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I personally believe that both of you must have developed a very precious and close client-provider relationship. To put an end to everything overnight could be a waste of your invested time and $$. I would say, give her one more chance! See her again and set your appointment during the most perfect time. If I were you, I will choose a rainy day when most of the business would be quiet! Set your mind empty, don't reiterate what had happened in the past and treat her as usual or better if you like. Be upfront about the unscented oil since this concerns you a lot. Keep it only to yourself that this session will determine whether or not you are going to see her again! If your budget and time aren't the issue, I suggest that you book her 2 hours to have an ample time for both of you. Especially if she realized the mistakes she'd made in the past and if she still appreciates you as a regular, I personally believe some "magical things" could happen. Like you, I am sensitive, shy person and I don't like confrontation either. I personally feel that some things are better left unsaid and see if situation gets better. All in all, during the session you judge her yourself and you shall have the answer. Best of luck! I would like to dedicate this song to you and your lady and wish that everything will be just fine: Neil Sedaka - Laughter In The Rain :

I learned from my good and bad experience over years that when you become loyal regular client it can develop in two directions. First one: Lady likes you to be regular client. She gives you small signs of appreciation like remembering all your requests and habits, booking at convenient for you time (sometimes even reserving this time for you), never moving your appointment, never booking other client close before or after you, etc... Second way: Girl considers you to be "close person", sort of "friend" who will understand if she is not ready on time, or if she moves your appointment at last minutes, or if she has to book someone very close to you. You have proved your loyalty and that you like her already. You are supposed to be happy to help her keep her business running by accepting some inconveniences on your side. Both approaches have the right to exist, it depends on provider's personality. And it looks like the second approach is OP's case. But this is just disrespect of both clients. I would not come back again in such a situation.(IMHO)

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I too have seen someone a half dozen times over the last two years. Nine days ago I left after visiting her and for the first time, I didn't feel as though it was a wonderful session. After speaking about it with someone who has more experience than me, he assured me that these things will occur from time to time. That it is not completely abnormal. Yes, to answer a question, you should speak about it with her. Seeing how she responds to your conversation will help you determine if you want to see her again. Reiterating things you don't want during your sessions is not impolite. There too, seeing how she responds will help you in making a decision. If you have had many good visits, why not put in a little bit of time and effort in trying to ensure that you can have more of them before moving on to someone else without even trying. I decided to not let one unpleasent experience stop me from seeing my provider ever again. I hope yours can really listen and hopefully provide you with more great sessions like you have already had. Good luck!

I saw her today. Bait and switch. Smaller and stocky, but nice. In and out in 15 minutes. Price right for the service.

I've been talking with this beautiful lady on twitter for a couple of months waiting for her to come to Ottawa when her trip could match with my schedule and finally yesterday we got together. I got to her very nice locations and when she open the door my jaw drop to the floor. if you think she looks hot on her pics on here and her website, wait till you see Janeway in person. she greeted me with some sensual kissing like we were long lost lovers, and damn Jane is a great kisser. I don't like to go in to much graphic details but I will say this about my captain(if you are a trekkie you will get this), she is like your girlfriend with a naughty side. She loves what she does and it shows. Nothing fake about her. My experience with Miss Janeway is among the best I've experience, I know I said that about my last experience also. the last one was with Jane's good friend and Ottawa local Jezebel Valentine, these two are among my all time best. Now all I need is two book a duo with these two, this would be heaven on earth. How can I best describe Jane: beautiful, sexy, sensual, funny, real. in other words a true gem. Thank you for an awesome time, I will be seeing you again.

Yes, Katrina usually works from 7 on, except for Sundays. I was fortunate enough to see her Wednesday night, after 11. Such a lovely woman, looking as good as ever, perhaps even better, nice and toned, difficult to find flaws. Her eyes are still as beautiful, her smile is still as bright and her laugh is still as sexy as always. But then, I've loved her for years, before the hurricane!

Skyns are great. Polyisoprene is nicer than latex. FC2 female/internal condoms are also fantastic once you get used to them.

