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January is Human Trafficking Awareness month. People in the sex industry, clients, and their allies around the globe are posting on Twitter using the #notyourrescueproject hashtag to make sure people understand that not all sex workers are victims of trafficking and to make sure our voices are heard in the debate about what's best for us. It's a pretty nifty read and I encourage people to participate. Here's what I posted: Here is a compilation of some of the Tweets so far for some of the non-Twitter users out there who are curious :) Click Here. Here are a few articles about it if you want more information about how this all started and why it's relevant: Sex Workers Declare They're #NotYourRescueProject with New Twitter Campaign Sex workers and their allies promote hashtag #NotYourRescueProject Not Your Rescue Project

Cristy, you are a unique and forthright individual with a flair for the sexy, a heart of gold for our four legged friends who can't speak for themselves and of course a beauty all your own. Thank you for everything you add to this community and I'm sure I speak for many when I say, keep up the sexy posts.

Hilarious list of stuff people got stuck in various orifices (not just butts). http://deadspin.com/what-did-we-get-stuck-in-our-rectums-this-year-1486766986

First and foremost, most of this falls squarely on you to figure out. You say you don't know why you hobby so you really should take a hard deep look and figure it out. Maybe there's something you're missing or that you need. Until you figure it out, you will always be stuck in the middle and unfulfilled and your GF will be paying some of the price. You need to have this answer before you can determine how much the relationship is worth. I agree with non full disclosure, why hurt her more than she already is. This is a trust issue. Unfortunately one area of trust rolls into every area of trust, that's how it works which is why it ends up such a big deal. I don't believe in the whole "cheater" mentality in some situations. I very much try not to judge and understand that there are situations where sometimes there isn't much choice. If an SO can't meet needs for whatever reason, I can completely understand how someone can turn to an SP to have their needs met so they don't go crazy and are better equipped to take care of an SO. I don't view them as a cheater because as people, we sacrifice too much of ourselves everyday. You can't shut off needs. We are human and have basic needs that go beyond food, shelter, water etc. Intimacy, touch, connection, sex. Society tries to exclude these factors which is why we tend to get into so much trouble.

Sorry you got busted. So now she wants to know everything. I understand that. I don't understand why you would tell her everything. You seem to actually want to dig up information about encounters you don't even remember. My goodness. She knows. You tell her it was two or three times, over a lengthy period, some of them before you met her, and that's the end of it. She either stays with you, or she doesn't. I have no idea how often you hobby, but if it is frequently it will hurt her far more than if it's only occasionally (or if she thinks it is occasionally). From there, several things might happen. either she a) insists you give up the hobby or b) she accepts that this is, from time to time, something you will do. If b) you might be even be lucky enough to introduce her to a lady to share the experience with you. If a), however, you will have to decide whether you will stop, or whether you will get much better at hiding your activities. Porthos

You are a wonderful beautiful lady with a playful and very giving side. You are supportive of this community and the people in it and are always there to help yet we also know there's a feisty side waiting to be unleashed. Thanks for everything you do here and looking forward to the next thousand!

Yes, this is a recommendation board. If people want reviews (good or bad) they need to go to a review board. That said, the "Due to the rules of the board, I cannot comment" response is, by its nature, a negative review. But it is a lot more informative than saying nothing at all. You state that you had 1 visit, and the experience was good. You should "recommend" her then. Or tell us what was good about your visit. Because for those of us that have seen her and cannot comment, we would be interested. Was it recent? Or a long time ago? Which name was she using at that time? What was good about the experience, and why have you stopped at one visit? " but i don't think it's fair that a couple peoples' poor experience keeps surfacing on this board all the time". Yours has been the first positive report I have seen posted about this SP. I guess you are a lucky one that happened to have seen her on a day she lived up to her potential, which there is no doubt exists. Unfotunately, more than a couple of us have not had that pleasure, which is why the "can't comment" posts seem to so numerous in regards to this SP... The board exists so that hobbyists can find good experiences. Review boards exist so that hobbyists can both find good experiences and avoid bad ones. Certain SP's are mentioned more on certain boards...

Congrats Cristy on reaching 2000 posts!! Always an interesting read.

