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Yesterday PM my good buddy was working alone at the garage where he's a mechanic. He was using a brand new tire changing machine which he had not yet been properly checked out on. Hard to explain how it happened, but long story short, he got his head crushed by a pneumatic bar. Surgeon save his eye and sight, his brain suffered a mild concussion, but his jaw and face are mangled, and he's facing a lot of reconstructive surgery and missed work.

A gorgeous frame for my soon-to-be degree ;)

Great idea gentlemen! Just remember, a shout out is like a rose, really sweet intention but it fades. A recommendation is like a diamond, it lasts forever... cat

The answer has to be qualified by who is asking and who is answering. Uninformed society would likely call him gay, failing to recognize the myriad of shades of grey between black and white. The more informed might call him bisexual, or pan-sexual (if they stopped to consider who the cock is attached to). The person himself (in this case myself) may dislike the definitions as too simplistic and wrongly focusing on the act, rather than the mental state or physical/mental/spiritual attraction that person has to others. I've sucked a cock because I wanted to try it, and feel personally enriched because of the experience. I continue to be curious about things, and will hopefully continue to broaden my experiences, yet don't feel the need to define them. The only label I'm prepared to happily give myself is "open-minded" Spence

Help us contribute to the less fortunate children in the Ottawa area....Now until December 15th we will be contributing $10. from every 1 hour massage to Toy Mountain....if you want to donate funds as well you can leave your funds with your MA (Massage Attendant)...you can also leave a toy as well (unwrapped) please....let's all make a difference! To Learn more about Toy Mountain http://www.toymountain.ca/content/index.asp Monday Gina 10-11 aka "Gina" Amanda 10-6:30 aka "DDDpleasure" Lany 10-5:30 aka "Lany" Alyssa 5-11 NEW aka "AlyssaStaxxx" Kelly 6-11 aka "Kelly2010" 3 rooms, 3 sexy ladies on per shift! Private Dance shows available upon request! Click here to see NEW pics of room: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=3340 Pics of our Hotties http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=52117 Full Body Relaxation Massage Single Massage: --------30 minutes $50. --------45 minutes $70. on special for $60. --------60 minutes $80. Duo/Couples Massage: --------30 minute regular $100. on special for $80. --------45 minute regular $120. on special for $100. --------60 minute regular $160. on special for $130. ------HST included in prices. ------ Tips Accepted------ ATM on site------Spacious Rooms with Private Showers------ NEW LOCATION: 65 Bentley 613-274-7073 Alyssa Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=112642 Gina's Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=60064 Amanda Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=A&t=46157 Kelly Discussions http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=55764&page=2 Lany Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=L&t=37195

I must add my input as others have, I too love dt, oral and have swallowed some of the large fellows quite easily, much to their surprise, and I am always complimented on my skill:bj2:there is nothing better than looking up a man enjoying having his cock buried in my throat, yumm, hmmm, love it!

I've been avoiding this thread as I just can't see the point of labels when it comes to defining people. Sexual labels are unstable at best in the right circumstance and limiting our experiences to conform to a self imposed label is self defeating if it imposes limitations we may want to challenge at some point. If someone is absolutely positive there are activities that they will never engage in and there is a label that they are comfortable giving themselves then they should fill their boots! I leave my sexuality unlabeled, undefined and open to the possibilities that life can bring. In all honesty as I suffer from CRSS, it takes way too much brain power to remember that I don't like something, it's easier to try it again and maybe this time it will be fun... ;) cat

