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What a fascinating thread. I think the most common theme and area of agreement I've read so far is that of mutual respect, for the SP from the hobbyist, and from the SP to the hobbyist. And where there is clear communication about expectations of behaviour on the website (e.g. greek or CIM is extra, hygiene beforehand by the client expected), the better the encounter. But just to add something I haven't seen yet, I've found that being a gentleman and respectful leads to a much more enjoyable encounter, but more importantly, the willingness of an SP to also provide a reference for the hobbyist to other SP's. There are a few provider webpages I've seen where they ask if another SP is willing to provide a referral for the client. This helps to smooth over introductions and increase comfort for the first time being hobbyist and the new SP. I'd never risk offending an SP over a rude faux pas like not providing the envelope discreet fully and respectfully up front. I'd never want to find myself on a "bad john" board, I'd prefer the reverse much more, that a provider would willingly tell another one "Yes, I'd see him again. I enjoyed my time with him." I also like to normally do my research in advance, and CERB is a great resource for that. So, I've never had a bad encounter where I feel like I somehow didn't get value for my donation amount, and more often, I ensure I've left a little extra as a tip (and sometimes even up front, if it is one of my favourite ladies who I know always goes above and beyond). Did I have some encounters where something was agreed upon and then wasn't available? Yes, an SP I saw indicated she didn't feel ready for greek that day, but offered some of the donation back, alternate services or a discount on my next encounter. Which was perfectly satisfactory and respectful on her part -- I did not feel short changed and in fact preferred that she didn't do something she didn't want to do. And we had a wonderful time together having gotten that out of the way. I think analogies to contracts, meals, concerts etc don't really apply. This is a very intimate encounter between two consenting adults. Where there is respect, communication, and comfort, good things will happen. Once one party or another tries to take advantage of the other or enters into the encounter with mistrust or reservations, only disappointment will result.

I disagree about the notion of "gambling." If I as a hobbyist have checked CERB, read reviews, looked the SP's web site, it isn't hard to discern the professional from the amateur or potential risk SP. If I just go to .......... and take my chances, more likely that an unsatisfactory encounter occurs. What is apparent is the ladies on this thread take their "side of the bargain" very seriously, in that when we as hobbyists show our trust up front by discreetly providing the envelope up front, they then can feel more relaxed and focused on a positive experience for both. Which doesn't necessarily mean pre-ordering from a fixed menu. It means going with what is working. I find that my requests for certain positions or activities are usually granted (knowing what is normally acceptable to his provider or not based on their website or precommunication), but being respectful if something isn't working e.g. certain position. It is a human encounter and interaction, not a piecemeal approach. I almost think that the poster who indicated waiting till the end to pay "just in case" is almost setting up a less enjoyable encounter, with the SP being more wary and guarded. I'd rather be a gentleman up front and just enjoy than treat it like a legal contract with clauses and compensation. Let's also keep in mind that a SP who does this for a living assumes much more risk than a hobbyist who has the occasional encounter. Anything I can do to assure the SP that I am a safe and respectful client just leads to a better experience for us both.

You're in town right now? Go see Suki, BP 3313, you won't regret it as she is one of the Koreans who finished her 10 day stint in Halifax. Accompanied shower, BBBJ, kissing, etc all inclusive for an affordable incall price. The VIPOTG agency always delivers with young Korean girls, and I always visited every month when I was in Halifax.

Girl is a scam. Been getting txt's from a person who claims to be a boyfriend. I assume this is some sort of blackmail scam.

I just want to say that I would never want an SP to do anything that she didn't feel comfortable doing. Full stop. If things don't work out as I hoped well that is just life. I will get over it.

Jordan Monroe is a local Moncton lady. She has a reco here:) Very trustworthy and kind! Miss Manda is also visiting, I am sure she will treat you right!

She is true to her pics. She has a firm body and great assets to play with. Don't hesitate to book with her as their prices are also among the best for what is provided.

