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I am not exactly sure that this an appropriate thing to do here but I'm asking anyway. I have a friend in Mtl who is a single mother with a 16 yr old autistic son. She lives to make sure her son is constantly stimulated with life and his dreams. They are sometimes simple. He has been fascinated with balloons his whole life. But something as cheap as a hot air balloon ride is not in her finances. So she entered a contest. The kindness here would be if you took 30 seconds and went and voted for her picture. All you have to do is click on vote. No scam, no registering, just a 16 yr old who has a chance for a simple balloon ride. Thank you Chanel http://www.ballooncanada.com/index.php/en/concours_banque_laurentienne/decouvre_la_photo/110/popularite

I had already been experienced in this business but never knew I had this talent until I used a sex toy and never had a full body orgasm. I could always cum or gush but never experienced that feeling all over where your eyes are about to roll in the back of your head and never squirted. I was in my mid 20's and had an exclusive arrangement with a client at the time who had just came back from a business trip and brought me a gift. It was a 10 inch dildo who we affectionately named "Mr Pink". This person and I had great chemistry so it was only natural for us to try something new. I ended up laying on the bed and giving him a bj with my head leaning over the bed. He pulled out the dildo and started to use it on me. Things only got hotter from there and while it was strange to use a toy because of the material it was made with, I was extremely turned on. There I was with his cock in my mouth and he started using this dildo on me. I started to get wetter and wetter and all of a sudden I could feel a strange sensation go from my toes to my head still with his cock pressed deep in my throat. I didn't know what hit me and then I started squirting everywhere to the point where I hit myself and my friend. I jumped up alarmed by what was happening and then there was a huge gush. He said in a soft voice "You just had an orgasm and squirted everywhere." I said, "Ï'd like to try that again sometime." From that day forward, an Ottawa squirter was born.

Not that it's much of a debate, but I think that this picture of Angel should convince everybody. (posted with permission)

Changing sheets and redoing our makeup is a very small part of our work. Sex work is also emotional labour. Spending 2 hours with one gentleman can be a lot more emotionally draining than spending an hour each with 2 gentlemen. Chemistry would play a huge role here.

Hi I often have troubles sleeping at night. I am not sleepy most of the time and average about 5 hours of sleep But I often get up once or twice in the middle of the night and have a hard time to get back to sleep. Any advice on any natural remedies to help me get to sleep faster and to stay asleep. As you can see I am not sleeping yet :)

I would like to thank everyone for your well wishes! My day has gotten off to a fabulous start and it is partially due to all you kind peeps! Thank you! xo

You know you're old when none of your friends want to go to a concert on a weeknight because it will run past their bedtime. ISN'T THERE ANYONE WHO WANTS TO GO SEE JUDAS PRIEST WITH ME IN MONTREAL - SIGH!!!1

Hopefully people won't share rates, either publicly or by PM. The only people that get to announce rates are the ladies charging them. The problem is that if a lady changes her rates and then gets contacted by someone who's been given out-of-date information - even if only the best of intentions are involved - awkwardness and embarrassment and misunderstandings can result, and that's not good for anyone :) Same goes for info on exactly what you get. The fact that a location is discussed in this forum should tell you a certain amount - but the exact details may very from person to person, and the ladies have every right to do (or not do) things as they feel inclined at the time. YMMV, as they say. Other people's experiences are only ever a rough guideline - nothing more.

