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Gena's pretty new here, like me. But I like her a lot! She's friendly, smart, likes to play word games, and she taught me something I never knew about bananas. I imagine she would be a lot of fun to hang out with. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=62047

My CERB Goddess Of The Day today is Angela Of Ottawa. Angela is a wonderful SP, and friend. I also know she cares about her friends deeply. On CERB, she shares her insights and wisdom, contributing to CERB being a positive community. And on a sidenote, this summer I'm taking Angela out fishing RG Angela's Profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=24465 Some recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=A&t=18924

My pick for Goddess of the Day is the lovely Soleil from Winnipeg. Soleil is sexy, smart, sassy, witty, with a great sense of humour. She's also an absolute sweetheart (but don't be fooled - she has a few whips, crops and paddles hanging around for those who get out of line). Here's one of my favourite pics! Get your motor running.....

I am ideologically, politically, militantly pro-choice & even I don't think the above is an appropriate post. And from this woman's perspective, any human with a penis can be a sperm donor & create a baby. However, it takes a MAN to be a father. World of difference. Sandi Additional Comments: Very true, but that's Nature's fault. Well Section 7, too. I have a solution though: B.Y.O.C. Bring your own condoms. Responsibility should precede procreation. Especially in this hobby. Women too. On that note, back to the OP. I'm sorry, but the last thing an SP wants is to get pregnant by a client. I mean really. Not one bit. You don't know my real name, I may not know yours, you may be married, I might be, you could be 30 years older, or a colossal ass. lol I also have too much respect for the discretion alone of the gentlemen I meet, much less do something so irresponsible that could up heave their whole world. Not to mention SELF respect. Sandi

So, I'm not sure how Cleo has been overlooked so far, but this clearly needs to be fixed :) She's outrageously sexy, smart, awesome tattoos... and awsome posts here, too!

My pick for Goddess of the Day would be the lovely Katherine who I had the pleasuring of meeting this week when she was visiting Ottawa. She is everything you could imagine not just as an SP, but a nice person all round! Katherine is intelligent, witty, classy, attractive, fit (yes I got to squeeze hee hee). Oh, and she has a nice touch (soothing energy). I just wish you lived closer, Katherine. Love your smile.

My goddess of the day today is the glamourous Miss Gabriella Laurence. Poise, elegance, beauty and intelligence all wrapped into one! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=46192

When I went into this, for me, it was a combination of a few aspects that made me comfortable with my decision to see an SP Ad: - Was it descriptive and thought out. There are some ads that are a paragraph long, along the lines of "Available tonight, call me, Measurements". Then there are some that go beyond that, and give an insight of who that person is. I've only seen Peachy, and she talks about her "Good girl with a naughty side". She was accurate to the letter, and I appreciated that she put that there. I think finding what makes you...you and then putting that out there for potential clients to read - Grammar/spelling. I treat this industry like I would any other. I work hard for my money, and if someone posts sumtin lyke ths, I'm not going to give them any money - Rates: I like when it is there. I have a number in my mind that I'm not going to exceed, if I can't afford it, I'm not going to ask for a deal - Website: Not a deal killer if there isn't one, but coming back to the second point, it just gives me an idea of how invested someone is to this business. - Pictures: As a photographer, I really appreciate professional shots, but I know how much it costs. What I expect is a few pictures taken from a simple point and shoot, in a nice (doesn't need to be revealing) dress, or wearing a top and a pair jeans (I'm a sucker for girls in pair of jeans). Usually 1 or two in your ad would be more then enough. I don't like cell phone quality pictures (grainy, dark, etc) Reviews: I really appreciate it when someone posts links to their reviews in their ad Another thing I looked for, but I don't think it's a major requirement for other clients, is the participation on Cerb. I just find the ladies on this forum to be very enthusiastic about what they do, and do it happily.

My selection for today as Cerb Goddess of the Day is Carley Chase. Carley is a simply delightful young lady with maturity beyond her years and is a unique combination of being demure and incredibly sexy at the same time. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=31598 Carley has of late not been highly visible on line but I believe that she is still following this career path in her life and for that many Cerb hobbyists can take great delight. Having met her in the past I can say with assurance that she is more than qualified to be a Goddess of the Day.

