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Clients who book with MAs or SPs and then don't show, giving the rest of us a bad name. Clients who haggle with MAs or SPs, giving the rest of us a bad name. Clients who are late, filthy, missing cash, ignorant, etc. etc. for the same reasons. Guys who think that having money makes them special or puts them in charge. That kind of stuff.

Can someone explain the new thanks key, I've searched the site for info on it but can't find anything and I'm feeling left out because I don't have one:icon_cry:. Have I done something wrong, does it have to be earned? Thanks in advance-

I am curious as to why you would publically disclose the name/handle of a gentleman she might have met; what if "Gaaco" met the lady in question and he didn't want it to be known for his own personal reasons? I don't know that if the tables were turned, you would appreciate the gesture. I am also confused as to why she told you his name/handle in the first place... Most professionals worship discretion, confidentiality and privacy. I apologise if this offends anyone but there is NO need to share that kind of information with others- unless he was a bad date.

Well okay, following your example, I'll give this one more shot too. ;) The question is straightforward. There's no point looking for a less value-laden term, because the whole question is about the moral choice the decision represents (or doesn't, if your answer is "no"). And sure, because we can all agree that cheating is objectively bad, saying "yes it's cheating" really does mean saying "yes, that act is bad". But that's not the end of the story. Saying "you're doing something bad" is NOT the same thing as saying "you're a bad person". And that's the most interesting part of this whole discussion: when can a good person decide that cheating in some form is their best option? And we know from this thread and others that there are lots of ways someone can understandably arrive at that decision. Personally I just can't follow the "it's not cheating and here's why" arguments; that's why I said in my first post that they're all just convoluted rationalizations to me. It seems to deny the risks involved, and I think it shrinks away from the reality of the situation. But on the other hand, I'm right on board with someone who can say "yes, I know it's cheating, and yet I've made the decision it's overall the best course of action for my circumstances." You can make that decision with open eyes and still be a responsible adult. There's probably an interesting human story there, that can teach you something about how real grown-up lives can go. It's life, and it's more complicated than we thought when we were twelve.

Happy New Year to everyone! I know there is a thread some place regarding this issue (I was too lazy to look for it) Since it is a new year, I just like ensure that the line of communication between a SP/MA and a gentleman is followed to a tee,and without fail. My thoughts of Text A B C 's a) Initial contact between both parties through a text is to initiate time/place and confirming the appointment.Or it can be done through a phone call. b) After initial contact has been made, ONLY and IF only that "I" make contact with the provider,than it is fine for that provider to text back. Example ME - "Thanks for a great time it was a real pleasure meeting you" HER- "No thank-you, I had such an enjoyable time " c) On NO account should a provider right of the blue text me weeks later, or in fact months later.(Awkward to explain to my teenage daughter who picked up my phone because it was left on a table) :( I know the same is in reverse for the gentlemen, as I have initiate a text to ladies in the past, but there was never an issue from them. If there is an issue or was an issue, the provider would of certainly let me know. I have a few ladies that are in my contacts, and we have kept in touch, the issue above I have not contacted her by text over months ago. These ladies that I consider good friends we have kept in contact,without any issues from both sides. Perhaps emailing,or pm's would suffice if both parties have not spoken for a couple months. All I'm asking is for discretion and consideration. When I initiate a text, I might say "Okay to chat? " I might not hear back, or she may reply "Hi how are you? yes we can chat! " Or I might get 'later okay" For myself, it makes things simply for booking an appointment, and not waiting at times for schedules to be posted. Anyways, Happy 2013 AND carry on folks :)

Well, I think the new groups stuff is awesome. You can do a --lot-- more than before. First up, you can subscribe to groups, or to individual discussions within groups (not sure if you have to be a member of the group to do this, but I see no downside to joining); on the main groups page there's a link at the bottom to your subscriptions, and from there you can see everything that's been updated since you last looked at it (kinda like the threads in the main forum). If you click the "All groups" link from the main groups page you'll get a list very similar to what was there before (all groups, ordered by last activity, most recent first). The discussions in the groups (if you're looking at an individual group's page) now also work pretty much the same as the threads in the main forum; if you click the main title you go to the beginning, but there's little arrows that link to the last post (on the right) and the first unread post (on the left). So, you can still do everything you could do before. But now you can do a hell of a lot more, too!

