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They are the part of the female body most often critiqued, sexualized and lusted after. Some will comment to augmented breasts as being fake, some will comment to saggy breasts as being gross. Many of us are so hard on one another and can cause some to want to change, to feel insecure or unworthy. We are made to believe by todays standards and the media that they should be big, round and point to the sun. But in reality they are as different as our faces and age doesn't dictate their perkiness nor does a body type dictate their size-ie: a larger woman will have larger breasts and smaller will have smaller. Natural or augmented all breasts are beautiful, but should we put as much importance on them as we do? After all if a woman were to loose hers, due to illness, accident or however, should she then feel less than a woman? If you go by todays standards and ideals, she might, but there is far more to making a woman feminine, beautiful and worthy than her breasts, especially in many other cultures. I wonder why North Americans base so much importance on them? What's your opinion and do you? Are breasts what you think make women sexy, beautiful and why? Be honest;) http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php I will add the biggest reason that caused me to want to enlarge mine was to look more like what the media, magazines and advertising depicts as beautiful breasts, along with growing up with a father and brother, male friends and boyfriends, who I often heard talking about breasts and that their opinions were larger was better. Some of my decision was also based on the fact that and for whatever reasons beyond the above, visually, I find that large augmented breasts look more beautiful than smaller or larger natural breasts. It's sad that as women we can be made to feel less than by such unrealistic standards, yet many of us can be.

One of the elements that brought me to this profession is the sheer number of UNhappily married men. Many men are married to women that they love, or did love. But the pressure of both working, not having time for each other, mortgages, naughty children, aging parents, and long commutes take their toll. A man faces the back half of his life wondering if it were all worth it. They probably haven't had sex in years. He wants to feel like a man again. But if he has an affair, he is going to lose half of everything. This is where the courtesan/mistress comes in. Compensation is the best thing ever. It keeps the lines drawn succinctly in their relationship. I didn't say that love won't creep into it! We are all human. But cash helps. True story: if the man left his wife, he'd lose the house - so he slept in a bath tub for over 2 years. A man sneaks downstairs when his wife is asleep to get on the net and "talk" to a woman with blood in her veins. Sneaking around in their own homes! And if they are busted, they are called monsters. We all need love, affection, and a damn good badabingbadaboom. Life is very good; lets enjoy!

I absolutely agree! While I often say with tongue in cheek "I love HMOPH's!" it is completely truthful. Happily Married Other Peoples Husbands make up my favourite guests for so many reasons. It's a perfect fit for my preferred business model, the ME (mistress experience). It means I never deal with the bad habits, annoying idiosyncrasies and daily grind; that is left for the woman who will inherit his estate and I get to enjoy all the delights without the trials and tribulations of day to day routine. I never have to worry they are going to arrive in a mood, never deal with him not pulling his weight around the house and he'll never steal my covers in the middle of the night, every night. I don't have to pick up his dirty laundry, deal with his family or struggle with keeping the passion alive. These parts are non existent in the relationships I indulge in. HMOPH's will never assume to be a part of my life outside of the negotiated parameters, never arriving in the middle of night thinking I will welcome him in, never assume an invite out for dinner off the clock is an acceptable thing to do. They seldom see blurred lines when paint is neon yellow clear. In my privileged experience, HMOPH's is always positive, he's always happy to be here, I'm always glad he is here. Our time together is focused, we ONLY do the important stuff like touch, talk and feel in an honest, nonjudgemental way. We spend time together knowing how truly precious that time is; we both savour every moment and when it's over we are grateful to have experienced it. We look forward to the next visit without it being a painful yearning or need. It's having all the best parts of a relationship without any of the head aches or heartbreaks. So yes Delilah, I LOVE married men... cat

Thanks for all the lovely birthday wishes I started off my 50th birthday with a bang... a threesome! And then breakfast in port credit on a patio. Champs convention in Toronto with my brothers and then back to my new home with family for dinner. Lovely sunny day