ALO is the only chain of massage studios with a proper body rub licensing other spas operate with a master business license that means they are not entitled to provide body rub services. When a body rub parlor has the proper license covers all the staff working at the premises. As opposite to a spa where only the person that has a massage certificate is able to provide it. some cities like Toronto offer the benefit to get individual body rub licenses, for each attendant. In our case this explain why we had stayed at same location, because licenses are grandfathered to specific address and directors what it makes not transferable. There will be spas operating as parlors but more susceptible to be target by the city of Ottawa or by law services. There has been many cases like Inner image closed by city amazing location and facilities, just to mention one of the cases. you can always find more info on by law services http://www.lunamassagespa.com

I have to ask... why does it matter to you whether the person you're with is a full-time SP, or part time? How does the number of other appointments she has affect her time with you?

Holy crap...2k milestone already! Congrats!

Not that I have any reason to be defending the SP in question, but isn't this NOT a review board? Everytime somebody comes on here asking about certain SP's, the same things are said when people have a negative opinion. We all know what the "hints" mean, so that's basically giving a negative review of that SP. Am i right? I've seen this SP once, and the experience was good. i can't speak for other clients of hers, but i don't think it's fair that a couple peoples' poor experience keeps surfacing on this board all the time. send it through a PM instead of throwing it out in subtle hints that are obviously negative reviews.

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This morning I am sitting here trolling CERB in a warm home with electricity and heat... for most of yesterday that was not the case for me and many other Newfoundlanders... in fact a lot of people here still do not have heat. While I had access to a generator many did not and as a result had very difficult times trying to keep their loved ones warm and safe and happy. Here's to hoping the worst is behind us... but they are still saying there will be rolling blackouts today. Hmmmm so much for that HAVE PROVINCE status...lololol

some relationships DO survive, and get better. The things that change include: - a core belief change that dishonesty is destructive to MY soul, let alone hers - an active desire (and followthru) to really explore the sexual playground INSIDE the relationship. (when the playground is completely explored, then it's time to look outside. Similar to if I can explore all the stars in the universe in my lifetime, it will be time to check out another universe). - a redefinition of trust - a grey scale, instead of an absolute. Each person reclaims ownership of the level of trust they choose to have about the other. - instead of needing the other partner to be/do what one wants/needs, we free the other to be who they really are, warts and all, and make our choices about whether to stay or leave based on listening to our soul's guidance (intuition, gut feeling, whatever you name it). It's not an inclusive list, but in my experiences down this road, these points seem to follow a common thread in couples that do stay together and thrive.

Congrats to a feisty and eminent CERB citizen!

congrats Cristy on the 2000 posts there always interesting keep them coming

Congratulations, Cristy!

You always have interesting things to say, cristy! Congrats on 2000!

Well done, Phaedrus! My congratulations and thanks to you on your excellent work.

congrats Phaedrus on 4000 posts!

Cerb (and Halifax!) are both so very lucky to have you, Cristy. Congratulations on the milestone.

congrats my friend ... well done!

Congratulations Cristy on 2000 contributions Enjoy reading what you have to say, looking forward to the next 2000 RG

If you book an encounter, keep it. Don't book an encounter with a lady and be a no show. And if you know you can't make it (life does happen) let the lady know as soon as possible so she can reschedule. For us gentlemen, this lifestyle is an escape, for the ladies their livelihood, and a no show for a lady is a loss of income (for some ladies it can be a substantial loss of income), she could have used that time for another client. If you have to last minute cancel on a lady, then be a gentleman, pay her a cancellation fee. Before writing and posting a recommendation let the lady read it first. There may be something you wrote she'd rather not have posted for public viewing (for example encounters are both YMMV and she may do things for you based on your existing personal SP/Client relationship that she may not do for other clients) She doesn't need other clients expecting that she will do the same for them A couple more RG

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I really like Nathalie's latest ad.

Visiting a place that was pretty much top of the bucket list. And no, it wasn't someone's incall :)

Seems appropriate given the thread A Seinfeld episode for every occasion RG

Actually the city of Ottawa Body rub license does not prohibit "happy endings", at least the one I read online. It does specify that the attendant must stay clothed at all timesand a few other things concerning hygiene, but it has no specific wording on what can and cannot be "rubbed". I looked at other jurisdictions in Ontario like Mississauga and Pickering, and their regs have specific prohibitions on massaging, buttocks, genitals and breasts, no digits, no oral, no ejaculation. Those words are not on the Body Rub regulations posted on the city of Ottawa website.

