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I agree with the Gent's ^^ 20 pm's is a little much..:icon_wink: imo Being that you have met this Sp, I would suggest limiting your pm's to no more than a few if booking a session. Then once in person, talking about likes/dislikes, fantasies ect.. (I'm sure she understands your intent and has been friendly and accommodating, but 20 ish pm's.. that's a lot of back and forth..) :) Kim

After lunch my little girl comes out of her playroom dressed as a princess and says, "whoever wants to be my prince put up their hand". The room was full of people including lots of little boys so I never put up my hand and continued to sip my coffee. After a few seconds I look up and she's staring right at me and says, "daddy you forgot to put up your hand". Five minutes later I'm wearing my tux waltzing around the house with her standing on my feet. As it turns out inside her little head lunch was apparently a royal ball. Highlight of my day, I'm still her prince and maybe will continue to be so for another little while :)

Years ago I would never have thought I'd be writing this. I was not a kisser or a cuddler. It was just not something a provider did or I even heard of or was discussed here in Halifax, starting out with an agency. That has certainly changed for the better! My first time kissing and cuddling, I was hooked. That type of intimacy makes the encounter so much more intense and I find during that time when lips are locked and you're tightly embraced, time seems to stand still and we/I just can't stop kissing, there is so much passion in a kiss. When it comes to cuddling, that usually leads to more kissing and a connection on a much deeper level. I prefer to kiss and cuddle and adore soft lips and being held. I do have encounters without kissing and make up for it in other ways:icon_wink:, whether it be my choice or the very rare no GFE request. I make the most of each encounter and enjoy the intimacy to the fullest. Time for some intense kissing, cuddling and all that good stuff!!:icon_biggrin:

It's my understanding that this happens mostly in isolated Northern communities where stray dogs become a real danger to humans. Left to breed on their own strays's tend to pack up and are completely wild. What most dog owners forget is that domestic dogs are basically the same species as canus lupus. There is very little genetic difference. I've worked in a few fly-in communities where the FIRST thing we were told was don't walk alone outside at night or the dogs WILL get you. A traggic case of this was a child mauled to death in Cross Lake by a pack of wild dogs not that many years ago. As barbaric as this practice seems, I understand the reasons for it. These are NOT pets that can be rehabilitated into loving homes. These dogs are 100% wild. Rounding them up to euthanize them would only put more humans in harms way. Sad to say the entire problem could be avoided through spaying and neutering pets in the first place. Unfortunately this is probably a very low priority for many in those communities. As a dog owner and pet lover my self I hate to see this happen but I understand the need for it. The alternative is to let the packs grow to unmanageable sizes that put humans in real danger of being killed. I wouldn't be so quick to judge if you haven't experienced some of these places first hand. Once the sun falls all you hear is howling.

It all goes back to the late 90's/ early 2000's... sounds like ancient history but that's when all the acronyms were first introduced. I believe men just wanted a phrase they could use to relate to one another online about their endulgence of women in this business. Think of it as an old boys club. lol.

I must admit at the beggining I was reluctant to kiss clients, didn't want to exchange any bodily fluids at all. I have relaxed somewhat and indulged in some very passionate sessions where kissing and cuddling took it to another level. I say go with what is your comfort level, never be appologetic about it. after all it's your time, your passion, your magic to experience, love and enjoy it , :makeout:I do

Roaming guy said it best. I understand especially for a newbie the need to ask so many questions. I would rather him be informed than to assume. That can cause problems. But what bothers ne the most is when I devote my time and effort to someone by spending a lot of time reading and responding and reassuring his questions only to have him not follow through with the reasonfor so many questions. I find it a sign of disrespect and a lack of value for my time.

Why is it that personalities change so drastically depending on where you read certain posts? It speaks to true character and I'll never figure it out but I admire genuinely sweet, honest and kind people. Positivity and a good heart keeps you youthful and beautiful on the in and outside!:icon_biggrin:

Well, my mother has finally reached the final stages of her long fought battle with cancer. I've been sitting on watch for the inevitable for the past couple of days. Coming to grips with it is harder than I imagined, even though we had a couple of years to prepare ourselves. Things that suck?...... Cancer. And, well mortality in general. Seeing someone you love wither away. To those of you who have lost loved ones to this horrible disease, or are faced with the prospect of doing so, you have my deepest sympathy.

