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For me, it all depends on the client's attitude. If it appears he's freshly showered or coming from an office, I don't request he bathe. If he needs it, then in he goes. If it takes a man longer than 5 minutes to wash the important parts and swish with mouthwash then I do wonder what he's up to. If he was difficult to book or walks thru the door with an attitude, the shower is on his time whether he requests it or I suggest it. If he comes in with the right attitude then I'm not a clock watcher. This may seem subjective and I am the first to admit it is. I'm too old to put up with bullshit and someone wanting to dicker over 5 minutes brings out the grumpy old broad in me... cat

Bunny ears and legwarmers

All around, just an awesome day!! :)

If you report and income as employment on what you do. It's work. They don't call it a "profession" for no reason lol

Oh and as for professionalism, other than those with allergies, I don't think many clients would mind. In fact I think it would be a step in getting to know the real you even more, a peak into your life, which would make the encounter even more gfe for some.

Sorry I was in the shower. What is the topic here?

I see no reason to do that at all. The fact that you wouldn't visit a MP doesn't mean this holds for everyone else here. Why shouldn't everyone rub along together?

so I am wondering as I heard that champex does wonders for quitting smoking my mom started taking it 4 weeks ago and have not smoked in 2 and a half weeks.. I am dead set on quitting smoking but I am wondering if anyone has tried this method?? and if you could let me know your experiences that would be great as I know everyone is different but as I've heard the same typical symptoms of many people... basically I am wondering if this is the most efficient way to go???

"The game is the game......always" Peace MG

Communication! If in doubt, just ask but be prepared for the real answer! Not trying to be a negative nelly especially since I really enjoy the time that I spend with most people I meet! I, for one, enjoy the whole aspect of a non committal relationship or even the one offs. Sex is the answer but not the solution.

When is a habit not a habit? When every time feels like the first time, exciting and new and different. I guess that's part of Claire's talent, her ability to make every encounter feel passionately exciting, like you're just discovering someone for the first time. It's never repetitive or predictable, the way she moves and touches and pleases. And it's always good. So it doesn't feel like a habit at all, my regular visits to Claire. It's the expectation of a new adventure, and she's never disappointed me.

Prevention is likely the best thing ... I actually am a bit of skeptic about cold remedies. Nice cup of tea for a sore throat, vapors for congestion, and time. I do like Vicks rub to help sleep. But beyond that I really don't do anything. My partner swears by ColdFx, which she takes. I never take it, get fewer colds and get over them faster. Go figure. Porthos

Easy peasy...agency ladies appear in red as they must pay to advertise.

A number of years ago when my wife was ill and had a compromised immune system it was necessary for me to start taking the annual flu shot. I believe it's very important in avoiding the flu, and am still getting it done after eight years.

Vit D... highly under-rated. Here's 20 suggestions from naturalnews.com http://www.naturalnews.com/037510_flu_season_immunity_colds.html

On duos. If I walked in to a hotel room and saw you and a Doberman, I might get a little tense.

I think a number of sps have pets in their hotel room or incall. You only have to be sure that you are in a pet friendly hotel and that you tell the clients so they have the choice if they are allergic.

I like oil of oregano too.. but can't stand the liquid..it's soooo nasty! I will only take capsules. Works great. I used it also for strep throat about 6 months ago. Goldenseal is also a great antibiotic herb. Echinacea is good for viral infections. Zinc and vit c are great antiviral, antihistamine and general immune boosters too.. and I always take omega 3 fish oils for general well being.

I like all five!!! lol. Just a joke!

I find it very reassuring to see how many of you ladies are into the mutual pleasure thing. For me, seeing my partner's arousal adds a whole order of magnitude to the fun factor of the experience. For you fellers out there too, it's good to see that so many of you are also fine upstanding gents that like to show a lady a good time.

Turkey Soup with macaroni noodles and vegetables....sounds womp wompish-but it is super delish! I took my time when I made it lastnight-started with making a really good broth ;) and I am probably gonna have the rest for dinner again tomorrow!

