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Not to sidetrack this thread, but I'd like to take a guess at that. I suspect the rationalization that goes through a gent's head is that whatever travel destination and activities he has planned will be so enjoyable that simply getting those expenses covered will be enough to satisfy the donation amount. If a fellow feels like the experience and vacation itself are going to be fun, they assume the lady will as well (and yes, she might) and that this enjoyment will be sufficient compensation for her time. The thought is likely that she'll enjoy the experience just as much as if she was paying--and controlling--her own vacation. Such gents may have the best of intentions, but what I think they don't realize is that this is a form of bartering. In the end, how is offering a trip for a lady's time instead of her donation amount any different than offering a dinner out, fixing her computer, bringing her some good books, or anything else other than her requested donation amount. It is true, the trip itself may be enjoyable. But then, most of us gents hope that a lady enjoys the time she spends with us! This doesn't mean we then get to request a discount because she had fun. :)

Phew! For the benefit of others who don't especially want to read through 30 pages to see what questions have been asked, I've done the work and here's the list so far. ;) Some of these are verbatim; others I've edited down to something brief. The originals may contain additional nuances. I thought this might help get some buried or missed questions answered anew, and possibly prevent duplicate questions going forward. This is now one of my favourite threads by the way! 1. Why did you get into escorting in the first place? (Bmoc68 ) 2. What is the best thing about being an SP? (PisaqLove) 3. How do you react when a client says he loves you? (jafo105) 4. What do you like least about being an escort? (Ice4fun) 5. How do you shield yourself from emotional attachments? (curiousm7) 6. Do you ever want to take a client relationship further? (muncher459) 7. How did you feel after y our fist time as an SP? (PisaqLove) 8. After a while seeing the same person, do you prefer not to see that same person and move on? (frank97500) 9. Has it been important to have friends, confidants, mentors in the business? (Winnipegcub) 10. What would you say to a guy that would love to visit an SP but feels very intimidated and doesn't think he is good enough? (frank97500) 11. Have you ever had a "date" that was so hot that it eclipsed your best experience in your civilian life? (PisaqLove) 12. What do SP's do to mentally prepare themselves for a session? (Jay67) 13. Why have I been asked if I was a former male SP? (frenchbrute) 14. What advice would you give a lady just starting out? What's one thing you wish you had known. (Cute0aza0Button) 15. What can a gentlemen do to make an encounter an enjoyable time for both him and her? (roamingguy) 16. How do you deal with a client you don't want to see again? (jg24) 17. If a potential client is interested in knowing if you enjoy/offer a given activity, is there a "best" way to ask? (Brad) 18. Have you even been recognized on the street? (ottawascout) 19. Do your line of work mean that lack health or dental insurance? Have you no income without work? How do you handle this? (Ice4fun) 20. How long do you plan on being an SP/MA/Dancer? (PisaqLove) 21. How do you determine which of your bedroom activities are YMMV? (curiousm7) 22. How are (some of) you able to make a guy feel you truly desire him every time you see him? (nlwoodchuck) 23. Do you all go to sexual skills university? Or are you all just naturally gifted? Does practice truly make perfect or do you need to study and learn specific techniques? Do you have a sexual move or technique that you tend to go with as your finishing move (emiafish) 24. How do I find out what really pleases a lady and what she actually likes or dislikes? How do I find out what I'm doing right, and more importantly, wrong? (qwertyaccount) 25. Have you ever had a bad encounter that made you question your occupation? (PisaqLove) 26. Has a client ever used a heretofore unknown technique that has rocked your world, and if so then can you share it with the rest of us? (emiafish) 27. How do you treat no-shows? (curiousm7) 28. How do you deal with a bad review? (nlwoodchuck) 29. Do you prefer a man's junk shaved or hairy? (defensedave) 30. Have you ever been turned off by a hobbyist look, attitude, and behaviour? And if so, how did you pull through the time with that person? (frank97500) 31. If you offer duos is it because you like them and are a little bi, or is it just part of the job? (Ice4fun) 32. What do you think has made you different that you can sustain a longer career in what can be a very tough business? (OutForFun) 33. How often do you get requests for costumes or roleplaying? (emiafish) 34. What has been the most surprising thing you've learned or done after being an SP? (piano8950) 35. How common is it, after a client leaves, to think "wow, that was someone I could see myself going out to dinner with."