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Gentlemen, Not to be a stick in the mud, but it might be better to invite private responses to this type of question from one of the providers. No one has expressed public shock, but some, if not all, providers may not appreciate having their most intimate physical details discussed in a public forum. If you have information that you wish to share, you might also contact the OP by PM and disseminate that in a more discrete manner. Remember gents, we are talking about human beings with feeling, emotions and personalities, not a collection of random body parts that have been assembled for your amusement.

Well this thread has certainly stirred the pot. I didn't comment earlier as I was busy but lets all take a breath here. When I first quickly read this to me it simply a question of do you thank, not thank ,or nominate a post and why do we do it? I'm much the same as others that have replied if its something interesting to me, I will comment or thank. Nothing really to do with who started the thread or those involved in the discussion. We all have an opinion. I have gotten myself in hot water here a few times and have sometimes felt supported and sometimes not. We are all grown ups here, make mistakes and have to live with our words and move on. Maybe its time to do that now and sleep on this!

You missed the whole quote, "Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit, but the highest form of intelligence" - Oscar Wilde ^^ I agree with that guy ;) Kim

You've lost me, I have no idea what this post even means? The above is needlessly rude. imo Starting a thread doesn't allow you dictate who can post or what opinion they may have. You asked a question but whenever given an answer you don't agree with you attack the post/er. When you repeatedly post passive aggressively about what you perceive "others" are doing wrong, eventually someone will point out it's best to worry about your own posts/business rather than harp on what everyone else is up to. kwim? As evidenced by a few of your recent threads, if you seek out drama you will find it. Kim

just a note ... it might just be me (it often is lol) but I find the excessive use of smilies to be very sarcastic, especially if the comment preceding the smilie is up for interpretation. A smilie in the wrong place can totally change the meaning of your post. A smilie doesn't always mean your smiling. :D

If I can precis all of this, it's quite simple. Treat every encounter as if it was a first date with a woman with whom you wish to share intimacy. Be: Clean, punctual, deodorized, groomed, generous, modest, polite and accurate with your funds. Don't Be: A dick. Accurate?

After being on Cerb for over 3 years now. I've met many women from Cerb, of all sizes and races and ages. I've become on-line friends with many of them thou chat and PM's. I've also read most of the threads here and have come to the conclusion that the women that are the most successful and that I have had the best sessions with are women who truly love their work. I've learnt that some of these women started being an SP or MA due to personal circumstances. But have learnt that they actually enjoy doing this type of work and planned on doing it for as long as they can. These women enjoy giving and receiving pleasure and companionship. And as long as you are a gentleman and have good hygiene they welcome with you with open arms. And for the allocated time, they focus their attention on giving you companionship and pleasure. And if the chemistry is there and connection made. a friendship may be form where repeat encounters may occur with each one getting better and better as the comfort level and trust level form between two consenting adults. I have been lucky and have many encounters with kind loving women that I have continued contact with. Like any other job. If you truly love your work, and are good at it, success will come to you. This is a job where you can offer companionship and pleasure to men that are lonely or just lack the physical intimacy that humans need due to unfortunate circumstances. I am truly grateful to have met so many women that love their work and hope to meet many more. It really has changed my life. xoxoxox to all of you.

The sun is shining brightly in Halifax!!

From reading your original post, it sure looked like you were sending a message to others and were excluding yourself from the message you were trying so hard to convey (i.e. people who use sarcasm are insecure and need to make themselves feel better by putting down others in order to feel superior)... Now you say that some people consider you sarcastic because of the FULL quote Kim provided in her post? lol Are you for real or was it just a sarcastic comment? Or perhaps a witty and intelligent comment? Maybe a clarification would be helpful so there are no misunderstandings (adding a :) just in case). So which one is it, cristycurves? Are you above sarcasm or are you not like everyone else who uses sarcasm from time to time (whether it'd be ironic sarcasm, witty sarcasm, funny sarcasm, ill intended sarcasm, etc.)?? From reading your posts-lately, I can tell you, you are not above anything (should I add a ;) here?). If you need concrete examples, I can easily provide you with quotes of what you wrote, within context... especially to me when I dared to disagree with you (would a :( be appropriate here?). Yes, those smilies are mostly being over-used to (try to) disguise insults. Those smilies don't change the meaning the message being sent, at all. And this is nothing new either. Sometimes, there is room for interpretation and sometimes, the message is loud and clear. Dare to disagree with Miss CC and you will be on the receiving end of passive aggressive (and sarcastic) comments. cristycurves, you say you like bluntness? This one was all for you. Sarcasm excluded. P.S. How many smilies did I use in my post? Maybe I should just add a few more because, well, I am allowed to and have not reached the limit yet... ;) :biggrin: :icon_razz: :icon_cool:

