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I know that I'm probably in the minority on this one but I've never been able to understand the excitement of the BJ (CBJ or BBBJ). To me it's always been a bit, "Mehhh....take it or leave it" and not having one at all would not impact the enjoyment of my date in the least (I'd take DATY over BJ anyday). So given that I might not be the best person to comment at all but I'll do it anyway :) Like the OP I will specifically preface what I say with the comment that, I in no way intend to stir up another BBBJ debate. We have been down that long road and already know the different positions/sides on it. OP specifically asked about, why BBBJ or CBJ from a sensation standpoint. That's what I speak to. When it comes to covered sex acts, a lot will depend on the individual guy and his sensitivity level. Circumcised or not can play a roll in that for sure. Some guys are very sensitive and very little stimulation can result in (not necessarily premature but) early ejaculation so having a condom on can reduce sensitivity enough to prolong their experience without adversely diminishing it. Piano is right there is no way of replacing the sensation of skin on skin contact, and the heat/cool transfer as well as the energy transmission from skin to skin. A condom does significantly reduce that effect. When moving to a CBJ a lot of the sensation will have to evolve around pressure, albeit there are some condoms in the market that have come a very long way to making it feel like skin on skin. For me personally, I am circumcised and not a particularly sensitive guy (penis wise) so any time I use a condom a very large part of my experience has to come from the mental excitement and stimulation. When I'm covered even the most skilled out there could play with me until I was raw and I won't get there. That's where the GFE aspect really comes into play. If a lady is particularly skilled in making me feel like she is really there with me in the experience and not just "going through the motions" it engages me and increases my mental stimulation. When I feel like the lady is with me and actually enjoying my company it really gets me excited and very aroused and it's that aspect will bring me the most enjoyment and satisfaction. Ultimately this will make a BJ, either covered or uncovered a mind blowing experience.

I happen to be one of those guys that enjoys a woman performing oral sex on him more than intercourse. Although I enjoy a BBBJ, a CBJ performed by a woman that is enthusiastic and knows what she is doing can be a wonderful experience (certainly much better than the reverse - a BBBJ by someone who really isn't "into" it). Obviously, the choice of cover/uncovered is entirely up to the lady. So I guess at the end of the day, it's all about the lady's attitude and her efforts to make our time together mutually rewarding. There is something about laying back, giving up control and watching (and enjoying) myself being pleasured by a woman that likes to perform oral (cover or otherwise) sex. That is one of life's greatest pleasures for this olderguy. :)

Don't be fooled by men who threaten to "crucify" an SP by writing negative reviews. You don't need reviews to survive in this world. Provide honest service and they'll come back, reviews or not.

Age is merely but a number Sunshine ..... and I am 29 ;) Funny but I very rarely ever look or notice a lady's age ! Many many things attract me to a lady and their age sure isn't one of them. Age would be more a factor for me personally ....... If I am too old to jump then it is kinda hard to jump your bones now isn't it ? ;) Ha

Cristycurves - withholding the personal information you indicated above is certainly reasonable and expected. I think virtually all sensible people would understand and view it as a pragmatic security/safety issue. Sounds like you are genuine and honest in the ways that matter. Something many appreciate.

Providers, MAs, Dancers, Lurkers and Hobbyists alike... reply with your month :) January= Slut February = Attitude March = Flirtatious April= Firey May = Pornstar June= Sexy July= Hottie August = Thug September= Lover October = Perfect November= Passionate December- Freak in Bed Apparently I'm Perfect- October.

I have asked this question on another site, however figured Canadian comments would be more informative to me. Are your clients mainly circumcised? Do you have a preference if any? My experiences are mostly of circumcised penises, but I do have one embarrassing experience to share. Long story short I met this man, was really into him physically, finally was going to give it up and sleep with him until I get his clothes off and he has this access skin like substance covering his knob. I am completely caught off guard. Had never seen anything like it so I ask. What happened? Aha. He looks at me with a sexy confused look. He says what do you mean, I tell him it's swollen... Instinctively he looks and tells me I'm crazy it's soft. Soft I say.. Well where is it? All I see is skin lol. He then goes on to tell me to wrap your lips around it and it'll look normal. I felt like a total idiot. First uncircumcised penis I ever seen. What are your stories or comments.

