Leaderboard

Any guy that wants to haggle over the a set price is not some one you want as a client...... I have found that people who ask for a break can usually afford more.......and only haggle to make them selves feel more in control. Posted via Mobile Device

I'm not a guy but I think that's a decision only you can make. If you choose to go ahead and decide to 'lose your V card' with a paid companion, I would highly suggest you invest a little more time then one hour so you can relax and fully enjoy the experience. Contact the lady of your choice: be honest about your situation and what you are looking for/would like to experience- when I say this, I'm not only reffering to 'menu items'. Exchange a few emails with her and get to know her a little. It will unable you to walk in the appointment with less stress and a little more confidence and reassurance. Just keep in mind that one doesn't have to be an escort to be promiscuous ;) Also, companions are probably 100 times safer then the drunk girl you might pick up at the bar ;) Good luck to you! Additonal comments: Being sober will also help you enjoy your experience. If you're tipsy or drunk, the lady will most likely ask you to leave...

When I saw the title of this thread I thought you were talking about men with heavier (therefore 'lower') balls. I was going to write, all balls are created equal! Mind is in the gutter, I guess :) A

In my opinion, posted donation rates are inviolate. Ultimately an encounter is a transaction for your time and personal service. I am continually impressed by the professionalism of the women working in this industry, the care and empathy that they show, their genuine desire to give quality experiences in return for a decent income. To maintain respect for yourself and to maintain your professional integrity, and to support this industry then your donation requirements should not be negotiable. If approached to do so, my opinion would be that you should politely but firmly indicate that you are a professional running a legitimate business with its own costs and expenses, and that the rates are as they are to reflect the quality of service that you provide. Perhaps those potential clients should be politely referred elsewhere.

I once had a client that chose me to take his virginity, I felt really honoured he would choose me for such an important event in his life. Lee is right spend time together first and for sure do not book a short appointment. We spent lots of time laughing and just relaxing, making the most of a really important day. We have seen each other since and been in contact, how could we not? The day was very special for both of us and I did not feel for a minute that there was one awkward moment. We left as friends that day and we will remain so. This is a special day so choose the person that is exactly right for you!!

Very true! Also, since the companion will know how important this is to you, I'm sure she'll make the effort to make you feel very comfortable, and make it special

I just commented on the other board, and just to echo things. People often complain about selection in Ottawa. And when a new company is poppin up everyone is paranoid. My question is this, how would any agency get off the ground if ppl were slammin them before they even started? Glad we didn't start when the market was so aggressive. Don't get me wrong, sometimes, (many times) there are new agencies that flop. But there seems to be a few "micro agencies" that are operating recently, and many have some attractive talent. I think healthy competition is good for the market, otherwise it goes flat and stagnant. ( we have seen it happen in Ottawa) Some of our competitors look like they are upping their game. It will make us up ours and get creative. Clients win.

I never haggle or negotiate, either. It's insulting to be asked. My fees are clearly stated on my website and in e-mail I exchange with prospective clients. One of the reasons I prefer e-mail, initially, is that it's so easy to be very clear and explicit about important things like this. I've rarely had a problem with it. I had a meeting with a brand new client last week. We'd had a very positive e-mail discussion and had spoken twice on the phone. He seemed like an ideal client. I was looking forward to meeting him. When he arrived, he handed me an envelope, which I put in a drawer. (I never count the contents in front of clients.) As I was pouring coffee for us, he said, as casual as can be, that he couldn't stay as long as planned, after all, unfortunately, and that he was sure it was okay that he'd reduced payment of my fee accordingly. I was stunned. After a long moment, I said that he should have told me that he needed to cut the meeting short before he arrived. I said I was sorry he couldn't stay, and handed him his coat with a smile. It was his turn to be surprised, then. He asked if I was going to give him a refund. I said no. I also said that it was clear we weren't compatible. He said, "You do have a very high opinion of yourself. You should re-evaluate it." I bit my tongue, opened the door and wished him well. My general experience is that the men who contact me are real gentlemen who would never engage in games like this. That's what was so surprising about this fellow. His smooth sense of entitlement was almost chilling and makes me wonder how he deals with people in other situations. Not well, I imagine!

