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Your question is a little offensive. Might be better asked "has anyone been with" or "has anyone had an appointment with" or ... well I hope you get the point. Then "she might be worth it"? Brother, these are ladies not objects. Your not going to get much help when your questions read as rude or mean. Your name says "good guy" lets try that... little more gentleman like will get a lot more help here on cerb.

I read the article that has been referred to here in this thread. According to the article, the charges that were filed were as follows: Procuring for prostitution a person under the age of 18. Knowingly concealing a person under the age of 18 in a bawdy house. Exercising control over a person under the age of 18. Living off the avails of prostitution of a person under the age of 18. Counselling a person under the age of 18 to engage in prostitution. Householder permitting sexual activity. Internet luring for the purposes of prostitution (two charges). Sexual exploitation of a young person. Breach of recognizance (three charges). Breach or probation (two charges). If I am correct, I find it interesting that NONE of these charges are related to things from the Bedford decision and are a validation of the fact that the existing criminal code already addresses the kinds of criminal activities that the vast majority of us are in full agreement with. A new prostitution law is not required.

If I may interjet for a moment... clients only see SPs in a certain mode. She is offering the perfect fantasy being the woman the person wants her to be in that moment through the way of intimacy. They truly do not know her in everyday life. I don't think many people would want to see me in a bad mood when I'm not working. lol. I am a grouch! This isn't to say when you see her that how she receives you is a put on but everyday life is complicated and being an SP and dealing with this is even more difficult and awkward at times.. Two weeks ago, I had 3 clients ask me out off the clock. I declined because I don't get involved with clients and no matter how great the chemistry or intimacy was, it is not indicative of real everyday life. I enjoy what I do for a living for various reasons but it doesn't make me a nympho on the hunt for a f**k buddy or because I have a great chemistry with a client that a more serious relationship should occur. I'm not looking to date anyone. I think people who see SPs or MAs should just enjoy what they have and when they walk out the door to leave it in that special place between the two of them until they meet again. So many people get too ahead of themselves with what "could be" but life is so much more complicated than that. The purpose of seeing an SP is having those lust feelings and the chemistry with someone you enjoy but also being able to leave it just the way it is which is how it's supposed to be. That's when you know you've met a very good provider! ;)

We are judged all the time. Sad to say but true. I've been in this situation more then once..sometimes if you tell them right off what you do they think "Wow, all the free sex i can have". That isn't true by the way. wink .If you tell them later then they may walk away or they get it. Some dudes think they get it but it takes a special someone that really does. When dating someone it takes a lot more time to hit the sheets. wink

Here are a couple good resources in regards to this government survey. They provide some background info, ideas and guidelines for folks to use to form their own unique responses to the survey. These helpful guidelines were prepared by sex workers and their allies from all across the country, and are designed to inspire you to create your own personal answers. From Maggie's Toronto: http://maggiestoronto.ca/news?news_id=118 From POWER Ottawa: http://www.powerottawa.ca/CALLTOACTION.pdf

Lol I signed up yesterday to see what this site was all about, and although I am flattered that I appear to possibly be fake, I can assure you that I'm definitely real!! :) Additional Comments: Awe u guys r so nice :)

Well being a webcam model first, clients on cam were asking if i met in person...I met my first client that way...then I met Carrie Moon who helped me out building my first website and got me started in Ottawa...thank you Carrie :) Being my own boss...making my own Schedule...meeting amazing gents and having great encouters (amazing sex) and being able to provide for my kids :) Yes but will make sure that feeling are not in the way...communication !! Bad hygiene...Rushed sessions... That happens a lot too...at least for me! I keep repeating to myself that they are clients and im a provider and it has to stay that way...definately not easy sometimes... I felt nervous...but once we met I felt amazing and knew I was meant for this! Oh yes absolutely!! I have met ladies here that i consider now my BBF and continue to meet more and more wonderful ladies... I would say take the plunge and stop worrying...thats what we are here for and most would make you feel at ease the minute you walk in :) Oh yes It happened more then once lol...when the client walks out and you go...OMFG that was amazing!!! Make sure my room is ready...music...have a nice hot shower, get dressed up , make up and picture the encounter...gets me even more frisky!! When i meet guys that way and we spend time together...usually im very upfront with what i do...I do mention that im not working now and what he is seeing is the real me... I will let him know early so if he wants to take me out on a more intimate date...there is no secret! BJ xxx Additional Comments: I'm a early bird so I really enjoy mornings...afternoon also but when it gets too late like past 11pm...I have to get really psych to have an encounter past that time...sometimes it works good but I have turned down lots of demands after 11...unless hes a reg...then I will see him! And yes guys that call or text after midnight are not the clients you want to meet... BJ