No dog that hasn't been imprinted on by humans as a very young puppy can be rehabilitated as a pet. It sucks but those 2nd and 3rd generation wild dogs are just that, wild. They are as close to a wolf pack as you can get without being wolves. Try and turn a full grown wolf into a pet that has never been around humans. It doesn't work. There's a big difference between a stray and a pack of wild dogs. One can be rescued, the other can't. It sucks but the only answer is to put them down if they are a threat to people and to properly spay and neuter pets so that the problem doesn't come back.

Thanks, but the reason I chose to post this on CERB is because I know there are a lot of big-hearted people here. People on CERB love their pets!

Despite a few warnings, decided to TOFTT the other night. Not going to comment publicly, but I wanted to warn everyone that she is DEFINITELY on the no-fly list--watch out fellas--DANGER.

Pretty much every day, I'll receive a few texts from numbers I've never seen before, just saying 'hi' or, 'hey'. I will never understand why these texts are sent. Most girls ignore them, to be honest. I occasionally will respond, saying 'Hello! If you'd like to see me, please introduce yourself and let me know what you're looking for, thanks!' other times I've said 'Hello! Who is this?', to get a response back with just a name. Like, Frank. Just Frank, nothing else. Not, Hello, this is Frank, wondering if you're available today?' I know sometimes a new client can be nervous with the first communciation. But please keep in mind, we are very happy to answer your questions, and if we accept texts (some girls state in their ads that they do not), then you are welcome to text us! But please, ask a question! Tell me what you're texting for. Because to just say 'Hi, then 'Frank', it's like pulling teeth. I'm not here to draw what you want out of you. You need to ask me, and then we can make an arrangement. I will admit, I sometimes can be a bit snarky in my responses to these texts. And i'm not a snarky person. But after the tenth 'Hey' or worse, 'hey babe', text I've received in a day, my patience may have hit it's limit. And I would hate for us not to get a chance to meet only because our texting didn't work out. Communication is key to a good encounter. Tell me who you are, and what it is you're looking for by contacting me. If you can't say more than a hello in a text, now how will we be able to talk in purrson silly!

In early September 2012, there was a point that I actually thought that post 5000 was never going to happen. In fact, I wasn't really sure that morning would happen, at least for me. Labour Day weekend is supposed to be eventful. It's when we say goodbye to summer and get ready for the colder months ahead. Pack away the summer stuff and bring out the long sleeves. Close down the cottage. Make plans for the air conditioner and the patio furniture. My labour day weekend began with a sense of draining. I had no energy. Walking was an effort. A shower required a nap after. Drying my hair took my breath away. I knew something was wrong, but my stubbornness said, "sleep it off, it's been a tough summer and you are just run down." It was more than that. I had a major heart attack. It was weird... no sudden chest grasping pain... just a sense of draining... like superman with kryptonite. That's when CERB stepped up. I mean it. CERB saved my life. Isabella Gia and Barrhaven Woody came over and took me to the hospital. They waited with me in the waiting room and stayed there until they knew I was being cared for. But it didn't stop there. I was in hospital for a week. Woody came to visit. Isabella came to visit and then came again with home cooked food. Cat and one of her kittens came to see me daily. Bethany, Phaedrus, Luxe and Alger all came bearing cups of coffee, muffins and most importantly, love. Alger left work early to come and pick me up at the hospital to take me home. When I got there, Boomer and Mister T had made food and left it in my fridge. Angela had gone to get my prescriptions. There were messages from Annessa, Nicolette, Gabriella, Samantha, EMB, Meg, Sara, Malika and Dorinda... and a very special message from Amelia ;) I was in tears. You have no idea how much I love my CERB people. It's more than that though. My CERB people are not just relegated to a small hidden part of my life. They are central. I am actually tearing up writing this... but they are happy tears... I have had so many visitors and so many messages It's hard to mention everyone... dammit. There are so many people that have made a difference and still make a difference in my life. You all make a difference whether you think so or not. So to everyone I have mentioned above and these few more, I give my thanks, my love and my friendship. Areez, Wendigo, Jazzitup, The General, AreJayEll, Lee Richards, Andy of Halifax, Toine, Spud, Notch, RG, Melly, Touch, RoyalFun, Scott, Steve, Silverado, Lone Skater, Mr Nice ... great guys. The best. Passion Vitto, Julie Wilde, Georgiana, Nathalie, Sami, Nikki Thomas, Emily, Emma, Cindy, Peachy, Soleil, Penelope, Katherine, Sophia, Alyssa, Cleo, Jasmine J, Jazy, Kimmy, Evelyne, Kianna, Chantal, Claire, Berlin, Alexxandria, Shortcake, GeGe, Alanna, Kerri, Ava ... damn... there are so many.... but you ladies in particular fill my life with joy every day. I wish I could write the name of every person that has made this time less difficult.... but threads have a finite amount of space... and I am getting sleepy. If I missed a name it wasn't out of spite... it's because I am old. Anyhow... this thread is for you. You have made my life worth living in these past few months and years... you make me smile, you make me laugh and you make me want to share a bit of myself with all of you. And I am going to say it, unabashedly, unashamed and without any hesitation. I love all of you.

