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In keeping with the spirit of this wonderful community, this is a thread to recognize the contributions of our members in making this a vibrant and fun place to be. Not only to indulge our senses in sensual delights but also tempt and support our palates, minds, hearts, souls and everything else that makes us human. Let's use this thread to recognize and thank while also respecting those who have a differing opinion. Thank you to everyone who made your voices heard. :ThankYou:

Suite Escapes, I wanted to personally say I'm sorry you felt snubbed and hurt by having your contributions go unrecognized. Please believe me when I say it was not personal. Unfortunately, I am only one person with many responsibilities and sometimes people are missed especially if they post numerous times around the milestone. Originally I had hoped that others would join in and notice as well however that has not really happened. If I get away from it for a few days, occasionally I miss something no matter my efforts; there are a lot of members. I know this was posted to the community however it is well known I spearhead this initiative. I'm hoping that by saying this, you feel better and from the bottom of my heart I do hope you do because it was not an intentional slight. I appreciate your openness and honesty about the situation. It was pointed out that there are a LOT of silent members. Members who may read the threads or may simply be here to seek out companionship. There may be many who feel left out or hurt. I know in the poll, the majority enjoyed these threads but there was also a group who saw no value in it. And as we've seen, this can change based on personal bias at any point and was only a handful out of the thousands of members. So, perhaps overall, it really isn't a positive venture or instead something that looks positive on the surface but underneath is not. Duality is common it is only when the balance tips that things get questionable. My goal is to be part of a vibrant exciting community of people who support the industry and the people behind it, whether SP or hobbyist. I have to think about what serves that goal best.

You have been a hugely important member of this community, and I for one, am mortified that we allowed your accomplishment to be overlooked. But your post is also a very important reminder, that the proliferation of "milestones" and congratulatory posts/threads, can have the effect of making people who have made important contributions, feel left out and excluded. You have always been, for me at least, a true CERB goddess, and a wonderfully sensitive, genuine, and honest member of this board. Your contributions have been so very important. Much love to you. And definitely hugs and kisses. xoxo Porthos

OK reluctantly I will say this, I love our community, and I am forever giving praise to all that contribute. The down side is, when we over look someone:( When I made my 2000 post, I never had one person congratulate me:( I feel that something so simple can actually make a person feel low. Like all my efforts have gone unnoticed by anyone here:( I felt invisible and unimportant to CERB:( I felt very sad for days, even now as I type this:( I am far to humble to give a hint, or suggest that another would start one. PLEASE DO NOT DO IT NOW! I was a bit hurt that for all the love that is shared here, no one even noticed I made my 2000+ so far:( So, I voted for NO, does not impact us:(

Well, though I know this would never have been her intention, I think it may only be appropriate that the first post in this thread go out to Midnite Massage herself! Not only does she always have kind, patient advice and empathy for everyone around her, but she is often the first person to recognize the contributions of everyone else. Certainly when it comes to building community spirit she helps set the bar. I think I can safely say on behalf of everyone, thanks for all you do! (Plus, her blog is super sexy.)

Where are you? Why is it, the only posts here are simply asking for info but with no other contributions? WE WANT to hear from you!! You obviously have a screen name , you must have opinions? I look at other cities, and see much being learned and taught! yes I know we are small in population, but really, do you not have anything to say? Chat about anything, we are listening and want to engage! The benefits of US providers as well as YOU! It is well worth it! Talk to us, our community can only get better by hearing from you:) Give it a try...what excites you? What is it that get's your goat? What have you learned by being a hobbyist? What concerns you? You don't have to be a philosopher. but just be honest and respectful to others... hope to see more posts in NB:) It will help me, and you to get to know each other!

YEMV - Your Experience may vary. Every encounter is different depending on the mood and the chemistry between two people. Recommendations are written based on a particular encounter that happens to be enjoyed by the client. A woman with a lot of recommendations can be a good choice as odd's are that as long as you are a gentleman and clean and treat her with respect, you will in all likely get an experience that you will remember. But anything can happen. Either one of you may have bad day, or the woman may have had a bad session before you or may not be feeling well. Or there could be just no connection or chemistry, well it just happens. That's life. But in general I've met quite a few women of cerb and have had some outstanding memorable experiences. I've only had a few so so experiences and those were with women that only had a few recommendations. But I have always been a gentleman and have treated them with respect. Never ask for any extra's, just go with the flow and see where fate will take me. Made many new friends along the way and have had many repeat experiences, with each one getting better. Well that's all I have to say for now.

