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Word. I am sometimes hesitant to admit this, because I don't want people to misunderstand, but I actually enjoy all the other things about sex, more than actual penetration... the foreplay, cuddling, kissing, touching, caressing, licking, eating, nibbling, sucking... And so much more. I still enjoy intercourse, and it can be very pleasurable, but for me, it's the other stuff that is generally the centre of my pleasure, and rocks my world the most. The vagina was made for birthing babies, and mainly for men's pleasure. I even kind of find it arrogant and self centred to think that cock size has the most impact on a woman's pleasure. If someone really wants to please me, it's not my vagina, but my other parts which matter most, including the clitoris, in which it's only function is for my pleasure. :) Cock size has no effect over the pleasure I receive there, or in any other foreplay that I enjoy. Also, being someone who loves to perform, cock size has no bearing on how much I enjoy pleasing you, and I would even say that average sized penises make it easier to perform on and more enjoyable for me. I can take more of it into my mouth, too. ;) Any woman will tell you that confidence rates much higher than penis size when it comes to important qualities in a man, either a casual lover or in a serious relationship. And there is much more important duties of an overall good lover than to just stick his penis up in there. That's just the way it is.

Be aware of what? "Throat cancer is considered to be uncommon and a small percentage of people with HPV develop cancer because of the virus. The finding does not suggest abstaining from oral or vaginal sex." Pretty sensationalist headline for something that we don't really need to worry about don't you think? Ladies, just so you know, for every pussy onesquared doesn't eat, I'm going to eat two! :-D

"No, you don't look fat in that dress" which is a comparable phrase of the opposite sex like when asked to comment on a man's package. It's just something I won't comment on because no matter what you say, you can't win or expect the standard response of "I bet you say that to all the guys." Bah, I gave up commenting ages ago since no one seemed to take my response as a compliment. lol. This isn't directed at Al From Quebec for starting the thread but when a woman gives you a compliment on something like your "package", accept the compliment and don't insult her by saying she must say that to everyone. I, for one don't bullshit esp in the package department. Use what God gave you and be proud of it.

I, like most men in the world think I'm on the small size of things. But based on science, and rudimentary measurement techniques, I think I'm really a bit smaller than average. (Love being anonymous!). But I accepted it, and while I'd love perpetually learn the art of being better at penetration, I think I'm good at other stuff (foreplay, oral, massage, etc) or at least a quick learner. And after years of self doubt and self loathing, I've come to terms about the fact that while I will never rival Ryan Gosling in looks (and probably his ding dong), I am a pretty big package.

I love to discuss a mans package, and enjoy all sizes and shapes even more. But if I'm going to be honest I have to admit I love the bigger ones, not longer, but thicker, girth is where its at, after all my little puss is only so deep:) But I would never turn down any package as they all have their redeeming and yummy qualities:) so long as their owner knows what to do with it.

Straight up truth. I do not care what your cock looks like, what size it is, what shape, what colour, hairy or not hairy. Totally don't care. Penetration is usually the last thing on my mind, so yeah couldn't care less. ETA: The only time I care about your cock is if it looks or smells questionable eg. rash/sores/the like

For some, Soleil is a real challenge to pronounce. Despite the fact that my website address link is ingeniously (if I do say so myself) phonetically spelled out, as well as acts as an invitation or even an exasperation, lol I figured everyone would get it as a big hint on how to pronounce my name. But nope. I still get calls asking for Sewleel. lol That's okay though. Once I correct them, I can just imagine what they're thinking; 'Oh Solay! Now that makes more sense.' As far as why I chose the name Soleil, there are a few good reasons why I did. Firstly, I am half French and was raised that way. I love the language and the way some French names just sexily roll off the tongue was one of my first criteria. However, I needed one that could easily be anglicised as not everyone knows or speaks French. When I chose Soleil, I didn't think the pronunciation was going to be a big issue at all. Because it means the Sun which is warm and inviting, as well as mood-lifting and upbeat, I thought it suited me well. The fact that it's unique and not common is the best part. I wish I could trademark it. lol

I wanted something that was classy yet easy to pronounce, as well as not common (when I first became Emily there were only 2 others in Toronto and they were both asian) Rushton comes from "The Rushton" restaurant in Toronto, when I lived there it was one of my favourite places to go for dinner.

