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Lovely answer....and glad to see the mouth rinsing. I would also like to mention to others avoid brushing your teeth or flossing just before a date, So it a good 30-45 mins before oral. The gums heal quickly but do get small tears from from brushing and flossing.

It is true there many ways to get in the mood. Also true that there a certain level of risk involved for both parties. Anytime there is an exchange of body fluids, whether through DATY or DFK, there is the possibility of bacterial. Personally I always am meticulous about total body hygiene. I use a good antibacterial mouthwash before and after, I wash my hands as frequently as possible. I have included STD/STI in the regular health check that I go through. And so far so good which increases my confidence in the ladies I see. There is no perfect solution. Just like, after taking all precautions, you can still catch a cold. We can't isolated ourselves in a "glass bubble" hoping no one will break it! After you have done all you can then you have to trust you partner and just enjoy each other within our individual limits. You do the right thing in refusing DATY if that makes you uncomfortable. Just simply do what you are comfortable doing and enjoy most. We should not complicate things so much that it is no longer fun!!!

I personally don’t like receiving oral from clients mostly due to hygiene. You don’t know if this person has brushed their teeth or where else their mouth has been that day. As well as certain women can be quite sensitive to the bacteria in your mouth. Having multiple people a day giving you oral can lead to yeast infection and other complications. I feel like it is quite intimate and there are plenty of other ways to get both parties in the mood

I have a simple rule I follow. It is respect of my partner. I do not get any pleasure in doing something that she does not derive pleasure in. I always try to be sure that she does not let me do something just to please me but she doesn't really enjoy. I enjoy long foreplay and DATY is something that is like a magnet for me. I like to be told when enough is enough! I have no "elephant in the room" , I just book sufficient time. But respect and keeping inside the boundaries, discussion and being able to compromise are important things. It is really quite simple, we just need to behave like civilized humans!

Oh this is a battle for me as a hobbyist and as a provider. I absolutely adore oral both giving amd receiving. In my early hobbyist days I had a really hard time finding woman that would take a female client. I was booking off BP and got a lot of rejection. (Lets not even start on the days of stats in the Chronicle herald classifies and land lines. 🙄) I had a lot of rejection from providers who were not comforptable with even the suggestion of female clients and that kinda rejection affected me even though i realize they had never met or seen me. That all changed 6-7 years ago for me when I came to lyla/cerb as a hobbyist. The ladies I saw her happily let me indulge myself on their lovely forms, even if they were less then willing for men. They were Lovely, wonderful caring woman who were open to me and a community of hobbyists that helped me pick who and gave me feedback on their experiences.(Big shout out @mikeboy who never steered me wrong and seems to share my taste in woman). With all the past provider rejection I had faced when I found a few I liked I kinda stuck with them. Also I know as a female hobbyist my experience with hobbying and daty may vary so I am wondering what the men and providers have to say on this. As a provider Use of protection and OT really all depends on the person and in their own personal attention to hygienic care and connection with me. I do have the potential to have very intense orgasms with oral and the right man can make me all glassey eyed and stupid after. Doesn't happen a lot to that degree a lot but it does and it can and that is not exact safe in this profession. I have to be careful who I allow such things with. I also need to make sure they are well serviced first in case I turn into a big pile of mush after a few intense orgasm and my orgasm exhaustion will affect their service. I am typically low volume with no back to backs so I can afford to expend my energy this way if I choose. If I trust and connect to the client and they want to service me I am not exactly a clock watcher. In such cases I will lay back and enjoy myself. However that doesn't make it a yes for everyone either. I can fully get how safety and time would make this a no for many providers.

Hygiene is very important and even then not knowing each ones history you are both taking a risks .

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/london/superior-court-judge-rules-parts-of-prostitution-laws-are-unconstitutional-1.5471207

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yes both taking risks...very rare that I have had a sp tell me no...

The "elephant in the room" is not the clock, but more a question of consent and hygiene. Daty (Dining At The Y) and other things may not always be welcomed and occasionally only permitted with some protection. If essential for you, maybe read details and restrictions posted in ads. And as some can be selective, maybe take it slowly and enjoy what's allowed. Also suggest these threads on the subject:

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