I could stare into these eyes for hours.

This is by no means an attempt to argue or debate your opinion. An opinion is one's view or judgement formed about something, an estimation of the quality or worth of someone or something. It can never be deemed to be wrong. I'm simply curious if this is how you mean that... Every single session? Meaning, if you were to see an SP approx. 20 times over a period of two years(just an example), every session should have you feeling like you are on top of the world when you leave... If you should ever have one "not so pleasant" session, you should never see her again and find another SP?

Honestly, I can't say I agree with this. Respectfully, you don't owe her anything. The only commitment you have made to each other is for the duration of the hour or more of her time you have purchased. The whole point of this hobby is pleasure. If you are not 100% enjoying your engagements for whatever reason, then why go back? The fact that it is causing you this much stress is a sign that it isn't working for you. It simply shouldn't feel that way. If you aren't walking away from each session feeling like you are on top of the world, then why stay? Try some other ladies. You may find one that gives you the fulfilling experience you are looking for, without the stress of wondering where you stand with her. Just my thoughts on the subject.

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Just be aware that Paypal is an extremely sex worker-unfriendly business, and many people have had their accounts closed and their funds held just for being sex workers, even if they never use Paypal for their work. If you do use it, make sure you withdraw all your funds immediately, ever time, to reduce the risk of them being held indefinitely. Use an email address that's not associated with your work name, and make sure clients are very discreet about what the money is for. For Canada, Interac email money transfer seems to be the safest way to transfer a deposit.

Wish I could be there...I'll have to owe you a birthday beer. I'll watch for reports on CNN...should be legendary! Have a good one!

It sounds as though she is booking her appointments too close together, maybe the previous client showed up late which threw her off track and this can be stressful. While clients do understand that we may take more than one appointment in a day, the goal with each client is to make them feel as though they are the only one at that moment in time with no client knowing that another one is going to be there any minute. It happens to the best of us but it can be done in a way where it's not as obvious and abrupt. I would speak to her and let her know that you could book a time where she isn't rushed. Explain to her that you're not looking to take advantage of her time but more so that she can relax which will make you relaxed. Tell her you were concerned because she seemed very stressed out and affects the flow of things during your time together. The stress of booking appointments back to back can be rough. Sometimes there is no choice and we have to deal with it but you are the customer and if she wants you to come back then this has to be addressed or she will soon find out why you are no longer contacting her. Hopefully this was a one time bad scenario where things were lagging behind that day. As for the scented vanilla wax, simply tell her you are attached or whatever the situation may be and that you cannot afford to have this sort of indiscretion. Do it in a nice, calmful manner as opposed to being accusatory and I'm sure she will make things better for you.

Thank you WhereIroam for you to care. I don't ask generally deposit. I did in few cases: 1-When I participated in Libero Paradiso, my gentleman has to confirm in advance and he made it through me. 2-I did ask, not for a deposit, but for an entire prepaid encounter to someone who did many, but when I say, many times cancelled last minute few years ago of that... I have been very patient with him because he used to be such a sweet heart to meet with, but suddenly it became totally unreliable. And this, even with other ladies. He had the idea to ask me few months of that if I pardon him, and if I would like to meet together again, we had so much fun... And I said, yes, certainly, that will be fun, but please this time, I will ask you to pay entirely in advance. He never came back to me, so again, he wasn't sure of himself maybe? I'm thinking to ask maybe, sometimes, for a little deposit when I am touring. Some cities have reputation to have a high level of time wasting or no shows. And that's not always from "real clients"... So will see. :)

