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Honestly, I'm not a fan of recommendations, reviews or rating one another's various bits. Yeah, I know, the whole premise of this site is to recommend providers to each other, but I find that what works for me or makes me happy is personal, and might not appeal to someone else. Well, in principle anyways. I'm pretty vanilla. I'm more disturbed by rating body bits, whether they are male or female. I have a type I like: genealogy around my age or younger, slim, preferrably with a few tattoos. A nice tight butt. I'm not a boob guy, so I couldn't care less whether they are big or small, real or fake. I tend to prefer brunettes, as well, but it's not a hard fast rule. However. I can decide for myself whether I find someone attractive. I don't need to roll out a list of names and pictures of the ladies on here with nice asses. I enjoy the pictures, but I can definitely see how it is hurtful for one SP to see a bunch of immature banter about how a different SP has the "best" this or that. Great if you're the winner, not so much if you're not. I'm not hung like a horse. I don't really care. Much. But, I also don't want an open discussion amongst women I've met comparing my advantages and disadvantages with other providers and clients. That's hurtful too. And "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" is about as useful an excuse as "two wrongs make a right". If you don't like the "best of" threads, don't replicate them by creating your own. We all have different shapes, sizes, likes and dislikes. There's nothing "best" in any of that. Sent from my HTC EVO 3D X515a using Tapatalk

I don't have any gag reflex:D that count right?

To be honest, in this community we all see some of the same people, so in answer to your question, yes some of us probably know the names of some of your clients/hobbyists. Sometimes people will post replies to questions or ideas that you may post about, take it with a grain of salt, read it and let it go. More than enough ladies and men have mentioned that the idea of this thread was not liked and at the end of the day it goes past what us ladies stand for...BEING DISCREET. Potential clients and existing clients want to know that there is discretion 110% of the time (before, during and after the encounter), by posting this thread you may have given some the wrong idea about how discreet you may be. If the men wish to compare one amazing ass to another let them, I hardly find it necessary to compare packages, what did you have to gain from this thread, I hardly find the subject a joking matter when ones privacy could be threatened. I will never discuss details about anyone I have ever met (unless they have harmed me) other than that the most important thing about being a companion is being discreet and keeping your clients details private. When you post on a public board, expect to hear replies you do not like, as you said everyone has an opinion.

Being in this business means we have to be more confident and thick skinned. We have to accept people for who they are ...and thankfully through recos and best of ads we get to know people..we can then decide if we would like to be a companion of theirs. We don't have to agree to see everyone that asks to see us. That being said some will compare us, praise us,berate us. We can't like everything that is said about us but we can still stand proud because we are ladies. Comparing gents packages isn't part of our work...it would be disrespectful and lets face it mean. If we don't like to see us being compared to others or the best of threads then don't look at them. I don't...i am who i am and i'm happy. This site is for men to get to know who we are. The men are here to find a lady that meets their taste not to be compared to other men. WE have to in this job mind our manners,be respectful and most of all discrete and trustworthy. comparing packages isn't any of those things. Emma

It's been said before by others, but I will reiterate. We're in the business of being discreet. If you can't keep your mouth shut about which guys have the best package, what else are you going to let slip? Writing a review, or posting photos in a "best of" thread are totally different things--that is, the client/hobbyist chooses to participate in those--he's not outed by a third party.

READ!!!! Don't book an appt and THEN ask for donation requirements, restrictions etc... I would say that most ladies either post their info in their ads and if not they include links to their websites. Some of us utilize the "about me" tab to explain as much as we can. Don't be lazy...get your ducks in a row and everyone will have a much more satisfying time!

I give really great fellatio.....:tongue:

Gonna Find Out Who's Naughty AND Nice....... Hotel booked - Check Toys ready to bring - Check Snow tires on - Check Weather forecast for driving. I choose the Weather Network forecast not the Environment Canada one. - Check Christmas tie. - Check Good company - Check Christmas spirit - Check Ready to meet new and old friends - Check Mistletoe - Hoping to come across some there. See you on Thursday evening. :)

On the subject of recommendations .... Sometimes I write a graphic and detailed recommendation. Before I publish it, I always let the lady review it first to see if she has any objections. To their credit, none of them has ever asked me to remove anything. So if the same would apply here, then the SPs would need to ask the client if their packages can be mentioned or not. On the subject of rating physical characteristics .... For me, bigger boobs are not better, they are just bigger. Long labia are as erotic as short labia. A tall and thin woman is no more desirable than a short and curvy one. An older Sp can be just as much of a turn on as a younger one. I just love all different physical types.

