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Cato! I owe you waaaaay more than a beer! The thing I most want to congratulate you for is not so much the quantity of your posts but on their quality and contribution to our Lyla/Cerb community. You are a star, a positive one, and a tremendous contributor. I'm (still) looking forward to connecting with you at Barb's!

Tonight at barbarella s untill 12 am Then monday to friday ! Please note i will be tryin pigale soon ! Many updates on my website too!

No debate after this :)

Hey Miss Pandora, I'm no expert here...very new in fact but if it's any help I can tell you what I would be looking for. The name is a bit irrelevant...if you're still offering domination keep it...if not, then you can change or keep it, I wouldn't stress over that. What I generally look for is a current ad somewhere...the reco section is nice to find a lady but I think there's just too many in there and some might not be taking new clients, some may have retired...it's just not a reliable way to find someone (it's good to validate once you've found someone you're interested in...). I suggest you list your ad on this site (ads section or schedule announcement section) or on the other popular ad site...The information I look for in an ad is: clear pictures, description (height, weight, etc), in or out, availabilities, LOCATION TYPE (this is huge for me, whether it's a hotel, private apartment, spa...) and if your willing to list, rates (this is helpful to accelerate the hobbyist's research). If there are any restrictions, list it and stick to it. When I see something like "safe only" I expect the lady to stick to it and I'm not offended by restrictions, it just reduces the possibility of getting a surprise once you show up. The more info you give the less back and forth texting is required and it saves everyone's time but I understand if there are somethings you prefer to not post publicly... If you offer something that is unique or hard to find...make sure you indicate that the option is available...that will definitely make you stand out vs other ads. so basically...as far as im concerned it's about visibility (the ads), level of information (details of your ad) and of course, recommendations (to make sure what's claimed in the ad is legit..) hope this helps...good luck with the change in service!

I think it was because Windsor had a bad rep in the past with bylaw before the laws changed and barely anyone offered incalls as a result. I've been told outcalls are popular there but this is why I never visited for this reason. I don't do late nights and outcalls. Unless incalls became more prevalent there, it may take a while before you see a change.

Went to see Licia today. This is one of those ads I was very skeptical about, but super glad that I went. Her rates is reasonable, and communication made me feel comfortable, she sounds very real. She did get pretty pissed when I had to delay our date, I feel it was very personal and cute in my eyes. Location is about 20 mins from downtown Halifax, in lakeside. Be patient with the front door, u only pull it after u see the message on the screen telling u to do so. I buzzed 3 times to get the hang of it and it was freezing... Apartment is nice, lots of her things, she has cats, we played in her bedroom, nice big bed, a mirror on the side, quite small but if the angle is right it can bring extra sensation. She is 5'1, petite little thing perfectly proportioned I thought she was 5'10 before she opened the door. Her breast is super nice perky and soft, super small waist, snow white skin, cute little feet, bouncy and perfectly shaped butt, and I did spend quite some time there. Ask her about the details Id say she is very accommodating. She is very into the entire play, very good at what she does, non rushed, she is one of those girls who understands man and what they want, and very attentive at that. I asked for a position that I thought most girls don't like but she made me feel like it's something she wants to do, when her big beautiful green eyes look into my eyes, those were the more and more rare moments that I feel living in the moment. I was very impressed. I couldn't wait to jump into the finale, so instead of her asking I asked for the condom. The few positions we tried, I was very content because of her perfect fun size, I'm a shorter person at 5'8 so she made me feel more complete being able to reach all of her when I feel it. She has silky soft hair felt great in my hands... it's just a beautiful scene whichever angle you look at her. Even though she does not advertise as a gfe but this is more gf than lots of my previous experiences, she touches and hugs, the entire experience was sensual and intimate. I told her I am sensitive so she was super gentle with that area lots of soft touches that felt sooo good, and that's just a gesture you can't help appreciating. Her face is pretty, late 20s I'd say, independent, and I'd definitely repeat and recommend anyone who is interested in seeing her. Ps, she likes it gentle. Be gentle and have a good time!

