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The other night I had a date - well, sort of a date, well, I think it was a date. It was not a paid date or paid social time. And I was a little bit nervous. My personal adviser told me to iron my shirt. I ironed my shirt. I was told to wear presentable pants and shoes. I wore presentable pants and shoes. My adviser told me to get her flowers. I got her a lovely bouquet. I had tickets for a special event at the theater and because she and I live on opposite sides of Charlottetown she suggested that we just meet a half hour ahead of the show near the box office, so that was fine and I was there of course fifteen minutes before the appointed time. I received a text from her saying that she was delayed and would be late but that she would get there when she could find a parking place. I quickly texted back saying that when you park, let me know and I will meet you. A few minutes later there was no response so I looked at my text. Fuck. Auto-correct at work. What I actually wrote her was, "When you oral, let me know and I will meet you." Lovely!!!! Oh, shit, So I really quickly wrote back and said, "Oops. That was supposed to say, I REALLY mean park." Push send. Oh shit, what went was, "I REALLY mean oral." Oh fuck. Very slowly, I typed one letter at a time. I told her to stop laughing. We had a good time, and she liked the flowers. :) There was no oral.

i kinda think there are beautiful ladies all over the world.... sure I am a Canadian and I have primarily seen ladies from Canada but i don't really think comparisons are all that valid or informative... what I might live about a woman you might not... Rather than who us hotter... I'm just thankful for all the sexy ladies regardless of where they come from Just my opinion

Over the last few months I have noticed that there are fewer and fewer discussion threads, and even fewer recommendations being written on our nb page. I know there are quite a few of us not comfortable in posting publicly on here, but if we all don't do our part this discussion board will loose trafic with the lack of content. I promise from this point forward to do my part, and encourage you all to post questions in the discussion board, and even more so recomendations for any of these lovely ladies. The more reco's we have the fewer questions people will post about if they are legit or not. I will give credit where credit is due and thank Sophia from Suite escapes for Megan McLeod for posting regularly and answering any questions people might have. Let's all give a little time to this site. It's a valuable tool for everyone if we all do our part.

This will be old news for the seasoned hobbyists but since there has been alot of newbies visiting my profile, especially lately, I thought this worth a mention:) I've noticed in a couple of posts men mentioning a lady's incall and whether or not it was a hotel or home so.. This may not seem pertinent or indiscrete to some but please remember ANY details concerning our incalls is for us to publicize not our clients or potential clients. Even the mention of a lady having incall shouldn't be divulged unless she/he is openly advertising or discussing it. Thank you:)

Awww crap.. this is why I didn't want to have a going away party.. you guys have me crying.. lol.. I will miss you guys so much.. but I know some of you will be visiting me 'down south' in my new digs for sure.. so not good bye.. just see you soon...

Since you mention pursuing a relationship, it sounds like you are interested in maybe dating this woman, and that she's not a sex worker (or at least you're not meeting her as a sex worker, and maybe you don't know what she does for a living)? So, my comments are based on that assumption - my apologies if it's incorrect, though this should be mostly relevant either way. First, I think it's really important to remember that trans women are women. They may have different bits than you're used to on women, but that doesn't make them any less real women. Like having sex with cis women (cis means not trans), sex with trans women is going to be a unique encounter each time - sex is a dynamic that's created by two people together. It's okay to feel unsure - the important thing is to communicate a lot. Ask her how she likes to be touched and what language she likes when talking about her body. Some trans people have a lot of dysphoria that can be triggered by certain words or being touched in certain ways, so just use your words. If she has a penis, it may or may not get hard. A lot of trans women who have been on estrogen for a while don't get erections any more, without the aid of Viagra or other meds. She also may or may not ejaculate still. She may be a top or a bottom or versatile - definitely something to talk about. Roles may not be quite as easy to assume as they would be with a cis woman. A lot of straight sex between two cis people often defaults to penis in vagina sex without a lot of discussion. You should expect to talk a little bit more about what kinds of sex you two will have, and maybe you'll need to have a broader idea of what counts as sex, beyond putting your cock in a hole (or maybe you won't.) I think it's also really important to think about the experiences trans women have. Like all women, there's a real risk of violence at the hands of men, but in addition to male violence against women, they also have to content with transphobic violence. Recognize that she's taking a big risk with her safety by meeting a stranger off the internet, honour any safety measures she decides to take and be extremely respectful of her boundaries. Trans women are murdered all the time simply because people are uncomfortable with their attraction to them or because people can't see them as human beings. Call her by the name she gives you and use the pronouns she uses for herself (most likely she & her). I'd recommend reading this guide and checking out some other resources, so that when you meet, you can just focus on being your best self: http://www.autostraddle.com/getting-with-girls-like-us-a-radical-guide-to-dating-trans-women-for-cis-women-160269/ Be awesome, be kind and be okay with not knowing everything (but be willing to listen and learn!) Absolutely. Trans women are women, and no matter what she has between her legs now, or in the future, doesn't change that. Dating or having sex with a trans person doesn't change your sexual orientation in any way - if you're a straight guy who's attracted to women, and you find a trans woman hot, well hey, you just met another woman that you find attractive. :)