? (curiousm7) 36. What makes a pleasant review for you? (Magician) 37. What does it mean when after a session an SP asks "Can I put your number in my phone"? (qwertyaccount) 38. Is assuring a lady that I've just come out of the shower as good as actually taking a shower right there? (Gentleman11) 39. What is your preference in call, out call client hotel. Are client residences out-of-bounds? (Gentleman11) 40. What advice would you give to a client who is a virgin? And If you meet a client who is a virgin, how would you go about relaxing him? (Jay67) 41. For a paid encounter would you be open to going out to dinner or a movie, holding hands, or walking arm in arm? OR do you prefer keeping things completely private? (jafo105) 42. How important are recommendations to a lady's business? (roamingguy) 43. Is it fun when a man cums on your face? Do you have any private pictures with your face covered in cum? (Ice4fun) 44. Why do most ladies ads list all their physical stats (height, age, weight, measurements, eye color, etc.) but others are silent on most or all of this? (qwertyaccount) 45. What types of gifts do you normally receive and what would you like to receive? (Ice4fun) 46. If you show your face in your pictues here, why did you decide to 'out' your face? Did it result in any change? (piano8950) 47. What jobs/careers that guys have do you find turn-ons and turn-offs? (qwertyaccount) 48. Do you have clients that you are more excited to see than others? (PisaqLove) 49. If a client gives you a gift, is cash a good alternative to a gift card? (Luckyme) 50. What's the craziest gift you have received as an SP? (PisaqLove) 51. Do you ever get tired of dealing with people? (frank97500) 52. Have you ever wanted to meet a particular cerb member in person, and get really nervous due to certain perception or expectation you have of them? (Empty83) 53. Is there a kind of sex work you haven't done but would like to try? (dancer, Domme, escort, massage)? If so, why haven't you? 54. What's the strangest outfit/costume you've been asked to wear? (qwertyaccount) 55. What's the weirdest role-play you've been asked to do? (qwertyaccount) 56. Would it be fun to arrive at a date and be confronted with buckets of oysters? No, c'mon, seriously! (LeeRichards) 57. Do certain times of day attract certain type of clientele? Is there a particular time that is more popular? What part of day or night is your preference? (Empty83) 58. If I were to book a 4 hour session with a SP, the first hours being dinner and the next two hours being an incall, what would the rates be? Would I have to pay for a 4 hour incall rate? (Jay67) 59. At what point in a new relationship do you let a guy know your line of work and how do you deal with the worry that he may judge you? (curiousm7) 60. If a new guy in your life tells you he likes to see escorts, what is your reaction? (roamingguy) 61. Is it okay to contact you on days you don't advertise? (Empty83) 62. Do you prefer the first contact be discrete, or straight to the point? (Empty83) 63. Are sincere compliments on appearance acceptable? What such comments are unacceptable? (igab) 64. Are the apt descriptors "prostitue" and "john" inherently shameful? (mrgreen760) 65. Is writing a recommendation the ultimate compliment you can give a lady? (roamingguy) 66. What would be the circumstances of your retirement from this business? (OutForFun) 67. If a regular client and a CERB menber you've never seen both want to book you at the same time, who gets preference? (Luckyme) 68. What is the most memorable thing a client has done for/with you? (PisaqLove) 69. Have you ever had a client do something sweet/kind/nice that it made you cry? (PisaqLove) 70. What questions can I ask to get a sense of how affectionate an SP is likely to be during an encounter? (Rob360) 71. Would you have any issues with your own parner seeing an MA/SP? (JohnnyCanuck) 72. How many times have you fallen for a client? (Daniel Boone) 73 a, b, c, d.... How do I become the ideal kind of client? Do you generally like regulars more or new clients? What's your definition of a regular client? How long a session do you prefer? Is it cool for clients to contact you to say happy birthdays/merry Christmas etc.? How do you feel about a client sending you a brief thank you note after the appointment? If you contact a client between bookings, is that an open invitation to keep in touch between appointments? (A1B2C3D4E5) 74. What are some of the funniest or strangest text messages you've received? (qwertyaccount) 75. If there's something you offer as stated on your ads and/or website does it necessarily mean that you like to offer that service? Or does it only mean that you're able to tolerate it? If it's the later, why offer something you don't particularly like doing? (A1B2C3D4E5) 76. What unwelcome questions do clients commonly ask? (Darr) 77. Is there a good texting format for same evening booking request? (Darr) 78. Would you ever consider going on an all expense paid vacation to some exotic location, with no sex on the table, just as a companion for no other compensation? (gc1968 )