Thought it would be appropriate to point out a site -- independentescortsottawa.com -- that holds itself out as a group of independent Ottawa escorts working together but that, in fact, is not. The other day, I had an appointment with one of the "independent" SP from this site, thinking I was communicating with her directly to arrange the appointment. When the SP showed up, it did not appear to be the person represented in the photograph but I gave her the benefit of the doubt as the face was not clear on the site.... it became quite obvious when she removed her clothes that she was not that person. . . When I told her that nothing was going to "happen" as she was not who or what I thought, she quite candidly explained: > That it is not a group of independent escorts but an agency. > That they send whomever is available for the appointment > That, in fact, the pictures on the site are not of any of the girls that work there. The women pictured on the web site basically don't exist there and are not the real pictures of any of the SP there. So, FYI, be forewarned that this is but another cynical bait-and-switch.

A few days ago, a fellow came in for his first visit. He was very inquisitive, asking all kinds of questions. I find this is normal for most first timer's, they want to get into your brain. I don't know why really. As I am here to provide a service that you apparently want/need. BUT..... The problem is, don't ask questions that you do not want the truthful answers to! He asked me if I had a BF, so naturally I say yes! Even if I did not have a BF I might say yes, so that he doesn't try to date me. lol.. When I answered him, explaining that indeed I do have BF, but he does not live here with me, and has no say into my business what so ever, he continued to say" I have to say I am uncomfortable in knowing you have a BF" I even said " what don't you think I am deserving of love too?" He said of course, but still... WTF??? You are married, and I am sure she is NOT in support of you being here, whereas, my BF does support my decision to work this trade! I never understand how they expect me to reply, I mean...I could lie, but then the guy wants to wooo you, I am not into leading a person on. So if you tell the truth, you also face the possibility of loosing a client:( Would my clients prefer me to lie? Would not lying cause you to distrust me? Honestly, after he said this to me I am sort of reluctant to book him again, as I fear he will continue to try to learn more and more of my personal life:( So to my NB friends, Have you asked this question, only to find that you should have never asked it to begin with? Does an SP having a BF change anything for you? Have you ever stopped seeing someone ( an SP)because you found out they were in relationship or married? Should I lie? Tell the truth? Thanks in advance for anyone's input! This is a subject I continue to struggle with year after year! Like, why the hell can we not have relationships too? It is a double edged knife for me on this topic! felling frustrated:(

I just want to clarify something here.. I work out of a Spa, and I decide what hours to work every week... I just set up my schedule to go around the rest of my life... as I am sure is the case for all the ladies... no matter wether they work out of a spa or not... I have made exceptions on my schedule and taken appointments out of the hours I have already stablished for the week,, as long as they dont interfere with other aspects of my life... remember many of us.. independents or SPA attendents have other responsibilities... for some is School, for others is other FT or PT jobs.. and even beyond that FAMILY... And I know fro a fact that I am not the only one at the Spas I work from that accomodate to take appointments even on NON-SPA SCHEDULE HOURS...

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Visiting an indy does not make it less expensive... if you compare rates for indys and the rates at the spa once youbhave paid all gratuities and door fee. They come out to be the exact same or very close.... Independent ladies also have to pay rent, buy oils, cleaning supplies. .. remember many of them dont operate from their home... so as in any other business There is an Overhead... And in terms of service is all about the lady and the individual... Every MA has their own style., and services to offer.. every MA is going to offer you their own "personalised" experience and has nothing to do with the place...

What kind of person would borrow a phone then call the people in the contacts list? That alone is bizarre behaviour makes me wonder what the sp herself was thinking to lend it out to someone capable of doing that.

She could have some kind of physical injury and makes it difficult for this position.

Ok, I'll bite :) I was disappointed to learn today that there are 3 Territories and 9 Provinces represented on Canada's 2014 winter Olympic team. The one province that isn't represented is NB. Does this speak to successive provincial governments talking about daily physical activity in public schools but when it comes to walking the walk and funding the Phys Ed specialists at all grade levels.....that doesn't happen. Obesity rates among children and youth is highest in NB. Is there are common theme here? Perhaps a little less public money supporting wealthy families and the likes of corporations such as CN and a little more public money put into education and wellness.