The WHO's recent report isn't really talking about the same thing as the latest headline-grabbing bug. Things like SARS, H1N1 and now MERS will inevitably crop up every so often, and we just have to deal with them when they do. What the WHO is talking about is the unfortunate coincidence of two things: the gradual evolution of drug-resistant pathogens, and the fact that there's very little research into new antibiotics. The first is more-or-less inevitable, but the second isn't. it's an unfortunate consequence of the fact that pharmaceutical companies exist to make money, and these days the money is not in treating infectious disease; it's in treating the chronic diseases of the affluent West. If you invent a drug that cures MRSA then you can sell it to a patient that will take it for a few days or weeks and then stop because they're cured, but if you invent a drug that reduces cholesterol you can get decades of continuous revenue from each patient.... and so that's precisely what happens. The WHO is saying, "this needs to change, and here's why". There's no deadline... yet. There will never be a sudden moment when this becomes a huge issue. It'll just get worse and worse and worse, until we realize that we have a major problem on your hands. Of course, the real threat is of something evolving that's as deadly as HIV or ebola and as infectious as the common cold. When that happens, there's a good chance that Homo sapiens will become extinct, as so many other species have done before.

I make my living on repeat business. So if, for whatever reason, I'm not comfortable going through with a session, I will refund 100% cheerfully with my full apologies. My attitude is that neither of us wasted anything more than our time. But too, he's not welcome back in this case. Ever. But there are times when someone bites off more than he can chew. I try to prolong pleasure whenever I can, but sometimes they're just not receptive to such efforts. If someone books an hour and he's done and over with in 25 minutes, I'll rebate him down to half an hour. And in this case, he is welcome back. Just next time, we'll either book a shorter session or agree on what we need to do to make it last longer.

Herein are my notes from the strange evening with the Americans. This evening they were at a sports bar watching the Montreal - New York playoff game. I arrived shortly after 10:00 pm to pick them up. I was due at 10:00 sharp but who leaves a playoff game that is tied 1 - 1? Well, actually, two of them. Took them back to the hotel. Foreshadows of things to come. Returned to the bar. Game ends. Fourteen gents in varying states of inebriation load into the back and are ready to PAR - TAY! Mt direction is to take them back to the hotel unless they want to go somewhere else. Whatever - take care of them. I advise the group of this. The response is instantaneous. Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Good Lord! There is the desperation of starving baby birds in their cries of Titty Bar! We have to go "Across The River". This spoken in tones usually reserved for describing the Holiest of Holies. Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! We arrive at Pigales. The moment is upon us. The car is strangely silent. Reverential silence? I open the car door and stand back so I won't be trampled by a hoard of inebriated hormonal young men. No one gets out. I stick my head in and announce we're here. No one moves. Most of them are staring with great interest at the floor. One guy looks at me and asks "What's it like in there?" "Well," I reply, "There's naked women." "Is it clean in there?" "There's naked women." No one moves. Exasperated, I go to the doorman, explain I have a bunch of shy Americans on board and ask if one can come take a quick peek and report back to the others. He agrees. I relay this offer to the boys and ask who wants to take point. No one moves. "I hear there's a casino." "Yes, there's a casino." Casino! Casino! Casino! Casino! So we drive away leaving the nude flowers of Quebec womanhood unviewed, untouched. And my head hurts between shaking it and smacking it. Americans can be odd people. I know. Because I are one.

I believe that people that have a great repore with each other, introduce sarcasm as a further advancement of those relationships, often it is when people are comfortable with each other. I would say sarcasm into an unknown circumstance, more like introduces the fine line between good nature bantering, and maybe a bit more truthful messaging. Anyway, I think sarcasm can be a great tool, but understand how it can be misused too.