I understand that these things are annoying to say the least for all you ladies but I can't help but laugh at the utter stupidity of some guys. I don't know, I just have to find the humor. I hope you ladies can find humor in some of it too. At least, when you look back at it after the initial frustration and anger. The one that puzzles me is one that I talked to a provider about once. The guy phones, texts, whatever and books a session. Than starts the haggling. When she says "look buddy, the price is the price." He has the audacity(read stupidity here if you like, lol) to tell her he's a stud and hung like a horse and doesn't really need to "buy" sex. We could never figure out why he called her in the first place. I don't know how you ladies keep your sanity with some of these idiots at times. I really admire you all for hanging in there for the good ones. Please remember we aren't all bad.:icon_biggrin:

I'm going to be blunt. My apologies in advance if I offend anyone, that isn't my intention. I thank those I agree with. I don't thank those I don't agree with. I nominate those I agree very strongly with and those that make a point so damn fine. That's a pretty simple way of putting it. I think, with all due respect, the OP needs to understand that in life..... shit happens, and people you thought would support you through thick and thin sometimes let you down. That's because they don't feel the same way as you. That's because they are as unique as you. It's very rare to have everyone in any given community agree with you or support you all the time. Learning this is a part of growing up.

I think that is a great summary of the overall thread :) you are very perceptive! If I could add one final thought it's to continue the "undicklike" behaviour after the encounter. If you are going to write a review keep it classy and discrete, leave the details and the YMMV in private. Most ladies do not want to feel like you are giving a virtual high 5 to your CERB buddies, bragging about how far you got. It's not a locker room :) xoxo

People serial texting who you told NOT to text you that many times after you didn't respond and texts again several times long after you've explained the situation. This is definitely not respecting someone's boundaries or whatever personal issue they have to deal with and have already fully explained for the umpteenth time. No respect for a person's private situation. That's when it's time to block their number. What part of "I am not available" do people not understand? And my name isn't hun, sweetie or babe either. lol. Not following the SP's protocol shortly before arriving to an appt. Do you have a boyfriend? Meeting people for the first time and they attempt to go into other rooms at the SP's place without even asking. Or others wanting a tour of other private rooms. What the hell? Time to put locks on the door handles. If the door is shut, it stays shut. People who don't take off their shoes and insist they are clean. No they're not. You were outside. "Are you available now? I can be there in 5 minutes." Receiving a text out of the blue. "I'd like to make an appt. What is your address?" And you don't know this person from Adam. "Rates? Location?" text is a definite way to NOT receive a response back. Stepping off my soapbox now. I know it's like preaching to the choir here but thought I'd add a few..

You won't see me going to the Sargent site, step up yourself! ... I rather have more than a friggin' ordinary massage!! I enjoy getting my 'massages' at the Ellice Ave salon or at Southpointe (which I wish is closer as it is close to the Perimeter Highway down south if some are not aware of where it is). Those two sites are very affordable and very enjoyable .. the Main Street place is not as affordable as you can drop as much there as you would at Nevadas for fs. It is improper to be encouraging clients to go to the Sargent place and try and see how far you can get with an attendant who is there to provide a legitimate massage! Borders on sexual abuse.

This is where it gets silly.. "not allowed" ?? By who?? is there some super-secret Federal Department of BlowJobs? The bottom line is this. If you feel comfortable providing a BBBJ then do it. If you don't feel comfortable providing one, then do a CBJ. You need to do what is comfortable for you. But getting on here and whining about feeling pressure or competition is a non-starter. How can anyone on this board believe that some of this is not a way to eliminate competition. This debate has gone on ad nauseum. If you don't feel comfortable with a BBBJ then don't do it. But again, don't try and constrain other providers with your ideas. If you think a CBJ protects you and prevents disease transmission, then there is no validity in the argument that those who give BBJ's are putting you at risk. A CBJ only policy should protect you from that if your arguments are true.