I've had tons of pets over the years, from livestock to house pets. I especially love birds. My last Finch finally crossed over this year after 15+ years. WHAT Finch lives that long??? We were beginning to wonder if Audubon was playing a joke on us. Jake was my last rescue and he was a gem. The most quiet dog I've ever had and a Yorkie/Silky Terrier to boot. He lived until 17. He declined rather quickly and I spent a month of constant care before "the big decision". I cried for weeks. So after a year I have a new doggie called Marley. She is a rescue and is a stubborn little thing. She is a bit younger than I prefer but fell in love with her the minute I saw her. In people years she is about 19 and acts just like one. She can be a handful, and is as stubborn as a Terrier can be. A few months after she came home, she was hit by a car while on walkies (driver fell asleep and crossed 2 lanes of traffic to end up on the sidewalk at 70kph). Both are lucky to be alive. My bf took the brunt as he shielded her from the hit. She was slightly injured anyway and still suffers some behavioural issues even though this happened at the beginning of August. But she is a little darling, and I am working with her to stop the fear and the need to be around me all the time. Yes I spoil her, it's so easy. This is her bed (similar) "][/url] Which she rarely uses. And this is Marley. "][/url]

ding ding ding ding ding !!! we have a winner :D I'm not really sure what "top booker" is but if it refers to volume I'm far from it. If it refers to the quality of my clientele then I'm right up there. In response to most of the posters here .... I don't have a problem with the original post, I really don't think he intended his question to be rude or disrespectful, I think he's just clearly inexperienced. He hasn't even posted again since... guy is probably not sure what to say. Don't forget we were all there once .. give the poor guy a break :)

Hey everyone; This is something of a rant & I'm sorry if I offend anyone. I don't intend to offend anyone, but I think there are a few things that need to be said. I know I don't post much but I've been around the SC scene for a long while. I, among others, have made allusions to a few trends that we have seen in the clubs over the last few years. First, dancers seem to have forgotten about the art of dancing. All too often I see a gorgeous woman get up on stage for a song and it's an energetic, fast paced tune that we all can get into. The lady dances this slow, almost bored, barely teasing show. For me if a dancer isn't interested in moving to a particular song it's going to show. I know of a bar or two that have set lists of songs the girls can pick from, please stop this practice so the ladies have more say. Ladies, pick songs you can move to. Lately it's hard to find a lady who uses the stage for being showy and doing tricks. Use the music and your ability to catch our attention. Secondly, cell phones. These great communication tools are wonderful companions and great in keeping in touch with friends, family, and clients. All too often though I see dancers staring at their phones. I for one, will not interrupt you on your phone. The ladies who catch my attention are the ladies who show some interest, energy, and aren't the ones who show up to talk to me for 30 seconds before trying to get me to take them to the CR. Put the phone away, talk to guys, and be friendly. We'll more than likely respond favourably. Slammer P.S. I've been sitting in a club typing this for about 20 minutes on my phone... I'm putting it away now and I'll reply when a dancer comes to speak to me. Posted via Mobile Device

Lock, Stock and 2 Smoking Barrels, Snatch and Rock'n Rolla are my all time marathon faves. X-men, Shameless, Dr Who, Angelina's Hackers, Girl Interrupted, Tomb Raiders and Salt. Oceans 11 thru all of them! I also love to fall into TedX series... cat

I have binged on many of the aforementioned titles, but lately I've been marathoning with television and mini series. Game of Thrones American Horror Story Band of Brothers Rome Deadwood Battle Star Galactica Weeds Mad Men Breaking Bad just to name a few. Jeez, I gotta get a life!

Bloody Mary, clamato creeps me out, I mean who drinks tomatoe juice and thinks to themselves, "Hmm, this could use something...I know! Fish juice!". Who thinks like that? Submissive baby girl or submissive slave?

99.9% of my sex with ladies IS always in the morning. A lady can orgasm more in the am. So yes I like to circulate my blood in the morning, nothing like a good orgasm in the AM for the gent and the lady. :) Nothing like a lady face f*$@ing me in the morning :) YUMMY!

