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Until I contact you each indivudally thank you all for your kind and well wishes. I lurked here before I had the courage to become a contributing member Now each person that I chat with daily has become very special to me in their own way. When I recieve a message I always have a smile on my face, I am so happy to know each and every one, some of you I have met others are my virtual friends. You all mean so much to me and thank you for the happiness and sometimes much needed advice you have brought to my life. I have been enriched because of you and many times over. I love you all, Katherine xoxo

It's clearly dying (but not dead while I am still alive). Of course I still hold the door for people, that's just being courteous and not what I would call "chivalry". The only time I get to practice my brand of gentleman like chivalry is when I am accompanying my wife, girlfriend or female companion somewhere. If they are traveling with me I am their protector, bodyguard, porter, chauffeur and I like to take responsibility for their safety and comfort. One thing that at first amazes a girl that doesn't know me is that I open the car door (as well as every other type of door) both when she is getting in or out of my car. How often do we see that these days? I also see to her seating at a restaurant before I am seated, take her coat and return it when it's time to leave helping her put it on. Girls just aren't used to that anymore it is so rare but they still take to it well, almost always saying something like "Thanks, I could get used to this" and when I run around to the passenger side of the car, I am looking around to make sure it is safe for her to exit (no ice or large puddles) or any other hazards, I then like to take the lady by the hand or arm and walking along I am certain to point out anything along the way she may not have noticed like a curb or another other obstacle she could trip over. I do enjoy being a man and looking out for the comfort and safety of my female companion, but I only get to do this when it is my wife, girlfriend or CERB companion (e.g. to do this for a female co-worker could be misinterpreted). Wait a minute, he has a wife, a girlfriend and sometimes a CERB companion? Yes, my wife is disabled (but I still opened the car door for her before she became disabled) and often encourages me to "get a girlfriend" or "see someone". So I take it light on the girlfriends (she is married also so we don't spend as much time together as we'd like) and I also travel. Even though my wife often nags me to "get a girlfriend" or "see someone" and even being understanding enough to suggest a "professional" companion once or twice as a birthday present, she doesn't need to know about it as it would just make her feel more inadequate than she already does. That's chivalry also.

Yes I know there is already many treads on this subject...but I felt the need to create a new one...especially about discretion online. 1) Gentlemen, if you have some online accounts on different social networks (facebook, fetlife, okcupid etc.) and you find a lady on the website. Please respect her privacy and don't send a "wink" smiley. It's creepy. Especially if we don't know who the hell you are. We have private life, families. Yes we may be on dating websites, but our private emotional/sexual life doesn't concern you, unless we share it with you 2) This is about handles.I have came across different profiles on different website...where the person keep the same nickname...I am sorry but if your name is turnipgodofthezooloo...the chance that someone else have the same nickname are really low. If someone Google it, they will found your different accounts on different websites. Try to keep hobbiest lifestyle and private life separate also. and I am out

RG, I do understand what you are saying but I have to strongly disagree with parts (little ones ;)) of your post. My priority as companion is to try to keep myself as safe as possible and eliminate the potential bad dates from my agenda; if someone provides me with a board handle, it is MY responsability to verify the information (by sending that person a PM and asking for a confirmation reply) and to not pass on the blame onto the impersonator if it turns out to be a scam. This is why we call it a screening process. There is absolutely no point in asking for information (or someone giving it to you) if it is not somehow verified at some point before the encounter. I'm positive Cato and Pistol Pete would agree with me on this one... Same goes for references- a gentleman might provide me with a reference but if I don't contact the lady and he ends up being the most unpleasant date ever for xxx reason(s), who's to blame? Yes, I agree that a gentleman should act like a real gentleman but unfortunately, not everyone is one/acts like one. All I can say is that if I had done my due diligence in the first place by getting feedback from the lady, I would have declined his request and not gone through a less than desirable experience. Thankfully, most gentlemen involved in this lifestyle are just that- respectful and kind gentlemen who are just looking to spend quality time with a great lady. In the end, no one can change the behavior of others but we, as companions, can definitely (try to) avoid spending time with those who don't deserve our attention and/or try to use deceptive tactics to 'get' an appointment (false handles- false references). Hope that makes sense ;)

A reminder that unfortunately needs to be repeated again and again! I myself started a thread on this last year after someone I'd never even seen before messaged me on facebook saying 'Add me but please be discrete, my life and family are on here'. There is nothing more infuriating that the idea some hobbiests (and by no means all, if it was all I wouldn't be in this business) have that because we're on here, we don't have the right to an outside life. I've been approached in restaurants, concerts, and on facebook, by people I don't know. And as Malika says, it's CREEPY and so inappropriate! On here, I'm selling my sexual side. So I like people telling me they like my appearance, and saying sexy things to me. Because that means I'm doing something right. But for someone to message me on facebook and tell me what they'd like to do to me sexually, or to come up to me in public and grab my ass, makes me feel about THIS <-> big. It makes me want to cry, scream, and most of all makes me want to punch the person doing it. When we're on here, mutually enjoying this hobby and the services the girls provide, let's enjoy. But outside of here, you don't know us. And we don't know you. End of story. Please keep that in mind before 'poking' the escort who's photo you recognize on facebook.

