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(cont) It goes beyond - and the beauty of the physical relationship with your provider grows with each encounter. You begin to feel the ability to confide in her. You know that discretion is her credo. You trust her. That's when it hits you. You can speak to her. You can speak to her about things beyond bedroom fantasies. You can tell her what has been bothering you. You can tell her about the amazing things in your life. You can relay things to her that you couldn't tell anyone else. Your sexual partner not only releases your sexual tension but also those other tensions that exist in your life. Your time together is cathartic. It's better than religion; there is no ultimate judgment. She listens. She may not have answers for you, but she listens to your story. She comforts you. She takes your mind off your other problems. You know that after your encounter your issues will still persist, but because of the nature of your relationship, she has given you a brief respite. For that time you have together, she doesn't judge, she gives. It's therapy for the body, mind and soul. Think about it. It's not just sex - it's so much more. (and thanks Webothscore I needed to complete but the character limit was killing me!)

Honesty, Discretion and Trust... three of the most undervalued, but naturally assumed facets of the industry. It has always been my thought that the first of these, honesty, is one of the cornerstones of a client/provider relationship. We don't give it much thought - but it is the essential element that drives this business. Taking it down to the bare bones, it is perhaps the most honest relationship a man and a woman can have. Think about it. There are things that you would not ask your significant other to do - not because they are immoral or degrading - but because of the potential for conflict, looks of contempt and accusations of deviance MAY be the end result. You love your SO but to preserve the delicate balance you may bury desire(s) and leave avenues of exploration untravelled. That's where the relationship with the provider blossoms. It's simple. For a nominal fee, you can express your desires and within reason, have them fulfilled. There is a comfort in relaying your desires. You can be honest with her. You can be the man that you want to be. You know that it is in your mutual interest that discussion be frank but polite, and that again within reason, she will not mock you for the simplest of requests. On the basest level it is a transaction; but on the spiritual side, it's miraculous. You have fulfilled a fantasy or just a natural desire and it was simple. That's the beauty of the honest relationship. (cont.)

Dear one.... Are you saying that you book 30-minute meetings and then always go overtime, getting that extra 50% for free, and that you're proud of it? Has it occurred to you that these ladies may not feel that they're able to tell you to leave or to ask you to pay for the additional time? Surely you're not advising others to engage in such exploitation. That's not how gentlemen behave.

Old Dog keeping his khaki's UP :) That makes me smile happy :) Yay ! Friendship folks....Friendship. There are all kinds of it. It's awesome and rewarding and you may even find it in the places you least expect...perhaps even in the deepest and darkest places...when it is genuinely there !!!! .. embrace it. It makes me smile ... It is there every day... not just today.

In my experience, this is unfortunately the distinguishing point between hobbyists/lifestylers and those men who troll CL & BP looking for a "date". Just to clarify, I know there are many CERB members who use these sites it is not you I'm referring to. The men who troll seem to reduce women to playthings to be used and discarded as they whim suits them. They tend to use direct verbiage and statements such as "will you suck my cock" or "I want a blowjob, how much". There tends to be no respect, no real communication and no pleasantries, almost like we're not worth the effort of normal interactions. Unfortunately many of the girls who are looking to make a quick buck, support a habit, have esteem issues etc. accept this behavior which only serves to perpetuate it. How many CERB ladies who have chosen this as a profession/calling would even indulge such behavior? None! These men think that they're dealing with the same level of ladies and quickly get cut off at the knees. As much as we rally and fight to be recognized for what we do and why, there is still the other side of the equation that feeds into all the stereotypes and negativity surrounding the profession. Would be nice if no matter the setting or people involved, people just gave a little more respect and politeness. Yes, there would still be issues because people have issues yet even a little extra attention to how we treat people could go a long way. No worries people, I'm not gonna start a rendition of Kumbaya!

Welcome to CERB! :) You should consider it a good thing to have so many great choices!! We have an amazing selection of lovely ladies in Ottawa. :) One thing I would like to suggest if I may... There are many great ladies of all ages, but ladies maybe 24+ years who has a few extra years of experience in man-comfort might be more suitable for the first time kind of experience you are looking for. A lady who has seen several newbies maybe and who knows exactly what it takes to make a nice young lad like yourself feel instantly at ease. What you need is a woman, not a girl, who can show you how it's done... professional, yet easy going and casual. ;) We have many ladies like this around, but your best chance at finding someone who will be close to your taste, is to indeed put in a little bit of time to browse the advertisement and recommendation sections. A nice lady is worth putting in a little bit of effort for, right? ;)

