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That is something that can happen, which is part of the reason why some people, both women and men, don't want others touching that area. The fear/embarrassment/queasy, etc. And I totally respect that. I personally like anal, a lot. I've had some of my most intense orgasms that way. But as pointed out above, there always IS a possiblity that something 'unpleasant' may be visible on the condom afterward. Before an anal session, many girls (myself included) do some sort of preparation in order to prevent this from happening - but nothing is 100%. My attitude is, you wanted to fuck my ass, you need to be prepared for that small possibility. If that will gross you out, then it's not an activity we should share. There defintiely have been times when I've been on the giving end of anal play and things are there, but I don't bat an eyelash - I always have tissues and wipes right there, and it doesn't make me uncomfortable at all. The pleasure anal sex can bring to both women and men is way worth the small chance of a mess.

Great conversation, ladies and gents :) I love the viewpoints. For me, anal is a long term goal of mine. :) hehehe. Other people have long term goals like to learn a new language or to travel to a certain country... One of mine is to be able to get fucked in the bum. Tee hee :) I have experimented in the area, and when I am feeling good and really in the mood for it, I really enjoy the feelings and sensations there. Occasionally when I am feeling extra naughty, I use a small anal toy like this one when I masturbate: I can get going really good with it, and it gives me super intense awesome orgasms. And for me, it is definitely the physical feeling, but it is also very much the naughty aspect, and the fact that it is considered a "forbidden" area. I have tried full-on anal sex a few times with a former long term partner, but for various reasons, it just has never worked out well... yet. I am well educated about it and know all about how to do it, etc... I just simply have not gotten there yet. It's a slow process for me. I'd really like to get more comfortable with exploring anal pleasure on a partner as well; including strap on and prostate massage, both of which I have quite limited experience with. Admittedly, it makes me a bit nervous, but also very curious and I would love to bring pleasure to those willing partners in a new way... when I am ready. My sexuality is a lifelong journey, so I am in no real rush. I think about anal in the same way that I think about many other sexual experiences; as something to look forward to enjoying and exploring more; something to continue experimenting with and pushing my own boundaries. I also have fantasies about getting double penetrated like a naughty little slut someday as well. :)

Controversy aside, I don't think anyone can argue this man was a musical genius. I lovelovelove his music. Today would have been his 55th birthday. I know we can't control how threads go.... but my hope with this thread is to post your favourite MJ songs, and fondly remember a legend. Please don't bring negative conversation about him here...let's just remember him for the legend he was. My fave: Smooth Criminal

I have to say you are mistaken my dear. If you have a lady in the mood, size does not matter - at least in my case. I have had very, very enjoyable anal sex with cocks of all sizes - including some of the largest ones I've encountered. In fact, I once suggested anal to a very large man a while back - to see if I could do it. And FUCK YES I did, and ohhhh the orgasms :D However, if you walk into a session, pull an arm out of your pants, and expect to be able to stick it into my ass with no foreplay, then forget it. But once the juices are flowing... size is irrelevant.

paradise has a hot tub room never seen a table shower in ottawa bodyslides are plentiful. just search this site most MA spas and indys offer them. many as part of package, others as extras. best bet is to drop them a note and ask

In my mind its all about being careful. If you turn on find my phone and track your iphone with it from another device you immediately get a pop-up saying you are being tracked. If a device joins your iTunes account you get a notification of that as well. Sure if you jailbreak your phone some apps can be loaded to bypass those features, but if you are smart enough to jailbreak your phone you can run a location faker as well. The android world is a little more open but in all reality if you are going to give your SO open access to your device to install an app you are gonna get busted for so many other things you left around. My advice :) if you dont know how to use your tool... Keep it safe in your pants!! Kelly

Tee hee! I think tutus are super cute! :) I have a white one and wear it for guests by request. I did a photo shoot in the spring and got a few good tutu pics :)

When I'm going down on a woman, I don't hide the fact that I enjoy giving daty. Since I can quite happily spend a lot of time on that activity I'll pause occasionally to confirm just what a good time I'm having. I'll tell her how much I like her taste, smell, etc. I'll smile so she can see the the fun I'm having. Likewise, one thing I find a turn on when a lady is going down on me is when she makes it known, either in words or deeds, that she enjoys giving a blowjob, and is finding the activity a turn on as well. Tell me how much you like sucking cock if that's the case... Feel free to touch yourself while you do it if it's turning you on... Smile eagerly in anticipation... Of course sometimes it's nice to just lay back and greedily be spoiled. But I think most of the time people--male and female--get a lot of pleasure and excitement not just from what their partner is doing to them, but from knowing they're also having a good time doing it!

