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WIT, honestly, I think this is a mistake. Don't let a few opinionated people sway you. You are a model of fairness. You have never been anything but respectful and valuable. Don't make me have to miss you :( Love A

WIT. I read your announcement first with a sense of shock and then with a sense of personal sadness, and how selfish of me that those two emotions were about me thinking of myself before you and your rationale. However, they are there and real. Your participation on this board since I arrived almost a year and a half ago has been a grounding force for me and I am certain for many others. To have people who are that grounding force and who are the voices of reason is very important to me and to many of us. Your contributions in so very many areas have been significant. It is people such as you who have helped me educate myself on many of the issues that are both prominent and also those that are under the surface and never even considered previously. I have also been a reader of many of your recommendations and it is clear to me that your involvement with CERB has helped you to expand your horizons and gain experiences that otherwise may not have happened, and certainly might not have happened in the way that they did- with intelligent, respectful, open and classy women. Each and every person has their reasons for participating in CERB and ultimately their reasons for deciding to depart. I have learned to respect the various reasons that people have for becoming involved and I shall equally respect those who choose to leave this community, whatever their reasons may be. You have made many things clear for us, and one thing that has been obviously apparent with virtually everything that you have written is your wisdom and your thoughtfulness. I am sure that you have considered this decision prior to starting this thread and I shall not attempt to convince you of an alternate course. As with all things pertaining to WIT, you are the sole decision maker. That being said, this rather insignificant voice of experience knows that the ability to reconsider is not a fault but is rather a positive and should you decide to rejoin this community tomorrow, next week, next month or next year in any capacity, then many many many of us would welcome you with open arms. I am even more personally pleased that I was able to meet you at the social in Halifax recently, and if and when there is another then I know that regardless of anything else that you would be heartily welcomed. It is my personal pleasure to have been able to learn from you and to have had the privilege of shaking your hand in a face to face meeting. Take Care my friend, and should you wish to maintain contact outside of CERB, then you and I do have a number of mutual friends who can send you my personal email address.

Well Mr Wrinkledintime. A shocker to the community here no doubt. I wish you nothing but the best my friend ! Obviously you have put a lot of thought into this decision and I wish you the absolute best. Unless of course you change your mind...Then I will wish you the best right here on Cerb another day.... Either way life goes on and as long as YOU are happy then that is what counts. For the record, I and many others have never been tired of hearing your voice and never will be. I enjoy hearing your voice from every angle of every post you make. Serious to helpful to fun and funny. It's all good ! You might be wrinkled big guy....but not wrinkled enough yet ;) you need more time to wrinkle properly in Cerbland !! Take Care Lee

I call her my cinnamon girl. I tell her that I call her that because of her red hair. It's the color of dark burnished copper, and I love the way it curls and ripples over her lightly freckled shoulders. But she also has the scent of vanilla and cinnamon, and it reminds me of a long ago and far away time, in another life. She's my little bit of sugar and spice and all things nice, with her fresh-faced wholesome good looks, her bright smile, that ineffable sparkle in her eyes. I adore her genteel ways. She's well mannered, well spoken. We josh in the summer evenings as she sits pretty in her lacy white sun dress, sipping delicately at her white wine as the evening sky turns purple and we laugh on into the night. My cinnamon girl brings me back to another simpler time. A time before white envelopes and last-minute confirmation calls. A time before reviews and references, when my world was a younger and more innocent place. I've sometimes thought that in another time, another place, in another world I could have taken my cinnamon girl home to meet my mom, God rest her soul. I forget completely that we both met because of this world. This world of loveless touch, of paid companionship. But you should definitely never judge a book by its cover. For my cinnamon girl is a real lady all right, but she's a little bit more than that. Because not far below the surface, she's also as spicy as her namesake. I discovered that one evening, after our gentle lovemaking, when we were cuddled together and sipping our wine. I don't remember anymore how we got on the subject, but we started to talk about a few of things that really turned us on. And that was how I found that perhaps her scent is vanilla and cinnamon, but there is precious little vanilla to go with that cinnamon, if you know what I mean. Oh, don't get me wrong. She's very sweet, and I'll forever relish the way that she luxuriates in my soft kisses, my gentle caresses. But behind that pretty girl next door face and those genteel manners is a freak between the sheets. Now, her eyes glint as her bedroom door closes behind us, and she knows she has me trapped there with her. And of course, I'm always happy to have her trapped there with me as well. We do things that I had never thought I'd do, with anyone, least of all this genteel lady. She enjoys them, relishes them, makes playful suggestions for new avenues to venture. I indulge her as she indulges me, as we play on into our nights and my world gets a little broader every time we meet. A dreamer of pictures, we run in the night. You see us together, chasing the moonlight, that's my cinnamon girl. As the song says, I think I could be happy, with my cinnamon girl. But I don't dare tell her that. No, that would be creepy. I just want to keep playing with her. For a long, long time.

