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https://medium.com/boinkology-101/98e69aae5ea2 You all might find this article interesting, discussing the false dichotomy that the "porn sex vs real sex" framing creates.

I don't know about the rest of you but this lifestyle has opened up a world of pleasure. Being able to explore some of my fantasy's is amazing but I've found explore the other persons fantasy's or letting them lead you in something you've never explored is even better. Being open to try new thing and explore different aspect of sexuality has opened door to worlds of pleasure where I never thought possible. It's one thing to please a woman, which is a huge turn on but, allowing the woman to do what she like, allow her to be more comfortable and familiar on how it works, which often leads to her ultimate pleasure which in my opinion has lead to my ultimate pleasures. I must admit my sex life prior was very plain, so for example I once met a lady who like to give prostate massages, was a little nervous at forts but OMG what a pleasure it brought. The lady was getting turned on and well myself I never felt better. I met another lady who enjoys anal which turned out to be something I myself fantasize about. Even some light bondage, which was interesting. Not being something that turn me on but knowing how much it turning on my partner well trust me the rewards were great. I've explored nuru which is very intimate, also the occasional laugh cause its so slippery. Even just watching two ladies pleasure each other is so hot. So whatever your kink may be, keep an open mind of others cause there is so much fun out there and exploring it has been great. Have your horizon been broaden, while in this lifestyle.

It has certainly expanded my mind in many ways. It has broadened my knowledge base with respect to women in a positive way. It has allowed me to explore my secret desires that otherwise would have gone undiscovered. I have met some very nice and interesting people along the way. I was raised in a very strict religious environment. Part of the journey for me has been leaving some pretty ridged and archaic moral values that were imposed upon me as a young man behind. I honestly think that in doing so, it has caused me to loosen up and be a more interesting, fun relaxed person!

Off course Claire is still around!,, no need to panic! She is a busy girl and cant come online all the time...as for the website if you are using claireheavens.com thats no longer working..,you should be looking at http://claireheavensinottawa.com Go catch her! :-)

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I list them and what you see is what you get with me. This has dramatically cut down on private messages and phone calls asking if I do this or that. When a person calls me, they have read all the info and ready to book. It's all listed there. Having been coy about this sort of thing in the past and not wanting to list it created more confusion and I'm not ashamed to list what I offer and what I don't offer.

For me, and speaking only for me, I do like to know what a lady's rate for an encounter is, to me that is reasonable I do understand that some gentlemen like to see a menu, a list of services that the lady provides is important to them. And I confess, when I was a newbie, that was my focus. But I met some remarkable ladies and realized seeing companions was much more than about sex. For me, an encounter is more, much more than the sum of the lady's services. It is about chemistry, how we click and so on. What is the most important part of a lady's website, for me at least, is the section usually titled "About Me" or something along those lines. If interested, her posts, emails and pm's give me further insight as to if we will click. Most of the ladies I see or will see don't have a menu on their website. But their websites give me a little glimpse into who they are and that is why I'm interested in meeting them. But they all tell me what the donation is for an encounter with them. To answer your question though, I wouldn't view listing services as a negative. There will be potential clients who are interest first and foremost in the services provided. Just for me, much more important is the connection/chemistry we will have...whether we will click is far more important. Hope that helps RG

I have often wondered the same thing. I have also wondered why the need was felt to call it "greek" when it already had a name(s) that weren't related to anyone's ethnicity. While I dislike the acronyms, I find when I use them people at least know what I'm talking about and it makes it easier to communicate a lot in a little space. If I don't use them, it seems like a lot of information jammed into one spot. I much prefer talking one on one about sexy stuff then reducing it to letters.

