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Well Mr Smithwick.... it appears all worked out for ya in the end !! My two cents.... as you move forward.... be patient ! as you may have already realized or now do by previous posts....these gals have tons of communications to go through. I do believe most times Cerb ladies will be replying to you promptly.... but if not be patient if it is a lady you really want to see ! Circumstances arise... whether it is just plain very busy, health related, family or simply a quickie getaway and/or needing a break. Decide who you want to see......go with your gut instinct ...... and in my experience it is 99.9 % of the time more than worth the wait :)

I suspect some threads have been written on this in past. I have been fortunate to meet some great ladies on CERB and written a few recommendations of past encounters. I generally am quite loyal/regular with those I've connected with. But those ladies always exist who just seem out of reach or circumstances don't bring you together. Nonetheless the desire seems to rise over time and the anticipation to meet them only increases. Recent activities have raised an anticipation of meeting a lady I've wanted to see for a long time. Miss Emily Rushton http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=22822 I really do gain a huge apprecation for a womans character and who they are even more than how they look. This has made me admire Emily over many months and slowly get to know a little more. I really like when I gain a growing respect and admiration for a woman. It only makes me want to know them more. Emily is that woman. At the same time she is one beautiful woman I think I would spot thru crowds of thousands. Yet we haven't met. Both Emily and I travel extensively and we've come to know each other and share travel schedules in the hope that things align. We came close a month or so ago in Saskatoon but business activities didn't cooperate. And last week we passed within an hour of each other at the Ottawa airport. I know that isn't the full encounter I'm waiting for but the chance to meet even if for a quick coffee...had my heart racing. Miss Emily you are an amazing woman I would be honoured to meet. And this cub will keep travelling and tracking - knowing it will happen! CERBITES, pls feel to share your close encounters or those who you are anticipating to meet some day. Cub

Maybe we are getting a little off topic (or not) Glad Smithwick got a hold of the lady. He is a newbie to this lifestyle, so his uncertainty of what to do understandable. Lets hope he has a great first encounter with a great lady As for screening process, always comply with the lady's screening procedure. Some prefer a phone call. Some prefer just an email, some prefer email with full verification (name, email, phone number, board handle, reference) I just now add a pm to the lady to confirm my board handle My morning two cents worth. And hoping Smithwick has a great first encounter RG

Well I must say Phantom that's a hell of a first post. You hit the nail on the head. Lets hope you don't wait another six years before you post again, I think you might have something to contribute. A belated welcome.

Carrie Moon is a nominne for the following category: Favourite service provider/escort/massage worker @ the The Naked Truth Adult Entertainment Awards 2012 click here to read about it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=94529 Click here to visit her profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=15702 Congrats to you sexy lady !!!!!!! A very well deserved nomination!!! :)

I've bought quite a few pairs of nice shoes that way ;) I prefer discussing it with my gentleman first as I like to go shopping and buy the undies he likes (style, material, color, etc.). I also want to be able to wash the undies before wearing them... something not possible when he just bought them himself and still have the tag on...

If requested in advance, absolutely! I have a guest that plays a "steal the panties" game. It started 6 years ago when I realized my panties had disappeared after he had left the first time we met. I TORE the room up looking for them and they had just vanished. I chalked it up to weirdness and assumed I wouldn't see him again, being a panty thief and all. When he booked a second appointment I planned on confronting him about the MIA panties but somehow I got sidetracked and forgot. When he left, my first visit panties where there but the second visit panties were missing! Every visit after that brought an invisible exchange of panties which continues to this day. Even if it has been months between visits, I always know I will see him again eventually because he has always has a pair to return... cat

I have never been to a MA before yesterday and all I can say is i am glad I did. Spending time With Katrine was fun,exicting ,seductive and sensual. She pays great attention to details and know how to make you feel like a king. I will def repeat and well worth the time even if i got lost finding it :)

I like Backrubman because he has become a good and trusted friend on this board. I appreciate his posts, as well as his advice and support. Porthos

I <3 This so hard

I share some of Porthos and Backrubman's sentiments. There are ladies I've met, and had great encounters with. So naturally I want to continue to see them. There is something special about repeat encounters, where your relationship is less SP/Client, more like friends. Best analogy I can come up with. It is a wonderful aspect of this lifestyle. But there are ladies who have caught my eye, much more through their posts, pm's and emails than photos (oh ok, I look at their photos too LOL) But they interest me as ladies I'd like to meet. Maybe a new connection made, maybe not, who knows. But it certainly isn't for me about seeing as many ladies as possible. And irrespective of whether it is a first encounter or sixth encounter (or maybe more) with a lady, my anticipation builds for each and every encounter A rambling RG

Just wanted to wish all those amazing fathers out there, a wonderful day. My hope is that each and every one of you gets to be with those you love today.