I adopted a new cat from the shelter a few days ago. He is absolutely perfect!

i remember it was around Christmas time and i was out Christmas shopping and i had walked into a makeup store, and as i had walked in i had seen someone that i had spent some time with!! Now once i realized it was them i had started to turn down a different isle, but none the less the said person actually followed me and came down the same isle and i hadn't noticed so i stopped to look at something and they had come up beside me and started a conversation! Now i didn't want to be rude so i chatted for 2 or 3 minutes then stated that i had a lot to do and must run, said goodbye and walked out of the store!! Once that was done my MOTHER (who was with me the whole time) had said "who was that?", my heart started beating and i had to say that it was an old friend of mine that i had met at a meeting!! Cheeks flushed red and so embarrassed and confused on what to tell her. He was a older man as well so it was very hard to come up with a reason on how i knew him!!! What a heart throbber and hands shaking experience!!! :(

Sometimes it is difficult to explain this subject, because of those laws mentioned, a lot of people do consider prostitution illegal. However, exchanging sexual services (which cover a wide varieity of activities) for money is legal. Discussing the rates for sexual services, and the details of those services is legal provided you don't discuss this in public. The condition of the discussion being illegal is based entirely on the words "in a public place" as in where there would be no expectation of privacy. Some cities crack down on sp's who offer incall, but in all cases, an sp who comes to your home or hotel room is doing this legally. As far as the original post is concerned, imo, you are violating the law of public solicitation/communication if you are discussing these activities and the charges for them with the ladies in a public place (a party). You may also be aiding in someone violating the law against procuring (as in a 3rd party is providing you with access to sps to hire). You should confine your discussion to phone calls, emails or in private one on one. You would be best to visit sps who advertise their services on advertising sites (like this one). And especially if you plan to recommend anyone, they should be people who do advertise themselves as sps. As opposed to a woman who will consider an offer of money now and then in exchnage for an agreement to have sex, if you see what I mean. There is this shady aspect of meeting non-sps at parties and arranging for them to become prostitutes (as in you offer them money to visit you for the purpose of having sex, but they are not prostitutes per se). I kind of think that may be you procuring, and again, I would urge you to not approach random females at parties and offer them money for sex if you wish to avoid legal entanglements if you end up approaching the wrong woman lol.

I don't expect bookings from my banners or buttons. They are simply another tool to solidify my brand. When someone books it's because of a combination of seening my name, exploring my ads, reading my posts and then they decide to email me. We then spend a little bit of time getting to know each other so we can see if we are compatible. cat

Angela of Ottawa Perhaps should be called " Angel of Ottawa". She really took the time to get to know me over this past year. She so intelligent, wise, always fair. She has the best upbeat personality! Beautiful in more ways than one! I adore the way she is almost like " mama goose" for so many of ladies here. Always willing to listen and give advice when needed, shares in our Joy and Tears! Angela, I have a great respect for you! I miss you! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=24465 Dont ever stop being you!!

I consider myself fortunate to have met Penelope in the early days of my Cerb membership. She is a sweet and incredibly sexy lady who is the rocker chick and the girl next door all in the same package. She is sensitive and shy yet very into whatever happens behind closed doors. One of Canada's sweethearts. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208 I see from recent posts that she will shortly be taking a break from Cerb for a while so I am indeed fortunate to have met her when I did. Her recommendations speak for themselves from the various cities across Canada. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=33948 (Nova Scotia) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=A&t=43409 (Ottawa) My choice as todays Goddess of the Day. - Penelope Davis

This thread makes me ill! As a human being, and I use that term very loosely, you have a moral obligation to care and protect your children! My son is 20 now, and I would still lay down my life for him!!! His mother and I only dated, we were never married. Not only was there a legal obligation to care for him, how could I not care for my own child!!! I have enough guilt about leaving to go off to war so many times while he was growing up, but I would do anything for him. If you get anyone pregnant, you should be utterly ashamed of yourself if you abandon both the woman in question and your child!