Cock rings come in different materials and configurations. In my experience with older men and men with erectile uncertainties, the man's comfort with the device is very important. I urge men to check out the various models and decide what they want to try. Every one of these has advantages and some drawbacks. All of the toys here are available at Honey Gifts in Vancouver. There are the leather ones with snaps that capitalman mentioned. These are well made from good-quality leather. With four snaps, there are several adjustment options. The snaps make it easy to remove the ring after ejaculation. Leather rings cost $12-15. There are lasso-type adjustable ones: These work best when slipped around the penis and scrotum. The one on the left is made of medical-grade surgical rubber which will make it easy to clean. However, if you're allergic to latex, this may not be the best choice. The ring on the right is made of silicone. Both are fully adjustable for the fit that feels best for you. The rubber one costs about $10 and the silicone is about $19. There are silicone ones that come in different sizes and shapes: These silicone rings are very stretchy. You slide them on over the penis and you can stretch them to go around the scrotum, too, if you like. I keep a set of the ones on the far left in my condom bag. The ones in the middle have different bumps and spines of different textures, all intended to provide additional clitoral stimulation for the woman. The one on the far right is similar to the trio on the left, but has a bigger diameter. These silicone rings cost about $10 for the sets as well as for the single one. And there are some elite models that are beautifully designed and include variable pulse vibrators: This model is made by Lelo, is fully adjustable, rechargeable and costs $126.00. I've never used this model, but Lelo makes ultra high-quality sex toys that are durable, beautifully designed and, the women's toys, at least, are worth every penny. There are other models that have built-in clit vibrators and perineum stimulators. Good ones are made of silicone and can be found in adult toy stores. Cheap, disposable models are available on the racks where condoms are sold in drugstores. I wouldn't use the drugstore variety as most of them are made of a gel substance that is often used in inexpensive sex toys but which can have some unpleasant health consequences for women who are exposed to it frequently. Cock rings should fit snugly, not tightly. As capitalman said, they help to maintain erections by restricting the blood flow. However, if too tight, they may make ejaculation difficult or impossible. Even though these are designed for men, it's important to consider the woman with whom they are used. I am very picky about what can come in contact with my body, particularly my genitals. For that reason, if you are with me, we can either use one of the stretchy, silicone rings that I provide, or you can bring a brand-new, still-in-the-original-sealed-package model of the kind you prefer. I will discard the one you bring after we part company (I don't keep toys in labelled envelopes for each client). The silicone rings are boilable and can be washed in the dishwasher, which means that I know how they were cleaned. As I noted, above, I won't use toys made of gel, at all. Since these toys are inexpensive, buy a couple of different kinds and try them by yourself. See what feels easiest to put on and take off, whether you want more adjustment control or whether you just like the feel of one more than another. I usually ask clients to put the rings on themselves to avoid pinching or pulling pubic hair uncomfortably. Finally, although it's easy for me to say, please don't feel embarrassed or anxious about using a cock ring with a paid companion. Erectile difficulties happen to all men at some point. Being with a new partner can increase anxiety a bit in addition to the various health problems that are a product of aging and lifestyle. Using a cock ring with a condom can be a great way to have a very satisfying, safe encounter with a paid companion.

Done...and would be willing to give $50 towards a balloon ride if they don't win. Anybody care to match?? How's that for random? E.

I wanted to be the first one to wish you a most awesome birthday, lovey! May your day be fun-filled.

Nice thread.... Kissing, to me, is similar in a way to making love...it's all about the buildup...I like to kiss someone fully on the lips at first...not hard, gently...just to kind of see how our lips fit together...then pull back, look into their eyes and kiss them again, but this time move on from closed mouth to softly biting them on the lower or upper lip...the tongue starts to play at this point...gently probing, taking my time...savoring...then as the passion builds, our tongues and lips start to move faster, intertwined...to me, this is where the passion begins in any sexual encounter...also love to kiss the side and the back of the neck and the shoulders also...very erotic...ok, going to stop here...lol...and as a last little comment, the only thing I do to the ears is inhale when my lips are cupping them...anything else almost feels like an intrusion...but the inhalation is light enough to be very sensuous...needless to say, I love kissing..:)

Two words... Sleep Clinic. Not everyone needs 8 hours of sleep, if you feel rested when you wake up that's all that really matters. If you don't, you should see a doctor. There seems to be an awful lot of self medicating going on in this thread, (which I don't totally disagree with,) but self medicating can be dangerous, even with natural items. Sleepeze can be very dangerous for the heart, and St John's Wort, when taken improperly (like with wine or cheese) can lead to an increase in blood pressure. I hope everyone's playing as safe with the OTCs as they do with sex. ;)

