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No replies from the ladies but I suppose it's possible this has been answered before in another thread. I'd do a search if I were you. From my experience, the ladies you will meet are, quite simply, women. Sometimes they have Os, sometimes they don't. It depends on their mood, their attraction to you, your skill as a lover and so on. I've had many encounters where both sides have had 'release' but I've had just as many where it was more one sided. I think that the normal rules apply. Take your time, foreplay, read her body language and look for clues to what feels good. When in doubt, ask. I almost always ask ladies about favorite positions and what works best for them. Again, they're human. One gets off doggy style, another likes to grind in cowgirl. Some can get there via oral, some not so much. And some simply enjoy it without ever hitting the O at all but that doesn't mean she didn't have a good time. Treat a woman like a woman and things will happen as they do.

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week in Canada and I have come to understand as I have gotten older that Mental Health Challenges are going to impact all of us at some point in our life yet we are often unwilling to seek the help we may need.... afraid of the stigma of being seen as needing mental help. A number of years ago I experienced a significant loss in my life that I still deal with every day and struggle with every day. I have started to talk more openly about my challenges but yet still have not really sought professional help in dealing with the grief I feel. I have not gotten the help for a few reasons.... 1. I truly feel that this burden I carry is rightfully mine for not doing more for the loved one I lost ... I know that is stupid but it is how I feel. 2. I was raised in an environment where men were the strong ones.... they provided help... they supported other in need they bottled up their feelings and looked after others.... so it is a sign of weakness to not be able to cope with what life throws your way 3. A lot of who you are is how you are seen in the community and in your workplace and in your social circles and while by no means a high profile person I have a very good senior' management position... I am active in my community on several charities and boards and amongst my social friends I have always been the person they come to for advice and frankly I am somewhat afraid of how all of that would change if they knew of my daily struggles. So why am I even posting this... well like I said I am trying to talk more about it and strange as it seems the fact that I am just Ice4fun here makes it somewhat easier. I am also posting this because I think we all have a responsibility to look among our friends for signs that they are struggling and give them our support to seek help. Of course as I know only too well it is often way easier to give advice then take it yourself. I hope Mental Health Awareness week allows you to give some thought to this issue. http://www.thetelegram.com/News/Local/2015-05-04/article-4134588/Mental-Health-Week-gets-underway/1

what size are your boobs? Do you have a pic? What to see a pic of my dick? How much for an hour? Do you have a tub? Do you have a shower? Do you do such and such? Are you shaved? Can I ....? .?????? All questions from different dudes this morning. All by text. Hmmm I knew there was a reason I didn't list my number before. Lol You found my number. You texted me. My prices and info are on my website. Read my reviews and recommendations then contact me.

Guys that text and I reply politely once or twice . Then I ask them to go to my website or call me if I have time . Then... Nothing . Do they have any idea how many messages we get in a day ?

Why oh why do some keep asking for details in this day and age? The laws have changed. Asking in a public way things like who gives more then a happy ending, is not going to go over well. For those that don't think things through, sometimes others see and read this site so they can gather Intel. Stop asking publicly WHO gives extras. It's not cool or helpful for those who are in this industry. PLEASE.

Gossip period but especially clients who gossip about other girls.

Or those who you give info to and then silence without a thank-you. Usually months later they text back asking for info again and seeing the texting history from the past, I just ignore. A little "Hello" and "Thank-you always goes a long way with me. :) Most guys from Lyla have always been considerate when booking and in person but I post on this thread because I'm sure a lot of men here often wonder what we have to deal with at times.

I have been reading these posts and shaking my head, call me naive but I never thought you ladies would have to endure such Neanderthal behaviour. I am looking forward to engaging in my first visit with a lovely companion. I will be nervous, shy, excited and appreciative but never disrespectful. I can't understand the need to be a bully or conduct oneself as a jackass. I hope you find many more gentleman than you do otherwise.

That bloody show is finally pull off from A&E! http://titsandsass.com/ae-pulls-8-minutes-from-the-air/

Please use the little shot glasses I have provided for mouthwash instead of drinking out of the bottle while you have the door shut in the bathroom. I have to throw out my mouthwash as a result. I always appreciate those who use the little plastic cups. Going to the bathroom for a number one and using my towel hung on the back of the door to wipe yourself or your hands. Use the towel sitting on that counter that is provided. Calling me three times asking for Monica. I am Nicki. When reading ads, please make sure you have the correct name and phone number. Posted via Mobile Device

Here's the link of a story I just came across. It's sad but at the same time beautiful and I think explains the struggle of mental disorders very well.