I'm not an SP, and don't meant to break the intent of the thread; but to offer some perspective... just being around a stranger for an extended time is WORK. Imagine the question was "hey, can my friend come live in your house for a week? There'd be no sex, promise! He'd just be around you ALL THE TIME." The locale, food, and shelter are not sufficient compensation for the service he's looking for; and frankly if the lady wanted those things, she could just buy them herself thanks very much. Your buddy is asking for someone to be around him and be a pleasant companion, 24/7. His companionship in a strange place is not as enticing an offer as he thinks. (Plus, he sounds like a bit of a dick and kind of clueless.) He needs to pay the companion to be there and "on the clock" for the duration of the trip.

Absolutely and without hesitation... NO. I have extended times on my website, including a week, and might I remind you that upscale escorts, the likes of which you'll find here on CERB, don't charge for "services". We charge for our time which is valuable. It's time we are taking away from our family, our friends, OUR lives and that comes at a price. For myself, I have a set price for extended amounts of time. This is purely for my time only. I also require that ALL of my travel expenses are covered (meals, flight, accommodations). In addition, I ALWAYS negotiate an agreed upon amount of alone time for extended dates. I need time to myself as does the person I'm traveling with. Regarding chemistry, I wouldn't consider a weeks vacation with a client I hadn't established some connection with already. That means we've talked, we've had dates already, we've gotten to know each other and established ahead of time that we enjoy each other's company, sexual or otherwise. Hope this helps your friend :) xo

Well although I'm not an SP it has to be remembered first and foremost you are paying for a lady's time and companionship, which can include sex, but isn't always just about sex. A week away on an all expense paid vacation means she is spending time away from her livelihood where she earns an income. Yes to us men this is an escape, for the ladies, their livelihood. She may not be able to afford to be away on this guy's vacation, it'll cost her too much money in lost income. Anyhow my guess an all expense paid "vacation" for a lady where she doesn't get compensated for her time will cost her too much money in real terms...be cheaper for her to pay for her own vacation without the man coming along A rambling RG

That being said, a laptop connected via HDMI cable to my Panasonic 54" 1080p Plasma HDTV renders certain umm... adult entertainment into a glory to behold. Oh, and HDMI cables? The only quality difference between a dollar store $5 cable and a $25 one is the connectors on the cheap ones are easier to break if you move them around a lot. If you are going to plug it in and leave it, $5 will do ya. The signal quality will be the same for the $5, $25, and $100 cable. It's a digital signal. It either gets through the cable or not. The signal only has two modes. It is there or it isn't. Chucking money at it will not improve it. If you are old enough, you can remember when cables carried analog signals that were susceptible to attenuation or interference. At that time it made some sense to put some money into cables. That was then. This is now.