Spent an hour today with another beautiful hit from the good people of Mirage. Natalia looked amazing in the pics and I've had a lousy week so why not wash away the headaches with this young angel. She beautiful, which I'm not surprised since I've had nothing but good experiences from this new to Ottawa agency. I also found out she's a signed model and does lingerie, fitness and swim suit shoots. No surprise, her body is banging perfect, gorgeous smile, twinkle in her eyes and a natural elegance. She greeted me enthusiastically and gave me a glass of wine. As we chatted on the bed I felt immediately at ease...not unlike coming home to a gorgeous gf. In and out of the shower and on to the fun. Dfk, lfk, enthusiastic BBBJ was enjoyed. Daty was clean, really yummy and her reactions are genuine. Enjoyed CG, RCG, mish and doggie. Finished with my favourite...a visit to the Greek isles. It's not advertised in her repertoire so ymmv. We had some extra time so I enjoyed a lovely massage and some pillow talk. Beauty, grace, intelligence (she just completed her masters), what more can you ask for. I plan to repeat as much as I can before she goes

Rude is very easy to decipher. The post itself however, is completely unintelligible. :icon_wink: I assumed you were drunk. (I still kinda do.) :icon_wink: :icon_wink: :icon_wink: Clearly you don't want to discuss anything, you wanted to make a speech. So, job done. Goodnight Christy, Kim EDIT: (To the topic at hand, I "thank" posts I find funny, bright, helpful or interesting. Who the poster is has no bearing on it.)

As many of you know, I have been a long time / original client of both Paradise Spa and Angel's Touch. I have been more than happy with the total environs and extremely overjoyed with the Ladies employed. However, today I was completely blown over by the extent, class, fit and finish that Marc and Angie have completed with the new rooms, the new entry, all of it! From really big showers that easily accommodate my big ass to the mirrors, lighting, water jets, new fluffy towels! As usual, very, very clean and comfortable. An absolutely outstanding accomplishment! In my humble opinion, there is not doubt in my mind that this experience is THE BEST massage experience in Ottawa and possibly Ontario!!!

Here is the situation. As I posted before we need close to 800 dollars to get the social going. Normally this close to a social we would have at least 25 of 35 tickets sold which covers the expenses for the venue. Right now, we still have less than 10 tickets sold. Only a few regulars have paid for their tickets since I posted a pre cancellation warning last week. We haven't heard from any other gents, therefore we regrettably have to cancel the June 12th social. We are considering options for possibly something smaller especially for travelling ladies that already made plans to be here. For those who have paid for their tickets, we will be contacting you individually, via PM with options in a few days. Note that this in no way changes mistert and my commitment towards organising the socials, and we will post in due time details for a fall social next September. We would also like to thanks, once again, all those that attended the last 3 socials and helped make them a classy evening. Also thanks to the sponsorship from ALO and CMJ. The gifts you provided helped us put on a great event at a very reasonable cost. This also includes all the gents and ladies who provided door prizes. Thank you all!

There is no real magic in this. Make eye contact with the girl you are interested in and 9 times out of 10 she will come and see you. They are as interested in meeting people who want to meet them as you are in meeting them. It is in their financial interest. If that doesn't work walk up and talk to her. Say Hi. Pretty simple. How to avoid being bothered by ladies you are not interested in is more difficult.