I really wish our culture could forget about "virginity" altogether. It's an outmoded notion that mostly has to do with whether a woman is an appropriate partner for a man and future mother of his children. The idea is grounded in concepts of women as property such that a woman who is not a virgin is somehow "used goods" or "damaged" or perhaps of poor character since she hadn't preserved her virginity until the right man came along. It also sets up intercourse as the be-all and end-all of human sexual activity which, in my professional opinion, is not only utter nonsense but it's also the starting point for all kinds of unhappiness, dissatisfaction and unnecessary anxiety. Whether someone has or has not had intercourse says nothing about their integrity, their willingness to take responsibility for themselves, their character in their dealings with other people, their attentiveness, their playfulness or how sexy they are. Having intercourse for the first time doesn't make a man a man. It doesn't transform him into some kind of Alpha, it won't make him more successful in the rest of his life, more attractive to women, or more respected by other men. It doesn't make him more of anything at all. He just becomes a guy who's had intercourse with a woman. If you think it's a problem to know what to say to other men about how you had your first experience of intercourse, well... with all due respect, friend, think about that for a minute. What business is it of anyone else's, anyway? One place where I'm happy to sound very old-fashioned is this: Real gentlemen don't tell tales. If you have to have a story to tell, roamingguy is right: lie. Sex is one of the things that everyone lies about, anyway. You can be sure that most of the stories you've heard other guys tell are more fictitious than true. That little rant aside, here's my advice. Find a paid companion who appeals to you. Someone you think you can really enjoy, not only because she's beautiful--we're all beautiful--but because you like the way she expresses herself, her sense of humour appeals to you, or whatever makes someone be attractive to you. Plan to spend a whole evening with her. Four or five hours, at least. Most companions will have a special rate for a long engagement; it's okay to ask what someone's fee for a long evening will be. Go out for dinner. Take her to a great or romantic restaurant. Have a leisurely meal. Talk, a lot. Talk about real things--about who you are, what you do, what your hopes and dreams are, what you think about current events, all of that. Listen to her, too. Ask questions, not so much about her life as a paid companion, but about her. Get to know her. Let her get to know you. After that long, relaxed meal, go for a walk, a drive, an unhurried journey back to your place, a hotel, or wherever the rest of the evening will transpire. Be completely unattached to outcomes from that point. Let her take the lead and trust that it's all going to be wonderful, whatever happens. Because it will be. Women like men to pay attention to them. When a man engages with us in a real way, as a real person, we feel great and we're much more likely to want to make him feel just as good. My point in all of this is to say that what I think you really want is not simply to have intercourse for the first time, but to have a great experience in every way. Find someone who can help you have it.

That's a first! Just teasing ;) lol Congratulations Angela!!

First up: welcome to CERB, and thanks for posting! There seems to be this widespread myth about losing your virginity; most people, at some stage, seem to believe that it'll happen with the love of your life, and it'll be a beautiful experience with choirs of angels and all that kind of thing. I believe this almost never happens, outside of Victorian-era romantic novels :) You mention that you've been trying your luck on the bar scene, with little luck. I feel your pain; I'm crap at that, too. But think about this for a moment: what happens if you succeed? Yes, you'll get laid... but from the sound of it it'll be with the first person you can (who you may or may not turn out to actually like). And you may end up having a thoroughly awkward experience with a lot of drunken fumbling, and then more awkwardness when you have to decide whether you need to call her... I'm sure there's a few folks whose first time was followed by hangovers and regret. I suspect this is worth avoiding. Next: it sounds from your post like this is becoming an issue for you; something that you worry about, a worm that eats away inside when you're lying awake at 4am. These things aren't fun. Continued failure on the bar scene will make it worse (and as you get more desperate, so your chances of success decline). You've identified a way to break that vicious circle. It would do you no harm to do so; perpetually damaging your self-esteem does nobody any good, least of all you. On telling your friends: sure, there's no need. You're doing this for *you*, not them. But you may find in the future that you needn't take it to your grave; one day, it'll probably make a good story. Also, if you did pick up someone in a bar, your friends may mock you for that, too, depending on what they thought of her. Friends can be bastards, sometimes. On the financial side of things: I presume you've had a look at the ads the ladies post, so you know roughly what it'll cost you. Now, how much have you spent in bars and on taxis in your thus-far fruitless quest? More than that, I'd guess? The point is that paying up front could well be cheaper in the long run. It sounds like you've begun to ask yourself these questions already; trust me, your suspicions are correct. Also, escorts are better for your liver. Something that you may not have considered: reading all the books in the world is all very well, but having someone there who really knows what she's doing and is well versed on the practicalities of the insertion of tab A into slot B will be a Good Thing. It'll save a lot of messing about, for one thing :) Also, tell her what you're doing and where you're at, and what you want; I'm sure the ladies here are used to dealing with nervous first timers (we were all nervous first timers once, and to be honest the butterflies never go away). So, to conclude: go for it! I honestly don't think you'll have cause to regret doing so; probably far fewer regrets than many people have over how they had their first time. You'll be going into it on your own terms, sober, with your eyes open; that means your experience is likely to be waaay better than many peoples' will be. You'll actually remember it, for one; not everyone can say that. Now, you're faced with a much more difficult decision... out of all the lovely ladies here, which one do you go and see? But that's a whole other thread... :)