You are right:) all these scenarios happen or can happen. We are dealing with a sensitive business after all. Pleasure and companionship can sometimes lead us into misinterpretations of feelings of our partner and even of our own. This business of closeness can also create feelings even when we think we are protected from them, married or not. What makes or breaks the ability to continue seeing the same person, or different people is how you handle and understand your feelings. It is never right to take advantage of someone or to lead someone on. I can only speak to what I've experienced and feel, others will speak to their experiences and feelings and so on. I won't live on what ifs, maybes or possibilities. I'll deal with what happens when it happens and hopefully in a mature and respectful way. In saying all this I still, from experience and, as someone who has personally dealt with a stalker for 6yrs, who btw was a single man, feel I'm less likely to be emotionally challenged with married men:)

Now a question? What if the married man who sees an SP does develop feelings for her...she's not an SP to him, more than a exclusive paid mistress from his end, she is the "other woman" More the woman that this man is having an affair with (in his mind) than a paid companion and there is an underlying business relationship The lady is willing to continue seeing the man, even though she has her head on straight that this is at it's core a business relationship. The married man, deludes himself that the business aspect of the relationship will end and they will live happily ever after Or he will string her along, and she will believe he will leave his wife for her and never does BTW a similar type of thing could happen with a client who's a single man and a SP who's a single woman My point, the relationship risks, they are there, whether SP/Client (either, or or both) are single or married. A rambling RG

Fortunately for me, when I spend reasonably, I don't have to worry about the financial aspects of this. So as far as what's better for me, when it comes down to repeats and one timers, whoever is the better match for me at the time I book, I'll see. Both are good and enjoyable. But, just because a guy finds a lady attractive doesn't mean he's going to repeat with her. There are plenty that truly enjoy their choice of sp but have only one desire to fulfill and only want one time to do it, never do they repeat with anyone, nor do they collect;)

Oh of course.. I'm not saying I advocate gov't influence.. I'm just stating that it's possible. Same as my feelings in the rates thread.. I want always to be my own boss.. I think if it ever came down to the gov't telling me what I can and can't do with my body.. I'd move to live where I once again had freedom.

Carrie, I am quoting you but my comment is not directed at you ;) We all draw the line somewhere, and as you stated, that line varies from person to person. To each their own. I am not going to debate the rights and wrongs of BBBJs (or DATY or kissing) and risk levels but I will say this: As an independent human being, I do not want nor need the government telling me what I can and cannot do in the privacy of a bedroom, as a companion with a patron or as a grown woman in her private life. Whether or not I receive money when sharing intimate time with someone is no one else's business but mine. I value my rights and freedom of choice. (I hope my post makes sense)

Last night, CBC's "The National" aired a disturbing story regarding how various strains of bacteria are now becoming resistant to antibiotics including strains of gonorrhea. The World Health Organization is becoming quite alarmed by this and are cautioning health professionals to not over prescribe antibiotics, but it appears the damage has all ready been done as strains of bacteria are becoming known as "super-bacteria's." So, in light of this, could it be possible that BBBJ's by Sp's may become a thing of the past as it could be too dangerous for them to offer this service especially if there isn't a cure for a super strain of gonorrhea? I know there are some Sp's who are not comfortable providing this service to begin with, but feel they must do so in order to remain competitive. So, what do you think CERB community about this?

Happy Birthday Carrie! It really is a pleasure to know you and you are truly a wonderful person. I hope you have a wonderful day! I would also like to add you look as beautiful now as you ever did! Enjoy your special day! : )

I have always tolerated requests for cbj but I'd much rather perform oral without a barrier. If someone tried to tell me I'd have to give up daty or kissing I'd retire.

Some days it just seems like the world is full of assholes...

re: sex work and bbbjs it isn't a case of morality, as i express in the comment i made about. It is a high risk activity for stds, and it is treated as a high risk activity at the Work Safety level. This is a 'commercial' sex work issue, and work safety standards protect the worker, that is what those policies are in place to do. If it came only to the case of government imposed morality, believe me the difference of cbj versus bbbj isn't what they are going to focus on, it is sex work in total they will morally object to. In commercial sex work ALL oral services, and all other services, require barriers. This means both cbj and cdaty, but i am not sure if kissing is actually mentioned in the regulations. The regulations are about the safer care and handling of potentially harmful fluids, in other words :) In other words, sex workers are not contracting chlamydia or gonorrhea in their throats with cbjs, nor are they spreading it to clients with cbjs, even if they may be doing high risk activity in their personal lives.