Help us contribute to the less fortunate children in the Ottawa area....Now until December 15th we will be contributing $10. from every 1 hour massage to Toy Mountain....if you want to donate funds as well you can leave your funds with the receptionist...you can also leave a toy as well (unwrapped) please.... let's all make a difference! To Learn more about Toy Mountain http://www.toymountain.ca/content/index.asp Monday Charlie 9-9 Welcome Back :smile: Hannah 9-4 aka "Hannahxo Crystal 9-4 aka "Crystal" Jade 9-4 aka "Jadexo" Tiffany 3:30-9 NEW aka "TiffanyXOXO" Nicky 3:30-9 NEW aka "Nicky in Paradise" Cy Cy 3:30-9 NEW aka "Cy Cy" Come for a 4 hand massage in our getaway room....an experience you will never forget Ottawa's Best Room! ------HST included in ALL PRICES------ Regular Room spacious and in room shower Single Massage: --------30 minutes $55. --------45 minutes on special for $65. --------60 minutes $80. Duo Massage: --------30 minute on special for $80. --------45 minute on special for $100. --------60 minute on special for $130. Getaway Room Fee: Room Features a hot tub,6 ft custom shower and fireplace for your enjoyment Single Massage: --------30 minutes $70. --------45 minutes $85. --------60 minutes $100. Duo Massage/Couples Massage: --------2 Attendant --------30 minute $100. --------45 minute $120. --------60 minute $150. Couples Massage: Cerb Rate ONLY must be booked through PM ------1 Attendant --------30 minute $80. --------45 minute $95. --------60 minute $115. ------HST included-------- Jade Discussions http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=112863 Crystal Recommendation http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=82862 Cy Cy Recommendation http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=113779 Tiffany Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=111731

Christmas morning it's been our usual practice to have sparkling wine with OJ while having brunch or opening gifts, think it's called a Mimosa. I don't usually spring for a Champagne because of cost and there are quite a number of reasonable sparkling wines from other than French producers. I tend to favour a good Cava from Spain or an Italian Prosecco.

EVERY club has cameras in their CR, Barb's are just more obvious than the others. The cameras are most often used to sort out disputes between customers and dancers over the correct number of songs. Yes, the CR at Barb's could do to look less like a cattle pen, but it shouldn't be stopping anybody from having fun. In fact, it may also be partly responsible for the quality of the girls at Barb's. The lack of privacy limits the amount of extras going on in the CR, which is a big plus for some girls who don't want to feel pressured into doing extras if that isn't their gig.

I thought I would share something very personal with you all. I suffer from "retrograde ejaculation". This is also called "dry ejaculation". I was diagnosed with this condition just a few years ago. That is when I started hobbying. My condition is caused by a combination of factors. The first being high blood pressure medication, and secondly, subconscious anxiety and guilt about sex. I can masturbate very quickly with a normal ejaculation. But when I am with a woman I am like the energizer bunny -- I can go on for ever before I ejaculate inward. I have never been able to ejaculate with a women. (I have always used condoms) The anxiety issues may likely be caused by being molested twice as a child. (Once by a man and once by a woman). In my younger years this was devastating. The women thought I found them unattractive, not into them or the moment. This resulted in very short lived relationships. I went over ten years without sex or relationships until I was diagnosed with retrograde ejaculation. then I thought "WTF". And I started seeing escorts looking for companionship, hugs, cuddling and maybe some amorous time and possibly, however remote, a happy ending. I have had a few very understanding SP's who would see me on their week off (menstruating), thinking this might ease some of the performance anxiety. These would just be make out sessions including fellatio. I really enjoyed these times together. But no happy endings were found. I do get warm fuzzy's from the SP's from all that hugging, cuddling, and kissing. Practice makes perfect.... On goes the research - er -um - practising. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retrograde_ejaculation

:biggrin: Additional Comments: Yes, they are mine ;)

I heard the word "farts" a few times lately in posts, and I thought, WTF... :pete: Everything you ever wanted to know about farts: http://www.heptune.com/farts.html

There was this section in the Toronto Star online about people submitting stories about random acts of kindness that they received or witnessed. It was completely selfless, just an anonymous recognition to a person's good deed that went noticed. And yes, in a Disney sorta way, it was inspirational to just be that nicer person. So if anyone has seen one, please do share. I'll start it off from the tales of OC Transpo. On one occasion, I saw someone's tuque fall of someone's partially opened bag. A man sitting across the aisle, noticed it falling on the floor, picked it up and placed it on the man's bag without the owner noticing. In another bus trip, in a particularly packed bus, a woman in a relatively short skirt seemed to be frantically looking for something in her bags. A guy sitting across from her noticed something underneath her seat, way at the back and figured it was hers. He asked her if she was missing a glove, and then told her where it was. Now add the short skirt, the fact that the floor was pretty wet and nasty because of the rain water + dirt tracked in, and the hard to access location of the glove, and you get a very awkward situation. Without skipping a beat, the gentleman got down on his knees and grabbed it. When he got up, it was easy to see the stain on his pants, but he didn't seem to fret about it (he was casually dressed). Two stops later, he thanks the bus driver and leaves. So yeah, if you have any stories, doesn't need to be in a bus, just anywhere, feel free to share.