What you have to keep in mind is that we verify ALL the information and not just the cerb handle (full name, number, email address, confirming cerb handle via PM, etc.) with the other lady. When a lady asks me for a reference for gentleman xxx, I require more then a cerb handle to confirm the fact that I have spent time with him as I wouldn't want to give an 'ok' just like that. Most of the ladies I know work this way too. Anyway, I do not want to say more as I do not want to give away all the 'in and outs' of our screening methods. Just know that those of us who are serious about screening do it thoroughly.

Thanks sandimoon. I think the point I was making is that it was caught (in this instance) more just by chance and random circumstances rather than a strict procedure that everyone applies consistently across the board. I "know" for a fact that some ladies ask for references and then don't always get around to actually checking them (and I suspect with some never at all) as long after an appointment were a lady was used as a reference I will see the reference lady again and she may ask, "Did you get to meet so-and-so? I know you gave me a heads up you were using me as a reference but I never heard from her". Yes, but I still worry for the ladies safety because it takes a kind of double cross check to keep this from happening. If a lady gives me a reference and hasn't been forewarned by me that one is coming and I'm the one initiating it, then it's pretty meaningless. CERB is great, but it is so easy to pick a reputable CERB member's handle, say you are them and use a lady they wrote a recommendation for as a reference. In my case the bad guy wasn't even this smart. It has happened not just to me but to others as well. So we know and understand the demands on a ladies time and if I want an appointment later today or tomorrow (that would be rare but in the case of a cancelled flight pr change in travel plans it could happen) then it doesn't give time for reference checks anyways. So if it happened twice I know of and was caught only by chance (or bad luck for the bad guy). I do wonder how often it happens and they get away with with it and therefore how effective it really is. I always use real information and expect the lady to be discreet with it. Then, when I first meet, I always produce my drivers's license or passport... there is never any deception on my part and I really don't mind jumping though any hoops or doing anything else the lady may ask of me because I want her to feel as safe and comfortable around me as she possibly can. Of course we are starting to get a little off topic or perhaps not, I think screening procedure and complying with them fully are part of "Contact Etiquette" :)

I couldn't agree more Gabriella. We can never be too safe. Of course I'm not going to disagree with fortunateone's approach either, it obviously works well for her and is the way she prefers to operate. I understand it all, the references are very important, IMO. Go to this intersection nearby and then call to get the final in-call address when you are there, and when I do I am quizzed you on what I see next to the laundry mat just to make sure I am now calling from the corner I say I am now at (kinda right out of a movie). As an exercise and after the fact, I did retrace my steps a day or two later in a virtual sense (using Google maps street view) to the same intersection and would have been able to answer the skill testing questions just as accurately from a thousands of miles away so I wondered about the effectiveness :) I got the point but the method was ineffective. Call from the hotel parking lot to get the room number (like I was going to carry out a surveillance operation if I had known the room number two hours or even a day ago). I agree with it all, I comply, it's not complicated. Just makes me wonder if there is a better way, a different way or a different approach. Not saying any of it is or is not necessary (that is always for the lady to decide), just troubled as it isn't necessarily effective.

I suspect they are getting it the same way other telemarketers and scammers do. My 80 year old father in law got phoned by these ones. Given their accent, the fact that he doesn't have a computer and doesn't know what windows is, it was a great conversation. Here he is asking if the windows they sell are double or triple paned, and getting quite frustrated, insisting his windows locked perfectly well and he didn't see any need for new fangled password locking systems. Finally he hung up. Took him an hour to calm down, and another hour before I explained!

