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We debate the meaning of words like "upscale" and "elite" all the time. There's no consensus about what they mean or what it takes to be entitled to use them. In general, the ladies that use them are hoping to convey the message that they are professional companions who take their work, their encounters, their clients and themselves seriously and aim to create an enjoyable, safe and confidential experience.. If you are polite, respectful, clean and appreciative, by all means, contact whomever you like. I can't think of anyone on this board who would refuse to see you just because you don't wear a suit or work in an office. In general, most of us tend to decline meeting with a prospective client for three reasons: (1) we feel we have so little in common with him that we don't think that either of us will enjoy the meeting; (2) he's attempted to negotiate fees, objects strongly to our stated limitations, or doesn't seem to listen to what we say about what we will and will not do with him; or (3) we're concerned about our safety for some reason. Trust us to protect your privacy and confidentiality and be yourself--that's really all you need to do. Oh, and have fun!

We always see post from the gentleman thanking us for our services, kindness, and telling us how much they appreciate us..., well Today I want to thank all the amazing gentlemen that are here for us... I want to send a big hug and kiss not only to those that come and visit us.., and yes provide for us.., some of us MAs or SPs.. What ever the case may be.., do this as a full time job and this means we eat, we cloth ourselves, we provide for our households, we are able to have money for fun, and in my case relief financial struggles due to different circumstances.... I also want to thank you all those gentlemen that are there to listen on a day to day, my chat friends.., or those awesome friends i have made at the socials.., and those with whom we exchange opinions, jokes and messages.... I never expected CERB to actually become part pf my life.., and meet so many wonderful people..., including the ladies.... Omg so many wonderful women, beautiful ( and i amnit just refering to external beauty) and intelligent! And MOD of course for bringing us tobether! Butt my special thank you today is to the gentleman! So now I raise my glass of wine up and say......TO THE WONDERFUL! FANTASTIC! SPECIAL! SEXY! GENTLEMEN OF CERB! CHEERS!!!!!!! Additional comments: please forgive me if there is any typos:-). Dam touch screen lol

From a personal view, an "upscale" or an "elite" companion is one with whom you would not only enjoy the pleasures of the flesh, but also the pleasures more ethereal. She would be the ideal companion for an evening, not just a moment. She is someone capable of being a dinner guest, whether it is in an intimate setting or a more formal gathering. When others see you together, they are thinking, "what does she see in him?" rather than "how much is he paying her?" She's an accomplished chameleon, adaptable to any setting. She understands the subtleties of life, that understatement is tantamount to sensuality. She makes you feel comfortable. She wears a little black dress as effectively as she wears beautiful lingerie. She is worldly and eloquent, and far more intelligent than you could ever imagine. She has a flair for knowing more about you and your desires than you thought possible. She makes you feel as if she has chosen you as a companion rather than the truth you think you know. Seduction is her field of expertise; it doesn't stop at the bedroom door. When you are with her, you understand that your needs are only part of the equation; you succumb to her desires. She makes you not only want, but need, to please her. And in the end, even if you only see her once, you will never forget your time together. That is an elite provider.

My friend... it's never easy. There is nothing to compare with what you have dealt with and are still dealing with - but you have come to a caring community. Reach out. Lots of good people willing to lend an ear here. Lots of comfort to be had. We can't replace what you have lost, but we can make the transition a little easier.

IMO the term upscale is to describe the whole experience you are in for. I myself, do not have an upscale location for incalls-however-it is clean-nicely decorated, discreet and private, but not upscale. There are a decent amount of men, who are very much into the location and atmoshphere. There are some clients who will never go to an in call unless it is high end. To each their own ;) as safety and comfort are paramount for both parties in order to have a good time. Upscale in call locations are high end hotels and higher end apt or homes. I also think the term upscale is being used a little more often to describe services due to the fact that there are so many 15 minute hit it & quit it specials, sp`s who answer their phone when they are with clients, having a ' pal`waiting (obviously) in the next room, rushed service, or the ones who like to play the upsell game once you get in the door and are undressed..all of these are SUPER TACKY & UNPROFESSIONAL TACTICS...And I think that many now use this term as a way of saying....I am not the hustle & bustle type of sp ;) And the service that I provide is Top Notch-not Womp-Wompish :boobies:

My take on it, pretty much echoing what Samantha said, but from a guy's, well this guy's point of view. Ladies want to see a client who is a gentleman. A man who treats a lady with respect, who pays the donation in full not attempting to negotiate her rate, follows her booking and screening procedures in full, not attempting to be evasive and has good hygiene. I think I covered the major points LOL Also, if a lady does decline a date, even if you have done everything right, first the lady has that right. Maybe she feels there will be no chemistry. Be respectful even if she declines you for a date, don't send back nasty emails. There is always the right lady for a guy, sometimes you may have to look. BTW my first three encounter the ladies were wrong for me, my first encounter with a lady right for me and vice versa was my fourth encounter, and she was a great companion. A gentleman who works a blue collar job but is a gentleman is someone a lady would prefer to see compared to seeing a CEO making a 7 figure income who is a jerk and treats people terribly. Some quick morning ramblings from a gentleman who isn't rich but has has some memorable encounters from ladies, some who would be called upscale elite companions RG

I would love to nominate Cristy Curves for Goddess of the Day and should have done so a bit ago. She is very giving to those on this board and provides insight and support to everyone. She has personally helped me with her knowledge and I appreciate her very much. As well, she gives in her personal life through volunteering and I'm sure makes a very positive impact. Thank you Cristy! :ThankYou: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=51462

That, ultimately, the only person you can really trust/count on/believe in/rely on/ is yourself. You may make mistakes but you always have your own back. You may do things that could hurt you but they are never done with malice. Being TOO nice can be harmful. Realizing that I need to put ME first but being able to give love to others....friends, family, pets, is very rewarding. Cooking is a great joy! Age and wisdom have made me a much more fulfilled person. I found a long lost diary from my late teens, early twenties. OMG was I really that superficial? "Suck it up Nancy" is a viable comment for those annoying whiners. Eventhough it is extremely heartbreaking to lose a pet, I am almost ready for another because I realize that the unconditional love is essential to my well being. Freaky, odd occurrences happen to remind us of our past (deep I know but I won't explain lol)

I have to live alone. No one in their right mind would live with me! lol

Just, contact her and tell her you want to e-mail her the $25. Deeper Connection was right in everything she said. A lady being shortchanged by a client is not her fault. Every SP I've seen ad's for indicate to have the donation ready and give it to her as soon as you start an encounter. As a client that's your only responsibility along with being clean and respectful. If I shortchanged a lady for whatever reason I'd feel like a total douchebag and send her double what I owed her, not sit around lamenting about how you were treated. Guys this is not rocket science, come on!

News is often about violence, death and hate. I realize this is part of how the world goes... but it seems we are often more attracted to the negative stories than the positive. I love good news stories and often seek them out. So I wanted to share one of my good news sources, for those when they are feeling suffocated with all the negativity. Check out it when you need a breath of fresh air and a feel-good story! :) Enjoy some positivity and inspiration! :) http://www.huffingtonpost.com/good-news/

That is right girl! You must feel like you are sitting in a kitchen party and over hearing people ask" who is she? Is she the real thing or not?" Must not feel very good to hear or see what people are discussing without your own voice heard! Fella's she is right here, reading, watching and listening...why not start to communicate to her directly and decide for yourself? What is the worst that can happen? Really do you think she is going to chance ruining her reputation here as she is just starting to build it? Give her a break! I do not understand why it is so complicated to figure out if you want to meet her? Is she attractive to you? Does she post on matters that concern you? Do you have anything in common? Do you like or dislike her services or rates? I think you should start to have communication with her, instead of all these posts that state" no I have not yet...."