The best rebuttal for a guy like this is to ask him that if his work sent him to Vegas to one of the big tradeshows there, would he consider it a fun filled vacation with lots to see and do with agreeable company, or would he consider it work, since he'd be staffing the show booth from 8am to 7pm daily for 5 consecutive days, with one day before setting it up and one day after breaking it down. He'd have a few hours, in the evening, to himself for that fun filled time. still having fun? Because for an escort accompanying a CLIENT for a 7 day trip to Vegas, instead of going off the clock a t 7pm daily, she's on the clock except for sleep time. and maybe not even then.

Great question and I have heard this exact type of logic your friend is talking about. I would not do this. I can afford to travel on my own when the time is right for me . The time I would be away on my paid vacation I would be losing money here at home of wherever I may choose to visit that week.

I feel religion also plays a large in the stigmatization as well. I'm not saying that we're all religious people in Canada or making sweeping generalizations that individuals who consider themselves people of faith are all bigots or are prejudice, but the major religions have all played huge parts in the founding of modern civilizations, and all three of those faiths have, for most of their histories, had less then stellar perceptions of sex and particularly women in general. In countries where laws are still skewered against women, many of they'll use religion as a basis for their legalized sexism, and even in countries like Canada and the United States, how often do we see opponents of marriage equality (among other social and education issues) use the Bible to justify their perspective? It isn't even uncommon to see politicians and celebrities say unbelievable things (like "a wife should always submit to their husband") out loud, often using faith as a cover. Religion isn't the only smoking gun-let's be honest folks, we live in a culture where women are often depicted and programmed that they are objects and that sex is their only real value, though if they use or enjoy it they're somehow worth even less (think of how many guys rush out to snatch up the annual SI Swimsuit edition but if one of the models they adore so much has an opinion that makes the news, they write her off as only being swimsuit model)-but I think it plays a pretty big role.

I don't usually post to this thread, as I'm able to shrug off most things if they aren't too serious. But today a true tragedy has occurred. I lost track of time browsing Cerb and burnt an entire package of bacon to an inedible crisp. That's right, you read correctly. The. Whole. Damn. Package. Oh I'd heard people warn there were risks to getting involved with escorts. But I laughed them off, figuring they spoke in ignorance, and that I would be careful enough to avoid whatever dangers there may be. And yet, my mind adrift with thoughts of beautiful ladies, reading their posts, so absorbed that I was oblivious to the smell of burning...the smoke coming from the kitchen...I did not--could not!--know that my time here would mean the end of my bacon. At first, stunned, I thought it could be saved. I tried performing mouth to mouth, ice compresses, massage, even some alternative medicines...but to no avail. The bacon is gone, forever, before I even truly had a chance to get to know it. It feels, quite literally, likes ashes in my mouth. So goodbye bacon. You deserved better. Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to go console myself by looking at some boobies.

this question has come up on every "ask a provider" thread I've ever seen, and the answer is invariably the same gc1968. If you expect a lady to go on an extended vacation you need to expect to pay her for the week, as well as all expenses incurred. Why would I go on vacation with a stranger when I could go on vacation with friends or family? I am not able to relax completely when with someone I don't know. I'm not able to enjoy the activities I choose, when I choose them, as I would if I were on my own vacation. Especially if as you suggest, you intend to have me on call for sex, compensated on a "per-service" basis. With all due respect, the concept is bizarre and I'm just surprised anyone would expect that.

Glad you had a nice visit with her, sound great. However, I am NOT "shaking in my heels" from any kind of competition in my lovely city of Fredericton. For me, I do not stress over competition, but rather I embrace it as a chance to grow and develop my skills to the best of my ability!