Please join me in bidding Carrie Moon farewell as she is leaving Ottawa this week to move to the Niagara region. Carrie was one of the first escorts I met back in 2002 when I decided to get back into the business as an indy. She has been a source of inspiration and generosity. She has often gone beyond the call of duty to help me and other ladies in this industry. I will miss her. (Thank goodness for technology). Note: Some people were asking me if Carrie is retiring. Just to be perfectly clear - NO Carrie is NOT retiring, simply moving!

Personally, I would like to see a hands up for those of us who are straight - clean and sober - not using. I like to go into a session making memories, with a clear head and and a head full of focus and attention. I don't think I am alone in that, either! Cheers, Ann

The short answer is yes, it is industry standard ;) I cannot speak for everyone but I would have to say that most, if not all the ladies provide the condoms and some are very well prepared; some of us have different brands and sizes (and flavours for CBJ) available to accomodate a gentleman's preference/need. This might be a little off topic but worth mentioning: If you were ever concerned about, for example, let's say size, you should communicate your concern to the lady in question and she might just go out and buy what you need (if she doesn't already have it) or she might tell you to go buy a brand new box (keep the receipt in the bag to show her you just bought the box of condoms). Most ladies will prefer option one as they will be 100% certain the condoms have not been tempered with or left in an uncontrolled environment (heat or cold). I always prefer to buy my own also because I am allergic to certain products (spermicide) they add to certain types of condoms and the results are not pleasant at all. Something else to consider: she might be allergic to latex so latex-free condoms will be nessecary... Flavoured condoms might be a no-no for intercourse as her body might not tolerate the sugar and that will cause an infection, etc. Good luck with your new quest!

Now before I open my mouth I want to say that I love Montreal and the Quebecquois and that this isn't a put down but a sincere question and observation and that there are exceptions, but in general it's my experience independently and when I was involved with services, that Quebec men, especially Montreal men never want to pay "the going rate" for an encounter, they seem to expect more for less when here.... why? A typical response I've always gotten was I can get it in Montreal for $$ so... But if that were the only reason then I'd think that the many other well travelled gents that call and can get it for $$ in Thailand, Germany, N.B or where ever would be saying the same thing?

In some cities, more and more hotels are going with key cards, meaning whoever gets the room has to go down to meet the visitor and bring them up to the room. In some cases, that key card only enables at night, so during the day it is freer access. In private residence, you would want it to be a larger building, not on the ground floor, with a buzz in entry system, ideally with a camera (this ensures you are not letting 2 guys in together.) You also want a spy hole in the apartment door. You will find that this opens up your availability and reduces your lost expenses (renting hotel room and getting all no shows, plus the monthly cost for an apartment you will have access to 24/7 30 days a month is priceless), Also ideal will to find one that has cable, internet, heat and hydro included, (doubtful lol) You will be much more private. re: hotels This isn't like a client renting a hotel room to receive one sp visitor. this is an sp seeing multiple clients, and using the linens for multiple clients. she is paying for a day, but getting less than 24 hours unless she books in for more than one day. She is spending hundreds of dollars for a few days, which could have been used for half a months rent of any small apartment. Even the smallest apartment would have more space and more possibilities than any hotel room.

