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Perhaps CERB is not the appropriate place to discuss what is happening on other boards/sites? There is a thread in the general discussion named Airing out the dirty laundry on cerb - Not permitted (Stalkers, tiffs, etc...).

Red letter day, my daughter told me that I'm going to be a grand dad. It's my first and I've been anticipating this for some time.

This might sound a little on the corny side or the maudlin side but for me it is neither. Today I put a small Christmas tree up beside my wife's grave. I will put a few decorations on it tomorrow and the solar lights to begin on December 1st. She loved Christmas even more than I and last year when I thought about doing this it was an SP friend that told me to do it if that's what I wanted to do, so I did. It made me smile every single time I went by or went over to visit and I was smiling today. :)

Did you maybe think to post your post of support on this other site, instead of posting it on here where it really has nothing to do with this supposed post about her listed elsewhere

Perhaps if a few of the Kingston men approached some of the Ottawa travelling ladies, they might be interested...of course, there would have to be enough CONFIRMED interest to make it worth their while...but I can think of a few ladies who would be players for this.

Although I haven't seen the ads you are referring too, isn't it at all possibile that even though you (and some other members) who had positive experiences with Aubrey that others might have experienced something different? I know it happens to us ladies with some gentlemen... In the end, I still don't understand the need to bring it to the Cerb community when it happened elsewhere. Additional Comments: My first question was an open-ended one. In no way am I asking people to speculate. The fact is that no two people have the same exact experience(s) with others.

I find this thread pretty interesting, as to why it needed to be brought up, here in a thread.

The website you linked has no mention of lethal effects when it comes to said natural option. One that is lethal, listed with more health effects including depression, hypertension and heart disease is alcohol. From the legal stuff: Risk of death. I don't care for the legalization, but if society deems alcohol legal despite all its harm, I think society can handle the other stuff. Or ban both, be consistent. And orange/red scares me

be called gay by punks i feel like telling them to go ask the mom how i was last night except i would get an ass kicking punks who need to use a weapon in a fight or be in groups to pick on other like what the hell

Yeah. It hasn't really been about religion for a long time; that's just a cloak for maneuvering by entrenched powers. Both sides have people who make money and secure political power only when the conflict continues. So terrible though the situation is for civilians on both sides, there are power-brokers and fortune-seekers who will keep it going. The ceasefire that almost happened, then didn't, was a perfect example. Each side had a faction that wanted the violence to stop, and a faction that didn't. Only when outside powers entered the stage and made their own backroom maneuvers and applied new pressure, did the two sides agree to stop shooting. Both sides also have wacky fundamentalist factions in their general populations; everyone's got some of those guys. Useful idiots whose irrational hatreds are fanned and exploited by those who want to keep the conflict going. It'll take a deep cultural shift on both sides to finally trump the machinations of their leaders; in particular, young people tiring of their parents' and grandparents' feuds enough to make a change. Strangely I take hope from not just things like the Arab Spring, but the U.S. election and the electorate's embrace of gay marriage and legalized pot. Young people really do outgrow their parent's silly obsessions. The 'net helps by democratizing communication among the rational. Let's hope that can happen more, and soon.

JustJack, I'm not sure if you're aware of this or not, but RG is a well-liked and much-respected member of CERB. If you don't appreciate his posts, that's fine; nobody's forcing you to read them. But please rest assured that snarky comments like the one you've just made will not change anyone else's opinion of RG's worth; they may well, however, change people's opinion of yours.

Going to an early movie with an EMPTY theater, but for some reason the other 12 people who arrive after you wanna sit beside or right behind you when there are about...oh I don't know, maybe another 150 or so seats that are available...THEN the lady who chooses to sit behind you removes her shoes during the movie, and her feet smelled GROSS.

As I approach my 50th I was wondering the other day what are an SP's thoughts on when a hobbiest like myself should consider packing it in so to speak. I believe a man in his 50's just like a woman of the same age can still be quite attractive and sexy in their own right. I have also found being with a more mature SP can lead to a better encounter sometimes because of their experience and the fact they know how to handle themselves in a more professional way. Now in no way am I meaning to imply that a younger SP can't deliver every bit as good as an experience as a more mature lady and lucky for us here on Cerb we have the best of both worlds. So my question really has two sides to the coin A: When should a hobbiest "retire" B: When should an SP "retire ' My two cents are if I'm still enjoying it and not repulsing my date I'm good to go...and if the SP I'm with is still turning me on then it's all good What are your thoughts?

