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Like many of the married man here I am happy in my marriage but lack the intimacy with my wife. I don't want the wham bam thank you mam' kind of sex, I look for finer things that a lady can bring me. I love kissing and holding a lady close to me and to be appreciated for being me. I'm a bit eccentric but isn't that a quality? I have been a member here since 2008 because the girls I have seen from other site where just that "girls". NJ

Greetings, sisters and brothers, I would like to suggest a forum for how you came to be involved in the business. I trust I'm not repeating anything, but I have found that many of the people on Lyla/CERB are very interesting. I would love to hear your story. That includes the clients, too. I am sure that they have a story to tell. My story begins when I was a child. I was born in England. My mother always told us to respect working women, because they provided a valuable service. That attitude has prevailed my entire life. That life has been rich, fulfilling, and successful in the real world. As an older woman, I found myself becoming a counterpart to mature, successful men. A connection of mutual choice on an intellectual, sexual and even spiritual level, without the dross of expectation. Simply put, I love men. Compensation is the boundary. What is your story? What brings you here; motivates and stimulates you? Why do you love what you do? I'd love to hear your story. Cheers, Ann XXX

Being the East Coast .. I was born out of wedlock and legally adopted by my grandparents in NL .. life with them was perfect .. i had and did everything a child would want but they never told me that they were sick .. I was 15 when I said good-bye to both of them .. Yes .. 6 weeks apart .. Cancer is cruel .. well I was soo scared that welfare would take me and put me in a foster home .. I hitch-hiked of the island to Halifax .. 15, scared, broke, and ALONE .. well .. i went the catholic church on Spring Garden Road ( I was raised in a strict Catholic Home ) to ask for help .. within a day I had a job 11 - 7 at Tim Horton's by the base and went to high school by day and struggled to pay for food and a rooming house in MusGrave Park .. Well, I graduated high school and joined the military to have stability but lack friends and adult guidance .. i met 2 lovely ladies in my apt bldg who danced and we became friends, they knew i wanted a 2nd job so they invited me down to the local strip bar to apply as a waitress LOL .. well the regular patrons put money down to see me naked .. haha .. boy it was scarey yet exciting and for the first time since my parents died .. I FELT IN CONTROL .. POWERFUL .. That power has taken me across Canada and USA as a feature Attraction dancer, of course .. it never was enough .. so magazine shoots, soft porn, voyaguer cam shows, Seeking Arrangements, to the " Escort High Life " lol .. The people whom I have met during my 30 years in the sex industry has been from all walks of life and each and everyone of them has taught me something and has touched my life .. I hope that i will continue this road for a few years still and meet many of you fine people of LylaLand .. Thanks for listening xo

I was with my wife for 24 years, happily married for 17 of those. I truly believed that we would grow old together, but unfortunately life has a way of throwing a monkey wrench in your plans. She past away almost exactly a year ago from a rare form of cancer. She was diagnosed 6 years ago, even though they said it hadn't spread and they were confident everything was out, it came back 3 years later...& it came back with a vengeance. Our marriage wasn't perfect but like every relationship there are ups & downs, I had always remained faithful to her and never had a sliver of doubt during those bad times that I still wouldn't spend the rest of my life with her. She was the Yin to my Yang, we couldn't be more opposite lol! but I truly & deeply loved her, even after 24 years together she was still able to give me butterflies whenever I would glance over and look at her or especially during our intimate times together ;) The last year of her illness we couldn't be intimate with each other (cancer was in her bones) which I was fine with especially considering everything she was going through. A few months after she passed I started going through what I call "Affection Withdrawal", I'm a touchy feel person by nature, love hugging, kissing, holding, etc.. all the good stuff :). I really didn't want to start the dating scene just yet or even go to bars or clubs to pick up women either (not really my thing anyway), so I looked into the Escorting world. Now I'm not going to lie and say it wasn't for the sex but it wasn't 100% for the sex, I was just missing holding & caressing someone. I was fortunate enough to have a very sweet Escort as my first encounter, which made me see this lifestyle in a completely different light. I was also very quick to realize that 1 hour dates were way to short :) Like I've mentioned on other threads, seeing Escorts has helped me and brought me back to happy :D I have been getting the itch to get into another relationship lately though. I am far from being needy but I just miss having that connection with someone and it would be nice to have someone around without having to book an appointment to see them :icon_razz: When I do find that special someone it will be really difficult to lose touch with some of the wonderful women that I see somewhat regularly in this business. I have gotten to know some of them really well.