Perhaps you have not found that one or two people that you really conect with... you have to remember that after all we are people, yes this is our job.., but before that we are human beings.., capable of loving and caring... We have a heart and this gives us the ability of creating relationships such as friendships that many people could not understand, relationships in which we all understand boudaries and limits.., because we are all about being honest.., I have met really amazing people through Cerb, and have awesome friends... and they know who they are... :)

It's gratifying to hear that it goes both ways, but to a degree I have known that for a while. The relationships we build are incredible in that the boundaries are fluid. I do want to know about you. I want to show I care. I want you to see the "me" I can't show to others, and I want you to share your desires with me. For the briefest of moments, I am your protector. I am the man with whom you can confide your thoughts and dreams. It sounds like old romanticism, but at the moment, the meeting goes beyond pleasures of the flesh. It's a melding of the carnal and spiritual in the ephemeral plane. It's difficult to put in layman's terms. It's a temporary love that evolves into a fraternal bond and vice versa. It's sacred in the purest sense of the word. It's an obligation that comes with sharing our bodies. Not everyone can achieve it, but when it happens - it's real.

OD you are so right. There are many for whom adventures in this "business" are purely physical and if that's all the want and need great. But for those lucky few that find that perfect partner for sexual AND emotional exploration it can be a beautiful thing. Honesty, discretion and trust tend to be built over time which generally for "me", means taking time to develop a relationship (small r) with one, or perhaps a select few that actually get to know the real Old Dog or Chuck. For me I can break it down to one word "safe". To feel safe in the company of another person is awesome. Peachy, it's really good to hear that some SP's enjoy the company of clients who provide them the "safety" to just be themselves. All of us deserve to just feel safe whether client or SP. Just some airport rambling from Chuck

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Thank you, Old Dog, for another thoughtful, well written thread. I couldn't have said it better. I can only echo your sentiments. To emphasise what has been said, particularly Peachy and Savannah, there is nothing more wonderful than receiving your trust (the ladies' in general i mean). Things can evolve and, as I keep realizing, receiving this type of trust is .... just wonderful!!!

Not everyone can share, that's a given, but there are those client/provider relationships that transcend the "transaction." Some clients just want sex. Some providers just supply sex. For them, that's enough. I speak to the relationships that are built on both sides by willing and perhaps temporary "partners". That's the magic.

Wow, OD... Your words are prolific and your romanticism admired. I agree with Peachy very much. It is a rare occasion when I find a client that I instantly feel comfortable with. It is a rare occasion when I find a client that I feel I can trust, let my guard down, and be myself with. I am lucky to have a new client who I already feel very comfortable with, who - on our first meeting I told things about the real ME that I don't usually share within the confines of this industry. I do not take honesty, discretion and trust lightly. It is of utmost importance that my clients feel these things with me, and I feel very lucky when I have a client I am able to return it to.

Savannah Lane, you sound like a lady after my own heart, bless you!!! We may be providers but we're hot blooded ladies as well which means we get turned on, hungry and have the same cravings as anyone else. This means sometimes we restrain ourselves because of time or the gentleman's own behavior/actions. Thankfully there are times we don't have to. If you gentleman think you don't impact us the same way you say we impact you, you are SO wrong. One of the amazingly wonderful things about this job!

Booking for 30 minutes with the planned intent of taking around 45 minutes, is just absolutely wrong, it might happen once, but it should not be the intent, and if it happens you should tip to cover the extra time. The egregious part of Luv269 is that this is not only planned, but expected and viewed as a major accomplishment. This is not something to be proud of, more that you should feel guilty of your behaviour.

I'm a little sad to read something like this, because I've had clients try and do the same thing to me - and they are clients I unfortunately no longer see. I had a gentleman see me a handful of times, and every time it would be at least at 40 minutes before our session would end. And it would only end because I finally said we're way past our time. The last few times, I pointed this out, and said perhaps we should start booking longer sessions. The last time he contacted me, I finally said, great, I'd love to see you, but only if we book for 45-minutes as our sessions always go longer than 30 minutes. He accused me of 'upselling', and I haven't seen him since. I wasn't upselling - he KNEW he took more than the paid time, and when I finally asked to be paid for the time he actually took, he walked away. It was unfortunate, because I enjoyed my time with him. But I refused to be taken advantage of...and I truly hate hearing about other girls being taken advantage of in the same way. Sometimes sessions go a little longer, and we all (well hopefully we all!) understand it can happen.... but if you know you need more than 30 minutes, you should be booking more than 30 minutes. It will make the time more enjoyable for both of you, and ensure that lady is getting the rate she deserves.