Why are we having this discussion then? Maybe we should stop posting so this thread fades away before it stirs out another cerb conspiracy theory. My 2cent.

Getting one of those pesky glue dots that hold a prepaid card to its packaging stuck in your hair! Additional Comments: Mon fils a perdu son francais! Je dois lui trouver une femme francaise!

I let some negative stuff on the site when it is here to stop bait and switch and when it puts someone in danger (Like this). We DO NOT allow negative posts of people complaining of bad services, rates, etc... and we not not let NEW members post negative comments without proof (like links to stolen photos). We do not allow most negative comments because... 1) we with to stop any wrongful SLANDER 2) To stop unethical people from posting false negative info about the competition 3) Every story has TWO sides (some people are never happy, others have insane expectations, others show up dirty (bad hygiene) and even drunk then when refused service (or specific services) get mad and post crap. 4) to stop people form hurting the ladies feelings or belittle them! (This is a big one as everyone has "OFF DAYS" and everyone still needs to work and earn a income on off days. Guys will cry foul about this but it happens and it's not like your ordering a pizza or a new ipod your dealing with a real human being with real feelings and we all have bad days. No other business compares to this one and some people forget that ...and some people just like to complain. It's takes a lot more effort to write a GOOD recommendation then to post slander and negative comments so we feel the positive comments are worth 100 times more then any negative comment.

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The article discusses the specific time of day you'll die. For example, in the morning or in the evening. It doesn't discuss when in broader terms, which is what I initially assumed would be the topic of the article. I would have no qualms knowing about what time of day I'll die. Mind you, would it make me paranoid around that time everyday? I have no idea. Perhaps I would dread the time so much, I would eventually have a heart attack and/or anxiety attack and it would result in a self-fulfilling prophecy. I definitely wouldn't want to know, more broadly, when I will die. I would like to think I live a life without regret. When I think back over what I have or haven't done over the years I always assume that I was doing exactly what I wanted to do when I wanted to do it. There's no point in judging myself harshly for the past. I try to live in the present moment, even if it's hard sometimes. From a practical perspective, I agree with Phaedrus. It would be nice to know when to drink the liquor in the cabinet and spend the 'for a rainy day' money. A lot of people plan for a retirement that never happens because their lives were taken too early. I guess it's simply important to find a balance between current and future happiness.

Two answers: 1. If/when you're no longer enjoying it 2. Failing that, when they nail shut your coffin.

I had a different highlight ... but it's been surpassed. Reading Mrnice's highlight is definitely my highlight as well. What a fabulous thing to do. Porthos

I have a couple highlights, please bare with me. One of the highlights of my day was the sense of calm I felt after teaching my tutorial. It was dreadfully boring, and I let the students go home early. We laughed and watched random videos that had nothing to do with the subject matter of the course, and I felt a sense of pedagogical pride because they did well on their quizzes. I doubt it had anything to do with me, but I was happy nonetheless. This week I organized my 'god knows what' drawers and organized my 'closet of shame'. I made decisions and acted upon them, and tonight... right now... I feel so calm, so good. My apartment is organized, my life feels organized, and I feel really amazing :) I'm finally getting a handle on things and feeling calmer. Another highlight of my day was reading this thread moments ago! Congrats Boomer! MrrNice2, I'm so happy you put up a Christmas tree near her grave... <3 It brought a smile to my face that you would do such a thing and knowing you personally, I'm not surprised!

Thinking about this post I've decided I'd change something. Hell, I'm going to be 100, no way I'm going to drive across town and try to find parking. Take me two hours to get the walker up to her door. I'll take an outcall to my home and die after she leaves! Porthos

Joys of self-employment. 3 employees already have left for greener pastures (that's actually almost a highlight), 2 more laid off, myself and my son and one employee left.......and my son is heading out west in two weeks. Holy moly.....time to start looking for more help.

