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I have communicated to him. He is safe. But He cant talk about it...for whatever reason. I hope to stay in touch often.

I'm not sure what context Miss Jane is bringing up, if it's specific to this industry, please ignore the rest of this post. When I was younger (I feel old saying that, but in reality just about 7 or so years ago), I met this girl who was all kinds of messed up. She was nice, but for certain reasons, she had a very low self-esteem, dabbled in some dangerous activities, and in other ways, in a bad place. I helped her through some of it, I'm happy to say that I did a decent job, she's headstrong and accomplished now. On her way to bigger and better things. But that relationship really did a number on me. I do believe I was well intentioned, but it did start to feel weird when she became more independent. It's hard to put into words, because saying it really makes me feel a disgusted with myself, and even though everyone here is more or less a faceless avatar, it is a bit shameful to admit this. I resented when she did become better, or healed so to speak. Being that person who was a confidant, a crutch, it made me feel better about myself. I realize now I had my own self-esteem issues, if my 'white-knight' self was using all of this as a confidence booster. 7 years may not seem that long to some here, but I wonder about that little kid, wonder how I could've been that person. I guess based on my own experience, I do have a negative correlation to white knight. I've learned that it's good to do something nice for others, and okay to feel some sort of satisfaction. But it is a small component of my life. I am on occasion hesitant helping people, especially women who are my age. I try to wonder if I'm doing it for the right reasons, or because I feel as if I want something more. This has turned out to be a bit of a rambling, so I'll stop here. Hopefully this was to point.

I thank you all for the positive thoughts and comments. I want everyone to understand that this has nothing to do with health or a broken relationship. My grandfather told me to do what's right and not what's easy in life, so I did. I made the decision long ago to take a path in life knowing there would be a great deal of personal cost and there has been, but it had to be done. For all those who think you can help, unfortunately you can't. I have to walk this path alone and I knew that when this all started...it is my burden to bare, and mine alone. Spud271

I have to admit that I get asked this question more and more these days. I'm aware that as an independent we can do what we want, but I do not appreciate the insistence or the handful I have to occasionally deal with in person after I have made myself clear before we meet. If a provider tells you she offers manual massage only, please don't see her anyway thinking she may change her mind. It's troublesome to be in an appointment with someone that does not understand the services that are outlined very clearly beforehand. The kicker is when I'm told who does.. My question back is why are you here and not with that person? To try to deceive is terrible and I sincerely feel the art of erotic massage has been lost in this grey area.

you reached out with this thread but you haven't been back. Forgive me if this has been posted I didn't see it anywhere. Please get in touch with someone here http://www.crisisline.ca/ hugs across the miles. We have ALL been there. Please be ok.

A few years ago, a touring lady from Toronto was here in Ottawa ( I had seen her once before), we were to see each other the next am. When I texted her for location, she asked if she call me, I said "yes of course". She called, was crying on the phone, she had been robbed by 3 guys the night prior to our appointment. The guy came to her door, and before she could get the door closed the other two barged in, they cleaned her out cash wise, it was a late appointment around 11pm. Needless to say she reported the robbery to police,her room was already paid for, so I met her outside her Hotel (a four star hotel commonly used by providers), she was sitting on her suitcase, teared up. I took her to bus station, bought her return ticket,(she bussed and came one way, and to see the city and didn't know how long she would stay) and I gave her my donation of the intended agreement between us, so she could eat on the way home and have some money. This is NOT being White knight, as far as I'm concerned, this was simply doing the right thing, when someone is in tears,upset, and lost everything in the past 2 days, I think helping that person out was the appropriate thing to do. We stayed in touch over the following year, she never came back to Ottawa, because of that situation, and last email from her was she was retiring and going back to school.

Hello Gentlemen.. My name is Mandy! I have green eyes, long dark hair, and a naturally fit body...I am a classy girl, and I take care of myself very well. I've been working in the massage industry for 9 months now! & I love what I do... My services include sexy body slides, full body massage, reverse massage, teasing, shower for 2 and lap dances if requested!... I am very easy to talk to and have a great personality... So why not come enjoy my beautiful behind, tight body and 36C natural breasts, you will be sure to leave with a smile! =) Feel free to check out my profile & peep my sexy pics! You can find me at Paradise Spa, conveniently located in the west end of Ottawa... It is an upscale, clean, classy and discreet spa!... Rooms include large mirrors, music, showers, and black lights to intensify your sensual experience... In calls only! Schedule Dec 11th - Dec 13th Wednesday 230-11 Thursday 330-11 Friday 330-9 Saturday 330-730 Please PM me or simply call 613-820-8887 to book an apt, CandyXO

Aside from clean and all that has been discussed, I enjoy a visit that is a real visit. Most of my dates are very social and yes we could rush and finish up in a hour. I do prefer more though. I enjoy most when people have bothered to read about what interests me and engages in conversation. Same on my part, as much as I am permitted professionally to know my guest that is what I like. A guest can be the very nicest and have needs that are met the way they like but if you don't like to talk you probably won't be back to see me.