A few other options are 1) tart cherry juice (4 oz drink twice daily or just one in the evening) 2) valerian.. natures wonderful relaxing 'valerian' 3) a combo herbal with hops, chamomile, valerian, scullcap (scutellaria), lemonbalm or a few others 4) be sure to not have caffeine after noon! 5) make sure all lights are off and all electronic equipment is off.. even a clock with l.e.d. lighting can trick your mind into believing it's daylight outside so cover it up. 6) be sure the temperature in the room is cool enough for sleeping I personally love having lemonbalm, green tea and lavender soaps in my room and when I walk in I immediately feel like I'm in a spa and want to relax.

Okay, so like, when exactly are you coming to O-town??

Ohh, can I be the spokesperson for this secret? Perhaps Jabba and I should co-host a workshop for SPs. lol. I can do it up to 10 times in a half hour session but it also depends on how it is done, the mood I'm in. Even better with toys. I once hit myself in the face doing this! I've been doing it for so long that I'm like a faucet. I can turn it on and off. Many ladies I know what me to show them how to do it. Have towels, will travel.

If something about your body that contribute to a lack of confidence, and is hurting your self esteem, then I see nothing wrong with it. Providing you have a good doctor who can recognize symptoms of an unhealthy body image( such in the case of those who truly can not see what other's do see) and assuming the decision has been made with the guidance of a doctor.

OMG!!!! We have to go for lunch!!!! Just saying!!!! Posted via Mobile Device

for me texting or Email is OK for initial contact however to book an appointment or go into further detail I only use phone voice method.Pm is the worst way for booking as I'm not near the computer at all times and id likely miss you if you wanted same or next day arrangements. xoxooxo Kaylee

I completely agree :p Now back to the topic at hand. Or underhand as the case may be with using established names. When I chose my name I used my birth month and my favorite time of day then googled it plus escort. If I could do that with zero previous contact to the sex trade then anyone else can. Using an established name to me definetly reeks of dishonesty especially if they are made aware of the fact. In all actuality its bait and switch. Posted via Mobile Device

Hey WW... here's an idea. Why not contact one of your favourite Winnipeg providers and ask her who she is comfortable working with? (if she does duos) The best duos are all about chemistry and you will ALWAYS have a much better time with duo partners who click. Just a suggestion... good luck to ya!

Ah, that's what I was missing. I had visions of a mattress stuffed with feathers. But I'm still amused by the idea of you walking down the street with a mattress and taking it to the dry-cleaner, so I'm sticking with that, if only because it makes me smile :)

A featherbed is like a packed duvet, Phaedrus. I put one on top of the mattress and cover it with a fitted sheet. The featherbed is quite heavy and truly wonderful. Soft. It helps keep a person warm in winter and cool in the summer. I have three of them. The oldest is in storage. There's one on the bed and another stowed away in a closet just in case I need to switch. And yes, I get them dry-cleaned. Which is expensive. I suppose that, if you had an industrial-sized washing machine, you could wash them and then lay them out in the sun to dry. But that would take a long time and here, in Vancouver, in September, I don't want to risk rain, or just being unable to get the thing fully dry. So the drycleaner can grin broadly when I take the featherbed in every now and then. I don't have to do this very often, thank heaven. But today... well, let's be polite and indirect, okay? The towels that were supposed to be underneath me weren't in the right place... 'nuff said!

Happy Birthday, Dorinda. All the best to you.