Seriously? They linked to a website that they hadn't even bothered to register? That, I think, is a very appropriate illustration of the intellectual calibre of these people.

I saw Lovely Lyly there 2 weeks ago, if you like Asian women she's a 10 all around. The place is okay, discreet as you park behind the building and access from the back as we'll. a few other businesses there to camouflage your arrival and departure. I'm pretty sure lovely Lyly was amazing Angela from Angles. Services are on par with other locations. Like I mentioned Lyly is hot so definitely worth going.

Alright! GREAT idea!!!!! I can start a Cerb friendly retirement home. I already have resources and research ongoing. My nursing home will be more lenient than the one written about below. Katherine and Lee, ready to sign on the dotted line?

Well, I'm also just turned 50, and I have no intention of stopping ... EVER! Too much fun, too many beautiful women. I like women of many different agest, but tend to prefer late 20s - mid 40s. Big range, so lots of ladies to see. That's not definitive. Had great experiences wiith younger and older. In general, though, I'd be very happy if I checked out of this world after an amazing orgasmic session with a beautiful lady. Leave her place, get home, and die with a smile on my face. I plan to do this when I'm 100. Porthos

I guess I just do not agree that street prostitution in and of itself causes problems. I think that street drug use, street gangs, street alcoholics, street homeless beggars, and street drug selling causes more problems, and has more of a social impact on the neighbourhood than a couple of ladies standing on a corner waiting for a ride. I think that, if you check the links regarding SW interviews, that the SWs receive far more problems from doing it (as in having garbage thrown at them by passing cars, along with insults, and along with the occasional bad date) than the neighbourhood suffers from them being there. For the past 30 years public solicitation has been illegal and LE has had the full force of the law behind them to crack down on SWs and their clients. And yet year after year, and sting after sting, and charge after charge, they are still out there. Because it doesn't work, none of those laws 'work'. None of those laws will ever work. It's time to use a harm reduction and real alternative solution to what people perceive to be the problem with SWs and their clients. Their clients are no more or less likely to be violent or problematic than an indoor workers clients, but the indoor worker has the benefit of being in a safe place when she answers the call, she has the benefit of talking to the guy prior to being in close contact with him, and she has the privileged position of just saying no. By the time most SWs are in a position of finding even half of that out about their clients, they have already driven away with them. The public solicitation laws and the enforcement and push back of the SWs has increased their danger, and increased the illusion the public has that they are not worthy. One thing Swedish SWs say is that due to the criminalization of their clients that they face far more risks in the work than before. That is a hard line crack down approach: reduced the clients in great numbers. But the SWs are still there, now working under a lot more duress and stress and much more vulnerable, and that is the result of the crack down laws. Before the crackdown laws the ladies had time to size up a client, they don't have that option now. And keeping in mind that a major number of SWs have other issues that drive them, like mental illness or addictions. After many years of being pushed around and charged and arrested by LE, that is the last place they go to when in trouble. These ladies don't have celphones and computers, and they don't have a place to bring clients (well, there are a couple of places now set up in Vancouver that does allow that by simply not forbidding it), and car dates really are their only solution. These are not the women guys are calling up to come and do an outcall to their hotel or home, and even if they did, these women would have no means of getting there anyway. We are talking about the 20-40 dates, not 200-400 :)

My boss pulled up in his awesome new car today and I complemented him on it. He said."Well, Notch, if you set goals, you're determined, and you work really hard and put in the long hours, I can get an even better one next year." Bosses really know how to encourage employees.

Well, I'm north of 65 and still plugging along. Sure, I've made adjustments but if you find a few great ladies who you can be friends with, then I don't see where you should limit yourself. As far as the ladies I still see a georgeous lady in the business whose in her early sixties.