I think rates are a pertinent things to post. Otherwise a majority of first contacts will start with, "Hey, What are your rates?" As for services, many of the lovely ladies on here choose not to use labels or acronymns, but provide a brief description of an "encounter" without using specifics. I think thats a good route to go, with the finishing line being to contact the provider in order to discuss specifics privately. That develops communication right off the bat and clarifies anything that might be considered a grey area before meeting. Seems the smart way to go in my opinion :)

That is correct, your welcome to use the leave a comment icon to thank people for the info (it will not BUMP the thread and will give the guy some rep points rewarding him for the nice comment and info provided). I would encourage the use of this from both the ladies (as a thanks) and the other guys (who found value in what was added).

I like having the Rates posted, so that I know if it is within my budget. I like to know what is being offered or better yet what is off limits. as I do not want to offend the woman if I try something that she is not comfortable with. I do read their information and check out the web sites. The more details and photo's there are, the easier it is to make my decision. Sometimes It's a last minute decision to see someone, and I do not have time to text and wait for replies. So I may have a short list, and whoever happens to be free within my schedule, will probably be the one I see. As I ususally let lady luck determine who I see, and she has been good to me so far :)

I give a brief description of what my encounters entail, but not vivid details. As for acronyms, the only one I use is bbbj-because I do not provide such service. Unfortunately in this city-there is a very high amount of men that expect that from the get go since majority of sp ladies provide them, so I personally think it is a must to indicate your restrictions, not what you allow :) Some may say it does not matter, but until you are in a room with a man who expects this, and then becomes irritated by the fact that they did not know....well it is very awkward , uncomfortable and sometimes scary :(

First when I started out and the whole process was quite foreign to me I liked to see the list of "services" so I knew what to expect from what was an entirely new experience. So I think newbies may like to see the listing to help them understand what's in-store for them. Now with more experience (and the help of CERB), I don't really care about it as I'm much more comfortable chatting with companions about my preferences for my encounter. As a rule I have an understanding about what's "included" in my experience and if there happens to be any specific request that I might have that's outside "the norm" of typical services I just ask the companion about it. We're all adults, and if we're adult enough to do it then we should be adult enough to talk about it. However, if a companion has a specific service that she chooses not to offer (greek, BBBJ, etc) I think it would be easier to list the "don't do" services to avoid unnecessary contacts by clients looking for this service. Just my thoughts.

Ummm... I offer a quality service that you are asking for, take a look into my profile, see my website for detailed description and video to enjoy:) http://mssophiav.ca/ Miss Sophia V xoxo

And volunteer you have! Thank you, Cat!! :-) Hopefully, there will be some left that will find their way out of the social ... ;-)

Altho some may think I am biased, I'd be happy to volunteer for the judging! cat

haha!

Andrea poses the question in her ads of "Can I be your guilty pleasure?" The answer is most certainly she can! Andrea is fun to chat with and fun to play with. She describes herself quite accurately in her ads. If small breasts are a particular item of interest, you really must see Andrea. Plus she has a bum that can well be described as being just slightly more than a handful each. So if tiny bums peak your interest, there you go. I've seen Andrea twice now. Both times were on relatively short notice. Usually I schedule my outings a few days in advance or more but meeting Andrea reminds me that it is good to occasionally stray from one's normal processes. Wearing a sexy little outfit, she met me at the door with a kiss I'd expect from a long lost lover. After divesting myself of my electronics and clothes, we hopped on the bed and got to know each other. The more we talked and stroked, the more my little guy wanted to get to know her. Once he was covered Andrea set about getting to know him in a most personal and pleasurable way. We swapped positions and I found she had a most responsive body when approached just right. Ah, age and experience, sometimes it serves me well! The natural flow of events brought us to a doggy position which she well likes. Eventually, things came to a thrilling climax. Subsequent adventures showed that Andrea is really quite amazingly flexible. It is a joy to watch her eyes and her smile while we are enjoying each other's company. All in all, Andrea is a welcome addition to Ottawa. I am happy to have made her acquaintance and wish her well on her adventures. I will most definitely be back to enjoy the pleasure of her company.