Thought I'd start a thread to allow everyone the opportunity to share what his/her/their talent is! I would say mine is that I can sing, love to sing and have been training with a coach on and off for about 10 years or so... (currently training to audition for an Opera *eek!) What about you? xoxo Sky

December 17th is International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. This event was created to call attention to hate crimes committed against sex workers all over the globe. International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers has empowered workers from cities around the world to come together and organize against discrimination and remember victims of violence. Existing laws prevent sex workers from reporting violence. The stigma and discrimination that is perpetuated by the prohibitionist laws has made violence against us acceptable. Please join with sex workers around the world and stand against criminalization and violence committed against sex workers. We will be hosting a gathering open to all those who support our anti-violence campaign. There will be a few presentations and then dancing after. December 17th 2011 8pm-midnite Prophouse Cafe 1636 Venables Vancouver BC Suggested donation $5. Nobody turned away at the door.

I have noticed in the past week here on this board, that some tempers have been flared and opinions have been presented. We had a thread closed by Mod, but left people wondering why those comments were made in the first place. Where is your Christmas spirit? We have another thread going on right now, I read it this morning, and YES I stayed out of it, why because that person is so DAM wrong and it is beyond me how some need to 'get their digs in' at other people for no apparent reason. Where is your Christmas spirit? I have been down that path, I have been suspended for 7 days from here,I have been later called out again past August. But, I kept my mouth shut,and seriously have answered nearly 60 pm's from good friends asking where I have been on this board. I think the answer lies within, I just need to stay away from the threads that are mean spirited or a witch hunt after someone, after all I learned my lesson. Well I have been here, and I just do not post a whole lot more on the board because there can be people here that just rub others the wrong way.Where is your Christmas spirit? Well for me, I have a new look on life after losing my mother past early summer, now have had buried both parents. I will post some comments on this board, I will continue to speak to those that are dear close friends. For those that need to get their digs in at others, step back take a deep breath,exhale and ask yourself...... Where is your Christmas spirit? Hope you all enjoy your 26 days before Christmas, peace to everyone, and most of all be nice and hey...make love not war :)

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting paid companionship, or even sex, for awhile." Samantha Evans

Bob. Oh and Doug has a pretty nice one too. Now my apologies to both Bob and Doug for naming them as most people know I actually prefer small to medium over big but still they do have the nicest packages I've seen. I think for Christmas I'm going to get them a beer... in a tree!

Seeing this thread go on I've got to say not all men participate in the best of threads. Personally, I appreciate each lady for her own individual character and uniqueness, if that is coming out right. As for the reco's/reviews, I'll write/post a recommendation (which is simply put, I had a good time with this lady, and she is a lady I recommend seeing) only after the lady first sees it. If she prefers me not to post, it doesn't get posted. And I personally don't post reviews, (I see those as a detailed play by play of the encounter, which almost reminds me of guys bragging in the locker room) The details, to me that is a private matter, and I too am (I hope I am LOL) discrete. Finally, discretion wise, this is in fact even less discrete than the best of threads. There are many ladies who know more than just our board handle. They have a verification requirement in place and know the guy's real names, phone numbers, email etc. And with that information, it would then be "fun" to discuss the size of the hobbyist's packages. At least with the best of threads, it is based on photos the ladies have chosen to publicly post I thought, at the end of the day, what the lady was looking for in a client, was a client who is a gentleman, who paid in full and up front, had good hygiene/shaved, treated her with respect, and respected her boundries. And maybe even though not required gave a tip and gift. I didn't know the lady was looking for guys who are hung like porn stars, and to publicly discuss them on a board afterwards A couple more ramblings RG

The family that is in need would also appreciate any household items. Thank you all for your wonderful support! Can't wait to see everyone again! I already have my mistletoe packed! Hugs and kisses!

i wasnt saying that emily was the best in ottawa for everyone, i was saying that to me she was the best in ottawa and that i highly recomend her.