48. Lingerie leftovers So. Alotta Fagina and Anita Dickens-Hyde have left your home. You are spent. Three solid hours of cosplay, inflatable sheep, cookie dough debauchery, wrestling in a pudding filled wading pool and a film about donkeys have left you completely exhausted. Three days later when you recover and have finally commenced the cleanup, you notice a sheer lacy bra and a pair of exquisitely silky panties on the periphery of the scene of your greatest triumph. They do not match. What to do??? NO. Do not do that. That's just nasty. No. That too is nasty, and yes, I thought of it too, BUT I STOPPED BEFORE I PUT THE PLAN IN ACTION. Sicko. Yes. Yes you can wear the panties on your head for a brief time but ONLY if you pretend you are a masked Mexican wrestler OR the Silken Avenger. Okay, you can also use the bra as a dual coned headdress or a really large ears for your Silken Avenger outfit. You are not allowed to use the bra to augment the Masked Mexican wrestler personna. That's just silly. After you have done that. Make contact. Seriously. Don't wash the articles. Contact the providers and let them know that they have left the articles there. If they wish to retrieve them, keep them safe and do not cry when you have to let them go. If they don't, you have years of Silken Avenger adventures to keep the memories alive. Oh... and don't let the providers know about the Silken Avenger, the Masked Mexican wrestler or the dual cone heads. That's our little secret. 49. Pancakes. Did you know that you can eat these babies for supper AND serve them with bacon??? I was blissfully unaware of that until just recently. I mean really. Pancakes, maple syrup and bacon all on the same plate and served willy nilly during the course of the day??? Revofuckinglutionary. What does it have to do with the hobby? Um... duh. Are you a hobbyist? Do you want to be happy??? Pancakes, maple syrup and bacon make this hobbyist very happy. It's not all about sex you freakin' pervert. Unless you could mix it all up with an encounter. That would be AMAZEBALLS. Sticky?? Sure. Delicious? Absolutely. Hygenic? Meh. Two outta three ain't bad. 50. Wolverines. Nope. Don't even think about it. Hugh Jackman is ridiculously expensive to book for an encounter as your stunt double and live wolverines tend to pee, spray odiferous musk and are generally unwilling to take commands. They also have ill tempers and tend to be ummmm... bitey. Trust me. Wolverines and encounters do not mix.

Sarcasm, when best practiced, is an art form. There is nothing more amusing than seeing words turned ever so subtly into a humorous dig, especially when the words are meant not to harm, but to lighten the tension in a heated debate. The problem? When written, it takes a concerted effort to discern whether the words were meant in a hurtful sense or as probably intended, in a light hearted manner. As Gabriella has so eloquently put it, the use of smilies, emoticons or a well place LOL or hehehehehe enables the reader to take the written word not at face value, but as they were originally intended, as a bit of fun. This of course works with all sexes, races, and religions except for people of Saskatchewan and nationals of Latvia, Zimbabwe and Bosnia Hercegovina. Those fuckers have no sense of humour. ;)

But RG, the whole entire point of sps/clients versus civilians is the business side, the commercial transaction, and the fact that the sp is 'at work' while performing these services. And like any other workplace, conditions and regulations can be (and in some countries are) applied. It is what it is. It isn't about stamping out stds, and it isn't about controlling morality, it is a simple case of worker safety. The example of Home Depot is of course exactly the same. We aren't controlling what civilians or even the Home Depot worker is doing at their own home, only regulating what they can do in the work place, for their safety. Once a regulation is in place, this means also that an employer cannot demand the worker get up on that ladder, at the workplace, without the proper safety equipment. Nor in NZ or similar places can any employer demand that an sp provide uncovered sexual services. And that is what it means to protect a worker with regulations. Whether a worker would voluntarily do it, they will have to do it on their own civilian time, not at the workplace. Comparing it as a morality issue is not at all accurate, when the fact of the matter is that stds are real, and std transmission occurs without barriers. As a health and safety issue, it is a pretty clear line. Sps aren't high risk because they are sps, sps aren't being morally judged and found faulty due to the fact that they are sps, The focus is that the risk is in the activity >>> uncovered sexual activities. You take the bbbj out of the work place, and the work place is a safer place for the worker (the sp). I really have a hard time believing anyone thinks it is OK to not protect sex workers just like any other labour force just because they are sps, and not regulate the safety issues of commercial sexual activity.