I debated just throwing this into the Randomness thread but I think it raises enough important points for a discussion. uses food to demonstrate the difference between porn videos and real life in less than 2 minutes. Pretty well done. I know a lot of new guys are a little insecure when they're starting out so it might be helpful for them to know that many of the experienced ladies on this board won't find this video surprising. So don't get stressed out...go see someone. They're probably way more understanding than you might imagine.

I can't say I've done anything during a session that I hadn't done in my personal life but this profession has allowed me more sexual freedom. By that I mean I can have as much or as little with as many men as I choose and get paid doing it, I love that, what a way to live, lol:)

For me, it's always 5 mins before the appt is when I get nervous. I find just being in a good mood in general helps me and first impressions are everything. I always greet my guests with a kiss as an icebreaker.

Definitely have to thank JessyCeleste for her POV (no pun intended ;) ) One of the big realizations Ive had since being more active in this community is just what she has said. Sexuality isn't a black and white business. Curiosity and basic primal instinct are something that can't be conciously controlled, and a lot of the time will quite differ from an emotional state of mind. Im one for: if the thought of it turns you on, give it a try and see how you like it. Does it change who you are? No, just adds more layers :)

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I find that having a bit of detail on my site about specific services has been helpful. I do still receive inquiries for things that I have listed as not offered, but the amount of these requests has gone down significantly from when I did not have a site. While I am not really comfortable listing every single thing that may or may not be available, I do list my clear boundaries, and leave it open to anyone interested could always contact me for more specifics on what more is offered.. For the most part it works for me, but there will always be those who don't look over our sites at all lol

I love the playful look on her face, gorgeous

Big time! There's things I definitely wouldn't have been comfortable doing in the past that I have grown into more. Im not typically a reserved or shy person but I was definitely guarded when it came to sexuality. I've come out of my shell quite a bit and have been able to explore different aspects above and beyond guy+girl=fluids. I also have to thank CERB and the people on here for teaching me so much in the short amount of time I've been here. Cheers!

I'm sure some ladies would appreciate this, but I think this thread is for pictures of people with penises

As my Lawyer would tell you, I'm no Lawyer so I'm not certain about the legal ramifications, but as a business person, I can confirm that people DON'T read signs, websites, ads etc. and it is damn frustrating!

I see a challenge forming ... :-) We might need to form a panel of impartial judges, though i'm sure it would not be hard to find a few to do a taste test !!! Sooooo ..... who would be up for the job, i wonder? :-)

Can't cut and paste using my ipad but...is this puppy love? "Tiny" is soooo adorable....I will call him george. I will love him and pet him and squeeze him! http://www.carolynstoykennel.sitew.ca/#Chihuahua_Teacup_Pups_Available_in_Ottawa_.A

I prefer to encourage a connection between myself and a patron, but that most definitely depends on the guy - is he into developing a connection or does he just want to get laid? When I think a 'connection' would be a good thing to start nurturing is when the guy turns into a regular and wants to see me more often than not. Some may say that is 'leading', but I would respond with, "What is your agenda?" In essence my only purpose is to make an enjoyable moment spent between two adults, hopefully, temporarily forgetting that it is a business transaction. Wouldn't you agree that most of everything that conspires between people is often spurred on by fantasy?

Hey there, Come visit me for a lovely massage and good times :D

Yes meg you are correct about the photos, the have to be set to private. My page is set to public but to be honest I have no clue what to add or put? I do not feel comfortable putting anything that can reveal my identity to the public, but I have no problem if someone contacts me for info. As for my pic you wanna see them I'm happy to show them. They are of my pets. I too would like to know about the avatar, do you have to save a picture in an album? FYI I mostly use my I phone so not sure save as works in this case. Thanks for bringing this up I had no idea.

Peek at me baby. Leave a message. I love it,

I bought my ticket last night, yah Porter! Its been awhile Ottawa and I am very excited to see everyone. :icon_smile::icon_smile::icon_smile: Additional Comments: Going to Ottawa to meet my neighbour, ha ha!

