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1)Many women just are not as horny as men. 2)Most of those who are, are not comfortable with their sexuality and don't express it freely for fear of being attacked and ostracized for being a "slut" and being undisciplined. And I do believe that #1 is an indirect psychological result of #2. Society is a judgemental c---. The brave few don't give a crap about them, and live their lives on their own terms. And BTW, as long as your not a douchebag, it's fairly easy to get laid on CERB. ;)

Specifically girls, but I didn't want to put 'how to talk to young girls' in the subject line and have anyone think something weird about that. I just read this article about how to address little girls when you meet them, and I think it's brilliant. I admit, I am guilty of almost always complimenting their appearance when I meet a little girl. After reading this, I'm going to make a serious effort to change that. I remember when I was a child, I wasn't concerned about appearance. I would have wanted to talk about books, making cakes, cats (my interests haven't changed much, lol). It wasn't until people made appearance an issue that it became one. I think this is the best thing I've seen online in quite a while, and I hope it's something people can keep in mind around impressionable kids http://latinafatale.com/2011/07/21/how-to-talk-to-little-girls/

Maybe it's me overreacting here and if so I apologize to the board and the above members. However, those sunshine girls pics usually have a little blur that accompanies the pic, a blur that usually reveals personal information about the lady that could identify her. One of the main thing about this business is discretion. Any personal info reveal here even if indirectly done breaks discretion. it also has no value to members in deciding which lady they would like to visit. I am not sure if clients would be very happy had they appeared in the newspaper for some reason and a lady posted it here. We also need to respect the ladies privacy. What they do outside of CERB is their own business, and it should be up top them to decide if they want any of it mentioned on this board. Again sorry If I am overreacting on this thread. I just don't think it show go on!!!

Contrary to widespread opinion, not all males will want to fuck anything on two legs. Some of us can exert control over our reptilian brain's unbounded desires. A lot of what one hears about others can just be hyped machismo, and the ad industry and the MSM are not the least to blame here for these biases. Society at large believes these stereotypes we are fed, and it is hard to put them to rest. We guys, too, at least some large minority, are picky and have needs other than just immediate release in any available receptacle. We want to feel appreciated, attractive, lovable, trusted and understood by the other, and yes, in some sense strong and virile. We have emotional needs, just like women, but keep them closed off and unavailable to remedy. We'd like to experience the same pleasures that, for the most part, women also do. So why does this perception that it's hard to get laid, even if you're not a jerk, persist? If someone's having sex, there has to be another body present to tango with. Just some mental meanderings that I hope will stir more discussion. FR Additional Comments: I hope that made some sense. I resisted over-thinking this and editing it to death. :)

Thanks for posting that. I agree; "men are just all about sex" is the equivalent of "women are just all about babies", and neither one is always true. That said, each is a pervasive idea in our culture and we see examples of people who match that expected behaviour all the time. So when you're in your teens or twenties and trying to plumb the mysteries of the opposite gender (and even ourselves), they're easy placeholders to start with -- but should be replaced with something more nuanced the more we learn and experience. As for the original "why is getting laid hard" ... that's a complex one. A good starting point is: sex isn't always simple. Sometimes it's quite complicated, and sex with the wrong person can lead to drama, or worse. So lots of people, especially as we get older and some of the mystery and driving urge for immediate sex dissipates, tend to choose partners carefully. Prospective partners want you to be reasonably attractive, seem generally capable and to have a handle on stuff, and promise a positive experience that's worth the investment and risk. Everyone's got their own way of measuring those things, and their own set of priorities in that calculation (and this can be different at various times for the same person). This has long been a deeply interesting subject for me: what is sex to each of us? What do we think it means to have sex, or not to, and with whom? Why exactly is it important to us, and what parts of us respond to the idea and to the the act of sex? Why do we respond to particular people or things? The variety is enormous. But I could go on for pages and pages.

Thank you for your responses Emily and Cristy. Always welcomed and appreciated. Yes, thank heavens for Cerb ladies. If it was not for them, my chances of getting laid or experiences the pleasure of a woman's company. Would be zero. The only girlfriends I have had in life have been women who approached me. That has been very few and far between. Those relationships never lasted more than a few months. I do not believe I was a douche-bag (or other derogatory term). As the ladies and I remained good friends for many years after. I have Adult Asperger's. This is an Autism spectrum disorder. (No not like the rain man.) I look and act like everyone else. But I have trouble navigating social situations and making and keeping friends. Over the years I have trained myself to "fit in". But it is very draining emotionally and psychologically. Which often leads to major depression. I just realized that I have hijacked my own post/thread. So I will stop here.