Same as if you got a 'civilian' woman pregnant ;)

This thread is dedicated to the beautiful, sultry, sexy, intelligent ladies of CERB. Please post only threads started by, pics by or rec about CERB ladies. I have many ladies that I plan to showcase in this thread but today I will start with... AngelaofOttawa She was the first lady to take me under her wing when I first joined this awesome group. She is beautiful, intelligent and makes the time to help me out! Kuddos to a magnificient woman! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=24465 In addition, she is one hot babe!!! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=4993&pictureid=31922

I had the pleasure to meet Kassi recently. I found the appointment was easy to set up. She greeted me at the door with a warm smile and friendly demeanor. Her place is not over run with plants and what plants she does have are tasteful and nice. She does have some birds but I found them interesting and great ice breakers so no complaints there either. Her conversation is great, she seems to take a genuine interest in how your day went but with no real prodding questions that one would feel intrusive given the circumstances. On to the business end of things. She is girl in her pics most definatly. A beautiful small blond. Great set of natural breasts and I am not a breast guy so that's saying something. Nicely tanned and soft skin. Her skills in the sheets are outstanding. She was open for BBJ, DATY, digits and MPOS. Everything I ask for on a first meeting. Shes very responsive and seems to truly enjoy her work. I plan to repeat soon and I fully reccomend her to others. Yours, HS

I don't have much to say that hasn't been said already, but I do want to endorse the general principle that if you're concerned that your sperm might somehow find their way to fertilize a woman's egg, you need to prevent that from happening. To have responsible sexual contact one has to accept the fact that no conventional form of birth control works 100% of the time. If the potential risk of condom/birth control pill/IUD/etc. failure is too high, and if you're not willing to accept responsibility for any children that may be conceived unexpectedly, you know what to do: Don't have sex.

Much like mrme, I have now repeated with Lulu and the experience gets more spectacular each time!!!! She is one of those women you hope to find and when you do, you can't get enough of her. I'm just happy the neighbors were away on vacation!!! YEE HAW!!!!

Chanel Reign While I have never met her we have spoken on the phone. She is down to earth and has an air of joie de vivre about her. She is helpful, kind and beautiful! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=30227 My fave pic http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=5039&pictureid=32208

Lots of people are going to visit the profile of someone who posts in the lounge, or someone who just joins the site. If someone just looked at it, then it would be a bit presumptuous to send them a note suggesting they come and visit. Some long time members will post a note on the profile saying hello, or welcome, or nice pics. A followup pm sending contact info would be a bit like jumping the gun lol. They haven't asked for info, nor suggested they want any. This is a friendly site, and a lot of the time people just want to encourage a new member to post and join in discussions. If someone comments on your profile, I think the nice thing to do, is go to theirs and say your thank you or hello back to them there. And in those situations, then no, you wouldn't suggest they come and visit you soon, or include your info. I think even if the recipient wasn't put off by that, other people reading it tend to be (I think we've seen such posts before and thought, hmmm, that's kind of borderline solicitation) Better to err on the side of caution, imo.

What makes a "good ad" or may "intrigue" me is, to paraphrase the catch all phrase of this community is YMMV. Or in other words, what catches my attention may be different from someone else. In the case of the ladies on CERB, I suggest that the ladies that know themselves and what they want, and don't want, and are best able to express that in their ads have the best chance of attracting the type of clientele they are looking for. In other words if you aren't into fetishes, don't imply that you are. If you like spontaneity or light hearted fun, let us know. We aren't here to judge, we are just looking to meet someone that will light a spark in our encounter. And the best way for that to happen is if both sides know what they want. Since as a hobbiest I'm on the side of the fence that gets to scan the ads and then make initial contact, you need to let me know a bit about you and what I might expect during our time together. If I sense we are a good match I will contact you. And then the ball is in your court whether you want to meet with me. As for websites, they are a great tool for you if you want to be able to provide more information, photos, etc, than you wish to on CERB or to make yourself known to a wider market outside of CERB. If you do go the route of posting a website, once again I suggest that making the website reflect who you are and what you want or are comfortable with goes a long way in attracting the type of people you want to meet. Good luck, keep safe and have fun!

I don't phone my Mom often enough, we are basically on opposite ends of the country so I should call more often. You just never know when your last chance with occur. So, always remember that everyday should be thought of as Mother's Day, as without her, you wouldn't be around.