CMJ and would be the closest to Barrhaven, then Paradise. You can't go wrong with either. There's several outstanding MA's to choose from both locations and that's the fun part of it. I don't think it's fair to single out who is "the best" in Ottawa. It's subjective and the fun part is finding out who is the perfect lady for you.

...and B) As seen on CERB time and time again, blanket statements can quickly lead to misunderstandings, as discretion, like many other things, such as recommendations of a SP, can be very, very subjective - whereby the perception of having apples and oranges linked does give one pause for thought as to the clarity of the original message/post, before leading to true or false inferences and conclusions. I'm sure different SPs have different ideas respecting their comfort level to the discretion of themselves and their business, for example, such as when a SP chooses not join CERB and/or not post 'discreet' photos of themselves on the World Wide Web, or whether a SP chooses to. That's everyone's prerogative, with pros and cons, risks and rewards, and consequences intended or not. C'est la vie. Albeit, a fundamental virtue of hobbying appears to be stringent privacy of clients (from what I have learnt in my time) - for many reasons, toward egos or otherwise. For example, the worse thing that could happen is clients, individually or in general, become 'turned off' by the perception of a low/lowering level of privacy by a SP (or SPs in general), as it begets a perceived increase in the risk of having their secret 'hobby' exposed, "package"-wise or in any other way. In reality, whether from a perception of low/lowered privacy or otherwise, if less clients participate in the overall industry then inherently what shrinks is the market, with less capital to invest amongst the same SPs, possibly lowering the price per hour as supply becomes more competitive - that is to say, imo, is a lot harder to stimulate the overall 'sex-onomy' than most any individual guy on planet Earth :) That is to dare say, one would have to stimulate a lot more guys (per hour or otherwise) to make up for less privacy and maintain current donation-levels. To avoid this, no 'shocks' to the market status quo surrounding the outing of client privacy would appear to be best - as a clients' SO (or whomever) may not appreciate the complexities of the situation if the cone of silence was raised (in whatever way) and the client(s) were possibly taken out of the marketplace. So, I do not believe there are double-standards here when comparing apples and oranges, as standards are different by nature of the industry, not nature of the gender. Service privacy is service privacy is service privacy and service advertising is service advertising is service advertising. Undefined, 'class' and 'respect' are relatively subjective. The 'hobby' and 'society' are also 2 very different overlapping sets of paradigms and practices. I appreciate both apples and oranges, and fruit overall - but an apple is always an apple and an orange is always an orange. Uniquely and inherently similar and different at the same time, but never exactly the same thing. Personally, I believe life is all about learning and appreciating the wabi sabi of 'fruit'. Bitter sweet as it may be :D To note: I've never seen a recommendation thread comparing the 'size' of one SP to another, in whatever trait, however sexually 'graphic' a SP and the services enjoyed are described - and I find the 'best of' threads more an homage to, for example, bums overall, and not a bum-by-bum comparison of one against another. In the end, the biggest sex organ has always proven to be... The Brain, of each and every SP (or non-SP) :grin: ...and Variety appears to be the Spice of Life :wink: Bon appetit!! I find the best recommendations ones with a combination of descriptions towards the ladies personality and service skills, so I can imagine seeing myself enjoying such a lady as most compatible with my own personality and skills (albeit limited - but I try! :p ). If I may say in general, and imo, (after being one) 'boys' are more obsessed with size of their package (and whether they get off) and 'men' are more obsessed with getting it up, and getting the lady off too. From more sexual physicality to more sexual mentality - at least for me anyways (rightly or wrongly, it seems to get the most out of life for me :D ). An example of this to me was in seeing the difference in the level of complaints toward 'best of ladies' (physical award?) threads (that is, a much lower level) compared to the 'popularity poll' of most valued community member (mental award?) threads (that is, much higher level of complaints). ...but maybe that's just me. :S ...as I could be misperceiving such, and that may not be a fair comparison in itself. Secretly, not "all" of us would of liked to have seen the responses, as with myself, I am much too busy trying to better understand ladies - not guys. Guys are simple :) We have a penis and (most all of us) love boobies and sex and boobies!! HaHa! (Obviously, this is not a comparison to ladies, as I have never been one to make such a comparison, but I dare say ladies are not so sexually simplistic as us guys - imho. ...and if I recall correctly, this was studied in one wicked part of an episode of 'Curiosity' on Discovery Channel - women like more mental stimulation in general compared to guys when it comes to the big O. Friggen science is awesome! ...unless the Discovery Channel is BS'ing me :-S) Thanks southman for teaching me a new word! :) ************* ...and C) I vote for sexy CERB as having the 'best package'!! CERB blows my mind all the time! ;) hehe

