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Cristy, As a general rule we are all very well aware that when it comes to affairs of the penis most men tend to revert teenage boys when presented with a beautiful sensual woman and the very likely prospect that we'll get getting lucky. Its like our penis turns off something in our brains. I get so nervous when meeting with an SP that I actually have to consciously filter everything I say very carefully so that I don't end up blubbering on like a complete idiot. As a result of this conscious filter I have been told that I speak exactly like I write which is funny because in writing you almost always get a chance to proof read what you want to say before sending it out there. So I'm quite sure that in person I come off as a dork rather than a sauve and sexy gent. I've got to know one SP pretty well since starting and after many hours together I'm just getting to the point where the sickening nervousness doesn't get me and I'm just me. I'm pretty sure you can chalk those oddball comments up to nerves for the most part. However, the feet or voice comment I might make myself :)

Just wanted to let everyone know, that I should clarify what I meant by "dramatic". For those of us who knew her, in the light of what was happening to her at that time in her life such as her ongoing personal issues, which was soon followed completely unexpectedly by that overwhelming family tragedy, it is not surprising if she now remembers those events a bit more mystically than before. She was already having a tough time, and it only got worse. Trauma and tragedy amplifies memories.

Well lets face it we all can.:icon_biggrin: Lately I've heard a few silly comments, although I'm sure they weren't meant to rude, insulting or silly. But if I might say, gentlemen, when meeting an sp, for a good start to a session it might be a good idea to start off with a complimentary statement or just an I'm glad to see you, or it's nice to finally meet, ect, not......... 1.oh I see you fake your height! Well I am 5ft9, so no, but I do wear heels, like most ladies, and in them I appear very tall, over 6ft. So even though I know what he meant it wasn't the nicest way to put it. 2.Are those real? lol, well we all know by now! Do you really need to ask? Ladies nowadays add to their nails, hair, eyelashes and yes boobs, just appreciate them don't question them, not on an appointment at least. 3.Oh, your voice doesn't match your pictures, wha? So is that a good thing? This isn't appropriate either especially when you don't follow it up with a it's much nicer or it's sexier, some compliment.After all I have a nice voice! 4.How long have you been doing this? Wha-again, hmmm perhaps today I look a little more tired than usual? I wonder. But my response always will be -not as long as you!! Does it really matter how long either of us having been doing "this."After all you wanted to meet and we are both here so lets make it fun not awkward! 5.oh, your feet are soft! Ahhh, are'nt they supposed to be? 6.You seem very intelligent-seem?? Not sure how to respond to that one other than, well maybe thats because I am. These are the funniest ones of late , I had to mention them just to give some gentlemen an idea as to whats not a good idea to say-especially on a first meeting.

When it comes to making comments that you probably shouldn't most women have a strong intuitive sense about what type of man they are dealing with. (Maybe more so in this business.) Ladies can tell if your an insensitive guy who thinks he's hot shit or a genuinely good, loveable guy who has an innate ability to put his foot in his mouth. As such, usually the ladies reaction will correspond to the "type" of man who's made the comment. i.e. punch to the throat versus a playful tap and her saying, "you're terrible". Basically, be thoughtful but don't worry too much. If you're one of the "good guy's" the lady can tell and deal with you accordingly.

Makes one wonder about the mindset of some clientele. Are they really there for the experience of being with some marvelously gifted entrepreneurial person? One would hope that their brain was engaged when choosing a service provider for the date. Otherwise, they are really missing out, if they think all it is is the physical. I too have been speechless or a had a case of the starters on first introductions. But hopefully they have picked up that the reaction was due to the depth of presence and all that was conveyed. I admit once a sex worker gave me a quick visual flash while passing by. I forgot where I was driving my scooter for the moment and hit the restaurant wall. It did cause a bit of excitement with the maître d' and staff. I think I was more in shock then she was. The wall just came out of nowhere :) a humbling experience and the rest of the date went extremely well. PatrickGC