What about this guy. Is he eye candy for the ladies??? BTW for those that don't know, this is John Malkovich. Why did I select him. Well a few ladies have commented I look like him, so if he is considered eye candy for the ladies well maybe I have a chance to be eye candy for the ladies too LOL RG

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Couldn't a fair comparison be how people feel about breasts? I mean, if I told you that--regardless of society's ever-changing ideal--different people will have different preferences in breast size, would anyone question it? Perhaps more importantly, what if I suggested that even people who are particularly drawn to a certain type are nevertheless still attracted and enjoy playing with just about any, regardless of size/shape? I could probably even point out that for some it's not a body part they are fussy about at all, especially in comparison to other traits (be they physical or personality). And what if I made the observation that most people are generally more worried and critical about their own body than others are? Anyway, the comparison probably isn't perfect, but figure I'd throw it out there.

My goodness. You're awfully sure of yourself aren't you? I remember being that age once, seeing everything in black and white. There couldn't be any reason why a legitimate provider wouldn't have a website? Perhaps they find their page on CERB to be sufficient for their needs? Perhaps they only do this part time or seasonally? Perhaps they're very tech unsavvy and don't know how to make a website or do web design? Or just don't want to? Making snap judgements about groups of people based on limited information is not wise and only demonstrates small mindedness. --edit-- Oh yeah, one other reason. Some people prefer to be VERY private and low profile. For the same reason some prefer to not show their faces in pictures. You know there are actually escorts who have families and significant others? And some of these people don't know what the escort does for a living? Shocking I know but it's true I promise you.

it depends on where it's going!

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First off, to both of you, a warm welcome to Cerb and this lifestyle :) From my personal point of view, I always prefer when the initial contact is made by the lady and that most exchanges are done between the two of us so we can discuss, freely, HER preferences, boundaries, expectations and what would make HER feel comfortable with a ménage à trois, etc.. especially for a first time experience. When the lady of the couple feels 100% at ease with what about is about to take place, I find the chances for a successful encounter is that much greater... and when the lady of the couple is having fun, everybody else is too! :) Once a few emails have been exchanged, there are a few ways to go about increasing that comfort level and open communication; a phone call can always be scheduled, a social informal date with the lady (or both partners) can be a stepping stone to the intimate encounter, a first time rendez-vous can be a combination of both social an intimate time... I guess it is all up to both of you and the companion of your choice. Good luck to you both and have fun! :) xox

I always tell them to keep their stuff with them, that way if they do happen to lose something, they can't turn around and accuse me of stealing it.

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I'm older and typically not looking at the younger girls, but from all I have heard and read I would say Roksi. She is about 25, in town right now, and hot, hot, hot! Another that has caught my interest is Manuella Cruz. I haven't heard anything about her, but she will be here around the end of June. I'm very leary of younger local girls because there seems to be a lot of dishonesty in the ads posted out there, and concerns with safety, etc... It's too bad because I am sure there are many decent, reputable, young girls out there, but too many are ruining it for them. I am grateful for the wonderful ladies I have met, and for the wise advice of the other CERB members. Good luck.

Her pics are not real i have seen her and if you do tinyeye you will see

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I would certainly not be offended by it and I always want my gentleman to do what makes him comfortable and not have to worry about anything during our time together. If that means taking his wallet to the bathroom with him or leaving it in the car, so be it ;) On the other hand, before trust is present, and to protect myself, I would rather my guest takes his wallet to the bathroom with him (or not bring it) just in case he thinks something has gone missing... This way, there is no possibility it went missing when he was with me.

I must say that I am a bit irked that the perception exists that if a provider does not show her face then she has something to hide. I choose not to show my face as I do not wish to intermingle my private and professional lives. Not deceitful at all nor does it make me any less of a provider than those who do show their faces. Anyhow, do your research, read reviews and begin communicating with those providers who interest you. Ultimately, you and your intuition should be able to determine which beautiful lady will rock you world! Best of luck.