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After retiring in May 2012, and 36 years as a CTV Ottawa news anchor, Leigh Chapple has passed away at the age of 58. Leigh was also a long time instructor at Algonquin College. Leigh and her husband both retired at same time from CTV, to spend more time together. An awful shame, the cause of her death is unknown at this time, but apparently she died peacefully. As an avid watcher of our local news, (CJOH local news) she will be missed by her colleagues. R.I.P. Leigh Chapple.

Every year my children and I pick one angel each off the angel tree and use Christmas money they get from there grandparents to buy the presents. I believe it's very important for my kids to get involved in giving back. This year my son asked if he could buy presents for kids that would be in Cheo over the holidays. So we are doing that as well :) We also give to the food bank all year long and donate clothes that no longer fit them to a local shelter.

I have two! And generally feel I'm ahead a bit if I trade them for bishops.

Toy mountain does accept cash, cheques (made to The Salvation Army) as donations and off course unwrapped toys.

Charitable giving, whether through money or time, is very important. At this time of year I always make donations to local food banks and toy drives. Toy drives seem particularly important to me as no child should be without a new toy at Xmas. Over the winter I also make sure my kids recycle their old winter coats to the various charities that make sure kids get winter coats. On a more permanent, year round basis, I make monthly donations through payroll to the my local United Way. Porthos

Emily and Nicolette have said it all...i will only add...shaving your private area is also part of good hygiene. I know a lot of gentlemen here have a SO and if you suddenly start shaving she might get suspicious...but maybe start with a little trim down...she might actually like it :D There is nothing like a clean shaven or trimmed area...yummy!!!!

Dude, I'm not sure if we've ever interacted on here. But things are not as bad as they seem. I'm going to lift the veil of secrecy and let you in on a little secret. I'm not the happy jovial guy I pretend to be on here. I have an illness (to all my lady friends, it's NOT contagious) that will either kill me or eventually make my life unbearable. So I live each day like it's my last. And I'm having a great time. Whatever your problem is, it's probably temporary, so hide in your shell for a bit and then come out and have fun again. If I can have fun, then so can you.

From the RCMP's press release, Project "Combative" targets a criminal organization involved in the smuggling and trafficking of Romanian nationals in Canada. My thoughts, based on the press release. If there is a criminal organization bringing Romanian nationals into Canada and they are made to be sex workers, then yes, I hope law enforcement investigates and the Crown prosecutes them. It sounds, just from what I can take from the RCMP press release, this is more of a case of sex trafficking. This is the ugly side of prostitution and police should target it. The Romanian nationals sound like they are being pimped out by the criminal organization, hence the reason that organization is targeted by the RCMP. We aren't talking about consenting adults here At least that's what I take from the press release RG

I just want to bring my comments to this thread. When I chose to begin this hobby, and I want to thank CERB for that, I valued a lot the values of safety, discretion and in some ways the ethics of the providers that advertize on CERB. The last thing I want to experience with this hobby is being put in a situation where my life, my job and my reputation would be compromised by some people that don't care about safety. We fight against BBFS,, we fight for any unsafe sexual practices,we fight for discretion either from the providers and the hobbiests, we fight against "bait and switch", we shoudl also fight against any other behaviour that put us at risk; and a MA working in a Spa that offers FS or BJs is putting us at risk. I'm not a saint, and when I go to a spa, the emotions of the moment, (let's say that sometimes we think with our penises...) the temptation is real; even "the risk" can be tempting. But in front of judge, when the Ottawa Citizen will talk about the Johns, and your name is on the list, I'm sure that regrets will rise, and the point of no return has been passed. Too late. I appreciate the spas that seems very rigourous about the limits of what the MA can offer, and I have experienced that they stick to it; discretion and safety are the main reasons for me to use their services. Au contraire, when I learned that some MA in some spas offers "more", and I wont even think to get there; for me, these spas are like a mine field where it can explodes in my face any time. I'm a promoter of safe sex, and safe sex is not only a health issue. Why we would put our life and safety at risk when it can be prevented? There are son many possiblities in this business, there are so many indies that offer a range of high quality services in a clear and safe environment, that I don't see any reason to take a risk to ask and get a service that would be illegal. If my expectations is to get the full service, I wont go to a Spa. Period. And if ever, I would hope to have a more extended service, I would ask if the provider offers outcalls.

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I am just wondering what you expect from your clients when we show up? I had my first encounter (in decades) last week, and I tried to prepare as best I could for the meeting. Now, me being the person that I am (sortof a worrywort) I wonder if there is something that In missed. The day before I shaved my face and trimmed my goatee and trimmed my birds nest way, way down (A fence post looks taller when it is not surrounded by a bunch of tall weeds). The day of, I took a shower, and brought some lip balm, deodorant and toothpaste to work. Just before I left for our meeting, I brushed my teeth, threw on some deodorant and s little bit of body spray. When I got there, I grabbed a facecloth (from what was provided by the SP) and washed my hands and gave a quick once over of my junk. Finally, I threw on a bit more lip balm after partaking of the sample sized bottle of mouthwash that was provided.

yeah its the same person, seen her a couple of times decent experience, only thing i don't like is that she will text you out of the blue saying shes free and whatnot, not sure about other people but i prefer that they dont do that

Hmm...pretty sure the title of this thread is "Ladies, what do you expect from your clients?" not "Tell me about that time you saw someone with a stinky pussy" Seriously guys? If you see someone who is a professional, it's their fucking JOB to have a nice clean pussy and everything else. I'm not sure what ladies you guys are going to see but maybe you need to re-think your base price point. You get what you pay for and I guarantee that none of the classier ladies who are charging premium rates would stay in business for long if hygiene were an issue. I would bet that better than 9 times out of 10 the one with hygiene issues is the guy.

