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One should always tip, yes. For me, generally 20% or more. Occasionally I have even tipped up to 50%. It can be a good feeling to see someone who is busting their ass and maybe having a shitty day get a big tip, and show them your appreciation. If I can afford it, then why not? Sometimes even when things go wrong, it's not even always that person's fault. Maybe the pizza took a long time, but it was the dudes at the pizza parlour dicking around. Or maybe he got stuck behind a traffic accident. Why should the driver suffer? Most of those service jobs live off their tips, and some of them even make a service wage which is actually less than minimum wage. Everyone has a bad day here and there, so I always give the benefit of the doubt, even if service isn't perfect. People who are shitty at service jobs usually have a way of weaving themselves out eventually anyways. Always tip! Pizza guys, servers, bartenders, hair stylist, taxi driver, mover, RMT, groomer... just about anyone who does something for you! :)

This screenshot from Nat's video is pretty artistic and sexy.

I always suggest contacting the provider you are interested in seeing earlier in the day, explain you work nights, and would like to see her when you finish work at (insert your time), and would that be ok? This way, she is not being woken up in the dead of night. I turn my phone off when I go to sleep. However, if I have a client who has contacted me previously and explained his situation, I will stay up and leave my phone on for them. Most ladies do it this way. I am always surprised how many missed calls that happen at night. However, if I stay up in hopes of getting these calls, the phone is dead. That's why I turn my phone off now. No one wants to book with someone who is dead asleep and answers the phone that way. I've been known to answer the phone while asleep and book a call, then fall back to sleep. So, that's why I shut my phone off now. Once asleep, I can't wake up. Good luck!

I prefer when a man has a plan and prebooks. It is much less chaotic then attempting to answer to are you available right now? inquires all day every day. I prefer to know what and when to prepare for. Rushing into last minute encounters leaves me feeling anxious and depending on the day it can wind up being obvious. I also find last minute booking to have higher incidents of no shows. (again loosely based on my experience) However it isn't to say last minute inquires aren't welcome as you could be the request right after a no show, and this is always a good thing to luck out with for both you and the provider who happens to be ready and without the company of the gentlemen who for whatever reason did not cancel. How far in advance would really be up to you. Just keep in mind, some sp's have their other jobs and commitments to work around so maybe asking the providers you have in mind what works best for them would help prevent any disapointments. Oh and noon hours and fridays seem to be a popular request, on average based on my own experiences. So seeking those mentioned above may require a bit more pre planning than say a dinnertime hour of 5 or 6pm. Also would depend on the reliabilty of the provider of course. Hope this helps somewhat.

"Fair" is whatever you think it is. Whether or not the transportation charge is fair, it's always risky having a SP come to your home, especially some of the shady ones who advertise on the free board. Remember, they now know where you live. You're risking exposure, extortion, robbery, etc. Stick to incalls, and take only your car keys and the amount of money you need - no ID or valuables.

I have indeed been surprised by who I've met at the door vs. photos, but luckily that's because so far the lady has always been even more attractive in the flesh than can come across in a photo (plus they smell better!...hmm, if only it were possible to post scratch 'n sniff photos...) But to your main question: "I do hope that most people would understand the differences between switch and baits compared to a change of appearances?" I would think that should generally be a safe assumption to make. Myself, I tend to go back and forth on a regular basis between a well-trimmed beard or completely cleanshaven look. I'm sure glad no one would expect me to update my Facebook profile every time I do so! And yes, there's a big difference between posting a ten-year old photo or a picture of someone else off as yourself vs. simply enjoying a new hair due. Also, most people gain and lose a few pounds throughout the year and surely it's unrealistic to expect pre and post Thankgiving turkey dinner albums! A tattoo or piercing is also something that should be assumed could have either been added after a picture was posted, or removed from the photo for confidentiality reasons. Basically, my view is if a particular hair colour, style or anything else cosmetic displayed in a picture is a sticking point for a client, then the onus is them to ask the provider ahead of time if that is still their current look. Is it nice if an SP posts regular updates of pictures? Of course, who doesn't like admiring more photos and seeing a new look! Is it on the level of bait-n-switch or "fake" if they don't? No way.

I also find that personality and other qualities are attributed to a woman's beauty. I've seen some beautiful women with the worst attitude and that made them not so attractive in my opinion.