I have noticed MANY profiles of hobbyists are very stark which I can understand because sometimes you're new and have no idea what to write or even what you might be looking for. I am finding though that there is never any location associated which I find rather frustrating personally because I enjoy knowing where people are from. Not only does it give me an idea of those who are local but also an idea of what areas may be interested. Example..if I have a lot of people checking me out from say Winnipeg, I might, if I were traveling, look at this as a place to include. On a smaller scale, I just like to know the local scene and who is around even if they are not around for me. So my question, why don't you include a location on your profile when SP's generally find this useful?

To many to list,:) kind people are plentiful lately and I'm so grateful:):) Life is great:):)

...in hobbying as much as is in life :-) Take the time to research and plan ahead using polite communications, knowing ahead of time, once again like life in general, not everything in hobbying works out - due to many understanding reasons. Take any clear 'unprofessionalism' on behalf of either party simply as a sign the stars are not meant to align for you at this time in space - thus move on, it's not worth stewing over (just live and learn), as there are many more beautiful ladies out there whom are mature professionals and can more than satisfy your cravings. Believe you me! ...and as part of your research - Welcome to CERB! Check out the recos here, as they can help guide you toward more reputable ladies - the info and community are here to help, as you can see :-) (...and don't forget to leave a reco if you have if you have 1 to share - Thx!) Now, once you find the right lady for you - then the journey will only make the destination taste that much more sweet :-D Among other techniques and perspectives, I call this: Zen and the Art of Hobbying ;-) Wax on, Wax off young Grasshopper!

This may have been posted already but I couldn't find it with a quick search. In any case, it is an episode I had missed. Penn and Teller use their usual low-key facetious approach but I found that they hit a lot of important points. I thought some of you might enjoy listening to it. http://youtu.be/ehpdidDnTMk

27 Problems Only Introverts Will Understand

Hmmm..... How do I word this ? ........ I am a virgin !!!! Well I mean I don't speak Greek..... but I am going to visit Greece before I die and check this all out and learn the language ... Me and my penis like to travel ;)

Either Zoe, Charlotte, Jane, Kassi or Autumn will rock your world!

I'm feeling a bit naughty today Gents come join me! This sweet lil thing needs a good spanking and maybe even a bit more :P Come enjoy a full body erotic massage with me and maybe I can teach you a lesson about being naughty. I'm always eager to play, learn and obey. Located at 1902 Robertson rd. until 11 pm tonight! for bookings call 613-820-8887

Well, you've got the link for the next social already. One other thing: Quite a few ladies have a social rate for this kind of thing (although it may be more aimed at going out than staying in), and if someone you'd like to see doesn't have a published social rate, you can always ask her if she does. If you're looking to hang out off the clock... if she asks to hang out with you, then that's great, and you'll probably have an awesome time. But if you ask her, then bear in mind that in her eyes you've probably just become yet another cheap-ass guy looking for free stuff, and she's probably got enough of those already. Once you get to know someone well it may be different, and close relationships do arise between SPs and clients... but if you try and force it then it almost certainly won't happen. I hate to be a downer on this, but it's probably wise to set your expectations realistically.

I have intel on her. If anyone wants it, then PM me.

Wanted to discuss something personal away from my Routine SP.. tra la la :-) Yeah I do have personal relationships and Yeah I do date.Anyways.... Okay, so recently I met a guy that I thought I liked, and I assumed that he liked me, earlier today we hooked up a little (fingering and a lot of french kissing, sex kinda happened but he lost his erection quickly). Anyway, I asked him to go down on me and he refused, saying that I'm a squirter and that I get too wet, I'm mildly insulted, to say that least. Now I'm trying to figure out what I should do with this guy, and if any other females here have ever encountered this.

telling a gal she "gets too wet" is like having a gal tell me I "get too hard"... dump this loser....