If her ad doesn't reflect or suggest extras and she answers NO to providing them, attempting to ask again in person (this scares a lady and could make her feel she has too) God I feel really sorry for woman who are massage providers that dont do extras as I suspect they hate always being asked and attempted this. BTW you should not post her street name and I suspect she pulled her ad due to influx of requests in emails and calls from fellas after reading this thread. Frankly I think this thread should be canned for this ladies sake. Seeing as she has stated she does not provide happy endings.

I realize there are only 10 posts but..... Ahem....I believe you missed somebody ladies ?? !!!

Honesty in this or any business is the best policy, imo. But in this business especially where many try to hide their relationships and the fact that they are in this business, being forthright and honest can negatively affect one. In the beginning I told everything about myself, my age, where I'm from, my past vocations, relatives, ect, ect, then some started using that info against me, using it to do harm to some family members, friends and associates so I've since learned divulging personal details can be used against you and others you try to protect from the negativity this business can attract. Its not my policy to want to tell untruths but in the end if doing so protects myself and loved ones then that's what will be done.

I thought this would be a good thread to start. A place to post artistic or creative pictures from our own CERB Women. This picture from our own Claire Heaven is what gave me the inspiration to start this thread. This is a creative and artistic pose. And also one darn sexy woman :) Let's see what other artistic pictures we can find among our treasure trove of albums :)

My opinion is that there is no such as a thing as "rules" when it comes to pleasure... All women and Men are different... What may be good for one may be not so good for someone else... Also moods vary and so the things that will triger pleasure... My best advice is follow the signs with the lady you r with!!! Unless she is fakin it she will guiide you through what she enjoys..,Every time you have intomacy even if it is with same person things will be different and this is what would make it SPECIAL.. If it would be always the same then is when it becomes boring and you can start loosing interest! So just read the body and the signs as u are with that perosn (it also apply from ladies to gentlemen)... At that moment and that will make you both enjoy and have a pleasurable time ;)

Hi Christy Don't worry about not divulging everything about yourself. Reveal to a person only what you are comfortable revealing. But there are parts of YOUR life that belong to you and you alone. If you let others know a bit more about you they should feel flattered that you like and trust them enough to share that with them. That doesn't mean they are entitled to know everything about you So keeping parts of your life to yourself, that isn't an untruth, it is normal human nature RG

Did you know the vibrator was originally used in the 1900s as a medical treatment for female hysteria.

Pictures can be deceiving to the mind, irregardless it is real. You got to ask yourself before making judgment. How long ago was the picture taken? People do change over time new haircut or colour. They can be tanned or was at the time. New tattoo or piercing, even beauty marks appear sometime. Is it a candid picture or photo shoot. Candid are usually more accurate since you see them usually in their natural element. Photo shoot tend to hide any imperfection. Makeup, clothing and lighting are things used to enhance the person beauty. Did you see her face in the picture.? Your imagination probably in vision part that are hidden to the eye in the picture. But hey when in doubt check out cowboy Kenny diary. Not sure if they have anyone like him out there. Miss Sophie don't take it personal some people are still going to complain. Guys if you arrive in a situation were you think it may be a bait and switch unless you can prove it respectfully apologize give a small token for her time and leave. Don't make accusation without proof, even so what that going to give you anyways chance are if they are dishonest they want care what you say.

I've done a ton of role-plays.. mostly step-mom, a friends' mom, teacher, secretary, mom, realtor, dominatrix, cop, elvira, wonderwoman.. school girl. They can be a lot of fun!