Just kidding! But I did recently have the great pleasure of meeting the lovely Nikki Thomas and of being interviewed on her show 'Sex, Brains and Money'. Hope you like it!

Crap! I was over thinking it (Trying to add a NEW customizable field) I just forced it to use the existing text color field so it matches the custom profiles. Does that work??

My answers from the previous thread still stand, I believe. Having just finished a paper on sexuality and gender and Butler's theory of "doing" gender, I'll stop myself from going on and on. Simply put: genes don't define gender. Acts don't define identities.

Hmmm so many to chose from. There is one that I have written about before. It was a rush session, that wasn`t really planned. It was in the Westin hotel, winter time in a room that looked over the canal, and you could see all the Christmas lights on the hill. We turned off the lights in the room and opened the curtains. We did it in a chair near the windows, looking out over the city. I sat near the edge of the seat, and she faced me, straddling my legs and wrapping her legs around me as I entered her. It was incredibly intimate, so close, so hot and very satisfying for both of us. I think the fact that we had to hold on to each other to keep from falling apart made it even more intimate. Like I said, it was unexpected, a bit brief, but the intensity was incredible and so completely memorable.

Your right one point, this is not a review board...some think this means it is not accurate. But what you can see is consistency in the reco's. If you see the same quality showing in each reco, then chances are, this is how that particular SP/MA is during their sessions. Even reviews can be mis leading in the case of defaming someone for their own benefit. IMHO

Mine is: It's a Wonderful Life It just isn't Christmas until I have seen that one!

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LMAO! It's funny you say that because someone just asked me if I have hair extensions. No, it's my own hair.lol. Anyways, to answer your question, I don't mind if clients ask at the beginning or halfway through if there is a possibility to extend. If they asked at the end of the encounter, it would depend on what I have going on later. I don't normally prebook encounters weeks or days ahead and I am not high volume to begin with so it's usually not an issue with me.

Help...too sexy :)

Obviously it depends on the providers schedule for the day. I love extending visits and it happens so often that I try to plan for it. I prefer that the guest simply put the extra consideration in the box while he puts his coat on, seldom is it discussed unless he is unsure how much to add... cat

I'm a fan of Yellow Tail Bubbles and Jackson Triggs Sparking Sauvignon Blanc. Both are Ontario wines. They're reasonably priced at 14.95 a bottle. I love the light bubbles this time of year, and a perfect companion to a bubble bath. Mmmm...bubbles. :)

I love Veuve Clicquot but will settle for Perseco :)

I give intensely sensual deepthroat sessions with a total absence of gag reflex. I'm really into oral :D

Maybe it's because I live in the "deep South" that the legal and social impacts are much greater than elsewhere. If I could find a very discrete, private individual where a level of trust could be developed then I --might-- consider pursuing the hobby here. Because I have not found the right way to contact one of these ladies who is not on CL or BP, then it is a non-starter for me. It really is sad... (poor me!) :-) That's one reason that CERB is so refreshing!

Waking up at 6:30 thinking it just snowed and going out for coffee only to find out that on top of the snow there is freezing rain and taking 15-20 mins to clean ice off vehicle. I can handle snow but freezing rain sucks!

I think we will have to agree to disagree on this one. of course areas are different, but nothing in my travels in cerb have made me think theres a huge difference in price - or even one worth mentioning in most cases. But i guess it also depends on what you are used to and looking for.