Yes, there is! Chris Atchison, who teaches Sociology at Simon Fraser U, has been doing a lot of research related to prostitutes and clients in Canada since about 1996. His most recent research project was for his Ph.D. from the U of Toronto. Entitled Johns Voice, the purpose of the project was to: Develop an understanding of the manner in which power relationships between buyers and sellers of sex are determined and negotiated; Establish whether there is an empirical basis for the calculation of risk that has been attributed to the attitudes and behaviours of sex buyers; Understand and explain the connection between individual acts of violence and the specific commercial settings in which these acts occur; Understand the need for, and effectiveness of, socio-legal interventions directed at consumers of sexual services; Develop effecivie policy, education and intervention strategies that are informed by the experiences and insights of members of the sex buying community; and Provide a space for the inclusion of the voices of sex buyers within current political, social and academic discussions pertaining to prostitution in Canada. I have linked to the Executive Summary of Atchison's report. It's about 40 pages long and well worth reading. He believes that it he has studied the largest sample of sex buyers that has ever been created. His study involved a self-administered questionnaire followed by in-depth interviews with participants who had been sampled to ensure theoretical diversity. Atchison's research blows the claims made by Perrin and Farley out of the water.

Hope you have a great birthday, Dorinda!

Happy birthday, Dorinda! Have a fantastic day!

To my Lovely Dorinda... xox

Happy Birthday! Hope it's a good one!

Happy burfday gorgeous!!!! Now get yourself back to Ottawa so we can give out the birthday spanks and pinches!!! xoxo

Many Happy Returns Dorinda!

Happy Birthday luvvy! Wishing you a wonderful birthday! Have a great day my fellow Virgo! xoxo

Well, it's not really crazy unless you call it beef strokin' off!

Congratulations Cato!! I enjoy reading and viewing your posts!! Now to celebrate... Gabriella xox

I think the issue here is that there are a number of ladies with different styles and interests and we do not all have the same business model. I am contacted at least once a day with someone asking for my "one hour rate" to which I constantly need to reiterate that I don't offer one hour dates as they are very different in nature than longer dates. When someone advertises 15min, 30min or 45min dates you can be sure that the lady is advertising a sexual service meaning the focus of the encounter is very specifically the sexual act. When ladies advertise longer dates and services as their main offering they are generally focused on the chemistry, the connection and more of a date feel. These are two very different types of services and very few ladies can effectively offer both as many ladies have said longer dates can be very emotionally exhausting and shorter dates can be very physically exhausting. In your post you highlight that you are looking for the longer date, the connection which in general will not be established in a date of less than one hour (and often 2hrs or more) so I'd guess you are not in the target market for the ladies that prefer to offer shorter dates. There are different markets for the various types of encounters and it's very important to seek out those that provide the type of experience you are seeking, otherwise you are likely to be disappointed with the outcome of your date. So I don't single out another lady I'll use myself as an example, please bear with me as I don't have much experience with the shorter date. I always advertise 2hrs or more, I do have discounted rates for multiple hours, my dinner date (half out half in) isn't even double my 2hr rate and often is longer than 4hrs as well and as such it's my most popular date. I offer that because I am trying to make it clear that I prefer a social engagement, I enjoy talking to my dates and getting to know them as individuals. I used to offer 1hr dates when I was with an agency and though I still met a number of wonderful people I always walked away from the date a bit uncomfortable, I felt awkward and I wasn't able to relax and enjoy my time with the person I was with, when it came to intimacy I never felt I could relax and enjoy myself as I didn't feel a particular level of trust with the person I was with. I'm not an extrovert, in fact I'm very introverted so for me the immediate intimacy of 1hr dates was difficult. Now I know a number of good friends in the industry that have a completely opposite take on this business, one lady explained to me what she enjoyed best is the 'dirty' feeling of meeting someone new and having sex with them while not knowing much about them. Another lady said she finds it difficult in longer encounters to find that connection as she's in a different point in her life than most of her clients but they both enjoy sex and she can find that commonplace in a half hour or hour. So there are different ladies, different views and different approaches, one is not better than the other they are just tailored for different people and hopefully we all connect with the type of date we are looking for. Finally in regards to costing often you are paying a premium for longer dates rather than shorter ones. For my base city my $1500 for a dinner date is fairly average but my 2hr date of $900 is a premium. This has nothing to do with the amount of time I spend changing sheets, showering, etc. but is mainly based on the incentive to those that also enjoy social dates, it's a way of connecting with my preferred audience. In fact longer dates can take much more planning and work as most extended dates are prebooked and multiple emails (or phone calls) will be exchanged before one arrives at final plans. When a client is paying $1500 vs. $250 for a date there are higher expectations on the lady even though the lady at $250/hr may make more in gross profit than the lady at the higher rate. I know it's often expected of me to have nails, hair and makeup done, in general it's expected that I have a much more extensive wardrobe to allow me to easily blend with whatever environment I am invited to and those clothes are expected to be of a certain quality as well as I am expected to appear to match the clients social status - it generally isn't discrete to go to a fine dining restaurant with a lady half your age in a $30 dress when you are wearing something bespoke. So all in all the costs are different, how the ladies invest in their business is different and how they spend their time as well. I also don't spend a lot of my day sitting at an incall waiting for the phone to ring but the cost of that time is certainly calculated in how a lady with a different business model much the same as I calculate the time spent emailing with restaurant suggestions, verification, or concierge type services. *whew* end of my novel but I hope (if anyone bothered to read it) I have provided a little more insight into why ladies structure their businesses, both time and cost, the way they do.