Eh, depends on who you ask. Some people use transgender and transsexual interchangably. Others see a conceptual difference, though may not all agree on that difference. In my experience, there's often a generational gap in how the language gets used, with older trans people identifying as transsexual and younger trans people identifying more as transgender, regardless of surgical status. People who are not interested in surgery or hormones or who identify outside the gender binary (something other than a man or a woman) often prefer transgender over transsexual. Language is a complicated and nuanced topic that's always under debate and shifting within trans communities. I would always say, don't make any assumptions about a person's body or surgeries based on how their identify, and always respect a person's self identity. Best is to ask what pronouns are appropriate to use with a person, but as a general rule, you should never call a trans woman "he" or "it", and if you're not able to ask, "she" is probably the most respectful assumption to make. This depends on so many different factors, such as your perceptiveness, what type of surgery she's had, how her healing process went, what you might believe is the normal range of variation for vulvas... Surgical techniques for constructing a vagina and vulva are very, very good these days. Often you would never be able to tell that there had been any surgery. You really can't know, unless the people you've been with have told you. A lot of people have an idea in their head of what a trans person looks like, but like with cis people, trans people run the gamut from very feminine to very masculine, and aligning very closely or not at all with mainstream standards of beauty. I know trans women who look like magazine models and I know cis women who naturally grow beards. We get a lot of narrow messages about what makes a person a woman or a man, but in reality, we are all so diverse that there is no one set of defining features that can externally define a person. (Cis just means not trans. So if when you were born they said, "It's a boy!" and you now identify as a man, you're cis. Same deal for baby girls who are now women. It's more respectful to say cis than natural born or real. :))

Let's work backwards with what you wrote. You don't want to come across as completely ignorant. Treat her with the grace and respect you would any other woman and you're good there. Is the relationship worth pursuing? Like you said, you won't know for sure until you meet her so let's put that question on par with your chances when you meet anyone new to you. You're straight and attracted to women. Well, to put it delicately, work with what you know. And you already know what to do with a lot of her. And a lot of the experience will be just like being with another woman. Okay, enough with dancing around the elephant in the discussion. Yup, she comes with a difference (no pun intended). You can, within reason, make of that difference what you will. You may go into the evening thinking you won't really be up for dealing too much with that. As things progress, things will get hard. I mean, you might find it hard not to play there a little bit. Or a lotta bit. In my experience no woman is going to force you out of your comfort level. And in my experience, I've found the boundaries of my comfort level in this situation greatly expand as the evening progresses. All of which is a long way of saying this. You have an interest in this as demonstrated by you posing the question. Explore that interest. You might find that you actually don't have an interest worth pursuing. You might have an excellent mind blowing experience that you will thank yourself for in the morning. But most of all, you will have the satisfaction of knowing you gave it a try. There are no points awarded for that which you meant to do but never did. Good luck and enjoy!

I am in Newfoundland.... we would love some of that heat....

I do agree 100 percent with this post. Even though this is not always the case, it seems to be the majority. In these situations I often receive the same response that you have, or I get "well I will only be 10 miniutes" after clearly quoting my donation rates. (10 min session was not one I offered?) It's like going to a store to buy $100 pair of jeans. then telling the store clerk that you only want to pay $50 because you only plan on wearing them once.

Just my two cents ....and i'm not an SP so i may have no idea what I am talking about but I'm not sure ths is a Quebec thing.... I think there are disrespectful guys in all parts of Canada who would never think to haggle with other service providers but think it's ok for sex industry workers... Just my opinion

personally I prefer private residences but it depends what you can get for a residence. If its a small house in a subdivision neighbors are going to notice the extra traffic. If its more like an apartment complex there needs to be enough visitor parking or parking available close. The other thing to consider is can your clients be trusted. Something with a buzz in system maybe good to keep unannounced clients from just showing up at your door because they know where you are.