I first saw Lilith while having a drink at the bar at The Brass Club. She seized my attention because she was so attractive. Her raven hair and coffee cream complexion was accentuated by a tan coloured shorty pyjamas with black lace trim. She was so polished and staid I decided right then I had to know more. We tweeted back and forth a bit and arrangements were made. I arrived for the anticipated event and was joined in the elevator by four gorgeous and giggling ladies. The Brass club is crammed with beauties but Lilth stands out and there she was in the corner of the elevator making eyes at me. My insides liquified. She was in pig tails and looked like a graduate of the Shirley Temple school for the terminally cute. I was escorted by the ever-lovely Jessica to the Brass Room and momentarily Lilith met me, still in pig tails. My stomach became full of attack butterflies. This polished, elegant lady suddenly became a wonton, willing predator. My wish was her command (within MA limits) except she couldn't help me catch my breath. In a flash, the wine was gone, the ninety minutes was gone and we were kissing good bye. I don't have to worry about returning, my heart is still there. I don't just recommend Lilith, I urge you to visit her. It is well worth it.

I messaged Larissa yesterday. She told me she is no longer in this field of work. Just wanted to let anyone know if they were curious.

So, I have a question. There is a girl I have seen about a half dozen times over the past year and a bit. We had a session last week and I was less than satisfied so I am looking for other opinions about this. She has not been ready at the appointed time once in my experience but we have gone over by a few minutes so I understand that may be why she often runs late. She texted me about 15 minutes before my hour appt and pushed me back 30 minutes. OK I understand that and I was ready for it. That time comes and she still needs about 10 more minutes. As I getting close to the finish line, I see her looking at the clock. I have now been there for an hour. She blurts out that "I have a new guy coming in for 2 hours in 10 minutes !" I got dressed and left - time management is not her bag. But I have another issue. Our sessions are BDSMish. THe prior time I specifically said - unscented please ! Yet she used a vanilla wax on me - I didn't realize how strong it was until I got home. This time I went home with noticeable welts and bruising on my ass. I don't mind the bruises but I had no idea til later ! I am not a complainer and I don't like confrontation so I didn't say anything. I am leaning towards not going back. When I write it down, it makes me think I should definitelty not go back. But I do enjoy our time. Should I let her know my issues ? Should I just not contact her anymore ? Suggestions ?

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No offence taken. That's what civil discussions are about. I understand that everone has good days and bad days. This sounds a bit more like a pattern if I understand correctly. I just meant that once you start feeling like you have to 'work on the relationship', then it's time to move on. That isn't why I'm here. I get enough of that at home ;)

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I'm about done with financial services unfairly penalizing sex workers. What a bunch of BS. I already avoid using PayPal for just this reason. The latest one I heard causing a problem is Stripe - which sucks. They are all down with sex workers when they are new and growing, but as soon as they get big they cut them off. It's BS.

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Lol, thanks. I'm glad you understood. I know tone can be shifty via the internet sometimes- I wasn't at all mad FYI. I hope that's super clear :(

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I changed my mind and instead of spending my birthday at BareFax, will be at NuDen all afternoon. MeganDancer has moved there as a regular and I haven't seen her in ages! I'm bringing the mortgage, so line them up according to darkness. I'll run through them until I hit the floor of my wallet. I haven't been in for quite a while, so I don't know if that's even a consideration. Tuesday afternoon (11th) might be quiet. I guess we'll find out. Stay tuned for LIVE reporting. Yes, I'm going to double up on my heart medication.