I will help you out because it's plain as day. I responded to Desbarres that I replied to him and had answered his question and it was not my responsibility to check his rep or anything in regards to the Social, the second time I simply quoted and posted the link for Katrine Cannon and for anyone else who wanted the proper new thread for themselves to read. I see no problem with that, the information is there for whomever wants to read it.. Originally I received a PM out of the blue from Desbarres and was asked if something was still going on. I responded and inserted the proper thread link. I was simply responding to a PM and here to let him know that I replied to him. I'm not sure why I was contacted but knew where to direct him, so I did just that. The post stating that the Social is Full was June 8th. I responded to Desbarres June 7th and to this thread again with just the link June 9th for those who were looking for info here as the Social was full and quite capable of going to the proper thread and reading on their own the information from the organizers. If someone asks for information and if I can help I will point them in the correct direction, which was the link to the proper thread with the info. I will and did. johnsutterjr I have no clue why you brought me in to this as the timeline is very clear and all the information/link that I supplied was as I received and read it. Everyone is entitled to an opinion but to single me out for trying to be helpful and just posting/sending a link for anyone to go and read for themselves and answering a question to the best of my knowledge and ability at the time on June 7th. All I can say is WOW!! Bringing money up is totally inappropriate and uncalled for but I can tell you something that's very honest and to the point, for every new plasticy $100 and $50 dollar bills you have saved up, there are plenty of gentlemen that just have it or have also saved up too. Your cash flow is so irrelevant and has nothing to with what is being discussed in this thread and is of no concern of mine. I did find how you slipped that in insulting and disrespectful. The Social has nothing to do with the money you may have to flash around and last I checked you were not attending. I don't even see the point in bringing up money in this discussion, when the Social has nothing to do with that or what you may have in your wallet. That is my opinion that I am entitled to it. The main reason and to my understanding is that all attendees want to feel comfortable, safety and discretion is a priority for all and just not the gentlemen. The people attending contribute and take pride in maintaining everyone's safety, privacy and discretion and have formed and earned a certain level of trust and respect amongst each other. This is my interpretation and in my own words, so please don't get those twisted. It's a very sad day when being helpful by answering a question and sending/posting a link gets scrutinized and insulting comments regarding money gets thrown out there. I will take this opportunity to ask you johnsutterjr politely to leave me out of any further posts/discussion you add/make to this thread. My point was made, clarified by the timeline of event and is crystal clear. Thank you Have a lovely day johnsutterjr and I hope tomorrow is even better, Lexy

Well sweety, all that has been said here.....is THAT there are more members with more REP that would like to attend the social. It has nothing to do with you, or being blackballed!! Simply though, as we know little of you. So why would the organizer of the event choose a member that we know nothing on...over a member that has put duo diligence on there time here on the site?? So, take it with a grain of salt....and carry on. Participate....bulid rep...and see you at the next social!!! Be in the spirit of CERB community:)

Wow, there seems to have been a lot of drama around this social. It's impossible to have any kind of social (family, work, personal) and not have any drama I suppose, we're all human. I just hope it's all set aside and forgotten about and those who do attend make it a great evening. Go, have fun, have lots of laughs.

You are hardly being blackballed. This is the message you got, and I'm quoting your post The message i got: Thanks for your interest in the upcoming social. However, after consultation with other Cerb members we have decided that we will with regret decline an invitation because you are such a new member. I hope that you will become an active member in Cerb and thus be able to meet at the next social whenever that happens to be. Quote: Originally Posted by polarice55 Thats the way she goes I guess. You were declined this time for this social. But as the message says, they hope you become an active member in CERB, and thus meet at the next social The idea of socials is for established members of the CERB community, who know each other pretty much through posts (ok, in some cases ladies and gentlemen have met each other in other circumstances :-) ) to meet in person. Become part of this community by contributing positive posts. Remember CERB's underlying policy...if you do not have anything nice to say...Please do not say anything at all. Coming from a CERB member who would attend this social if he was out east, but looking forward to this December when, as it looks now, I can make the Christmas social RG

I'm only guessing but I'll bet it's a good guess to imagine that the ladies spend an almost equal amount of time communicating and setting up an appointment as they do with the actual appointment. Just how long does it take to exchange 4 or 5 emails? Check references. When I see a lady for the first time for 3 or 4 hours, I wouldn't be surprised to learn she had spent just as much time communicating, checking references, getting ready and getting there. When we account for no shows and cancellations and most gentleman wanting shorter appointments, I'd say she'd be lucky to have spent as much time off the clock, behind the scenes as she does in my presence. We need to keep this in mind. They give so much and ask for so little in return.

Congratulations, Gabriella! Thoroughly well deserved! And for the record, I'm not RG's wife either. :)

Thanks for the thread Vanessa and the kudos everyone. I hope to go to the ceremony but it's clear across the country! Vancouver is so lovely though.. is anyone here going?

Incredible achievement and a well-deserved honour!! Congrats lovely Gabriella. And by the way, if you ever want to throw over RG I'm waiting in the wings for you!!!! Porthos

It is membership a very elite group, the 4th member to make it there at this time. Unquestionably it speaks to the way she speaks. In fact it is a good opportunity to look at the top ten reputations again (and every so often), they are all such wonderful people with such great words of wisdom and advice. I haven't yet had the supreme pleasure to meet Gabriella in person but I can say that when she speaks here, I listen. Of course RoamingGuy couldn't have picked a better wife (or was it the other way around) :)

Email auto-replies are really good for this. If any email sent to you gets an auto-response saying that you won't be replying until next Tuesday, it saves people wondering what's up; it also means that anyone looking for a meeting in the near future can simply either move on or adjust their expectations accordingly. Glad things are back on track! FWIW I don't think resending after a few days is at all unreasonable...