Good thread Sophia. Since I feel that I fall under the category you describe, I may as well take the plunge and reply my first real reply. I am fairly new at this, but I have about 5 encounters under my belt. The kicker is they have always been on the road while I was away for work. Its a little intimidating for me to take the plunge to contact a SP in a place like Moncton as Im a little paranoid that someone will see me or whatever (Im not THAT popular so Im not sure why I even care). What drove me to embark on this "lifestyle" if you will is a lack of passion in my life. My encounters have ranged anywhere from being a complete nightmare to my last encounter in Ottawa being an 11/10. That even ended in the SP giving me her personal number, which kind of freaked me out. I had shades of the movie Pretty Woman running through my head. And here I am openly talking about this on a message board....and I'm not even drunk.

This guy should get a recommendation. Wouldn't that be funny? He has saved a lot of us many times. One small example is the Arabic massage girl who looks hot on BP and says a Must see. I was going to go until her pic showed up on his site. The guy is great...and good for all the terrific genuine MPs and SPs all of us love in Ottawa.

Packing and heading south to warmer weather for a couple of weeks, golf,sun,fun and babes as I look forward to the encounters I have lined up. :)

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Guess I'm getting older because I detest winter, although I've heard it's pretty balmy in Winnipeg right now LOL And summer, when it gets to extremes of summer heat, not to mention humidity don't like it either...and when it gets to those extremes of heat/humidity, you can't even dress for it, even shorts/tshirt and you still "suffer" At least in winter in the cold you can bundle up to stay warm Spring I like, it's a final reprieve from the cold of winter And Fall, it's a final reprieve from the heat of summer Not to mention Spring is the beginning of fishing in open water. And Fall, good time to go fishing for smallmouth bass and muskie For me, winter and it's cold and snow can come on Christmas Eve, stay Christmas day, and then the cold and snow all can go to hell on the 26th A seasonal rambling RG

Id pick Summer and Fall - you get the HOT weather(and NO deicing planes) and the beautiful colours of the leaves (Plus all those nice fall sweaters and evenings in front of a fire before one needs to turn on the heat)

Your above post was posted in the recommendation area. We DO NOT reward ladies who bait and switch people with fake photos with recommendations. Your recommendation has been merged into this discussion thread and your live account of her photos being fake has allowed us to move the thread into the warnings area for bait and switch to warn others that her photos are indeed fake. Good service or not this is NOT acceptable so please do not support these ladies who do this.

Yes, We all need love and affection just like everyone else. They give us all the best of themselves for a little while. And they make us feel good and stress free even if it is only for an hour. And they deserve just as much love and affection also. We are all humans and we all need TLC. Beatles : All you need is love, enjoy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-pFAFsTFTI

My suggestion is pick a few ladies that you think your wife would like to meet.. maybe show her some pics... contact all the ladies.., asked them directly if they offer services to ladies (some ladies that offer this type of service dont necessarily advertise it) and then let her choose.. that way you know she will be happy

The original poster had also contacted me, the other night. I advised him that yes it's a scam site, it's operated by the same people behind these two sites featured earlier on the diary http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?tag=819-803-004 . http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?s=xlist As you can see the photos are fake and some featured on both sites. This is not a new tactic in the arsenal of the shaddier agencies, but it's one that eventually and always fails.

I may be the odd man out on this topic but my preference is that when I meet an SP that we are both honest with each other..... now having said that I fully appreciate and understand: * The need to be careful till you get to know the other person before you share to much * The RIGHT For either party to politely say they would rather not answer ANY question. That said I can't help but feeling that any relationship that I have that is built on honesty will be more real and enjoyable for me. Of course I recognize the hypocrisy of what I am saying because I am a married man in this hobby without my wife's knowledge. Inherent in my comments is my understanding that if I ask a question and expect an honest answer then I have to be willing to accept the answer or not ask the question. In regards to Love / BF /Spouse in an SPs life I am kinda in the camp that thinks everyone needs someone who loves them and is there for them so if a SP tells me they have someone in there life I think it is great. And yes I understand some choose the single life...to each their own. Just my opinion....

Isn't that expected? :) Wouldn't it be odd if your experience was the same as the last persons? We are all different and so are the encounters we have. Again to justify a great encounter with the number of reco's a lady has is silly. There are great ladies with no reco's, few reco's, a moderate amount and ones with lots. The numbers are not going to guarantee anything other than that sp has met with a certain number of men that have felt comfortable writing about their encounter. It is not an assurance that anyone will be guaranteed a great encounter. To give anyone the sense that the best sp's are the ones with the highest number of reco's isn't truthful, nor fair. Nor is it factual that just because an sp has a lot of reco's that a new client will have a great encounter. Those chances are 50/50 with anyone. A great encounter needs to have two stimulated, like minded individuals that have some sort of chemistry, working towards the same end result reco's or not and to end with a bad result may be the cause of neither person, or both or one or the other. That two has many causes, reco's or not.