I guess that's not a city lot then. I have before me a notice from Banks St BIA: Downtown. At the intersection of everything. FREE PARKING ON WEEKENDS. At city lots and on street spaces. Starts at 5:30pm on Friday. West of the canal, East of Bronson, North of Queensway, excluding City Hall.

happy birthday

It was Mediamass that reported that Lou Reeds death was a hoax. They do this all the time. I fail to understand why. So the hoax was a hoax and he has passed. Can you imagine the roller coaster his family was on today? Disgusting.

Happy Sexy Birthday to A Sexy Man!! Kisses all over your Birthday Suit ;)!! XoX

"The Bourne Identity, The Bourne Supremacy and The Bourne Ultimatum" Aww. That one is so good it should have been mine.

To be perfectly honest, I do not feel inclined to join this conversation. If I have nothing nice to say, I'll just keep my mouth shut. But those of you that have answered; I applaud you for being diplomatic.

To each their own. This may work for some, but I'm not interested. I've just recently stopped offering 1/2 hours as well. Those who've met me know I like to talk and warm up to the person, anything less than an hour just doesn't allow for that. I want to meet more than a penis and I want him to know me for more than my pussy;)

It really gets kinda sad when it actually has to be spelled out YMMV. Is common sense and common decency so far gone that a prospective client needs to have things such as a fresh shower, shave, fresh breath, deodorant, clean clothes etc spelled out contract form like before having a date with a professional companion. I really wonder after reading some posts how did these guys manage to date in the civilian world. Instead of worrying about a provider vs client contract which to me sets the tone of the encounter off wrong. It implies, using the phrase "provider versus client" a underlying conflict between the two. And using a contract is using legalese to navigate any unforeseen circumstances that may happen in an intimate encounter Why not, instead go into an encounter with a positive attitude. The lady is a professional companion, so go to the date using some simple common sense, like good hygiene and paying her in full on arrival. Treat the lady, every lady, like a lady, with respect and appreciation, and she'll treat you like a gentlemen and return the respect and appreciation. And don't worry about contracts and other distasteful things. Instead let things unfold naturally, and do what you can to make the encounter an enjoyable time not just for you but for the lady too. And you'll find the encounter will likely be a very memorable memory A late night, I guess early morning rambling RG

As an SP, I offer an "experience" not to be a "cum bucket" for someone's release for lack of better words. No thanks. If I'm going to be just a release for somone, they are going to be paying for it. I'm not a machine and a 15 min appt is not worth it to me since it takes the same amount of time to set up and get ready. Then there is the aspect of those trying to get more time for free and then there is the volume where how many clients are coming and going in a day. I am a very discrete person and would never allow this to happen when I can make more on a single appt alone. I'm not an avid clock watcher but when someone texts me with a laundry lists of specific acts they want for $60 for 15 mins or expect what they would get in a 30 or 60 min appt, do yourself a favor a favor and go to a street corner. I take time and pride in what I do and myself and my surroundings reflect that as well. I have no interest in doing these types of appts and contrary to men who are fans of 15 min service, you get what you pay for. In a fantasy world, if I did one of these 15 mins appts, it would be the bare minimum. Why should I go out of my way when someone is attempting to negotiate my rates? Why should I go the extra mile? I had someone text me once and said they only needed 5 mins of my time for $20. DELETE! If you're looking for a 15 min session then more power to you but don't expect the world for $60. Last year a 15 min appt was $100. Then it went to $80 and now guys are demanding $60. The reason this is happening because women let them. They get into this business with no training from an agency. They have a cell phone, put up a BP ad and call themselves an escort. Then some men bully them into giving them service for $60 -$80 and often times let manipulate them into staying overtime for the same rate. Some of these women don't know any better. The real sense of having an experience with an escort is long forgotten such as when I first started as an SP. That whole aspect has been thrown out the window and it's all about how a man can get off in the shortest amount of time with the lowest amount of cash to offer. Thankfully there are men out there who appreciate SPs and the time together.