wildstallion, some companions may be willing to consider your idea. Keep in mind that most won't travel outside the province or the country with, or to meet, someone they haven't seen before. If you're wanting the lady to travel to the same place as you and your SO, and be available to meet with you privately there, expect to pay for her travel, accommodation and expenses in full, in advance. Most of us won't risk being out of town and suddenly responsible for such costs if your plans change suddenly or your SO finds out what you're up to!

Be specific with your observations when using the "report abuse" button and present any facts you have precisely and efficiently. Remember that Mod receives many, many reports, PM's, etc. per day and doesn't have time to read a War and Peace length message. Most importantly keep it private and DO NOT post it publicly!

I'm just surprised that people actually do this! I can't imagine starting off an encounter like this. I'm not just looking for sex, I'm looking for the whole experience. Pissing off the lady and making her feel bad about herself is not exactly going to set the mood, even if it did work. (I would expect most ladies would tell me to take a hike if I tried anyway). At the end of the day, if $20 is going to make that big of a difference to you, then you probably shouldn't be hobbying.

from this side of the transaction ... yes, stick to your published rates the best business person's view of this came from my father who had one of the first TV sales and service shops in a small town in SW Ontario in the late '50s and I was old enough to remember his standard response whenever someone asked him for a discount on a TV ... he'd ask the person whether on any occasion they would pull out their wallet and give him 50 or a 100 dollars out of the goodness of their heart ... when they'd say no ... he'd say "exactly"

Will this friendship affect your ability/desire to date other women? What happens if you get attached to your "friendly" outings and then she gets involved with someone who doesn't want her having male friends, and all of the sudden she's cut from your life? Are you setting yourself up for a crushing blow? "Being friends" is great when you have to maintain civil relations with an ex-wife for the good of the kids, but otherwise? Cut the line, bye! ;-) Be careful with your heart, some people like to play with them for fun.

This is a good video explaining why ProIP/SOPA should be stopped: Although I do like The Oatmeal's take on it better: theoatmeal.com/sopa :)

I have to say I'm with Ms. Emma on this one. Sometimes, friends is what is meant to be, sometimes not. You never know what the future will bring. People change their minds, grow. If she feels that friends is a better fit, it must be for a reason. And I wouldn't necessarily say it's because she is dating someone else, or that she really isn't interested in you at all, especially if you two are still hanging out. I would be up front, but I would avoid putting any pressure on her to make a decision. I would simply let her know, you are interested, and if friends is what she wants, that's fine. But if you feel you can't be friends with her, because all you can think of is ripping her clothes off, then maybe that's your sign to move on. There's no right answer. The best thing you can do is listen to your heart. Best of luck! xoxox

Hello Gents!!! Avail 4:00PM - 10:00PM @ Club Madellyn Jae I look forward to spending time with you.. exploring with my hands...bringing you a perfect combo of sensuality and seductiveness.I aim to please you, going to heights you've never been and will always leave you wanting more..