Thinking of Michael today as it would have been his birthday, and gotta say - The Jackson 5 is some of my favourite music to drive to in the morning - I dare you to not wake up and sing along!

sounds like Emerald...Italian Morrocan mix, slender , looks kinda Lebanese...she has a great personality..usually they say that about plain girls, but she is also a stunning beauty..she was new in spring...I've been watching her evolve into an exquisite beauty..still a teenager too...

Eye contact is good when she might be on her knees and you are standing up, otherwise laying down is okay too, BUT personally, I rather be in the 69'ner and licking/sucking her pussy rather looking deep into her eyes. :) Giddy up!

The ass is my favourite body part and I find all forms of anal play a huge turn on....rubbing, kissing, licking, squeezing, spanking, etc., both giving and receiving. I don't consider anal sex or anal play taboo but I think one reason I like it so much is the fact that I don't get to experience it very often. Unfortunately most of the ladies I've been with in my personal life haven't felt the same way so it is a rare pleasure for me. Hopefully I'll be able to experience this on occasion in this hobby.

This was me last week at the beach.....before I hijacked this thread.... AND notice the polite guy holding the umbrella for the lady there He is nice. I am now slim and trim a week later at *72 lbs on the Bud Light beer diet.....

Geez, why not instead just put ankle bracelets on your SO and kids like a court would do if someone gets granted bail This is just creepy, if someone's spouse is to the point that you monitoring him/her like this, the relationship is already over RG

C is for......Cock!! Simply put, freely given, hard, pulsating...

Agree with you Meaghan I'm sure this lady would like a recommendation in the recommendation page of the city you saw her in It goes in the general discussion area for all of Canada very soon it will be buried for no one to see. In the recommendation page easily accessible for other gentlemen to read about RG

You should put this in the correct area. You are posting in General discussion area. Is she in Fredericton?

First thank you all for this thread awesome discussion! I find that the beauty in this industry is that no one does it the same..! I relate to sex the same way I talk about food.. at the end were talking about eating something!! lol The point is that not everyone enjoys the same restaurants!( Some are more popular than others !!) what makes a good restaurant? Service, Ambiance and Quality is what I look for usully... For a good service and a great BJ I think it works the same its not only about the strokes and the motion and the way she does it but also the will to please! I don't mind constructive criticism but like we say in french " Le ton fait la chanson.. " the way the delivery is done changes everything... The same way you Gents don't like the bad sassy attitude of some SP's the same way I don't like when men give me bad attitude when I am servicing them. Why? Simply it does not make me want to go the extra mile for him its a simple turn off! I love what I do and like Peaches said I love Cock!! Duh !! I find that there is a difference between the girl that just wants to pay the bills Vs the one that like what she does. When enjoying what you do the attention given to the other person is stronger and therefore better! For the technical part I would say that its not only about the shaft and oral sex is not about one spot and one technique... The whole body gets involved... from my breast touching your inner thighs while I have it between my lips to the soft touch of my hand on your skin, it involves the whole body. I'm curious to know what you guys think about the eye to eye contact when receiving a BJ?

You would be amazed at how easy it is to install a Trojan on an android device. That is, you think you're installing something legitimate like say an Angry Birds game, which you are, but along with it comes a botnet. The botnet can be quite sophisticated, enough to not only track you, but take pictures, videos without you knowing and send that back to a command and control. Scary stuff.

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Like Peachy said communication is key always. Another aspect that I thought I'd comment on as an aspect of a BJ is the balls licking and sucking. With many men licking play with the sack is pleasurable. However just like woman with anal, ball sucking is usually a love it or hate it type thing. My nuts don't like pressure and sucking LOL. In fact it can cause discomfort even if a lady licks or plays with them a little too rough. I'm sure that there are guys who actually find hard sucking of the nuts enjoyable just not me. Hell, if a lady sucked on one of my nuts hard I'm pretty sure I'm going limp right after.