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One thing that makes these kinds of discussions tricky is that it is impossible to separate what may be physiological differences between the sexes (if there are any) vs. socialized differences, the later of which is something Emily and Cleo Catra have touched on. Yes, of course each person is different and one can't stereotype an entire gender. But like it or not everyone is in one way or another influenced by the culture they grow up in. Sometimes it's subtle and we can't always be aware of where or how we've been shaped. I mean, just look at the recent article Cleo Patra shared in another thread about how people tend to talk to children: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=140617&highlight=children In any event all you have to do is look at different countries and different time periods to see what a vastly different array of views various groups have held towards sex, and how those views have influenced the people in that society. Yes, individuals within a given group will vary, but you can still spot trends. Our own society for a long time has generally said--sometimes explicitly and sometimes subtly--that men are expected to go after sex and that it is ok and natural for them to do so. On the other hand, how many messages are there out there telling woman that casual sex makes them something lessor or that it's shameful, that their bodies are to be protected? Hell, how many songs and jokes in movies are there about fathers protecting their daughters from boys? (While at the same time encouraging their sons when they make a "conquest".) Can anyone really say that all of this isn't going to have--overall--an effect on the expectations and views woman and men have regarding sex? I would think there's also a safety factor involved. I mean, if you look on any sex dating site you'll find a hundred men for each woman. But overall I suspect the man who meets someone online for anonymous sex is generally putting themselves at less risk than a woman. All that said, I'd like to end with the observation that we also have to remember we're so much more than just our gender. Our age, ethnicity, class, family, experience, and I'm sure a hundred other things all combine to make up who we are (and who society says we should be).

I really feel for your situation. While it may sound corny, I actually know several people who met life partners through on-line sites like e-harmony. That includes a 70 year old man who was lonely after his wife passed away. Now that you better understand your situation, you should continue to try to find what you are looking for. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, never feel ashamed or worthless.

That was before. I was diagnosed with Asperger's which was about 4 years ago. My response was, "So that is my major dysfunction". (Rye grin) Then anger. For not being aware of what my problem was for the last 42 years of my life... Then the doctors in their infamous wisdom decided to put me on early retirement. I felt ashamed, worthless. I gave up on dating since I had a dry spell for about 10 years. Out of desperation for affection I turned to escorts. I had a regular escort for three years, until last spring. when she retired.

Big hugs to you, unfortunately not everyone is sensitive and willing to be open to making new friends. Especially as we get older. But fear not you are in good hands here, and I speak from my heart when I say I care about your well being and happiness. I also appreciate your openness and thank you for sharing. :)

One thing I tend to do when talking to children is not dumb down my speech pattern. I talk to them as I would anyone else. Of course the topics of what I am talking about and the language I'm using are guarded lol. But the tone of my voice remains consistent with my usual speech pattern. I've noticed a lot of people's voices get higher when they're talking to children...and the way they word things change. It's like subconsciously, they all of a sudden start pretending they are the child's age. I don't do that. And in my experience, children always seem to notice and appreciate that from me. As for babies. I don't do the "goo goo ga ga" sounds at them. I've tried and it usually results with a "wtf" look from the baby and he/she crawls back to one of their parents and gives them a look that quite clearly states "who invited the weirdo?" lol. Now I just talk to them. Sure, they probably don't understand everything I'm saying yet but on some level they seem to understand that I'm speaking to them as a real person, and not as a puppy, and they seem to really enjoy that. They don't squeal laughter at me like when someone tickles them or plays the "peek-a-boo" game with them...but my method of talking to them seems to intrigue and interest them. I'm not a parent and I don't know the first thing about raising kids....but I figure interesting and intriguing a baby can't be too bad for their mental development right?

I'm surprised there would be a 5th date is there wasn't some interest. If non-verbal cues are a problem, maybe you need to explain a bit more about your situation. She may be sitting there wondering when you'll make a move. Porthos

To be perfectly honest, my sex drive soared in my mid to late thirties :). Prior to that it existed but not with near as much fervor. Like a great wine, better with age!

