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It's the only thing I have to know who you are. Yes, it could be spoofed, but there are always risks. If I let someone call me from a blocked number, and give them my address, let them in here and they do something to me, I have NOTHING to contact the police with. Nothing to go on. To me, it's not different than being picked up by a stranger outside. So for my safety and security, I will never, ever book from the blocked number. I google the phone numbers, and cross-check the bad date section. Many spoofed numbers are out there on the internet, so i've caught many. I know a phone number isn't much, but it's something. What I tell guys who say they want to contact me from a blocked one is this: If you don't trust me with your phone number, i don't trust you with my address. It's that simple.

Regarding the "need to put this out there" thing, I'll give the benefit of the doubt to a long time member and take is as the "need" to bring up something he sees and thinks is of dubious value and it bugs him and he wants to know why it is still used. Regarding blocked numbers, allow me to digress for a bit - to smoked plastic license plate covers. IMHO people do not buy those to protect their plates. People buy them to obfuscate their registration numbers when they go through red-light and speed cameras. Whenever I see them, my first thought is "what other laws are you willing to break?" Back to blocked numbers. There are innocent reasons why someone might call from a blocked number. There are as whole host of nefarious reasons someone else would use one. Notwithstanding all the ways of spoofing and circumventing the blocked number thing, I side with the decision to err on the side of caution and refuse to answer such calls. No, it's not a foolproof was of avoiding asshats, but nothing is 100%. A final thought. If a guy is calling on a blocked number when, as noted, it is almost universally noted in SP advertising that no blocked numbers will be accepted, this guy is either seriously procedurally challenged (read: doesn't understand the rules) or disrespectful (read: doesn't care what the rules are). In either event, the SP who passes on the call is not losing a good client. Just my two bits...

Nothing like that exists here.

As I stand above you, legs apart, while caressing my bare pink swell in a most erotic way, I look down to see your master piece engulfed in your manly hand and slowly, being pleasured, up and down, faster and faster. What a beautiful sight! ... OK, enough lol Since I am a voyeur and also enjoy being watched, I find mutual masturbation very stimulating and very erotic! All that to say that it does not need to be a means to an end but simply an activity shared in between many others... I think most of you would be surprised at how many women actually enjoy the sight of a man pleasuring himself !

I think the beauty of not having a "menu" (like a restaurant menu for pizza and toppings lol), is that we can go with the flow during the time spent together and enjoy various sexy activities within the established boundaries. Your personal preferences for the encounter can always be discussed in private... A great thing about ladies who have an all-inclusive donation is that you never have to pay extra (except for Greek) for some things that might be considered "out of the norm" or considered a fetish (sometimes it's not) because you are paying for the lady's time. The old "I only want xyz, can I pay a reduced rate" is never popular with the ladies ;) Time is time no matter what you do during that time. Back to pleasure, masturbating, watching, being watched and orgasms :)

It's always a good time to sit back, relax and enjoy some sexy thoughts and pictures. :bowdown: Come join me in my personal exploration of sensual and sexy. :bowdown: http://midnitemassage.tumblr.com/ :twisted: Hoping to get the juices flowing now that September has returned which means new stories and ramblings. :twisted:

There has to be a level of trust on both sides. When someone calls blocking a number its a signal to us that you are hiding something and quite frankly if you aren't going to give me your info why would I give you mine. Yes technology has changed and numbers aren't fool proof or always reliable but they are a start. You have recourse when dealing with a reputable sp, if she causes you trouble we have a trail, with advertising, web pages, etc. When screening a potential client all we have is the info you give us. Certainly there are no guarantees with our screening methods, but we can only do so much. I rely more on instinct and again when blocking a number that only makes me wonder and wonder negatively. Your name and phone number are the basics and necessities for booking an appointment. If an sp were willing to book a client without those I'd be suspicious of him/her.