I guess I'm just confused. I did quote your entire post, so I'm not sure what you mean by the last sentence. Yes, for sure you talked about stalkers. But no one was suggesting that it never happens with married men (or conversely that it always happens with singles), just that in some people's experience it happens more often with single folk. Anyway, we all agree that there's nothing wrong with opposing viewpoints and that people should feel free to express them. It's just that it seemed like you were disagreeing with points that weren't in Cristy's original post. Anyway, I'm quite willing to move on. If I misinterpreted your post then I'm glad you clarified, since politely doing so seems like a helpful thing to do, after all. :) So then, if I'm reading your second post correctly you want to share that your own experience and thoughts are that married men are just as likely to push boundaries as single people. Fair enough. My own intuition would be that while the majority of both single and married guys are respectful of boundaries, of the two married fellows would generally be even more invested in staying discrete. Though no doubt there are many exceptions. Cheers. Additional Comments: Moving on to another part of the discussion, there's a lot of articles out there on the idea that men and women often find married people more attractive, or at least attractive in different ways. You just have to google anything like "married women more attractive" or "why do women like married men" to find scores of them. I'm not sure how much stock I put in a lot of these articles, and many seem like just-for-fun humour pieces than anything scientific, but given how many people discuss it, there must be something for at least some people to the idea! Or maybe I'm just thinking of the Seinfeld episode where George pretended to be married to attract ladies. :)

Thank you for that, Roaming Guy. Delilah, thank you for this post! Some escorts actively invite mistress scenarios, be it for an hour, or for months on end. Some non-pro gals do the same. The men promise to leave their wives. Fortunately, most of us know the score. Play the tape through: if he really DID leave his wife, first thing you know, you are stuck with His Lordship 24/7, someone else's divorce, social ostracism, hostile offspring, and his laundry. Run! Hide! You pay a very high price for love. Compensation says that you are a professional. If he stops paying, you are not a professional, and your boundaries are shattered. You are having an affair, and we all know where that ends up. Your mom wasn't joking. Escorts/courtesans/mistresses have existed for at least a thousand years because they are compensated to have an expiry date. Some did very well, and some made history, but all had a strong sense of self preservation and self integrity. Cheers!

Very good point, Cristy. We can express our likes, desires, preferences, etc and not always be PC. I think most intelligent people understand that and accept it for what it is. Nobody should ever be offended by honesty as long as it isn't intentionally harmful. It seems most of the guys and gals on here understand this aspect pretty well.

"Are breasts what you think make women sexy, beautiful and why?" To that question I can honestly say no. Now, if you'd asked are breasts one of the things that can make a woman sexy, then I probably would say yes. There's no way I could deny that I absolutely love breasts. And yes, for me at least "the more the merrier" but I've never met a breast I didn't like, regardless of size and shape, and just like most things there's different people that will prefer all different sizes. But as much as breasts turn me on so do another 100 things about women! Many of them are other physical attributes: nice eyes, nice legs, nice smile, nice hair, nice ass, nice feet. Everybody has at least one nice feature! And then there are the non-physical traits which are at least as sexy if not more. I don't care how perfect I think your breasts are, if you're a cruel person, I'm not going to find you sexy! But a generous person, one with confidence or a sense of humour or sincerity, that's always going to be attractive. So yes, I like looking at breasts. I like touching them even more. I find them a huge turn on, and the bigger they are the more I'm turned on. But breasts aren't what makes a woman a woman, nor do they determine her value as a person, and even if tomorrow every breast on the planet disappeared, I wouldn't have any problem still finding ladies plenty attractive!