I first joined here when things weren't great at home. ...lacking affection, mostly. I kinda just lurk, but really enjoy reading people's posts here. I love the openness of such a usually taboo subject. I'm a man of very few words usually so I don't post much at all. I've never booked anyone's services yet for a few reasons. First, I'm very very picky because I don't plan to make it a hobby. So if there is one that might be it. I might try to fit a few outstanding bucket list items so I need to pick wisely... But things are getting better at home now so who knows... I'll play that by ear I guess. I still find the discussions interesting so I might stick around a while.

Oh my "it's raining men" is my all time favorite!!! Additional Comments: and this one...

Having a friend who you can be honest with and who "gets it"! Bonus if you meet this friend through Lyla!:icon_biggrin:

I met her a few weeks ago on her last visit. She is real . Pictures real,

I'll be back over there soon guys :)

In my case...life through a few curve balls at me.. I had a great job for years but wasn't happy so I quit and opened my own business but after 5 yrs it didn't work out anymore so I started doing webcam. In 2011 my photographer showed me a website of a lady stating that she had taken her pictures...I was in Ahhhh!!! At that moment, I knew I was gonna be a provider one day...VJ was my inspiration :) Almost a year after I started webcam...I met Carrie Moon...and here I am today...Thanks to you Carrie xxx I worked with people all my life interacting with the public...I was once called Miss PR (public relation) lol... This work brings out the best in me! That's my story... Bianca

I have been a client in this industry for well over 20 years... I started primarily as a bit of fun when I traveled for work... many of my coworkers would hit the bars when we were on the road drinking and hoping to pick up someone for the night... I was married and this never really appealed to me so I would often head off to the casino or the strip clubs (ok ok more often the strip club) I considered this harmless fun and frankly got to meet some amazing ladies this I think naturally transitioned into seeing escorts which has in my opinion been great fun. I am older now and approaching retirement in the last 10 years our family has experienced some significant challenges which undoubtedly has impacted the relationship between my wife and I. I love her as must as I ever did and will never leave her... she will always be the one true love of my life but our situation has changed and the companionship that once was there is not any longer so I have sought it more frequently with wonderful companions in this industry. I have met so many wonderful ladies some of which I can honestly say have made a dramatic impact on my life... this industry with all its negative images and stereotypes has so many amazing.... giving... caring participants... so many other sectors of our community could learn a thing or two about life from the ladies of Lyla. As I do head into retirement I hope i have many more years of meeting people in this industry. Just my opinion.