The descriptors "upscale, elite, exclusive etc" are mostly self awarded and definitely in the eye of beholder. Just be a good guy and I wouldn't worry about measuring up. Peace MG

Wow, I live alone, and don't mind it, realize it gives you the freedom of freedom, but in the end, nothing better than having someone to share your life with, regardless of those challenges. So, unlike many others it seems, while I enjoy my time alone, I would give it up for the right person. Additional Comments: Losing a loved one can be one of the most difficult things to deal with. There will be good days and bad days. Always try to remain positive, your life is what you make of it, when possible, always look at the half-full glass, it is the best one. Best of wishes to you, and to many better days ahead.

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Living alone, it's not so bad. In fact, it's great! Who loves it?

Q: Why do men's clothes have buttons on the right while women's clothes have buttons on the left? A: When buttons were invented, they were very expensive and worn primarily by the rich. Since most people are right-handed, it is easier to push buttons on the right through holes on the left. Because wealthy women were dressed by maids, dressmakers put the buttons on the maid's right! And that's where women's buttons have remained since. Q: Why do ships and aircraft use 'mayday' as their call for help? A: This comes from the French word m'aidez -meaning 'help me' -- and is pronounced, approximately, 'mayday.' Q: Why are zero scores in tennis called 'love'? A: In France, where tennis became popular, the round zero on the scoreboard looked like an egg and was called 'l'oeuf,' which is French for 'the egg.' When tennis was introduced in the US , Americans (mis)pronounced it 'love.' Q. Why do X's at the end of a letter signify kisses? A: In the Middle Ages, when many people were unable to read or write, documents were often signed using an X. Kissing the X represented an oath to fulfill obligations specified in the document. The X and the kiss eventually became synonymous. Q: Why is shifting responsibility to someone else called 'passing the buck'? A: In card games, it was once customary to pass an item, called a buck, from player to player to indicate whose turn it was to deal. If a player did not wish to assume the responsibility of dealing, he would 'pass the buck' to the next player. Q: Why do people clink their glasses before drinking a toast? A: It used to be common for someone to try to kill an enemy by offering him a poisoned drink. To prove to a guest that a drink was safe, it became customary for a guest to pour a small amount of his drink into the glass of the host. Both men would drink it simultaneously. When a guest trusted his host, he would only touch or clink the host's glass with his own. Q: Why are people in the public eye said to be 'in the limelight'? A: Invented in 1825, limelight was used in lighthouses and theatres by burning a cylinder of lime which produced a brilliant light. In the theatre, a performer 'in the limelight' was the center of attention. Q: Why is someone who is feeling great 'on cloud nine'? A: Types of clouds are numbered according to the altitudes they attain, with nine being the highest cloud. If someone is said to be on cloud nine, that person is floating well above worldly cares. Q: In golf, where did the term 'Caddie' come from? A: When Mary Queen of Scots went to France as a young girl, Louis, King of France, learned that she loved the Scots game 'golf.' He had the first course outside of Scotland built for her enjoyment. To make sure she was properly chaperoned (and guarded) while she played, Louis hired cadets from a military school to accompany her. Mary liked this a lot and when returned to Scotland (not a very good idea in the long run), she took the practice with her. In French, the word cadet is pronounced 'ca-day' and the Scots changed it into caddie. Q: Why are many coin banks shaped like pigs? A: Long ago, dishes and cookware in Europe were made of a dense orange clay called 'pygg'. When people saved coins in jars made of this clay, the jars became known as 'pygg banks.' When an English potter misunderstood the word, he made a container that resembled a pig. And it caught on. So there you are! Now you know!

I wholeheartedly agree with this. And may even argue that because of that fact, the terms have kind of lost any meaning in this industry. Use of these terms in ads does not guarantee anything; and lack of these terms certainly does not mean that a lady's offerings are any less in quality. I have never used the term "upscale" in my advertising, nor "elite" or "classy", but I still consider myself to be accomplished, eloquent and intelligent; and my company to be top notch, memorable and worthy of true, discerning gentlemen. Adjectives are all fine and dandy and definitely have their place, but for myself, I find that there is more effective ways to get across a message, show who I am and what I am all about. The proof is in the pudding, anyways. ;) Employ common sense, be a gentleman and educate yourself on the workings of the industry, and you can see just about any lady your heart and cock desires. ;)

The tighter the hotter, as long as you aren't shopping at Walmart!!!

they make my ass look great, and are so comfy you could probably sleep in them. HOT.