Hi all this is outdoorslover under my new name. This is a thread i wanted to post for a wile as it is important to me. I have always been someone who stands out form the crowd and will not let people change the person i am on the inside. but because of this i have had a lot of people judge my without knowing who i really am, i have always been a bit over wait but have always tried to help anyone i can. people always jump to what they want to think with out seeing who the person is or what the situation is. i have had this happen to me even just this month, and i have even seen it here on cerb with a couple of people not understanding the situation some sp are in. I know this is just from my pov but i know lots of people who are great and wonderful but have been judged ether by there looks, opinions, or even for no reason at all and it is a sad thing indeed. I know that even people reading this will judge me as i there a nice person or a sap but this is who i am and what i think. and i want every one who reads this to not let others change who you are inside and to always see the true person in others. Again i think that cerb is a great place and most of the people here know this but i just wanted to give everyone a little pick me up just incase they needed it. I will leave everyone with a couple of quotes as i love them. "Never judge a mans actions until you know his motives" -Paulo Coelho "It is easy to see the faults of others but difficult to see one's own. A man winnows his neighbor's faults like chaff but conceals his own as a cunning gambler conceal his die" -Buddha "You're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter" -Nicholas Sparks Have a great and safe day everyone :)

Sometimes the hardest person to be is yourself because everyone has an opinion of who you are/should be. Not only that but most of us have grown up being told we have to do this or that in order to please others or be accepted or to get along. No wonder it takes us so long to start listening to ourselves. One of my favorite sayings is "I never said it would be easy but it will be worth it". When you start listening to your heart and believing in yourself and keeping those who try to tear you down at arms length whether they be family or friends, it's not easy but so worth it. When you find yourself judging, step back to get a different perspective, look at how that person might have gotten where they are, not easy but so worth it. Trying to focus on the positive and turning negative into positive, so not easy but so worth it. It's even more difficult in this industry because you are judged on so many things and some that don't really mean much. This is when it's really important to believe in yourself and know who you are and what you have to offer.

Even as a confident, experienced provider like myself, I too have gotten nervous to meet a client for the first time. I have said some pretty silly things...like the Gent just told me what he does for a living, then stupid me, I go ask a 2nd time! Gawd, did I just say that??? I laugh at myself! So I would not think that Dumb is the word, just nervous, that is all. Most of the people I encounter are smart, successful men who just tripped over their words in the glow of radiating beauty, hehehe...

There are many less fortunate people around the world who are hungry or sick or forced homeless due to war or natural disasters or even closer to home those charities providing shelters to battered women and those help runaway kids or put food on the tables for the poor and carry out many other good deeds. There are many charities which you can find by a simple Google search and choose the one(s) to your liking. I can guarantee that you will be rewarded big time. Remember if your finances allow hobbying it also should allow you to donate to good causes a bit. Think of the sick and hungry and rest assure that you can't wish it away, but only if you act as the song says tears are not enough anymore. Forgot about political corruptions overseas (in Canada at least it goes to the needy so no excuse for not giving to local charities) as the established charities (i.e World Vision) have ways to ensure it gets to the needy, especially their impressive child sponsorship programs which you receive letters and pictures of your (sponsored) children as they grow up. If you don't believe in heaven then I promise that you will be rewarded in this world as I was today. Yes today when I was filling my tax return I calculated an impressive sum back as governments (both Federal and provincial) return a big chunk of charity donations (I believe as much as 35% to 40% of my total donation. Now the dilemma is whether I donate what I will receive back to charities or I would instead spend it on myself....hmmmm Oh I think I will act a bit selfish and have a combined strip bar/escort using a good portion of my return one weekend lol :).

I strongly feel the same hun!! I give to charities, weekly, monthly and daily:) I do it because I have been blessed with the ability to be able! It doesn't matter how much or how often! But rest assure, I try to make a difference to at least one person daily! I foster a child, I also help my beloved family in Cuba, the dogs I work with at my local vet, food banks that I buy a bag of food for, IT ALL COUNTS, FOR SOMEONE, SOMEWHERE, SOMEDAY! thanks for this great post!