The keys to making encounters extraordinary is actually quite simple. First, do your homework to ensure you understand your guest's expectations then do follow thru to make it happen before he arrives to the best of your ability. The next thing is THE key... STAY IN THE MOMENT from the minute you open the door until you close it after he leaves. By staying in the moment I mean... 1. Do not allow random thoughts floating thru your head to take hold. They are clouds, just let them float thru while you focus your attention on your guest. Don't allow the "am I doing this right?", "does this angle make my stomach look fat?" or "I need to go grocery shopping as soon as he's done." to interfere with your time with your guest. This time is about the two of you together and nothing else matters at this point. There is time to process a worthy unrelated thought after he's gone. 2. See the humanity in your guest before all else. This is the part of him you want to touch deeply. He isn't a business guru, construction worker, accountant, father, brother, son when he is with you. He is simply a man, with all of the qualities that makes him strong and vulnerable at the same time. Recognize this, let him be himself with no expectations that he is anything else. The human connection is the one that he will feel and not forget. 3. Follow the bouncing ball. Watch, listen and respond to the story that his body and tone of voice tell. Words can be deceptive but the body always tells the truth. He gives you all the clues you need to make a visit spectacular, you just need to be open to seeing them; to do that you need to follow the moment and trust your intuition to decipher what he is actually needing rather than just what he thinks he wants. It's easy once you practice it a bit, like karaoke. Just watch the little red bouncing ball of "right now". 4. Remember the humanity in him first and foremost. Make a mental file on him. After he leaves, think about what you learned about the real him and file that gold away. If you connected with him, he'll be back and you then have the keys to getting him to shed to masks he wears in the outside world, allowing him to once again just be himself but more efficiently than the last time leaving more time for genuine connection. Follow these steps with every visit and before long you are the Sanctuary he seeks when the outside world is closing in on him. You are who he turns to, to forget, to reconcile, to release all of the stresses that hunt him. These may or may not be conversations of words but more often with my guests they are a ballet of touch, movement and physical expression... Remember that this interaction isn't about you, it's about the both of you. It certainly isn't all about the sex. The physical is simply a vehicle to express ourselves together; it's about releasing what is needed and renewing one's life energy so we can meet the world another day from a positive frame of mind. A man comes to us because of a physical urge but that is merely symptomatic of the underlying need for connection without negativity whether your guest realizes it or not. He never needs to understand your process but he will never forget the time he shared with you if the connection to the real him is made... This is what I think makes an experience memorable... cat

I can live with CFS and CBJ. I have never had a BBBJ so I don't know what I am missing there. But I could not go without daty. Even the concept of protected daty seems like - whats the point. To give up kissing - not going to happen. Practice good hygiene several times a day, and talk openly with your doctor on a regular basis. Stay educated, play safe, choose SPs and other sexual partners wisely, and decide what risks are acceptable for yourself. IMO. Final word - respect the other persons boundaries and limitations. Do not question their choices or push them where they do not want to go.

http://www.cbc.ca/news/arts/maya-angelou-poet-author-and-activist-dead-at-86-1.2656694 A great lady has passed. I loved hearing her speak. May she rest in Peace.

Congratulations Ice4fun!

Woohooo congrats!! Outstanding effort and thoughtful posts!