Just a quick thought.... Upscale,VIP,Elite are terms used widely, don't ever distance yourself from the terminology used by these beautiful women. They are genuine down to earth ladies the provide you with a experience that you will want to experience again and again. Regardless if you wear a suit, or if you wear casual wear like myself, I'm not there to "dress to impress", I'm there to fulfill our experience together.

I'm so sorry to hear that. I found that animals helped me transition to solitary life. I hate to suggest anti-depressants, but should you find yourself in a deep depression, they may be an option; just do your research beforehand.

That hindsight is not in fact 20/20 (how we remember the past is often as distorted as how we predict the future). That the hardest person to forgive is often yourself. That it is, nevertheless, important to try. That taking chances is worth the risk the failure. That everyone has different beliefs, but most have good intentions. ...and (one slightly less philosophical) that being a Toronto Maple Leaf fan means learning how to deal with disappointment!

Like other individuals in other careers, we have personal lives, friends, boyfriends and family. No where was it suggested she had a guy lingering around. Consider the damage you are doing to a ladies finances by posting such assumptions as pimps etc. All providers who value their safety have a safety network whether it is a friend, boyfriend, family etc. This guy shorted her, and didn't want to make it right. A phone call to tell him he should give the lady the difference he short changed her from a third party is hardly evidence of her being pimped out! As I stated before, had he paid her the agreed upon rate before the encounter began like it should be this call he received wouldn't have happened. No one else has posted similar issues as they didn't intentionally short her on her rate. She certainly doesn't deserve to lose potential business of respectful, appreciative gentlemen over this sort of incident. This is more protective friend or boyfriend trying to get the guy to do the right thing which was return with the difference she was shorted so all would be well again, with everyone happy. Please guys, this pimping stereotype can destroy a ladies income, please don't throw out the suggestion of pimps so lightly.

Don't wait until you are terminally ill to tell the people you care for that you do care about them. RG

I have learned the voice in my head is never wrong. I have learned we create exactly what we want simply by thinking of it. I have learned anyone with a strong mind and intent can do anything.

May I ask why you didn't simply request a bit more light for your session if you found her room to dark. Had you had the rate prepared for her as most others usually do, there should have been no issue with her receiving what you claim was a good rate for her hh service. Admitting you gave her 15 instead of 40 and using the lighting of her room as your excuse is in very poor taste. How do you think it made her feel to be short changed by a stranger she just offered intimacy to? I'm not saying it is right to be contacted by someone other than her, especially a male, but to jump to conclusions that it was a pimp and not simply her boyfriend is also rather rude. She was probably very upset she got duped out of a portion of her rate after providing you with her body on a intimate level. There is nothing worse than the feeling of having thought you were offering services to a gentlemen who winds up showing a total lack of respect to a woman after she has been intimate with you. I understand she should have counted her rate, but the way you have written your post feels like you are blaming her for her not getting paid in full. Several things happened here that could have been easily avoided. You could have had the rate for the time you had requested counted and placed in an envelope for her to receive upon your arrival to her incall. She then could have quickly double checked it while you washed up for your encounter. At which time you could have easily asked for more light for your session with her. Despite the bf/pimp claim, nobody else so far has stated any similar experience likely because they did not short change her on her rate. Now on top of shorting her rate, you have chosen to post this, which could now cost her more than you care to appreciate! All that for accepting your request for an intimate rendezvous. Doesn't sound very fair to me. She should have received what she quoted her rate as, upon your arrival and before you received her services. I find it disturbing that so many ladies are being claimed pimped. This is Winnipeg after all. Don't assume we wouldn't have security measures in place for our safety. You aren't the first or the last client to short a sp. By posting this you are inviting the possibly that others may now attempt to do the same. I feel very sorry for this provider and can imagine the regret she is feeling in regards to your encounter. I think the way you chose to post this was in very poor taste. I do realize my opinion is will not be that well received by some, so be it. It is not my intention to offend but shed a little light to the damage something like this is going to cost this provider in the long run. After all this is how she is supporting herself. Imagine if you will, having your income and job affected by a half hour incall with a provider.