If I offer a service...it means I enjoy doing that service...I wouldn't do something i don't enjoy...that would be torture...JMHO

We ourselves-(sp's) stigmatize one another. Sp's with an education will brand themselves "courtesans" rather than an sp, escort or provider. This title implies or eludes to a higher status than an escort, provider, prostitute or whore. This way of thinking in itself is stigmatizing in the sense that an escort/prostitute is of a lower class, less deserving of respect, even though we all do the same things. Which is a shame as this is how society stigmatizes this profession, they see us as the peons of society. Doctors, lawyers, scientists, engineers, teachers, architects, accountants, nurses, etc as the respectable and accepted. It's a shame more didn't view a persons character as the way of determining respect and acceptance. As long as levels of superiority are valued and sought stigmatizations will be made especially concerning a persons walk in life. This walk in life (providing/escorting) will always be thought of as less than because it deals with sex and sex to many still remains a taboo subject, something that is feared, misunderstood and immoral. Anyone who practices it, shares in it freely is also thought of in the same way. Human beings seem to thrive on power, control, reaching pinnacles and imposing titles and until we start realizing we are all equal just doing different things stigmatizations will exist:(

The kitty I adopted from the TCR in January got really sick and the vet couldn't figure out what was wrong with her. She passed away last night. RIP Riff Raff.

The question I really dislike is "how's business?". How do you even answer that? I'm an honest upfront person and that one throws me off every time. Each answer has it's own downfall. As for a short notice evening booking, just be polite and respectful. IE: Hi "so and so" I know it's short notice but I was wondering if you might be available this evening for an hour at 11pm. The rest would depend on whether she knew you and specific things she would want to know. Know what she requests and have it ready. IE: do you want GFE, PSE or something else. Just don't try the "hey, are you available" routine. I would never offer something I didn't enjoy. This is about shared pleasure which means we should also share the enjoyment. There are many things I like or would explore that aren't listed on my site due to lack of equipment, being limited to someone I trust or something I haven't explored enough to be able to offer it as something I offer. Most responses from gentlemen state they want a lady to control the flow so my thought is I need to be well versed. If someone brings it up that I'm seeing and we explore together, that's different. PS...I like dick pics, at least after the initial meeting and that had a little effort put in to taking them.

this thread has made me hungry and I've never been on the east cost...hmmm maybe its time for a tour... BJ

So I guess that's your .02 cents worth on this game!

You should know that the police can not search and go in your car or motor home without your permission or a search warrant but a truck is governed by much great set of rules. If used for inter provincial or cross border they fall under federal rules allowing D.O.T. to inspect and or search at any time. If it is not yours weather you sleep in it or not it is no different than and office. You can not have anyone in it without a company waver. If anything were to happen weather moving or not there would be large legal ramifications. Both you and your company would be liable for and thing that happens accidental or deliberately. Just a little incite as most guys do not know you can not even have a closed or open beer in a truck all alcohol must be manifested and in a trailer

I completely support male4female sex workers, and while there is very little demand now, I really think over time this type of service will become more and more popular and acceptable. However, the same as female for male escorts, it's about a lot more than "stimulating their #* and getting them off". And much more so when servicing women. Here is a great article with some insight about being a male escort for women: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/the-business-of-pleasure-20140127-31hjs.html All things considered, it's a lot more difficult to be successful as a male escort for women. It's about more than just looks & penis size, however those DO matter, but standards for men are different for men in this industry, since it's no secret that that women often have some different needs and desires than men when it comes to intimacy. To just callously throw up an ad with a client escort forum account profile, without any sort of thought or planning, will not likely result in any positive result. It's a bit transparent too.

This is a great question! I am not sure if others have answered yet, but here is what I think... Like if you are going to spend even an hour with a playmate, you should do some homework on whether or not you are a good match, unless the end is all you are looking for. Hehe... So in this case, Make sure you have a good relations and have had some time together first. THEN....remember, even if you pay for the trip, doesn't give you the rights to it IF she does not get on the plane! Most flights or trips are only credited to the name on the actual flight and itinerary! So if you and her have already met, been established a good match, then I would suggest to ask her to pay her half first, under her name, then add the extra donation once you go threw security and boarded on the plane!!!! You should have her donation and expenses ready for her in an envelope for her to tuck away. Once you sit on the plane, the pass her donation for expenses! If she is saying, well how do I know you will pay? THEN I say, if you spent time together she should have already decided to trust you with screening, You need to offer up real information, like your work place, your number real name and whatever else she may ask. REMEMBER....she is leaving the country with you, spending perhaps her rent money, trusting YOU will look after her in everyway. THIS IS NOT VISITING AT A HOTEL ROOM OR LIVING ROOM! I personally now 2 hobbyist who were taken for a large sum over this issue. I asked them on their input for this question, and both agree this is the safest way to do it. If you are booking an established lady with a good rep, then this should not be a problem for them. And if you have established communication and met, then you should have an indication on her sincerity. Happy Travels !!!