Beat me to the punch! Yes, Redseductress is really in a class all her own. And yes, she really does love to perform and it shows! :D Other equally awesome choices (in my humble opinion) are SaraMQ, MalikaFantasy (occasionally travels to Ottawa) and CleoCatra. In my experience you really can't go wrong with any of these 4 ladies and their love of the act is unparalleled! I haven't yet met Emily J, Layah, Alexxxis (aka: xXxAxXx), Rosalie, or Berlin but I have only read good things about their skills. One thing to keep in mind though, when it comes to "best of" type threads....everything is subjective. What is considered "The perfect bj" for one person, might be "the worst bj" for another. But I have yet to read anything negative about these ladies' skills in this department.

Many of the CERB ladies do such an amazing job at showing their real person in their pictures. I love it when a woman's beauty and confidence comes out in a photo. Some of my favourites! Cub One of the best all time artsy shots - Annessa! A classic look and extremely sexy with Evelyn and Amelia. The fun, seductive and fire of Emily. Smart combined with sexiness that can drive you wild. Lovely Kerri. Confident and classy Georgiana. Soft, seductive and sexy the one and only Tiff!

YAY ! A numbers game ! The studio audience unanimously goes with number 3 above !! Your "VRG" Cerb handle .......acronym numbers game 1. Very Romantic Guy ? 2. Very Rude Guy ? 3. Very Responsible Guy ? 3. See #2

Tracie is relatively new to CERB but definitely not new to MP ......... Her in call location was easy to find, safe and has lots of parking available. She is very warm and welcoming MP, with a positive outlook and classic rubenesque figure. I started out going for an initial hour but soon extended the session due to the wonderful way things were unfolding. Tracie uses a massage bar (instead of lotions or creams) which is new to me and definitely the way to go for future sessions. She is a very ....... person and incredibly ...... in her massage delivery technique. Her strong hands, soft touches and "exploratory nature" made this a most memorable session. Without going in to details, suffice it to say the "happy ending" took up at least half the session and included a couple of firsts for me!. I will definitely be repeating. Thanks again Tracie.

So I'm always buying lingerie and have always bought my usual bra size 36d, used to be a 36c. So today I went for a professional bra fitting and surprise surprise I am a 32ff. I was astounded by the difference in the size and the feel of a properly fitted bra. My boobies are thanking me.I feel taller and think my posture is even better. I would recommend all women treat themselves to a proper fitting. You too will probably be surprised at the difference in your size and feel:)

I am a huge fan of naughty talk during a session. Is there a line in which ladies prefer not to cross as far as naughty talk? I know that all people are different, and that the mood of certain situations can dictate the amount of naughty talk which can occur. A few years back while spending some time with an old ex girlfriend, we ended up in bed, and the naughty talk somehow shifted to us telling each other about partners we had after we broke up. We spent three straight hours licking, sucking, and fucking, all while talking about sexual encounters we each had with other people and describing what it was like with each of our encounters. A few weeks after that happened, I was still turned on by the stories she had told me. I had booked an appointment with a lady (who will remain unnamed) and halfway into the encounter, I was fully inside her, and asked her if I was her first client of the day. She looked up at me and said no, I smiled and asked if he was a good fuck. The naughty talk quickly ramped up as I guided her conversation towards telling me about some of her recent encounters that she enjoyed. I was sliding in and out of her and she seemed to loosen up and really get into telling me how slutty she was and how much she loved cock. This naughty talk got us both very hot and it seemed to be fueling our thrusts towards each other as our hips came together time after time. I could feel her walls clenching and trembling on me and her naughty talk became seriously slutty, I could tell she was ready to cum NOW, which in turn drove me over the edge and I pounded her with everything I had until I went over the edge and had my own EARTH SHATTERING orgasm deep inside her (in condom). I found it very HOT to have her loosing control and letting her animal passion loose! Seriously naughty talk is not something for everyday, but sure as hell is fun at times! Any recos on a good dirty talking girl, or any similar experiences from anyone?