Never had the sugar daddy experience, for most of all I don't have enough money. I think the key to a good SD/SB experience is the connection/chemistry between the two people Just the same as you can have great encounters between SP/Client, or bad encounters between SP/Client you can have a great SD/SB relationship or bad SD/SB relationship If both the lady and gentleman have a connection/chemistry and can arrange a mutually beneficial relationship a SD/SB can be a good thing If the connection/chemistry isn't there and/or the relationship isn't mutually beneficial then a SD/SB can be a bad thing The concept shouldn't be written off. But all participants must benefit Just the same as this lifestyle. It shouldn't be written off, but it must be a mutually beneficial lifestyle A rambling RG

I'm very much on the shy side, so my initial contact will be either PM (if explicitly stated by the lady) or text (usually in the form "Hello, is this Katrina?", to confirm I have the right phone number). If I don't get something back from a text in an hour or so, I could send a follow up of the type "I suspect you're busy; feel free to text me back whenever you can". I've read here that many ladies won't text back if it's not right away so as to not embarrass the gentleman in case he's no longer in a private situation. Since I don't have that problem, I might as well let her know so she doesn't stress about it. I won't be sending a third poke, though.

Food Carving! Amazing what people can do.....

I agree I am glad she got caught but I don't think she be the last one because there is one person and I believe he is a member on here that does ad for many girls in Dartmouth and Halifax which I believe will eventually be caught. I have been told from a friend of mine that use to work with him that the other girls are underage. She could be wrong but based on the pics in the ads, she could be right. I believe his name is Ritchie. I be very careful guys in going there.

Important to a sense that wherever it is, it's not in a seedy area. I'm fine with hotel or private condo, with preference to condo. It hasn't happened yet, but if someone said some motel, I'd probably decline. I'm just worried that it's some sort of scam.

Not a fan of hotels by and large, I know a lot of people locally and always need a to have a side story available and it also feels a little too cliche to me. If it's to a residence or condo/apartment I'll always do a drive by or google map search to scope out the neighborhood for safety as well as to ensure I don't know any one living in the building or near by. Peace MG

When I was single this happened often. For me, I would say so by the second date, if it were a proper date. The scenario you mention, is just a meeting, so need to get personal. But the second date after you get my number, I would face to face tell you. I would rather be judged face to face rather then a txt. But as a general rule, you wont get me in bed that night anyways, you need to do a bit more then take me out to dinner one night. So no worries off my back if you think your gonna get a frebbie, lol... Then see by your reaction if I would see you again. Life is tricky, and I do not want more complications by hiding the fact.

I wouldn't change too much Summer. I am already a "regular" so to speak and I enjoy extended visits......so I would probably focus more on visiting in the most part with the ladies I love spending time with already and whom all are very very dedicated to confidentiality and smart business. Therefore sorry gals.... I may become a "bigger" pain in the ass ;) I already host at my suite when I am on the road .... but would probably do more of that in my neck of the woods as it is a smaller centre, particularly if I was meeting someone new. Like anything else in life, if you are bright and sensible you can adapt to any situation life throws at us. And if I am going attempt to adapt to something it will most certainly be to continue spending time with beautiful and amazing women and getting nekkid and having orgasms cause they are healthy and keep a spring in my step :) I would probably not mass text penis pics anymore.... ya know ..... in case the "John" police are monitoring my sexts ;)

I will always have a set of fresh towels ready for you to use, so you can wrap a towel around you after your shower. I also do this for massage sessions, some people are shy at first, so I will drape a towel over their buttocks first. I am in search, and have found robes that are at wholesale price, so that maybe soon I can offer you a fresh robe with the towels. For me, I will throw a robe on instead of my cloths while you get dressed. I always will be naked when your naked, dressed when you are dressed. I also prefer to leave the room as you disrobe for massage, most people feel funny if they are being watched as they hop out of their pants etc...then I enter and undress elegantly while you watch:) But if we sit and chat first, I usually will disrobe half way, as you men are visual creatures, lol Hope this answers your etiquette question?

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=20104 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34148 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=102834&highlight=handles Just a few threads that covered this topic RG

I'm glad she was caught and is being charged. I don't agree with this AT ALL!

It is based again on the under 18 criteria. See the following link, http://yourlaws.ca/criminal-code-canada/171-householder-permitting-sexual-activity

For Running underage girls, Throw her in Jail and throw the key away!!!!