Well I slept in my jersey and put it away for another year. I am quite happy that Montreal won and hope they go all the way!

I have never been with a Ts or a woman so personal experience I don't have but an opinion I do:) I say- they are just another provider, and by their looks most of them are as sexy as can be so if there is an attraction between you and her go for it, put your inhibitions aside and just have fun. They are like anyone and want respect, cleanliness, well mannered people to contact them and to interact with. Straight or not I don't think that matters or should be a concern, what matters is you like this person as is and the attraction means you are simply attracted to that person:)

Well here's my take on it. This is btw just my opinion and that's all, I may be completely off base here For me, PSE is pretty much a menu based encounter. By menu I mean an encounter is focused just on various sex acts off a menu...and not just "conventional" sex acts (for lack of a better term) but "unconventional" sex acts too, those you would likely see in a porn movie And the focus is just on receiving physical pleasure, nothing else. And a PSE lasts as long as both the lady and gentleman can physically, which likely means probably an hour (not even that for me LOL) I guess, crudely put a PSE is about f*cking and nothing else On the other hand a GFE can be menu based or the encounters just unfold naturally, based on the chemistry between the lady and gentleman. A true GFE only works with some reciprocity from the man, he has to offer a BFE There is an affection between the two. Encounters are more than just about sex. It is about a connection between two people. And GFE date can be very intimate, yet no sex. A date could involve a lot of kissing caressing and cuddling, but no sex. Yet a PSE doesn't have the freedom for that type of intimacy. And a GFE could be longer, multiple hours, sleepovers and so on. A GFE sexually is about showing physical affection for one another, but it isn't just about sex That to me is the difference between the two. Although I do admit never having done a PSE, but I have had many wonderful GFE. Don't know if I'm right or worded it right A rambling RG

I must admit that I watch with mixed feelings. I would love to see any Canadian team (well, other than Toronto) move on, my heart is with Boston!

Okay.......If that is what you want...........I am game.......

I'm from Connecticut, all my life, and I've never been with a companion until years after I was married (happily married, I had thought). I'm very romantic, generous, devoted, etc., but my Wife changed after she gained weight. Not a lot of weight in my eyes, but enough for her not to feel sexy enough to make love. blah blah blah So, I dabbled with companions, very slowly for several years, then more so after a few years break, then Twitter opened my big bedroom eyes to State-wide Ladies. But CT is a boring state where many Companions tend to ignore. But I'm now hooked on Canadian Companions. Some will opening invite me to a cooked dinner. That's a true ultimate GFE/Wife-experience that American Companions have never even thought about (at least the ones I know). Canadian Companions seem to be much more open-minded and will expand the GFE & PSE roles to a whole knew level. They seem more down to earth and sweeter. Of course, there is a lot more reasons for both sides of the border, but I wanted to hear what other members think. So, is it just my limited experience with USA and/or Canadian Companions, or have other people notice that the North of the Border Ladies are head over heels "better to be with" than US Companions? I know that I'm going to get body slammed for posting this topic, but it is just IMHO and I still need to meet some of my US Twitter babes, whenever they travel to CT, but I wanted to post my question to read your reaction. Plus, I realize my words are vague, so you will have to interpret them yourself.

Ok so I must ask! I have seen this add on backpage over the last few weeks " miss alana kingstons yummy mummy". Now I do know there is sp's who do continue during pregnancy. This would not be a personal choice of my own for several reasons, however I am not one to judge another situation and beliefs, to each their own. What really gets me is the "420 Friendly" comment stated in the advert! Pregnant and using any form of drugs or alcohol I believe is not ok on any level. So my question is, is this add even real? I just cant wrap my head around this or the marketing angle? http://kingston.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/miss-alana-kingstons-yummy-mummyback-by-popular-demand-let-me-be-your-fantasy-22/21963167

English is not the best I think Sur's English is better than Tiffany. But the phone is the best keep trying....good luck

Yes they are now...I'd like info on her also!!