I was parked outside a busy office building the other day and was observing those entering and leaving the building, it became apparent that only older men and women held the door for others, so it got me thinking kindness to strangers has become a rarity, with people slamming doors in people's faces, and pushing in line at the checkout counter -- and both men and women are guilty of this. Because common courtesy doesn't exist as much anymore, it makes us suspicious when we do receive kind gestures from others, and we assume kindness is part of someone's ulterior motives. I don't want to sound jaded and cynical about mankind, but society has become more self-absorbed and self-centered, especially when it comes to strangers.So i started to discuss chivalry with some male friends and they stated that although they believe in chivalry, they feel they are making futile attempts at being courteous when their actions go unnoticed and unappreciated by younger females.On one hand you have a woman who waits for the man to walk ahead of her and open the door, while on the other you have the gentleman who does open the door for her, only to have his date shout at him that she doesn't need his help. chivalry isn't about getting things in return, it's about being recognized to a degree for your actions and knowing that the person you are with will also treat you right. Chivalry is a two-way street, in which you shouldn't be taken for a ride. Do women really want you to be chivalrous or will it be lost on future generations ?

It's frighteningly easy to find someone on facebook. It's happened to me twice now that I've accidentally seen profiles (and real names) of people I recognize from this lifestyle. Both times because of mutual friends and the "people you might know" function on the fb homepage. One being someone I had met several times and another being someone I have chatted with at extent on here. Both persons I have a great repore with. But not for one second did it enter my mind to message them or "poke" them. Sorry if it sounds rude but confusing facebook (or other social networks) with cerb is just plain stupid I did however want to send a PM to them on here just saying "Hey I accidentally saw your facebook profile so you may want to do something about your privacy settings"......or something like that....just as a heads up. But then thought even that may come across as a little creepy so I just let it go.....in retrospect maybe I should let them know...I dunno....it's a touchy dilemma.

It's a two-part issue, I think. On the one hand, men should be chivalrous - gentlemanly. On the other hand, women should be gracious - lady-like. These days there's more emphasis being put on physical appearance and status symbols (expensive clothes, jewelry, designer colognes/perfumes, nice cars, etc.). As intelligent a species as we are, we are still driven to imitate that which we deem desirable, and often we see desirable lifestlyes on television and in cinema. The whole "keeping up with the Jones' " has really changed. Manners are no longer a requisite part of a functioning society. At least not to the degree we knew in past times. Most people don't even know proper dining etiquette, let alone social graces. Generally speaking, men have lost a lot of the class and gentility that women desire. And women have lost much of their grace and softness that men adore. I hold doors for people, I thank the bus driver when I disembark, I let people with only a few items go ahead of me at the grocery store. It's civility. And I still believe in it. (Which is a major contributor to my low tolerance for crass and undignified clients, but that's a whole 'nother matter.) Just keep being a good, conscientious citizen and nevermind those with a deficit of proper manners. It speaks poorly of them, not you. Being kind is contagious, afterall, and you probably made someone's day - or at least got a smile. We shouldn't do these things for the reward, but rather because it's simply the right thing to do. That's my two cents, anyhow... Posted via Mobile Device

I for one am quite comfortable with giving up personal information about myself. I find that it's really not necessary as most SP's I've dealt with trust me enough through the initial conversation and references I can provide, to not require that information. As I tend to repeat with the same ladies they do get to know who I am and I believe it leads to a better level of trust and more personal get together. I do like to make friends with the ladies and do expect a good degree of honest personal interaction, but am pragmatic enough to understand the limits of this type of relationship. I am fairly fortunate in that I'm widowed and don't have the concerns of many others in terms of secrecy. Most know that I can be called if they need. If you are careful with the liaisons you have, I think there are no real safety issues in terms of the information you give them. I think that those that are concerned and hide there identity are at far greater risk of having problems.