Whew, just got finished reading this entire thread! Lots of good questions and answers, really informative. Thank you Summer for starting this, and thanks to all who have participated. This is a very timely thread for me as well, as last night I had a conversation with a friend of mine and he brought up the subject of escorts and a question, so I figured I would ask it here so I could give him an answer from some of the ladies here. (and got me a little curious as to the answer as well) OK, first some background before the question. A few years ago this friend and I took a vacation and got roped into buying a 'membership' to a resort chain. Not exactly a time share, as we can choose from any of this company's resorts in about 110 different countries, pay reduced rates and get added perks. We both bought one, we don't share one, which would have made more sense, but we were really drunk, and the girls selling them were incredibly hot, so.....) ;) Anyway, since we bought these we have both gone on a couple trips per year, but have only been able to go together once, as with our work schedules we haven't been able to be off at the same times. The rest of the times we have gone alone. He just got back from a trip to Mexico which he went alone, and he said that he is feeling more and more self concious about travelling alone the more he goes. I have felt that more than once on my trips as well, so I understand how he feels. It's mostly the excursions, not so bad if it's something like going to see same ancient ruins or something, but going on a harbour cruise or something that's supposed to be romantic can kind of make you feel weird. Anyway, he asked me if I thought he would be able to find an escort to go with him next time. Jokingly at first, but then more seriously the more he thought about it. I said he could for sure, as long as he paid whatever they were asking. He said he didn't mean for sex, just companionship, and someone to go on excursions with, etc. He figured it should be enough if he was paying for everything, why would they need to be paid on top of that? I tried to explain to him that it didn't really work that way, and brought up the chemistry issue. (if they aren't really compatible then he'd be stuck with that person for a week or so) He just kept saying things along the lines of "but it's not for sex, and they get a free vacation and don't have to do anything except hang out with me" (I did say I thought sometimes he should pay ME to hang out with him, why would he think a woman would want to hang out with him for free. He then tried to hit me in the junk with the beer he was throwing me at the time :) But I digress...) Anyway, to put the matter to rest I thought I would just ask his question point blank so I can show him the responses. So Ladies, would you ever consider going on an all expense paid vacation to some exotic location, with no sex on the table, just as a companion for no other compensation? If for whatever reason he wanted to have sex would it be something he could just pay for at the time? (sorry, that last question sounds kind of...harsh I guess, not sure how to word it differently) (I apologize for the length of this post, and thank you for taking the time to read it)

Well, you enjoy your workday. I got enough lazy for the both of us. :D

Why do you say that?... I have bell, just curious.

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Nebraska.. very entertaining, about an aging, booze-addled father makes the trip from Montana to Nebraska with his estranged son in order to claim a million-dollar Mega Sweepstakes Marketing prize. Love the final scenes. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1821549/ What I don't like about the movie is - it was filmed in black and white.

I just realized how my last question may come off, and I apologize for that. The reasoning behind my question is cause one of the girls I've seen told me she doesn't like french kissing but is able to tolerate it (regular kissing though she enjoys) and when I asked her why offer it she said it's cause she finds that it's expected in a gfe experience and she also likes to please so she doesn't hate it. So I was wondering if other girls had things like that.

Thanks for all the suggestions and pms.. I actually got this laptop from futureshop online for less than $300 and a great deal included with a wireless printer. I'll try the reinstall tomorrow.. I ended up going bra shopping today :)

that being said, the Wooden Monkey, very health friendly. Replied too many times to this thread, guess that shows where my priorities are!