Two words. Tina Fey. :-)

Reading on the bus and having someone play some acoustic songs on their guitar beside me. The bus was pretty empty, and I found myself wanting to stay on the bus rather than get off... I missed my bus stop, and got off the bus when he did. I ran up after him, awkwardly and said "Thank you". He was really flabbergasted and then I told him I had to hop the 95 back in the other direction. He laughed and then I took the bus back to where I was going. I never regret moments like that. I didn't have anywhere important to be anyway :-)

I agree ! Quite simply a good post looking for opinions from people as to whether 45 minutes is an option, for those that maybe don't offer it now. Either an SP is interested or not interested and that is their perogative. There should NOT be criticism of ladies who offer short appointments......it should not be assumed that they are running the guys through the chute like cattle for money by the minute ...... They are offering a service to clients who have a time issue or a budget issue. That is how it should be looked at. If you have the opinion otherwise it does not need to be posted in this thread. Just keep that in the back or your mind. IMO

I could go for some delicious samosas from the Farmer's Market in Fredericton. They are all meat (or veggies) with no potatoes or anything taking up space. They may not be as traditional, but they are delicious.

It is nice when things like that can take you back to wonderful memories! Dr.s orders, is to make a kraft piazza right away and reminisce! xox Luv ya ;)

To me meeting a "non recommended" lady is much the same as meeting a lady in real life. By using you God given ability to speak, listen, understand and think for yourself you can make a wise and informed decision. Don't ever underestimate the power of conversation when you wish to meet someone here on Cerb. As said in countless threads before if you are respectful the lady will answer your questions and respond to your comments, and she may even ask you a question or two...thus a dialogue is opened. A date, much like a relationship, is forged on trust and communication and YOU can't trust somebody by relying on someone else's opinion! So basically recommendations are both important and not important at the same time...quite a paradox, no?

Your question sounds like it's geared towards the gents, but I'd like to answer anyways. Chemistry is so important to me. It's the difference between thinking: "Oh my god, when is this going to be over?" and "Wow, I can't believe I'm getting paid for this! This is awesome!" Obviously I prefer the second. I'm able to judge somewhat from my screening if there will be chemistry between us, and if I get the feeling it may not be there, I generally turn down the appointment. But you can never really know and it does happen that gentlemen arrive with whom I have no chemistry. It's nobody's fault. I just do my best to provide the best possible service, and then I will not see him again, though that feeling is generally mutual. I also expect that many gentlemen read my posts and able able to judge if I'm someone they would like to spend time with. My thoughts.

Myself, I'm deeply honored to even be nominated here. Much thanks to the people who voted for me!