Happy april fools day! Do you have a funny prank you've played on this fun day that you'd like to share?

As I move through life I sometimes hear or read things that touch me in a profound way. They change my perception, thought process or the way I behave. I love those little gems that come out of nowhere as if they were made just for you. I wanted to share a couple of mine and hope others might do the same so that maybe more of us can't enjoy an "AHA "moment. Here are three of my more recent ones: It's a challenge to see every problem as a lesson and approach it positively asking what can you learn from it but to do this gives us power by helping change our perception and then problems that arise, shrink in size. Honesty and full disclosure are two separate things. Honesty means what you say is true and to me this is very important. Full disclosure means to say everything there is to say. I own my information so if I chose not to share it because it has no impact on you, I'm not being dishonest I'm simply indulging my privacy. A secret shared between individuals that has no bearing on anyone else and is not told, is NOT dishonesty, it's privacy. I am finding more people think full disclosure is honesty and when you don't share everything, it's dishonesty. This is untrue. Children are people and individuals. They are not property. They deserve the same respect you would grant any adult and they will learn and give respect as an adult. If you wouldn't do/say something to an adult than don't do/say it to a child, find a better way. We give more patience to older people trying to maintain control than we do to those learning it when it should be equally important and deserved. It's a difficult lesson to put into practice but worth it.

Perhaps you should direct these providers to the STI health nurse or experts. I can't remember the last time any expert said to not use lube in the condom, in fact everything I had read or seen says that it is recommended. It helps not just with sensation, but helps the integrity of the condom to not get breakage. I can't imagine an sp not finding out the facts about this. What they can NOT use is oils or oil based lotions in this manner. Additional Comments: I was also going to say that the topic originally was about bbbjs in general, and also about asking do sps feel pressured to provide them. I take this also to apply to sps who provide them due to this pressure as well as sps who do not provide them being pestered for them even after they have said it is not available. If every second enquiry is asking if bbbjs are available, any sp is eventually going to figure out that if the answer was 'yes' every time, she'd most likely get more appointments. It also reminded me, when someone said that cbjs should cost less than bbbjs, well, here's the thing, out here at least. bj only sessions tend to be not just the cheapest service available, they are most often done bbbj. 40 bucks, 50, maybe 60, come in, get off, get out. So how much less is a cbj only session supposed to cost? Another thought came to me reading some of the comments here, which basically is if you as a client do not want an sp to provide bbbjs only because she feels pressured to do so (not that she would ever let you know that), then stop asking for them. When you contact her, don't ask, just accept what is provided. If she offers it, turn her down and ask for a cbj. If you really are uncomfortable with an sp's motives for providing any higher risk activity, then be that guy who doesn't do it, doesn't ask for it, doesn't accept it. See what happens. And fwiw, lets see what happens to the laws around prostitution in Canada. Licensing is getting to be more common, regulations of the business may not be far behind. If/when that happens, you can bet the number one thing covered by regulations is Occupational Health and Safety, and there is no way that uncovered services of any kind is going to be allowed, meaning only that if it is it won't be advertised and it won't be something people can ask for before showing up for the appointment. (given that services that are not permitted will likely still be available that is, what should change is what is in ads)

You're probably looking for something a bit more complex than this, but the world could generally be a better place if people would remember the simple rules of two wise philosophers: :)

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It's pretty simple, but people never tire of hearing how awesome they are and how much you appriciate that your life has been graced with their presence. Tell everyone that has impacted you that they have done so. This tends to have a pay-it -forward type effect too. (This is not reflected in comments like, "your hot, or I love your ass" thats just a little thoughtless and crude) However if you know that the person has gone to considerable effort to make themselves physically appealing for you saying, "My god I can't take my eyes off you. You're a vision of Aphrodite and the hottest thing I have ever seen" and genuinely meaning it will do the trick too.