Good morning! The renovations/decorations at our downtown location are finally finished, and it is GORGEOUS in here! So pretty I think I'm going to have to take some photos of me here today (I'll post once they're done, but here's an old but good one for you now!) Even better than photos though is the real thing, so come visit and have a dark-haired, tattooed beauty lavish you with attention and rub your body from head to toe. Available for erotic massage today until 3pm. Call (NO TEXTS) 613-695-8005 or email [email protected] to book For those in the east end, I'll be back there Saturday from 9am-6pm, and Sunday I'll be downtown from 10-8. Sunday is a rare treat, I'm usually not here on Sundays, so come show me some weekend love and lets make this Sunday a sinful, sensual one! See you soon xoxox

Or..It could be she has enough respect for you that she doesn't want to ruin it. Don't go on too many more friend dates before you let her know she drives you crazy and you love her/like her and if by then she doesn't feel the same way let her know you can't see her anymore. This will force her to make a decision and who knows maybe she might realize she likes you after all and doesn't want to live without you.

Great topic...first and foremost asking ladies for a discount is prohibited on cerb! I politely send client a copy of our ad with our rates as well copy the rule....and end by telling them we look forward to seeing them with a smiley face....I do not justify our rates and fuel the topic...once you start to discount your services then you are put in a position to do it each and every time which in turn creates resentments towards the fine client....I feel that a discount is asked by some because they simply have not read the rules carefully....that is my take on the subject :) Hopefully in this thread you can find some useful tools to apply to your business! Good Luck! Angie xo Rule: Guys, do not post rates of the ladies and please do not try to get the ladies to lower prices!

AFAIK the law only says sewage can't exceed a certain density per cubic meter of water flow. Victoria BC is another 'dumper'. Their treatment facility isn't to be operational until 2016.

This sounds great and all, but he's in his early 20s and mentioned that $200 is expensive. So, taking a girl out for 4-5 hrs would be great and ideal but not something that he could do financially. I don't even do that myself and i have a good job. I would say try and do a session for 2hrs and enjoy yourself with the woman. But definitely search for someone that you may like and maybe see if you can click with that person before the session. But no doubt you will be in good hands when you find the right person. Just enjoy the evening and don't put too much pressure on yourself...sex should be fun!!

I'm just going to go out on a crazy limb here and say that virginity is a made-up thing that doesn't exist. I guess you are talking about the first time you put your penis in a woman's vagina. But there's all kinds of sexual firsts, and that's just one. (First time you go down on a woman, first time you get a blowjob, first time you receive anal sex, etc etc) For example, you are not "using up" your virginity to sleep with an escort. You'll still have the first time you sleep with a girlfriend or person you are in love with, etc.

Come Play with Me In The Hot Tub! I'm Available Tomorrow 9am-330pm. My Super Sexxxy Services Are Yours To Discover...Again! MindBlowing Bodyslides, Full Body EROTIC Massage, REVERSE Option, Total Body Exploration, Shower and HOT TUB Fun, Plus Many More SURPRISES- As Always! :icon_wink: Check Out My Brand New WEBSITE :icon_wink: http://eroticemily.ca/ CALL Paradise Spa To Book an Appointment 613-820-8887 TEXT Em Questions @ 613-899-5879 PM's will be replied to as quickly as possible.... EMILY'S SCHEDULE TUESDAY 9am-9pm. WEDNESDAY 9am-11pm FRIDAY 9AM-11PM SATURDAY 9am-9pm DOOR FEE RATES ONLY $50 FOR 30-45 MINS $80 FOR 60 MINS $75-95 FOR 45-60 MINS IN THE HOT TUB ROOM :icon_wink: *ADDITIONAL TIMES, DUOS & COUPLES MASSAGE ARE AVAILABLE* TAKE A PEEK AT MY SEXY PICTURES AND AMAZING RECOMMENDATIONS! http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=60113 RECO'S

I like RG' because of many reason... but the one thing that stands out right now is how he always had a joke up his sleeve!

"For we like sheep..." :) (Handel, lol)

Pasta puttanesca! With more olives and more capers and more olives and just a few more red pepper flakes- tangy, spicy, and so delicious.