Thank you for this post. I'm sure most if not all of us have someone who has mental health problems or even suffer from it themselves. Mental Health Awareness is a lot more important that many imagine, I recently opened a group to discuss topics about it or simply find support. If anyone wants to join it send me a request. If someone here needs the support but doesn't want to post in the group feel free to PM me and I'll post on your behalf.

Texts that go like this...."hi I read your ad on such and such, may I see a pic and can you tell me the rate?" If you actually saw my ad, there are numerous pics and as short as the verbiage is it does include the rates! Oh, and for the record, some half hour appointments can be supremely hot just as some multi hour appointments can be extremely tedious!

When a gentlemen calls we have a conversation book a time and about 20 minutes later I receive a call that he has to cancel something has come up....I'm pretty good with my intuition and i just smell b.s ....I honestly feel at times some men shop around for rates book with a lady and still shop around for cheaper then cancels the confirmed appointment Trust me I realize that life happens and I do respect that but at times I honestly feel other wise and its very frustrating especially when you get ready for the appointment or have to postpone or put off another possible booking Please shop around check rates and services offered then call to book!

I rarely if ever wear make-up ever, the only product I use daily is stilla 10 in 1 HD beauty balm. And the odd lip gloss. Summer is definitely the time if you wear makeup to not wear any and enjoy the fresh look of summer on your face from a day in the sun :)

I agree with Amber & Nicolette, I had made the mistake of not communicating certain things with the first lady I ever saw, It just made explaining the whole situation when I just met them a bit awkward and made me not as relaxed as I could have been. She was so wonderful and sweet about it :icon_smile: After that first time, when booking with someone new, I would let them know ahead of time and they were always so understanding and I would receive nothing but supportive and positive messages back from them. Luckily my issues seem to have resolved itself, I chalk it up to nerves mostly. As long as you are being respectful, you're doing it right.;)

Being a compassionate person with my clients, I find it good for them to open up to me whether it's beforehand letting me know of their concerns especially if they feel vulnerable or nervous as opposed to not being open where self preservation is concerned. In sessions, I always try to make the client feel comfortable but if there was something bothering them or something wasn't happening because for various reasons in their life and I didn't know about it, I would be perplexed. As long as I know I did my best to make the client feel comfortable and welcome, there is only a certain point because I'm not an intrusive person either. It also helps to find a provider and have a conversation on the phone so you can gain an idea of what their personality is like. I do this with clients and instantly I have an idea of what they will be like and I'm usually right. If I don't like what I hear, I excuse myself and decline the appointment. I will always give the client a chance to communicate their fears, doubts or worries. I don't find this being needy. What I would find needy is someone not respecting my time or not knowing the boundaries outside of a session or constantly emailing or texting wanting to talk. When a client communicates up front, I am able to know how to provide them with the session that they are looking for rather than it being a guessing game. A client is always worth the effort especially if you have a chance to help them with whatever it is they are going through but also respect the lady's boundaries at the same time.

I've been extremely fortunate... being born in Canada.. lived here in freedom and relative safety.. being able to go to school.. turning on the tap and having clean water.. indoor "mr flushie".. all the conveniences of 'modern life'. Having spent time overseas in third-world nations (in both combat and civilian roles) makes me feel blessed. Giving back to the community is a huge thing for me.. helping those who need help. Donating to a food bank.. helping out at a community garden (those plots of land that the city allocates so folks can grow their own veggies).. donating blood.. buying a coffee for the car behind you at the drive-thru.. things that make folks smile. The thing that brings the biggest smile to this half-century old face of mine?? Donating time.. being there for others.. sometimes complete strangers. I'm a single parent and I take my teenage daughter with me to three seniors homes a month so she can spend an hour entertaining them by playing the piano. The pure joy on the faces of the residents is the reason my daughter and I are seven feet tall for the rest of the day. Giving of oneself is the best gift and at least for me, a source of strength and reward. CM

What are your rates? No Hi how are you nothing .... Just what are your rates Common courtesy is free to use just saying Tired of the one word texts and no introductions Not a very good first impression in my books

I'm watching a documentary about sex work and it is bringing up a lot of feelings. It is looking at some of the most vulnerable women in the industry and different perspectives... And all I can think about is wanting to have millions of dollars so I can create non-profit organizations to help with housing problems, detox if they want detox, and even a booking agency that workers can use to screen clients on their behalf, to book drivers, to rent apartments... There is so much people could do, so much we could do, if our goverment didn't suck so much and if people actually cared about the safety of sex workers.