I would like to point out that NOT all girls have someone else there. I am realizing now that I guess many do, but the people saying how many girls do are just guessing. I do not know of any girl who keeps another person there for safety. My incall has another room, and I keep that door shut in order to keep the cat in there. Girls saying that almost all girls have another person there could only cause people to suspect that there is another person in my spare room, which is not true. If someone asked me to open that door, I would decline, as it's not their business to see into that bedroom (it might not be clean, it might smell like cat litter, etc). But that doesn't mean there is a person in there. If you do keep another person there for your safety, that is totally fine, but please do not state that most girls do this - I think that is simply untrue.

So it does sound like you were all the way out the door, door closed and locked behind you, before you heard what appeared to you, from all the way outside, two different people laughing. What I am sensing tho from this is you are also assuming that the sps were making a joke at your expense and laughing at you and about you. What you are missing is that there is a very good chance that once the door closed behind you, you were not the topic of conversation or humour. If the hair was a concern, you could have simply asked her about it. Oh, your pics showed very long black hair. Give her a chance to come up with a reason for the difference, and you can also say it was a reason for your choice. Many guys love long hair, and specific styles of hair, it is a valid reason for asking. I think that if everything went well in the session, and the 2nd person (you assume) was not intrusive or noticeable before and during and even at the point of exit, that this is the best possible way that someone can share their space and/or be working with a safety person at the same time. I think, to the point of you being actually outside, they (if there were really 2 people) did everything they could to reassure you of both privacy and discretion. You didn't see a 2nd person, and she didn't see you, both of you have retained your privacy in other words. There seems to be a small move for sps to tell clients that they have another person in the suite when they arrive, particularly another sp, for the reason of safetly. It might even be that there is no other person there, but the sp with a first time client wants him to think she has backup close by in case he gets any ideas. The reality is that some sps in some places see more bad date types of guys, and sometimes we get reports that there are people out there targeting sps. Even if it is not physical harm, there are some guys who deliberately make appointments in order to steal from sps. So for those sps, and some of us as well, a huge red flag to me is a new caller asking am I alone. I'd rather they don't ask, because I have to ask myself then, why does he want to know that?? I also am likely to turn down someone who sounds either overly paranoid (the sort who assumes someone is hiding in the closet or bathroom, very annoying), or up to something. We just don't take the chance on a new client, in other words, especially when, as even your story shows, you entered, enjoyed and left without being any the wiser about the 2nd sp. It was only after the fact it became an issue, and even then, imo, it isn't an issue.

16 days only until the social! It's incredible on how time flies!! As the social is sold out, your organizing committee is working away in getting everything ready for everyone to have a wonderful evening. As mentioned previously, ticket sales provides a drink to the ladies, snacks (we'll have a variety of plates to cover most diets, including some gluten-free ones) as well as door prizes. We are also preparing a music playlist for the evening! Thank you everyone that have contacted us (myself, Spud271 and Loneskater) so far about Social! Its great to see that these events keep having such a high interest from everyone!!! Cheers!

I often find myself acknowledging you in a thread or about a comment and enjoying what you have to say. You share yourself, are thoughtful and support everyone. I enjoy your playful sense of humor and I'm sure many love your sexy picture contributions. Thanks for being a great voice in the community.

For being so new to this community you have jumped right in and made yourself known and shared with us. It's wonderful to see new members doing this. Looking forward to many more and welcome!

Oh, O, O. I almost forgot Zombie Land. Rule #2 Cardio...poor fat bastard.

Almost definitely shyness and uncertainty. I bet if you asked hundred guys around here if they found it sexy to watch a woman touch herself, you'd get 103 responses of an emphatic "YES!" But ask those same guys if they think it turns women on to watch men touching themselves and you'll probably get "maybe", "for some...sure perhaps," "I suppose" and the ever popular "uhh..." Guys aren't great for knowing what looks sexy with them or not. And if an act may make them look silly, they're probably not going to risk it. But with a bit of encouragement... Also, I daresay a lot of us guys have spent our fair share of time touching ourselves, and so when there's an enticing, willing woman before us, our first (and second and third) thoughts of where we want our hands to go is probably not our own body. :)

The sp only access ladies currently can not see hidden profiles but this is causing issues with verification, because of this council has voted and we would like to grant any verified sp (sp only access) the ability to view hidden profiles (to help with the screening process) so this announcement is to let veryone know that in a few weeks (if we can get this working) the sp only ladies will be able to view private profiles (for screening and security). This way no "bad" clients can hide from sp only ladies. If anyone has questions or objects you can pm me or comment.

