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I dont see a problem BD... I assume you extend the rights of having an opinion and free speech to others too, including her, so I'd just roll with it. If that's her opinion and she expresses it what is the big deal?

Got the results of my physical a few weeks ago, and I show indications that I might have diabetes :-( Last Friday took a diabetes test, had to drink this sickingly sweet stuff and wait two hours, but I digress. Got results back, don't have diabetes...false alarm :-) The down side, there is bullsh--t going on at work (why I was off from August to mid October) even now, and I just haven't been eating right, screwing up my blood sugar. Forcing myself to eat now, even if not hungry But god am I glad for CERB, and even more so, for the ladies here, seeing them is my monthly escape RG

In all honesty, I am actually going to bed in the next hour. ME at my rightful older ;) age...... am plum tuckered OUT! I like to thank those TWO culprits for laying a very "Hot" session late this afternoon on me! FOR TWO HOURS :) It was a fantasy I thought about many times, and it became reality today on my Birthday! So thank-you to those TWO lovers for a great Birthday!!!! AND the sex,cupcakes and candles, the four handed massage,the examination,the laughter,the sweat,the oral,the lube, the strap on play, the voyeurism, if I forgot something, well that is because I'm OLDER NOW :) THANK-YOU EVERYONE THAT COMMENTED IN THIS THREAD, I APPRECIATE IT VERY MUCH!

I have received feedback both thru PMs and email. I ask for it from a guest if I feel the playdate didn't quite gel for me. I can tell if a guest is walking out the door and he isn't sure if his VFD needs have been satisfied. If I feel he's a good verbal communicator, I will address it before he leaves. If he is a little more introverted, then I contact him with an email and ask him what I could improve to make our time together better which opens the door for his honest assessment of the session and the vital feedback I need to improve my guest return ratio. Altho it's far less common to have a guest contact me first, it has happened and as long as it isn't an attack and his concerns are valid; I make every effort to rectify it for him. The key is being able to clearly identify what you didn't like or would have liked more of. I also quickly recognize the men who are unpleasable so when one of those come along with expectations so far out of reality, I simply chalk it up to experience and put him on my DNS list. Who wants to deal with the chronically unsatisfied? Keep your expectations realistic by understanding the unique nature of the business and communicate from a place of genuine care and you should be able to clear up any issues at hand... cat

Michel K: I don't know Wendy's schedule, but it is certainly her. I thought the same as you (retired), but apparently not the case. FYI, slow stage song, she was wearing red dress/black tights/ivory skin... :) Cato: Sierra as toned as ever. She could crack walnuts with her thighs.... I was also down Tuesday evening and caught up with our friend Bridgette. Amazing young lady. Guys, if you like pretty, young, intelligent women (and yes a redhead!), check her out... Lots of new non-dancing staff: servers and shooter girls both seemed new(er). I have to learn a whole new set of names now...

Speaking for myself, I had some fun with a question which could have been a bit less vague. I don't think anybody meant any harm. The OP asked for this very same info in May (in the Claire Rec thread) and got a very prompt, specific, and polite response. The OP has also been a member of CERB since early 2010, so I am not sure how 'new' that is. We have a responsibilty to search this site (it works well) and use the mountains of useful info already posted. Failing that, a quick google search by name returns the result almost instantly. I am not comfortable seeing MP or SP phone numbers being given out in a public thread. Yes, I get it: she has a banner on this site and is easily accessible. That's the whole point. Still, if numbers are being given out, I would be happier if it was by the MP or SP herself. I do not see how it is my place to distribute this info without her approval. Just my $0.02.

Pizza hut has ads for a hotdog-stuffed pizza .... GRease and sodium galore.

Sorry, on my ipad so I can't add photos but my wonderful mentor the beautiful Angela of Ottawa will always be a goddess to me! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=24465

I was called a few choice names today by two ladies...and that was in person...but we were having sex :) roll with it BD

I think this topic is brought up regularly, and no matter how often, the site hasn't changed into a review site. Still just recommendations. I have a hard time understanding why if someone clearly wants to post negative (or even going to the topic here of 'lukewarm') they can't simply use the overwhelmingly high number of review board alternatives. Use them all if you wish, post away and enjoy the firestorm (if it happens),

I suggest you look at a height difference as a real plus not a negative. In bed: It won't make much difference. Standing: This could be a fantasy come true. A shorter guy would be perfect for face to face standing or standing doggie. The lady can adjust the stance to accommodate the height difference. I think a hobbyist height is pretty low on the list of concerns an SP would have. D : )

With you and Erin, maybe Jazmin should plan an Alumni event.