As this is a subjective thread, aka one man's meat is another man's poison, I can only speak from personal experience. Truly, many of the ladies who frequent this site are Masters of Oral Arts. He is my list of truly memorable oral encounters... in no particular order. redseductress EmilyJ Sexxxyrebecca Cleo Catra Sara MQ Taylor Munroe Sin Cindy Nicolette Vaughn Peachy Vanessa Vale Hoo Boy, I get around. :givemehead:

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This would be more trouble, then it would be easier. Lets say you show up at the designated location with nothing but plastic on you and the system is down you have to leave get money and return, wasting time that could result in loss of business to the provider due to time conflicts with other clients. How is the provider supposed to know if the card isn't stolen, if it is, she will lose the money when the credit card company comes calling. Also banks don't just hand out these thing to just anyone, a provider would more then likely have to be a registered business for a bank to issue a debit machine. Your wife or S.O. may see your statements. Their are many reason why this would not be a good.

I'm never offended by this. I encourage my guests to take their things with them when they go to shower and, if they bring anything back with them, to put it in plain sight, usually on the dressing table, where they and I will notice it when it's time to part company. I also try to remember to ask visitors to be sure they have everything with them before going out the door. One time, a fellow couldn't find his cell phone. He knew he'd brought it in with him. It wasn't in any of his pockets and it wasn't anywhere in the bathroom. He checked the car; it wasn't there, either. When he called the number from my landline, we heard it ringing in the laundry hamper. He's a fastidious fellow who'd scooped it up inside his towel which he'd put in the hamper in the hallway. Another time, my guest was wearing his watch when he came to bed, but I didn't notice when he removed it and put it on the nightstand. I found it sometime after he'd gone. He'd crossed two bridges by then--significant psychological boundaries for us in the Lower Mainland--and was nearly home. I had an early-morning meeting away from home the next day. Figuring out how to return the watch was a big hassle for both of us. An inexpensive watch I might have left in an envelope in my outside mailbox, but not that Patek Philippe!

And you're great to talk to too! And we haven't even got around to discussing social sciences or literature yet :-) Not that I'd discourage people from taking you for a dance. Quite the opposite. ;-)

Thank you for visiting my personal profile. My companionship is well-suited for distinguished clientele who prefer confidentiality and privacy. You will find me a rare, special blend of exquisite beauty, integrity, and solid character. I am well-educated, articulate, genuinely kind, and possess a great sense of humor. I am also ultra-sophisticated, extremely feminine and posses a down to earth charm. I believe in treating people with dignity and respect, as this is very important to me. Taking extreme pride in my body and appearance, I am always impeccably groomed and dressed for any occasion. Most of all, I believe beauty comes from within then shines through on the outside. These qualities are paramount to a true exclusive luxury companion. I prefer to spend time with a very selective, mature man who enjoys a woman with an effervescent personality. I don't take anything for granted that life has to offer. :sadomaso: I am a soft-spoken, passionate, and sensual woman who possesses a mixture of incredible sex appeal combined with a charismatic personality. I strive to put you at ease in any situation and this will be evident when you meet me. I enjoy intellectual conversation and laughter. If you are an affluent, distinguished gentleman who prefers a lady with a great attitude and demeanor, and who also enjoys quality over quantity, then I am for you. I like to kiss slowly, forgive quickly, laugh easily, and enjoy every moment to it's fullest. I have a very warm and caring personality that will make you feel like we've known each other for years. I have a college education and can appreciate intelligent conversation. I believe that intelligence, humor, wit, self-confidence (somewhat humbly so), resilience, strength of character, and a willingness to learn are incredibly important qualities to have and share so I tend to gravitate toward those who possess them as well. I would like to think that I'm the kind of woman who can awaken passion and stimulate the imagination. And I can only hope that others enjoy my company, as much as I will appreciate theirs. :milleunenuit: HERE UNTIL 11pm :shehot:

I don't visit often and I am very much a repeat client for some ladies. I spend a considerable amount of time getting to know the ladies I want to spend time with for a new first time visit ..... on the board or via text and I stay in touch after if possible. I will not visit with a lady unless I am more than comfortable that my personal belongings, my wallet, my personal info I have shared and my health is all safe and sound to the best it can be and that they are genuinely considerate of me and my wellbeing and I of them in return. Also that they enjoy what they do and want to be there and have FUN ! Therefore I sometimes tend to leave shit everywhere !! ha or forget it. Most ladies I have met know I would help out voluntarily in whatever way I can....if I can. Some may consider that silly and or naïve but that is how I roll.