I can't remember the last time this happened BUT I am excited to say I didn't receive any cancellations this week, that's right, not one lol so I am a happy camper! A nice way to start my weekend with a big smile :)

I have found that it can be hit and miss on BP, although I have had some great visits with girls from there, the percentage of 'misses' is much greater that those I have met on CERB. I have had mostly good meetings with individuals here and they come across as more 'professional' and not just looking for the quick buck. There are those who advertise in both places and therefore can be 'cross referenced' is an added plus (seems to make good sense to me). I guess for newbies it is a matter of finding CERB in the first place and then using it as an added tool in your quest to meet extraordinary ladies. HHE

So you are aware it has been bought by different folks, and that the old management is gone, but you choose to libel the new owners/management as being harassers and exploiters? I would suggest unless you have some proof of your accusations you keep your libelous musings to yourself.

Well, I'm a stripclub fan as well as a massage fan, and the same questions get asked about both activities by fans of SP's. SP fans can't understand why you would ever go to massage, if you can go to an escort. And massage and SP fans can't understand why you would go to a stripclub. The answer is that each kind of activity is what you can make out of it. There is more service available at each of these activities than you assume. Also at a stripclub, you can find many different girls all in one place, and you get a chance to try as many or as few of them as you like, but you have the choice to pick and choose. Me? My method is to see a girl for usually no more than two or three dances, and move onto the next worthy one. It satisfies my need for extreme variety.

Oy, some of those are cringe-worthy. Speaking as a man, I can regrettably confirm that yes, we say some dumb stuff. On behalf of my gender let me say we appreciate that you all put up with us! :) As nlwoodchurck says, you can probably attribute most of them to nervousness. And Miss Sophia is right that the more stunning the Lady the more stumbling the man will likely be. So I suppose in a way you could take odd lines as a good sign.;) Nevertheless, Cristy, those are definitely some good tips for a first greeting you've shared. A few thoughts: 1) I'd never have equated heels with "faking height". I don't know many guys that don't think a Lady in heels is sexy, plain and simple (well, maybe "plain" isn't the best word :bowdown:). 2) I've never understood the need to ask "are those real". I'm more with the line of thinking "if I can touch them, they're real!" :) 3) A follow-up compliment confirming that by "not expected" one means "better than expected" is definitely the way to go (as an aside, you do indeed have a very nice voice!). 4) Facepalm. Nuff said. 5) I have to admit I can understand giving a line like this. Eyes are generally beautiful, feet soft, and hair shiny, but sometimes they are especially so and such observations can be hard not to make, especially if it's favourite a feature. 6) The dreaded "seems like"! I confess I've been guilty of this one in the past, and always want to bite my tongue once the word escapes. As you observe it's not intended to be rude but does turn a compliment into a puzzle. So yes people, for the love of god and chocolate (whichever you worship) leave out the word "seems"!

I love the quotes you provided, thank you.But unfortunately people judge, some do it purposefully and others without intent. But people are people no matter where you find them so there is no safe place to get away from judgement, other than within your own frame of mind. By knowing yourself and as you say by not allowing anyone to change your opinion of yourself. On one of my web pages I included a saying I copied, "what matters most is how you see yourself". No better advice imo. It's taken me alot of years to learn this and follow it but finally I do, there is not a person on this planet that will convince me that I'm anything other than a nice, genuine, kind and caring person, no one! Lol, although some try. I like your post, great advice and thank you for it.:icon_biggrin:

"The reports of my death have been greatly exaggerated." Mark Twain Strip clubs are NOT going away, at least in the immediate future. The argument that money could be spent with escorts or massage works HERE on CERB, not there in the real world. I'm pulling this out of my butt, but I would say that probably 90% of the guys that go into a strip club stop there. That's the extent of their naughty fun. They sit in perverts row, have a few beers, MAYBE get a couple of CR dances and go home to their wives... and they do that BECAUSE they can't get past that mental block of physical "cheating." You can get away with a strip club in terms of GUILT... and as long as the outlet to see naked women exists, men will keep going. The internet is like playboy or porn on the big screen - it's exciting but it's not IN YOUR FACE exciting. Locations may come and go... but the death knell for the industry is far from being rung.

