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I can personally attest to the fact that Lyla is a community . Even though I've ruffled a few feathers from time to time when I needed some help and support I got it in spades. Those I speak of have given me some great advise but more than that a sense of family , a family who pulls together and supports each other when controversy rears its ugly head. Thanks ladies

We are a happy family and speaking on the majority we all agree that we are here to support one another. If there is an issue that needs to be discussed we are able to do so without fear of outlash from others, With no need to ever single another out in hopes they will learn how a peaceful community can gets along.

No No they are not closed till June. They will close Sundays and Mondays during the month of May to complete the renovations that have already begun, the place is undergoing a considerable face lift and the champagne rooms will be more discrete the the old ones yet still conforming to bylaws. The place is gonna look nice when all is said and done. But just to quash any rumors they are not closed until June :)

Since I don't have any kind of a background in psychology guess I'll have to stick to the original topic :-) In my case I've never had any issues with providing my real name and actual phone number to a lady. First and foremost being a single guy I don't have to hide any hobbying from an SO/GF. As well I've had the good fortune to have met many ladies at the various Ottawa socials so I've had the chance to get to know many of the ladies and get a tremendous sense of trust and comfort in providing this information. In fact I've mentioned other details such as workplace as I've had that high a level of comfort with the ladies I have met. Lastly even if I had not met the lady at a social, based on a lady's board presence and reputation I choose ladies I feel comfortable with. for me the bottom line is if you're not comfortable or don't trust someone then perhaps that person may not be for you or if this is a general feeling then you may not be giving yourself the best opportunity to truly enjoy this hobby and enjoy the company of the lovely ladies here. Just my thoughts.

One of the pluses of living in Halifax is that it is relatively small: at least, the central core is. That means it is virtually impossible for me to go anywhere without driving past, and being reminded of, the scenes of many pleasant encounters. I leave my house in one direction and drive past Katherine, or go the other and pass Lilly or Tracie. I can't go to work without driving past Feisty Ferrari's former location, and from the Commons I am reminded of the sites of half a dozen happy memories. Is that true for others as well? Or is it a unique feature of smaller cities?

I do use BP from time to time because frankly, it's the only real game in town around these parts, for the most part. Now, many touring ladies from review boards who tour in the area also advertise on BP when they come here. The one problem with BP is that it is advertising only so if a lady only advertises there, we, as clients, have to try and do more homework to get an idea of who she is. On review or reco boards, we have the luxury of being able to have online conversations with ladies and that makes our decision so much easier. It also helps immensely when we are first meeting as the nervousness isn't quite as bad. Having said all that, I have met several women that advertise exclusively on BP and they have been fantastic, lovely ladies who love what they do and we enjoy each others company. I do, however, take my time, use picture search tools, etc. and watch for suspicious wording in the ads. I have been very good at this, for the most part but there have been a few sub-par experiences over time. This is the risk one takes. I have never been scammed or had any brush-ups with the law and I will continue to enjoy myself by using my instincts.

Do you have any idea on how many ladies on this site you will offend with this? Probably all! It's like asking the ladies who the best date would be --- there would more than likely be thousands of answers. As what one lady finds as perfection may not be to the taste of another lady. Not only does any one gentleman have his own preferences, but the fact that an experience with one lady with differ from that of another gentleman. What one gentleman finds incredibly appealing about one certain lady will certainly be a different opinion about what another gentleman finds. When you read through reco's, the same lady will have differences of opinion from different gentlemen on what the experience is. This is one of the reasons that you find Y M M V on many of them. I cannot believe that this was actually asked!

One great thing about this site, is that it is not made for everyone. Not saying all isn't welcomed, but, it takes a certain amount of discipline, professionalism and courtesy that is not always found in just everyone. If this were made in a way that just anyone could fit in, well I suppose we would be CL in that case. We have a tight community that is a great tool to be able to rely on each other for information and support. But if everyone from CL came here, do you think we might have a lots of mis matched information, fudes, jealousy and so on? Once I introduced someone to the site. Thought she would really do well here, I helped her learn and well sadly I was wrong. She no longer is on this site due to her poor aptitude and unwillingness to get along. It was embarrassing for me, and now I will take extra caution on who I introduce. My suggestion is, when you find a gem, then introduce her to the site. Of course more gems we have here the brighter we shine:)