Indeed this is a topic that is important. My dearest friend has suffered many years through different diagnosis, medications and doctors. I also had a dear uncle who has now passed who suffered with Alzheimer disease . The medical system is brutal to those with conditions. She isn't wealthy and has been treated, in my opinion, horribly. I've seen her change from a bright and contributing human being to a paranoid and angry person and needing support. For friends and loved ones of those with illnesses it certainly can be a challenge and sometimes one to great to bear. Some of the medications they give them can cause so many other issues, weight gain, the most minor, bladder problems, skin issues, severe mood swings etc, are just a few. I am empathetic and sympathetic to all who live with, are friends with or related to anyone with a mental disorder. There is no greater struggle.

I totally agree re Felina. She's one of the top two or three escorts in Winnipeg and is also an excellent massage provider. Giselle is a post op tranny. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but I believe transsexual providers should be upfront about their status. I'm sure there's a market for them. There are three, possibly four, transsexual massage providers in Winnipeg who advertise regularly. Only one of them (not Giselle) advertises as transsexual.

I use to think and be the exact same way. Keeping everything bottled up and taking care of others first instead of grieving myself. One day it became too much and the wall I build holding all those emotions came crashing down. I have not been the same since. I now feel every emotion, so much stronger and way more intense, it's not something I recommend. Now instead of me controlling my emotions, my emotions often control me and coping can be very difficult at times.

This is a very important topic and worthy of much discussion, especially due to the pervasive stigma surrounding the mentally ill in society today. As I later found out, two of my ex-girlfriends were afflicted with disorders which affected their day to day functioning and ultimately our relationship. It was sad, and still causes me a lot of grief. Both those ladies are wonderful people, yet are faced with uphill struggles on a daily basis through no fault of their own. After all, no one asks to have a mental illness...

Some guy books an appt 5 days ago...never confirms, no text nothing so I just called it a no show...the same guy texts me today asking "weren't you suppose to come to Moncton...Duh!!! yes I went and left. He says I was waiting for your text...yeah right 5 days after you Wake up!! Do not expect a reminder for our appt...you have the responsibility of confirming. Shaking my head....

Half hour rates are NOT half of the hourly rate. The discounts start on multi multiple hour encounters. The more time you book, that's when the rate goes down. I have a minimum rate to see you. Please don't make an assumption. If you are not sure of the rates, please ask.

I've always liked the minimal approach for any season :) Always found the natural look so sweet & beautiful. Mind you, it doesn't bother me if she has full on makeup either. I'm spending time with her because I enjoy her company, not because of the amount of makeup she has on, well unless she has so much on she looks like the joker. That would be a bit too distracting ;) Either way, full or bare, women are still my favourite! <3

Okay! So yeah lol When I have pictures posted in my ads but yet i get asked for pics because he cannot make them out on his phone(ummm no) Same guy by the way...gotta love pic collectors Positive energy people xo

Well I can say, I love 30 min sessions hahaha, Like wow it is 1030 am, fresh out of shower and my phone rings... Next thing you know I have the greatest 30 min ever, no long extended txt or arrangement or anything, and BAM we both are happy:) I think it is sexy as hell! Not saying I do not appreciate long engagements, that we can really have an experience that is heavenly together, one that takes weeks or days to prepare for, but there is something so much fun about the spontaneous fun adventure a 30 min session brings! Keep 'em, coming :) Yaaahooo lol BTW, is awesome Ice 4 fun enjoys hours and such, not sure if he was condescending so to say, but ya to each there own I believe in:) Type txt can be so hard sometimes, on both ends. My turn off is when someone is booking a massage and wont lie down to enjoy it, but is trying to twist and turn and wants to ...I dunno stare, I am like " come on hun I really want you to have a nice massage because that is what you booked me for, I will save you a good 20 min at the end;) Anyways, back to my deck for more sun:)

I suffer from a mild case of rosacea on my cheeks but it is pretty much gone after taking a prescribed pill and laser treatments. I dont like to wear a lot of makeup during the day. I wear sunscreen with zinc oxide, a creamy makeup primer and a light liquid foundation with light eye shadow in beiges and pinks with rosy colored lipstick and mascara. For nighttime and I'm not outside, I like to do smokey eye makeup. I dont use a lot,of,translucent powder because it makes my face,look dry. Posted via Mobile Device