Why do you think it is that street work is criminalized while indoor work is almost completely ignored by law enforcement? Do you think it could be because street work is visible and it creates visible problems for the community? While indoor work is usually done very discreetly, and so quietly that often no one knows we're here, let alone has any problems with us. I don't know why street advocates cannot get this: street work causes problems for the community, and that's why it draws complaints and enforcement. There's no big conspiracy here. As for your single mother, she is being very short-sighted. Her chances of getting busted, assaulted or worse are far, far greater than if she did what it took to find an indoor situation. Then where will her kids be? There has to be more to this story than you're telling, Berlin, because in Canada, we provide support to families like hers. Thousands of other single mothers are getting by on family support. What expenses does your streetwalking single mother have that merit her taking the outsized risks of working the streets, and exposing her children to the consequences. Something sniffs wrong with this story. I sometimes think street advocates are so bullheaded, they won't rest until we get complete equality, even though that's far more likely to result in all prostitutes and all customers being treated the same way that streetworkers and their customers are. Only then will you be happy. BTW, street vendors are highly regulated, and it can be very expensive in some places to get one of the few precious licenses given out to sell food on the streets. You think that would work for streetwalkers?

Well sort of life sucks #1 but also sort of good too. Took mom to get her eye checked by the surgeon yesterday. Her cornea was replaced two years ago, now she finds blurred vision in that eye. I was hoping for just a treatment (eyedrops). Well she needs surgery to have her cornea replaced. The cells are dying in the cornea, which is why the blurred vision. Been through this before a few years ago, a few trips back and forth to Kingston. Plus side, they can fix her eye, I was getting worried she might be going blind So I guess in the greater scheme of things this is good. RG

also on the same note I have seen guys flash a wad of cash to buy drinks and think that buying a girl drinks etc is all that matters and then leaqve without so much as buying a dance.....money doesnt equal kisses...and drinks certainly don't pay my rent. think of how you would act of you wanted to send snog-signals to a girl you were out on a date with...be polite..make some nice (not creepy) eye contact...genuinely listen...compliment her on her body while shes dancing for you (a big confidence booster for us) Sometimes guys just stare forward and I wanna say "are you there??". it sounds like hogwash but a guy's perspective on passion and a girl's perspective on passion sometimes are two different things and perhaps if a lady is putty in your hands the heat could get turned up a notch in your favor. but then again...what do i know? lol...j/k

More Star Trek tree ornaments... :)

I dunno. To be honest, I always wondered why some guys would take their business to the street when there are safer and more legal options. Is it cheaper (as long as you don't get busted)? Is it the "walk on the wild side" aspect? Are they unaware of other options? Or is it that there's something desirable about using the services of someone you know is far below you in social status. People often note that many streetwalkers feel like they have to be out there, like they don't have other options. Okay. But what's the street john's excuse? Most independent SPs I know enjoy a status similar to that of most of their customers. They're well-educated, have credit, are members of their communities. Incidences of things like substance abuse or domestic abuse are probably lower amongst the SPs I know than in the general population. I haven't known all that many streetwalkers (don't know any right now), but all that I ever knew could be described as living on the margins of society. Most had substance abuse problems, housing security and domestic violence issues. Maybe somewhere there's some savvy bunch of streetwalking soccer moms, but I've never seen it. Call me old-fashioned, but I believe that purchasing sexual services is something private. What does it say when a man flaunts his choice, putting his desires as a priority over others legitimately trying to use the same space (businesses dealing with their customers, families using public space)? I believe that hanging criminal charges around the neck of a streetwalker is only going to drive her (or him) further into the margins. But streetwalking is a huge problem in communities, and the purpose of law enforcement is to reduce problems. I wouldn't mind seeing tougher penalties for street johns. Obviously they view what we have now as a joke, and it doesn't deter them at all. As we've seen with drinking and driving, there are some people you simply can't reason with.

I think that the most important ingredient would be frank communication as both women and men's likes and dislikes can vary drastically

Peoplethat bring you an used sex toy as a gift...and except you to use it...WTF?

People who still haven't got the message DRINKING AND DRIVING IS NO LONGER ACCEPTABLE! WTF!:vatefaire:

OK...Lance Armstrong did drugs/cheated and he has been punished and stripped of everything. One thing he did of importance is create a charity "Live Strong" for cancer. Last night I hear that many people who have made donations to Live Strong are now wanting their money back and feel cheated......to this I say....WTF!!!! Simple minded people, seriously, the donation was made to a charity with a great cause and this donation was NOT made to the man (Lance Armstrong) as a sponsorship. pfffff WTF my rant!