I agree. :) But, my point was that whether it's safe or not to post regularly is irrelevant. If someone perceives a threat to their privacy (and the fear of letting something "slip" would be enough), then that's what matters. Like I said, it's just the nature of the average hobbyist's mindset. In my opinion, anyway. Regardless, thanks for adding your recommendations and such! :)

today's ad.... http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/come-relax-and-enjoy-your-time-with-sweetandsexy-chloe-19/2077658

Love that comment.... lol

If I was a SP (which I am not) this would be my friendly Canadian response: Enjoy your drive back to where ever it is you came from. Have a nice day [CLICK] Welcome to {insert city/province here}! Regulars get the extra perks. Out of towners pay full price! Your not in {insert city/province here} any more. I am sorry, you must have me confused with {inset political leader name here} Sorry! Sorry! Eh! Good day, Eh! Don't get me wrong I like the province of Quebec and all their great contributions to this awesome country -- CANADA. Montreal City was founded in May 17, 1642. Quebec City was founded in 1608. Province of Quebec was founded in 1763. Earliest french explores to Acadia in Canada was around 1604 {?} Many, many other great contributions through out history

Well there are desperate girls and there are girls who just don't need to be. So the fluctuation of pricing I believe just comes from that. Also self respect. If a girls knows who and how valuable she is then she really doesn't need to negotiate. That's a big period. But then again there are guys who have great jobs and some that don't. I myself understand not everyone has money. So it's hard but I guess we just need to feel out some situation. Cause all guys have their needs.

I have my first threesome today with two very lovely ladies, I have met both ladies a couple of times over the last year with very enjoyable visits, really excited having the two of them in the same room:)!!!!! Knowing these ladies I am sure it will be one of my hilights of the year, 2014 has being really good to me so far.

Not from NB but there are all kinds of reasons why guys don't post. In particular u will only post a review if the lady and I have discussed it and she is ok with reviews some SP's like them some don't. In regards to the general posts to the NB area it looks to me to be kinda similar to the NL section with very little interaction amongst the Hobbiests.... many are active in the general section but not so much in the regional section. Threads that have started with a few exceptions tend to get only a few replys... I'm not sure if that is because we tend to live in smaller communities so there is a feeling of greater risk of our true identify coming out.... Just my opinion

Actually... I think it's only fair to give credit where it's due here. These guys have put out a couple of press releases and a few tweets, and convinced most of the world that they're taking human trafficking seriously without actually doing anything, and definitely not anything that would have risked generating paperwork. This guy deserves his donut.

Well, it's almost game time, so I suppose I have to make my vote. It does appear Meg that there are a LOT of Canadiens fans on here, so at this point you are clearly outvoted. However, THAT was not the question was it. I believe Meg in her Boston jersey seems to have taken it. Now I understand that on Cerb when one conducts a poll, the originator of the thread has right of veto on the result, so my vote is of critical importance. I do however choose Meg in her Boston jersey, or her lingerie, or her sweats, or her birthday suit or in anything. It's all pretty thought provoking. :) Congrats Meg on the win - just that everyone else does not know what they are missing on this end! :) Good luck in the game tonight. Go Habs! MN2

Carrie, you are such a loving and wonderful person and thE show of love and appreciation from everyone on this thread solidifies that! I'm sure your move will go seamless and the Niagara region has now gained a truly great person. I cannot be with you for the move unfortunately but I am there in spirit with you every step of the way! : ) Good luck! : )

I unfortunately have not "YET" had the chance to meet you Carrie but since being on CERB and having read your posts and the nice things people say about you i am pretty sure Ottawa loss with be Southern Ontario so gain. Here's hoping your move uneventful and that you are feeling as welcomed in your new community as you obviously were in Ottawa.