I think it's just because women (at least the women I know), tend to be a bit pickier. I can't count how many times I've heard guys at a bar/party say something horrible along the lines of 'any port in a storm', as in, they'll fuck anyone willing. Women, even girls I know who are dying to get laid, will turn down man after man if she doesn't find him attractive.

I'm surprised that a man would find it hard to get laid as I know a lot of horny women, lol. In my circle most of the women frown upon my lifestyle, they don't approve of escorting:( They do love to talk about and enjoy sex though. Some of my friends are coupled and I always find the male counterparts less likely to talk about and be open about sex. Women imo at least verbally are far more sexual and appear as they'd be easy to "lay" but a man would have to do the pursuing. I as well as some of my female friends would never approach-or pick up a man, we feel that's the mans job. I personally, when out, would prefer if that's all a man wanted from me, would just come out and ask me. I think I may be more male like as I don't require the emotional attachment, perhaps that's why I'm well suited for escorting, but I am a bit different than most:)

Personally, even if legalized in Canada, I wouldn't ever consider it. I like privacy in all aspects of my life and couldn't imagine ever enjoying such an arrangement and if I am not enjoying myself how could I expect my gentleman callers to?

So much easier to remember all this from the outside than when you're stuck in the midst of it with everything else happening around you. It's funny how you make these commitments to yourself to NOT be like your parents or be this way or that and out the window it flies. It all boils down to love and doing your best. Remembering that children are just little people and they deserve the same respect and intelligence that you would give an adult. The topics may be different but the underlying messages should be the same. You matter, you are important and you are a sum of your whole. Okay, time to start fresh today and do a better job! Thanks to everyone who takes time to help our kids!

Interesting Spud I eat blackberries, raspberries, blueberries and sometimes strawberries every morning, maybe that's why I'm always ready! Or it could be because Brad and Miquelon are always on my mind:69:

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Well, the quick answer that jumps to mind when reading that question: :Cunning: But I suspect that's not what you meant. :) I'm not sure I believe that foods make someone horny on a physiology level, or at least not for me they don't. However, on a psychological/emotional level there are a few that do it for me: --Champagne --Rich chocolate --Anything with whip cream on it --Something with an ice cube in it on a hot, muggy day Again, they don't do it for me in a physical sense, it's just that some of these I either associate with physical pleasure or, never far from having sex on the brain as it is, I get ideas of fun that could be had with them which turns me on.

When I was a child I would always get how cute and tiny I was and a pinch on the cheek, especially form one of my female neighbours. It drove me nuts and left an impression I think of how important ones appearance is. I think whatever a child hears over and over again is going to leave an impression and perhaps even form their opinion on how they see themselves and everyone else. I am a very visual person and I can be overly critical of my own appearance and those who I'm with, almost obsessively so. Whether this is from lessons learned or genetic, who knows. Now when I meet and talk to children I make an effort not to mention their appearance. Most kids are very curious and will ask questions so its easy to get into a conversation without having to mention their obvious cuteness.

I love sendind them and i love receiving them. I think communication is the most important thing....before and after an encounter. So I will always send a note after meeting a lady...hoping it will bring a smile to her lips. Receiving a note always put bounce in my steps... Recently I meet a lady and communication with her so so great....I will love her forever!!!

Thank you for the amazing article Cleo. It certainly makes you rethink how to address them as well as just talk to them or of them in general.

So Ladies, who would you rather come to rescue... Firefighters? Policeman? Army? Screw that, I'll do the saving!

Go ahead ladies!

I met with Keissy in Brandon recently. It was an all around terrific and enjoyable experience. She is hot, her pictures on her website are very real. She is beautiful, has a terrific personality, sense of humor and of course a sexy French accent. As far as the experience it was amazing and she is very, very good at what she does! :-D A definate must see and a definate repeat visit for me.

After almost every encounter I usually send a thank you message via pm or email, usually same method used for booking. I just figured its polite and I know personally if the roles were reversed I would love the compliments and gratitude. So this question just occurred to me, is this a common thing to do? Ladies do you enjoy if or does it get annoying reading extra messages/email?