Personally I don't damn well know where to begin trying to tell someone how to quit their frigging swearing because I don't f@%king swear...ever. I swear too much so I am watching this thread with great (f@%king) anticipation. Ha Ha

The first step in stopping your habit is to recognize that it may be a problem for you. Tell your friends and family that you want to stop/cut down on it and enlist their help. Ask yourself the question "Why do I want to stop swearing?" and of course actually stopping is not going to happen overnight. It will take vigilance over a period of time. Maybe you can start a "swear jar" and put money in for a good cause every time you let one slip. :) Some kind of punishment to give you incentive to reduce the incidents. But also reward yourself once in a while if you feel you've made a big improvement. The use of swear words to shock or get across a stark point IMO has been severely curtailed, because it is in such wide use. The "most flexible, adaptable" word no longer means much. Finding less crass words in a wider vocabulary will express what you mean more efficiently and elegantly. Best wishes! FR

All of your posts reflect someone of great thought and character. I expect as you've indicated you've been thinking about this for some time. Let me echo the thoughts of the loss we'll feel in our little community and wish for you all the best! Cub

Hilarious feeds on twitter today...I know with all the dirty minds here on cerb, we can do better! Name your dick after a movie! What would it be? Examples for you: The wood The Titanic - Just because so many people went down on it What women want Free willy The Pacifier I am Legend Lethal Weapon Hahaha Now your turn....

Difficult week at work, so I needed some R&R. What better way to relax than to go to CMJ and participate in a training session with a new MA? I had the pleasure of meeting Justine, who is a lovely young buxomy woman, as her pics show http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=3068 The training was done with one of my CMJ sweethearts, and we made sure to show Justine the do's and don't of a fun session CMJ style. It was a joy being with these two ladies and Justine knew a lot already, was eager to learn more and appears to be a quick learner. I am very much looking forward to one-on-one quality time with Justine, real soon.

Last night I was given the honour & privilege of appearing at the Naked Truth Adult Entertainment Awards on behalf of our own valued member, Miss Carrie Moon. And here is her winner´s plaque to prove it!!!! OUTSTANDING!!! I had an amazing time with open, friendly & smart men & women from all facets of the business. While I must admit that as verbose as I am one on one or in small groups, I was terrified on stage in front of all of those strangers. I barely remember what I said up there. But I do know what was said about Carrie. We love & respect her, that much is obvious. But she is just as well thought of all the way out here & throughout the industry. The list of her accolades & career accomplishments was long & prolific. But it was also noted that she is known for her genuine nature, warmth, class, professionalism & of course that red hot MILF Sex Appeal!!! It was a lot of fun & I will forever be grateful that she asked me to go in her stead. I love you dear lady & I thank you for including me in your wonderful world. You make me look good. Now let´s all show Carrie how proud we are!!! Sandi P.S. At the risk of presumptive hubris, I do not want rep points for this. This is Carrie´s moment. Please & thanks. S Crap on a cracker! I looked to see if there was a post about this earlier, didn´t double check before submitting & totally missed the follow-ups to Vanessa´s OP. Sorry all!

Hope it works out for you RG

Boomer may have been talking about Pycnogenol...

A sad day for us, but I sincerely hope it's a good day for WIT. WIT, as you go forth remember that you have a great many friends here who love and respect you. You've also, through your contributions to this community, touched many of our lives, always for the better. Porthos

It's a sad day, WIT has asked to retire his account with cerb and before I get 100 PM's asking why I wanted to jump in here and post a farewell note. Apparently he has been contemplating this choice for some time now and has decided to move on. He will be missed by many - especially me as he has a incredible memory and analytical ability and has helped me over the years a great deal. I want to wish him the very best and make sure he knows how appreciated he was by me and others here on cerb. All the best to you WIT. You will be missed.

