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Hi my darlings, Just a quick note to wish you gent & ladies Season's Greetings Joyeux Noël Feliz Navidad Warmest thoughts and best wishes for a wonderful holiday and a very happy & peaceful new year. How to have an awesome holiday season! 1. Give into Temptation 2. Cherish your loved ones (& send your best wishes to that old friend of yours) 3. Live in the moment 4. Unwrap, Taste & Experience ALL your gifts 5. Don't forget dessert :wink: Really, I just want the person reading this to be healthy, happy & loved! ;) Btw, I AM NOW ON TWITTER ! I just created a new account on Twitter (finally, I know). Take a second to Follow me (EvaLaperleVIP) & for a sneak peek of my next adventures, candid pictures & sexy teasers Truth is, you'll find not a dirty mind but a sexy imagination & distracting pictures like this one Remember, I don't bite, I kiss ! Happy holidays once again, and don't forget dessert ;) See you in 2016 Warmly, Eva L.

The quick answer is that yeah you might get refused by some ladies but frankly I kinda think that for a respectful gentleman there is certainly enough ladies out there that you would find many that would be fine with the fact that you don't have a cell. I note that your post is in the Halifax thread so assuming you are in that area I would suggest you could check out: Midnite-Energies... who has an email contact link on her website or can be contacted by PM here on LYLA http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=77835 www.rawr4u.com Or MsManda ...who has an email contact link on her website or can be contacted by PM here on LYLA http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=75468 www.msmanda.com/ Sierra ...who has an email contact link and phone number on her website or can be contacted by PM here on LYLA http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=24762 http://sierra-halifaxescort.com/ Katherine ...who has an email contact link on her website or can be contacted by PM here on LYLA http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=29603 http://www.sensualkatherine.net/ In January Autumn Raine Will be visiting Halifax...who has an email contact link and phone number on her website or can be contacted by PM here on LYLA once she gets back from her Christmas Vacation http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=110704 www.autumnraine4u.com And only a short distance from Halifax there is Maraena http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208 http://www.maraenablackwell.com/ And that's just who I can recommend I am sure with a little research you can find more. I hope you meet a great lady... I don't think not having a cell phone will stop you :)

Cleanliness and freshness is something I pride myself on.I expect my clients to be this way, why would I not be? Fresh breath is always a plus, especially for that first kiss. Being a non-smoker, I do notice when someone is a smoker, but at least they have taken the time to try to be as fresh as possible. As for the other 'areas', lingering odor would be a real turn off for me, and if I wasn't squeaky clean down there, I'm pretty damn sure that gentleman would never want to see me again. Hygiene is a huge issue, I tell people, treat it like a first date, remember how obsessed you got with trying to get everything right? brushing your teeth a couple of times, checking your breath multiple times, combing your hair ten different times, changing your clothes several times to make sure you have on just the right clothes? Being with us is like that. I treat everyone like a first date when they first meet me. Yes I still get nervous when meeting someone for the first time, but I make them feel at ease while they are here.

After all the time spent booking a new client if he enters my suite and is uncomfortable he owes more than a tip. I have done everything in my power to ensure a guests comfort, I have a lovely suite for him to relax in, have refreshments and prepared to engage in non threatening conversation. I would expect nothing less than my full donation as I have done nothing wrong.

The 45 minute option is my most popular offering for new clients especially when touring. I think it's for those clients who may not need or can't afford or can't get away for an hour but where 30 minutes is not quite enough time. Those who respond and book tell me they are pleased I offer this. Instead of offering 15 minutes, I prefer to offer early bird half hour specials. It works for me. I find it offensive that some people judge those who do offer 15 minutes or specials, that doing so makes them less than. We all have our reasons for doing what we do. For example I do not visit clients at hotels or residences past 10-11 pm for my own reasons. However, I try and not judge those who work later because there is a market for that. But at this point I say been there, done that and not within my comfort zone. In summary, I'd have to say 45 minute appointments are my good luck charm.