I talk to all kids like a grownup. No vulgar language or topics of course. I never talk down to children. Some of them are smarter than adults. With my nieces and friends young girls, I always like to compliment accomplishments, and intelligence. My 11 year old niece finally asked if she was pretty. I responded "Of course you are, you are beautiful, but as we all know girls have cooties", which led to her beating me up and trying to smother me with a pillow. I often say I am impressed when a buddy's child helps with dishes, yardwork etc. Positive re-enforcement is the way to go for me. My Dad was the opposite. Never praised, always critical. I think it is so important to tell young girls they are smart, and sweet and can be anything they want to.

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Just some off the cuff ramblings. I really don't think there are hard and fast rules about men versus women and sex. I've known some guys who could and would have random sex with any women just for the moment of pleasure it gave them, even though they may be married and risk everything. Likewise I've known a few women who risk their marriage and family for random sexual encounters, just for the moment of pleasure it gave them. And then there are married men and women I know that wouldn't ever think of having affairs. Likewise, a lot of sexual activity is also dependant on maturity. I'm sure when one is younger and less mature (meaning less likely to consider the consequences) he/she is more likely to have casual sex acting on his/her sex drive than when he/she gets older and more mature and can possibly foresee the consequences of casual sexual activity. There are also generalizations about sex that I don't believe hold true. One generalization is that men can have sex but don't want strings. But how many threads have we read here about men wanting to date and develop relationships with an SP they are seeing? Or that seeing a professional companion is just about sex. Speaking for myself, seeing a professional companion is about companionship, and sex plays just a part of an encounter, but isn't the sole reason for the encounter. Like I said, just some off the cuff ramblings. Men and women shouldn't be judged or generalized by their sex or age. They should be judged if you will individually, by how they behave and treat others RG

I hope I didn't offend with my post, I most definitely didn't mean my comments were about ALL men. And not all women. I would never, ever, dare to try and speak on behalf of an entire gender. I have, in my lifetime, seen a lot of guys though, go home with anyone willing, and have seen many girls turn down guys even though I know they're horny as hell. But that in no way means it applies to all men, and it wasn't my intention to imply that. Perhaps it's because, as a woman, those women have shared with me what's going on, and all I see from the men is the projected machismo. Or perhaps it's that the guys I hang out with in my personal life are mostly jerks, and that's definitely possible, lol.

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Is there an exchange policy for this gift??? SMH. lol

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I feel a poll coming on.... :) Just kidding, but it is a great picture! Thanks. Maybe a pole??? lol

Lol I take it my comment pissed some people off. Sorry for that it was tounge in cheek. I get it its a community for all..... my bad for not looking at it that way. New here. Thanks to some of ya for getting my comment ( meg ) and my sincere apologies to those that didn't. Was not my intention to trash the thread. Love ya all. I'll write out " I will not trash posts with my comments" a 100 times for punishment.

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I feel the need to mention this again as I've seen to many threads with the theme running through. I can be completely turned on, so totally into the person I'm with and wishing it would never end but NOT have an orgasm. Some ladies are lucky enough to reach orgasm easily, multiple times and with extreme wetness and squirting, others are not. Some take a little work or specific actions. I really dislike thinking someone would walk away from an incredible encounter feeling like they wasted their money because I didn't orgasm especially if I'm left feeling like begging them to come back for more. On the flip side, I'm sure there has been wonderful pleasure and dates with men who might have a little difficulty. Are those any less amazing? NO. I think there is incredible pressure put on the almighty orgasm to the point, it blocks out everything else and this is on both sides of the gender coin. Orgasms are wonderful, amazing things yet even on the basis of orgasms, people feel them in different ways. there are different types and levels of intensity. Do you feel gypped if you get one over the other? or if you have a small one not a huge one? I guess I'm saying why can't the journey be part of the pleasure, the enjoyment and the date and part of the reason you feel satisfied or chose to repeat? Destination is great but if your focus is on that, what did you miss or forget along the way? Just to clarify, I'm not dysfunctional, I do orgasm, I do get wet and I do enjoy every little thing about a date. I'm not scary LOL!

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Thank you Gabriella for bringing this up. If the lady asks you if you want a shower, she is not asking you because she is being kind. She is actually telling you in a very polite way, that you need to take a shower. Use the supplies (deodorant, mouthwash SOAP). Get into all your nooks and crannies. Remember, we don't want any will nots left behind either (you know what I mean, 'they will not come out'). You never know, if she joins you, its a lot of fun.....hint hint