Cristy, I saw this and immediately thought about you and this thread!

I have some problem with posting my ad this morning.. (first time ever happen to me) When I tried to post my ad.. It says The text that you have entered is too long (3141 characters). Please shorten it to 1500 characters long. I have always use the same copy-paste... Did the rules had change?

Very well said, OD. I can't see how "Temporary love" would be less than eternal love. Love is love, and even if it's in a moment, it is something that becomes eternal, in the sense that nothing can erase that. In my own experience, living the present is all that matters; even if you are deeply in love with your SO, or in an encounter with a Lady, the relationship has to be lived in the present; the past remains the past, and tomorrow does not exist... yet. The three values you have mentioned should be the bases of any relationship. IMHO, this hobby would be meaningless for me if these values were not there. And I consider, when it is shared with a SP, that it is a real gift of life, a precious one that has to be cherished like a treasure.

As a fairly new hobbyist I assume it is a level of service. I agree it differs for everyone. The same can be said for GFE. All my girlfriends were different and liked different things, so it is clearly ambiguous. Variety is the spice of life!

I cant speak for everyone.. But I tend to go by the Cerb definition, its a style of service. Where GFE tends to be sensual, pampering time spent, PSE should be more intense, wild, like spending time with a pornstar :p What makes it tricky is that everyone likes different poem, and so has their own opinion of what PSE should entail.. I just think of it as a style of service, whats included will vary on the situation. For some COF is PSE, for others its Greek or BDSM, it depends really on the situation

Midnight-Massage, I think I like you :) I really must say that this very topic is one of the hardest parts of what we do, in my opinion. Both client and sp know the time must end, but neither wants it to when they are truly enjoying themselves. Turning it off and returning to reality is tough!!!

Thank you to all on the Board. CERB is an adult wonderland. I have enjoyed getting to know some of you through your posts, and some of you in the flesh, hee. After 14 months of early retirement I have recently accepted a position for a job here in the Nation's Capital. This may or may not cut down on my posting as I shall be returning to the world of 9 to 5. In any case, I expect to be around for the foreseeable future and hope to share more madness and debauchery with this community.

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I still do not know about this thread, i mean i would be beyond ecstatic if any lady was turned on by me so i do not think is an issue at all. i do know that i am not even close to being a sex god note even by a long shot, but i do my best to make the lady feel special and hope that she gets turned on by it. it means i am doing something right. :)

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Oh I love and hate the getting dressed time. I love it because its a sexy time where playful interaction is genuine and passionate. I hate it because it means our time is almost over, and 9 times out of 10, I genuinely don't want it to end. It is why I don't offer HH sessions. It isn't long enough for ME. I have had situations where I've been dressed, he's been dressed, and the playful after interactions have lead to more playtime (again, neither was in a hurry) and it was very much off the clock. I have also very VERY much wanted a client to stay... And cursed to myself at their perfect manners and respect of my time! Lol I always lay out their clothes while they are in the shower also... And am always close by while they dress. Usually I can't keep my hands off them.... Mmm!

Orgy? LOL. Three women, one man.. I would classify it as an orgy. I once did an appt or I should orgy with one man and 9 other ladies. A few were SPs I did not know and others were swingers in his social circle who were sexually comfortable with themselves and towards others. It was his dream, he had the financial means and lifestyle to do so and he was in heaven! It was all about him that night. However, that's a lot of people to be involved with in such an intimate way in terms of every lady having a productive role while not being left out. He had it all planned beforehand and in agreement through various discussions with all ladies in terms of how the session would be conducted but in a way that just flowed naturally and not scripted or directed verbally. It's all in the planning and would be best to discuss what the customer's goal is in this case. In my case, the session was a success, everyone had fun and it was interesting to say the least!

Having one of your favourite authors "favourite" your tweet... and then seeing it go semi viral. Texting providers from other parts of the country, just to say hi and share a giggle. Thinking about someone and then getting a phone call from them a moment later. Telling your friends that you love them every time you talk to them. Seeing someone for the first time and knowing it won't be the last.

Yep, you just broke one of the golden rules of modern life, alas!

