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Painting every lady or client who uses textme with the same brush is much like saying every Muslim is a terrorist. You simply cannot generalize like that in real life. We can talk about establishing trust all we want. But think about when we book... The client doesn't know our real name, our home address, our personal email address -- so why do they need our personal cell phone number? Using these apps leaves the companion with the opportunity to "turn off" business when she wants to. Not everyone wants to carry two phones and not everyone is comfortable mixing business with personal - phone number or otherwise. I have had some wonderful gentleman who have explained why they use a text app and that is 100% ok with me. Additionally I have met some lovely ladies, who - for their own reasons, use a texting app. Choosing not to see a reputable lady because they use a texting app means you could miss out on a great experience. People do what they feel is best for them. If you aren't comfortable seeing someone - either lady or gentleman - that uses a texting app - that's your own choice. But take the time to ask why they use it. It could end up being a completely reasonable explanation. You just can't automatically judge someone on the technology they use. Just my thoughts.

Ad Dr. Seuss would say... I like kissing here or there. I like kissing anywhere. I like kissing deep or light I do like them if alright. I do like them on on the lips I do like them on all bits. I do like them here or there. I do like them anywhere. I do like them with some tongue. I do think they are quite fun. On a train! In a tree! In a car! Yes, come kiss me! I would, could, on a "box". I would, could, with a fox(y lady). I will kiss her feet to hair. I will kiss here or there. I will kiss her anywhere. I will kiss both lips and ass. I will kiss a lady with sass. I do like them Brad-I-am. Ahem. As for safety. Well nothing is 100% safe in this world and everyone has to decide for themselves what their comfort level is. I'll respect a lady's preference if she has a no-kissing rule though I won't deny disappointment. I do not, however, recommend kissing a dementor...

I do believe there are those addicted to sex. I can't comment on if many, any or lots are involved in the adult industry as I don't have any stats . For anyone to be helped, no matter their addiction, they have to want and seek the help themselves. Any addiction can lead to risky, sometimes shocking or dangerous behavior as the addicted will often act beyond their norm to get their fix of whatever it is they are addicted to. But only trained professionals can and should be the ones to offer help, support or advice. It's no one else's responsibility.

How exactly are you able to draw this conclusion? Also regarding ads, since I am offering time and companionship, why would I find it necessary to make a statement that if someone is seeking unprotected sex, that they should not ask, and seek help. That would infer that I only offer protected sex and why would I do such a thing? Also, industry aside, it is not up to me to ascertain if someone is a sex addict and counsel them accordingly. I am not qualified to do such. Even if I thought they were, unless their behaviour is impacting me, it's really none of my business. Finally, who is to say that sex addicts are only found in this industry? Unless they have an endless supply of funds, I would think that they would also seek out dating and hook-up sites to meet people. I believe there are a lot of assumptions being made on the part of the OP and I am not clear as to why he thinks it is up to this industry to save these people.

Wonderful story... I would have kept them for good! :biggrin:

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I'll have to chime in again because I think some people interpreted my last comments differently than I expected. I in no way said the girl is "sketchy", in fact I made sure to say she probably wasn't. What I did say is that this communication method is grossly misused by wrongful people, intent on doing harm and or other negative things. Until such people are eliminated from this world, I will never trust such apps. If clients want to use it, go ahead - but not with me. If SPs feel this works best for them, who am I to dictate? I simply shared my honest opinion of such apps, which was that I stay away. Far, far away.

I do not agree and will explain...I do use textme With that app I could get ride of my second phone...now im only using my personnal phone and no I don't want my personal number all over the place and I choose who I share it with...It has nothing to do with having something to hide or being sketchy... Just my opinion... Bianca

I received a few pairs of underwear at a discounted rate while buying other lingerie a few days ago. Never worn, still in the bag so I gave them to my friend. lol.