Here on business and wondering if there are any sp nearby or travelling girls at a hotel. Girls with rev go to the front of the line :)

It's unfortunate that the Flames lost the first game of their round 2 match up but hopefully they will bounce back in Game 2. I'm not sure what to make of the HABS round 2 match up... statistically I think they would have been better off playing Detroit who they had a better head to head record against this year. The Lightning owned the HABS in the regular season... in fact I think they won ever matchup this year. My hope is that the regular season record is just that... history and means nothing because this is the playoff but is certainly would not hurt if Price stays hot and Stamkos stay cold. In any case this Proud Leafs fan will be pulling for Calgary and Montreal in the 2nd Round.

Sometimes even when the lady is a gem, some ladies wish not to be apart of a discussion board. I know a few wonderful ladies on BP and when I ask if they want to join the site they say no because they don't like to post and share thoughts. I have also heard as well, that the regulations and rules (as good as they are) can be intimidating and the idea of saying the wrong thing or whatnot would make them start off on the wrong foot. That can also be said for ladies that are here but do not post often other than ads. It requires a lot of time to go threw the rules and if a lady has a family and another full time job then this can be time consuming. There some great ladies found everywhere. And even though this is the most secure site, we have seen bad apples here too in the past. Recommendations, consistency and references are the smartest way to take the first plung with a lady you never met yet.

Unfortunately its because almost every second ad it full of fake pics and info. Doesn't mean its all deception . Tineye and similar tools help us weed out the real stupid ones but I for one don't risk my time unless they are reco'd here. But in saying that this thread proves there are some legit ones

the reactions to this thread is why I love this board .

Well, I always introduce myself with my first name, my age, where I am located, where I saw the ladies ad and, if it relates in any way, my screen name here or somewhere else. It's just a simple courtesy and there is absolutely no danger involved. I don't understand the fear or concern of this, never did. Hell, I'd tell you all here my first name and never worry for a minute. PS. Sorry that I haven't been around posting for a while. I should contribute more to the community. Anyway, hope everyone is enjoying spring and having lots of fun. :icon_wink: Tis that time of year. A little early yet but an old poem goes.... Hurray, hurray, the first of May. Outdoor screwing begins today. :tongue:

I know that these sorts of posts are quite common on some other boards. Who gives the best x, who is best at y. This is a bit of a different community. to the OP ... Hang around, explore a bit more, and you'll see why. The reaction to this thread, rather than everyone rushing to throw a name into the ring, really reflects the difference. Athos

Seig Heil! I mean... happy birthday. No wait... I had it right the first time.

I agree with you here that this site could be utilized more by sp's in the area. Albeit, not all sp's would want to be on here, due to the fact that we are a community that garners the well being of the client as well as that of the sp. Many of us advertise on other boards and/or sites also. I, for one, advertise on bp and on other sites, but find that many of the sp's on bp are not who they say they are. Just today I found two ads, connected to each other, that were using fake pics of playboy models and Bulgarian sp's. WTF! Be yourself! When you come to the location of a lady on Lyla, you will be greeted by a lovely lady. Her surroundings will have fresh amenities and will be a comfortable and relaxing place to spend your time. The pictures you view on her ads/profile will also be of her, not some random pic pulled from someone else's page or that of a well known celebrity (some people have no idea when it comes to this). The ladies of Lyla are professional, it reflects in our ads, our profiles, our websites and our demeanor. You will find this out when you contact us, we treat you with the utmost respect when you contact us the way we wish to be contacted. There is too much bs on other sites sometimes, but we advertise because it gets us out there. I have found Lyla to be a great community to belong to, lots of great advice, information and fine gentlemen and ladies. We take care of each other and look out for each other, a wonderful place to be. The saying is true 'you only get what you pay for'. If it looks too good to be true, it usually is. My favorite saying, if it looks cheap, it is cheap! Attitude goes a long way in this business. If I have a great attitude, gentlemen will appreciate that. If I offer substandard service, then I am doing myself, and the gentleman, a disservice.

Because doctors hold the same prejudices about s ex work as anyone else.

Hey, Just wondering if anyone could provide some suggestions on someone that has a big natural chest?