Congratulations Ice4Fun on your 1000th post! :D

Honestly I'm reading this board for a couple of days now because I've always been around escorting services but I have never booked any actual meeting because so many people tell me so many bad things about it and I've always been around this forum because many people recommended it to get real reviews about SP and to know the know-hows of this domain but when I'm reading some of the things I see in this post I cannot believe my eyes that some people think in the way they do. A prime example of this is this post, some SP I don't remember who it was and I'm too lazy to check it up said that, considering a situation where the girl who has posted pictures of her in her advertisement CLEARLY advertised WRONGFULLY and used FAKE PHOTOS of a very attractive girl when she is clearly not the girl on the pictures and even less has the attractiveness of the girl depicted, that when the guy opens the door and see's his deception. He should give the girl some money as a "peace-agreement" and that it wasn't required but it would go a LONG way in defusing a situation.... Just think about what you just said for a second... the guy probably had a rough day and wanted to relax and enjoy a session with a lovely Escort and he had expectations and probably though about the pictures advertised in the ad all day long and when he knocks on the door and see's that the girl is really far from being the girl on the photos and not only that, the girl that showed up is NOT EVEN the type of girl that this guy fancies why would the guy care if she has feelings or emotions and she will feel hurt if she is rejected. SHE POSTED FAKE PHOTOS OF HERSELF TO BAIT THE CLIENT... It should be illegal as Escorting services are now legal in Canada/Quebec (at least that's what I heard from a couple people and from an SP and a client and one of my friend so If I'm wrong please correct me) So in my opinion, when something that was illegal becomes LEGAL, it also becomes REGULATED, and there starts to be RULES in advertising and Fake advertising can be a type of FRAUD as much as IDENTITY THEFT is. In my opinion the guy should not only NEVER give her any money, but she should also ask to get some kind of compensation for all the deception that he has to go through to have hoped all day long to meet the girl depicted in the pictures in the ads and then opening the door to an unnattractive lady, the Escort should give him some kind of reimbursement for the time, deception and gaz he spent to get to her location (for incalls) When that girl said that the guy's should give the girl money as a "peace agreement" I was ASTOUNDED... she just TRICKED you and you wanna PAY HER... what this is is doing POSITIVE reinforcement on a very negative behaviour... what should really happen is NEGATIVE reinforcement... get a punishement, and no don't "the fact that she won't get the money" is not a punishement, she didn't lose nothing at all, she just opened the door to an unsatisfied client, HE lost his time, hopes, and money to come to where she lives for a FAKE ad. Not all guys are rich, and it doesn't require a guy to be rich to afford an Escort, I'm on the AFG (Recieving money from government every month while I find a new job to pay for MINIMAL REQUIREMENT expenses) People on AFG recieves 630$ Canadian per month, that is calculated to be the minimal average amount needed for people to just "survive". BUT, I make sacrifices, I don't buy luxury for food, my rent costs about 200$ less than average and I never buy restorants and barely go and never buy alcohol. So in average even without working I can save up to 250$ per month (usually to pay stundent loans and credit card) So if one month I want to spend that 250$ to get a ONE TIME 1h with an Escort, do you really think I will want to compensate a girl who made me spend 15$ of Gaz to go see her? Of course not, I will even me VERY MAD if I don't get my gaz money back, because that's not something I can afford everyday, and not because I can't regularly afford it that I should "NOT GET THAT KIND OF SERVICE" I'm as much entitled to getting that service as anyone else if I'm ready to pay the fees. I do understand that this is my first post but I do think that even if I do say my opinion about some stuff and that I'm against what some people thing, it doesn't make it all negative, there is a lot of good in my post, and also it is my opinion and I share what I think should happen, my fears about stuff like that and what I think is right so I don't think this post should be deleted. It's a very good first post in my opinion and it demonstrate that anyone can enjoy the services of an Escort, not just people who have jobs and get 20$/hour. Students on minimal wages can afford it too, even people without a job could afford it once a month. And I'm always respectful because I'm also registered on 4 Dating websites in which I am very active so I do meet alot of girls who are interested in either casual sex or serious relationship, but most of the time, even the girls who want a serious relationship end up having sex with me on first or second encounter, and I always respect them and even if the sex was bad or I didn't particularly enjoy it I will make it my duty to keep talking to them and be nice to them and if I really don't want to see them again I'll keep them as friends and I'll find a very polite and respectful way to tell them it's not what I'm looking for. So I'm a guy who would be the perfect kind of client for a girl who wants to offer me a GOOD first experience with an escort. It's a shame that people think down on us it's not because we don't CURRENTLY have jobs that we don't have a futur or that we're all hoboes dressing cheaply and having bad hygiene... hygiene is my PRIMARY councern when going to see a girl for a dating site type date. So it would also be for an Escort. But seriously guys, what do you think, what do you REALLY think should happen when you are the victim of BAIT & SWITCH and the girl who opens the door is absolutely not to your taste? Like I said I would ask for an amount equal to what I lost in Gaz or public transportation (Bus/Metro) to get to where she lives. I think that is only fair. As for the situation with the kid, I would have left saying this is a totally innapropriate situation and you should clearly get some help for this kid. And what I think about all other situations, clearly I disagree with everyone who left without getting any service at all and left their money to the escort, I do not think in any cases exept where she really was what she advertised and the place was as advertised but you just don't feel it at that time, then yes FULLY compensate her, otherwise, you should take your money back if the reason you turn back is because of a very unethical situation or the fact that the place/person is not as advertised Altho, if a girl shows only her face and she ends up being 250 pounds, I do think you should discuss with her what price she would like for no service at all and then maybe just leave her a note to please put photos that shows her weight a bit more because you are dissapointed, but she still has the right to show only her face when she is fat, personally if she has a pretty face and nice boobs, I won't care how fat she is, given it's not a 350lbs whale... That pretty much sums up all I had to say for this topic, but I have SO MUCH MORE to say about so many things... I'm looking forward to becoming a known member here, so Peace Out, and Hail to my first of many posts.

Congrats! Keep your opinions up... Cheers.

There is truth to this because I am one of I'm sure many who began to provide bbbj from feeling pressured, the need to be a so called "genuine" gfe and because more than not demanded it. But in saying that I could not justify allowing daty and then expecting the man to be covered. Joining cerb was an eye opener because years before, when I was involved with services, offering that service would get you fired, it wasn't allowed, ever! Now everyone, or it seems like everyone is doing it.To be honest I'd prefer it not be allowed, but who listens to me, lol!