It is a very dangerous slippery slope to develop feelings for any provider. If you do go back she will eventually catch on and probably milk you for all she can. If you can afford it though it can be the experience of a lifetime to cross the proverbial line in the sand... Girls in these industries live quite interesting lifestyles, and getting to live some of it with them can be fantastic.

I just drank three beers so will have to try this one later :)

So I would like to share a fun game I play with my girlfriends.. Rules are has to have two lies and one truth.. Usually starts off easy,then gets harder as the truths are guested. You cannot write your truth,and lies until the person before you has picked out the correct truth from the three options.... I will start. 1. I am fourty years young 2. I love pets 3. My favourite color is yellow. What's my truth?

i'm going to try to make this one hopefully

I hope you won't take offence if I very respectfully disagree. I once got an arm full of medical grade heroin, OMG! Way better than any lady, nothing else in the whole world matters, I want to feel like this (this good) forever! It's like a 12 hour orgasm (and men only usually get one of 10 - 15 seconds). But common sense dictates the second and subsequent dose is the end, the very end. While I have never fell victim to this myself (hopelessly in love with a lady other than my wife) I have witnessed the devastation and destruction it caused one of my friends, God rest his sole. Yes, I'm, definitely back to the heroin, in the last few hours of my life and not before.

Well it applies equally to seeing SP's and MA's. To be blunt, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Yes it's great there is a type you've always wanted, but as I discovered there have been many ladies I've always wanted to meet (and have) You say you aren't in love but if you become too focused on one lady, you may develop strong emotional attachments that the lady won't recipricate. There are ladies I like and have repeated with (or will repeat with). But I personally like the polyamorous aspect of this lifestyle. For the most part I have good or great encounters, but I do look forward to the next encounter with another lady, hopefully it will be good or great. Good or great encounters aside, I treat them just as that, an encounter which is a couple hours escape. And the good and great ladies have the ability to make you feel special for the time you paid for but remember it is only because you paid for that time, it's not because they have true feelings for you...it's not a harsh or cold hearted assessment of this lifestyle, it's just the way it is. And there is a benefit of the paying no strings. And as much as I enjoy my encounters with ladies, I don't just focus on one lady, I look forward to another escape with another lady. In short, if for no other reason than just your emotions sake (although seeing many ladies is fun too) play the field. Just wouldn't like to hear of someone falling in love and getting hurt That is if I read your post right Good luck RG

This is what can happen and you need to develop the right perspective. One of the things I learned here, is how to treat the women here in a new way. What I mean by that is, women can be friends or available for dates or looking for a relationship or just want to hang out. Assume that none of these apply to the women on here. Learn to enjoy your time with them and walk away. You may feel a conection with some, and when that happens you embrace it, be thankful and walk away looking forward to the next time you can get together. Try not to blur the line between the services that the women provide and a relationship in the romantic sense. For me, it is like I have been trained since my youth that when you are intimate with a woman you have to court them and pay them lots of attention and let them know they are important to you. You need to resist this urge. I have met some amazing women on cerb and I am truly appreciative of that, and I have a degree of affection for many of them and I can care about them without knowing them in their real lives. This is what I have learned. My lasy piece of advice is to put yourself on a budget for this hobby. So that could be once a month or once every 2 months ... what ever it is stick to it. Good luck.

A blog is a wonderful insight in to who you are and what you are about. It gives us insight into this and we do read them. Yeah, there is the lady's profile, her photo albums, her recommendations, her web site, but often the blog (if any) seals the deal. Some ladies I have met after following their blog for some time and it's like I know them and they are amazed how well I know them. I say blogging (if you have the time and inclination) is the ultimate way of putting your thoughts, feelings and who you really are out there.

How this is harsh. Honest and probably the best advice that will be given on this topic. I have been down that road and I can say, ride it till you know you are at the last possible moment. But like I said before, backrubman's comment is probably the best, and mine is the most reckless. Most fun, but reckless. Good luck!

The answer to this problem is so simple it probably doesn't even occur to you. Emotional transference is always a hazard but it really can't truly happen in one visit. Keep in mind that that there are a million women out there that would have a similar effect on you (you just haven't met them yet) so pull the rip cord while you still can and never go back for more. Harsh -- I know, but truly good advice in the end.