I personally don't find any offence material there. I actually found myself a few times in a situation where I had to recommended the gent to be more cautious with their belongings. The last time, my client left his $40,000 Rolex on the night stand while he went to the bathroom! Also, what would have happened in the event that he would have lost his watch? I would have been accused right away. I always educate my clients to never leave valuables to the sight.

I never get insulted when men bring their wallet with them-I totally get it-and as a matter of fact, I prefer they do that :)

I havent got much to add on top of what was posted, but there was a good thread on this very topic (re. what to do with the wallet) with some very good insights, so i thought i'd post it here : http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=10325

I feel the playmate is less pretentious than pigales i will take nice natural breasts over plastic any day. I find more dancers at the playmate use less pressure tactics and that the ladies are more down to earth. i like a good conversation with my dances sometimes and i find you can find that at the playmate more often than other clubs in the area.

If DATY stops being a frequent activity I'm quitting.

Welcome. That's a nice way (not unlike mine) of looking at it. But here are a couple of things you need to check yourself before you see anyone. A great deal. I won't make any assumptions about your background or how accepting the people around you are, but even in our so called liberal society, we're a very sex negative society. And paying for it?!? Well shit, you must be so butt ugly and undesirable, and the girl must be so desperate for drugs that something like this goes on. <- Unfortunately, that's a common assumption people make about this industry. We are far from treating this industry like any other. And even though most, if not all the men and women here are happy with their circumstance, and enjoy it thoroughly, very few people here have the lucky privilege of having family and/or friends that are completely accepting of what they do. Hence the privacy. I recommend taking a softer approach to finding out the ins and outs of the industry before making assumtions. There are women who offer blowjob without condom (bare back blowjob or bbbj), and some that allow you to complete in their mouth, and some that will even swallow. That is for the lady to decide her comfort level, and while there are some that will advertise all these services, if they see/smell anything off with your dick, say goodbye to all those blowjob fantasies. And another thing you need to remember, there are many people who lie here. You know you're a virgin, you know that you're clean, but for all that matters to an escort is that you're another client, and the exact same precautions need to be taken. Imagine how dangerous it would be to you if the escort you do eventually see just accepts at face value that you're a virgin, would that not make you suspicious that she might have given some allowances to another client that made the same assertion, whether or not it's true. You seem to have so valid reasons for wanting to see an escort, but before you do, please check out the many threads on how to approach your first appointment, how to get in touch with one, etc. And check out the reviews, I know you want your first time to be special, and would like to find someone you are attracted to, hence the face request, but reviews can give you an extremely good assessment of a lady's physical beauty. I can tell you, I have always stuck with well reviewed ladies, and have found all of them to be nothing short of stunning.

It's only reasonable that a SP could fall for a client. SPs are, after all, human. If the SP puts a stop to seeing you as a client, the reason may well be because the relationship between the two of you has grown to a point where it is putting at risk that element of self-control and self-discipline your SP must have in order to make a livelihood. And that, as everyone should understand, needs to come first. Be grateful that you had the privilege of having shared some great moments with this person, and be graceful. Accept that she is not ready to take it to the next level and that for now at least, your relationship with her, such as it was, has ended. Consent is EVERYTHING. If this person wants you back in her life, she'll let you know.

Congratulations Shaved on your first 100 posts Looking forward to your next 100 posts RG

Nice response. And nice of you to thank this lovely lady for taking the time to respond to your post and try to give you some great suggestions on how to go about finding reputable Asian providers in your area. I thought it was very helpful information, as a lot of people might not know all this stuff already. She even gave you specific recommendations for ladies and links to their websites! If you are already so well versed in how this works, and you can't help yourself by doing a little bit of research and thinking with your big head for a few short minutes, then don't ask for or expect other people's help. You can't expect everyone else to do all the leg work for you.

These two ladies are absolutely EXCELLANT! Ottawa is lucky to have them and there are others who are in Ottawa full time and visiting.

A regular for me isn't the frequency of his visits, but the frequency of communication. I have many guests who simply cannot afford to see me weekly or even monthly. But the ones that think to drop me a note and let me know they are well and smiling are the ones that have a little star beside their names in my mind. It's not a numbers thing for me but the connection that counts... Cat