Hi there! :) I just wanted to introduce myself to everyone. I'm new to the business so I hope everyone won't mind if I ask for some help with this site from time to time. I plan on doing lots of reading and am quite excited to learn all about this awesome business Im in. Thanks in advance for your patience! ;) xo

Food fights yay they don't suck at all.. Getting hit with baked beans in a food fight defiantly sucky

Tonight was ceaser salad, grilled steak, little oven roasted potato's and some garlic bread.

Well get your hot ass back out west Jess !! Cause my lips and tongue aren't retiring anytime soon ! I'll do the DATY dance if I have to make ya come back ;) If they outlaw BBBJ tho ...... the sadness may be overwhelming and you might have to revive my bits and pieces sexy pants. See pic below.

If she is a lady you know and have a regular "relationship" with, you both have discussed ahead of time and want to go on the trip together, then yes, prepay her and book the trip If you haven't discussed the trip or committed to it, yet then don't make any financial commitments, either in booking the trip or paying her I have to say though, if I saw a companion that pre paying was not an issue, I wouldn't after the fact be posting "Would you be worried about being scammed" Your relationship isn't that trusting if you post publically especially phrasing as a scam JMO this should have been handled more discretly between you and the lady, and even if she's late (in your mind), like for example one day, would that be a problem as long as trip is booked and you both go You should have had more faith in her before thinking the worst, or if she deserves thinking the worse, why would you want a trip with her JMHO from a guy who pre pays encounters most of the time, and never assumes the worst, because I know I'm not the only one with a life, the ladies have lives too RG

Mmmmmm Greek! Bring on my toga! I love it and have for a very long time. For me, it's about a good lube and guiding the initial approach. Of course, it's also about being relaxed. If you're not relaxed, it is definitely much more difficult to accomplish and not as pleasurable. If it's something that you've had bad experiences with (as a woman), my recommendation is toys, varying sizes. Learn your own body and reactions and then you'll be much more open and comfortable with the exploration of a partner. There are times I crave it and times that a little tease and penetration with fingers makes everything else feel so much better and more intense. It is a very intense pleasurable experience and I indulge whenever I can. Like anything else, it's a personal thing. Love it, hate it, tolerate it, feelings about it are as individual as people. I do believe that there are many people who would probably love it but their experiences haven't been good because of having a partner ignorant of what they're doing. I also whole heartedly believe that men should at least solo sample this as well. The ass has so many amazing nerve endings that not exploring it because of whatever per-conceived notion they have about it, is a shame. In closing....I love me some butt!

I am still here but haven't been on Cerb much as my Father is very sick right now. :(

Seeing the sun peek out and having the day to do as I please:)

I only write tecommendations for those who have genuinely impressed me. If I am recommending someone to the other potential clients here, I consider my own credibility on the hook.

Indeed I do squirt but sometimes, for some reasons it just won't happen. I do provide guidance on how to literally soak my bed or your face!!! And, let's say, if U R very good at it, it will most likely happen but I don't control the amount of squirting juice that will cum out. If U don't point at noon or 2 it won't happen when U penetrate me so because I do love squirting and the way I get off when squirting, I ask U to stand on your knees and I do the same thing and I ask U to finger me real well and very fast and intensely and well it will most likely happen. But like I say if U or even I put to much pressure on myself it just doesn't happen. And lot of the times it just flows rapidly (within 15 seconds with a few regulars that were quite astonished and so was I as a matter of fact!!!!) but sometimes my poor babe can end up saying my hand is sore....!!! So just have the lady feel nice and she might give it to U but in no way should U disregard her if she can't that time. If she either advertises she does squirt or U have asked her and she said she did, she is squirting for there is no way one respectable SP would advertise something she really can't offer for it would, at the long end, hurt her career because word to mouth spreads really quickly. So I can only suggest to develop a relationship with the SP advertising and or saying she does and in no time it should happen! Barbara

How gentle and careful he is when he touches and caress me. His gentleness and firmness combine are something that make me feel especial because although the desire could provoke a primitive and animal like reaction, he's still watchful on being gentle. Eye contact is also what make me feel special woman when you look in each other eyes you can build an stronger and deeper connection. That connection is unique with every person! Knowing that I can arouse and entice him just by whispering softly in his ear. That makes me feel really special. Seeing a big smile on his face when he leaves!