It's so cold outside, how about I warm you up? Cum play and we can get as hot and heavy as you can handle ;) I am a tall red head with a model type body that will leave you speechless without a doubt. Sexy longs legs and stunning blue eyes that will leave you breathless. A mind blowing experience that will have you coming back for more time and time again. My services include: full body massage, body slides, reverse massages, showers for 2, and I am very open to couples sessions and catering to the ladies :wink: Come see me today and get your mind blown at Angels Touch Massage located in the West End. Today from 3:30pm until 11pm at Angels Touch Thursday from 2:30pm until 11pm at Paradise Spa Friday from 10am until 11pm at Angels Touch Saturday from 9am until 7:30pm at Paradise Spa Sunday from 10am until 9pm at Angels Touch Call to book some sexy time with me at 613-274-7073 Also, be sure to check out my recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=victoriascrt

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I would also like a PM if possible

Always! Recently just did a major cleaning of my apartment. I gave away four bags of clothing/jackets/shoes. And I always give to Second Harvest especially at this time (and try to volunteer for them if my schedule aligns--but not this year :( )

Big penises, they always make me smile;)

My first real job included getting a shop ready to open. I was a teenager. Alone in a store. That amongst its inventory sold Playboys and erotic novels. I'll let you work out the odds. Besides that, however, I'm in the habit of behaving at work. I can see how in many places indulging would be a fun forbidden thrill, but my first job after University was teaching public school, at which point this sort of thing would be creepy to put it mildly.

Good idea Pete. And there's this great store in Orleans on Innes that is having an Osh Kosh snowsuit sale. I just bought suits for my munchkins. I think I'll pick up a dozen or so and deliver them to the Snowsuit Fund this week.

Every year my business buys and donates snowsuits to the Ottawa Snowsuit Fund.

I will echo all the other posts...reach out spud...Spill your gut to a good listener...you have many friends here... Thanks suite escapes for the post :) BJ

have been to Sophie in Dart.Tantric Massage 2 hour deal...very relaxing.....awesome girl

Would you jack off in a boat? Would you jack off with a goat? Would I? Could I? Think I should? It's so fun to rub my wood.

In the cockpit, in the car, in the office and in a bar in the forest amongst the tree,s and anywhere else I please !I think I,m related to antlerman !

Yes, yes, and yes! lol I had a huge crush on my boss (he also wore suits) and yes, I wanted to bang him lol I would have to go pleasure myself many times in the bathroom just to get through the day on many occasions ....

Monkeys with machine guns. Sure they look really cute, but those little bastards are trained killers. Ninja monkeys are worse. Zombie ninja monkeys are even worser. Don't get me started on the Vegan zombie ninja monkeys with machine guns. That's even worserer. The worserest? Hipster vegan zombie ninja monkeys with machine guns - they don't even need the guns. They are lethal. I think I need to talk to my doctor about the meds.

Got GREAT news from the cardiologist. He's happy with the progress that the heart is making, he's changing the meds that make me dry cough/choke my lungs out AND... he is giving the surgeon permission to eviscerate me and remove that DAMN GALLBLADDER! PLUS!!!! I spent an afternoon with a wonderful young woman!!!

Hello! If you do not mind tattoos...I offer duos with Veronica Lodge or Effie White :D

A couple recent pics of my eyes.

Hey Spud The best revenge against the shit you've been dealt is to kick the fucking crap out of it. C'mon man...you can do it.

Then she'd be history in my book, I don't spend money on girls who don't warm up by the first song. :icon_lol:

Anything is available to those who ask. Look and you will find ;) Cuddling is not a new thing. Usually it just happens naturally..... if its mutually desired.

I used to have 4 dogs.. But I had to give away my 3 boys... :( I don't think I'll ever get over it.. :( I know I still have my girl, my princess.. But they were ALL my beloved babies!!!!! Anyone who has never been close to an animal wouldn't understand... And even though I get to visit them occasionally.. It's not ever going to be enough!!! It's like a big part of my soul is missing!!! :( </3

Indeed, I try to keep everything on an email basis only, mailing list to subscribers who've consented to be on said list. However, technology can be fickle and anyone knows that with a touch of a button, she could have accidentally mass texted everyone, forget to bcc ect. Painful lesson, however, everyone's made mistakes before. (some a little less grave than this) I'm glad you're a gentleman and didn't disclose names as something like this might ruin someone's livelihood.