Exactly. Back in the day when I first started escorting (outcalls only through an agency) we provided FS (full service) which was intercourse with a condom and may or may not have included oral with a condom CBJ and definitely only one shot on goal. Kissing, DATY, and bbbj and any extras like COF, COB, MSOG and digits were off the menu and if the other girls found out you did and reported to the owner, you'd be run out of the agency. GFE came along later mostly when indies started offering their own brand of service (and thank goodness for that).

Any girl that says she does GFE but won't kiss the client should tell him before he books. And then look up the many definitions of GFE. lol :) Pretty sure everyones def includes kissing. Or maybe not. What do I know? ;) I know mine does!

nope. Only texting with people that Iphone. Thought it's free in all North America. which make it really nice for texting my friends in the states. or more free sexting!!

It's like Messenger for BlackBerry. If you are texting someone else who has an iphone, it sends automatically like a text, but you won't be billed like its a text. You can also add delivery confirmation so u know when someone reads something, and you can see them typing when they are replying to your message. The best way to know if you are using the service, is to look at the colour of your messages... If the message is in green, its a regular standard text, if the message is in blue, it's because you are using imessage and the other person also has an iphone... It was introduced with IOS5...

Take Hammonds Plains road to Tantallon. Take #3 old highway to Hubbards. Take a left on the 329 to see Blandford Peninsula. Rejoin old #3. Explore Mahone's Bay, Lunenburg, and East LaHave River. Head to Bridgewater and acquire supplies and provisions. Head down the south side of the LaHave River on the 331. Take a left to Green Bay. Check in to MacLeod Cottages Open one of your many bottles of wine and savour the view from cottages which haven't changed much since they were built decades ago. Start a fire. Hot sex. Fresh seafood. Oh yeah. Pretty good rates, too!

1) All photos posted to anyone's albums are "moderated" before being approved by the Mod to ensure all photos follow the posting guidelines (ie: no genital nudity ect..) Don't worry, It shouldn't take very long for your pics to be approved! 2) *As for the difference between "General member" and "New member - moderated account" When a member is new to cerb their forum posts are moderated until they've posted a minimum of 5 times, that is to avoid fake posters/shill accounts and spammers. Two separate issues. :icon_wink: Kim

Oh man - only yesterday I was thinking about how much I missed her. Being a fictional character, I can legally pole vault over the heap of guys piled outside her door.

I always thought the right thing to do was to throw it at the wall - if it sticks, it's done. Or is that spaghetti? I forget... On the serious note that the OP intended... yes, condoms are the second-worst thing you can flush away. Q-tips beat them for completely fouling everything up, apparently. Send both down if you want to ensure a comfortable and early retirement for your local plumber.

I tend to agree that GFE should be more about a state of mind... where the time spent is more like someone who enjoys being with you and is happy you are there, not more like a menu item. Or in other words not like welcome in, drow trou and lets get it over with.

Cristy, I totally agree with you on the disposal factor and that it is serious. I think the detour into Dick Wolf's imagination has a few of us just saying " Huh? " It infuriates me too when people flush them. Plumbing & environmental issues bother me. So my routine is I let him remove it, hold out my hand, take it politely, tie it in a knot then put it in the trash. Yes, tie it off. Why? In the past I have had the misfortune of sharing an incall with less than considerate co-workers. I show up for an morning encounter, do a quick room check only to have my stomach turned by the odour fermenting since the night before. Nasty. As far as an ulterior motive on the part of an SP? Given that logic, should a client adamantly want the condom afterward, I also have to be concerned. After all, on the outside of said condom, exists MY DNA as well. Right?! Sandi

This is a question that has come up on numerous occasions with varying opinions. F/S refers to a specific activity, while GFE is a far more subjective term. It encompasses the feel of an encounter, but does not necessarily imply a specific menu. The bottom line is that there are different interpretations of the term. Read the sps ads for specifics and if you still have questions about specific services... Ask them. They don't bite. (ok, maybe some do... You'll have to ask! )

Oh yeah, Cape Breton is one of my favs! Loved your story too! I think I'm leaning toward the East coast. Not that I'm biased, but it's closer. I have a buddy who did the Cabot Trail on bicycle. Can you imagine what your legs would feel like after a full day of riding?