Hello New Brunswick Gentlemen :) I want to thank you for 11 days of pure bliss and FUN! You really know how to make a lady feel welcome :) Will I be back? Count on it! Until January.... xoxo Dorinda

People who still haven't got the message DRINKING AND DRIVING IS NO LONGER ACCEPTABLE! WTF!:vatefaire:

Her pics are most certainly real, although you'll likely find she looks even better in person. If anyone wants to PM me about her, I'd be happy to send you a quick review based on my visit with her.

I'm planning to go but won't go through the trouble of putting on a special costume. After all, I'll take it off anyway, ha ha I understand we get there a bit before the appointment time, meet the ladies and then retreat with the chosen one. If there's anything I should know (besides the costume thingie, I'm not getting that) let me know - my first CMJ HP.

I would say go as some city slicker dandy. Really the hat sells the look. Maybe don't wear brown shoes. I will be going tomorrow as well but was not planning to costumize myself but am now having second thoughts and may just dress up a bit. Have never been there but going with a lady friend who once worked there. :icon_biggrin:

You remember have mom wash your clothes in this style washing machine (mind you it was at our cottage) RG

Depends what you call exorbitant. When you're paying a door fee, even if only for 30 min and then the usual expected tip for that sort of action you have paid the same or more than 30 min with an SP. Recent years the expected tip for FS is a bit higher than the "glory years". In my experience the service an SP provides is way better than most experiences I've had at MPs. As noted above the accommodations at an SP are way more comfortable for this type of activity. And the entire 30 min at an SP is spent on the fun stuff as opposed to 10, 15, 20 minutes quick wham bam thank you maam at an MP. Not that quickies don't have their own appeal. Yeah, I've had some exceptional times with some MA but they are just that, exceptions. Most FS encounters I've had with MAs were quite lackluster. When times were better financially I was more apt to try my luck at getting "lucky" at an MP, these days I want to be more certain what's going to happen. The thrill of getting away with something supposedly forbidden faded as it became commonplace to find it. To address the OP, yes it has been more common than most would like to admit that what you've encountered is not rare. I've had this sort of stuff at licensed, unlicensed, spa and indy MP. YMMV is way more apropo at an MP than with SP as you generally need to have some sort of connection to get FS. Not always, some places everyone gets the offers and they are more likely to be busted. But I would be lying if I said I didn't have extreme fun at MPs over the years. I still frequent the ones in the US that offer table showers, great massages and supreme extras from gorgeous asian women. I actually pay less at those for an hour than I would at most SP so to me it is a cost effective way to enjoy time with an amazing woman. Around here I find the opposite, I get more bang for my buck (pun intended) at an SP, and there are many who can give a better massage than most MA. As long as everyone is enjoying themselves there are plenty of options for almost every desire. I think it's great we all find our own way to make our lives a bit more tolerable for whatever reason. Life isn't so bad .....

Any SPs offering a halloween theme? I.E. sexy vampire?

Looking at this pic makes me say "WTF"

I have had a couple of absolutely delightful days. Yesterday I began working toward achieving a personal goal for this winter, and that being to learn to skate again. At one time I was a very good skater and a pretty good hockey player. Just over fifteen years ago I had a medical issue that put my skating to an end, or so I believed. Well last spring my kids and a friend got me to rent a pair of skates and we did multiple laps of the outdoor Halifax oval. On the first lap I was thinking that this was a very bad idea, and was being pretty well held up by all of them. By the second lap I was gaining a bit of confidence and by the end of our time I was thinking to myself that "Hey, MN2, you can learn to do this again." On the weekend I bought a decent pair of broken in skates for $10 on a buy sell and trade site, and yesterday and today I started my skating program. No one was needed to hold me up, I actually did the turn sideways to do a proper stop, and I am on my way. :) It feels pretty good to be on skates again! So, when does the canal freeze over in Ottawa should I plan a trip up that way??? Any ladies want to hold my hand for a leisurely skate?

This thread is getting a little tongue in cheek humor.......or should i say tongue between cheeks

..trying to imagine the point of view of an sp....I wouldn't be too free with my face pics, especially if you're living a 'double life' and not diving into the business as a full time lifestyle; Halifax and the maritimes is a small place, and somebody always knows somebody...can't even imagine on PEI! Same rules apply as regular life - what you put on the interweb, facebook, etc is pretty much out there forever - may be found by anyone someday, ... May be found by your future kids in 15 years time! "Hey , look what mom used to do!! " digital images never die...

This forum is a gold mine. I worked late tonight and I thought I'll catch up with my messages before going to bed. I would like to thank you all for your contributions. I would also like to say sorry to those who contacted me by PM - sorry guys, I won't share the info. on the ladies or the places visited, for obvious reasons. I read all your messages (and I had more PMs than replies to this tread, ha ha) and hope you'll understand. Keep up the good work, Mark

Check out Julie. Here is here ad: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=109690 I highly recommend her.