This is hardly as major as some recent posts here... but it doesn't seem like it right now: Have you ever sent an email to someone about something close to your heart, or badly wanted to talk to them, only they don't return your call for days? You usually don't care that much. People are busy, especially this time of the year. By all means, take a week or even two to get back in touch... no problem. But it is not one of those times. You wonder if you did the right thing, or made a fool out of yourself. Unsure of what the other is thinking. Believing you've messed up. Waiting and waiting. For days and days. Can be unsettling. Even frustrating. Yes, it sucks! Just sayin'. Not upset, but walking on hot coals. FR

So I just fell asleep last night and I wake up cause of a text going off on my phone. The text is from an SP I have seen once and says..."Hey I am in town tomorrow, want to play?" Seriously, WTF! Perhaps if we had seen each other several times and had became friends this would be ok, but only seeing her one time.....don't think appropriate.

I have recently let mine grow back and I love it!! I haven't heard a single complaint and have acquired some very enthusiastic regulars who love this feature and keep coming back for more! Cheers from the wee hours of this snowy December morn, Charming [email protected]

I was obsessed with this band for a while this past year. Brittany Howard is the real thing, I think. Additional Comments: ZZ Ward - Put the Gun Down I know that I've already had my turn but it has been 2 days and I CAN NOT get this song out of my head.

No worries! It is certainly understandable that a dancer would feel disappointed or hurt by a regular client preferring to spend time with a different dancer, but I just don't think it justifies her blowing up at him or making him feel bad about it. And while rejection is incredibly personal, dancing is an industry in which girls have to have a thick skin about it because it happens on a regular basis, ranging from patrons waving a girl off as she approaches their table, to clients cutting dances short due to a lack of chemistry, to a regular client spending time with a different dancer. It's part of the job, and a dancer simply can't take each rejection to heart or else it'll really mess with her.

Crimes of Moral Turpitude carry a mandatory lifetime deportation in the US as signed into effect by Bill Clinton just before he left office. CMT's are considered a "Crime against the State" and is a federal offense with indictment after the misdemeanor prostitution charge is dealt with on the state level but often the state level paperwork slips into large stacks on the Feds desks for the clients, not to be processed for years to come. It will eventually catch up with you though, rest assured. Non citizen females charged are systematically denied bail and held as flight risks then turned over to federal agents once their state charges and sentences are complete. 10 years AFTER the deportation process is COMPLETE (it can take years and you will have to surrender into custody and sit in jail for at least 30 days), the deportee can apply to the US State department for a temporary travel waiver which has 99% decline rate for CMT's. Travel waivers are usually only issued for prior immigration offenses and those have over a 70% decline rate. I had 2 years sitting in a law library with a $100G's lawyer sorting this mess out while dressed in orange. They couldn't prove I was a prostitute but I couldn't prove I didn't know anything about it, thus they found me guilty of conspiracy. Final verdict? I can never return to the US because of a single conviction of conspiracy related to prostitution... cat

Some other causes of retrograde ejac. are:Flomax and other oral meds taken to reduce benign enlarged prostate which has a definite risk of r.e., and possible e.d.. TransUrethralResection(turp), and all other procedures to enlarge urethra and ease urination, according to my urologist, give 50/50 chance of impotence, and 100% guarantee never ejaculate again. I briefly took Flomax causing imppotence. Doc took that away, substituted Hytrin for one of my hypertension drugs. It gave me back wood,helped me pee almost as well as flomax, and made my controlled blood pressure even better. I hope this is helpful to someone.

Tacos. Only mistake, got the mild, kinda bland. But have Tabasco, kicked it up a notch Topped them with tomatoes, onion, cheese and sour cream Followed with desert, Hagen Das cherry chocolate chunk ice cream RG

Sexersize!!!

Home Alone (1 & 2).

I just got a pm from a guy saying " I learned you were just into massage" WTF!

Kendrick lamar - backseat freestyle http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=295I11eOKLg Miguel - How many drinks and very much his whole album, Kaleidoscope dream. Frank Ocean - pyramids http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s26qTrH2atA HAIM - forever

Lumineers- "HO HEY" Maroon Five- "One more night" Fun- Some Nights

Well you should know it is very wrong to assume....you know the saying.... Each lady is different as is every man, what one wants for their time and what one is willing to pay will always vary. To insult those of us who charge more than $200 and hour is wrong, very wrong....Please grab yourself some maturity and learn to respect others - you may not like or agree what ladies charge, but in al honestly keep your comments to yourself. There is a price point for everyone, find your own and keep quiet about it. Its nice to know that you value the women you visit with for "Kicks"....I am curious as to what the women you spend time with think of you? Keep in mind, most of us run businesses, we have bills, families, education, sick parents, taxes, groceries and utilities to pay for....and dont forget the expenses of being a companion (ads, travel, hotels, incall location, etc) None of us are rich and for you to think that much makes me wonder what other SP stereotypes you believe as well.