As women, I think it is a natural feeling to find something about ourselves that makes us self conscious. Also, as women, it is natural to find something appealing about almost anyone. Physical attributes are not what attract me to someone. I love men and women who are fun, take life for what it is and are willing to explore what turns them on! To me, there are no physical aspects of a woman that turn me off. Women are beautiful creatures no matter what! (unless you are a bitch LOL) Find someone who appeals to you and take it from there. I think you will be pleasantly surprised!

I'm pretty sure most ladies on this site will respond the same way I'm going to: as long as you're clean and respectful, size does not matter! I've been with people big and small, short and tall, and pretty much every size/race/religion/age. The only experiences I did not enjoy were with the rude/dirty people. Plus, a curvy woman is great - nothing feels better than running your hands over a nice, soft curve. Yum. I think many people feel the same way - if they didn't, I myself wouldn't be successful in this business ;)

As long as you can make my eyes roll in the back of my head, you would qualify to come to my extravagant bunker.lol.

I have been fortunate to meet Emily twice, and last March (2012) came down with major viral infection and had to cancel our third encounter. :-( But very shortly (a few weeks) get to reconnect with Emily :-) Another lady who is a wonderful companion is Lonna Lux. I have seen her five times (one of those a sleepover) A sweetheart, and time with her now is more like friends with benefits than SP/Client There are a couple ladies in Orleans that I've had the pleasure to meet Meg for Fun. A fun, down to earth sweetheart, who looks like a blonde Ann Margaret. I've had the pleasure of her company twice thus far Angela of Ottawa. Also a fun down to earth lady. During our encounter, since we are the same age, we were able to share some common experiences, having grown up in the same era. And we have become friends, she and I are going fishing this summer, and this fall reconnect. Anticipation I would be remiss if I didn't mention my beautiful wife Gabriella Laurence. We have a bantering, both on the board, as many have witnessed, and off board, which is between my wife and me. This December Gabriella and I will finally meet :-) and consummate our marriage. I am also looking forward to my upcoming encounter with Kylie Daniels. Any lady who's idea of a gift is a gift card to Bass Pro Shops is a lady this fisherman wants to meet...not to mention she is beautiful Victoria Jolie. A lady of international renown, beautiful, sexy, and I'm told by another lady who I highly respect that I would like her. As a travelling gentleman both her schedule and mine need to coincide so we can meet Cat A lady known for her insights and intelligent contributions to CERB. She too is fishing with me this summer and come this fall, we will meet Looking forward to meeting her, both fishing and for an encounter Emma Alexander. Looking forward to when Emma's touring schedule and my travel schedule work to bring her to Ottawa (or Toronto or Kingston) She seems like a nice down to earth very beautiful and sexy lady, one I'd like to meet Melissa "Missy" Mariposa. I thought I'd never have the chance to meet her, since she was part time in Nashville, part time in BC. But there may be a chance she might come to Ontario. Proactive guy that I am, I gave all verification information needed, to be pre-verified. Just some ladies I've met, and the anticipation was well worth it, and some ladies I haven't met...yet, and have anticipation of meeting them A real long winded rambling RG

I would love to meet beautiful Anna from Vancouver, just having no luck being in the same city as her at the same time! Perfect example I get home to Winnipeg last Friday, the same day as she leaves! lol Although I do believe she passed me last winter driving from Regina to Saskatoon :cool:

I respectfully dissent from the majority position. However despicable the alleged actions are, we are talking about minors. And they are not bordeline adults aged 17, but 15 year old. Minors are not considered adults in Canadian society, for good reasons. For example, they cannot vote because they are generally considered not to have attained the required intellectual maturity. If their alleged actions are proven in a court of law, they deserve to be punished. But they also deserve an opportunity to rehabilitate, and juvenile courts and detention centres will provide a better opportunity to do that. The victims and society would likely not be well served by their being judged and sentenced as adults. For one thing, it would have no deterrence impact on other immature kids tempted to act in a similar fashion as, again, they would likely not have the cognitive capacity to integrate such facts in their choice of action. Best, toine

Billy Jack! Some of the scenes are a bit dated but still a very good movie!

Soft touch of the perky breasts because once you start rubbing those jewels and out pops an Emerald. You know you struck the right place for Treasure. BD

I grew up in small town Ontario.. white as white can be... and when I moved to bigger and bigger cities started encountering other races and colors. I have never been brought up to be racist and I believe that shapes who you are as far as your beliefs are concerned. As an sp.. no different. I don't discriminate on color, size or shape. So long as you're respectful and courteous and your money is green (or brown, or blue, or purple. etc) you're welcome to book me.