Hello,I am Sebastion and am new to CERB but far from new to this type of forum.My subject for today is Mary.I discovered her from a wonderful set of waterfall pictures. I usually never write or participate in these types of assessments but feel compelled to do so. I met Mary a month or so ago and have seen her 6 or 7 times,some for multiple hours so I feel confident that I can give an accurate and truthful recommendation for this beautiful and intelligent young lady. The 1st date was in a hotel room which does not lend itself that personal touch but Mary's hosting abilities soon steered me past those awkward stages of the 1st meeting .The first thing I noticed was the unique shaping of her dark blonde hair style,some of the hair was directed over the rear of her head and I found it sexy and rather unique,this was adorned with medium sized gold hoop ear rings,coincidentally my favourite,its as if she was custom made to suit my every desire,incredible !She was dressed in a short form fitting black skirt and an equally captivating blouse that complimented the skirt.Every clothing article appeared to be very carefully chosen to accent her magnificent body. Mary has exceptional breasts topped up with long firm erect nipples that get very hard when aroused. Another thing I took note of was the hour glass shape,some women have it but lack the nice butt to go with it,she has both in perfect proportions,nice buns to grab a hold of,just an awesome bum.I was instantly under her spell. We chatted and bantered back and forth with the usual get acquainted conversation.I could tell I was in the presence of a very intelligent lady,and this was extremely refreshing.While doing this I scanned her body from top to bottom.She wore dress sandals and her toes were perfectly manicured and painted with a beautiful pink shade of polish.She had the same matching polish on her fingers,and they displayed the same well cared for and maintained appearance(and this is very important to me).A beautiful women should appear as such and she is a master at this.I gazed into her face and there were those "bedroom eyes",we gentlemen all know what those look like.They were capped off with perfectly plucked clearly defined eyebrows that displayed her impeccable attention to detail and perfection.I could also tell she had even curled and touched up her eyelashes.Her body had a golden honey like hue from ample tanning,no lines whatsoever,several tasteful piercings and a couple of low key tattoos strategically placed.What an exceptionally beautiful young lady.The only thing missing were a set of wings ! Mary and I discussed how she recently completed a mountain climbing expedition to Mt.Carleton,the highest point in the maritime provinces.She had a special photographer friend accompany her.They both carried back packs with heels,lingerie and accessories all the way to the top of the mountain. A very determined young lady,she wants to show everyone she has what it takes to "make it to the top".I guess the poor photographer friend being older had a hard time keeping up to her.I know myself Mary has unbridled energy,somewhat similar to the energizer bunny. The next step of our get together rolled along and Mary treated me to some oral pleasures second to none,in fact as painful as it was, I had to get her to stop otherwise I would have ruined the next stage,then came the main event.I was titillating with anticipation where this was going to go,I was so into it and in such a state of arousal, I was just lost in bliss I guess the word is. Mary pushed me down on the bed and thus began what was the best "lady on top" mattress Olympics I have ever participated in.I tease her regularly about being a gold medallist in this new Olympic event. The only drawback in this event for me was the fact that I am more of a "short sprinter". For a "marathoner", Mary would be a gift from God. My thoughts on this are that for an "agency girl" Mary is also the best I have ever encountered.I am very respectful of the time limits I have allocated ,and never have ever felt the slightest hint of being rushed,or that there is clock watching on her part.I guess I took that bull by the horn and I am the one cognisant of the time. This also is what sets Mary apart from others.I can do or say nothing more about my encounters with Mary other that they keep getting more and more exciting as time progresses and I cherish the time spent with her deeply,and await my next encounter with her in deep heartfelt anticipation Sebastion C

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I have a few... Texas Hippie Coalition: "Turn It Up" Def Leppard: "Pour Some Sugar On Me" Benny Benassi: "Satisfaction"

Sexual Healing - Marvin Gaye

I've never changed my name once since I started as a working girl. (Almost 7 years ago) But I understand those who have. Sometimes people in their personal lives find out, if they were hiding it, or it's for their protection. I was a lucky one though. my name fit me and I haven't had any reason to change it based off my personality. I've noticed friends of mine who have changed their names for this reason.

Yep... I get your point totally.... people need to respect the wishes of the people they are intimate with... if i expect a lady to respect my privacy I need to respect hers.

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I bought a new bra with matching panties and garter and of the stcokings :)

Bella is younger.

Good morning, Thank you for the wonderful visit back in Sudbury. It was great to be back and catch up with friends. I look forward to seeing you again soon. xoxo Emily

Bon Matin messieurs I will be available tomorrow evening starting at 6pm in Bells corner. Last chance this week ! Come enjoy an exciting body to body experience with your French temptress. No taboo. Only pleasure. Soapy shower Deep tissue massage Body slides Reverse massage Sensuality And so much more.... grrrr Don't be shy to contact me via pm or text message at 613-261-4169 for booking or info about my services. Recommendations: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=37195 Don't wait until last minute and pre book your appointment. Specials for booking via cerb Have a great day Xoxo Lany

Jungle green loose cotton boxer shorts - it's another hot and humid day here in equatorial Ottawa!