I just spoke with someone that knows her and she was well aware she was running underage girls. She has already been caught and had been under house arrest only able to leave home on Fridays for a couple of hours. Maybe this is one of her breach charges?

This woman is know as Mamma Flo and has been around and maybe still is a provider herself. I have never met her but I know people that do. I also had not heard she was running underage girls . The last I heard she was living in a basement apartment on Evans Avenue. This is a section of Fairview in Halifax . Its a section of town that boarders Old Clayton Park. It has good and bad parts all through Fairview, this one not being particularly bad. Perhaps not a good walk at night.

WHAT !!! ??? !!!! Lust ends ??? Tabarnack !!! ;) Oh ya right...it lasts until wedding vows. "As I slide this ring on your finger we vow now to have sex on our wedding night and maybe on the honeymoon a little bit and then never again until ovulation time. ;)" Now take out the garbage while I vacuum. And in a few years my lawyer will contact your lawyer Fuck. whether you fall for an SP or a bartender or an accountant or the sushi guy with the big knife chopping up fish. Doesn't matter. if you pursue it and she or he isn't interested move along folks. And "love" or "in love" doesn't really happen overnight IMO. It's just a word at that point. That truly takes a little time. And once it happens it never truly goes away. The "good and loving" memories are always there :)

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

got a code in my node. sniff sniff

This time is not a quote, is the link of a video a man made for his baby but as or more inspirational than any quote I have posted, especially if you read his story.

If I get no response to an email or text (which are always polite) then I won't make another attempt. That being said if I do get a response further contact will be based on said response. Life is short and there are lots of options out there. Peace MG

I don't like it I love it and every way but none;) Seeing it shoot onto my body, particularly my boobies I find orgasmic:boobies: Seeing the look on a mans face when he is about to blow and that horny in itself is a huge turn on, but what about sex isn't;)

I am still pretty well confined to the house and bored beyond, so I started a fun project. I began scanning old pictures from photo albums. Very fun. :) I told Sara McQ once that my hair was once curlier than hers and I think she did not believe me. I now have the visual proof. :) :)

Normally I'm an outcall type of guy but as long as the incall is in a decent neighbourhood I'm good to go. I've been to hotels, houses, and condos And directed at Lee for his comments about my previous post, is the cold like the water...shrinkage A Seinfeld episode for every occasion RG

I can imagine the police hard at work looking for those sexts Lee Sorry, couldn't resist RG :-)

Contacted COGECO, going to have Hi Def Cable installed a week from Friday...and I'm switching to them for internet too. Now I'll have wireless internet. My old ISP only had old style internet connected to a phone line I'm finally going to be in the 20th century...mind you it's the 21st century LOL And got confirmation, seeing a couple friends for lunch Friday. RG

I suppose it depends on time of day and duration of your visit. If it is an extended date, and we are expecting to eat dinner, have wine etc, then I think dressing appropriate is the right thing to do, as I will do the same. For a dinner of course I am not going to be in my lingerie at my dinner table. I would have nice dress pants/skirt and a nice shirt to match. So in this case a nice crisp clean shirt, good jeans or dress pants in proper. But if you just stopping in for an hour date, massage what not, then feel free to be casual. Not GYM pants tho, lol As long as it is clean and hole free, I am good with that:)

The Radisson has great penthouse suites with reasonable rates with parking for clients close by.

From the hobbyist side, I remember clicking on them when I first found cerb, and do occasionally use them as a shortcut to check out the MP schedules. However, the local advertising forum is now my preferred place to browse. The old ones; I haven't quite hooked onto the new format even though they're more efficient. Might be because these ads are always "fresh".

Getting old ... I have both in-laws and my mother all dealing with serious and potentially life threatening illnesses/injuries. porthos

Happy Birthday Lee! :boobies:

I'm sorry she's stuck with such a horrible partner in her contract. But I do really like her solution! Especially if the sugar daddy is married. There's sort of a beautiful symmetry to the relationship. Made me chuckle.