Well as a frequent user of hotels a question. Why do hotel rooms with two queen size beds have either only 1 armchair, or none at all, but a room with 1 king size bed have a couch and armchair, or at least two armchairs (at least in my experience) If a room has two queen size beds, it is plausible that there could be up to four people in the room A room with one king size bed, plausible only one person, usually two in the room So why more seating in a room that likely will have less people in it hmmmm..... RG

I usually schedule playtime for on my way home from work and normally book for at least an hour so taking a quick 5 minute shower is not a problem (if the lady does not join me I always assume the shower is on the clock anyway). Although I work in an office and take a shower every morning, I do believe a shower does have an expiry time. I just feel better freshening up before play time and think it does make a difference in the encounter. However being a single guy I don't need to worry about showering again at the incall afterwards as I don't have to hide my tracks from a girlfriend or wife.

Well for me I love when the lady I'm with enjoys it as much as me hell I can even handle if she has more fun. For me it is about two people enjoying each others company and hey if your turned on by what we share all the better.

As a hobbiest, I consider that behavior as very professional and a mark of respect for the hobbiest. In my book, if the SP is playing a role and is not authentic, it's a real turn off and I feel that I'm considered as nothing. I do not expect, as a hobbiest, that the SP will be turn on every encounter she will have and get off each time, but, at least have enough consideration for the hobbiest to be honest and respectful not to fake. I prefer have a nice time, even on both sides it's not an orgasmic moment.

In total agreement with you. I love to be nice and clean, always shower before I head out, but if a lady wants me to shower to be sure I am clean and it makes her more comfortable, then I see that as a perfect request. Ultimatley the session will most likely head in the right direction.

I've always assumed that showers are part of the allocated time.

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To me our gentlemen are coming to see us to fill much more than a physical need. Quite often it seems to me that it is also an emotional or mental one. There are many reasons at least to me that men go outside of the home or search out an SP. And its a desire to have that need filled. I think? and I could be wrong is their needs for MUTUAL attraction, satisfaction, pleasure are a huge part of what they feel is missing? Or at the least its part and parcel. I sincerely hope that while Im with a gentleman I fill much more than a basic physical need. I think allowing my own pleasure is a part of that :)

So far in my experiences with SPs, I have always been able to shower immediately before leaving to go meet her. So I've never showered at an SP's incall. I have a question about exiting the shower: What is the best/standard way to do this? Should I put my clothes back on? Or come out with the towel tied around my waist? Or come out full naked?

BRM, I have been keeping an eye on this thread since its beginning and to this point did not feel that I had a whole lot to contribute that has not already been said. Even now I am not sure that I will add anything new to it but I do feel that I want to add my two cents worth. On first reading, my thought was pretty immediate that this is probably not a good idea. After reading post after post and your analysis of each one I believe that my opinion has not changed. We are living in a very different world from even thirty years ago. There are many single mothers who are successfully raising their children on their own without any involvement of a male father or father figure. Of course not all situations are like that as we well know but in this situation you have explained that in your opinion this woman is capable and will make a wonderful parent. I am still a traditionalist who believes that in the ideal world a family will have a loving mother and father, both present, and both involved with the child or children. It is however not a requirement as we well know and it seems as if she has set her course to be an independent single mother, with or without you. Therefore the issue is not her wishes, nor is it the welfare of the child, but rather your own wishes, desires, goals and needs. A version of immortality is how you put it and I suppose that scientifically, as a matter of pure biology and genetics that is true. Many people have achieved their version of immortality however not through their progeny but rather through their own deeds in the course of their life. To my way of thinking as much as one would like to believe that immortality is achieved through ones children I believe that what is more important are the everlasting memories and lessons that you leave with everyone that you interact with, as demonstrated by the way that you conduct yourself in this life experience. You of course will do as you will do and I hope that whatever that decision is that it turns out to be the correct one for everyone involved both in the short term and the long.