Well, if the reference came from me, I probably said little more than that he's a good guy, was a lovely client, treated me well and was always polite, courteous and respectful. However, the lady can be sure that I know quite a bit about the gentleman, though I will not reveal that information to her unless he has spoken to me directly and told me that would be okay. That's because I don't always know the lady who is asking for the reference and I wouldn't compromise my client's privacy even if I did. I know the real names and quite a bit of other information about most of my clients, usually because they've volunteered it sometime early on in our e-mail exchange. I take it as a sign of trust in me and/or my reputation that these gentlemen don't try to be completely anonymous. I don't require extensive personal information from anyone, but I will not see someone who seems to be going to great lengths to be completely anonymous, either. I'm delighted to have a mutually pleasurable encounter; I won't invite an opportunity to be the victim of a perfect crime, though. If a gentleman wishes to ensure that his privacy will be respected, I suggest that he should engage known and respected paid companions. Most of the time, that will mean paying a higher rate than might be charged by someone who is new to the business. Think of that as insurance. Reputation is enormously important to us. If any of us were proven to have compromised someone's confidentiality, our careers would come to a sudden end.

Hey! Any new and exciting clients? lol

It is an unfortunate truth that the only actions you can control are your own. The only real way to ensure 100% anonymity is to have zero visual presence online which is quite hard to accomplish when you are in our line of work. I do not show my face or any particularly identifiable pose when posting pics. I have yet to be hunted down on facebook lol :)

This is Robyns 2 nd day at Angels Touch. Get there fast. She is stunning,beautiful and sweet. When I walked in and she said she was Robyn, I thought I hit the jackpot. Wow. Great massage (she nearly put me to sleep) in a good way, but I couldn't help staring. A warm, affectionate, all woman and a pleasure to talk to as well. Thanks for the great time Robyn and I would repeat everyday if I could.

I put this rec in the wrong spot and am now redoing it. This is Robyns 2 nd day at Angels Touch. Get there fast. She is stunning,beautiful and sweet. When I walked in and she said she was Robyn, I thought I hit the jackpot. Wow. Great massage (she nearly put me to sleep) in a good way, but I couldn't help staring. A warm, affectionate, all woman and a pleasure to talk to as well. Thanks for the great time Robyn and I would repeat everyday if I could.

Thank you Ottawa!!! Each time I come, it just gets better and better! We have bonded and have become closer friends! My freinds here have treated me with respect, tenderness and much joy:) A special Thanks to a couple of awsome ladies here too...uno who you are! Till I return, please stay happy, healthy and safe! Much love, Yours Truly, xoxoxo

Thanks for the reminder, baileydog. I'm sure Google knows enough about all of us already, without helping them even more. On a lighter note: http://www.newsbiscuit.com/2012/03/01/vatican-defies-critics-over-new-simplified-privacy-policy/

They probably appreciate it, but do not expect it. The last time I visited an escort, I told her I kept my wallet with me today in case I had a heart attack and died in her apartment. That lead to a few laughs and scenarios. We also had a bit of a discussion about anonymity and her fear of LE showing up at the door. Sheeyoot......I have short hair and a mustache, so I quickly gave her a reassuring kiss, lol. I do divulge some of my personal info, use my real first name sometimes, but I do remain unknown and untraceable- as do they. There has to be a certain amount of trust on the part of both parties, but respect is a pretty good substitute. I try to keep it light hearted and fun, but for the sake of both parties, I don't try to pry into their personal life except through light conversation. If they don't wish to share any details, that is fine. I honestly think that if you visit well recommended ladies, you have little to fear from them unless you make their life hell before, during, or after the encounter and I would imagine your info would only become known in the most extreme of situations. If you're willing to share info, I highly doubt you're someone that would bother them. The only thing you may risk in doing this is the fact that they may surmise you're trying to become a little too close to them.

Peter Frampton (OMG Can' Believe I'm posting this "singer" LOL) I'm In You RG

It may just be the relentless march towards softer, thicker and more luxurious paper means you can't get as much on a roll. And the rolls have to stay the same size so they continue to fit the holders...

Anticipating my first time skiing. So, tomorrow that will either be my highlight or a thing that sucks :)

Well folks, looks like i'm taking off from these parts for the time being. I've been happily single for quite some time, but a wonderful person has come along and somehow managed to make me rethink my stance on relationships. For the first time in ages i'm interested in more than friendship with a lady. It's still pretty new but I feel that the relationship, and the lady deserves my undivided attention. It's been a hell of a fun ride, and perhaps i'll return. Never say never, right? I've been lucky to share this forum with some pretty rad people! I wish all of you all the happiness and great sex in the world! -Surf

Happy Birthday Spud!!

Excellent point: chivalry is more than polite gestures, it extends to what you don't do and don't say as well. Keeping someone's elses preferences and well-being in mind can be exhausting and/or challenging. But its these unnoticed and surreptitious things we do that are the very heart of chivalry, I think. Holding a door is relatively easy. Holding our tongue is less so. Good on you! Posted via Mobile Device

Sexxxy Sophia Va-Va-Varoushka Rockin' Ottawa! Rrrroar! ;) XoXoXo

Maybe you could call me old fashioned but I will hold the door for anyone, I do this out of respect for the Old or Young, Man or Women. Will I do it till the day I die, ya betcha. No matter how it is perceived I really do not care. Welcomed or not, Makes me feel good about Values.