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The only dude I'd ever think about potentially considering switching teams for, mainly because of his evolution in style, and the suits. (I may be into the suits more, still figuring that out). Daniel Craig the accountant - Daniel Craig the confused accountant Daniel Craig....Sorry, James Bond That suit..*drool* And then skinny legs jeans came into fashion, boo

If it's not offered, it's not offered. If it is, I like bbbj. CBJ is a loss of sensation, at least a big enough difference for me that I can tell the difference. It's the difference in temperature between a warm tongue and the cool air. It's the difference in the texture. And while it may be a bit crude to say this, it's a bit of carnal pleasure, seeing it happen. CBJs are great, don't get me wrong, but the best analogy I can think of is going for Italian food (CBJ), and eating local food in Italy (BBBJ). Can't complain if I get one or both, but would definitely prefer the latter. Additional Comments: I'm assuming he meant in the condom, while in the mouth. As in there is no pressure to stop.

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Oh, I'm gonna hate myself in the morning for responding to this but what the hey... With all due respect, what part of this woman's message is unclear? She said no. If she said no by email, by posting a flyer on the wall, by painting a chicken, she said no. Why would her answer be different in person? And hey, I'm sorry, but I have to call out the "I totally respect a ladies boundaries" thing. She's providing me with a sensual massage undraped. (She was dressed like a slut.) I am thinking that there is at least a chance she may offer more at some point. (So I'm gonna push her against the wall and see if I can have some fun with her.) The parallels are just too freaky. Just my opinion and observation. Continue as you were...

I always tip the pizza guy. They make peanuts and they remember you so you always get good delivery service. Tipping hospitality workers is always good, because they quite literally depend on tips. Remember they are paid below minimum wage because of tips. After a rugby tournament in the US they had a big party at a bar where the beer was free. (they buy so many kegs for the event and open the taps) I got there early, got my first free beer and gave the bartender $5. He looked at me, and I told him I was also a bartender. Later the crowd is 3 deep at the bar, I hold my glass up from the back, and he passes a beer over the crowd to me. People around me asked how I got that service and I just asked, "Did you tip him?" It was funny watching the lights come on on so many faces.

I think everyone has to realize, no matter if you do an incall or an outcall, there are risks both ways. I have heard of ladies stealing from clients in their hotel and at their residence. If you are going to be dealing with unknown ladies who have no reputation, no prior recommendations, no history, you are taking a risk, irregardless of whether it is incall or outcall. The point you have to understand, do your research on the lady. Does she have recommendations? Do others say she is reputable? Does she have other options like a website, real pics etc. Is she solid? or is she some new girl with a possible pimp working her. Incalls and outcalls each carry their own risks. If the lady has an incall location in a high end hotel, chances are, she is legit. If her incall is in the basement of a seedy rooming house, well, that's another thing. If she is doing an outcall, does she have a screening method? Or, does she just come out without verifying anything like phone number and name. Is her phone being answered by someone else, so you don't get a chance to actually get to talk to her? I understand those working for an agency generally don't talk to the client. Does the agency have a solid rep? Do they have a website? Are the pics real? You get what you pay for in this business. Understand that. Yes, there are those that will rip you off, bait and switch, rob you and leave 2 minutes after they get their money. However, there are way more ladies that work hard to build up a reputation to show that they legitimate. Stick to cerb ladies and you never go wrong. Especially if you are new to this. And, final point, car calls are ALWAYS ILLEGAL. Don't even think about getting with a lady who offers this. This is a huge red flag. Even if someone offered me $1, 000, 000, I would never do this. Why would any provider want to risk getting arrested? It is never worth the risk. xoxo

Cheap cheap cheap...hmmm this must be Winnipeg! My philosophy, I only do this occasionally, so if I do it, I want to do it right.

Let's be reasonable... I feel that's an unfair statement. As long as you see someone reputable, e.g. (the ladies from Cerb) you should have no problems. I've had countless outcalls to my residence over the past 13 years, and only once did I ever have an issue. However, that was only because I called a "no name" agency. I should have known better...

sex in your car is illegal. It is considered a public place. I do believe it is against the rules to post anything to do with car dates. I may be mistaken.

Very interesting thread... age is just a number for me also! Often younger man (20s) contact me and ask if it bothers me...it doesnt in the slightest! I find there is always good in everyone and would never say ''sorry you're too young''... Chemistry has no age!