If I gentleman "walks away" after arriving or cancels at the last minute then I would expect that the full payment should be made. The exception to this would be in situations where the reason for the decision not to continue is because of something which is the responsibly of the lady (bait and switch, lady not available at agreed upon time) but frankly in my experience these are the exception especially if you are booking with reputable ladies. When someone cancels on or two days before a booking then the gentleman should follow the ladies cancellation policy which is normally some lower cancellation fee or no charge in my experience. Cancellation especially for touring ladies can be exceptionally challenging and can turn a potentially lucrative trip into a loss so it is a serious issue and this should be understood by us guys when we are booking. That said it is equally important for ladies to understand that sometimes situations change (not referring to walk aways just cancellations in general) and that there will be cancellations... they are part of the business so have a clear though out and fair policy for clients. I have had the experience where I had to cancel a booking with a very well established lady who was touring St. John's but when I contacted the lady about a 5 days before our date to tell her I needed to cancel and I asked her about her cancellation policy she gave me considerable grief which frankly is just not appropriate... I had never met this person before so there was no history on which to base her behavior. I call with plenty of time and asked about her policy and still got grief. As for deposits... I totally understand why ladies would look for a deposit especially for longer duration bookings but frankly I would never give a deposit to a lady I have not met before but respect that it might be necessary for ladies to structure their business in this matter. I have learned over years that paying upfront can be problematic. Just My Opinion

phone number 807****152 location: cumberland she calls you then after 5 mins in some big native guy comes and starts beating the shit out of you. fucking crazy. stay from this place.

Something I've found to be quite useful is to say something like, "Do you mind if I ask <insert question here>". If she's OK with the subject then she can answer the question, but you've also given her an obvious and non-awkward way to just say, "Sorry, I prefer not to talk about that."

I'd prefer if Gentlemen did have a cell phone that way I can kind of confirm who they are, making sure that they aren't under age and its not some kids trying to prank me. I like to hear the Gentlemen's voice also. That way I can determine whether or not I want to go ahead with booking him or not. Some guys text and when I asked them to call they always say its not a good time. Those are usually the ones who send long never ending text msg's with the intent of not booking.

Dear Moncton, Freddy & Saint John, It's been way too long since I had the pleasure of visiting your lovely city! This being said, I can't wait to return in 2016 to see my dearest friends and make new ones as well :smile: Do get in touch with me if you'd like to see me this winter. In the meantime, enjoy new pics on my page Warmest thoughts and best wishes for a wonderful holiday and a very happy & peaceful new year. How to have an awesome holiday season! 1. Give into Temptation 2. Cherish your loved ones (& send your best wishes to that old friend of yours) 3. Live in the moment 4. Unwrap, Taste & Experience ALL your gifts 5. Don't forget dessert :wink: Btw, I AM NOW ON TWITTER ! I just created a new account on Twitter (finally, I know). Take a second to Follow me (EvaLaperleVIP) & for a sneak peek of my next adventures, candid pictures & sexy teasers Truth is, you'll find not a dirty mind but a sexy imagination & distracting pictures like this one Remember, I don't bite, I kiss ! Happy holidays once again, and don't forget dessert See you in 2016 Warmly, Eva L.

Since there is a thread about topics to avoid, let's make this one about "safe" topics especially for a first date :) Very good list Brad, I would add the following : What kind of music do you like? For visiting ladies, how do you like our city? some of the ladies ask about places to visit or the best place to eat a specific dish...etc. I'm always happy to help ;) ... and of course the weather ;) We would like to hear from the ladies too. What topics do you consider "safe"? Cheers, GM

I'm sorry this happened Emily. It's not fun at all when clients freak themselves out with too much TV and paranoia. I'm just glad you came out unscathed. I will say, if a client genuinely is too nervous and uncomfortable with the situation they should be honest and leave a tip for the lady's time!

As a precaution like anything else e-transfer should be offered with clients you trust not just anyone. I personally would recommend NOT putting your e-transfer email on your website, provide it to those whom you trust when requried. The less you put out there the better for everyone.