I think he means a different advertising section, not a whole new board. It can be difficult, especially when you're browsing via a mobile device, to tell if someone is an independent provider or works from a spa/parlour. A little reading does go a long way, especially checking posting history or the "I am a..." box in the provider's profile.

Farfalle in a sage, turkey cream sauce. That will be the end of the turkey!

There's a sexy gap between a woman's legs that can be a huge turn-on for me. If I notice it during a photo shoot, It can definitely make for some seriously hot photos. Not my work, but an example below.

I hope they're a turn on! I'm planning on taking some new photos today, and I have to admit, I have tan lines!

We're too quick to discount "love" if it's arrived at quickly. It's just infatuation. It's just hormones. Sure, if it's arrived at quickly it hasn't had time to generate the sort of inertia that a long relationship has, but inertia is inherent in anything in life and isn't a prerequisite for love. There is, I think, something of love in every encounter. You can't fake it with any sense of authenticity. Which is why good actors and actresses have such a hard time maintaining relationships. They have to accurately pretend to be in love with different people, and they do that not by being so very good at pretending, but by being good at feeling and projecting that. So while there may be something of love in every encounter, it is quite possible that it is transiatory. That all being said, do not forget love that isn't returned isn't love, it's longing. And what I see in your comment above speaks toward the desire for a relationship, which isn't necessarily out of the question, but highly unlikely. Even if there is something of love in your encounters, a relationship is probably not going to happen. So, like Don Pedro said in Much Ado About Nothing, "If thou doth love fair Hero, cherish it". Feel free to feel. Relish it. Revel in it. Just make sure you don't give your heart more room to feel than is being returned. That's unfair to her, and to yourself.

I admit to not having read the whole thread (but I will). From the jist of it, I say it's a bad idea. I have worked through a personal issue with someone very close to me who agreed to this type of scenario and it hasnt turned out well. Emotions tend to get in the way later on. It's fine and dandy to make these decisions at the spur of the moment but "shit" happens and eventhough provisions are agreed upon, feelings change! This is not a cut and dry situation. Life dictates our course which can change in the spur of the moment. My view is that a child should come into this world embraced by all or adopted by a couple that will make it it's all. Circumstances aside (hey, I am a single mom) the optimal environment contains two parents and to knowingly decide to have a child without this assurance is asking for trouble. With the advances in fertility, my advice to her is to wait until she meets her soulmate (I say this because she is still young enough to wait) and raise the child with both parents either together or apart!

You've asked for opinions so here is mine-BAD IDEA! 1. If you have to ask others for advice you are questioning your own decision and in doing so your undecided, this is something you have to be very sure about. JMO 2. If she is young how do you know she will not change her mind and not want more from you ie: a relationship. Pregnacy can change a person and what they want and how they perceive things. Can a lawyer really guarantee or protect you from this happening. 3. If being a father is of importance to you why not consider adoption, then you could be a full time father, fatherhood it isn't all about passing on your genes. You can be loved and love someone as much that doesn't come from your loins. 4. Who is to say that during her pregnacy she may meet the "man" of her dreams and want him to be the father. 5. Who is to say she may change her mind and during pregnacy decide it wasn't a great idea and decide to abort or want to put the child up for adoption-not wanting you to be the father because of the client-sp thing, if this is how you've met her. 6. What if she marrys and her husband wants you to have no further contact and she agrees. 7. Remember a lawyer can arrange a contract I suppose between the two of you but in the end she will be the mother and her rights will usually prevail in court. 8. Just because someone wants something doesn't make it a good idea, nor does it because someone may be a good mother, or a good father. 9. Some of us are just not meant to be parents and we should face that fact. 10.Could you really just be an occansional father, a father from a distance, If the desire is so strong to pass on your genes then I would think the need to participate fulltime should be too, JMO. Whatever you both decide I wish you happiness, luck and hope it is the right decision for you, her and the child. i