Sorry - this recommendation is long over due. Hopefully better late than never. Had the opportunity to see Dorinda for the second time on her last visit to Halifax. After our first visit I was eager (eager is actually an understatement) to book an appointment to see her as soon as she announced her next trip. I was a bit nervous the first time contacting Dorinda as I usually stick to the same ladies. However, she responded quickly to my inquiry and even her e-mail responses set me at ease. A visit with Dorinda is - well just plain amazing. A true GFE experience to me is more than just sex, it includes great conversation and a feeling that for your visit it's just about the two of you. Sort of a vacation within your day. Dorinda is not only great looking but a great conversationalist, has a great personality and very attentive to your desires. I respect our time together to much to go into the details about the "activities" but will say that Dorinda is a very passionate lady. Looks, conversation and passion is a great combination for an unforgettable "vacation" in your day. Treat this lady with respect gentlemen, she deserves it. Lets hope she makes many more trips to our city. I know I will be repeating, can't wait to see this amazing lady again. Of course YMMV

My first SP experience reminds me a little bit of Castle's story above. Sorry for the length! Part 1: I knew I wanted to add a little something to my birthday this summer, and I had never been with an SP, so I thought why not? I didn't know about CERB or CL (for SPs, at least) at the time, so I was relying on BP. I remember making the appointment by text while I was at work - don't know how I managed to keep a straight face for the rest of the day, hehe... I remember leaving the house, and it started raining; got on the wrong bus, so I had to get off about 5 blocks from the hotel. As if I wasn't already nervous enough, I had to start jogging a little bit to get to the appointment on time. Of course, as soon as I got off the bus, it started to pour, and all I had was a flimsy little jacket that wasn't designed for heavy rain. I got to the hotel absolutely soaked and miserable, and then texted the SP to let her know I was outside. She said to give her about 5 minutes, which was fine. 10 minutes went by before I finally heard from her; she gave me the room number and I headed up to the room. Still drenched, miserable, and nervous as hell, I knocked on the door, but she didn't answer. Gave it a couple of minutes, still no answer, so I sent a text. By this point it was already 10 minutes past the time of the appointment, and I was starting to get a bad feeling about it. When 5 minutes passed and she still hadn't responded to a text or a knock at the door, I decided to leave. She texted me a couple of hours later while I was at a bar with friends, wondering where I'd been. When I politely reminded her that I'd texted, called, and knocked at her door with no answer, she offered to bring the price down by 20 bucks if I was free later, but I didn't want anything to do with it. In short, I was suuuuuuuper glad I had listened to my instincts! Part 2 came a couple of weeks later, when I decided to try again. Found a different SP, and there were no hassles at all. She seemed really nice from the text messages I sent when making the appt. I was a little disappointed when she told me there wasn't any kissing, but was pleasantly surprised when we sampled about 10 different positions on the bed! A quick hug goodbye at the end, and I left a pretty happy camper. I thought I'd feel super different after seeing an SP for the first time, but in all honesty, the only thing I've felt different is a massive surge in confidence!