Let's see , meeting Carrie Moon in my 2nd favourite town, Niagara Falls, now added to my bucket list. Till then Carrie ! Jack2000

I finally got to watch some of your movies, Carrie. Now I know what it is I am going to miss about you. Your beauty, your grace, your charm, your wonderful personality. All the best in your new adventure down in Southern Ontario. Cheers, Jafo

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Anymore that's what I do. I only see ladies I trust. The only time I don't use email money transfer is if the lady prefers to be paid in cash. For me, it has the benefits of simplicity, no issues with exact change, and no need to travel carrying a large sum of money, nor does the lady have to travel carrying a large sum of money after the encounter RG

The MA undercover SP should go be an indy escort rather then confusing clients that go to massage establishments. Also, if the owner is turning a blind eye and allowing this illegal activity to occur due to greed, that individual is putting all of their other staff at risk of being charged, not to mention all of their clients and bringing unwanted attention of the entire industry. The laws are in limbo but are still in affect. If the owner isnt aware, then I would suggest sending an anonymous email and giving them the heads up would be highly appreciated I am sure.

Agreed, what goes on behind closed doors between two consenting and naked adults is their business. Problem is some girls offer some services whereas others don't and guys sometimes expect that it's the same across the board. I worry about the MA's who have to deal with pushy clients expecting more when they only provide basics.

Personally, I don't care how people derive their pleasure, as long as I can help, and accompany them along the way to their orgasm. I've met women who orgasm easily, and some less easily. I want to get people off the way they want to get off, no matter what, and it never turns me off when someone asks if they can use some electronic orgasm aides ;) Personally, I love my vibrator. I love (love) being able to use a small bullet vibrator on my clitoris during penetration or while I'm being touched. It heightens the experience for me a lot, and is less physically draining than using my own hand sometimes. My motto is similar to Il Re's in that sense, bring it on! Whatever you need is what I need, and I hope all of my lovers treat me similarly.

I know I've spent to much time on cerb when I start dreaming about- "Someguy" wielding a "Mightpen" and walking a "Reddog" asks me to go skating on the"Ice4fun" but I am are the "loneskater" ?? Then I see some "Red headed raven" named "Katherine " fly by asking if I'd like a "Midnight Massage". Then some "BcGuy" Runs by covered in "FishFeathers with Mac Teeth" and a "Pistol packing Pete" wants to "Touch" me in places I've never been touched, "Luckyme" I thought;)wow, then a "DominoEffect" starts and everyone falls down!! Yup a crazy dream and to much time on cerb, lol. :)

Dear client, I am excited to see you and spend time together. I am excited to get to know you a bit. I want to know you well enough to get into your head and give you an amazing, hot session. I appreciate it when you let me in a little and share some things about yourself and who you are. What I don't appreciate is when you drop a bunch of casual bigotry on me in the midst of socializing and getting to know each other. I don't expect you to have the exact same values as me. For our brief time together that's not important. What I do expect from you is a modicum of consideration, social awareness and self filtering. Just enough so that if you have opinions on black or brown people, or "the gays", or poor people, or any other group that you don't belong to, you have the sense to keep those opinions to yourself for an hour. I expect you to realize that these opinions might be offensive to others and that sharing them is jarring and rude. I expect you to realize that you don't actually know me, and that I or my loved ones might be part of those groups that you think so poorly of. I want to have fun with you when we're together. I don't want to get into an argument about racism or sexism or homophobia or anything. I certainly don't want to have to choose between ending our session early or getting intimate with someone who has just made me very uncomfortable. I'm sure you're a complex and multifaceted person and there are many wonderful, fascinating, enjoyable, positive things you could share about yourself. Stick to those, as I do when I talk about me, so that we can both enjoy each others' company. Thanks, Your service provider

Theres nothing like taking control, non stop until he cant control himself and explodes deep in your throat.

I think people are getting worried and making way too much of this walking past the front desk. For all the front desk staff know, you checked in when they were off shift. I have gone by the front desks of hotels many a time, including one where the front desk is more situated in a hallway you have to walk through to get to the elevators. I just walked by like I belonged there never questioned. Staff are used to seeing people come and go, even for a romantic rendezvous ;-) hey that's life. Just walk into the hotel like you belong there. The only way you'll get questioned is if you draw attention to yourself. If hotels started questioning everyone, guests and guests of guests, they'd soon be out of business RG