This is pretty lame as far as talents go, but it's all I could think of. lol Ladies, remember a number of years back when crocheted bags, hats and tops weren't made by machines and they weren't everywhere for? In my mid twenties, a girl friend showed me how to knit and crochet. Forget the knitting, it takes way too long, so I went hardcore into crocheting. I would wear my creations out and about and I'd have women come up to me and ask me where I got something I was wearing. Then one day, a boutique owner from Osborne Village approached me and asked if she could buy some of my pieces to carry in her store. I know, I know, many can crochet. :) But my talent is that I don't know how to read a pattern (still don't) and everything I made I originally created. (Problem was I could never do it twice!) I also have a pretty kitschy sense of style. :)

I don't even read this thread anymore because I'm so jealous of everyone that's going. Have a blast everyone! I hope to catch the next one. Fingers and toes crossed! (that's one of my talents btw) :)

Look forward to seeing you again, friend. Just finished booking a room, no need to leave early or have that extra drink this year.

Have a safe drive my friend...see you Thursday!!

Stand up comedy.... I get a hard on.....stand up.....every one laughs...... But on a serious note.....b-flat......I really don't have any talent.....hidden or exposed...... Posted via Mobile Device

Working in the media, I have really good training in audio editing, so I can mash up anything, record songs, and create show intro's like nobody's business... I'm an avid gambler... doesn't sound attractive, but when you have contacts throughout the sports world, it gives you a betting edge and knowledge you can't replicate! I play online poker quite successfully. I can run anywhere from 10 to 12 tables at once without breaking a sweat. If I play with some of you ladies though, I might lose easily just to get the naked fun started! lol I also play video games semi-professionally. It's not a full time thing, but I made about 40K last year playing competitive gaming, which is a guy's dream and a girlfriends nightmare... lol If you happen to play call of duty I will steal your weapon, shoot you with it, and then send you a message mid-game to let you know that shit is about to hit the fan... lol Currently ranked in the top 3000 players in the world. Call of duty is the best selling video game series of all time, it holds all the records, and has the biggest online community anywhere, so I'll take that ranking quite proudly! I also play guitar. I'm not Carlos Santana, but having only started 2-3 years ago, I'm already quite good. And since I live alone, it's forced me to turn into a wizard in the kitchen! I'm addicted to food shows, and cooking things. I'm an awful baker though.

Surgery and hard work? Last time I checked there are penile implants and the procedure is far less invasive than breast implants. When it comes to hard work, I'm 5'2, no amount of hard work or dieting is going to give me the long, slender legs or bodacious booty that is depicited in 99% of the "best of" threads. Then there are the "natural vs. implants" thread that tells me the all natural is all mighty. But in reality it's only better if they are young, perky and firm. What about when the volumn disappears and the hang turns to swing? Still better than implants? This thread was started with a tongue in cheek (I think) and I understand why. I understand the fantasy vs. reality aspect and certainly respect mens need to be boys at times. I also believe it's important to remember that when taking things too seriously, life gets monotonous. I think anyone who took this topic seriously should take a bag full of gummy worms; go sit and watch something disgustingly silly and belly laugh for a bit. cat

Not on your life. Not this woman. As far as some people saying, "Well, that doesnt sound very fair." What is fair? In my relatationship it IS fair, and it is up to the two individuals in the relationship to decide what is fair for them. When I come home after spending time with a hobbyist I am bringing in something for the family. If he were to return home from hobbying empty handed, it is not the same thing at all. Business is business and personal play time is personal. I don't share.