I've had a few aha moments since joining cerb most have come after I've read and reread some of Cats, Samantha Evans and Fortunate ones posts.( They are all very good guides) I tend to write with one meaning in mind and realize even though I know what I mean others may read it differently, none of us interpret things the same,thats a big aha. Also I've finally realized after all this time just because someone portrays themselves to be one way doesn't mean they are, thats another big aha. The wonderful thing about life is there is always something new to be learned that is relative no matter the activity. So no matter what you do you'll never waste time if you have learned something while spending it. :biggrin:

I'm sorry but there is never an excuse for crulety or being inhumane never. Dogs don't become wild because they woke up one morning and decided to go crazy. Someone was breeding them, caring for them then stopped, let them go and they have to fend for themselves, their fault, nope, but they alone suffer the extreme consequences-death- and we cry pity us when we have to watch out for them or if they bite or attack, when and where do we begin to take the blame for what we cause to happen. Dogs wild or tame are about fight or flight and in most of all attacks/bites are done out of fear. You are right I haven't been to a remote community but I had a niece who lived in one for 2+ years . She rescued and adoted a few dogs and did talk alot about the problems there with strays and how dogs were treated, it was hard to hear. But I don't care what the lifestyle, community, country or custom, cruelty is unacceptable and not the action of a rational, normal person. I am a believer that any dog can be rehabilitated given the right trainer and and training, but in those cases that will never happen. Dogs aren't thought of as pets but disposable property, away to earn money, transportation. In spite of that when they have to be put down it needs to be down in a more humane way. We are humans after all not butchers full of blood lust or are we! I know in the states there are far more kill shelters because of higher numbers, obviously and their methods of euthanization are also brutal. They pile as many dogs into metal containers and gas them and it isn't the type of gas that causes you to just fall asleep, it is a painful death for them. When that batch is suffocated they dump another dozen or so dogs ontop of them and repeat, when the container is full it's dumped into a garbage truck, 25-30 dogs at a time-todays garbage. When are we ever going to advance and realize these animals have feelings much like ours and deserve respect, kind treatment and much more than we give them now. It seems that there are still so many that are heartless or of the opinion if it's not human it doesn't matter. I say if you can't relate and be empathetic towards another species then you are not human! Dogs and animal crulety are subjects near and dear to my heart so it is very hard for me to discuss these topics and be calm I hope I succeeded this time.

That is quite a few LOL. But ladies are very understanding and she probably recognizes you as a newbie and somewhat shy and awkward. My two cents however, after this many PM's you definitely need to commit to an encounter with this lady. Otherwise your going to going to get a reputation as a "tire kicker" something you don't want to have. In short a lot of PM's is a burden on the lady's time if the lady never sees you for an encounter. With time and experience you'll streamline your contacting to one or two pm's, or emails. But for now, the best advice I can give, see this lady. She spent time replying to your PM's, in the belief you are a gentleman serious about an encounter with her RG

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I must say seeing the kindness in people's heart it really touch's me, and I get to see the inner beauty in people. I'm so glad I saw this post, I also love animals. Thank joyfulC, you are a very caring person.