My first experience was with an independent SP early in 2010 and it opened my eyes to the reality of this industry. It was good enough to ensure that I would come back. After three decades of being faithful to my wife and three years of celibacy when our physical relationship ended I stumbled onto CERB and carefully (oh, so carefully) selected a well reviewed, mature provider. She responded very quickly to my emails and I set up a meeting at an Ottawa hotel. I have to drive to Ottawa from where I work and when I was about 30 minutes away she sent a text message saying that she had to switch hotels. I didn't know Ottawa at all at the time and I didn't have a GPS or a smartphone so that almost scuppered the whole thing right there. I stopped at a mall to find a public telephone and a phone book (surprisingly hard to do these days) and was on my way again. Then, when I arrived and texted from my car in the parking lot, she responded by telling me that the elevator required a room card and she would come down to the lobby to meet me at 2 minutes before the hour. I went in at about 3 minutes before the hour and imagined that everyone at the front desk and in the lobby was staring at me for what seemed like an hour (but was probably more like 2 or 3 minutes). She arrived and I got into the elevator with her and another gentleman. This was the moment I was completely hooked. We didn't speak but the mischevious smile she kept secretly flashing my way was too much to bear. We got out at our floor and she signalled me to remain quiet until we got into the room. The door closed and I saw that the drapes were drawn, there were candles glowing and low music was playing. She turned to face me and gave me a warm, welcoming hug and kiss. She was very attractive and was wearing a simple, cute dress which was just very slightly shorter and tighter than you might expect to see in the afternoon in Ottawa. I am not model material but neither am I insecure about my appearance. She, however, was tanned and fit and a natural blond with beautiful blue eyes. I could see I was punching above my weight and it made me just a little bit more nervous. This was difficult to do because I was already about as nervous as a human being can be without passing out. I had booked for 2 hours because I knew that I would need some time to settle in and I didn't want to rush. We sat on the couch and I opened the wine I had brought with hands so shaky that at one point she stopped me, held my hands, and tried to reassure me. Finally we were at the point where I was most relaxed - chatting. I love to meet people, hear there stories, find common ground, find how their lives are different, exchange views. As we talked I relaxed a bit but was still too nervous to initiate anything. After 15-20 minutes she finally figured out that I was a bit stalled and thankfully took things into her own hands. While talking she had punctuated her sentences by touching my shoulder or leg but now she slid a bit closer, caressed the back of my neck and gave me a soft kiss. I had told her of my situation and all through the conversation I had imagined that she had a slightly bemused look playing across her face. Later she admitted that she had found my nervousness 'sweet' and 'endearing'. Thank goodness for that - I was expecting it to put her off. In any case, the kiss was enough of a wake-up call for me and the encounter entered its next phase. It is always difficult to guage how one comes across in bed with an SP. They always make it all about the client and we are 'always' excellent lovers. However, I could tell that I was occasionally awkward because I was so rusty. She never complained or even commented and the whole experience was wonderful. The session was alternately energetic and languid and I loved it. At the end of the 2 hours we were draped over each other on the bed sharing jokes and laughing while I caressed her body. Since I was enjoying myself so much and I was new to this I didn't notice I had gone overtime for 10 or 15 minutes. Luckily she was free and she didn't say a word until I noticed. I thanked her and went on my way a new man - with a new plan. I saw her a number of times until she retired about a year and a half later. I have had sessions since then which were more intense, more adventurous, sweeter, and sadly ones which were just terrible. However, this first one will stick with me.

Because in life there are more important things than money... In this lifestyle, safety is always priority number one for most of us. Jumping through hoops? lol How difficult can it be to say "I saw xxx a while ago. Here is her contact information"? Sounds pretty easy to me.

I have no objection to "Shayla" being banned, but I also wouldn't object to her having a second chance... I really don't care either way. I do think that she was disrespectful, and I really like some of the responses from many of the ladies. She just seems pretty clueless to me, and probably won't succeed at this profession anyways, even if she wanted to. To me, I found the ideas she holds, and the tone of her posts a lot more disrespectful than the actual language. I understand the historical stigma behind the "H" word and "W" word, and I also understand that words can be very powerful. But to get upset about being called that is only letting the people who use them win. It gives them something to use against us. I feel that we should not get upset over these words, and rather reclaim them for ourselves, just like the way the gay community reclaimed the word "queer". That used to be a very derogatory term, and now it is a commonly used word, even used to celebrate themselves. I think we should do the same. It's a lot easier for people to knock us down if we take ourselves too seriously. And if we don't let these kind of things get to us, they have no ammo left. Just my thoughts... Oh, and yes, this is definitely a real job. Is shouldn't even be a question. And yes, the best job, ever! :)