It has been clearly shown that a healthy sexual appetite and sex life lead to over all better health. In studies with men it's been shown that having sex at least once a week leads to less heart related incidents, better over all immunology, better physiological health and better coping skills, as it alleviates stress . So with all this being true why aren't doctors supporting sex workers? Many of their patients are single, some are attached with spouses unable to give their partners sex, others for various reasons aren't getting it at home. So where do they expect these people to go to get their healthy weekly interactions? The bar, a dating site, the grocery store? Many don't want a relationship, many just need the occasional boost with a trusted, clean individual, which in my mind is a respected sex worker, right? What hypocrisy for our government as well to take a stand against them. If they want their citizens to be healthy, well rounded individuals. Sex is a needed function of our bodies, we are meant to have it. Isn't it time many started thinking more openly and realistically about how and where one gets it. Realistically sex workers are healers in many cases, not only for the physical benefits offered but by some but also the mental benefits. Many sex workers are unbiased easy to talk to understanding people that can be confided in, much like other professionals. So if we are all to be healthy then sex workers need to be added to the list of health professionals, that's how I see it:)

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Good afternoon, Thank you for a lovely time back up North, I can't wait to come back in the summer. See you soon xoxo Emily

Hey wait a minute... I know it's not huge but no need to refer to it as a little thing :P lol

their cool !

Sometimes you just have to find the right Doctor, I have met a couple of Doctors who were very open to alternative types of medicine. That being said I don't think a Dr. will specifically say that you should have sex with a sex worker but can suggest to have more sex. It's like them saying that you have to lose weight or get more exercise and not go into specifics on what to eat or what form of exercise to get. Whenever my Dr. told me I needed to get more exercise in my daily routine, somehow sex would be one of the first things that came to mind to add in my 'getting fit' repertoire :) What's the alternative? Walking on the treadmill for an hour or 2....or 3..... 4? Not as much fun. *sigh* getting myself worked up again... I need some exercise ;)

I am from St. John's NL also a smaller city and I certainly relate certain places to the amazing meetings that I have had there. In particular I can't drive past or enter the Delta in St. John's without thinking of one lady who I met there a number of times and there are similar touchstones all over the city. I don't necessarily think that this triggering of memories is a small city thing as I trigger the same type of memories when I visit other places where I have had encounters with wonderful ladies. I am getting older now but I still hope to add a few more memorable places to my list in the years ahead. Just my Opinion

I would be in the same position, with Charlottetown being such a small place I gave great memories ever time I am downtown whether I go by the Delta, the Holman or other special places I have had the pleasure of meeting our Lyla ladies. The fun part is the memories will last forever.

it's friday, and i woke up happy :)

I also suspect that sexual health and well-being is something many doctors know very little about. As others have said, most doctors, especially family doctors, likely have all the same hang-ups and misconceptions about sex work as the general public.

This response is all kinds of awesome! Thank you for making me lol!!

My blog entry to celebrate 25 years of the Hubble Space Telescope. http://katevonkatz.wix.com/welcome#!blog/cmt0/Post/6LSPRGF3q2y.text Will be doing one over the weekend to commemorate the MESSENGER mission to Mercury. Can ya tell I'm an astrophile?

just reading the obituaries and my name is still not there, good for at least another day

Well I can't recommend Lyla to the ladies I see...because the ladies I see are already on Lyla and it's because of they are here that I contacted them and had date(s) with them ;-) A very few times that I saw ladies off of other boards, well I couldn't suggest they join Lyla. They were just suspensions/bans in the making...in fact two are suspended from Lyla LOL This board is a community, not just an alternative to BP. And not trying to be elitist, but it's not for everyone RG

Get to see if you have chemistry with a couple of ladies 1st. That could take some time. Once that is complete, i would say that the majority of the ladies will do duo's and doesn't matter who its with. Im sure you'll have a great time as I did, but keep in mind that it does take a little time.