HELLOOOOO Everyone!! My name is Dominique & I'm a tanned & toned sexy brunette MA at Vibe! I'm fairly new to the massage industry but I'm very ready to rock your world! I'm a down to earth, natural beauty that will make you feel completely at ease during our time together. I'm Available Today! Now until 10pm for some sensual private time with you! I'm Also Available On: Wednesday from 4:30pm-10pm Friday from 4:30pm-10pm & Sunday from 2pm-10pm! Here Is A Link To My Brand New Recommendation Thread! Please Call Vibe At 613 680 8059 To Reserve Our Time Together or Feel Free To PM Me With Any Questions You May Have! xoxo

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 613 712 1200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm

Less is best for summertime. The best remedies and protections for nice skin are sunscreen and drinking water, especially with lemon. I have oily skin and don't tan so a powder for me is a must. Cornstarch works great for blotting. I also like lip gloss and mascara. For a date however I like an erotic look, and love "making up " as part of my getting ready, eye make up and lips especially:)

Mine is working now.

Hi! I'm Kristie! Your Busty Blonde Girl From Quebec! If you are looking for a sexy sensual good time... I am the one you need to see. I'm a French woman with a really nice 36D so you know that I'm a great girl :wink: I have beautiful curves & a beautiful smile... I'm Available: TODAY: From 11:15am until 4pm! ***** & Thursday from 10am-10pm & Saturday from 10am-4pm! I offer you a sensual body slide massage...like no other: I promise you will love my soft hands and body. If you want to relax and have a good time...Don't be shy to come see me... Call 613 680 8059 to book with me or for more info visit my profile! Come visit me at Vibe and you'll be happy for the rest of the week :wink: Here are some of my Cerb Recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=K&t=162612 xxx K

I met Princess Diana as part of Girl Guides years ago when she visited Canada and she was definitely an Earth Angel. I use this term because she had this childlike, empathetic quality about her towards others but I could also sense she was in a constant tug of war with the media and her work for mankind like she wanted to be herself but couldn't because of the pressure from being a public figure. She definitely had more substance about her than just being a fashion icon. Looking back, she had this higher vibration about her like she really was here to give love and compassion to those here on Earth. I believe she was a light worker but I digress. She had given a lot to the world other than the dress she was wearing but because she had that loving, compassionate qualities for mankind, this radiated even more when you would see her in the media. When a person is beautiful on the inside, it has to choice but to show itself on the outside. This is simply Diana. The media is all about ego based thoughts and fake. By all accounts, Diana raised and instilled good values in Prince William and Prince Harry. Princess Kate was raised in a very grounded loving family and I'm sure they will continue to do the same for their new family. Her parents would never just let her be a public figure for the fashion world. There is more to that family than meets the eye. Sometimes watching t.v. now is just b.s lol. There is more to life than just what someone is wearing. I'm sure this little baby will grow up to be a smart, compassionate and caring woman.

The last thing I purchased was a few items: frozen pizza (I love frozen pizza) mints, coconut water, and gatorade. Nothing special. Posted via Mobile Device

A beautiful sunny, dry and warm 28C accompanied by a soothing wind! A perfect day :)

This is always a losing battle. In every business bad companies and/or people will always exist. While it is frustrating, there is nothing you can do. People will do some pretty low down and dirty things to get ahead but it won't be for long term. These people will be exposed as those who aren't good to do business with and the more they scheme, the more they think they can get away with it. Their arrogance towards what they think they are getting away with will ALWAYS trip them up eventually but one day they will meet their match. I won't get into the specifics of what some people do to get clients ( i.e undercutting) as that has been a sore subject for me in the past and have had to let it go. Like yourself, I am experienced in this business and have seen the changes before my very own eyes. However, like I said people who are unsavory do not stick around long term in the business or any business for that matter. The fly by nights will always only have short term gain and have to keep moving. The ones who win are those business people who focus on themselves and what they have to offer to their clientele. It is inevitable by doing so will garner them a favorable reputation. In the long run this will work in your favor and on your terms that your clients will respect. There may be clients who go and see these type of business people and lose money in the short term because they are thinking they will be getting a good deal or the situation looks appealing but there is always a caveat with the crowd you mentioned and that is the examples you listed above. Focus on yourself and who you want to attract. By maintaining the positives in your business, there will be no choice but to give back what you have projected to your clientele. I promise by doing so, it will come back in a very nice way that is always surprising. ;)