I am out of the loop on this one, but understand what you mean Pete! I have made mistakes here on the board as well, I have learned from them ! When we screw up, we either learn from it and move on, or we will dwell and most likely repeat the mistake again. It is just a part of life and being apart of a community. As for Christmas spirit.......I have all year long. I am always helping people around me and those who are distant from me too. Just the other day I furnished an apartment for a young girl who has 2 small children and had nothing, I would do this anytime of year. One Christmas, I had visited Cuba( no Christmas there) I was curious if my " Christmas spirit" would fallow me there,. Sure enough, I awoke Christmas morning filled with love and generosity. There was one small run down Cathedral in Veradero, so I went to Christmas mass. There was a small young boy with an even smaller boy held in his arms. I knelt beside him in the peu, and slid ( 100 American dollars converted to Paso) into his tiny hands and told him to bring it to his mother and father right after mass. His dark brown eyes, filled with tears looked up at me. At that moment, I was hooked, I found so much joy in giving, that one moment changed my life for ever! I think if it is in your nature to be generous, then no matter what time of year, it will shine threw. So what IS Christmas spirit? It can be found in any cultural background, any religion...... LOVE and GENEROSITY can be shown in any culture, from any walk of life, and from any econimic standing! So weather you believe in Christan Christmas or other traditions, it is essentially all about LOVE and GENEROSITY. Think about it, what better time for our pioneers to share food, cloths for warmth, candles etc...but in the coldest and hardest time of the year( speaking about our environment here). Too bad we turned it into a consumer holiday tho, as it was in the past for making our winters just a little bit easier for our neighbors and family. To get a simple orange was a great treat in December!!

Gift? YUP.... and Cash is King!

And to you, have a wonderful Christmas:) Hope you spend it with loved ones, drink too much rum and egg nog, sing songs, eat too much, and most of all, have a safe Christmas!! xoxoxo

Absolutely MA's accept gifts it is a very nice way to show your gratitude....I don't know a lady that would not appreciate a gift :)

i forgot about CMJ and angels even though paradise and angels are the same people lol. but yes as was mentioned there are those two, but i still prefer Emily over anyone else :D highly recomend her

Essentially this is correct. We have a self-reporting tax system, and outside of getting tax slips CRA will accept what you report as self employed income. Now as someone on the previous page brought up it does need to be reasonable under the circumstances. If someone has been working as an SP for 20 years, they have a $400k home and are driving a new BMW it may make CRA ask where the money is coming from if you're only reporting $20k sales per year or not filing at all for that matter. How will they ever know what you drive or where you live? They likely never will unless someone tips them off (divorcing spouses and angry ex-business partners are notorious for dropping hints to CRA, but anyone with a chip on their shoulder would do). Shy of an extreme example like the above, it would be very difficult for CRA to prove anything beyond what you are depositing to your bank account. That is solid proof of cashflow. What you don't deposit is going to be near impossible to measure. But it would be awfully difficult to ever buy a house or build that self-directed retirement plan without creating the audit trail with deposits. And don't forget GST/HST either. Over $30k in sales and technically you need to register for GST and collect it from clients or it would come out of your pocket. As for registering a business, a lot of jurisdictions legally require anyone operating a business to register the business name unless it is just your real name. So you're ok if your business is just 'Jane Smith' but 'Jane Smith, Service Provider' would require registration. Basically that's a compliance thing to get you started down the road of reporting income. I can't say I've ever prepared a return for an SP. Neither have I heard of a CRA crackdown on this industry. As someone else mentioned it is largely 'off the grid' so to speak. And from CRA's perspective it would be exceedingly difficult and costly to find and audit because I suspect a lot of the cash won't ever see a bank statement. (They are considerably more interested in challenging claimed expenses on the returns people willingly file). In other words, I wouldn't lose much sleep over it.