I walked into my local video store today. (Ya I know, that's so 20th century!) They had a section of movies devoted to Roger Ebert with short quotes for each one. The fun part was that some of them were movies he had given a "thumbs down" to. Valentine's Day: "Valentine's Day is being marketed as a Date Movie. I think of it as more of a First-Date Movie. If your date likes it, do not date that person again. And if you like it, there may not be a second date." Pearl Harbor: "Pearl Harbor is a two hour movie squeezed into three hours." Witness:Armageddon: "The movie is an assault on the eyes, the ears, the brain, common sense, and the human desire to be entertained. No matter what they are charging to get in, it's worth more to get out." Of course Ebert wasn't just a master of the thumbs down put down. He displayed a great sense of insight and empathy and used his reviews as a springboard to touch on many subjects. "We are put on the planet only once and to limit ourselves to the familiar is a crime against our minds." "Your intellect may be confused, but your emotions will never lie to you." "What I believe is that all clear-minded people should remain two things throughout their lifetimes: curious and teachable." "I began to realize that I had tended to avoid some people because of my instant conclusions about who they were and what they would have to say. I discovered that everyone, speaking honestly and openly, had important things to tell me." "I believe empathy is the most important quality of civilization." "The problem with being sure God is on your side is that you can't change your mind, because God sure isn't going to change his."

It allows me to appreciate and savor the distinct aroma of my farts.

A nice big slice of white cake... in bed too! :) Yum. I love my life.

I absolutely love leggins... they are so Comfy and like Cristy sadi they are fashionable.. you can make them look either casual or classy.., and they make my butt look yummi too hehehe

Saturday Maya 10-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Kelly 10-9 aka "Kelly2010" Jennie 10-9 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Sunday Maya 10-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Kelly 10-4 aka "Kelly2010" Robyn 10-4 Welcome Back aka "robynxoxo" Tiffany 4-9 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Lexi 3:30-9 aka "Sexy Lexi" Monday Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Robyn 10-2 Welcome Back aka "robynxoxo" Taylor 10-7 aka "Taylor_xo" Maya 3:30-11 aka "MidnightMaya" Lexi 1:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Tuesday Lexi 10-5:30 aka "Sexy Lexi" Nicky 10-3:30 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Taylor 10-7 aka "Taylor_xo" Hannah 3-11 aka "Hannahxo" Jenna 5-11 aka "Jenna69" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Wednesday Nicky 10-5:30 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Katrine 10-4 aka "Katrine Cannon" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Taylor 3:30-11 aka "Taylor_xo" Lexi 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Jenna 5-11 aka "Jenna69" Thursday Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMER LOVE" Tiffany 10-7 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Maya 3:30-11 aka "MidnightMaya" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Friday Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Robyn 10-4 Welcome Back aka "robynxoxo" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Katrine 3:30-11 aka "Katrine Cannon" Tiffany 3:30-11 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Maya 3:30-11 aka "MidnightMaya" Saturday Maya 10-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Kelly 10-9 aka "Kelly2010" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Hannah 3:30-9 aka "Hannahxo" Sunday Maya 10-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Robyn 10-9 Welcome Back aka "robynxoxo" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Lexi 3:30-9 aka "Sexy Lexi"

Hot or not I love wearing them and do so casually or more dressed up. They are comfortable, fashionable and versatile to wear.

To be me and proud of who I am. Stop being a people pleaser to avoid conflict. There is negativity all around but not to let it in. Enjoy life to the fullest and have fun doing it! Don't give the time or energy to anyone that has nothing postive to bring to my life and disregard all negative and unproductive people. I enjoy volunteering. I love to clean, for fun! I'm much stronger than I could have ever imagined. I have a huge heart and I'm beautiful inside and not just outside. To be proud of all of my accomplishments and exceeding all my educational goals. What to do next?? I love that my friends know they can count on me and that I am very honest and loyal. Life isn't always easy but I wouldn't choose another life, my life has made me the woman I am today. My gut and mind are the best tools I have. I have some very amazing and enjoyable talents. I love my life!! This list will grow................for sure!!