I am a backpa e girl so please don't throw us in one negative stereotype. There are ways to research a lady that many men either don't want to bother or have not been informed of. I would start by asking the discretion level of the incall. I intentionally located myself in a smaller refurbished condo block that is just off downtown and with free parking. Some gentlemen may know people and bail out on an appointment out of fear of running into someone they know who lives there. It also isn't too hard to simply say you are their visiting a coworker or aunt or neice etc. Highrises have their advantages as people casually come and go all day etc. I also like that I am close enough to a fast food place and a general pharmacy that if a gentlemen is seriously concerned, he may wish to park at either and walk the 3-4 mins to my block. If you do go to a ladies incall, consider discretion factors for yourself such as did you do all communications through text only. This i hate say is careless on the providers part as she should at least have you call before you given the address to confirm you are male, not wasted etc. and to protect her discretion. Her operating in a discreet manner, will most certainly affect the discretion of you as well. Also if a neighbor is around you may not want to address the lady by her sp name and simply act like you should be there until behind closed door of her space. When leaving try not to say in a loud voice... "Thank You it was so nice to meet you, or escort talk as leaving. This could get overheard by neighbors etc. Some ways to screen the quality of a ladies incall could be questions like "do you provide clean shower facilities and towels should I wish to have a quick shower? You may ask about pets, and definetly make aware of certain allergies you may suffer from such as perfume or lube or oils etc.And if you are ultra concerned about being seen entering or leaving a call, simply ask her of the probability percentage hall way neighbors etc, I always ask a gentlemen to call or text once parked but still in car. That way i can receive him without him lurking outside and possibly running into a neighbor or looking unusual. Your discretion depends on her discretion in my opinion. If she requires you to call from a intersection close to her place, call from corner. She does to dramatically reduce the number of people who get the address early and then don't show.

One should always tip, yes. For me, generally 20% or more. Occasionally I have even tipped up to 50%. It can be a good feeling to see someone who is busting their ass and maybe having a shitty day get a big tip, and show them your appreciation. If I can afford it, then why not? Sometimes even when things go wrong, it's not even always that person's fault. Maybe the pizza took a long time, but it was the dudes at the pizza parlour dicking around. Or maybe he got stuck behind a traffic accident. Why should the driver suffer? Most of those service jobs live off their tips, and some of them even make a service wage which is actually less than minimum wage. Everyone has a bad day here and there, so I always give the benefit of the doubt, even if service isn't perfect. People who are shitty at service jobs usually have a way of weaving themselves out eventually anyways. Always tip! Pizza guys, servers, bartenders, hair stylist, taxi driver, mover, RMT, groomer... just about anyone who does something for you! :)