I have an adult son who has Asperger's Syndrome which makes him very much of the "introverted loner" type. I found what this article said very much "on the money". As a sidebar, the first thing my son bought when he moved out on his own was a dog. I worried about his ability to relate to the animal and care for it but in hindsight, it is probably the best thing he ever did, for at the dog park he fits right in. He doesn't seem any more socially awkward than the others there. The dog has given a very introverted young man a connection to the rest of society. So I certainly concur with introverts and pets comments previously made.

That small explosion you may have heard was the sound of my little mind blowing-up. Pay no attention. It will heal in time. Hammer with the crescent wrench outline?? That's absurd - it, it just won't fit. Honestly Lee, sometimes I think you do this deliberately just to test my limits. I have it on good authority it's somewhat illegal too. Have you actually tried this? Tell me you haven't tried this. I can't believe anyone could try....oh - can you send me a picture? I can understand if some misguided soul were to attempt to install a pot in a cutlery drawer. When visiting, my 82 year old mother-in-law does this sort of thing, just for entertainment value. I politely indulge her because she is so good to me. When she leaves, I tenderly remove my nails imbedded in my palms*. *On further note, I have a steady & handy supply of disinfectant and bandages. I like to get the large bottles of hand gel disinfectant from CostCo. They come with the pump dispenser. You don't have to pick up a yucky squeeze bottle. But Dude! I can't believe anyone could deliberately mix the white socks with the black socks :icon_eek: - brrrrr. That's rather disorganized. It's disturbing and I'm uncomfortable with the concept.

Really great article, Nathalie! :) Thank you so much for sharing! (I know this is an old thread, but it seems to have gotten some new life!) Like others, I was also able to relate to the explanations written. A few years ago, I thought it was weird to want to be alone so often, but now I am comfortable with just doing what feels right. I have traced part of this back to growing up as an only child. I had friends, but it's not the same as having other siblings in the house at all times. I figure that I became accustomed to often being alone and having my own privacy, finding ways to entertain myself, and learning to be comfortable with a calm and relaxed atmosphere. I've never felt that I need people around all the time to be happy, and in fact, I feel quite the opposite. And when there is people around, it doesn't have to be constant interaction. When I reflect on being an SP, and consider my personality and lifestyle, it just really all fits together. I do like people, but in a quiet, private setting, and for a short while. I get my necessary physical human contact, my intimate needs are met, I have enough social time with others, yet it's in the perfect sized small doses. And then I get my adequate time to myself :) For me, it is a perfect balance. I wonder if there is also some sort of connection with introverts and animals. It seems logical that the company and presence of an animal would often be preferred by an introvert, as opposed to the company of another person. I feel that way, at least. I adore the companionship of my dog and cats, in a way that another person could never substitute.

The good......motorcycle trip to PEI last weekend with 6 other bikes. The bad...........the steering column separated on my pickup when an employee was driving it and he crashed it while I was gone. The ugly......he was loaded when driving it from my house to the barn to do a late night barn check on the livestock...he ditched it and maybe wrote it off. THAT broke the steering column. The really ugly........I have given my kids and their friends some latitude while growing up and this was the first betrayal. He came in my office today crying and trembling and handed me a fistful of bills. He could't take the lying any longer and wanted the truth out. I told him to put the money back in his pocket and we'll get through it somehow. He considers me more as his father that his real father.....sad. He's youngish, his GF is pregnant, they just broke up......unfricking real. This will be another financial hit for me, as if I need it. Right now, he needs support more than condemnation.