Kijiji New Brunswick > Saint John > community > other > Ad ID 335883287 An open letter to the young lady who was seated in Section V.. Watch | Share | Print | Report Ad Date Listed 04-Dec-11 Address 99 Station St, St John, NB E2L 4X4, Canada View map An open letter to the young "lady" who was seated in Section V, Row 1, Seat 6 or 7 at last night's Saint John Sea Dogs hockey game Dear Young "Lady," For the uninitiated when it comes to attending hockey games, it is common courtesy to stay in your seat until there is a stoppage in play. Similarly, moving from the top of the stairs to your seat is also done when there has been a whistle, so as to not disrupt the game experience for the other people who have also paid for tickets to the game. If you did not know this the first time you interrupted half the row, during the first period, you were certainly aware of it after the usher told you (the first of many occasions, incidentally). In the case that you didn't hear her, I know for a fact that you heard me nicely explain it to you after the second time, because you looked me straight in the face and petulantly declared, "I know." The third time (during the third period of a tied hockey game, no less), you decided to push by us all -- ignoring yet another person telling you to stay put -- you started up the stairs, turned around, came back down and stood beside me at the end of the aisle. In case that wasn't enough of a disturbance to your fellow spectators, you began yelling, "Ray! Ray! The ticket's in my purse!" because you hadn't thought to wait until the 50/50 draw before sauntering up the stairs to ignore the usher again. So perhaps you'll understand why, when you returned in the middle of play once again, I didn't feel the need to take my eyes off the game, or shift in my seat to let you by. This afternoon, should you be in the same seats and have the same lack of respect for the people around you, including your boyfriend who looked more than a little embarrassed by your princess routine, you may find my rather long legs blocking the way back to your seat until there is a whistle. Because I am half-Viking, half-Celt, full-Canadian, and this is HOCKEY, you stupid, self-important little airheaded bitch. And Ray? You can do better. Visits: 2709

Hey guys, I don't want to be a douche, but can we stop with the I wanna bang an SP references? this is pretty much why were all here... This topic is for the SP's interested, and feedback from peeps interested in the sybian or who've tried it... That being said, hosting one of you lovely ladies in a few short hours, the sybian is shined up and ready to go! *evil laugh" lol

Also CMJ and Angel's Touch in the south end of town, which isn't too far away. Presumably you can travel a bit, or you wouldn't be in Far-haven in the first place :)

I agree that some recos are a bit over the top in terms of how graphically detailed they get, but to say that writing a recommendation for a lady on a "RECOMMENDATION" board--that could potentially help her business grow, increasing her presence as potential advertising on said recommendation board, as well as sharing the beautiful experience you shared with her in a way that might set an example to the others on how to write recos--would cheapen the experience makes no sense to me. I don't mean to single you out, but I hear stuff like this often and it jars my mind to hear statements that are directly contradicted by the name of the site on which they are being posted... I have said it before and I will say it again, recos are the best compliment/tip a provider can get... That said, Cristy, I think your idea was a good one, but as the hobbyists are legally not allowed to be reviewed, let alone not very open to the idea of being reco'd, it simply won't fly... Comparing it to our reviews, it would be similar, we wouldn't be comparing string beans and bananas, just commenting on the nicer produce sampled. I am sure the gents wouldn't feel too bad about not being mentioned just as we ladies wouldn't be heartbroken to read that our clients think Ms. X has the "best rack", or the "most beautiful eyes", etc in their reviews... My 2cents, for what it's worth... Bethany Xoxox

Every provider has her own rules which she has defined for herself. If a woman is comfortable with a SSOG, that is her perogative. Back in the day, SSOG was industry standard. A second SOG involved more $ because it involved more work. Today, many things have changed. Services available for new clients are now more varied and expected. I remember when Greek, DFK and DATY were only available to good regulars, now it's expected on the first visit. Women recognize the value of client based service and many tailor their services to ensure their clients complete satisfaction on the first visit. We are independent business women. We choose who we see, what we do with our clients, how much we charge and when we want to work. There are no two alike so perhaps it's best to simply state our personal preferences and not issue opinions on others preferred business models. cat

RG, are these rulers for measuring "packages" or measuring fish, or does it work equally well with both? :)

Respect- Confidentiality - Discretion - Professionalism - Trust... It is up to us, ladies, to preserve the privacy of our gentlemen!