The question being do nice breasts make a woman sexy? The simple answer is Nice breasts are sexy but no, they are not what makes the woman sexy, per se. Now, I won't lie. I love, love, love breasts. Big titties, little titties, round titties, oblong titties, perky titties, saggy titties. I love em all. But true sex appeal for me goes much deeper. I've said it before, I know, but intelligence, class and that inner beauty and spark are where the sexiness come from. The outer shell, as it were, while being visually enticing and exciting is only the first part of the overall package. It catches the eye but not necessarily the brain or the libido for me. Just one man's opinion. As for your augmentation, Miss Cristy, they are spectacular but I would wager you would be just as sexy with your natural breasts. Your intelligence and obvious kind heart would make you sexy no matter what, imo. Jus sayin.

This is very true and seldom do they admit it's the drugs. I've had similar experiences, however I was to inexperienced to realize the smart thing (which is what you did) I stayed the whole hour and just kept trying:(

I usually see her Saturday day at the fax...

It went for an outcall several years ago when the guy was obviously high on Coke. He was acting strangely, sweating profusely from the forehead and couldn't get erect and kept blaming me for it which seems to be a common thing with Cokehead's. I gave him the difference between a half-hour and an hr and told him I was leaving.

You make some great points. I'm also not allowed to give blood anymore because I lived in the UK for six months. I might have mad cow disease. Yeah right :p The idea that seeing a prostitute precludes you from having the ability to give blood safely is antiquated

Happy birthday Carrie.

Carrie!!!! I had no idea!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought you stopped having birthdays when you were 23! Happy birthday hun!!! xoxo

This may date me, but many years ago I was usually given the choice of oil or powder (baby powder). Powder was very common years ago, but I haven't seen it lately :-). Oddly, I have had two massages without oil at all (or powder) recently and they were not memorable. My favourite massage was with a custom blended oil which was so subtle and light that just the aroma was a turn on for me. The therapist explained the ingredients which which she bought separately and blended. I never shower afterwards since it would remove the exotic smell which reminds me of an wonderful experience. For me the power of smell is very much part of a wonderful massage. My two cents:-)

Happy Birthday Carrie xo

Happy Birthday Carrie! I hope this day finds you well in mind, body and spirit. Toper

After reading this thread, I decided what the heck. I went to an Appletree clinic and talked to the doctor. She mainly wanted to know about potential blood pressure issues (and checked my blood pressure), heart problems, and allergies. I was upfront that ED medication isn't actually required for me to have an erection and it would be more supplemental (important info for determining dosage). It should also improve the odds of MSOG (didn't talk to her about that). The doctor gave me a some sample Viagra (100mg doses to be broken in half or quarters). She said I'd probably want 50mg, but I think I'll try 25mg to start and give it a bump if needed. From what I've read, I may prefer Cialis but they didn't have any samples. With my new-found courage, I think I'll talk to my GP next time I see her. Some other things I found during my research: -Some women were a bit disturbed by the thought of an erection that they "weren't responsible for." As long as it's not an overdose, ED medications don't actually cause erections, they just increase the physical manifestation of existing mental arousal (nor do they increase libido). You can assure your partner that the desire was always there but your body wasn't always cooperating. -A persistent erection is not a licence to pound away for an hour. Your partner is unlikely to enjoy or appreciate this for very long and it will get painful (first for her, eventually for you). Alternate with non-penetrative activities and communicate openly with your partner about sensations (good advice in any situation).

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CARRIE!!!!! have an awesome day in your new home :) can't wait to see you again!! Bianca xoxox

Happy Birthday Carrie. Hope you have yourself great one! :D

Happy birthday sweetie ! Hope you treat yourself well, you deserve it ! xoxo

Happy Birthday Carrie! Hope it will be an awesome day!

Happy Birthday Carrie...hope you have an amazing day.