So interesting how people think in different cities, I am known for being open minded but only once was I ever asked for BBFS. I do advertise as open minded and a fantasy granter. Almost all my requests that some would consider "out of the norm " are mostly role play that hurts no one and can really be a lot of fun. I am not sure if geography, big cities or many more providers per capita brings out the rudeness and Gaul, lol perhaps a study someday is in order.

I never use this term in my advertising, for one reason - without fail, when a man texts me and asks if I'm open-minded, his follow-up question is if I offer BBFS. I am serious in this, without fail. So I hate this term, and will never, ever use it in my advertising. I am not saying that girls who use this term offer that service, I am NOT saying that at all - but just that to me personally, the term makes me get my back up and I don't like it. I guess my post is mostly a tip to the gents, lol - I would refrain from asking a girl if she is open-minded. If you want something specific, just ask - I think most girls in this business ARE open-minded enough to listen to your request and answer without judgement.

I know there are threads on here about different types of guilty pleasures, but I can't recall there being one about films. So... what are those films that you just love to watch and watch again? Not necessarily your ATF films... but the ones you usually watch alone, cause you're kind of embarrassed that someone would know you like it? I was just browsing TMN OnDemand and found City of Angels. I tried to convince myself to watch something I know is better... but I kept coming back to it. So screw it, I'm watching it, and will sit here and happily cry my eyes out at the cheeseball ending. Other totally guilty pleasure films include: Clueless; Bring it On; Legally Blonde; Josie and the Pussycats; Drop Dead Gorgeous; Wild Things; and Buffy the Vampire Slayer (the movie with Luke Perry... oh yes).

"These are not the companions you are looking for." *waves fingers Jedi-like*

I have been thinking about this topic for a bit. Today I saw a black woman, rocking a blond Afro. This may not have been the best look for a lot of women, but it was her attitude that sold it. She looked incredible. When she saw me looking at her, she gave me a huge smile and continued to walk on by. She was confident to a T and had a complete package. So in my mind, a hair style may be more than something that suits your looks but maybe your personality. If you think you want to try something completely different maybe it's your attitude that will pull it off? This ramble make any sense?

I never really feel guilty about liking the movies I like. I love lots of movies that are cheesy and corny, but I don't really feel embarassed about liking them. I guess a lot of people make fun of me for liking/owning the DVD of 'Tank Girl'. But I shrug it off. It's probably the most 90s movie ever made.

Congratulations on reaching that first milestone MBR. Looking forward to your next 100 contributions RG

There are two other threads about her on the first page.

I know skittlesxoxo...problem these days is that common sense is not so common :(

It might of been easier to hire a someone to just stand beside the wet paint naked, they would of been to busy to notice. Lol Not sure why but some people can't help doing the opposite.

I find it to be an enjoyable experience. Watching the lady play with herself as you stoke yourself is great foreplay. ;) I've done it quite a few times with an SP. It's also great when you are about to orgasm and she is on her knees in front if you waiting for you to explode either in her mouth or all over her body. A wonderful experience to try if you've never done it before. mmmm good

Thank you Mighty Jabba. Thank you for letting me know about the fish. I was wondering what that smell was. Now I understand why it is so hot here. Now that you have answered my questions, my answer is: Yes, I would come to a complete stop. However, I am still looking for Eva, it seems I am at a different 4 way stop then her.

Happy (Belated) Birthday Nicolette! I hope it was filled with sparkly, expensive things, chocolate (or another sweet confectionary of your choice), and other things that make you smile!!!