This may not be very politically correct, but as a father, and grandfather, my feeling is that, based on your opening thread, you have some very high expectations about how rewarding or how "magical" fatherhood, and influencing the life of a young person through bloodline will be. I think you are (highly) overrating the future rewarding feeling you think you are going to get from being a "father", and in this case, little more than a donor. There are lots of other options that allow you to actually have a relationship with a young person, albeit not a descendant of yours, that you may want to look at (maybe "Big Brothers"). I am gathering adoption was not an option for you and your wife. Although I am not in your situation so cant relate to your feeling a vacuum in your life if you dont have offspring, but I can tell you that I wouldn't, if life had been different, have the same yearning as you. Lots of people have lots of $, so going on about it is not that big of a deal either, as you can use it to establish trusts for many worthwhile legacies you may feel proud of instead. People hate it that I think that childbirth is not a "miracle" . The proof being that it is replicated, so many times, in so many places, and by so many people, every day, under so many circumstances, that it is a actually a pretty common event. Obviously the new mothers and fathers feel differently, as did I at the time, but taking a step back, I see it differently now. Good luck in whatever you decide

Of course Incalls are risky, you could get hit by a bus or a car, fall down a manhole, get a parking ticket or stuck in an elevator. If you are seeing a professional and established provider who understands the definition and reason for discretion then you will be fine, so long as you don't get hit by a bus or a car, fall down a manhole, get a parking ticket or stuck in an elevator.

I meet really nice girls who are awesome. I always see the same one now as she is awesome!! I believe you shouldn't see a service provider if you can't afford to pay them well. Look what they do for us! I only go when I've saved up well more then they ask for and am treated very well! Fred

I only provide my kind of session, and it makes sense that clients who are interested in other styles are going to see other sps. Sometimes (with regulars) they will only see me, because I provide exactly what they want (and they don't want the uncertainty of visiting other sps that might give the results described above. There is a bit of trial and error in finding sps, you can't possibly expect each and every one of them to be right for you. Even when they are doing their best, they still might not be your cup of tea. Even if I haven't met someone, if they approached me in the right way, and were looking for something I didn't feel was available from me, I'd recommend someone else. I'm not going to throw out a name tho if I didn't think he would be someone I would see.

Something else, expecting exclusivity from a gentleman in what is by nature a poly amorous lifestyle is somewhat, well, creepy. Especially when I don't think that lady would recipricate and be exclusive to the gentleman Monogomy is reserved for relationships, not for this lifestyle Expecting one way monogomy is nothing short of selfish This lifestyle is by nature poly amorous, on both sides. And ladies should be happy if gentlemen find other companions who make them happy. Likewise gentlemen should be happy if the ladies they see also see other gentlemen who are good clients for the ladies RG

I never would have believed how unselfish and classy that sp,s are before i spent time here,I was truly ignorant of how this industry worked as most outsiders are. But i,ve never encountered or even heard of any jealousies between the providers here,if anything the complete opposite seems to be true. The ones i,ve been fortunate enough to meet seem to be more interested in seeing that my encounters are memorable whether its with them or someone they provided a rec for on my behalf . Never would you see that type of co-operation in any other business that i,m aware of. You all are amazing individuals to me and my respect has only grown with every amazing provider i,ve met.

Sure fall in love if you want, but, and this is a big but, at this point it's her business and treat it as such. Remember that it is her job to play and satisfy on your emotional needs. On the other hand remember she is still a woman that can be courted, and even with a more conventional liaison it takes time to develop a relationship. It will cost you to find out where you stand, so set some limits on what you're willing to invest to find out if she is legitimately interested in furthering the relationship.

Rooster - Dude, with respect, you're not in love. It's a combination of infatuation and horniness combined with novelty. Guaranteed. Enjoy the ride ... literally ... but keep your wits. If you keep replaying that fantasy "tape," over and over again in your head (you are doing that in your post above) you're gonna think its real and that's when you are setting yourself up for a big fall.

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