How beautiful, and there can't be any better advice. You surpass yourself with every post. Men should be lined around the block for you and women should follow your lead, once again I bow to your eloquence and thank you for contributing. This post has helped me and made me realize something new-thank you

I noticed while reading this thread, that everyone is saying "Be Yourself". Great advice, but if you're new to the industry and you're not familiar with things that men like, it's a good thing to start this thread to give you some things. Look at some of the recommendations that people have written about some of your peers, some might not have much information, some of go into great detail. I like everyone who is politically correct on this website will say be yourself, that's what we like, though there are also little things as well. Myself, I remember if a lady asks me if I want to set an appointment up in a certain way ( outfits, etc,) and sometimes the lady hasn't worn what was agreed upon, I don't write a bad review, I don't bring it up with the lady because it's not super important, I can get over it without making a big deal. If you are doing incalls, my opinion is that you have a nice location ( decorated, has a lived in feel), I feel that a room with a bed isn't all that exciting no matter how charming I feel you are. I think the environment reflects on the situation just as much as the person regardless of what you're meeting for. A stark room with a bed is just too business like in my opinion. Again, good points from everyone, the overwhelming theme seems to be yourself.

I think it's a common request, and personally I think that yoga pants are like God's gift to mankind.

There are a few things that make me want to repeat. Some are in the lady's control, some are not. There is an SP who is amazing in every sense of the word. I just don't feel as comfortable with her as I do with another. And that's okay, because if the reviews have to say anything is that she has a line of admirers. One lady always likes to tries to bring something new. Which is awesome, I never know what to expect.

Be yourself. And has already been said, for me too, it's about a connection, chemistry if you will. Treat the encounter like a date, and you want to be there. As much as this is the lady's livelihood, during the encounter, after business is looked after, you should have an escape, and both forget it is a business transaction. It is instead two people on a date. This btw is why professional companions are special, they make a paid date be an escape. And again, be yourself. Don't worry about other ladies and what they do. The gentleman seeing you is seeing you because there was something about you that interested him. He wants to see you A rambling RG

This is really simple from my perspective when I meet an amazing lady who I connect with and feel so comfortable with that it seems like we have known each other for years.... I just could not fathom not seeing her regularly. When it feels that good to see someone why would you not continue.... In these cases I know I will enjoy every second of my time with her and I look forward to our meetings and I think she does too. I would be crazy to not want to continue something do good. Just my opinion.

I feel that wearing deodorant for intimacy and for the public is only common courtesy. Hygiene plays a huge factor for me and for some reason I feel it gives a sense of ones character and well- being. In 2014 this should not even be a topic although I see and smell a lot of it. Ladies/Gents if you don't wear it please start for there are kids out there age 10 who recognize their body odour when perspiring that they all too willingly run for the deodorant! Posted via Mobile Device

The waiting is over, I TOFTT and am glad I did. Review posted here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=178543 Additional Comments: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=178543

This one I hope not, since I can't count the number of times that I had to wait until the lady was ready, and often well past the appointment time.

I just want to point out quickly that some people are allergic to coconut oil. I don't believe there is a known allergy when it comes to eating it, but contact dermatitis is something that a rare few will experience. If you are thinking about using it, try it out as a lotion for a few days and see how your skin reacts. My skin does NOT handle it well, and because of that I would never want to use it as a lube. I actually have to read beauty product ingredients carefully to make sure there is no coconut oil in anything I put on my skin. So while it is amazing for some people, just give it a trial run before you commit to buying a lot.

I think I've had all the stuff out there used on me and my preference is a good quality Massage Oil like Biotone. The stuff is about $13 for 8 oz or $54 a gallon and is available locally. Their lotion is also good. A number of MAs use baby oil and I hate it !! Some even use the scented stuff which smells like hell for the rest of the day! Although the unscented stuff doesn't smell, you still can't get rid of it unless you have 2 showers. I also get a rash from baby oil for some reason !! If you figure out the price of a gallon of baby oil you may find that good massage oil, or lotion if you prefer, is probably around the same price !! The massage oil is very slippery and is water soluble so cleanup is a breeze. It just plain gives a better massage. I don't mind unscented baby oil for the finish if that's what the MA prefers but not for the massage. If I visit an MA that I enjoy and she uses baby oil I will bring a bottle of Biotone on my second visit. Some switch and others just save the bottle of massage oil for my future visits :) My 2 cents, from a customer's perspective.