Greetings Cerbians ... I must confess to harbouring a secret these past few months, ie the lovely Candy. http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEsco...cture/43719234 I am surprised that no one has reviewed this lovely sweetheart yet, so allow me to break the ice. I can vouch for the fact that the pictures on her ad are definitely of her, although she looks much younger, sweeter, and more lovely in person. She was based Downtown from September until recently, and was conveniently located between my place and some frequent haunts. Also she was located across from a store with an ATM machine and ample parking, which I used a couple of times on cold winter nights when I was in a hurry and wanted to keep the boys warm. Her Love Nest was an easy 5 minute walk from my Crib, and even faster biking distance, all depending on the lights and the need to cash up, of course. All these factors, plus the fact that she is devastatingly beautiful, created a perfect storm of visits since she first graced the neighbourhood a few scant months ago. Strangely, I am no closer to understanding Candy than the day we first met. She is very intriguing, a mystery shrouded by riddle and wrapped in enigma. Candy has a restricted menu with me ... no kissing, BBBJ, or DATY, although others' mileage may vary. Still, I love her and we get along well. Candy does have a pleasant disposition and a lovely slender frame. Her skin is soft and smells nice, and she is very gentle. This lovely butterfly has fluttered down in Kanata. No doubt her phone is buzzing as the lucky lads try to get dates with this winsome beauty. She does have some protection, though, a little puppy who will kill you with cuteness. So there it is, gentlemen. Candy is a sparkling diamond in our midst. My loss may be your gain. Carpe Diem.

Good evening ladies and gents! While I have been a service provider for a little while now, I am quite new to the escort-related section of the internet. A little about me: Outside of this world I am a belly dancer and pole dancer, and I dabble a little in theatrics and performing. My dream is to become a burlesque showgirl! Anyway, I look forward to meeting you all and networking with you :) xoxo Venus Reign

I prefer a landing strip, but a light dusting is fine by me

Congrats Cato; I especially appreciate your posts in social groups. I never get to Barbs-some guy always monopolizes my choices.

Anyone have any experience? http://backpage.com.halifax.listcrawler.com/post/20440430/

I was watching you getting close:) Congratulations, no small feat with everything else going on in this world. Thanks for your interest, camaraderie and bringing a bit of fun into our day.

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I am not sure a completely new name is the way to go, especially if your current name already has a positive rep associated with it. One website with 2 distinct webpages is all you need. That way some clients have option to have both? I got one would not be scared off

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A definite milestone, indeed. Thank you, Cato for being a valued member of Lyla. I always enjoy reading your posts, and here's to many more!

I had a big disappointment a few weeks ago (of a very different nature). She made up for it the next week and I actually think I know what happened.

Hello chocho, here are some answers that might help :-) I was wondering what's the proper etiquette on how to do all this? 1. Does the time start right away? depending on who you are seeing, being on time for an appointment is necessary, there are very few 'clock watchers' on this site, so there is usually a few minutes leway on your booked time 3. exchange pleasantries first? Absolutely! Having a bit of a conversation at first is a great way to break the ice 4. Do you pay immediately or after and do you actually give it to them or is it the whole "oh i dropped this" kind of deal. This depends on if you are going to a club/spa, and MA or an independent provider. As an independent provider I like this upfront. I ask during booking that it be left on a table as you enter. This gets it out of the way and leaves all the room for enjoying your session. Reading ads & websites of ladies of your choice will familiarize you with how they like this to take place. 5. Do we tip or not?Although tips are never expected, they are most certainly welcomed :-) If you feel that a provider has gone out of their way to make you feel comfortable & you have enjoyed yourself, then by all means leave a tip Last but not least, do read the ads and check websites as to how the ladies like to have communication. Some like text, others by PM, some by phone call, others by email, many through their website contact pages. It is important to introduce yourself a little and communicate in the lady's preferred manner. Hopefully this will give you some insight, and happy hobbying :-)