Using a friend's place for an incall earlier this week and finding that the toilet was clogged up by someone who had just visited and left a not so nice surprise. The friend's plunger was of no use so you go home and get your super plunger that works miracles. By this point, there are reminents of what we can all only imagine and water everywhere and profusely apologizing to her friend. By this time, Nicki just wants to go apeshit ( no pun intended) on getting this toilet unclogged. She rolls up her jeans and sleeves and goes to work. Plunging, plunging, water everywhere, reminents of a mysterious brown substance ( we all know) and friend goes and gets towels. With having to be at another friend's house for a get together, she realizes she is on a time limit so she uses brute force on this toilet to the point where toilet is shaking, water everywhere, all over her, the brown substance going all over the towels...floor soaked despite the towels. Of a sudden she hears the sound of music when you know hear that weird odd sound and the sigh of relief when the toilet is unclogged or similar to when you've just popped out a 7 lb watermelon out of your cooch. The job is done. You look around and now realize you have to clean your friend's bathroom. Bending over in your jeans that are soaked with water and s----t, you go on a cleaning spree with bathroom cleaner with bleach. Muttering curse words, your friend walks by the bathroom saying "Nice plumber's crack" while cleaning the toilet. Yes folks, Nicki does not wear underwear! Feeling so nasty, she quickly leaves still in shitty jeans with a bag full of towels to wash 3 or 4 times in a row. She gets to her friend's house and makes a beeline for the shower and stays in there till she is clean from head to toe. Nasty towels and clothes all go in the wash..What turned into an hour appt ended in a 3 hour nasty shit fiasco. Please, please, please... if you have to do a number 2 after an appt, take it somewhere private and clean yourself up or do it in a public restroom. That's all I have to say...lol. I ain't a plumber even though I've got the plumber's crack going on if you bend me over too hard. Hehe! ;)

I don't think he was implying that you were kicking tires I think he was answering your question. Most sps don't mind investing the time in responding to a clie t who is sincere in booking an appointment. What we do not enjoy is investing the time and effort in responding and reassuring when in the end they don't end up following through with the reason for all the questions to begin with

Of course the only 100% safe sex is no sex, but I would say that any health professional who makes one feel frowned upon for their "lifestyle" is not a professional at all. Judgement only adds to the stigma surrounding sexual health and is a major reason why people avoid getting regular testing, only helping these things to continue to spread. It is not a doctors or nurse's job to pass judgement upon your activities. For those interested in non-judgemental, confidential, discreet sexual health services, the city of Ottawa offers free walk in services for: confidential STI testing, counselling, contraception, STI treatment, immunization, and ample loads of reliable and trusted resource material. They also have very helpful nurses who are friendly, non-judemental and willing to answer any questions you may have. I posted about the Ottawa Sexual Health Clinic a little while back, with more information and what you can expect. Read more about it here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=117436

Having to say goodbye to a dear friend knowing our next visit probably won't be for another year or so:( Additional Comments: Just seeing this - my thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. I went through this with my father so I do know how you are feeling. We all have to get through our grief in our own ways but I do think reaching out to friends and family for support, talks, and what ever you need is what helps and is important. I felt anger, hopelessness and a very deep emptyness which time, friends and family has helped heal. This is one of the hardest things you'll go through but you will get through it. Thinking of you

I don't even know why what others do sexually has become a concern. I understand wanting to inform one another about the risks of some sex acts, but I think the best and only person we all should be discussing this with is our doctors. They should be the ones to inform me/you as to all the risks involved with all sex practices you/me participate in. To be concerned about what others are doing is impractical, unproductive and pointless, you can't control it. It's like wanting everyone to drive the speed limit each time you get into your car- you can want and wish but it's not going to cause it to happen. The best we all can do is get tested appropriately, be very open with your md about how many people you do engage with and decide what risks you and your partner are willing to take. Other than that I really don't see the point in being concerned with what anyone else is doing.:icon_biggrin:But thats just how I see it.

Cleo and Peachy: you misunderstand. She has a forever home here with us if we can't help her connect with a special someone. I am a great believer that dogs (and even cats) need jobs. This little girl is ideally suited to be a special companion to someone. She seems very happy here in our home, but she's one of three dogs and there are two cats, as well. She gets along fine with all of them, and she seems enthusiastic about finding her niche here. But I know dogs very well. I've lived with dogs my whole life. I've rescued and fostered many dogs. Our house is the place where everyone else's dogs go for "vacay" while their families travel. And that's why I know in my heart that this little girl was born to be a special companion to someone. I am thinking someone older, settled in life. Perhaps someone retired or a couple where at least one partner is at home through the day. I honestly believe that there's a situation out there where she could make a difference in someone's life. Sometimes souls were meant to find one another. And I'm just putting it out there to see if we can find that person for her. Meanwhile, believe me, she's got us all charmed around here, and is fitting right in. She doesn't have to go anywhere, and we'd only let her go if we believed she was going to a better situation.