I agree that the use of the app may make someone decide to not book but so could a huge number of other factors... I fail to see how it less honest or open than working names... ads with no face pictures.. when we are talking about cell numbers and emails it's not like you can look them up in a directory... the text app is as open or honest as a burner phone purchased in a bogus name and address... in my opinion it's a red herring... look at the companions overall presence and reputation...A lady using an app does not make her dishonest and it's kinda insulting to the many reputable ladies who do to suggest that it does. Some ladies don't advertise a number at all but do use an app for texting after the initial contact.. are they dishonest... they don't hide the fact they are using an app? Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Sex addiction is like any other addiction. It is up to the individual involved to seek and utilize help available. There are many forums, services and directives already in place but they must be sought out. In regards to escort ads, not everyone who asks for bb is a sex addict. Some are those who want what they want or are testing or pushing limits. Some just have no regard for much of anything. I do not believe an escort should be responsible for the health and safety of anyone except themselves. This is why there is screening in place and why most blacklist those asking for certain services or behaving in certain ways. If an escort were to take it upon themselves to provide information to someone or to classify someone as an addict because they asked, they are actually opening themselves up to potential legal action. It is like if you work in a casino or a bar, you cannot accuse someone of being an addict or assume they are or communicate this is any way. IF the person comes to you claiming this, then you are free to talk about it. Without that crucial step, you are only permitted to have resources and information available or you may be open to civil actions. Things may have changed but this is what I was taught and trained on. Can escorts be aware and have knowledge, certainly but it is not up to them to make the decision. Independents also do not have the time and resources to commit to such a grand scheme personally. By supporting some of the industry outreaches and programs in place, they are adding necessary resources to the cause. Again, it comes down to the individual to stand up and seek help. Addicts are addicts in the sense that there is something amiss in regards to something. Every individual has varying degrees and levels to which they act, react and escalate. You cannot assume someone is an addict because they displays certain behaviors or react/act in certain ways. Yes, there are signs but not all signs lead to an addiction. Those working in ANY industry where there is potential for addiction should have knowledge but they cannot be made responsible for more than what they have control over (IE: cut off limits, spending limits, limiting behaviors when they get to certain levels, providing resource information etc.). Can we, as individuals care? Yes, to a point, after that it's on the person. If the person acts in a way that steps outside certain societal boundaries, then they can act in a way the reduces the negative impact.

This is a really good thread, I won't book a client without a real cell phone so I would not expect him to book me without one either. Trust needs to be established. Yes in some rural places I use text me, but we have already confirmed over the phone on my real cell prior to my arrival. Too many shady people and problems these days, that one can never be too careful on either side. If your going to hide your cell number what else are you hiding? I want ZERO part of time with anyone who feels the need to secretive, as it only leads to problems later on.

Panties are to be worn with sexy lingerie so they can be peeled off lol Xoxo, Miss Lane

been quiet of late. my 16 year old daughter was almost the victim of a 27 year old internet creep from the states. When she told me about him and told me she wanted to meet him I said before you meet you have to agree to see the police and talk about this, She agreed and I took her in to talk. The police officer was a god send. He explained to her what was happening and she ended her so called relationship with the jerk. police are investigating him now and she is safe and seeing a counselor to learn why she was attracted to such a person and learn about healthy relationships. She has a lot of work ahead of her but at least she is doing it now and not latter on in life. All in all life has been stressful, best move ever was taking her into the police to talk. I am sure it saved her from something very bad happening.

It's actually a perfectly level playing field... clients can use an App and yes that might mean that some ladies will not accept booking requests but likewise a lady can use an App and some clients will not book with them. That said let's be realistic... for the client your exposure is only to the ladies you choose to make your number available too... so you totally control who has access to your number... if you do your research and stick to booking established ladies or ladies that can be verified that risk can be effectively managed so it is minimal... of course if you are less cautious you might increase your risk the choice is yours. In the case of a lady she is putting her number or email out to the world... she does not control who gets it and runs a huge risk that the person will harass her or bully her or try to out her so it's kind of reasonable that some ladies would use an app that is a cheap and easy way to have a number that they can use publicly and when their is a problem quickly discard. In reality the lady has to do what she needs to do to protect herself and I am ok with that. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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just catching up on season 4, anyone other than me like this series??

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A very nice kiss and a huge hug is what I feel R needed so U and I understand there is still a connection until next time! Then again everybody is different for I have clients that just go for a hug or a basic kiss on the cheek. But when I reach for them for a nice sexy kiss and lovely hug and they respond we R then also both happy and looking forward next time we meet. One just needs to adapt in some cases and accept the situation presented to her. Barbara xxoo

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The inference is that a "real" number is open and honest. How is a "real" number attached to a $50 burner anymore open or honest than a texting app number?

Its 77Sierra77 Glad to hear you had a good time. She's awesome

What? Working names? Burner phones? Are you trying to tell me her God-given birth name isn't Loverly Snowflake? Snap! I suppose the next thing you're going to try to tell me is that wasn't her real apartment. I feel so... deceived. LOL So it goes....

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The impression that you and others have left is that the use of an App is an indication of hiding something and not being open and being dishonest... i am saying that while it is true' someone could use an app to hide and be dishonest it is not fair to suggest that or leave the impression that all who do are being any less open... i suggest you look at the full package a lady presents and then make your own decision. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I didn't say it makes them dishonest. What I said "Openness and honesty is important in this lifestyle. Apps hiding cell numbers aren't open" The app isn't what I would call open As for a companion's overall presence and reputation, that works when the companion has been around awhile and established a reputation. A lady just getting started though, she doesn't have that presence and reputation yet. So something like this app used by a companion just starting out, well it doesn't appear she is open and may raise red flags to potential clients And irrespective, do you not agree that openness and honesty are important in this lifestyle? RG

I would wonder why a lady is trying to hide her cell number. Initial impressions are important and trust has to be established on both sides. So when someone does something like hiding her number, you have to wonder if she is hiding something else Even if the user's intent, be it a companion or client is innocent in using this app, they should know it can be cause for concern. A client may not get booked. A companion may miss out on seeing a potential client. Openness and honesty is important in this lifestyle. Apps hiding cell numbers aren't open A rambling from a guy who techie knowhow limited on these things but believes in openness and honesty RG

Sexual activities? That doesn't happen does it?