Round 2 6. Ok, the lady you would like to see has clearly stated her do's and don'ts. However, you want to do something on her don't list. After all, you are the one paying for her time and you want what you can't have. Do you: a) Show up and try to persuade her to do what you want? b) Ask her again to do what she does not do, and when she again says no, get her to do it anyways? c) Offer her more money even though she has told you a number of times she will not do what you want to do? d) Do not book her and look elsewhere The correct answer is D. Yes, if the provider (either massage or sp) does not offer a service you want, keep looking for someone who does what you want. Or, if you want, you can see her, but just not ask her to do that thing you want so bad. 7. You are visiting a MA. She is actually an RMT, has her certificates and everything. Her rates are decent, she is pretty and you are interested in seeing her. You have checked her out, and everyone clearly states she does not provide a Happy Ending. They have even stated that she gets really pissed off when people ask her for a happy ending even though she clearly states in her inquiries that she does not provide this service. After all, she will loose her RMT status if she does this. Do you: a) Book anyway and "see how far you can take it?" b) Book anyway and even though she has told you she does not provide Happy Endings, ask her again to help a fellow out? c) Demand she take care of your throbbing muscle? d) Book elsewhere If you answered d, you are correct. When a provider clearly states that she does not provide a happy ending, and you insist she do this anyways, the lady will most likely feel like this is a sexual assault and not be happy about you. She might even contact LE and charge you. When a lady says NO, it means NO. Do not, I repeat, do not try to get her to give a service that she does not provide. 8. You don't like using condoms. You cannot get the same sensation. So, you go to see a lady who you like. While you are getting it on with her, she puts a condom on you for your full service. You however, don't want to use a condom. Do you: a) Pull out, take your condom off and say "can I slip it in for a second?" b) Pull out, take your condom off and try to put it back in. Even though she says you have to put a new condom back on, you don't want to, so you pin her down and fuck her. After all, you will pull out when you come, so whats the big deal anyways? c) Flip her over to doggy style, take off the condom and fuck her without one and hope she doesn't notice. d) Are you serious? Well, if you got this one wrong, I am flabbergasted. For those that were around when Aids first came out, they did not know how this disease spread. People died within months of getting infected. Everyone used a condom for Everything. Even toilet seats had to be covered. You might want to read up on the STI's out there. There is a wealth of information out there for you to read. Remember, NO means NO. Anything else is sexual assault. 9. The lady you would would like to see has no reviews. She has been around for awhile. You ask others what they think. They all say "can't say anything on this site" or "her pics are on TINEYE of the hot Porn Star". You still want to see her. Do you: a) book with her and get angry when she is not what she advertises herself as b) book with her, pay her money and believe her when she says she needs to go to her car. Wait 30 minutes and then realize she is not coming back. Get angry she did this to you. c) book with her and go thru with the call even though she is not the the porn star her pictures present her as. d) Heed the advice of other hobbyists and keep looking. Well, if you answered d, good move. There is a difference between someone who is new and has no reputation yet. Yes, you can TOFFT in that case, but when a number of others clearly state "caution" or "I can't discuss her here", this means run away as fast as you can. Do not let these lady continue getting money if they are running a shady business. That's it for today. Round three will be here soon! And now for our sponsors.....

Excuse me? See how far I can take it with her??? She clearly states no happy endings.

This is why I like Cerb. Valuable information like this. :D I am completely lost when it comes to roleplaying, but it's something that I've wanted to learn more about. My biggest problem is that I'm always in my head, so I'm afraid the entire time, I'll be just thinking about the how to act the role instead of living/being it. Does anyone have this problem? Another issue I have, is that whenever I think of role playing, I think about the times when I was much younger, pretending to be police officers, or some sort of hero saving the world. I just can't get that imagery of my head now, and I can easily imagine myself just laughing hysterically. I kinda feel envious of those who don't have my hang ups and reservations.

It's your roving reporter Cato coming to you from the newly-launched Tease at 5023 Bank St. The night featured a bikini contest with ten hot contestants vying for cash prizes. The crowd was enthusiastic, and cheered the contestants on as they performed their sexy moves on stage and their acrobatic exploits on the pole. Our own Jazy was crowned the winner over stiff competition, garnering the most enthusiastic and loudest applause. Cerbites may remember that Jazy was the original inspiration for the Best Bums on the Planet thread, and she was in outstanding form as she took top honours in the first Tease Sunday Night Special. Congratulations to Jazy and all the contestants for a rollicking fun night.

I visited Loraine in her classy down town Ottawa Condo. At the door, she greeted me with sparkling blue eyes and a happy welcoming smile that revealed perfect white teeth behind sweet kissable lips. She was wearing a pink revealing baby doll that showed her firm white breasts and her toned slim body. Chatting; she hung up my coat and scarf. As she walked me in, I admired her curvy butt, her long silky red hair and sexy legs that go on forever. This Lady must be in her twenties! She led me into her ultra modern IKEA decorated place. It was impeccably clean. Everything appeared brand spanking new. She asked if I wanted to use the bathroom and indicated that she had shampoo, body soap and mouth wash. I told her I had just showered; but I needed to freshen up anyway. Wow ! really nice; super clean fresh bathroom. It was so inviting; I thought of having another shower. On a shelf above the sink, there were some business cards and a little note advising that its ok to ask for extras. Freshened up; we chatted as she offered me to undress in the clean IKEA guest room. When I came out, she was waiting at the massage table with her lovely smile. She asked me about my oil preferences and whether there was any body sequence that I preferred. I asked for unscented oil, and to start with my shoulders down. Having seen her on CERB; I was expecting an unprofessional hurried massage. I WAS WRONG. This lady can easily qualify as a Registered Massage Therapist! Later, I discovered she had taken professional courses. She undid all my knots, I was completely relaxed, when half an hour later, she told me to turn over. Laying on my back; she slowly worked my neck, my arms, my chest , my tummy, then moved down to my feet and came up my legs to my inner thighs and lower tummy; seeing junior react, she toned down the massage to erotic caresses. This immediately put junior into a hard salute. I begged for the happy ending that I was naturally dying for. Using latex gloves; she lubed and brought me to a massive explosion while I was fondling her silky skin. She cleaned me up with a hot towel and gave me time to relax before dressing. Looking at the clock, Loraine gave me a full hour of professional massage therapy with an erotic explosive twist. There was no extra for the happy ending; But I insisted on giving her a really respectable tip; She abseloutly deserved it ! Smiling and charming, she helped me with my coat and gave me a good bye hug. She smelled so sweet ! I departed promising to visit her again, again and again. .