I hope my post didn't come across as judgemental. As it was intended to just explain my point of view and how I would react. Why or how someone does something is for them, but I am always curious as to why? But if calling it cheating is deemed judgemental then I guess I am. But you have to call it what it is. That doesn't mean I'm judging you/him or her for doing it, quite honestly I don't care what anyone outside of my circle does. :)After all, if you vow to your spouse /so to only be with them and you aren't then.. If you said you may wander then you're not cheating. Why you do it really doesn't remove or change the action or give the action a different title. We all do what we do for reasons that are our own, and our own business, but again, many of theses actions do have a name, liked or not.:)

I haven't been in a relationship where this has happened but if I were cheated on I wouldn't stay. But that's me. I'm rather "square" and old fashioned when it comes to relationships. I believe in monogamy and that the man should be the bread winner and the woman should stay at home and I believe in complete honesty in a relationship- no exceptions. If I'm not all he needs at any point I don't want to be with him. Women are intuitive and quite frankly we know when something is not right, when you are stepping out. There are some who react, some who don't. Some leave, some put up with it, some want to work through it and forgive. It's devastating because you are turning to someone else for affection, sex, or for whatever you are seeking outside of your relationship. We, want to be the only one and some of us will blame ourselves for being the reason you're stepping out, even though we may not be. Women are often very hard on themselves, blaming their looks, figure or sexual prowess for not being enough, when in fact a lot of times none of these points are ever the reason. I've often asked different men why they seek someone outside of their relationship and the common answer is usually they aren't getting what they need from their spouse or so, for some they just need many, a variety, others like the op, don't know why. But whether these were honest answers or not I'll never know. This is one of the biggest reasons for my discomfort in this business, knowing that I'm enabling a cheating man. But I've been contradictory in a lot of aspects in my life. Perhaps I'm more gray than I realize. No matter what we do, it is a choice, life is short and happiness is fleeting and needed. I say if doing something makes you happy then you need it, do it, and suffer the consequences. I guess what you have to ask yourself is -does this lifestyle make me happier than my spouse/so, or does my spouse/so make me happier. Can I have both, or can I survive, be happy without one or the other, that too is a choice. Best of luck.

No one in Ottawa, MA or MP is licensed to give "happy-endings". A City License for "happy-endings" does not exist.

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Definitely want to meet Cleo some time this year. I love tattoos, just need to find the time.

Darling Old Dog, You officially hang out with us SPs WAY TOO MUCH! This is hilariously too accurate! You are the only man I know that can take the chaos that is our day and make it something that makes me spew my wine out my nose and giggle thru the burn! kisses, cat

I find the dancers who escort in the club; they choose the clients they want. They also want to see if they have a connection with the client sometimes, because they like to enjoy themselves and feel safe, with whom they are with.

I agree a lady has a right to pick and choose whom she see's. However ads like this are rude, that is why lady's are supposed to screen their clients. I don't agree with the blunt nature of ads like this. If a lady does not wish to meet someone based on what ever facts that should be discussed during screening. She is ruining her business by doing this. To those who just turn the other cheek good for you! To those who are hurt, I am very sorry but no matter how hard we try there will always be rude people out there. To those who are completely offended just remember this "there is always one rotten apple in the basket". I am truly sorry that this person chooses to act this way, we "should" live in a civilized manor. Just my nickels worth.