Lets all just hope that this is his last Birthday as our Prime Minister. I am personally willing to make contribution to a retirement gift for him. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Nice find Cowboy! this explains why be wants a monument to the 'victims' of communism and skated around calling it 'totalitarian communism'. Totalitarian Harperism - yuck. Harper and his office are starting to make Duffy look like an angel. lol

I passed all my courses, which means I finally get to graduate after putting it off for so long! Woohooo :)

Desperately needing an antihistamine at 1am, and there's none in the house. Spring really isn't my favourite season.

agreed with the other post. go see 1 MA 1st, then go get a duo once you've done that. best of luck :) fyi Annapurna, that would be me that posted the duo reco for Khloe & Skylar :)

In all my time in this business I have NEVER had a bad date, by that I mean someone violent or causing me harm. And when I had my agency none of the ladies working for me ever had a violent call as I screened their potential guests as well. I firmly believe my strict screening plays a huge role in this. Id rather be alive and safe than risk my life over any amount of money - its just not worth it.

Someone talking to you from another room. Last time it happened I thought a pork chop was going to fall. Wt ?

Dam that sucks.... red flag for sure! :(

LOL if you want a real name, get a girlfriend. Ladies choose to protect their name because we want to avoid stalkers, harassment and good-clients-gone-bad. I am sorry (not) that it ruins your fantasy. FANTASY being the keyword here. Some of us require the client's real name to avoid this exact same individuals mentioned above.

While anyone of age can access any type of adult industry sites now or in the past, the trends I've seen in the last few years is that this industry is not as taboo as it once when there were no classified sites catering to this business. Anyone who isn't really looking to meet an escort for companionship has the ability to browse these sections on classified sites while looking for something else.. They can buy women and tires in the same place. This brings in traffic that perhaps wouldn't be prospective clients or escorts when they were strictly adult sites years ago. Imo there seems to be a correlation with being on a mainstream site as opposed to an adult only escort site. A lot of escorts who may be on BP are not on site like escorts-canada. There are escorts who are on both who have already established a presence. They may use BP because that's the place to go. With BP you don't have to establish yourself to be an escort whereas in the past it was something gradual. While industry sites like Lyla have the ability to be more vocal about bait and switch, BP doesn't offer that. I view BP as a popular place to advertise but in my experience of using it for every 10 men, there are 2 good guys who take the time to look at the website, are polite and don't negotiate, are not pimps trying represent you or trying to ride your coattails. I'm been in this in this business and compared to past years on BP there are a new wave of people calling who seem seedier than ever who try to trade "things' ( I won't say here because it's prohibited) for service or to try to get them as their own clientele. It's bullshit. Before BP I never experienced this craziness when I was on sites like LYla, E-C- any other popular adult sites. So why does it happen on BP and not anywhere else? There is next to no moderation there and I view it as a free for all for some people to exploit it like I mentioned above. It's "the place to go" now because that's where most guys go to look and most people ( well at the least the ones I know) advertise there because if they didn't it would limit their business. The ones I have dealt with, 80% wanted to negotiate, wanting $100 for an hour of companionship, many were pimps trying to recruit, one even wanted to rent a room from me ( yes this is true! lol), drunk guys calling between midnight and 5 am and the list goes on. And it costs $10 a day. $10 a day for me to put up with this crap. No thanks. I have put up an ad there once in a while but I don't deal with 20 something guys and many of them on a beer budget who call me "baybe". Most of them just want you to send them pictures and text back and forth all day long. It's not effective for me but for massage in the body rub section, I have had better luck advertising there once in a while. The business has changed with technology, new demographic of clients such as the younger guys now hiring escorts more than before it seems maybe because some ladies may advertise within their budget. And before anyone decides to say I'm labeling people who advertise on there etc as they have in the past these are my personal experiences only. Other people have had success with that site and some other ladies I know close to me told me they feel like they have to advertise there because that's the place to go even though they can't stand dealing with some of the people who contact them before they find a few good gem client. I have been at this for a while and for years I have been accustomed to dealing with certain types of sites and certain types of clientele with little to no hassle when booking. Most respected the rates, booking process to and took the time to find a professional. That has seemed to change with the introduction of classified ads. Now most prospective clients and less desirable clients are all looking on one site and it's difficult than ever now to weed through time wasters to find a decent client.

Just bought 2 new lingerie set from my favorite store! Love how it feels underneath my sexy secretary look and how it embraces my curves... totally me ! :)

BP is a mish-mash of Bait & Switch, scams and legit ladies, some established, some not. Here are a few tips on how to avoid some serious headaches: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=147748