I find it interesting that there is a watermark in the corner of the photo and people are still asking if it's legit? A little research reveals many things.

is Bella a younger gal or older? Phoenix doesnt seem to give any endings...

Happy Belated Birthday Nicolette! How did I miss this?

These sweeps have been going on for a long time. They targeted street workers after businesses have complained. Nothing new. However, I'm still blown away by guys that continue to insist on asking specifics. They want details, they want to know what is provided. Even after I specify no details, they still ask if X is provided. They've just solicited a sexual service, and therefore are at risk if I was an undercover officer, of being arrested. So, even though they are targeting street workers, everyone needs to realize that they are still at risk ANYTIME they solicit a sexual service. I'm still perplexed at sites that allow graphic discussions/reviews of details. Time and companionship guys - stop asking for details and stop bragging about details. Think with your big head please. There are no code words anymore, there are no easy ways to find out details. Time and companionship. Frankly I'm grateful I no longer have to discuss specifics. I don't want to see these guys. If they can't figure it out, they really need a lesson. Unfortunately, the lesson can be costly for them.

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Thanks, Johnnybird. It`s good to know that our gals made a difference! ;)

I don't know what a minimum time would be, but I like to shave ahead of a rendezvous and usually do so at least a day, more often two days before. I figure that way if I do nick myself, even small ones I don't notice, they'll have plenty of time to heal up. And unlike the face area, I find I stay pretty smooth for a good four-five days, so I'm still quite smooth for any encounters. As LuxeMulvari says, a good new razor is a must though. The one time I got razor burn down there is not an experience I'm eager to repeat!

Self-abuse while driving is very distracting and unsafe, and that is why I only jerk my chicken at the rest areas. hehe

This time of year, I usually wear low cut dresses and find myself touching my chest a lot while driving. It's a nice soothing feeling. I love my boobs and how they feel. Sadly they are disappearing on me now. Posted via Mobile Device

I love driving and I love touching myself, but never both at the same time, (I don't think I'd be able to focus enough to drive while doing so.) This is why it's always great to have someone who can drive for me, for those occasions when driving/traffic is so boring that I'd rather be playing with myself.. and yes, it happens. ;)

In Ontario it could be expensive now as it might be considered distracted driving. LOL

I've had to deal with the misfortune of changing my name... I actually miss my name, but due to stalkers and some ill intended people I had to sadly give it up and my old number... I wish people could just move on with their lives and let everyone else live theirs peacefully... However yes I agree frequent name and number changes maybe an indication of red flags I agree with most on here to check the cowboy diaries. Cowboy Kenny is insightful and ontop of the game when it comes to fakes..

It can be suspicious, it can be benign A lady who worked for a agency and then goes independent may have to change her name A lady who has a stalker may change her name (one I know had to do this three times) It may be an innocent case of a lady who just wants to change her name, just for a change It can also be the case of a bad companion getting a bad reputation, and decides to change her name to give herself a "fresh start" RG

Can be a red flag... for me Peace MG

<p>I had no choice but to change my working name that was very well known in the business after being away for a couple of years. While I had let the domain name expire, I came back to find it was now a dating website for married people similar to Ashley Madison. I didn't want people to think I was associates with this site so a name change was in order. I actually like the name Nicki or Nicole better. Suits me more. I prefer people call me Nicki instead of Nicolette. Sounds VERY formal. Great for professional name but Nicki sounds more approachable. While many independent ladies change names from time to time, those who ate less established and constantly changing names and phone numbers will raise red flags. Some may be doing this to get away from someone or they have pulled a boat and switch and landed up on the Cowboy Diary. Rightfully so if they are using fake pictures. Always go with your gut, use tin eye as a resource to check and make sure they aren't some sort of internet modeling picture.