There's really not much more that I can add to Emily's recommendations. Everything that you'll read about her is true and then some. Truthfully, I never thought a session could live up to the hype, and after finally working up the nerve to book with sweet Emily I was proved to be wrong. She met and exceeded all expectations! I personally don't have a lot of mp experience and still find the whole process quite nerve racking. But the moment that Emily walked into the room, all my nerves disappeared as she quickly put me at ease. Emily is gorgeous. From her eyes that you will lose yourself into to her amazingly cute behind. Fantastic! Time with Emily seems to both stand still and fly by as you'll quickly forget about all of lifes little worries as you become oblivious to all but you and her. She'll leave you completely satisfied as well as wanting more. Had I been able to book an extra hour, I would have in a heart beat. As well, it should be noted that Paradise Spa has a fantastic atmosphere and some very friendly staff. I can't wait to book again with Emily. Truly a gem!

Nice thread because it reminded me of my original reasons for doing this. Speaking only for myself, this hobby has probably allowed my relationship to survive as long as it has. I didn't want to die a bitter old man who only wished he had experienced the variety and excitement of the worldly world. I have built some very fond memories and have met some wonderful folks along the way. Part of the joy in this hobby are new discoveries, the thrill of the hunt and anticipation of meeting. The upside is that when I get old and frail and start to relive my experiences out loud, my SO will just think of my ramblings as that of demented old coot. But behind my drooling, lop-sided grin, only I will know the truth! Who knows, I may just meet some of you guys in "the home".:icon_lol:

Begin legit is the proper way of doing things. It is very easy. Just the same as any self employed person. Claim your money as an entertainer. It is best to do it the proper way. In the future if you want to get a house, a new vehicle or open a business, then you can. As you can show where your money came from. There is nothing illegal about companionship.

First my Condolences to you and your family PistolPete =( Imo - regarding this thread only, I find that this is a very hard time of year for everyone, society puts alot of pressure on the do's and don'ts of X-mas. (If that's the right way of saying it) Their are shut downs at work, layoffs, long hours, family get togethers, school breaks with deadlines due beforehand, excited children etc. Whether you celebrate it or not, you are a part of it one way or another. Do to a world wide "Traditional" holiday since the beginning of our modern time - no Dino's, it is a hard month ( for some its months) to avoid. I have 1/2 a family that celebrate & 1/2 that don't, children are torn down the middle and see both sides. Yet they cope and deal with it, and still smiles on their tiny little face's. We can not avoid it, so like our children and the original reason of Christmas as well as all other times of the year, try to keep a smile on our face and be happy that we have any form of family to love and share our lives with. At least that is what I try my very best to do. xoxo to all!

I'm Jewish. Just kidding.

I think it's important to take a shower upon arrival as it shows the lady your with that your fresh and clean, and ready to get down and dirty. It's also to be considered as part of our rendezvous time. Regardless of whether I took a shower only a couple of hours ago, it shows the lady that her wishes are respected, and we enjoy things more openly when together. One SP I visit even washes me in the shower and starts part of her service to get me hard, then sends me on my way into the bedroom with me eagerly waiting for her. To end things, I always take a shower before leaving. Some women have extraordinary sense of smell.

I agree Meg.... or please take a look at our pictures before.. dont ask questions like ''What you look like....?'' I just had somebody who asked me if Im white or black.... ??? Its insulting when people contact us dont even bother to read our ads or look the pictures...

I will offer MSOG in 30 minutes but only if the client requests it prior to meeting and they are certain they can acheive this since most would know if they are capable of this or not. The majority of my clients have one shot in a half hour and they are okay with that because of their busy schedules. I've also had people try to push the limit by attempting to stay longer without paying exta because they couldn't finish a second time in 30 minutes. By doing so, it's unfair for the SP to be put in this position especially if they have other obligations. I will remind clients who try and do this by letting them know their time is up jut after the 30 minute mark and if they'd like to book for a longer period of time. Normally my half hour encounters are mini versions to what I would offer in an hour. The client receives the same type of service in half the time especially where time constraints are concerned and they walk away satisfied. :)