I really hope this comes off the way I mean it and not abrasive. I can squirt, and get as many ladies I am sure am asked this question. Just because I can, doesn't mean I can do so on demand. I an not a machine or a circus clown. If you choose to spend an hour or so with me and this is something that important to you it really stresses me out to have you try and make this happen. Please think before you try to make this part of our date. Women are human beings and as such please don't force this . Perhaps a gentleman can last for hours or have several fantastic orgasms in a certain time frame. Great, but I bet no man would want to be pressured into doing so on demand. If I may borrow RG's line. K's rambling's.

I don't see it as hypocritical (or that that is a fair assessment of risk level, to promote doing bbbjs, for example, i am not isolating your comment, just that it is often used as an attack on sps who say cbj only, but allow kissing and daty) because the risk LEVEL is not at all the same. There is still risk, but you compare two low risk activity with one high risk activity, and it isn't comparable. I also note the talking to the doctor, but my advice is to talk to the experts at an std clinic. Drs. are great at general info, but they are not experts in everything. They will either greatly exagerate or underestimate your personal risk activity. The std clinic professionals are the only ones, when i went in for testing at my regular clinic and std clinic, to ask me about throat swab or how i did oral sex, and pointed out that if bbbjs are done, then they go for the throat (so to speak). I don't think we can underestimate the risk to the sp, not necessarily the client, in a bbbj. She is the recipient, not he. I do think it is a moderate risk for clients, tho, not high risk but not no risk or low risk either. On the topic, tho, i doubt if it will change how many sps give or do not give bbbjs. I think the ones that do not now are mainly the ones who don't do it because they won't accept the risks, and the ones who do it the vast majority don't know the risks, they are allowing someone else to tell them, whether they are foreign workers or just younger workers, they aren't finding out for themselves the std facts. What is the most common thing available at an agency? bbbj. Is this service a condition of employment? Is it a condition of getting bookings or recommendations when sp is new to the agency? Some agencies have been reported that some services are mandatory, including high risk services. The only thing that this report will help is if the industry was regulated by Occupation Health and Safety lol I wouldn't call this an 'end' to bbbjs, but a 'return' to how things used to be. bbbjs are only common now that everyone thinks that there is a cure for HIV and/or that it isn't transmitted that way. as the OP points out, HIV is not the issue when it comes to oral sex, everything else is, and those things, untreated are evey bit as life or health threatening as HIV.

I think if you are going to question bbbj's then you have to question daty and even kissing. apparently kissing can also spread this. It's passed in the saliva, as the article I've included attests. I fully agree here. We all take precautions and are very aware our own hygiene. But with this strain of bacteria, it really does make us all take a look at who we are with and what we are doing. Due diligence on all sides would be useful here. Making sure that we all keep ourselves free from any forms of bacteria should be a part of daily living, but one never knows who the other person has been with. It will be up to providers to figure out what levels they are going to give in to when it comes to seeing gentlemen.

I expect unless someone is a very good actor the lady in question probably felt something was amiss or that you weren't really into the session. If you are picking your providers wisely, there should be no drama or upset if you arrive and then say you don't believe you should continue with the session. At this point, it would be respectful to compensate in some way. I'm sure every provider has their own view on what would be acceptable. I'm assuming this was simply a case of what you thought you were getting from ads, website and other sources did not meet your expectations and was not a B&S? Life is too short to be forcing yourself to do something you don't want to do especially in a "choice" area (as opposed to say family or work obligation). Walking away is good for both in this situation.

I spent a lot of time "doing the drill". Trying to find meaningful work to satisfy the mind, body and soul as well as meet obligations. Mostly that turned into a huge stress factor because, while I was good at it, I didn't "love" it. I always thought it would be cool to be a sex worker in some capacity but was too focused on the "normal" stuff to think much about it. I have friends in the industry who always said I'd be good at it. So, when I hit a crossroads a bit ago I said why not. Let's try something I love where I get to play by my rules. It's taken me awhile to establish myself for a variety of reasons but here I am, loving what I do, loving the people I meet and being true to myself even if that means I do things differently. For anyone who has ever took a look at my blog or read one of my stories or read something I wrote that I was passionate about, I think my love and need for all things sensual and sexual becomes very clear. I love to please, to entice, to pleasure and satisfy. I also love to explore. There is a whole lotta love for me in doing what I do and I thank everyone who has allowed me to do it *rawr*