I've been thinking about how tricky the seemingly simple activity of conversation can be in our lifestyle. When on a date I like having some time to chat and make a connection, which means hopefully discussing more than the weather or how we're feeling that day. But of course some questions can be too prying or even go past inappropriate into offensive. Let's face it, when visiting an alluring woman you've been anticipating the pleasure of spending time with, especially if it's the first time meeting them, words don't necessarily come easily. Nerves can either make you seem boring or intrusive. I imagine ladies also find breaking the ice and getting more than two-word mumbled answers out of a gent is sometimes an issue. I thought it would be helpful to try a thread where we mention questions that should be avoided, but even more useful perhaps share some topics of conversation that can be meaningful and fun. Good topics/questions/ice breakers: --Do you like to travel? Where would most love to visit? (can often lead to amusing stories, shared interests, discussion of future, etc) --A lot of ladies will post some of their interests on their website (which I appreciate). Take a peek, and maybe you'll notice a sports team, author, movie, etc that you both like. It can be a good ice-breaker and easy connection. --Any specialty cooking dishes/favourite meal? (or odd foods you hate). When I admit I don't like any kind of cheese that always gets a reaction! --Do you have any pets (some of my biggest laughs with a date are sharing and one-upping each other with stories about the crazy antics of our pets. I think I disappointed one lady when I had to admit the scratches down my back were not a sign of my sexual prowess but rather a sneaky cat who used me as climbing pole to get up on a shelf). --Are you a salty snack person or a chocolate person? Seriously, this is vital insight into a person. Not quite as much as asking whether they believe toilet paper should be hung over or under...but that's a second date question ;) Questions to avoid: --Have you been busy? (anything that makes it sound like you're prying into how many people a lady has seen) --How often do you get tested? --Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife Obviously personal tastes will play a part, but I'd love to hear any others people have to add, especially those questions/topics that fall on the good side and can lead to a real conversation without seeming like you're prying.

@Hud Bannon, yes that idea excites very much! To this day ;) xo

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A prospective client freaked out because he is influenced by television and paranoia, why then look at escort review/recommendation sites or lady's websites, not to mention why even contact her and go through her screening protocols to book an appointment. If he was truly scared of a sting why did he even proceed to the hotel room, why not instead call and say he can't go through with the booking This wasn't a nervous client, this was a paranoid, (or acting paranoid) client who didn't care how his behaviour affected others. He shouldn't have ever considered partaking in this lifestyle. And should compensate Emily for her expenses, all wasted, in scheduling a date with this "man" RG

Just Leaving the office for the Christmas break it's been a long year which frankly I am kinda glad is coming to a close. I have done what I can to ensure its a good Christmas for all the people I care about so I am looking forward to a few nice days with family.

OMG yes please take care of your personal hygiene As a non smoker (now 4 years yay me) I cannot stand the yucky smell of cigarettes, and I'm not saying don't have a smoke just pleaseeeee freshen your breath before coming to see me and if having a few drinks mouthwash or tic tacs Nothing more unattractive then a foul smell and yes this I'm sure goes for both the hobbies and the ladies

I require a deposit for overnight appointments. I agree with Katherine here, we make ourselves available for you with a lot of thought going into preparation. We don't book other clients so that your time with us is strictly that, time with you. Cancelling with almost zero notice, or you arrive and are uncomfortable in any way and want to cancel, I have still prepared this time for you. I do expect to be compensated for my time.

Happy Birthday! Enjoy the special day.

Have yourself an amazing birthday and holiday season. Lucky you, get to start the celebration early and keep it going til New Years! May you have many pleasures to make you smile!

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With my very best wishes to a friend and admired contributor! Happy Birthday NJ!

Happy birthday Notchjohnson... All the best today! Cheers Sent from my Nexus 5 using Tapatalk

Happy Birthday NotchJohnson.... May your day be Merry and amazing....

Most gentleman I book especially extended time with offer a deposit or my donation in full. I have never taken an overnight without a large deposit or donation in full. Gentlemen that book with any established lady have no problem with this as if we have to cancel they know they will receive a full refund. I do not ask for this at home , only while travelling.

Happy Birthday Notch Johnston. Have a wonderful day !