Thanks Gabby. I was in a bit of a hurry when I typed out my question so left certain things unsaid. I agree, I would never add a city based on profile visits but it does give an opportunity to delve into that location a bit more to see if perhaps there might have been missed interest and a chance to branch out. I have read posts and such to determine a location however that's only with those I take an interest in. The others I just make a noise and move on. Thank you to everyone for your input. I assumed it was privacy or disinterest, it's just one of those things that coming up for me

I put smalltown Ontario, but I do travel. Where I live is so small that no ladies would come here. But I do travel, and my encounters have taken me from the following Ontario cities, London, Hamilton, Toronto, Kingston, and Ottawa. I guess I could be called a touring gentleman LOL But any ladies thinking of touring to Ontario, well you see where my travels take me, living in smalltown Ontario still allows me to enjoy the companionship of ladies who only go to the big city. Gee the preacher was right, seeing the ladies from the big city would take away this small town boy's innocence. But he was wrong, it wasn't a sin, it was two people enjoying each other's company, in a mutually beneficial encounter and it was sure fun :-) A rambling from a not so innocent small town boy RG

I am by no means a legal expert so you may want to seek a lawyer to ask this question especially since the word "sue" was bandied about. Personally, I would think that if you are running a business and you have an "invitation" stating all the pertinent details including information on deposits and cancellations, to me this would be a legal document and as such provide a disclaimer for what the gentlemen is demanding. Do these clients have to sign anything to be on the guest list or do they just verbally request, pay and it's done? This would be a solid defense. However, having information on the invitation and the exchange of funds can also be legally binding as a contract. As I said, not knowing exactly what's involved and to what degree, I would say cover yourself with some legal advice so you know exactly where you stand. This gives you either the upper hand to say "non refundable" or "half" (if you want to extend the olive branch) or to know whether it's best to suck it up, cross said client off any future lists and learn from the experience. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. Unfortunately in the upper echelon there is a belief that the customer is alw2ays right even when they're not. Good Luck!

I've also had good results with ant.com - no trouble with youtube, and many other sites. A few portals haven't worked, but they're few and far between.

Well my opinion..... It is awesome !!!! It truly is. My advise would be to get to know the lady and just have that gut feeling that you will get along just fine .... she will do the same.....and things will be golden ! Everyone must be comfortable in this case ....most ladies would like to meet you prior perhaps a time or two or otherwise have a fair bit of correspondence...that is just my opinion though I have done all day visits and some overnighters. Don't plan toooo much. Just meet up and go with the flow and let things happen spontaneously and naturally as far as what you do, when you do it and just enjoy your time together. Enjoy. That's what it is all about. For both parties. For my experiences.... it is Fun ! Relaxing ! and Orgasmic ! and FUN !!! ;)

Hi there :) I thought I would say hello and introduce myself. I am Recently Independent (Previously Maria @ Temptations) and am based in the Niagara Region - Catering to very selective clientele. I will be Touring other locations - including Edmonton, AB & Ottawa, ON. and am also available for Travel. Please feel free to view my profile and/or website for more Photos, Reviews & further information. Have fun and Play Safe! ;) xoxo Maria Del Sol

I have to agree with Meghan. I have sent emails to ladies and as it turned out they never received them. So I do resend Sometimes the lady is on a couple days break and doesn't answer her emails during that time (ladies need a rest too you know, remember for the men an escape, the ladies, their livelihood)...so they give themselves a "weekend" on occasion, That "weekend" means nothing related to their livelihood...they need a break Ladies may also do this part time, and have another job as well Some ladies tour, and not all parts of the country have good internet or cell phone service, so that may explain a delay And not all emails sent are polite, respectful...some are rude and vulgar, don't ever expect a reply to those So my advice is if you send a email and have no reply, me, since I plan far ahead, I give it one week approx. and then re-send, if I haven't heard a reply. Something else, after you send your email, also send a PM (this amongst other things confirms your board handle) saying you sent her an email A rambling RG

Lifestyle Lubricated in the red package. They feel thin but are strong and can take a hard pounding if you know what I mean. ;)

I prefer lifestyle, then durex second­. I have a really sensitive vagina and some brands irritated me like no tomorrow.

Amanda is an amazing woman who deserves all the success in the world. She is funny, intelligent, and skilled. And for me the highest compliment is that she expanded my music horizons. Thank you Amanda. Thinking of you I think of Roxy Music's "Both Ends Burning" All the best

Strange title: you may want to consider writing Has anyone met Autumn next time... Best, toine