My wish list is all MAs right now. Claire Heavens (indy) Nadja @ CMJ Crystal @ Angels (if she comes back) Gina (indy) Alexxandria (ALO) Katrine (indy) Robyn @ Angels Mandy @ Angels Mandy @ CMJ Courtney @ CMJ Anna @ GHS Yeah that looks good.. should keep me busy for a few months :) Polydeuces

Made it through the worst day of every year, the anniversary of my mom's painful death. Tonight I will have a Jim Beam and water and listen to some Anne Murray, which is what she would be doing on Friday night in Heaven!

DC, great post, I wouldve been horrified if I mistakenly short changed someone for a session. And I wouldve hightailed back to rectify it no threats required, apologizing all the way. Bad form dude.

Sane, kind, tough and perceptive as always, DC!

i happen to know Julize on a persomal level please pm me with any questions.

I love it. I have lived with both men and women and now just me and my dogs and wouldn't change that for anything -except for possibly adding more dogs, lol. Solitude can be wonderful, as is not answering to anyone. But whatever your living accommodations are enjoy, as your home should be your sanctuary, your safe place . Where you absolutely can be your ideal and complete self.

X for xylophone as in " Play my bone like a xylophone"

A beer means you get the safe BFE... the only exchange of fluids is your beer in our bellies!!! BFE: LAYN (look at you nekkid) GAB (get a boner) WPOTV (watch porn on TV) ECT (eat cheezies together) TYB (touch your boobies) GAB2 (get another boner) GJAMHGWI (grab junk and make helicopter gestures with it) LBALYDYSTU (lay back and let you do your stuff to us) MSSN (make silly sex noises) DYB (drink your beer) FAOC (fall asleep on couch) GAB3 -- (get another boner, your mileage may vary) PWABIOD (pass wind and blame it on dog) We offer unrushed safe BFE for a beer. It has to be cold and unopened. Skunky beer will mean we will only get one boner.

Hello Drjixxx, you may want to consult the official 2013 duo thread and then go on to read the recent recos. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=117343 have fun, toine

This thread hits close to my heart. Thank you, Karina, for being so forthcoming and honest about your feelings. It has created a safe environment for people to post about their own experiences. Hopefully we can all learn from one another, and move forward with compassion, kindness, and love for ourselves. Perhaps this isn't the appropriate place or time to discuss my experiences, but this story might illuminate the complexities of loving people, regardless of whether the relationship is bounded by the particular circumstances of the SP/client relationship. I hope this helps, Karina, and I hope others who are reading are compassionate and understanding. In May 2011, a client and I fell in love. Was it wrong? Definitely not. Was it complicated? Very. We had so much in common and he inspired me. He encouraged me to apply to law school, write poetry, start a blog, and share my thoughts with the world. At one point he bought me a beautiful leather bound journal and said I inspired him as well. We wrote e-mails to each other endlessly, and saw each other approximately every two weeks. He was writing a novel, and I was reading it and providing him feedback on it. The novel's love story turned out to be representative of the love he and I shared. As he learned more about my life, he would integrate those moments into the narrative. It was beautiful to see our love story unfold both on paper, via e-mail, and in real life. The problem: he was single but contemplating getting back together with his ex and I was in a relationship with a woman I married several months later. While on a trip to Chicago, he and I decided to part ways. After a morning of blissful relaxation, lovemaking, kissing, and caressing, we went out for lunch. I looked at him and said I felt very confused and conflicted. I told him I loved him, but that it was complicated. I asked him what we were doing, and whether we wanted to move forward with a 'relationship'. With hindsight, I recognize that we were already in a relationship, simply a relationship of a different nature. Neither of us had satisfying answers. My relationship with this client was bounded by the financial exchange, but I knew I would lose my relationship with my partner if I continued to see him. We walked to Millenium Park and sat on a bench, and watched people walk by. We held hands, and we both cried and mourned the end of our relationship. While he and I were negotiating my departure from Chicago (and the relationship) we had doubts. He said "even how we have discussed this, with so much love, compassion, and understanding, makes me wonder whether we are making a mistake Nathalie" I shook my head, I wasn't sure. I went home to my partner, told her what happened, and that was the beginning of the end of my relationship with her. We separated in the summer of 2012. At the time, I made the decision that made sense for me. I have no regrets. However, Karina, I would ask that you not romanticize relationships that aren't bounded by a financial exchange. Money does not necessarily corrupt authentic love and intimacy, rather, it's our discomfort with the idea of mixing both that causes tension. I think it's important to keep in mind that most relationships have unnegotiated financial dynamics (for example, many marriages and long-term relationships) which can cause much more tension than the honest and open communication that's possible with clients in this industry. If it feels right to you, then tell him, whilst simultaneously keeping in mind all the questions, comments, and concerns raised by Samantha Evans as well as others. None of us are walking in your shoes (or his). Wanting to keep love, intimacy, and care in one world, and money in another is what most people do, but we should all have a better understanding of what really happens in this industry... it is so much more complicated than that, isn't it?