This may be said in jest so sorry if I misread, but in case it isn't: It is unlikely a provider will physically be unable to eat if you cancel, but you have to understand YOU are providing the income. She's not paid hourly. There's no business to pay her. As well, you just ruined a chunk of her time that she can now no longer use for appointments unless maybe she miraculously gets a last minute call... but that's rare, so assume what you did was rip away her income for that day and then make it difficult to make back that money. As well... providers charge high rates as this is a luxury service. It does not mean she's getting 10+ guys a day and a freaking millionaire. It could mean she's getting maybe one a day and living off essentially minimum wage. Who knows, and who cares... but the point is if you cancel, yes, you are hurting her financially... in more ways than just your missing payment. Sadly too many gents do not understand this and throw hissy fits when asked for cancellation fees- sometimes shit happens and girls will let it slide but empathy should be felt if a girl asks for a cancellation fee. Many business make you pay them, so I find it odd the entitlement felt ESPECIALLY in this business. :/ And thanks to all the gents that do understand this conundrum and either cancel with enough time for the girl to replace your appointment, or pay a fee if it's too last minute. Y'all make the world go round. :)

Actually a have a huge variety of pictures, some are older and reason being is I get many many requests for certain outfits in those pictures that I still currently have and wear when requested but if you look at my profile and website the dates are on my pictures. My most recent albums posted on my profile/website were taken July 1st and October 10th of 2016. My most recent recommendation just on here alone was in January 2017. I do have a photo shoot at the end of this month so a new picture album will be available early March. I hope I've enlightened you with regards to your questioning my numerous pictures/albums, dates of them and the reason why I keep a variety of the past and present. I like to refer to my albums as "The history of Lexy" I do realize and take in to account that you both are fairly new members with not many posts/contributions to the board and may not have done your full research regarding me, my pictures/correct dates they've all been taken and my numerous recommendations on here being so new to Lyla. All that information along with links are located on my profile, ads and my website. As a long time member of this board and community since 2009, I am a highly trusted, reputable and very established companion. So welcome, have fun and enjoy this wonderful community! All the best, Lexy Grace (Lexy with a "Y"):icon_wink:

Forgive me for being a lady of less words. I speak in a manner which is I say what I mean and mean what I say. So with my nomination to 2 ladies here, I will say it has been almost a meme for us " if we counted on lyla(cerb) we would starve!" this is a sad truth for us. This site has been merley used as varification and mostly WOTS who ask again and again about ladies who are here or( NOT EVEN HERE) with a true rep and took much effort into proving our trust. BP ads are extreamly expensive but at least we get our appts:( I too claimed about 20g in advertiseing ads for cerb on banners and nothing came of it. I also stopped advertising and posting for almost a full year to see if anything woyld change in my business flow....NOPE did not hurt nor help:( We are at a time in this industry that much change has come into focus. It is sad and scary. We have seen cities like Ottawa and now has grown to east...whereas we are forced into a situation that we feel obligated to be like "trained seals". I love our home site, but yet feel all my efforts here have no effect on who and how I opperate. Like I cant think of ONE Appt that I have booked from this site in at least 1.5 years! I have even made threads about this very topic with no good outcome. I know MOD, how broken you may feel, like this is YOUR baby and put so much time and effort into this site. I wish it was a perfect world. But alast....nope:( I hope no matter what we can remain together in one form or another.

With other boards there is advertising but there the US v.s Them mentality where SPs are to be only seen and not heard. I advertise my escorting services here but do not on BP because of the b.s. I will only advertise massage there since I don't have to deal with people asking for unsafe services and I like doing massage. I have met very nice clients from here for escorting and don't mind paying for advertising as long as there is traffic brought back to the board. The censorship that is in place right now is one of the reasons why a few clients have told me they left. If recommendations weren't censored, the new owners may see an increased amount of membership. There has to be an incentive both both clients and SPs to be here. I like the fact that I don't deal with tire kickers here while on BP you have to weed through calls and texts to find a decent client. I would pay for advertising to not have to deal with things I've had to deal with on BP (Wots, pimps making fake appts etc). However there had to be a reason for men to come to this board. They want specific details when looking at recommendations. I've had many men also tell me they are getting fed up with BP as there are many fake pictures and scams on there with people who aren't established. Notice they always come here to check to see if someone is legit? Without sites like this to double check, a lot of people would be taking risks when visiting new ladies so there is a reason to keep a site like this going. If there is good numbers in membership here, why not charge for advertising? If an SP can get nice clients here instead of dealing with b.s , I'm sure they would consider paying in addition to BP but the men need to be here to make it worthwhile. As someone else mentioned, each site has its own unique brand. Lyla may be known as "the rose colored glasses board" for its positive recommendations only but it also hasn't stopped members of other sites coming here either. Many use both but censorship is a big issue whereas other boards have less rules where censorship is concerned. I don't fully believe that the laws themselves have stopped men from hobbying. The more they have to make decisions on whether or not to see someone is key. This is why many have left.