Happy Birthday NotchJohnson Enjoy your special day RG

Happy Birthday NotchJohnson have a good one

Considering you just joined a couple of days ago and only have 2 posts....

I second this! I have to hear the person I am talking to. There are many good reasons for that. I don't accept clients who call from apps either. Too anonymous. Emails, same thing, I have no idea who they are, or if they are even in the same country as me. No matter what, I must hear a voice before I will see someone and I need to see a legit number. Payphones also are unacceptable. Landlines, same thing. I will give the last minute information on arrival so without a cell, the process cannot be completed. This is my screening process. This one I find to work for me. There are others who are comfortable with different methods. I make no apologies when I cannot accommodate someone without a cell (or who call under Private Caller, as seeing a number is another requirement). So finding someone who is content to see you with your limitations is the best way to go. Additional Comments: I have to disagree with this. PM and email allow people to remain anonymous. If you are not familiar with the alias' on a board, that doesn't make you an illegitimate companion. And 'true professionals' have had time to hone their methods and learn the ins and outs. Everybody has to start somewhere. Also efficiency doesn't trump safety. I couldn't imagine booking and seeing someone for the first time when I have only communicated with them through email or PM. I would still have to talk to them. I have learned my instincts are to be trusted. And I will not nix the phone call in order to be perceived as 'legitimate' just because there are many ways to communicate available. All that is fine if you are selling car parts, or organizing meetings with catering, but I am dealing with a very personal aspect of interpersonal relationships. One where I get to see what a lot of people don't. Not their mothers, co-workers, neighbours etc. So I think that my choice of communication should be respected, without my appearing to be illegitimate because of it.

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Usually the ladies will need a contact method to communicate the last minute information such as the hotel name, room#, buzzer code...etc. Some would give all the info ahead of time but some would prefer not to until you are at the meeting location. So the answer is it depends but you should discuss this with the lady you are interested in. Cheers, GM

I don't see it being a problem not having a cellphone. Ladies have their methods of booking, there are alternatives to phone, such as PM and email. I'm quite sure if you brought up the fact to a lady, she would find other suitable arrangements that would satisfy her. Good question to ask though ;-)

It all depends on the lady. But getting a cell phone really isn't an issue in this day and age, cheap pay as you go phones are available. Even at 7-11 with their "speak out wireless" http://www.speakout7eleven.ca/prepaid-cell-phone-rates And stores like Walmart http://www.walmart.ca/en/electronics/mobile-phones/N-2413 and Wireless Wave http://www.wirelesswave.ca/compare-plans/ontario/plans-list.asp?Category=20 Just to name a couple offer pay as you go cell phone plans RG

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It is sad and unnecessarily , but perhaps the difference is, as you say, you've seen hundreds of ladies in hotels over thirty years. I think sometimes those with more experience forget just how incredibly nerve-wracking it was the first time. Now, for this particular gent, I'm willing to trust Emily's intuition. She was there and is experienced enough that if she says it was more than just the usual nerves in his case, then I believe her. But looking at some of the responses to this thread in general it does seem like some have forgotten what it was like when new. Understandable, of course, but worth keeping in mind. I know I was very lucky that my first lady was so patient, as I made some mistakes that still make me shake my head at myself when I think back to them (forgot to leave the envelope out in the open despite reading over her website half a dozen times, etc). The one time I was almost late was because I managed to take a wrong turn heading to a location in my own city...and worse, it was a place I'd even been to once before! I can also see Zeno's point that sometimes it can be conflicting to know as what counts as "too personal". I certainly wouldn't have classified anything Emily asked in this case as being intrusive, but then, I also have to admit I wouldn't have realized asking someone what they study was so offensive, as others have now pointed out. But I guess that's one thing I like about this board, it helps me to keep learning! Anyway, I don't mean to hijack this thread, since as I say I'm not questioning Emily's take on this particular situation and gent, and it certainly doesn't sound like there was anyway it could have ended happily with someone so paranoid and conflicting. But I did just want to observe that - in general - I think we can sometimes forget how we felt our first time and what those nerves can make us do.