Welcome In answer to your questions: 1) independent versus agency; is totally a question of personal preference and what you feel comfortable with. I tend to go independent, but that is also because I tend to plan encounters well in advance. Agencies tend to cater to those who want to book that day, rather than weeks in advance. But if you go with a reputable agency, I see no downside to going that route. I also like independents because it gives me more control over who I'm going to see, and an opportunity to get to know them a bit before the encounter, whether it be through this board, or through e-mail or phone. If you go with an agency, you may be limited to who is available that day, which may not be known in advance, and you won't have an opportunity to talk/e-mail with them before the meeting. 2) tipping ... again is up to you. I often take a gift, or a bottle of wine. I usually tip, but not always. Most ladies don't expect a tip, but it is always gratefully received and i think it is a nice way to convey that the encounter was meaningful to you. 3) there shouldn't be any hidden fees, but again this depends on the provider. Sometimes there may be additional costs associated with particular services that are not part of the normal encounter. PSE services, may involve an additional cost beyond the GFE price. Best to read the website and ask the provider. If going with an agency ask the phone person. 4) definitely get a cell phone. even an inexpensive pay as you go phone from 7-11 is critical. All the best, and have fun. Porthos

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Thanks for that. But at least to me, she isn't so much a professional companion as a con artist who used sex to defraud and con a man. A "lady" like that gives professional companions and this lifestyle a bad name, just like the bad dates a professional companion deals with gives all men and the lifestyle a bad name too If the OP is concerned about something like this happening, couple quick tips. First, use your big head to do your thinking. A companion may really enjoy seeing you as a client...but think about it, if a beautiful woman half your age for example says she loves you, well use your big head. Has something like that ever happened to you in civilian life (I admit I'm assuming it is a case in most cases, of an older man seeing a younger companion) Second, only use disposable income for this lifestyle. Don't use credit (lines of credit, credit cards, worse payday loans etc) taking out second mortgages, cashing in savings etc. Only use that cash money you have available and is disposable for each encounter (not earmarked for bills etc)...at the most you only risk that amount of money used for each encounter. Also, and again using your big head, think, is this lady, or any lady worth risking going broke over and would she love you if you had no money Finally if concerned about falling head over heals in love, see more than one companion, enjoy the poly amorous nature of this lifestyle. Just a few quick thoughts RG

Maybe I'm misunderstanding, but... If a lady is able to create an atmosphere where you as a client feel the romance or connection you require, is that really a "darker side of the situation"? Don't get me wrong, I certainly hope any lady I spend time with enjoys it as well, and I like the idea that at some level a friendship/respect can develop. But I also know quite well this is a professional relationship. So while in an encounter I would prefer an atmosphere where there is a connection and chemistry, I know to a degree this can be created because the lady is a professional and because of her demeanor. Likewise, I know for some guys they want an encounter where they can let off some emotional baggage or stress, and have a lady who will listen to them and sympathize. And many do this very well. Again, I don't think it's somehow deceptive for a lady to thoughtfully listen and care for a time. But unless you mean something more manipulative, I'm not sure I understand the issue. Also, I suspect most people can only "fake" chemistry and caring so much. Basically what you allude to as a darker side I think I'd rather interpret as a professional companion who is able to judge and provide for the needs of a given client.

Perhaps this may seem strange to the previous posters, because it's an opposite viewpoint, but part of the intrigue of this "hobby" is that I share it with absolutely no one. It's my secret life. Known only to me and the ladies I see. So very different than my regular life. The only time I discuss it is here on CERB using the anonymity of my forum handle.

When it comes to disabilities, you have to understand what type of disabilities they are dealing with. I met a client once who was almost totally disabled (wheelchair bound, but able to move once in a prone position, no acrobatics). He actually felt the medical should provide him a service, like how he has a homeworker come into take care of him. It is totally different dealing with someone who cannot move around, but still wants to experience a sexual experience with someone who is skilled in this. You have to understand what and how they want to experience this. Take your time, book a longer time because everything that we normally take for granted takes longer. Understand that they still have sexual needs and are generally frustrated in people who will brush them off. Just because they have mobility issues, does not mean they dont have needs. However, if they have cognitive or other types of needs, you have to understand how their disability needs to be understood. If they are blind, deaf, mentally challenged, or cognitive disabled, you have to take this into consideration. Just keep in mind to ensure you book a longer call for them. Take your time, fine tune their needs and all is well. Good luck!

Hey Secret Admirer! Nah, I wouldn't call it a strange & rare fetish, there's lots of folks who like the unshaven look! That's the beauty of people's tastes, they're all different & I always enjoy hearing about other's personal preference. As for hair, I've always enjoyed a fella with a hairy chest. It's something to play with afterwards when we're laying there & chatting, heh. :D