New poster here, but frequently go to Ness. I've had sessions with Linda, Lisa, Rose, Red and another girl, who's name escapes me that is small and shortish hair, and left happy with them all. Rose is the best massage by far. As for four hand massage, all of the girls listed above will accompany each other to leave you happy. I have also had a massages with Emily and Lily and neither leave you happy, but you can ask to bring someone else in to finish you off. They also accommodate short notices very well. Only thing I don't particularly like is after a while my face gets sore from resting on the towels.

Wondering why mayweather has the burger king guy with him ????

Plain and simple - I4F you post was condescending towards those who book 30mins. Not everyone one is a multi hour booking, yet not all 30mins bookings are disrespectful of a ladies time. While its great you need to remind everyone that you only book longer dates, in reality - it does not need to be mentioned - unless your going to partake in a shorter date you really have no need to comment on a ladies annoyance of a shorter date disrespecting her time. - when you have no idea in reality of what it is. I don't offer shorter dates, so I choose not to comment on threads that don't relate to me or what I offer. Your post was ignorant and unnecessary. Just Emily's Opinion

Well, I always introduce myself with my first name, my age, where I am located, where I saw the ladies ad and, if it relates in any way, my screen name here or somewhere else. It's just a simple courtesy and there is absolutely no danger involved. I don't understand the fear or concern of this, never did. Hell, I'd tell you all here my first name and never worry for a minute. PS. Sorry that I haven't been around posting for a while. I should contribute more to the community. Anyway, hope everyone is enjoying spring and having lots of fun. :icon_wink: Tis that time of year. A little early yet but an old poem goes.... Hurray, hurray, the first of May. Outdoor screwing begins today. :tongue:

Kind sincere words from a friend when I really need them. My three Siamese cats, My 11 year old nephew, I get to relive my life again and he reminds me of the joy and mystery in the world. The hope of spring and plans for new flowers, gardens and just the joys of learning about gardening . I'm a late learner with an expert teacher. A better relationship with my mother, neither of us are here indefinitely, I am cherishing out time together. My belief in the spirit world and the comfort it brings, truly this is the area that makes most sense to me. The possibility each day brings. Additional Comments: All good points Cristy, I love my cats because they don't drink my wine. They look at me like I'm the smartest person ever and all they want is love and to sleep at my feet. Can't beat that!!

The positive energy of a woman's smile - very special women - Alexxandria, Eva Laperle, Bianca Jaguar, Eden Nymphettt... Smiles from such wonderful women fill my universe with positive energy and I love it :)

Hi I'm living in Pembroke now please when calling mention cerb also I rarely check mail so to book today call or text me I'm friendly fun I Start with a massage 5"7 115 petite and very pretty perhaps your visiting are Lovely city. ... What a great way to unwind so book with me today this is a Ottawa # 1 613 793 2219 see you soon

In addition to those listed here are a few more that are reasonably priced, clean and sp friendly with regard to easy and discrete access, access to some after 12 midnight may require buzzing to get in but otherwise for daytime and evening play they're great. The chateau is rather pricey and rarely offers deals so any provider working from there may charge more to cover there additional costs. Chimo on St Laurent Albert at Bay Suites Radison Queen & Bay National Queen & Bay Extended Stay Cooper & Cartier Holiday Inn Cooper & Cartier Marriot Queen & Kent Indigo Laurier & Metcalfe These are outside the downtown core but also sp friendly and reasonably priced. Hilton Lac Lemay Ramada Casino Chateau Cartier Keep in mind though that Ottawa is a tourist destination so pricing and availability can be costly and difficult around certain festivals over the summer period.

Rule#1: Respect. Have it, know it, meditate on it and personify it. Other rules to ensure a good time: Be clean, like very clean, like very very clean, like bleachy clean - shower, bathe, then shower again and use copious amounts of soap on ALL parts of your body. Rinse well because you never know where lips or a tongue may end up! Communicate. Don't just talk, but listen as well. If you have certain expectations, then POLITELY express them and I'm sure that you will be politely told what is and isn't available. If an SP says not to do something - then just don't do it, end of story - don't try to talk her into it, you will both feel worse for it. Be fun, have fun.