I absolutely adore this thread. It is so refreshing to see so many fine gentleman gathered in one place. I can only speak for myself, but I genuinely enjoy the time I spend with my clients. Some are absolutely incredible - some less so, but still enjoyable. If I wasn't enjoying myself and feeling as good as my clients, then I shouldn't be doing this. I have always said the moment it stops feeling amazing, and stops being fun - is the moment I quit :) And men - there are some ladies, myself included, who also get off on YOU getting off :) xoxo

Wow, clearly you are new around here so I'll hold back a little but you should know this isn't the place to come and brag about such accomplishments or conquests, this isn't the clubhouse locker room. Put yourself in the providers shoes. How would you like it if you were doing your job, very well in fact, both your boss and clients were happy and impressed but your boss came up to and told you "Sorry Luv269 we can't pay you for last friday even though you worked late, we really appreciate it though, oh yeah from now on, we need you to work 5 days a week, but we're only going to pay you for 4, keep up the good work Luv269" How exactly would you feel ?

Congrats Dear.... Thank you so much for sharing your wit and insight with all of us in Cerbie world!! You really are a very well spoken beautiful man, looking forward to reading more and more of your posts. Kisses my Dear xoxo

This is an unfortunate reality to this career choice. I ignore/delete/redirect about 75% of the emails I receive. Am I losing out on potential business by being so picky? Sure I am. But I'm here by choice, not by necessity and therefore I can literally afford to be picky. I don't need to tolerate or put up with some freakshow asking me to "suck his cock and let him blow his load in my ear" (yes, I've been asked).

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I took out some of the numbers form the phone number just in case the mod took exception. The SP's name is Nikki, she is one of the Quebec girls with the black pimp. Total Bait and Switch I was at work, horny and stupid. Broke several of my rules. Booked a girl who was only on BP. Was at work, so couldn't search her name on PERB for warning, spidey sense went off several times and ignored it. They use an Alberta number, but they are from Quebec. Girl at door was not girl in pic. Services offered in text were not offered in session, upcharge for basic services, was told no upcharge from when I first inquired. When I said "Keep $100, give me $140 back I am out of here" (after about 10 mins), she calls her black pimp and the fun begins. I won't go into all the details, but they refused to give me my money back. STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM, THEY ARE CROOKS. B&S specialists. I was finally taken. I feel like such a rube

I hope you have an amazing day filled will many things that make you smile and bring you happiness!!

Resistance is indeed futile with you Sir. Such an inviting personality coupled with thoughtful posts and lots of sexy pics. You also are so supportive of us all and we love you for it!!! More boobies, more legs and more redheads from you!!!! xo

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I think its best to never assume anything about a service and who provides it as we are all different but here is a link to what cerb has posted concerning these terms. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=10214

The personal relationships I have been involved in, all of them knew what I did for a living and if they had an issue with it, I could not be with them. I do not want a relationship based on insecurity, volatility or jealousy. The men I have been involved with were secure with themselves and also in me. They had their own jobs or careers and knew what I did for a living didn't define who *I* was as a person. They never sponged off of me and it was always equal. I do not support deadbeats who are unemployed or those who have no ambition and only desire is to live off women. I am too strong of a personality for that and not someone who is insecure. I also don't put up with shit from men. I would rather be alone and not afraid of this. They knew it was my job and at the end of the day, I was with them.. In fact, for one of them, it really turned them and were flattered knowing that other men wanted to be with the woman they were with. If there is trust and communication in a relationship, anything is possible. Love knows no bounds.

Grats to Fish!

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I wonder if I can get my doctor to prescribe a body rub ;) Then it would be perfectly ok for health reasons. In the end if they prescribed those more than anti depressants we would have a better world. Cheers

Honestly just a hug from my dad, the feel of my fathers arms around me, is truthfully the only touch I crave, I guess the rest are satisfied often:)

Rest assured, gentlemen, that most of us rarely ride around in stretch limousines and when we do, they're far more likely to have been provided by clients than to be hired by us. It would be highly unprofessional to arrive at a private residence in a stretch limo: it would compromise the client's privacy. Those cars attract a great deal of attention. Moreover, no driver who is experienced in working with us would park such a thing outside the client's home. Safety, discretion and absolute confidentiality are non-negotiable in our line of work.

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All I can say is WOW! I was fortunate enough to spend a few hours with this wonderful lady the other evening. When we met I was quickly entranced by her incredible smile as well as her obvious beauty. The conversation was stimulating as if talking to a friend you hadn't seen for awhile. Our time together passed too quickly and left me with a grin that may need to be surgically removed. My thanks to Jenni for her patience & passion as I begin my next adventure. Will definitely repeat.

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