I am so sad right now. My big boy Vinny is in unexpected surgery right now after a trip to the emergency vet clinic for something that I thought wasn't going to be a big deal. He's pretty tough and resilient, so I have a lot of hope that he will be alright, but it still sucks. He's the friendliest cat I've ever met in my whole life, and a pile of playful fluffy cuddly sucky awesomeness. My animals are like my children, so when they are sick or sad, I feel it too. :( Here's him cuddling with Milo: And here he is playing it cool after he got stuck in a pair of my underwear while playing in the laundry: And the infamous "Bros" photo: Please send hugs our way for Vinny's successful surgery and speedy recovery. :)

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JT also did an interview in a Toronto magazine. He was asked what he thought about the issue. I appreciated his answer in wanting make sure that adequate consultation was done (which hopefully, if done, includes sex work orgs). New Zealand has completely decrim model in place and I hope the courts can at least look to them for ways to move forward that is more inclusive for all--not just a certain type of sex worker. Thanks for posting the article EmilyJ! Xo

any info on Teaka Gold she looks good and has an interesting Halloween special Additional Comments: I will answer my own question, Emily, Luscious Lynn, Juicy Jessi and Sabrina are all awesome and great deals without a Halloween Special

I haven't been with alexia, but Gina gave an excellent massage. Tya and Ana from there are also good.

On BP there is a car wash being advertised, lol...when I did search had 23 results. Mostly from Europe, I highly doubt these are the ladies you would be meeting!

Sephora, Kiki, Courtney and Stacy at CMJ are the age you are looking for. All four are super hot!!!!

i've seen alexis twice now....WOW i just saw a couple weeeks ago that barbie and alexis had a duo, i was out of town but that would be a double wow.

I'm a mature provider as well...I don't consider myself a top booker. I consider myself a selective booker. ;) most mature ladies do. We consider quality time over quanity appointments.

My little dog followed me downstairs for the first time. It's like seeing your baby first step.

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Add says she is 19 years old and that is incorrect by 8 to 12 year (my best guess). Can not swear if the pics on the add are really her ,and one time in her life ,because they do not show her face . However the girl that came to my hotel was 30 to 40 lbs heavier than the body pics posted on BP. Girl was in very bad shape due to drug abuse. I am not talking about a bit of weed smoking I am referring to hard core drug abuse. When I opened the door of my hotel to let her in I got an additional visitor with her. She landed with a guy who was her bodyguard / pimp whatever. He said he was there to collect money and make sure everything went ok. We had an exchange of words, ect and out the door he went. I am not sure if they landed with another motive but being the person I am , i didn't give them any chance. I believe this is a case of bait and switch because of the pics and info advertised . It is also a dangerous situation when a third unexpected , unwanted person barrels in through the door. I guess I can take part of the blame as I should have done my homework on the 24/7 agency. Either way everyone needs to be warned about the practices that this agency conducts. STAY AWAY !!!!!!

Not an SP but MA Leticia aka Sylvie at ALO http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=38349 Amazin Natulal EEs

It's very easy to read the discussions and become disillusioned thinking that every guy on here is as great at the ones who post. But they're not. In fact, the two biggest creeps I've met, came from right here on cerb. I think this is something people need to keep in mind every time a similar conversation comes up on here (about pre-paying, references, anything to do with a lady's procedures). The guys who participate in the forums are probably not the ones we need to worry about. The procedures aren't necessarily for them (Even my own. I posted on another thread that I would ask someone to leave if they didn't put the payment down up front. I've met some gentlemen from cerb that I'm so comfortable with based on their post history/attitude on here I didn't even think of it, and wasn't at all worried about being ripped off. But that's the exception, not the rule - and it was MY choice to bend my rule, not his). The procedures are there for the big, sometimes dark, sometimes scary, part of this business that you guys just don't see on here. But that doesn't mean it's not there.

Just came back from watching Captain Phillips. It's about a captain of a freight ship that get's taken hostage by Somalians. It's based on a true story. It is a very long suspenseful movie. I enjoyed it very much. It's a must see film :)

I am extremely concerned at the presence of a third person in this situation especially if I have been respectful, non-threatening and non-abusive through out. As others have suggested, the mod should be contacted for his take in this - if it is a B&S, or a dangerous encounter, I am sure he'll take the appropiate action such as banning this provider.

the only problem with that is this thread is 4+ years old!