Let's just get naked and get to know each other. :smile: I'm more oversexed then ever. Come see what I'm all about and I'll give you the most sensual massage of your life.... Almost better than sex. I'm sexy and I know it! Long hair, beautiful blue eyes, 5'8" with the model looks to match. Now taking an RMT and I wanna practice on you! Cum help me study? I'm located Downtown in the market. Private and Discreet, I cater the discerning gentlemen that really want a great exxxxperience without getting caught. LoL 100% Independent, so I do what I want. I'll leave a lasting impression to make you smile long after we've met. I offer a full body sensual massage with proper body slides. Or see me for a Nuru (Max 45m during the winter). All sessions are done on my big bed; you wouldn't want me to fall off, now would you? :P Or get the best of the with a 45m nuru and 30 to 60m therapeutic massage. Allow me to tailor a session especially to you, just let me know how long I get to keep you and let me show you what I can do. Available this week Today now until 10pm Tu 10am to 10pm W 10am to 10pm Th 10am to 10pm F 10am to 10pm Sat 10am to 10pm Call me at 613-482-1553 or text at 613-909-8336 Since it's just me doing my admin, I can be hard to get in touch with sometimes, please use my online schedule. Click Here for access.

Like every city my friend, it pays to plan ahead. It's saturday night.... and if no calls come early, it's a night off to enjoy yourself with friends. Just a helpful hint.

You guys are not talking saame Cassidy the one in the review is actually around Pinecrest and Carling

Sorry can't explain it... i have no explanation as to why a private profile... you control what you put on profile so it seems unnecessary to me. Just my opinion

Of course, i'd love it if it was free and i'm interested in knowing more the lady. On the other hand, it would probably get abused too much. I talk/chat with a lady i've seen who does webcam so i get to know her better. Of course, there's always the possibility a client will ask for a dance or private time and the conversation will get interrupted. But i don't mind, getting to see she's doing well and catching up is fun. Some other questions: If i blow too fast, i'll either try again later or i'd just cuddle, kiss and chat. What i prefer the most is the affection i get and DATY. What i don't like is how complicated and planned it needs to be. Need to call in advance, know you wont be sick or too tired by then, that there won't be urgence at work, etc. And having to pay. That does limit a lot on the time and frequency i can go on dates. If it was illegal, yeah i'd continue. If the lady won't get in trouble, i wouldn't care much if i get caught. I'll just have fun explaining in court why i do it. And that if i didn't do it, my depression would probably be a lot worst and less stable and i wouldn't be able to work. So really, i can be a productive member of society and having sex with consenting adult..... or i can be a weight for society and not see escorts. When i say i'll see someone, i try very much to fallow through. But if i try to get a date and the time doesn't match, i'm not sure when the next window of opportunity will be and by then, i may change my mind (not about seeing her, but by getting a bigger crush for another lady)

My favorite thing about hobbying is just being able to spend two hours with a beautiful woman. To just sit and talk, have a cup of tea, enjoy the amazing view of the Ottawa River and Gatineau Park from my balcony. OR go out to a nice restaurant for dinner, or a walk along the river. If she wants to kiss, cuddle and some petting - I am always up for that but I let her initiate. I leave the coitus part up to her as well. I do enjoy that part but I have never been able to climax - erections are no problem but climax has never happened - YET. [survivor of childhood molestation & psychologically abusive mother] My least favorite thing about hobbying is that I always feel nervous and scared that I am going to do something or say something to offend the lady. I just do not have much if any experience with women beyond that of a professional working relationship. I have only had two girlfriends in my entire life and they only lasted a couple months. I have only been with one MP and two Escorts. The one escort I saw off and on for two 1/2 years (she retired). -- I am 46 years old.

I was fortunate in that I found cerb before I started but the one thing I wish I realized sooner is to forget age, hair colour, size, looks and focus on finding a lady that "speaks to big head as opposed to my little head". Every time I've had an encounter with a lady who "spoke to me" intellectually I've had tremendous experiences and the chemistry was off the charts. Those times when I've been ruled by my little head have as a rule been my worst experiences.

I first took the leap in the late 1970's. Means, motive and opportunity combined to make my first SP experience memorable and satisfying. I make my booking decisions based on several factors. I look for someone who will participate in types of sexual activities I enjoy. For example, I love all things oral; so kissing, cunnilingus and fellatio are high on my wish list. I look for someone with the right attitude, note the 'right' attitude can be different on different days. Attitude shows in how a provider advertises, both on CERB and elsewhere. Next I look at the physical - looks do form part of the equation however I tend to cast a wide net. I am older and am hardly a male model, so I do not hold physical appearance very high on the decision tree, but it is still a consideration. Availability also factors into the decision to book. I play when I get the chance, if our schedules don't line up then it does not matter if all other considerations are met. The final aspect to consider before booking with a particular provider is compensation. I play a lot; often two to three times a week for multiple hour long sessions. If a provider catches my eye, but is priced out of my budget, then sadly I let it pass. I do not begrudge any provider who sets their donation levels above my personal limit, but for now, I stick to those who fit into my budget. It is a long winded answer, but I believe you deserve to hear the complete answer.