Old dogs advice is the best you'll get I'm sure, so well put OD, but I'd be interested in what Cat has to say, hopefully she'll respond. This is a tricky subject-no pun intended.In the begining my attitude towards clients was somewhat guarded and impersonal. For many reasons, I was versed that this business wasn't about being warm and intimate but about sex, straight sex, which as I knew it was all about the genitals and genitals alone. Also those whom I knew in the business had coached me into thinking that these men involved just wanted my body and would never think anything nice about me afterwards.Then I came hear-cerb, still guarded, then I was introduced to the gfe session. I was shocked that so many men wanted to caress me, kiss me, get to know me and not to simply use my body. So the point to this rant is feelings do sometimes evolve in these types of encounters,especially with gents you see over and over. How could they not, we share intimacy,passion,feelings and if all the stars align and your match comes along you are going to fall, nothing wrong with that. Your feelings are yours, express them keeping in mind the upsides and downs to doing so and prepare yourself for both. If you feel you know him well enough then you should have a sense of how he'll react as well. After all his feelings have to be taken into account as well. What ever you decide to do my dear remember wanting /caring/desiring someone is never wrong, you are lucky you have found someone you can want. Best of luck.

While you may not ask or even find justification necessary, I have encountered patrons who have been... Judgmental, at best, with regards to dancers not having anything else "going on" (be it schooling, another job, or a child). Of course, there are also those dancers who use the justification as a hustle, or simply come up with wild cover stories out of boredom because they also want some entertainment. As with most things that come out of a dancer's mouth during your time in the club, you shouldn't read too much into them. ;) Just enjoy the interaction or thank her for her time and let her move on if you can't.

Peachy and I have never met... but we have engaged in a number of conversations over the past few weeks. The more I speak to her, the more I appreciate her. In fact, her sense of conviction, her willingness to speak out on something for which she feels strongly, makes her all the more attractive in my mind. So here's to you my dear. Kudos to an admirable recipient!!! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=18359 and here's a look at 12 PAGES of recos!!! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=P&t=4309

I always like to pleasure my lady first,by sensual kissing,erotic touching,exploring her body from head to yes toes too!, giving her long lasting oral (which I thoroughly enjoy and getting most excellent at with age and experience ;) ) In a particular hour appointment I like to explore her first so she can orgasm and enjoy herself. It actually really turns me on when she grabs my hair on my head,and pulls or pushes my head deeper between her legs. It is a known fact is most men really don't last a real long time penetrating, therefore personally I like mutual satisfaction. I normally enjoy the ride at the end of the date, and stop and use multiple positions. Eroticism and sensuality go hand in hand, pleasure each other and it will leave you breathless and sore muscles after,if done correctly by both parties.Both of you will enjoy it more,at least that is what I find.