Dropped off 100 pairs of mens winter socks to an ottawa shelter. Then felt so good I went and bought another 200 pairs and 83 toques to give to another one of the shelters in Ottawa. And this time will bring a 50lb pail of honey with me. Buckwheat honey that is good for coughs. Its better and more effective and more natural then cough medicine. I am sure they will put it to good use.

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I understand having that feeling. It's almost like it is a challenge for them to get through your screening process and they want to accept and defeat that challenge. I have had that happen too. So I know what you mean. It leaves you feeling unsafe and wondering to what extent they will take this, or was it just a challenge and they are content and walk away. Those guys are always sketchy, and act all nervous, when they are full of it. So I see where you are coming from. Don't worry about it any more. Could be someone who will report to friends on his conquest.. but do be aware that his friends may play that game too for awhile. So of course, be vigilant so as not to allow it to happen again. And find a way to put your foot down if you see it might be happening again to prevent further incidents like this. Good luck!

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To clarify a few things, anyone I end up having a date with has had at least 5-10 emails in exchange with me - so we can get to know one another (nothing was off on his communication and he was forth coming via email). When one is nervous they usually are non-forth coming in emails as well as in person. I asked him the questions I ask anyone (not like i asked of this address and SIN number) and have for almost all my time in this business. Ive dealt with nervous people in the past and non have ever pulled this type of BS behaviour. He knew all too well where my hotel was as when we confirmed on the phone I made sure he knew where I was, where to park and where the entrance is. There is only one of the chain brand of hotel I was staying at and the only one at the intersection - so I'm sorry I don't buy I'm lost when he texted ( 15mins early and when I asked where he was parked it was a 5mins walk (even if he had to walk up the stairs, 8min max) As for the housekeeper, she was 3 doors down and in her own world, he claims because she went from her cart into the room (the one she was cleaning) that is must be a sting. Im sorry you watch way to much A & E. People come and go into hotel hallways and rooms all day long, no one pays attention to much unless you bring it on yourself. Im clear on my site and in my ads that we will be communicating before and during our date (after is up to you). Considering what i ask to screen is more invasive than what i ask in person, I don't buy nerves with this guy. (plus the first time I've had someone say my questions were too personal) Someone who goes through as much communication with a companion as he did, should have some butterflies as we all do on a first date. Once inside the suite that is well lit with open doors and the person they booked standing in front of them after they are hugged should in most cases be able to breathe a sigh of relief. I even offered for him to look in the close or dresser if that would he help him relax to show I was "alone" and not part of a sting. From my time in this biz, newbies have a way they act and this guy was no newbie he played my screening to be a douche. Im willing to bet that every SP he has booked he has played the same stunt with - after much thought I know when I have been played. I get nerves and respect they do happen, but people serious about a date generally relax at some point, laugh and have fun. This was not the case.

You are allowed to add your phone number/contact information to your profile AND your signature. However, you are not allowed to solicit to others guestbook page. You can advertise every 12 hours in the advertisement section, however you can not advertise in any discussion thread. However, if someone is asking for something specific you offer, you can reply. Hope this helps.

I thought I read about it somewhere but now I cannot find it. Are we allowed to post our number on our profile page? Or is that just for information only?

I won't kiss a man who has a rough beard, bad breath, or lesions in the buccal area. Or bad hygiene in general, which is not your case. As stated in your comment, chemistry plays a big part, and interpretation of the act is also a factor (one may kiss you on the couch for 10 mins before entering the main course, as another will kiss you all action long. There's also the whole BS bullshit. But all and all, don not take everything you read for granted. You may be mislead.

Not a fan of paying for an hour and feeling like the sp is trying to give you a quickie. For an hour I'd like to chat ease into it, undress you myself and go from there. Totally been in the situation where I'm not even half way through the hour and she's concerned with little more than finishing the job, despite me asking to do something different. Had a few SPs just unceremoniously undress and lay there. Utilitarian to say the least. If your intention is to do half hour appointments for the price of an hour then just do half hours for twice the price and at least there would be no surprises.