Tomorrow is Mother's Day. While it's too late to send a card, and ordering flowers for delivery might be difficult, even if you made the mail on time and/or ordered the bouquet, please, please, please remember to call your mother. Mother's Day began as a day for peace. After the Civil War, American women set aside this day to reflect on peace and an end to war, on no longer sending their sons to kill other women's sons. Mother's Day is a call for peace. If your relationship is strained or broken, please try to bring a little bit of peace into it. For just ten minutes this weekend, let go of the hurt and call your mom anyway. If you've tried in the past and it didn't go well, set that aside, too. Take a deep breath and do it. Call your mom. You don't have to pretend that things are okay. Just call, please. For those of us who have lost a child, especially if that child is alive and knows where we are, Mother's Day is very hard. Whether the break is our fault, or our doing, or whether someone else engineered the alienation, this is a heart-wrenching time. And if the distance is because of something the child has done, the mother feels the separation acutely. No matter what, your mother can never forget you. If you have a good relationship with your mother, celebrate it! She won't be around forever. While children yearn to be adults who move away from their parents and into their own, separate lives, parents continue to be parents for as long as they live. If your mother is no longer living, remember her. Call someone else--a family member, a neighbour, a friend--and wish her a happy Mother's Day instead. Mothering is hard. We all appreciate being appreciated! Call your mom!

If someone sends you a friend request, you can either accept it or reject it. The most I would do if accepting it, is thank them for their friend request. But honestly, if they are interested in finding out more about you, or booking you, they will.

Well my Mum doesn't really recognize me now, which is not unexpected with her condition, but she did remember her favourite type of chocolate bar that I brought today. Mmmm. Cherry Blossom.

And no offense intended to you as this unfortunately is the attitude of many people but it is not illegal and never has been (in Canada). Thanks for reminding us that so many people think this way, perhaps from American TV? I actually don't like the word (or term) prostitution or prostitute. While I have met a number of ladies here I have yet to meet one I would consider to be a prostitute :) They are "professional" friends or companions to me. I don't think I have ever paid for sex; while that does sometimes (ok, often) occur in such a "professional" relationship and is almost expected, well to me it's never anything I ask for or expect. That said, when I make an appointment with such a lady she generally has the expectation that is what I am looking for and I've had to stay late after school to live up to her expectations :) Welcome to CERB!

This has been talked about at great length in the past; do some searching and you'll find a lot of threads on it (like this one, which is in this forum and was made sticky for precisely this reason). In a nutshell, prostitution itself is and always has been legal. There are three things that are not legal, which are: First, "living off the avails" (ie profiting from someone else's prostitution), which was probably aimed at making pimps illegal but also prevents SPs from employing security or drivers, and may be used against the landlord if the SP uses an incall that she doesn't own, or against her family if she supports them. Second, running or being found in a "bawdy house" (ie a brothel), which is usually defined as a single location used by at least one prostitute to see more than one client. Note that it has *never* applied to a client's home, so outcalls have always been legal. Thirdly, communication for the purposes of prostitution - but only in a public place (this one was aimed at, and completely screws over, SPs who work on the streets). This doesn't include conversations where there's a reasonable expectation of privacy (e.g. a phone conversation), and the entire Internet has been found in court not be a place under this law. In Ontario, the first two have been struck down by the appeals court and the whole lot is on its way to the Supreme Court, so the chances of anything related to any of this being actually tried before the SC rules on it are minimal. Having said all that: the police don't give a shit about you, or who you have fun with, or what you give them in return, provided everyone consents to everything and the neighbors don't complain. The only times you really see the police doing anything are when people running incalls have become so disruptive that the police have been forced to step in and do something. But most SPs fly completely under the radar on this, and the police have a million and one better things to be doing... especially given that the relevant law is currently being challenged in the highest court in any case. Visiting a reputable lady's incall might be technically illegal right now (outside Ontario) but it's like driving at 101 on the highway. So: go out, have fun, stop worrying :)

It's Mother's Day today, and I would like to offer my best wishes, and my thanks to all SPs and MAs that have children. It's your day and hope you will enjoy it. In this hobby, we forget too often that many ladies here take care of a family. Well, to these wonderful ladies, let this Day be for you and your loved ones.