Things will be back to normal tomarrow I believe ;)

Was stranded yesterday morning with 7 other cars on a half unfinished road near where I live. Construction trucks drive down it where they atre building b new homes and also people who live in the area. Didn't realize how much snow was on it ( wasn't plowed) and bottomed out. And I was in an SUV! Took 2 hours for a tow truck to come and I think the driver did something to my power steering after turning the steeering wheel too hard. Now it's seizing up. Fuck! This morning I'm in my girlfriend's car going down my street on a corner and myself and another car slid into one another. Not really anyone's fault but roads aren't fully plowed. Small dent in a plastic bumper and thankfully not much to fix. Other guy only had scratches on his bumper.

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What a Hurricane Goddess Sophia. :icon_wink: Great to have you here on CERB.

Sweet reco PP I have a hot spot for Delilah/Victoria as well, If you do a Duo, would love to hear. They both look super sexy.

Just back from visitings apartments all day. I felt in love with the first one I visited...went back at the end of the day, fill in the application and all the "craps"...now to wait to have an answer...I really hope I have it! It's gorgeous and I have a direct view on the CN Tower:D

Congratulations Sophia on this elevated status. Sending a dance goddess for a graceful and poised dancer herself.

Looking out the window at the backyard from the second floor (which it seems I don't do very often) and seeing not 1 but 4 dead bunnies at the far end of the yard! :( Additional Comments: According to my neighbour who is an eyewitness, this is the little cutie that is killing the bunnies. Had I seen it, I would have thought it was a run away pet! It's called a stoat http://news.softpedia.com/newsImage/Stoats-3-Hours-of-Sex-and-Incest-2.jpg/

I have always used chivalry with any ladies that I have been with or not. This did not go unnoticed by my stepson cause now he does the same and his new girlfriend thanked me for it. He will help her remove and also put on her coat while also pulling her hair back while she adjust it, he will also open the car door and help her out if she needs it(he does the same for his mother) I have seen him carry her over a puddle once so she would not get her feet wet. What can I say, he gets that from me.

Hey Renegade In my opinion, Chivarly, being courteous or any other kind act towards another human being is NEVER dead. Doing the right thing, regardless if it is acknowledged or if one receives thanks for their consideration toward others, is always the best approach......period. Time and time again, when I'm travelling with a mixed flight crew, I usually see one of the males in the group not holding the door for the ladies in the group, or ordering his drink first at a restaurant......or even being the first in the shuttle ....... without stopping to let the ladies first....or even something as simple as giving a helping hand to carry luggage for the ladies...... I ALWAYS correct the offending male....... most times the ladies quickly acknowledge their appreciation of my actions.......... and the other men laugh at me, the 'Old fashioned Guy' they say....... Those who acknowledge my actions make me feel good, those who don't acknowledge my actions, still make me feel good.....knowing that I ALWAYS do the right thing.... Chivarly IS NEVER dead.......... tks !!

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These are great issues, but for me its an absolute rule that I will not share my personal information with a provider ... other than a phone number before the visit. I dont mean that as a slight against the ladies, but there is simply too much at risk. Instead, I use the "brand reputation" that my cerb name hopefully brings (and the other board as well) as a substitute. I can honestly say that I have never been refused an appointment due an unwillingness to share my personal information, but I'm very careful to offer as much other information about me as the lady would like. And I would never speak negatively of a lady that insists upon that information, we just will not be getting together. You can share that sort of information if you are personally OK with doing so. For me, its a non-starter.

I truly appreciate those that book an appointment with me using their "real" information. I give priority to emails that arrive seeming to be a personal email address as opposed to those that arrive with addresses like [email protected] or [email protected]. Personal information is sacred to professional providers and we would not compromise your trust as we trust you will not compromise ours. That said, I underlined professional for a reason. There is a sharp difference between providers and it is important that you do your homework as to who you will trust with this privilege. Professionals have a tremendous amount of time and money invested in their brand and compromising their reputation is not an option. Providers who have little invested will have little to lose. Changing a name and a phone number is easy if an indiscretion occurs on their part. Stick with reputable providers, women who invest in their advertising; not just those with "good" recommendations. cat

I laugh every time I see it, don't ask me why here are a few more RG

Don't ever feel slighted if she doesn't. Most of us wouldn't because of the reciprocal unwritten rule of discretion :)

Revenge is indeed a dish best served cold and something to be slowly savoured. Hide the toilet paper under your bed and enjoy the screams.

I agree with everyone else: tempting (to you), but I'd say nothing and do nothing because I'd think about her feelings first and how she might be embarrassed to have her side line business discovered within the work place. I'd just let it go and keep her secret a secret. Someone else might discover it someday but to me being discreet and truly keeping a secret for a lady is part of being a real gentleman.