Cerb seams to be back to normal - Speed wise (Some new features have been added as I did a update to the software that runs cerb and it has some socialgroup features we did not have before) If anyone is getting any errors, seeing things missing or anything bad happening please PM me and let me know (Details please with links if possible) I am fixing the stuff as it is reported or found... lots of things were broken in the last 5 days that I have had to fix but it does look like we are back to at least 95% power / speed for page load times. (always room for improvement) Thank you all for baring with me I know the site has been very unstable for the last few days (So have I been! - Little sleep deprived)

There's another benefit to asking service questions before booking. If the woman you're communicating with doesn't offer the service you're looking for, she may know someone who does and can provide you with a lead to follow up on. Provided you're communication has been respectful. That will shorten your search. Check out sp's web sites and reviews. That will give you a very good idea of who provides the service you're seeking or who may be game for it, if it's not specifically listed on their web site. You never know. You may find out that that your kinks aren't actually that unusual. We don't discuss our sexual desires often or with many people. As a result, it's easy for us to think that we're way out there. On the whole however, researchers have found that most people's "illicit desires", fantasies or kinks are pretty commonplace desires. Maybe you're vanilla after all lol. Service providers have a wider range of sexual activites that they've been able to explore and and are therefore comfortable with or in fact enjoy. The average person's sexual life remains more restricted by social conventions. Even something like Greek is a relatively easy service to find. Activities such as scat play, golden showers, pain, humiliation or domination will be services provided by very specialized sp's... but they are out there. Kinks may be difficult to discuss in social dating "When do I tell her I want to....? The first time we have sex... tenth time?" Lol You may have discussed your desires with a significant other and had them politely decline ("I'm just not game for that honey"), or they tried it for you and decided it's outside their comfort zone even for someone they love, or they may have passed judgement ("oooo... that's disgusting"). A polite inquiry to an sp will either evoke the first response, a referral to another sp, no response, or... "Ya, I love that..." or "I can do that, but that service costs extra and/or only if you follow these rules..." From your post, you seem considerate and tactful. As long as you do a little research, read a woman's website closely (that cannot be overemphasized) and the first words in your communication aren't "Hey baby, do you...", you should be able to find what you're looking for. Good luck, whatever flavour your kinks turn out to be!

Clients who are on the verge of going overtime, and we know they don't plan to compensate for, who then get annoyed if we check the clock lol. Clients who assume they know what's going on in the other room. Clients who are so rough and aggressive that the sp has to back away and ask them to stop touching them at all. Clients who talk badly about cbj providers in general or dismiss the real risks of bbbjs to make the cbj provider look like an OCD freak. Clients who demand face pics, or don't quite 'get' that sps might want their privacy rather than be approached in public by a complete stranger who saw their online ads. And people who complain about everything. Hopefully this entire thread is either closed or deleted. I don't care for the negative stereotypes on cerb and think there are places where this sort of thing would be better received, and encouraged.

I have never really host from a private house, but I would avoid doing so especially in a neighbourhood that have a lot of kids...if you have a lot of traffics and always cars back in your driveway people will start to talk. Your best bet is always a high rise condo/apartment building that required you to buzz your clients in. Also a building that does not have security in the hall 24/7 or that they required visitors to sign in. I would recommend you to keep some "regular" hours as well and stick to them not seeing people around the clock...a good time to receive ( at least for me) is in between 9am-7pm as most of my neighbours are at work so traffic (not that I am high volume) goes unnoticed Hotel can go both way for me...there is the motivation to work a bit more to cover the cost and also it's most safe than receiving in your private residence...but at the same time if you are having a really shit day and don't feel like working, you still need to do so to cover the minimal cost of renting the room.

Members of this board who want CERB to allow negative reviews This is a recommendation board not a review board RG

People that complain about everything. Clients that ask do you have a BJ rate only Clients that think that SP should reduce their rates to meet some of the BP one Clients that refuse to shower and use mouth wash I could continue but I'm gonna stop

This might have to be my wish list for 2013, 14 and 15. Mainly an MA guy and JessicaMassage, Michaella Carress, Katrine Cannon top my wish list. Should I embark a little further I am very curious about Taylor Monroe, Emily J, SaraMQ, Megforfun, Nicolette Vaughn, Gabriella Laurence, Nathalie Lefebvre, Georgiana Sweet and Berlin. Long list, jeez. MA's I hope to revisit are Bethany, Didi and Pauline. SP/MA's I hope to revisit are Cat, Peachy and Cleo. It will clearly be most efficient to handle this wish list in duo's. :icon_razz:

Warning puns ahead... It's so hard to limit the list to just a few. And so, in no particular order my revisit list includes: Cleo, Emily J, Taylor Monroe, and SexxxyRebecca plus many more honourable mentions, if I cum across as greedy it's because like Lays potatoe chips its hard to stop eating after just one. For new adventures I'm looking at: Sara McQ, Vanessa Vale, Nicolette Vaughn, Meg for Fun and so many more... Now I just need to win Lotto Max and it'll all cum true.

Happy Birthday to SexxxyRebecca, hope you enjoy your day!

Wishing you a very Happy Birthday and the very best that it can bring to you Sophia.

Happy Birthday Rebecca! Hope you get spoiled on your special day :) :)

The replies so far do a bang-up job of answering your question. I'll just reiterate that: - pursuing special interests is extremely common - you should briefly explain your interest during your initial inquiry; and - worst case, she'll say "no, sorry, I don't do that" but she won't judge. When describing your interest give enough information to let her know clearly what you're after, but not so much that you're writing amateur porn. ;) Something like: "Hi! My name is [name], I'm [gender] and [age]. I saw your ad on CERB and I'm considering making an appointment with you soon. I have a real fetish for X, and during our session I'd like to try doing Y and Z involving X. Is that possible? If so, an appointment lasting [duration] on [date] from #:00 to #:00 would work well for me. I hope we can meet, and I look forward to hearing back from you." If her answer is "yes" you can always provide some more detail about X, Y, and Z in a follow-up before finalizing the appointment. She may even have some suggestions to add, or questions of her own. Then you're off to the races. Good luck and have lots and lots of fun!