Greetings fellow CERBians. I speak to you today, not as your president (we don't have one), not as the most popular member (that ship has sailed)... just as a guy who cares about this place. We have found ourselves over the past few days witnessing our own version of 9/11. We have endured and are enduring a crisis of the value of membership, the value of participation and the value of being who we are. Let's not quibble over the purpose of this site. It is an Escort Recommendation Board. That's what the big banner in the top left corner says. We all joined for one of two reasons. Either we are a consumer and as such wish to interact with providers, read recommendations and then book appointments with said provider(s) OR we are providers and as such wish to interact with our clients, provide consumer information about availability, prices and services, and ultimately book appointments to provide services to the consumer. Bare bones, that's what this site is all about. We have become a community as a result of the tireless efforts of the many. That community is in jeopardy as a result of the capricious efforts of the few. This is NOT an us against them, penis vs vagina, male vs female community. Some have tried to turn it into that. None of us should be using this community to exert POWER. It is not about politics, it is not about any kind of "ism." This community is at its absolute BEST when we treat each other as equals and enjoy playful banter without being stigmatized. I suggest that we have two camps that wish to fight a small battle regardless of the innocent casualties incurred. While I see the merits in both arguments, THIS IS NOT A BATTLEGROUND NOR IS IT A PLACE TO FORWARD YOUR OWN POLITICAL AGENDA. I still have hope that we can return to what we once were, that we can again become a lively community where no one will fear causing offence to others. My CERB will always be a welcoming place where people can have naughty fun; it is my hope that yours can and will be as well. OD 10/9/11 @1:34 pm

I'm sure that human trafficking is a problem, world-wide. Relatively few charges and convictions in Canada can't be taken as an indication of how much trafficking is, or isn't, going on. From what I've read, it's impossible to know how many trafficked labourers of any kind there are. They don't report to some government service or co-ordinating agency when they leave home or when they arrive in their destination, after all. This makes it easy to inflate their numbers; it also makes it easy to discount them. Reports I've read estimate that only 2-4% of trafficked women end up in the sex trade. It's impossible to know what to make of the estimate, though. It seems clear that most workers are in farm labour, industrial labour of various kinds, construction and domestic work. However, sorting out the trafficked from the migrants isn't an easy task. I think we also need to be aware of the biases that are part of being privileged in Canada and elsewhere. For many people, it's difficult to imagine choosing to travel across the world to work in what we may consider to be subsistence employment. If we don't want to work on farms or do someone else's housework and childcare, we may not appreciate why other people might want those jobs. Our lack of awareness about the economic plight of many of the world's people can lead to snap judgments. The real problem may not be that people will come to Canada illegally to work; it may be that economic conditions make it impossible for them to work and support their families at home. Blaming people for finding even desperate solutions to their problems is a convenient way to avoid addressing the real issues. It's not surprising to me that prohibitionists ignore the hard realities that motivate migration. Taking shots at prostitution doesn't require much analysis. But just as prohibitionists skate over the reasons for migration, they also ignore the reasons that many women enter the sex trade. Speaking for myself, I had never considered this to be a way for me to make a living. Only when circumstances made it impossible for me to support my children--when I had no other options that did not include giving custody to their father who would ensure that I had no further contact with them--I chose to become a prostitute. I didn't know if I could do it, or if I could do it for very long. I saw it as a short-term, stop-gap maneuver that might buy me some time. I made most of the mistakes that many women make when they start out; high volume service at low rates seemed to be the way to go. I might have carried on with that had I not had some clients who encouraged me to think differently. Those good men were fundamentally important because, at the time, they were better than I was at assessing me, what I had to offer and how to package it. In Toronto's highly competitive market, I was able to be successful even though I was older than most companions. I'm pretty sure that Joy Smith's simplistic analysis about the sex trade and violence against women cannot take into account the ways that male privilege and family law frequently harm many, many women and their children. Joy might say that it would have been better for me to lose my children than to become a paid companion. She has no idea about the realities of most women's lives. She doesn't trust women to know what is best for them and their children.

My lips, :boobies: My BREASTS!!!!!!!! :boobies: , my vagina :wink: , my calves & my shoulders too!

My eyes, ass, hair and smile!! Almost everything except one part.

I love my legs!!!

Wow! Great review. I'll bet Diora couldn't have written it better herself!