I hope the conservatives will go for the legal framework they have in Newzeeland, where prostitution is licensed and brothels are regulated and have safety and health standards. My fear is the current government will continue its dogmatic crime and punishment model pushing prostitution into the dark corners of society making it dangerous for the people working in the industry and those who frequent them.

This whole business is based on a fantasy. Could you imagine if we were completely honest? Him: So, you have a good day? Her: Well, I had a fight with my neighbour, then my car broke down and it's going to cost me $1000, then my kid threw up all over me and the counter and the floor, then my mom called and wondered why I didn't call her today, and so she's really pissed at me. Him: Wow, sorry to hear its been such a crappy day. Do you want to have sex? Her: No, I have a headache. I understand new hobbyists that might be concerned that a jealous BF might be hiding in the closet, or might break down the door or something like that. He is looking for reassurance that this isn't going to happen. However, a new client that I don't know or have never met before is not going to get the same information from me, then from someone I've seen numerous times and am familiar with. He is going to get a different answer. I am honest with my clients, but don't actually divulge any personal information about myself. I even had a client that insisted on knowing my real name. I gave him a name, and sure enough, the next time he called me by that name. It was not my real name so he failed the test. You can never be to cautious about the information you divulge, even if you've seen this client before. Sophia, of course SP's/MA's deserve and need love. There is nothing wrong with having a partner in this life, and in this business it is extremely rare and special. Dust this one off your shoulders and move on. xoxo

There is nothing unflattering. You are all beautiful Goddesses and a sight to behold, and we men are lucky that you see us...sorry for the thread hijack, now back to our regularly scheduled program RG :-)

I wrote my post on this thread about 9 months ago. It's interesting to see what's shifted since then, and in what direction. At least for me, the boundaries between all the different facets of my life shift continuously. Sometimes they are firmer, sometimes they are less firm. Sometimes I feel like I can share everything, and sometimes I feel like I can't. Depends on the context, on the people present, and on my own state of mind. My last post was a lot firmer - "I don't live a double life" - because I believed I lived my life with a certain degree of integrity. I think now I'm coming to realize that sometimes, my life (be it the fact I'm an escort, or a research assistant, or a student) is no ones business. We all have a right to privacy, including the privacy of our thoughts. What I've written might seem obvious to most, but I feel like I'm constantly growing and learning how I want to live my life... I think about this sort of stuff a lot!

There are many that stand out and who should be recognized I think and deserve continued thanks and appreciation for their contributions here, for their insight, intelligence, ability to voice an objective and understanding opinion, who don't pick sides, who are wise beyond words and who's posts I enjoy reading. these are the ones at the top of my list: Cat-A woman who knows how to put things into perspective. I think I know what I'm talking about when I respond to a thread until I read her response. She truly "gets" it and causes me to think again, to look at things in another way, usually the right way. To her I thank, admire and always look forward to reading her responses. I just wish she would post more:) Tracie-Midnight-like Cat, she has a way with looking at things fairly, with understanding and has never imo passed judgement. She could teach us all something imho:) Mightypen-just a smart guy. He too can put things into perspective, always, imo has the right answer. I just admire him and respect his opinions:) RG- A man I feel I could tell my secrets. He makes me feel safe even though we've never met. Just a good soul, we need more like him:) Brad-Smart, informed, fair and just a nice guy:) Miss jane TG-Her posts are intellectual, informed, to me always valuable and worth reading. There are many others here that are smart, informed, well spoken, and we are lucky to have them. I apologize for not naming them all as I feel they too are stand outs . But the ones named seemed to be at the top of my list. We all have something to offer and to be thankful for. What makes some different imo is how they can articulate their posts without judging, criticizing or being biased. Traits I know I don't often have and ones I envy. So to the ones I've listed- thank you:)

So we all probably have our favourite season (summer for me!) but I imagine most of us wouldn't want that season to be the only one we enjoy even if we could choose. But suppose you could decide how long each season was... I'm curious what the breakdown would be like for people. If you could decide exactly how much of the year was spent on each of the four seasons (let's assume "construction" doesn't count as a season!) how would you divvy it up? For myself, I'll happily enjoy 6 months of summer. I like the crispness and colours of fall too so it can have 3 months. Spring can have 2. And though I'm not a fan of cold and ice, it wouldn't be the holidays without it and I'm Canadian enough that I'm sure I'd miss it, so it can keep December.