Hello:-) Its my last day next Monday then I am gone until May 10th. Ill be working 1-6 :-) Pls pm me or book online on the spa's website. See you Monday :-) and if not hope everyone has a terrific start of May. For those who haven't met me yet. Im tall and slim, brown eyes and highlighted hair. Give an amazing un-rushed sensual massage. Im down to earth and love meeting new people. I have many reviews - Look up Jordyn in 'Search' Feel free to msg me with any questions or if you'd like to book an appt. xoxo Jordyn

You don't want to work a winnipeg agency. They won't screen your clients and will take a very large percentage of your earnings. If you are looking for something safe and easy to get comfortable within this business I would recommend having a look at executive bath. They have a virtual tour that gives you an idea of the interior. I worked on and off there for several years. Management is strict but I do feel they want what is best for the girls, your uniform is a one piece bathing suit and you get to chill in jetted tubs, give massages and little happy endings. They aren't a FS establishment though some girls apparently break the rules. It's a good place to learn the clients, and get familiar with the industry without throwing yourself in head first. I found CERB had tons of info that helped me when I started as an Indie. I probably read the entire board 3 times at least.

Its been a slow day. My highlight is my 400th post. That and the sunny afternoon weather.

Speaking for Ottawa alone, the media now contacts POWER (Prostitutes of Ottawa-Gatineau Work, Educate, Resist), a local sex worker advocacy group made up of current and former sex workers when they are doing articles related to sex work. The fact that they are even thinking of sex workers themselves before doing their articles speaks volumes. Sex workers never used to be consulted before.

Not everyone knows about cerb. I can't tell you how many gents I introduce to our wonderful site and therefor I believe that not all ladies know about it either. This site grows daily and it grows because the users promote it! Diamonds can be found in any rough!

Lingerie at the door is definately not my thing. I prefer to have a "genuine" experience, which means having the SP dress according to the situation. For me, maintaining the illusion that I'm not in a paid scenario goes along way toward my enjoyment of the encounter. I wear suits everyday, and love when I can just kick back in some relaxing jeans and a tee and if given a choice I'd prefer to see an SP in the same way. I find something very sexy about seeing a lady in jeans a plain white top and bare feet. Casual, relaxed but smouldering hot.

Darlign gloryhole, I am truly sorry for your loss. I worked as a grief recovery facilitator for 13 years and I don't think you are ready for an intimate encounter at this point. I gently suggest you take a peek at The Grief Recovery Institute. They are leaders at helping people move thru loss and it's important that you address the situation head on. There are programs across the country and their handbook The Grief Recovery Handbook that you can pick up at any book store. Here is the website... http://www.grief.net/ I wish you all the best, please know there is a path forward... cat

Hey there sweetie. I love that you are still devoted to your wife and understand the pain you feel. I am not out where you are, but wanted to drop a line. Sometimes, it is easier to start new with someone different then someone similar then the love of your life. You have felt some deep losses and it is always hard to move on. Just take it one day at a time, grieve your losses, love the gift she gave you (your child) and understand it is ok to feel like why..... One day you will be ready. In the meantime, give yourself some time to heal and grow. It does not always make sense, but eventually you will meet someone you can share a new intimacy. Love and blessings. Meaghan xoxo

It's been in the news, and my heart just aches for that poor woman, Susan Griffiths, that had to travel all the way to Switzerland to end her suffering. We do it for our pets why shouldn't it be allowed for ourselves and our loved ones. It easy to understand the need especially when you watch a loved dwindle and die from a terminal illness, it's inhumane and demoralizing for the person dying to allow them to linger, jmo, what are your thoughts.

The two publications at this link are part of a 3-year research project by Chris Bruckert at U of Ottawa and Tuulia Law, and a community advisory committee composed of Maggie's, POWER, Stella and Stepping Stone. "Rethinking Management in the Adult and Sex Industry" "Beyond Pimps, Procurers and Parasites: Mapping Third Parties in Incall/Outcall Sex Industry" Both of these are comprehensive, valuable publications, providing excellent summaries of the current laws related to prostitution in Canada as well as great analysis of the management models prostitutes use, including agencies, pimps, secretaries, booking agents, drivers and web designers.

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Lmao ya some of those things does sound ear gringing. the good thing for me is I tend to be pretty shy and tend not to talk much. I usually follow the ladies lead. I eventually open up and probably said a few things I haven't, but it would completely unintentionally. I can even see myself say to someone that they have soft feet. Cause mine are rough as hell! In my personal life I have to admit I often say things but don't mean it the way it sounds and usually gets taking out of context then I have to explain myself without doing it again. So whether its a guy thing or not I'm guilty to some degree.

