration that it takes to be assertive - to be the Boss - outside the bedroom. That's my thought on the subject, at least. I hope that there are a few professional submissives (and professional dominants) reading this who will also contribute to the thread. :-) - Tess.

I'm going to pick up a can of hair spray and post a big hair photo any one else up to the challenge?

I think...big hair is on its way back :( Remember the 80`s , when there was no such thing as a hairstyle that did not consist of mousse, gel and hairspray..lol. And so if the big hair does come back full force-I strongly caution that only ladies who are under the age of 25 to go with those kind of big teased out hair styles ;)

King size 'cigarette' rolling papers. I seem to go through those too quickly these days.

I would be a very pretty butterfly ;)

I'm not sure which I find more attractive, the girl, or the lingerie...

Of course, FS without a condom is just not on. As for BBBJ vs. CBJ, I'll confess that I prefer without a condom. Having said that, the fact that a lady only offers CBJ has never stopped me from seeing someone that I wanted to see. I'd also add that I've had the pleasure of some CBJs that, quite frankly, left me weak kneed and totally happy. All, in all, I'd say that yes, a condom reduces sensitivity, but not so much that sex suddenly becomes unejoyable, or that I would lose an erection. And besides, how the condom gets put on can also be a lot of fun! Porthos

I too am a pro condom user sp. I suggest to some of my clients that insist they can't enjoy sex with a condom to practice masturbating with them on. I think this would help, perhaps I'm wrong but it seems like a good idea to me. We all have to get used to new things sometimes.

Here's mine. Chokes me up every time: The Pogues performing "And the Band Played Waltzing Mathilda". Youtube video . I'm not Australian, and not old enough to remember the First World War, but you don't have to be to be affected by this song. There's even a synergistic effect if you have seen Peter Weir's film Gallipoli (with added Mel Gibson bonus).

I feel the most at peace when I'm using public transportation. Weird, I know, but people are so wrapped up in their own thoughts, it's easy to sit and watch. I listen to music and imagine people's lives, observe their interactions, watch the houses go by... I sit, I think, I relax. I love public transportation so much that I'm often slightly sad when I arrive at my destination. If I have the time and luxury, I often don't get off at all and simply wander around the city. I could do it all day, especially if I'm listening to good music.

Where I feel at peace? Very similar to OP except maybe not looking at stars (the shining moon and black sky at night scares me!! A childhood thing) but looking through my noise-proof windows and see half the city below me and the cars without hearing the noise. The red, yellow, white, blue, ...... lights, the green Gatineau hills (or snow covered) and the Parliamemt hill and the Ottawa river and the peaceful city of Ottawa as long as I am up there and not below and part of it (especially driving) gives me a peaceful feeling.

Watching/feeling the snow fall down on me, drinking a nice dry white, sitting in my hottub.

At 24,000 feet with unlimited visibility crossing the Rockies in my airplane. With the exception of the occasional communication with Air Traffic Control it feels like I've escaped the day-to-day bustle of life and the scenery is spectacular.

A jaguar.., predatory, powerful and fiercely loyal.

I grew up skinny and can relate. I was always teased.Then when you become a slender adult some will accuse you of not eating, purging, or other methods of gettig rid of your food. This can cause some to have eating disorders. It seems in the press someone is always being criticized for either being to small or to large. No matter what your size one will always be smaller or larger than someone else, the important thing is to be healthy. As there is beauty in all sizes. Most wouldn't admit to it but we all make judgements on someones appearence when first meeting them, wether conciously or not. Especially in this business. There is alot that can make a person attractive but certainly when a man is viewing a ladies pictures he is simply looking for his idea of physical beauty and that includes a certain body type/size. If we are all going to be honest anyone that is included on some of the best of threads has been judged as someones ideal of beauty and those left out have been, perhaps unintenionally, judged as well, as not being someones ideal of beauty by the mere fact of omission. In the end what is important for anyone is having a strong sense of self and knowing your worth. We are all valuable and everyone has redeeming traits/qualities. Some are just more obvious on some . But as judge Judy alway says beauty fades-dumb is forever and as I say getting into a book is far more fun than just staring at it's cover.:biggrin:

that is where I feel the most at peace, because when I walk through that door, the time that I am there is all about me. All my worries, stress, anger, etc I leave that at the door and for 1 to 3 hours nothing bothers me. My warrior spirit (for lack of a better term) gets to be free.

Where I feel most at peace with myself is probably at home. In particular I love the fact that it is a rural property with the chance to have mega bonfires and on a nice evening with a new moon I get opportunity to simply sit and relax and watch as the flights to Europe pass over, with the Milky Way totally visible and stars beyond stars shining in the sky.

Anywhere there are dogs. They are comforting, always welcoming and never judgemental. Plus alot of fun and very interesting to watch. Every place is made better if there is a dog in it:biggrin:

For those who know me, there could be only one animal: the brown bear. They are big and furry. They hibernate in the winter. And like the bear, I have a fondness for bushes and beaver. :icon_lol:

There is so much in my life that gives me joy and peace. But I really like my alone time. To refelct on what I need to do next, or what has happened already. of course laying in the arms of my love. and napping with my poodle, lol...

I have to agree with Fredsmith on this one. I didn't take it for more than what it was - a hobbyist who has enjoyed Emily J. why make anything more out of it?? ....and i haven't even met Emily, yet :)

I would sooooo love to go to comic con as well maybe some day we can go together :) I would be a blast to dress up as cat woman or storm from x-men etc and go have some comic books signed :)

This reminds me of my recent unforgettable encounter - so beautiful so sensual! Exile - kiss you all over -

by Hinder Feel By Robbie Williams -U2 Volcano by Phillip Phillips I love raspy voices! shivers just thinking about it..There are so may I love that give me chills there just a few.

One day last week while I was in chat I noticed SweetJasmineJ and decided to check out her profile. Wow, am I glad I did. We ended up chatting which resulted in us agreeing to schedule sometime together. When the day came, I drove to the designated location in downtown Ottawa ( making sure I was on time ) and when I knocked on her door, and she opened it, a big smile came on my face. I sensed I was'nt going to be disappointed. She was dressed in this cute black sheer baby doll outfit and black panties. Her small petitie, tight frame, and firm breasts, were exposed ever so slightly and provocatively. Her pictures on CERB dont do her justice. She was absolutley gorgeous. After some small talk and DFK we made our way to the bed where we continued to explore each other. Although she is new to CERB I have to say SweetJamine held nothing back and her profile is dead on. She was absoluely fantastic and a class act. I highly recommend her to fellow gentleman. I will definatley be making further appointment requests in the not too distant future. AFT

Ah, the all time favourite... pair of jeans.... mmmmm lol

I love the combination of the sound of the wind along with the low hum of a motorcycle engine while on the highway. As much as there is noise there, there is also a calming peace from the rhythmic steady sound, yet the lack of voices and chaos. I do some of my best thinking this way. Those who don't ride would likely not understand this as peaceful sounds, but there is a certain meditative quality to it.

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Craziest place I've ever had sex? Likely up in the branches of a tree, or on the roof of a restaurant overlooking a bustling street. Fantasies? I love playing dress up! Slowly building my costume collection, if I could dress up every day, I would! Schoolgirl, nurses, sexy foxes, flapper, Vaudevillian dancer! All of the costumes! :D One kind of embarrassing thing? I was doing a private Skype show for a client, and squirted all over my netbook from about 3' away. Bye-bye pretty shiny computer... --frown-- Additional Comments: This is freaking fantastic! Additional Comments: That is pretty much the best thing ever!