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I find that many hobbyist usually just say " ohh well I just don't have the time or care to bother" But yet these also tend to be the same guy's who ask the same questions over and over, or the one's that are venting about getting ripped off, etc... As you point out, if you could spend a few min here and there and begin to read what your future provider is writing. Gives you an indication on compatibility, professional investment she has into her business, then chances are, you may not have to post about how you get ripped off or never can seem to book with the lady and never get to meet, etc. Example: if RG wants to book me on Monday at 2, but so does abc for the same time, I will book RG in heart beat, lol.... I was happy to I got few new posters from the tread, I only hope they continue:)

I think you are getting close lol:biggrin:

I guess for me it would be 7 months Summer... 3 months early fall, 1.5 months late spring and 2 weeks winter which would be Dec 20 to Jan 3. I know I am too old for winter..... i can live with it and would not move to avoid it but if I had a choice to not have it here lolol it's gone

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Trailblazer! Right on, get out there and put your imagination to work! I know exactly what you mean by changing it up, I do this all the time:) I get bored easily lol, so I am for ever searching for my next move. This is the main reason I started to do massage, as GFE was getting boring for me, and now I am starting learn more on fettish/dom . But the great thing about massage there always more courses I can take to change it up from the norm:) Good Job darling! Looking forward to seeing more posts from you, share your experiences and thoughts:)

Haven't been around much lately....but very nice thread Tracie. You have very much become a person..... a staple that does her best to hold this CERB place together here and keep it a happy place in times of need. Cause you care !! and you have a big heart. Kudo's babes !!! xoxo

Perhaps she has bad knees or lower stamina.... Why not ask if that could be a part of your session, hopefully your fantasy can come true!

I agree its very nice when someone contacts you to have a post history to look at briefly. It really does help us get to know you a little bit. I am often disappointed when I'm approached for a date and the person has little or no posts. Its a lot more fun guys if you share a little bit about yourselves. At least from my point of view if we have something to talk about you are going to have a much better experience. :biggrin:

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I recognize that the lady I'm seeing is presenting her alter ego to me. In superhero parlance I get to just know her Batgirl identity, she keep's her Barbara Gordon real identity to herself and her friends LOL Now I've had in the case of many encounters, during the course of conversation a lady asking me questions which might be construed as personal (ie are you married, where do you work, what made you start seeing companions etc) But I didn't take it as personal, just a companion making conversation, trying to get to know a man she is seeing just a little bit. By the same token in those conversations I might come back, ask are you married (I never ask what made you become a companion though) and so on. Maybe being older, living long distance from any city I see companions in, and definitely not wanting to enter into a relationship, ladies can sense it is safer having these conversations (and emphasis, it is only brought up after the lady initiates it, and not with all ladies btw) Guys shouldn't be prying trying to get information from a lady, hoping for "something more" But not necessarily are all questions prying. It may just be normal conversation, with innocent intentions, between a man and woman about to be intimate. And they are just trying to know one another a bit better,so they aren't anonymous sexual partners Anyhow, a rambling for whatever it's worth RG

While there were times in the past where it was essential that I keep details about my work private from many people, the secret life thing never worked very well for me... I'm only speaking for myself here, of course, but, it's alot of work to keep things heavily compartmentalized....and I value the continuities between my many selves too much to keep my life as an SP separate. My son knows what I do, my family and friends know, and I like it that way. :)

Chantalsummers at Paradise/Angel Touch gets my vote.

No reviews shouldn't make you wonder as there are many who just don't like to write or involve themselves in them and there are many other reasons an sp might not have any. She may be to new, only has seen a couple of clients, only deals with sites like bp where most clients don't write reviews or reco's and so on. Check to see if her pictures are her own-tineye.com/google image search as many will recommend. Then call her, text or whatever her means of contact is. That's the best way imo to find out if an sp will be a good match is through personal communication between the sp and the hobbyist. Asking another's opinion, although helpful sometimes, certainly won't guarantee your success. Only you and she can do that. Best of luck:)

Leanna....