Perhaps that's what I don't really understand. I haven't been to the CR often enough to know how one's mileage might vary. I see your point about the variety but I guess that's where math kicks in for me. Two or three dances with three or four girls equals six to twelve dances at $20 a pop (I think?) is starting to get up into the range of what you pay for an hour of full service. As you say, they're all different experiences and different strokes for different folks. I think I'm just an SP kind of guy. I don't really even like seeing an MA because of the lack of participation on my part. Just not comfortable lying there having someone do stuff to me.

Jenny and Valaska are day girls so while they're (well, Jenny at least. not sure about Valaska lately) usually in on Fridays, they're usually gone by 5-6pm.

I seem to be missing the filter that most normal people have between their brain and their mouth so I'm notorious for saying dumb, thoughtless or insensitive things that I don't realize were so until afterwards. I never mean any harm but often find myself backpedaling because of blurting out something stupid. With regard the the "Are those real?" question, perhaps you should just answer, "Yeah. Real expensive." ;-)

I have to agree with you Cristy. I know only to well about this kind of quality of life. My Mom at the very young age had Alzheimer's and I mean very young. We watched our Mother die a slow and in a way pain full death. It took 6 years to take her life. We watched her ever day as the disease progressed to become an infant again. She could no longer eat, walk,talk or even go to the bathroom.She didn't even know who I was. In the end pneumonia took he life because of being bed ridden. Could I/we have allowed someone to assist her in her death? I know I couldn't make that decision,even though I knew there was no cure and the only outcome was for her to pass. She could not make that decision on her own because by then she would be considered of not sound mind or body. We are the greedy ones because we as human beings can't let go of a LOVED one. It is not in our nature. But yes I do agree with someone that is suffering should have a choice. As long as they are of sound mind, to make that decision.

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The only time I have ever requested money up front is if I have to travel a long distance and I do ask for a deposit. I would not ask for the whole amount though, just a sign of good faith that the gent is going to actually be there when I arrive for our appointment. I would not ask for a deposit if the call was in the same city I am in. Not sure if this helps or not.

Before delving into the links Samantha's posted in her opening message for this thread I feel that it is important to point out that the industry as a whole is making progress. However like all issues which involve social change on a deep level this takes tremendous amounts of effort, commitment and time. The questions being raised go to the very heart of how people treat each other not only in intimate ways, but on a social day-to-day level as well. The implications are far-reaching from the obvious sex worker and client all the way to how care is provided in the medical system. Because again we are talking about human needs and not just the bare essentials to keep someone alive. Indeed, the battle for the rights and safety of sex workers challenges many boundaries people have erected to ignore other's humanity. This is why there are so many factions and extreme viewpoints. But things are changing for the better in a fair number of areas: --]/b] The media is beginning to carry alternate not quite so slanted articles and debates. --]/b] Health departments across Canada are beginning to quietly and honestly talk about sexual needs. [Thank goodness for horny, loudmouthed people in wheelchairs etc.!] And despite the prevalence of the "Nordic model solution" in right wing articles, I believe that the general public is beginning to consider the sex industry as a legitimate and desired career choice. PatrickGC

I may be able to help as I have offered massage to couples. If you have to convince your partner, it may lead to someone feeling out of their comfort zone and create an uncomfortable situation. My suggestion is to look through the site for providers that offer this service and have your partner decide on whom they're interested in and make contact. That way, she'll feel at ease and be a part of the communication. Usually there's more attention focused on your partner in the introduction. It takes us a little longer to warm up. ;) Couples massage is wonderful, but within mutual agreement and understanding.

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We all start somewhere.. But you are one of the luckyones and now you have found the light at the end of the tuner ;) As an MA I still advertiae in other sites, but to be honest, but I am a cerb lady, and I would not want it other wise... I think I do the adds on the other sites becuse there is.a few good apples that yet are to find Cerb... Clients and ladoes... And they need to be saved, ;)

Well fellas....I got us .... I mean I HAD us one of them there turkey cooker thingies to do up some wingies .... BUT ...... Either I got mixed up, drunk or nobody told me to put oil in it and not moonshine .... It don't work anymore :(

How to properly ask for this? Well, I think for you it will be easy, just ask for it the way you did in your post. It is that easy! I like all the things you like and experience them by just asking. As for GFE, I do not have anything to tell you, because I do not really understand the term myself, even though there is lots said about it in other threads. it appears to mean different things for different people. I never use the term. "Girl friend Experience"? What is that? I am an experienced older hobbyist, and in my view I much rather work on the reality that we are hobbyist and provider rather than the fantasy of being girlfriend/boyfriend. That way I can focus on being the best client I can for the encounter to be all it can be, and the provider can do the same.