I would suggest that you're mouth is allowed to engage before your brain. Start to take a breath or count a couple of seconds off before you have something to say, just slow up a bit and maybe the problem will solve itself.

I blog, I wish I could more often, but time is of the essence....I blog about trips, I vent and I write about just about anything as it is a reflection of me. I have heard from quite a few gentlemen that my blog was the reason they booked as it gave them more insight to who I am..... I say write about whatever makes you happy.... my blog http://emilyrushton.com/blog/

All the best as you move onward. Your contributions are valued and I am sure whatever path you seek with your new found Cerb freedom the people gaining a bit of WIT are lucky to have the opportunity. Cheers!

The awesomeness of our own Claire Heavens :)

You've always been a star to me......! ooxxo

I don't want to say too much. angel and myself have been recently talking . All I will say is she is taking a bit of a break ( personal reasons) , but I can let her know that somebody is making an inquiry about her

Foxy Mandy, with thanks.

After a visit with me... Dazed and Confused cat

Consider me your first voter and I vote YES!

Yes. . yes. . . YESS!!!!

Why is it these fights come to a boil on the weekends when I"m here ? A valid discussion gone off the rails, yet again! the take away from this discussion. It's a 50/ 50 situation: Clients, if you have allergies and are visiting an incall you need to advise the provider or agency so that they are aware and can advise you accordingly. Conversely as a client if you have pets and are hosting a visitor you should advise the provider or agency as a courtesy. Providers/Agents, be upfront about any potential allergy/pet situation so that the client is able to make an informed decision about using your service. Perhaps even more so in a hotel situation where a client would not typically expect to encounter a pet.

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I was approached in "Americas Greatest Bar" in Atlanta, Georgia by a brick shit house in leathers. He said "Hey pretty girl! I have a Harley outside and I bet you can suck start it." I just about fell off my chair... cat

I join my voice with Emma and her words say my feeling. WIT you are an inspiration to me and everything you shared brought a lot of value to this community. You are certainly one of the reasons why I joined this community. You will be missed and we all lose when a family member goes away.

Trans-- or transgender is an umbrella term, used to describe a variety of individuals whose gender expression or gender identity differs from their sex assigned at birth. Really, a google search would help. This is a good place to start: http://www.apa.org/topics/sexuality/transgender.aspx Also, because it's cute and making the rounds of Facebook:

Such a huge loss to the Cerb community. I must respectfully disagree with " But things have long-since evolved to the point that folks have become just as tired of hearing my voice as I myself have become tired of sounding like the broken record I am. " You have added a depth of knowledge and wisdom that really is beyond compare and I am sure that the members of Cerb would echo my sentiments. I wish you all the best of the future and you know where we are, as I would like to think of this as a brief hiatus and that you will return to us. Cheers

I'm really sad to see you go, WiT. Cerb will not be the same without you. Wishing you the best life has to offer. toine

Your informative and insightful posts will be missed. All the best to you Sir WIT!! Cheers, Jeff

This is devastating news, WIT. I can only wish you the very best in your future endeavours. We are greatly diminished without you.

Coming home from out west to flowers,dinner out and homemade challah and carrot cake. Thanks Amelia for everything...and inspiring my kids. It's nice to feel appreciated.

Oh my !!!! I don't imagine you were able to eat that fella in one sitting ? ;)

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Just a reminder that if ANYONE offers you a discount or deal of any kind for a positive review/recommendation on cerb please REPORT them to me! ONLY give recommendations to those who deserve it. If you get caught posting a FAKE recommendation then it will be seen as a SHILL and your account would be banned (along with the person who is making these deals) If someone posts here offering a discount for recommendations I will issue them ONE warning and only ONE warning. Integrity of the recommendations is important to all of us. If anyone feels a recommendation is not justified please PM me and let me know. If enough people PM me I will REVOKE the recommendation in question and possibly remove the person if I feel they posted it as a SHILL.

Having had some very lovely meetings with some literary local SP's (Nathalie Lefebvre and Julie Wilde) when I found these two quotes I knew I had to bring the up here. "Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counsellors, and the most patient of teachers" Charles William Eliot "We need to make books cool again. If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck them." John Waters