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Wow! Such a GOOD thread! Kudos to the OP. I have pretty strong beliefs when it comes to pre-booking and deposits. I'm sorry but if I'm saving a hour, 2 hour or 3 hour time slot for you then yes, damn right a deposit is appreciated! AND is easier for the man... THEN you only have to bring the remainder during our session time. But that's just my opinion! I think PayPal is great and I mostly receive all my deposits over PayPal which is quick and easy! And more discreet for the gentlemen. I've received deposits many many times from clients that I've never met and clients I've met multiple times. This deposit comes off the full session amount during the time of our set date. I always say... If a man is 100% serious about coming to visit me then why not GUARANTEE your spot with me and send $100-$200 deposit. It's not like I'm some random back page girl (some can be very shady) with ZERO reviews and I'm going to take off with the cash. NOT THE CASE! My business runs mainly on pre-booked appointments (however same day is also always fine if time permits). Especially because I post my tour dates months and months in advance SO MY CLIENTS have the option of planning a lengthy date! And maybe because I'm just a little bit of a perfectionist and love having my dates all organized... :icon_redface: I find that deposits work VERY well for my clients and I. :icon_mrgreen: Deposits also show me whether or not the gentlemen is 100% serious in regards to meeting me. I've had people text my phone time and time and time again but never show up? Ok... so if you're serious send a deposit, and I will see you on the day we have agreed too! Simple as that. Then I never hear from those certain guys again, funny how that works eh? I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND that most gentlemen get nervous and worried that their deposit will be "stolen" or they don't trust the service provider. Honestly, that's all normal and seems reasonable. But when finding a lady, you should always contact a well reviewed service provider who is well known and has at least 10 positive reviews from high end review boards. But that's just my personal opinion! It helps ween out all the fake/bait&switch/scam ladies out there. Kadie Lux Hope you enjoyed the post gals and guys, I will continue to become more and more active on Lyla. I'm really lovin' this board & all the awesome people!

A relatively nice Friday afternoon at Barefax. About two dozen beautiful ladies and may be two to three dozen patrons though not enough for ladies to make the money they deserve I am sad to say some were not making any money. Stage shows one after another without any break and lovely ladies one by one entertained the patrons by coming on stage and sharing their beauties. The usual Barefax Friday afternoon dancers as I didn't see anyone new. All pretty and deserving and they came to entertain you gentlemen and take you to heaven (upstairs). The best buffet with the best FREE food from 4:30 to 6:00 pm (always nice to leave a few buck for the cook who prepares and serves this great buffet every day who btw is a very nice gentleman). This is the closest a gentleman can get to heaven in life. As I sat and enjoyed dances and I looked around and saw some empty tables and chairs I wondered where some gentlemen would prefer to be rather than this place which well qualifies as heaven on earth (beautiful nude or semi nude young ladies willing to take you to heaven and free best food in town and the drink of your choice for a few buck with nice friendly staff to serve you). For those of you who were there a BIG thank you and to those who were absent then Please come out to these bars and support the ladies (many have left the profession because they were not making money) and support your local bar (many have closed past decade because they were forced out of business). You have worked hard all week then you deserve to treat yourself on a Friday afternoon and reward the very deserving beauties too who have come to show you the doors to heaven.

I agree! Saw her recently and she is unbelievable. If you get the chance go for it!

Welcome to our world! Half these men can't even read a website for a providers info, and ask the same questions that would be clearly answered if they took five minutes to actually read. That's why i took down my number and only do email. Before, I liked being easy to reach, and the phone is the easiest way, however after time, the "rates, services, location" texts just turned me off the phone completely. I wonder sometimes why spend $ on a site and time to get it right (pictures, text, the right aesthetic) if its not even glanced at other than to get our number... as a result, many providers are just ignoring these communications. In the past i've tried pointing gents to my site, now i don't even respond to one liners. If you can't introduce yourself and/or form a proper sentence we probably won't connect well, which for me is the most important thing. If we can't even get guys to read our sites, good luck getting them to contribute meaningfully to this great resource. The expectation of extremely low rate with every service under the sun offered without any foundation is the new norm, these guys are all about getting as much as they can with the least amount of effort, why would they contribute meaningful info as it has no perceived benefit to them? I thank my lucky stars for the good men on this site, who read and contribute to meaningful discussions, its taught me a great deal about what *MY* type of client is seeking and how to provide them with that which they seek... Lyla has been an invaluable resource for me in learning how to perfect my chosen craft, and has introduced me to great friends that i cherish. I value your contributions and i'd be very sad to see this place turn into the cess pool state others are in...

Exactly, it all boils down to respect on both parts, there is Nothing more annoying then a No Show, or showing up to an appt 20 mins late! I myself have never had an issue with BP clients, I have met some fantastic gents on that site, gents can do research on boards, but thats only one persons opinion, negative or positive! I believe the best way to get a gent to know a lady is to meet her Himself, and see where it goes

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