I have to agree with Skinflute in that some people are just to lazy to look for themselves always wanting some other member to answer their questions for them... Contributions and recommendations are the basis of how CERB works along with building a solid reputation as a respected member... It is tough to respect a "newbie" and want to help them out when they do not want to help themselves in the first place. CERB has been extremely helpful to me in my decisions as to which SP or MP I have chosen to visit. Why? Its due to the valued members who take the time to post recommendations and to add meaningful input to the threads in the various forums... Because thats the way CERB should be! Rodehard

Oshawa Ontario And no pictures...been to Oshawa, nothing pictureworthy there LOL RG

I think that I have started a CERBtastic thread here where we can showcase the ladies that make this such a great place to spend time. I am sad to see that it hasnt' taken off. The ladies are a big reason that this site exists!!! I do not want feedback here, on this thread but encourage excitement and comment regarding the various wonderful ladies who post, join conversations and make an impact on the overall atmosphere that CERB has created! Please join me in giving a shout out to the fab ladies who make CERB the place you wanna be!!!! Come on......CERB ladies ROCK!!!

Back in my major travelling days, I remember seeing an incrediable SP in Montreal. She gave me the standard "I doing this to pay for university" story, which was possible since she was pretty damn smart. Every time I went to Montreal I tried to set up an appointments with her. She not only was a great SP but also a incredibable person. More than once because of our conflicting schedules all we could do was meet for a drink or a coffee and have a quick visit. Needless, to say, I was not a happy camper when I was assigned more western clients. I did know that she was originally from New Brunswick but I couldn't believe my eyes when the client I was working for in Moncton invited me to his cottage on the Acadian coast and there on his deck I saw my Montreal SP. She also seem a little surprised but she played it very cool and quickly marched up to me and shook my hand. It was very weird knowing that I had been regularly fucking one of my companies biggest client's daughter. Unfortunately, she stopped being and SP when she finished her degree. I do see her once in a blue moon when I am out east but always in social situations with her dad (BBQs at the cottage, breakfast meeting at a diner, etc).

Today, I will nominate the lovely Nicki as my cerb goddess of the day. Kind and gentle, at least in my opinion. Friend to many, and a very even balance lady. First met her at one of the Ottawa socials that she was co-hosting with Angela. She is very organized, and very much a leader, like a leading lady.

My Goddess of the day is SaraMQ I've only know her for about 15 months but I feel I've know her for over 10 years. I consider her a really good friend...that when I am around my level of excitement go up of 200%. She is witty, doesn't hide anything and will always stand for her friends. I miss her dearly :(

"Don't step there, that's dog poop." - The girl who saved me from stepping in dog poop, the other day.

My Goddess of the day is VJ! There is much to be said about Victoria, much more than I will express in this post but here it goes; she is a laid back and down to earth lady with an awesome positive attitude and a great smile. Her impressive beauty is also comparable to her entrepreneurship and business skills. Victoria, ne change jamais... Je t'adore comme tu es! xox

Doesn't change a thing in my mind, I read the news article you refer to and re-read my post #6 in this thread, nothing changed. Seems even he owned up to it until it became inconvenient or a financial burden. Can't think of a more wonderful financial burden to have or any better purpose for my money and time than to fully support any child I would cause to be brought into this world under any circumstances with every fiber of my existence. If I found out I might be a father, I would gladly want to know if it was so, and take full responsibility for my actions and then some. Interesting the brothel may be liable also though (in this case), thanks for the link.

I love the women here. So many different backgrounds, experiences, points of view, and so many, many kinds of beauty in every way. It's an honour and a privilege to be among them. For today, I nominate Cat. She's playful, sensual, smart as can be and deeply wise--all of that, wrapped around a heart of pure gold. Cat is the epitome of what I want to be. And she's utterly gorgeous, too! Great curves, a hint of mischief in that smile, and somehow I'm certain that the eyes behind the shades are sparkling bright.

I like RG because he finally showed LeeRichards who's boss in the fishing stakes. And also because he's generally an all-round awesome guy. And doesn't wear speedos.

Mr. Nice, I could not agree more, I have said it many times "Cerb" is my hobby. Mod, Sorry to say it again, but you are kinda like a Dad. You read our posts and laugh at us/with us. You keep us in line when we need it, but are always there to help us when needed. I luv my Cerb family! Many of you (some of which I have never met and maybe never will) have become so close to me. Cerb has been here when I was sick and needed a laugh, it has been here when I having a bad day and needed a distraction. To all new members, Be proud to be a Cerbite! I know I sure am. Always ask for help when needed, we will always be there to help. Together we STAND, divided we FALL!