Kissing lights my fire and either puts me on slow burn or disco inferno! Touching, cuddling, enjoying the other person is an amazing exchange of energy that releases good chemicals into the brain and gives you that happy euphoric feeling. Sex is amazing, don't get me wrong, but everything else is just as good and sometimes even better. There is something called sensual intoxication which I have experienced. It comes from being so in tune with and connected to another person that the simple act of touching them (kissing, stroking, cuddling etc) can give you the same feeling as having a few drinks. It's pretty amazing.

I book longer appointments so you HAVE TO cuddle and talk to me damnitt !!! ;) I luv it !

There are many threads that address individual issues that come during the course of our days in this wonderful hobby, and while surfing I have come across several good outlines for conducting oneself. But they fail to address the intricacies that often confuse hobbyists and SP?s alike. I would like feedback from both sides, as I have been compiling a ?how to? especially designed for this industry. This is a chance for people to put in their likes and dislikes and will help newbies by giving them a playbook that will help them maneuver their way thru. I would like to address any and every suggestion that covers a given situation that you have been in personally that you can see someone else having to figure out. It has been an ongoing project this year and I would like to have it finished by summer?s end. So if you have any situations that you feel are worthy of being addressed, let?s get them out here so we can discuss them?. Catherine

May 'yall have a great day with Family and Friends !

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Never allow someone to be your priority while you're just their option.

If I'm thinking of the right girl, I heard she left to have a baby.

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Nope you aren't weird. Sounds pretty awesome to me. Kissing, cuddling, getting to know each other (or re-aquainted), massaging, foreplay can lead to a pretty amazing sexual experience. Very much why I like longer dates . Of course it also happens when the mutual anticipation is there that you walk in the door and get busy baby !! Pretty darn awesome too. Cuddle later ;)

Happy Easter

My opinion as to what type of men go to prostitutes are the type that can afford to the type that seek a relationship that is fulfilling in many ways but with no strings men who are open, mature and understand theirs and others sexuality and are liberal about it men who love variety but want to be discreet about it men that know how to have fun!! A man I once dated, sadly to say, had told me he would never "pay for it", he didn't have to as he thought himself to be attractive, he was educated and held a very good job. Thankfully he is on the side of the don't pay males, lol. As all the men I've met so far are also very attractive hold good jobs and are also educated, very educated in some cases. It's sad to think that there still are some jerks who think those that pay do so because they have no other options.

Only one person's (very humble) opinion, but the opinion of a long-time condom user and fan. Most of any man's objection to covering is psychological, and the kernel of truth that the objection is based on can be well handled by a little lube on the head before the cover goes on and making sure the condom isn't cold. The bulk of the difficulty vanishes with a change of attitude. Condoms are fun, helpful little creatures that make possible what would otherwise be entirely too risky - they are Man's third best friend. Again, MHO, but I have a sense that North American culture has become quite blasé about STIs and their associated misery - inappropriately so.

I don't think it means that the SP is naive. Rather, it means that we've made different choices based on personal risk-tolerance. There are many good reasons for choosing to offer BBBJs and many good reasons for choosing not to do it. I, for one, do not denigrate ladies who provide this option. I trust them to know what's best for them. I know some women, for example, who get tested every month and feel this provides them with more information and support for their choices than being tested every three months, for example. Others base their decisions on the number of guests they entertain. Some have health issues that make them more susceptible to infections in general and decide to limit their exposure for that reason. Everyone is different. It certainly IS possible to be successful in our industry while offering only covered contact. I've done this for a very long time. It's also true that there are potential clients who will not tolerate this restriction and may be considered a loss in business. Sadly, there are some clients who feel entitled to pressure paid companions into performing BBBJs even when they've been informed prior to the meeting that the option isn't available. They seem to think that it's okay to object to the condom after things are well underway, to refuse to continue the meeting, to demand a full or partial refund of the fee they've paid, to make threats about reviews and recommendations or even to go through with the engagement but write highly disparaging reviews later on.