#enjoyingasunnyday #ladyinboots

You can check out Emily J. She offers MA services and had a nice bush in a not so distant past.

I like to call it a hat trick.

I'm a new member and just wanted to introduce myself. This appears to be a respectful place and I've enjoyed reading the many contributions.

welcome cltaesl001 , there is a TON of great info here. Read the FAQ, use the Search function and there are quite a few threads that answer questions most newbies have Have fun!

Whoohoo. Love you and your posts. Congratulations!!

I have been "know" for my love of women. I am truly bisexual and only offer duo with people that I have physically attraction to and people tha tI have meet prior at least for a drink or coffee I currently have two duos partner in Toronto, one is my real life partner ( since we are in confession time...we've been dating for numerous month and she is pretty awesome :D) The other was with an agency at first, but when she went indy I started to flirt with her on twitter and making hint about meeting...we went for supper then ended up back at my place. After the sex...hey wanna do duos together?

Certainly i cannot speak for anyone else, but for myself -- I am a TRUE bisexual. I am just as attracted to women as I am men :) a lot of the time duo partners stem from friendship and comfort. :)

I have been a sexual creature right from the beginning of womenhood. It is a natural way for me to be. Men and women. Practice does help, you learn how to slow it down or speed it up. I learned men are visual creatures, so by giving him a nice view can allow you to get him aroused much easier. Also, I learned many men in their home life is missing the " nasty or playful" aspect of sex, so I try to fill that fantasy for them as I know he is not getting that at home, such as squirting, ball licking, dirty talk.

Some of the best things I love about my work (there are just so many) are the freedoms and the flexibility it allows me in my life...I can work when I wish, take time off when I wish, and choose the people, the gentlemen I wish to spend time with. I also love turning men on for a living; doesn't get better than that in my books!!

Very well said Roamingguy. YMMV has to be included in everything because we are all individuals. What one person views in one way, another my view completely different. Not only that but even two people together can interact different depending on the day and the activity. This is part of what makes being human special. Extraordinary experiences that are never the same twice (even if they kinda are). To me, being with someone is about connection, pleasure, joy and fun. There are certain factors such as hygiene, nail care and respect that lend themselves in major ways to the experience you can have with someone. After that it's also about the person and how you relate. You may have said you do a certain thing but then realize that an adjustment is needed due to things like height, weight, cock size etc. You may expect one thign but get another. that doesn't necessarily make it negative or bad, just different and sometimes in a great way. The best encounters for me are the ones where someone wants to be with me and is interested in exploring with me. They don't have a lot of expectations besides enjoying their time and things flow naturally. I love when you can be lustful and passionate and also playful and joyous. Sex is bloody enjoyable...whoop it up! Additional Comments: I'm looking forward to Savannah's answer (if she wishes) on your question Chuck. For me, I couldn't be in this industry without genuine caring, desire and want. Everyone has something wonderful and beautiful about them and seeing that in every person is an amazing thing. Discovering what makes someone beautiful, amazing and sexy is intoxicating to me and I love when I'm allowed to fully express that.

Excellent question as us ladies come into this for different reasons and leave for our own reasons too!!! For me, I originally got into it for the thrill factor, the fantasy factor and the plain and simple fact that I absolutely love sex. However, that has changed slightly for me... But for the better!!! I still love the thrill, the fantasy, and oh yes the sex!!! But I have also discovered a way to use my ability to connect with people in a very real and passionate way. I absolutely thrive on these connections, and find these interactions as emotionally and mentally good for me as I'm told it is for my clients. I have met some amazing women who I may not have had the chance to otherwise -- and continue to meet wonderful people. And I have also discovered my ability to become financially independent and stable -- something that hasn't always come easy to me :) So really, my answer is that I'm not sure. But I won't be going anywhere in the foreseeable future. :)