Well said. this community is an invaluable resource.

I'm currently studying psychology and neuroscience, though I'm by no means an authority, and am actually academically interested in exactly this topic. It's a complicated topic! First off, to address RG's question, a "normal" behaviour can be the focus of an addiction if it has certain characteristics. Addictions involve biological, neurochemical and behavioural components that can all be observed and measured to some extent, and involve specific structures in the brain that are generally termed the "reward centre." Behavioural addictions can activate and affect the reward centre of the brain in very similar ways to substance addictions. That's why gambling addiction is a recognized disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM-5). Sex addiction is a lot more controversial, and it has been classified in previous DSM versions, but removed from the DSM 5. Escalation of the type of sex a person seeks isn't necessarily a sure-fire sign if addiction on its own, as there are a lot of other criteria that need to be met for a diagnosis to be confirmed. One study I just finished reading actually found very little correlation between the level of "deviance" of a person's sexual interests and their level of compulsive behaviour. Most people investigating the sex industry are interested in the motivation that drives the ladies to work in that field. I would bet that there are as many variations of motivation that drive clients to be consumers of their services. I'm sure addiction is a part of the demographic. An abnormally high percentage of the demographic? I dunno. I'm not there yet, but I'd love to research it. If we believe our illustrious leaders in government (I'm unconvinced), it would almost definitely have to be the case. And, if it were, how does criminalizing clients address what is essentially a mental health issue, then? As RG would say, just some ramblings.

Mine are small and have hair around them LOL Had to post it :)

Mine and thick, juicy and sensitive. I love wearing tank tops so I can slide my hands in and fondle them anytime I like. They respond eagerly to lips and tongues and hands Oh My!

I was raise on my dad's ranch and pretty energetic. Also lazy, I would rather play outside than do my chores and my brothers would tease me about playing with the Grasshoppers. And so, the name stuck...

That's it, I'm going to France! Lol Xoxo, Miss Lane

When we are grateful, so many wonderful things in life begin to happen. Another favorite... love and abundance meditation video which is very powerful: I listen to both of these every morning. Additional Comments: I live and breathe Abraham Hicks so here's a few....

It is a double standard. A reputable escort builds her reputation on discretion and security of the information you provide her with. This is why it's always stressed to do your homework especially with new or transient providers. A lady usually has a website, contact details, recommendations, ads etc. She has put part of herself out there. Apps are easy and usually cost effective in a business where it counts. A person coming to see her is screened for a reason; they have nothing except the information they provide. This is why we request information that can be verified in some way. If you use this app, you can put in whatever information you like so in essence, if you use it, she knows nothing more about you then she did before you called or texted. Many times, the app blocks the number as well or makes it untraceable. Most ladies specify, no blocked numbers. It ALL comes down to safety which is why there is screening in the first place. Every gentleman has the option to either provide or not provide the requested information. You can have the app however if a lady does not accept that, that is her option. It is a personal business, and as such, the lady chooses to do what she is comfortable with and what makes her feel safe. Double standard or not, it is what it is.

Cris I hope you don't mind me using your thread to share an article related to this topic, I really enjoyed reading it and it reminds us that inner beauty is the only beauty we should be concerned about, that one will stay with us, looks not for too long. Here is a paragraph from the article ... 'The key is to love and accept who you are right now, and your present form, whether you are strong or weak, short or tall, young or old - and love your form as it changes throughout the days, weeks and years to come.' Here is the complete article and as I posted in a thread I started not too long ago, we are all good enough or at least we all have the potential to be :)

Nothing but a smile! Seriously, I love women in all kinds of attire and I very attracted to a woman with confidence and a great personality!

Unless otherwise requested I wear a sexy dress with nice lingerie underneath. Never forgetting stockings and a great pair of shoes. :icon_smile: I have been told by my old friends not to go to so much work getting ready. The way I think of it its the least I can do to show my appreciation to my date. If asked I am happy to wear jeans and a T or yoga pants.

Actually I kinda like the lady to wear whatever she feels sexy in... if that's jeans and a tee... great. If the lady feels sexy then the session will be sexy. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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I'm a short skirt wearer all summer long as well... and indoors all year round :)