Here's a list of Full Service Providers, no not that type of provider LOL http://www.webruler.com/mark/computer/ip-prov.htm I know I'm going to be with Cogeco in less than a week now don't know if they are available in Ottawa My ISP where I live is a company around London, Ont, Start Communications (btw I don't live near London)...they just offer conventional internet no wireless. They are fine, except now the modem occasionally shuts down. I'm switching to Cogeco though, they are cheaper RG

This was said in my presence when I was young. He said it with a smile of rememberance, and at the time I thought it was stupid and odd. It will never be famous but it explained a lot about the mans charactor. I think of it often and now use it myself: "I remember her. I got in love with her once", my dad.

I too would like to recommend Kim, PM me for details...AWESOME INDEED!!

My preference is the Local Sp......I have never tried a traveling SP but not saying there is anything wrong with them to each there own. I think we have a lot of excellent local talent here and as long as that remains and the rates are reasonable I will continue to shop locally first. It is like any thing else if you don't support local....some day you will want to got to the "store" and it will be gone. Just my 2 cents:|

Opinion of a guy - what Erin and cmj are posting is the way things always have been and will be unfortunately. But it really is a parallel to life outside the massage service world. Guys that are rude , creepy and gross that don't know how to treat women in the 9-5 world never get laid or have a happy partner either. A key word is respect too. If guys would figure out that the girls workings as MAs don't look at a dude and say..oh I want him sticking his fingers in me right now. Ha. You pay for fantasy but these girls are real people too. Treat them like the beautiful hard working ladies they are. They have to protect their hygiene and bodies too as it is their livelihood and they need a comfort factor. Erin and cmj keep up the high standards as I have personal experience with both. When I'm done a session I know I feel fantastic and the girl feels she met a decent , clean guy that made her day better not worse. That's my two cents... jerks like that and others I think MAs should just give me a swift kick in the balls. What will they do...go home and tell their wives.

Nitty Gritty Dirt Band Fishing In The Dark RG

I would tell "your friend" that most every man who's ever come to see an SP has felt the same pangs of anxiety and the same worries have crossed their mind. I would suggest that he take the time to look for a woman who speaks to him... One who stands out as someone who has similar thoughts and interests. One who he just likes the look of, the sound of, etc. Next, I would encourage him to feel the fear and do it anyway (one of my favourite mottos in life!!). IF he has chosen the right SP for him, she will pick up on his nerves, and be ready to make him feel comfortable and at ease. She won't apply pressure or have any expectations for their time together, and be willing to move at his pace. Tell your friend life is too short. Book that appointment. There is no such thing as being not worthy of desire and attention!!! :)

First I would share this thread....lol but for me I tend to meet a lot of "intimated" gent's who feel unworthy etc. My business is massage, so I find this is a great way to learn to be touched and to touch another. It is a scary idea for some, when another women has not even touched your leg in a sensual way in a decade! Just cause your booking an SP or MA, doesn't mean you HAVE to go all the way, maybe just some female attention is what you need to start with?

Dirty, embarrassed and ashamed. I felt I had let down my family and myself by doing this, even though it was out of rebellion towards them I had begun in this profession, one of the reasons anyways. Boy have things changed:)Now, it's I can't wait to do it again;)

Who loves my boobies more? Probably me. You see my boobs and I have known each other longer. Our love has matured from innocent flirtation ("oh? Is that a breast I see?") to full on gropeage. Luckily I'm not big on monogamy as my blog readers know. I encourage everyone to play with them. Touch em, squeeze em and love em - I know I do. It's a wonder I get anything done.

I'm not sure of the answers to your questions but as for men being pigs for loving them, no! I can understand, even though I'm not sexually attracted to women their breasts/bodies are beautiful, in all forms. I obviously love breasts, as I increased mine and still want more of them-just how much more is the question;) Titties are beautiful, just remember to honor the nipples because without them titties would be pointless:):)