I've been out there a few times, and in addition to the natural beauty (which is outstanding, especially the National Park) there's really something to be said for the "East-Coast Hospitality". I'm not from there myself, but one of my stepparents is originally from Chicoutimi, so whenever I visit, I'm automatically considered family, with all the kindness and hospitality that entails (even though I'm not technically related to anyone there). It's just a completely different mentality than what we're used to in the cities. Everyone is part of the community, everyone looks out for each other, and they support each other when times are tough. They're also some of the kindest, most trusting people I've ever met, and during my last visit, I was able to introduce one of my friends to a way of life that she never even knew existed. We were staying with my aunt, and went outside to get some things from our car. My aunt's jeep was sitting in the driveway, with the doors unlocked as they usually are (people in Cape Breton don't lock their doors if they don't have to, and that goes for their homes as well). My friend looked at me with a concerned look on her face, and said, "Shouldn't we tell your aunt that her doors are unlocked?" I smiled, and motioned towards the interior of the car, and she took a closer look - to see that the keys were dangling in the ignition! :icon_mrgreen: I haven't been there for a couple of years, and I think I'm long overdue for a visit. I've been to Halifax a few times on tour, maybe during my next visit I'll have to extend my trip for a few days, to make sure I have time to go back! Long story short, if you're interested in natural beauty and enjoying the company of some really great people, you can't go wrong with Cape Breton. :)

There is a nice small Acadian fishing village, that has stood still in the face of time. Boutcouche, it is a beautiful place with the greatest seafood deals!! The longest boardwalk, takes most of the day to walk it. All up that coast makes for an interesting tour:)

Speaking for the other side, I have no problem with the new proposed legislation, if these sites want to help work with the creative industry to help protect their copyright protected creations from being stolen, then they can say they've done something. But citing freedoms, while supporting pirates and thieves, I have a problem with that. For an example, almost every day I can see or hear signs from sps who have their ad or website or photos stolen and used by someone else. In addition, the fake ad sites steal their ads and post them, in order to increase content. The sps did not agree to the site terms, and did not agree to allow the site to use their products. Those are examples of internet theft from copyright owners. The proposed legislation would make it much easier for an sp, seeing her property used without her permission, to contact the site admin, and on pain of being shut down, remove it without delay. It will hopefully have the added result of the site's not even doing it in the first place. The excuse to not agree to it is that little 6 year old Suki won't be able to lip synch to Beyonce and get it posted on youtube without youtube getting shut down is lame. The intent is to make sure that artists, photographers, writers, song writers and performers, movie makers, don't see their work being reproduced, copied, and sold without compensation. If you created something, with your own hard work, you would not want to see someone else either take the credit for it, profit from it, or stick it on a site without your knowledge or permission. If wikipedia doesn't take responsibility for stolen content to be posted on their site, then who is it exactly that is supposed to take responsibility for any laws broken, or copyright infringement, or piracy?

Come Play with Me Hard! I'm Available Tomorrow 9-11am and 12-330pm. My Super Sexxxy Services Are Yours To Discover...Again! MindBlowing Bodyslides, Full Body EROTIC Massage, REVERSE Option, Total Body Exploration, Shower and HOT TUB Fun, Plus Many More SURPRISES- As Always! :wink: Check Out My Brand New WEBSITE ;) http://eroticemily.ca/ CALL Paradise Spa To Book an Appointment 613-820-8887 TEXT Em Questions @ 613-899-5879 PM's will be replied to as quickly as possible.... EMILY'S SCHEDULE TUESDAY 9am-9pm. WEDNESDAY 9am-11pm FRIDAY 9AM-11PM SATURDAY 9am-9pm DOOR FEE RATES ONLY $50 FOR 30-45 MINS $80 FOR 60 MINS $75-95 FOR 45-60 MINS IN THE HOT TUB ROOM :icon_wink: *ADDITIONAL TIMES, DUOS & COUPLES MASSAGE ARE AVAILABLE* TAKE A PEEK AT MY SEXY PICTURES AND AMAZING RECOMMENDATIONS! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=60113 RECO'S