Happy Birthday, hope you had a great day!

Very much an exhibitionist myself doing the whole cam show thing and wanting to jerk off to a lady. I will say that it is probably a psychological thing with me that when I'm with a lady, cumming only happens (other than intercourse) when im jerking myself off. Rarely from a blow or hand job. My senses heighten but towards the end I have to take control after awhile at it.

I voiced disapproval at the direction this thread was going simply because it was implied right at the beginning that she was less than desirable because she wouldn't see men of certain races. I am well versed on the other threads on Coco, and yes, i agree with your assessment on that front. But as Ladyluck said, it's ALWAYS a girls right to choose who she see's and doesn't see, and she should never have to take flack for that. Also, i chimed in because i've spent time with other ladies who have "mixed/bad reviews", and i've found that many of the bad reviews spawn from a girl who sets up certain standards (YMMV), and if the man doesn't measure up on some level or another, she refuses him service. and of course, the knee-jerk reaction to being refused service is to defame the girl in whatever way he can. not saying that everyone does this, but i know it happens.

I'd even go so far as to say by not seeing someone they are uncomfortable with/getting a bad vibe from, the lady is doing the guy a favour. If there is bad chemistry before they even meet there is little chance of having a great session. I don't understand guys who chase women to the point of harrasment. Unless the guy is so self-centred that he doesn't even notice the woman's displeasure.

Rubbing, rubbing, rubbing, rubbing... ahhhhh an amazing orgasm! Keep on rubbing, rubbing, rubbing, rubbing... hoooooo another explosive orgasm! More rubbing, rubbing, rubbing, rubbing... another orgasm already? Awesome! ... Rubbing, rubbing, rubbing, rubbing, rubbing it in LOL :biggrin: How come the more orgasms I have the more and more I want them?

How come time flies when you don't want it to and doesn't when you do?

Happy Birthday fellow virgo love Raven xo

Happy Birthday Nicki! Hope you have an awesome day.

Happy Birthday Nicolette <3

Some men that choose a provider think they are entitled to see them. Some men have the attitude that a provider should bend over backwards to accommodate them, because they have the money. In the many years I have been doing this I have learned a lot. Number 1 thing I learned is it is my choice to see whomever I like. I used to just see everyone that called. It was not always a good outcome working that way. I was tired, no connection, most were rude, pushy & overstepped boundaries. I am by no means racist & have gentlemen that see me from every race. Some of the best fellows I've seen have been EI. I have a certain EI that calls excessively & just doesn't get it when I say I'm busy or if he took the time to read my website he'd see when I'm available. I'm already angry with this person that still keeps calling & freaks on me because I don't answer his calls. Does he actually think that once he arrives to see me my pissed feelings will instantly disappear? I am not just saying it's the EI that do this. I have others text, even after I boldly state No Texts. Just another example is when I tell them I need a phone call they tell me they're taking their money elsewhere, because text is the only way he books. I also point out I see respectful gentlemen. I get a respond I am a gentleman & then he proceeds to tell me that I'm a moody person & it must be my time of the month. I think wow, really? You consider yourself a gentleman after being rude throwing that you'll take your money elsewhere. Then telling me you know I'm moody & aunt flo must be visiting. Funny cause when I had dealing's with this person I was in a great mood. :) So I guess my point being is that if a lady doesn't get a good feeling from you, she is not required to see you because you've chosen her. Since I have changed the way I take appointments my time being wasted is almost nil & I can provide a happy, fun experience. I appreciate when I get a fellow that is so super sweet & makes me love my job more then I already do. Remember it's how you treat the lady that will reflect on the type of service you'll get. She has obviously had a bad experience from the nationalities she refuses to see. But it is sad because they shouldn't be lumped into the same category as the one's that had her come to this conclusion. I would never put that in my ad, when she could just say she's busy. Perhaps even say that she doesn't think they will hit it off & wish him well finding a girl that he'll likely connect better with. I've been fortunate to have amazing men come into my life & everyday I seem to get to enjoy a new one. Whether he be brown, yellow, beige. As long as your initial contact with a lady isn't demanding & rude. Also understand that excessive calling doesn't get a provider to answer her phone quicker. When your a gentleman & choosing a good provider you should always treat them with respect & in the end your likely to be greatly rewarded ;) I'm not disagreeing with everything that wild thing is saying, but I wouldn't say this city is full of gangs & pimps. Unless I'm just lucky & because I am selective I don't get these type contacting me. It's not hard to figure a person & their personality out if they text & their is no real introduction, Just "R u Avail". Or "hey babe you available"(at 3:30am). Ignoring that type of initial contact is easy. Big thank you to the asian, black, EI, aborigial, & every other nationality that have been absolute gentlemen & treat the provider's with respect.