Luxe nailed this on the head. I would much rather see a woman because she is that woman than see someone just for a list of menu items. My favourite providers, and in my mind, the BEST providers are the ones that you NEED to see because they have struck a chord with you... and for the briefest moments in time, you become lost in their world. The sex part? It's great... but if you eliminate a provider JUST because she doesn't offer one of your favourite services, you probably are missing out on 99% of what she is really offering... herself. I guess it is one of the great advantages of being older and having experienced a lot of things in my youth when sex was neither as complicated or dangerous as it is now. Sure, I'd like it if we could all be worry free in the bedroom... or on the couch or the kitchen table or in the backyard... but the new reality is that we can't. We need to feel safe in what we do. But here is the bonus. Knowing that safety is a prime consideration, you can now truly experience an encounter to the fullest, knowing that there will be no debate as to covered or uncovered. It's something that you can remove from your mind, allowing you to focus on the whole experience - and when you do that, you will see what you have been missing all along. You become more engaged in the seduction. You become far more aware of her sensuality. You will stand in awe at the way she moves. You become far more aware of the way your own body reacts. You can lead and be led.... and it all stems from the fact that you KNOW what is expected and when. Just some rambling thoughts...

BBBJ or CBJ - both are fantastic !!!

Great thread and poll When I offered GFE,yes I did feel preasure to offer BBBJ. I was always on the fence with it. However I DID NOT put it in my ads as I did not want every person to think that they were entitled to that. The client that has been with me for long time,usually I would offer it,but not the fly by night client that I know nothing about I did not offer. Even then my long term client could be decieving me and I still would not know it. It is not an issue for me now as I am MA....but if I were GFE still, I think at this point, you would need to be a very very very special client for me too offer this. HFX has a huge problem right now with cyphilas, and it remindes me that the extra 50 is not worth me getting sick or passing it to my lovely hubby:(

Another hilarious, creative post by the Dog. If I may give a females perspective of the subject-since we all wear clothes now we no longer need the protection of the hair. But what is esthetically pleasing seems to somewhat follow fashion and the ever disappering isty bisty teeny weeny bikini. The smaller the swimsuit or g string and other unmentionables the more we groom so the hair isn't visible and lets face it's just more hygienic. Who wants to go down on someone with a big mound of hair there, well some I'm sure some don't mind but I would suspect with the majority of women going bare or nearly there the popular consensus would be less is better. I feel bad for the bush lovers , however I'm sure there are some women that prefer au natural as well.

Tough one... do I get a bacon sandwich after??? In this community and in this day and age, moral judgment in regard to consensual sexual conduct is frankly silly. You are a guy that doesn't want to suck cock? Okie dokie. You are a guy that wants to suck cock? Cool. You are a guy that wants to have his cock sucked by another guy? Good on ya. Bottom line. It doesn't matter. I think back to all those men and women in the truly homophobic era that had to live a lie. Men who married women and had kids who could NEVER be openly gay. Women who married men and had kids who could never be openly lesbian. It's fucking sad. In both cases they were men and women who had HETEROSEXUAL relationships but were in reality homosexual. How do you classify them? Do you need to classify them? In the end, it's all about the stigma. "oh, she's a lesbian." "you know, he's a fag." "she'll never leave the party alone, she swings both ways." Who the hell cares? A label is a way to categorize someone to whom you feel somehow superior. Whatever your sexual proclivity, it really has absolutely no bearing on your value to society.... unless you are into clown sex, then you are truly a frickin' weirdo. Seriously, your sexual appetite does not define you - it just opens avenues that others may not choose to travel... and putting a label on that avenue certainly does not make anyone a better person. Be safe, have fun and don't hurt anyone. That's my avenue.

Though I've never been to Winnipeg, I've twice had a 'taste' of Winnipeg come to me...I would recommend Soleil to leave you smiling for days, hehe.

Been doing lots of searching and stumbled across chantallove's ad. I am relatively new to SPs, but was in the mood for some fun. I browsed her website and noticed some interesting options. I chose the "special treat" and made the right decision. I won't go into great detail, as her website lists what the "special treat" is. Being new and a little nervous, she did a good job at making me feel comfortable and taking care of me as well. I would for sure make another visit, only downside would be the hours, but if I get off work early or am in the area, would enjoy seeing her again. Thanks for a great afternoon experience!