You should not brush or floss your teeth shortly before having sex. Instead use a mouthwash, breath mint or gum. Brushing or flossing your teeth can cause small amounts of bleeding on the gums. Since blood is a bodily fluid, this increases the risk to your partner. Simultaneously, it presents a risk to you since you now have an opening in the mucous membrane of your mouth through which infection can enter. Most sources I've read suggest a minimum of 30 minutes between brushing or flossing and having sex. This particular source is more conservative and recommends 2 hours. I should add that the risk of HIV transmission from oral sex is very low. In addition, there doesn't appear to be any certainty around the number of infections in which teeth brushing/flossing was the sole risk factor. Having said that it's an easy risk factor to eliminate simply by using mouthwash etc. I've attached a fact sheet on HIV and factors affecting HIV transmission. Here's a few essential quotes relevant to teeth brushing/flossing. HIV can get into the blood through breaks in the skin (for example, wounds or open sores) or by passing through a mucous membrane. Mucous membranes are tissues that line the surfaces of body cavities, such as the nostrils, mouth, throat, vagina, urethra, anus and rectum. Brushing or flossing teeth can cause minor cuts, abrasions and inflammation, which can increase the risk of HIV infection. It is advisable to avoid performing oral sex for up to two hours after brushing or flossing so the gums have a chance to heal. http://www.catie.ca/en/fact-sheets/prevention/hiv-transmission-overview

Should you be suspicious of the BP only Sp that change names and phone number each week and look like Victoria Secret model? Yes probably. However establish independent who have been around for a while and have good reviews no. Something it's rebranding , sometime the name just don't suit you anymore. I'm considering myself changing "family" name. A lot of women choose their first work name on a whim and it doesn't suit their personality As for the phone number...we lived in a society where your average teenager change phone each 11 months and adult each 17 months. Changing phone number isn't that uncommon especially when tit's a burner type phone

I brush my teeth at the beginning and end of each day and mouthwash before and after each client visits... Not brushing immediately before or after lowers your risk of infection and HIV transmission is what I was told by the health unit staff. All new tattoos, piercings and body mods should be covered for the first 10days during an encounter. After that avoid direct contact with bodily fluids. I always have a shower before a client and make sure to wash afterwards as well. Do not use regular soap on your genitals however. This can lead to a PH imbalance, BV and yeast infections. I like to go with the intimate wash from Summer's Eve (I get it at shoppers) Also use one hand on you and one hand on them I never apply lube to me with the same hand I applied to them. This helps prevent the spread of bacteria and sti's. Super easy steps that I have seen a lot of people miss. I also ask clients to avoid touching my intimate areas if they have touched themselves. Put out some sanitizer! I didn't do this for the first year I worked as an SP and was constantly getting sick. Colds, flu, viruses, strep... Bleh. Put out a bottle of hand sanitizer and boom! No more sick Kate! Saved me tonnes of time off and lots of money on prescriptions.

As an SP who used to go through names as often as underwear, it just took me a while to find the right fit for me... Some just didn't fit well with who I am as a provider and others were changed because of some personal stuff. I don't think it's really all the suspicious... Probably just rebranding or shuffling things up a little bit.

Nothing wrong with making a new name but in my opinion if it continuously happens I would wonder why

Sometimes it can be suspicious, and sometimes not. In my opinion I don't think it is. The SP has the right to change her name as often as she pleases no matter how confusing it may be. A simple reason for this could be something simply as rebranding themselves.

I could see maybe robots being programmed for specific acts but there is no way I would choose a robot if there is a real human available. I have never had any lovers that were exactly the same as any other and I prefer it that way. If I want something a certain precise way, I'll pull out the appropriate sex toy.

Everyone has a need for human touch and intimacy. Underneath it all and put the mechanics of sex aside, this is what humans crave. This is the one thing a robot cannot provide. How is one able to "connect" with a robot?

Nah, not for me. I can't help but think "how mechanical". Besides, what if the robotic SP decides to go all "West World" on my ass or other cherished body parts? Nope, it's the real thing or my left hand for me.

Does not feel right to me. I want to have a connection with the person of the opposite sex and I want to be able to cuddle after and have a conversation with her. Sure it might make some happy but not this guy. Sex is something you share with another human being. My opinion.