I agree with RG, if you have an issue with a provider then you should first discuss it directly with her and give her the opportunity to rectify the situation. If it can't be resolved to satisfaction then there are plenty of places to post warnings. A woman cannot respond online to something negative without being flammed by the trolls and once it is out there, it's almost impossible for her to make it right with the client that had the issue AND her ability to make an income has been hurt. CERB has the traffic it does because of the policies that are in place. This is the only safe place for providers to interact with clients because the favorite troll aspects of online forums have been eliminated. It's maintained by diligent moderation and a general respect that is expected to be shown by all. On another board I have a multipage thread that the first 3 pages were posters slamming me and THEY HAD NEVER MET ME!!! Finally, a guest of mine posted a review and because he didn't have a high post count was accused of shilling. To this day I don't have a negative review out there because my guests know that if something doesn't work for them, all they have to do is tell me and I will make it right... cat

No way would it be a pain in the arse, and I would do it even if there weren't a discount. Or I'd suggest you take the discount you'd give me and add it to a cash pot for the charity. If I were doing this I wouldn't choose the Salvation Army. While they do many great things, they have some issues with GLBT folks that make them an unattractive charity for me. But that may be just me. Magical SP social-good-doing-power ON!

People who use the grocery store as a social club and block the aisles with their shopping carts while chatting away. When asked politely if they could move over a little so you can get what you need, they give you the dirtiest look ever... WTF? Sometimes I wish I could temporarily put my manners into a bag, push their cart aside (while pretending they're not there) and just take what I need off the shelf they are blocking... At least I wouldn't be the one saying WTF! ;)

OK...Lance Armstrong did drugs/cheated and he has been punished and stripped of everything. One thing he did of importance is create a charity "Live Strong" for cancer. Last night I hear that many people who have made donations to Live Strong are now wanting their money back and feel cheated......to this I say....WTF!!!! Simple minded people, seriously, the donation was made to a charity with a great cause and this donation was NOT made to the man (Lance Armstrong) as a sponsorship. pfffff WTF my rant!

Maybe, maybe not. Maintaining a twitter account needn't take that much time out of your day, or even week. It's a bit like having a CERB account... to a large extent, it is what you make of it. Yes, you need followers. But if you aren't there, you won't get any :) And the best way to get followers is to get in there, follow other people, and be interesting and make yourself worth following. As a wise man once said... if you build it, they will come. Yes, Twitter is inherently public (you can lock down your account, but that only locks out everyone except those you allow access to... and are you going to tell your wife/gf she can't follow you? :) ). The solution, as you said, is to have a separate accounts. You can follow me at @__Phaedrus__ if you want, but I have an entirely separate account for my real-life self, and - obviously - I'm not telling you what that is. Well, it's another advertizing venue. Sure, you may hit a lot of the same eyeballs... but if you hit new ones too, it may be worthwhile, no? Sure, many of them may be of no practical use, but if your twitter feed gets you a few extra dances a month...? Obviously it's for everyone to draw the cost/benefit line where they choose to, and as with any other means of advertizing it's tricky to measure its effectiveness, but that doesn't automatically make it useless. The other thing to say about twitter is: irrespective of its advertizing potential, it's fun. There are a few CERB ladies who are on there... frequently... and even when they're not posting about availability, their twitter presence is a continuous marketing presence in the same sort of way that contributing to CERB is. Sorry, but you're just wrong about this. Updating your twitter feed on your smartphone takes about 30s. Less, if you can type fast. Sure, a dancer can't update her twitter feed while she's onstage or actually giving someone a lapdance, but apart from that... why not? Twitter is much better than websites for up-to-the-minute information about availability and things like that, because it's so easy to update.

Time to nominate another dancer! :) Bridgette, who's returned to us from her travels, is lighting up the stage again at Barb's, and has drawn very enthusiastic recommendations on here, in her own thread. She's also been featured in the Best Bums thread, and if there were a Best Smile thread, she'd be in that, too. :) So here's to Bridgette! Long may she dance. (Oh, and she's a redhead :)) Here's her thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=47129 And here she is: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=72003

Thanks ... Along with Cato I'm a big time member of the Nicky Whelan fan club. But the others, afraid I have no idea. A couple more Nicky Whelan pics ... although I'm sure we've seen them before on the Board:

What LR just wrote about Porths applies to him too. LR is an all-around CERB good role-model -- funny and cool!

I have left a few things doing out call... I hope I never got anyone in trouble!!!!!

You remember a world after the "pill" was developed and AIDS didn't exist. However if you remember the details you're not that old. You remember Expo 67 and all the fun you had there getting laid behind the British Pavilion. Ah, yes; getting old. It sucks but sure beats the alternative.