I am making plans now to see if it is possible for me to get there. I hopefully will know in another week. Hope it is in the stars for me:) Let ya all know when I know:)

Have you read this thread? I think you may want to, seems to be confusion over what legit massage and erotic massage and the VERY different form of touch it is! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=142492

I like a funny catch line...Emily J always posts something catchy for example but then I need the info....how to contact (including website URL)...services offered and donation required. I don't usually bother with contacting someone who looks hot but gives no info in the ad.

Just wait for it..history will repeat itself like it did with CL when an MP was murdered in a Boston hotel room. It won't take long for Canadian authorities to follow suit once again. I wonder if this will finally be the end of classified sites where mainstream society can find electronics, tires and sex workers all in one site. It was much better when adult industry sites were strictly adult sites. IMO, so much has changed in the business because of these types of sites and not in a good way.

Ok Ladies by popular demand. One more from a recent portrait sitting. Cub

I actually find stills a lot of work. Staying stiff in an uncomfortable position to get the right shot is almost harder.. I love the results though. I started with some magazines and I also had to assist the photographer with the light meter. Very time consuming as well. In order to get 250 shots that they end up choosing 25 from it takes about 2-3 hrs for one shoot. In both cases there's a lot of prep as well.. whereas with escort appts there's 15-20 min most times (assuming shower is already done of course).

Hi there everyone, First of all I would like to say thank you for all of your kind words. It is the men like you that make us love what we do as SPs. I do want to clear a couple things up though... 1. I know that it has been said that I offer BBFs. This is not a service that I provide (no exceptions) so please dont ask. I also dont swallow (sorry guys). 2. I definitely apologize if I have ever kept anyone waiting. Being fairly new at this it took me a while to figure out the business aspect including scheduling. I will only see a couple of gentlemen in an incall day so often my excellent clients are made to wait until the next incall. For that I apologize as well. 3. I do feel bad for the fact that I AM fairly hard to get a hold of sometimes. I generally do most of my bookings online as my phone was constantly ringing from morning to night with fake calls and texts. Through emails we can kind of get a feel for one another better than a 2 minute conversation. 4. I have been asked why I dont work on the weekends...I do. I will work any day a gentleman needs me, I just pre-book all weekend sessions. SPs have a very different schedule. We are on call at most times. Pre-booking weekends is just a way to have a social life along with working. I hope I have cleared a few things up. Thanks for taking the time to read my post. And again, to all of you men who love to have a good time while treating a lady right, I applaud you and thank you. And to all of my regular gentlemen a special thank you for helping to make this experience a great one for me I only hope I am returning the favor.

Dude, seriously...just fucking do it. Who can you trust? Everyone. All the ladies who advertise here and have review threads are absolutely trustworthy as far as your needs are concerned. You're not giving them your bank account or SIN number or first born child for fucks sake. Shave your nuts, wash your ass, head to the ATM and have at it. Don't be a pussy.

I do a lot of searching and planning for dates through my mobile device and use the mobile site of CERB. Not only is the screen small, older iphone, but a lot of the nice features and links get removed. Would the lovely people of CERB please add their webpage link as a separate line in their adds please .. This would make looking at their sites for extra information so much easier. I thank you in advance Posted via Mobile Device

Reputation takes time to build.. most people get into this business with no long term goals in mind (Thinking they will do it for a while and get out) and want to make the most money possible as quick as possible... and therefore building a reputation is often not even a thought. Cerb is more for the seasoned ladies and the ladies who really like working in this business. Ladies who feel that reputation is important and want to build a safe long term business (and remain ethical and have integrity). This is where reputation counts. This is something that is often needed to be learned and many of the ladies jump into this business with no goals but find they like the business and choose to stay... so the ladies who try to short cut and spam market may realize that they do not need to do this (With the help of cerb and sites like escorts-canada.com) .... so lets not be too hard on them... Lets show them that a better alternative exists, lead by example... and show them that the effort is well worth it.