Happy Birthday Rebecca

Happy Birthday Rebecca Enjoy your special day RG

Happy Birthday Rebecca.... May your day be wonderful....

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Happy Birthday sexy!!! Have a great one!!

I do not believe you are unreasonable, but as some people stated it's mainly girls that are on BP and as much as I will generalize here, most of them do not consider themselves escort, just looking to make money each month and don'T really care about being all inclusive or not charging extra. My rates are all inclusives...as I believe most ladies on Cerb also. I only charge extra for greek and do not hide it... On the other hand I do understand how MA may charge different rates for example: -Full clothing, you leave happy :xxx$ -topless, you leave happy:xwz$ full nude, you leave happy:qer$ On the other hand...if someone want something REALLY specific like a clothing request that I do not have or a special color pedicure with French tip...well despite the fact that I do not advertise it I would charge extra as it would cost me money myself and I don't think it's wrong to do so.

I noticed that button too yesterday, but could not find any info. about it either. It seems I won't have this button under my own post. It is meant to thank the poster of the post you are reading. Then the tally of the " Thanks" will show up on the top right corner besides your handle of your future posts including the nos. you've given Thanks and the nos. you have received in your own posts. Hope this makes sense. Someone probably can explain it better.

Happy Birthday enjoy your day Rebecca

Happy Birthday.

As was previous stated in the thread, your SO probably would not feel the same way! On a side note, I don't think the thread was started with the aim to label anyone, it's clearly just a discussion about a word that may have a negative meaning in our society. If we cannot come to CERB to share our thoughts, ideals and opinions, then someone please tell me what it is exactly that we are doing here....??? Like most other thought-provoking threads, this one shows us that not everyone acts, feels or thinks the same way.

Wishing you a very happy birthday, Miss Sophia. I hope it's all that you wish for and more! :) xo

I hope you have a special and fun day-Happy Birthday-may you have many, many, many, many more.

One thing that sucks is waking up 30mins or so before your alarm goes off.

Guys complaining about the ladies. Ladies complaining about the guys. Time to close this thread!

Please join me in sending best wishes and a speedy recovery to Kianna who was involved in a multiple roll-over car accident on New Years Eve. She lost control of her car on ice and smashed into a pole, not before rolling a few times. Firefighters had to extract her through the windshield. Luckily her passenger was able to open their door and get out. It's a miracle she walked away with only a scratch on her forehead, but she is VERY sore and no doubt will be for weeks to come. Kianna asked me to post this for her. "Thanks to everyone who sent me a New Year's greeting. I did receive them, I just wasn't able to respond".

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OK, weighing in again... hopefully sounding a bit less defensive this time. ;) I just wanted to point out that the question by its very nature is asking for a judgment based on ones own morality and opinion. It is the very point of this type of question: Does "objective description of action" fit "negative label"? Is a lawyer who misleads or omits in order to defend his client a liar? Is a doctor who helps a suffering patient to die a murderer? I point this out as many have stated that this would be an OK discussion if the word cheater didn't have such negative connotations. I submit that it was chosen because it does. There would be no reason for the discussion if it did not come with such baggage, as we already have an objective description of the activity. "Does a married man having sex with an sp qualify as a married man having sex with an sp?" does not make a lot of sense as a question without the intension of some type of moral judgment. Does this mean that we should not discuss it? No I don't believe that any topic should be off limits if everyone is respectful. We should all be aware however that this question by it's very nature is one of judgment and morals. We should be mindful of this, especially on a board such as this. Just my thoughts. (Again). ;)

H is for Hymen

Without knowledge, there cannot possibly be consent. Therefore, cheating.

I hope you are having a great birthday. Best wishes for the coming year.

Happy Birthday to you! Hope you have a fabulous day.

Happy Birthday, my friend. Wishing you a great day and year ahead.

Hope you have a great birthday Capital Hunter

Have a very happy birthday!

Happy birthday to you..I hope all your wishes come true xoxox

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Yes, exactly right - so many ladies, so little time ! For 2013, I intend to continue to see some of my regulars whom I've come to love and adore. I also wish to see a few new ladies whom I admire from reading their posts, their recommendations and their profile pages and photos. These are in no particular order - Georgiana Sweet, Cleo Catra, Nathalie Lefebvre, Julie Wilde, Candyce, Gina, Brooke(PK), etc., etc., and some MAs such as Michaelle's Caress, Luscious Lilly, and so on. These are ladies just came to my mind now. The list will certainly change as time goes by.

I am adding Hilary Swank to the list of my favorite actresses:

I personally like Jenifer Aniston........