I know very well that she cannot replace my wife, was never looking for her too! That is an impossibility. Since I joined cerb I have contemplated seeing an SP found a couple that really peaked my interest. Due to my reserved and shy nature I could never follow thru I couldn't even finish an email. I do not wish to date or meet someone I'm not there yet but this passionate desire I have for an intimate encounter is surreal. The advantage of an SP is there is no judgement, no mixed feelings and no attachments. The bonus of it being she is there for me! Cure my appetite I get to be selfish! Sorry ladies my intent is not to offend at all, please forgive my direct statements! So in being so awkward and uncomfortable with contacting any SP, when I saw Lola's Ad I felt excited, yet soothingly calm as if this was not new to me but normal. The fact that she resembles someone I love dearly is one extraordinary PLUS. I do feel that this maybe one incredible roller coaster of a ride( sort of speech). Taking into consideration what everyone on this board has said to me and everything I have considered I am still so drawn to the idea of an encounter with her. Lola thank you for you for reaching out, because this post was started about you. Being the man that I am I must set my desires aside and respect your advising me against seeing you. You are a woman of wonder, your sincerity is well received. I was never looking for you to be anything other than yourself it just so happened to be your resemblance to her that fed a desire for an intimate encounter.

Hi, I just came across your post. I can not imagine how hard it must be. I lost a family member who I was very closed to, and I still feel like a part of me is missing and it will never be the same. It's sad, so sad. I admire your courage and your ability to ask for guidance and help! I assume that it was me you were referring to. I must say that as special as this can make me feel, I agree with those who said it was better to forget that idea. I don't feel like I could be able to help you in any way, and to me it seems like this situation can just make things harder for you. As its been said before I am not her, I am probably completely different, and I am afraid that there is nothing I could do or say that could comfort you... I do think that you should try and maybe go on a date, or even book time with an SP (I would be happy to recommend someone if I know them). It would ease you into the idea of moving on with your heart, because I am sure you wife is by your side and would be sad to see you aching and lonely. She will always hold a place in your heart and getting close to someone else is just about you, taking care of you. I really wish you the best! I thought it was important to write you and show my support... Love, Lola xox

I agree with these sentiments. I may suggest that you try something different, less intense. A massage with a happy ending with someone who does also provide full service, but this massage style session is usually the very best first step. You have to be prepared to want to back out, and full service sessions are a lot of pressure, physically and emotionally if you aren't prepared. I suspect that you are not going to be comfortable with someone on a first visit. The non full service session allows you to reach that comfort after a couple of visits, or you may never be ready, but you will have crossed a barrier in your body and mind thru this touch. I recommend choosing someone who does provide a more relaxed encounter, and who is able to work with you thru a series of encounters rather than a full on assault on a first visit. take care, and thanks for sharing.

Mourning is a difficult thing to go through. Everyone is different and there's no one "right" way to do it. But if it's been more than a year since your wife died, you might consider joining a group for people who have lost a partner. These are often fantastic! You can find out about them by contacting a funeral home, and I'd suggest you do that rather than go through the standard therapist route, at least at first. In many places, they try to bring together people who are close in age, or people who have children so that there's common ground for participants. it really can help a lot to hear how other people are dealing with situations similar to your own. Finding a companion or two can also be a good thing because you don't have to get into a full-blown relationship before you're ready for one (and you're not ready right now). You can have contact, intimacy and a private, one-on-one encounter without repercussions. If you want to see a companion more than once, go for it. If not, no worries. Attending to your physical needs can sometimes make it easier to work through emotional ones. Go easy on yourself!

I'm one of Hannah's regulars. She is so keen, loves what she does and does it very very well! Very few rules or restrictions. Enjoy

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