For me, the determining factor for YMMV is based on hygiene 90% of the time, and other factors the other 10% of the time. For example: you are offered a shower (politely) but refuse? Your services are going to be limited. Your hands aren't clean or your fingernails not trimmed? Again... No digits for you. Your teeth aren't clean or your breath is bad, despite the mouthwash I always have in the bathroom? Kissing won't be a big part of our time together. The other factors are genital appearance (yours, for MY safety), and what I call "roughness". Now do NOT get me wrong... If we have arranged a PSE session and you wanna spank my ass or pull my hair, that's different. But if we are GFE and you are hurting me with digits, etc -- I will tell you to stop. Respect is also huge. You respect me and I'll look after you :)

Great thread, great question, great answers! It is, in a word...terrific. ;) I'm curious how ladies feel if a potential client mentions their particular turn-ons and sexual preferences ahead of a first encounter (assuming it's not in an overly crass way, of course). Is that kind of information ahead of time helpful in terms of preparing for a better encounter and knowing if there's likely to be chemistry? Or is it presumptuous and off-putting? Or put it another way: if a potential client is interested in knowing if you enjoy/offer a given activity, is there a "best" way to ask?

What a wonderful thread, I've enjoyed reading all the responses. For me, I got tired of always giving my best to companies that didn't deserve it. I love sex, sensuality and intimacy and had a couple people tell me that I would do well doing this. My first few encounters were definite learners and I really enjoyed that aspect and the thrill during preparations, still do. I started out mostly as massage but found that while I loved it, I also loved more so now I do a free for all. I love pleasing and experiencing and meeting new people. I especially love connecting with them and as Savannah has said, it's those connections forged over time that make things better and better. I don't shy away from emotions, you can care for someone with no strings or expectations, as long as everyone is honest about boundaries. I love communicating and exploring with someone over a longer period of time. Finding new sensations and interests and sexual/sensual pleasure. There are so many amazing people in this industry and I've enjoyed getting to know them and learning from them. It is rough when it seems like there is back stabbing or undermining going on especially if you're not completely aware of the depths of it. There is so much stigma in the industry you want to believe that everyone watches everyone else's back. Thankfully I've been blessed with a couple friends who fully support me and think it's great. One of the hardest parts for me is when people just fade away. If they have been a connection especially and then nothing, you're left wondering. this isn't an industry where there is feedback on improvement or cheat sheets on market. lol. I have had amazing experiences, ones that I continue to think about and that make me smile. Not only experiences but people. I think anyone thinking about trying things out as a hobbyist should just do some research to find someone they are drawn to and then jump in and enjoy. We're all just people and out of all the women in the world, SP's understand and support the need, fear, desire, longing, anxiety etc. and make you feel alright.

I always think it is like getting ready for a performance, on stage lol. But it is more like when i taught fitness classes. It starts at a certain time, which is coming up soon, everything prepped and ready to go, and people who are counting on you to not disappoint them lol.

As Joy says...ask away! Yes, my first orgasm was with a client! I had a very very hard time to get there in my personal life, and yet here a client did it for me! I was shocked, and it took me till 5 years later when for the first time it is my BF that get's me there rather then a client. This is somewhat normal, as with a client we do not have the baggage of our day, life etc...so relaxing to have the big O I think is the key!

What would you say to a guy that would love to visit an SP but feels very intimidated and don't think he is good enough! (lol....And of course I am asking for a friend!! ) ;)

This is a great question. In going to be honest here so no judgments lol I was scared. I was a dancer for a long time and SPs are often looked down on by them. When I made the leap I was expecting to hate it. I wanted to be disgusted, I wanted to be ashamed. But guess what? I wasn't and that scared me. It's been an awakening for me in many ways. I an finally able to admit to people that I enjoy being sexually empowered. I can finally be proud of it and be able to have a venue to express it. It's scary to go against societal norms but it can be so freeing too.

Dirty, embarrassed and ashamed. I felt I had let down my family and myself by doing this, even though it was out of rebellion towards them I had begun in this profession, one of the reasons anyways. Boy have things changed:)Now, it's I can't wait to do it again;)

I'm guessing you mean after the first "date" as an SP?! For me, it was exhilarating!!! There was so much excitement and nerves leading up to it. It was such a relief to have the first time under my belt. I felt incredibly confident and surprisingly relaxed :) I thought to myself... What's next? Bring it on!