Terri Fux is not new, just new name. Old name is Brook. Also has ads on CL.

I'll take two :)

My celebrity crushes

I believe it is illegal to coach a person into becoming an escort. I'm unsure of the legal wording for this. Besides, even if lady knows everything about the trade, many will not learn it or have the same results as the lady giving the advice. I would read cerb beginning to end, as I did. There is an abundant amount of experience that can be learned from doing so.

2 pictures of me - same pose, similar outfits. Different response - someone even asked to see the heavier lady once. Only difference is about 35 lbs and 2 years. Ya can't win for loosing!

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Damn I hate when somebody uses my body lol.

My bad, "toothpick" was not the best word choice. Hope no slim cerbettes took offense!

Worth the trip!

Belleville is a small community. We have had many travelling girls, it is the same here as it is in most cities. Supply - Demand = average hotels = not bad but not 5 star It is definitely out of your way to come to Belleville from Kingston / Montreal. Previous poster is correct. If you need more personal information about the area, feel free to PM me. I hope you enjoy your travels where ever they may lead you. Shortcake

Tipping is never mandatory, but in the food services business it is very much part of the compensation for many. Some fast food places where you pick up, no, but home delivery absolutely. I would tip normal guidelines for restaurants, around 15% for the delivery guy.

Did you know... The word schlong originated from the German word schlange, meaning snake? :) hehe.

I think you need to be yourself in order to succeed in this business - but that doesn't need people need to know everything about me. The 'Cleo Catra' I project is an honest portrayal of me - she's a part of me. BUT, that's not my name...and I don't tell everyone everything about me. That would be too much like dating, and I'm NOT dating my clients. My clients know as much about me as they need to know to decide if they want to see me. Once they see me, they learn more, and decide if they'd like to come back. In every encounter, we learn more about each other...what sexual buttons to push, how to draw that orgasm out, how to tease, excite, play. And in the process, we talk and learn details about each other on a personal level, which heightens the intimacy of our time together. And I love that. However, if I had a fight with my best friend right before a client shows up, I'm not going to tell him the details of that fight. I might say 'You know girls, ugh! Always silly fights', then move on to our session. If I have giant bills looming and I'm stressed about money, I'm not going to go into details of how I didn't manage my finances well this month, but might say 'Budgets dont' always work!', then move on to our session. Etc. The man is coming to me for his own escape from reality, his own fantasy, his own sexual desire. For all I know, his wife may have broken down that morning because SHE had a fight with her best friend, so he's coming to me to escape - so the last thing I want to do is lay on the details of my own personal drama. I like being part of a fantasy, of having this world where I lay my personal dramas aside for an hour or two, and escape to this sexual, sensual world between the sheets.

I totally agree with Gabriella. However, I would like to add that many people these days suffer from some serious environmental allergies, myself included, and can get quite sick when exposed to certain, and in some cases, most scents. I use an unscented deoderant myself, and encourage the person I am with to do the same. To me there is nothing sexier than the smell of a freshly washed body, and I love taking a shower with my partner whenever the opportunity arises.