Hey my darlings !!, I have decided to start this thread because I find that it is important to all of us to know what are the "turn on" and "turn offs" for you guys and also for us SPs. I would like to open this conversation to more than just physical preferences for example , location, outfits , types of services, ackward experiences, communication experience when booking, what kind of adds, pictures etc... I also invite my dear colleagues to share in this thread as I think it is equally important for both parties to share opinion on this matter. I am going to start sharing about myself first... Turn on's (or likes) : - Gentlemen: What woman doesn't like a distinguished man who is polite, respectful...and has class? - Touching, sharing, kissing, massaging: Some women like to be pleased too. A nice massage, a few caress, a sweet kiss on the neck are things that if well done, would turn on most women. :) Personnally, I like kisses on the neck. - Good communication: Getting to know you a little bit before we start make things easier. Don't be shy, tell us about what you like/dislike before the session. The experience will be more enjoyable for everyone. - Cleanliness: That's why we'll offer you to take a shower. If you know what I mean..;). - Punctuality: Usually, we have a schedule and many appointments during the day. It's expected to give a notice if your running late. ;) Besides that, personally, I love pleasing and being pleased. There's a lot of things that turn me on during sex. If you want to know how to pleased me personally, PM me. It'd be a pleasure. ;) Turn off's (or dislikes) : - Negotiation on rates: I understand why people try to negotiate on rates but this is a luxury and if you can't afford it, then don't do it. The rates that we put are based on the cost of doing business (room fees, ads, amenities, traveling fees, companionship, etc.) and also on the quality of woman you get as your companion. When you start negotiating when you come to your appointment, it isn't motivating to give you the best service. Does it turns you off when things are getting hot and exciting with a girl and she decides to bring up the options list or ask for money upfront for the options?It kills the mood eh?! I hope you understand my point of view. - Not having a good hygiene: It's not cool. Bad hygiene is NEVER a turn on. I had to mention it because it had happened to me often. Get some deo guys !!! If your a client/sp, or bf/gf, husband/wife, or whatever, have some common sense and take a shower and smell good. Also, try to maintain a good hygiene down there. The experience with any girl will be much better. :) - Overstaying an appointment : Don't get me wrong, I like to take my time and I don't like to rush. It happens to me that someone booked me for 1hour and he gets off really fast. Since he booked me for an 1hr and paid the full price, I will give him companionship during the rest of the time so he gets what he paid for. In the same view, I had several experiences where people didn't respect their appointments.I can understand 5-10 mins extras. But when it starts becoming 20-30 mins most of us providers, would appreciated a man with the decency to leave on time or to at least tip. The thing is, we might have other appointments coming or phone calls to answer, emails to answer or other things to do. As much fun as it can be, don't forget that we are working too. :) - Not showing up: Things happens and if someone cannot make it to an appointment, I think it would be respectful to inform the other person. It's like in any business. And this business is no different. Cancelling without notice and not showing up to an appointment is very frustrating... It's a waist of time and money. It's ok if somethings comes up, just let us know. Maybe, there is someone who wish to take your place...? ;) - Rudeness and vulgarity: As you guys like a well traveled, well educated woman, we too like gentlemen. Please be a gentlemen. If not, it kills the mood. Most ladies have no tolerance for rude or rough behavior, disrespect, etc. If you're rude, expect to be turned down. Among other obvious things that could turn off most people: blocked numbers, overcalling/overtexting, threats, not being discrete, etc. What about you guys ? (or girls) What turn you on/off ? PS: I believe in the notion of constructive criticism so guys I don't want this to turn into a bitching session!! ..;)

Why? Slurp, Roar and Giddy Up come to mind. oh...and...Just Cuz. ;) Why Not, Really? We are all animals. Rrrrrroar! Being Polyamorous is more natural then not. I dont believe that any one person can fulfill and be your everything. It takes many different kinds of connections from different people in different ways to fulfill all needs and desires. That or I'm just a slut. lol. But this is my story- and I'm sticking to it ;) Get your sex on.

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