Happy Birthday Nicolette! Have a fantastic day & may all your wishes come true!

I would need further clarification before I could answer this question. What direction am I going? North, South, East or West? In what direction is the sun at that time - behind me, ahead of me, to my left or right? Or is it night time? Am I transporting gold fish? Is my radio on? What music am I listening to? Do I see a sexy lady running thru the fields with wild abandon? Am I on my way to see Jabba? Am I late? Do I have time to see what that sexy lady is doing in the field? Once I have the answers to these questions, then I will be able to let you know.

Wishing you a great birthday, Nicolette.

Happy Birthday Nicolette! Hope you have an uuber sexy day! ;) xx

Have a fantastic birthday Nicolette!

Happy Birthday Nicolette! Have yourself a fantastic day!!! :D

Cough *trolling* cough!

In my experience "open-minded" just like "GFE" means nothing. In this business many ladies will just use the "phrase of the day" in their ad's to catch a potential clients attention. NEVER make any assumptions in this business about what anything written in ad's mean. Always, communicate directly with the lady and express what you desire from your encounter and confirm that what you desire is what she provides and is comfortable with. If you choose to just take ad's at face value you might be setting yourself up for disappointment. Just as an example, a while ago I visited with a lady, last minute, "spur of the moment" and she advertised as both "GFE and open-minded". When I go there she confirmed after we entered the room that, there was no kissing, no anal play, and the service was completely safe. I could live with that so we continued. It was a completely mechanical, detached, zero eye contact session. In fact she even seemed a little put out that I lasted so long and said, "can you just cum already". LOL. Now I know for a fact that I am a fantastic client with a YMMV factor that is very high but in this case although she advertised as both open-minded and GFE I would classify my mileage factor as very low. Perhaps she was just having a bad day who knows. However, I learned that I'll never do "last minute" spur of the moment again. I'll always want to have ample opportunity to chat with the lady and convey to her what I like to experience in my sessions and have her explicitly confirm that she also enjoys all the same things from a session as I do. Communicate, communicate, communicate! FYI, you might be able to tell but I haven't had my morning coffee yet and I'm still a little short on the trigger.

Thanks for this thread and the tips and pointers. The longest dates I've done so far have been a couple of 3 hours with a few 2 hours and many one hours. One hour dates it's pretty much down to business right away. 2 hour dates have usually been 1 hour chatting and 1 hour play. the 3 hour dates have been about 1.75 social and 1.25 play. I really do enjoy the social aspect a lot and exploring that person. This might be a little old school but I really get off on the "courtship" process even with professional companions. So I've always wanted to take a lady on a date so to speak as an aspect of our encounter. That type of thing is totally out when it comes to playtime in my home town so I've been contemplating an extended dates or a overnight on my next trip. I enjoyed reading the different thoughts on this matter and know how to approach it when I do. Thanks for the contributions everyone.

Welcome Kaelin, I too am a newbie and a lot shy! I am getting a little long in the tooth and have yet to try this new experience. I will have to pluck up courage. I love and respect women. Maybe we will meet when I come to Ottawa. Hugs and kisses corvo