Simply put, SPs don't *own* their clients so if an SP is jealous because a client likes variety then they have their own issues that have nothing to do with this business. However, I have seen some hobbyists attempt to pit one lady against another by revealing personal info about them as a way to get their kicks or in a bid to get better service. This is wrong and when I see that happening, that's when the trouble begins and I decide to not see them anymore. Act professionally on both sides and you will be treated as such.

To some like me age is just another number. Over the years I've notice that for some age seems to determine the value of respect you get. When I was a young boy my aunt would always say respect your elders which was good but I believe it is a two way street. Being only in my late 20 I am still young but I look even younger, I don't mind this at all and find it amusing at times. I often find myself treated differently because of it. A few examples are I often get under estimated. Being young and in charge of people who are older than I often creates a friction, they think I don't know anything but truth be told I would not be where I am if I didn't. Because I'm young often people try to lie or bullshit me which I find disrespectful, as a foreman subcontractor often argue to get out of work saying its not their job but when my boss is around a whole different story. When I went to buy my first car and in my name the seller was trying to sell me a used car when I wanted a new vehicle. He kept insisting for a person my age the best thing for me was a used car for my credit. Well last I checked the financing company does the credit check not this shmuck. What annoy me is when I often hear me young guys don't want to work, well excuse me but I work just as hard as them if not harder. Another saying that gets real old real fast it "when I was your age it was harder you're lucky" often referring to my salary which fine yes it is much higher then it was 25-30 years ago but so is cost of living. Food, gas, housing market all much higher than it was before heck I'm sure sp charged less. I understand time changes and things are different but does that really make anybody a betters or worse person cause of it? We should treat each other with the same amount of respect. Not judge by how young they look or anyway for that matter. Just like the saying goes never judge a book by its cover. I'm sure everyone has been guilty of this sometime in their lives. I remember my first cerb provider, i almost didn't meet her cause of her tattoo, was a little intimidating but she was very pretty. Thankfully I did cause she was so nice and friendly and I really enjoyed her company. Lesson learned, thanks Cleo. How does your looks affect what people think of you, I sure you've got at least a few stories.

This comment refers to the "age" heading in the thread and not the "looks" question. My daughter reminds me from time to time (especially if she wants something) of a bumper sticker we saw a while ago. It read "remember to be kind to your kids, they will be choosing your nursing home"....

I'd have to agree fullheartedly as the whole point of this thread was commending members for not alienating any type of women. Big & tall short skinny plump redhead blonde brunette big tits lil tits green eyes blue eyes or brown, tattoos, tans, piercing, short hair long hair ... Every1 has a preference in physical features they find appealing, some prefer inner beauty, whatever. Whatever flotats your boat! There's something out there 4 everyone!

I'm sure it was innocent, but please don't say things like that about thinner ladies. Some are naturally like that and nobody should be put down. As for XXXAXXX's post, I'll never understand why people feel the need to voice it when someone isn't to there standards. If you have nothing nice to say, keep quiet, nobody wants to know that they aren't your type (unless they asked). Seems it's just bullying for no reason.

All ladies have different preferences. So it is best to find out what they prefer. I love it when someone contacts me in advance, letting me know they would like to see me on such and such date. It gives me an opportunity to be prepared for them. That way, if their schedule works out properly, I am ready when they call. However, there are also times when someone calls and wants to see me right away. If I am available I will let them know. Some ladies will not take last minute appointments unless they have a cancellation. I do get calls from people, my ad states where I am currently located (I travel around the province here), and they will say "can I see you in 15 minutes". I am in another part of the province at that time. I reply, yup, let me get my lear jet ready and I'll be there in a jiffy. Just allow travel time, even if its an incall, she might not be physically at the incall location at that moment. Advance notice is always preferred. We don't sit around all day in our dental floss. Sometimes we are out running errands, visiting family, at the gym etc. xoxo

I am a backpa e girl so please don't throw us in one negative stereotype. There are ways to research a lady that many men either don't want to bother or have not been informed of. I would start by asking the discretion level of the incall. I intentionally located myself in a smaller refurbished condo block that is just off downtown and with free parking. Some gentlemen may know people and bail out on an appointment out of fear of running into someone they know who lives there. It also isn't too hard to simply say you are their visiting a coworker or aunt or neice etc. Highrises have their advantages as people casually come and go all day etc. I also like that I am close enough to a fast food place and a general pharmacy that if a gentlemen is seriously concerned, he may wish to park at either and walk the 3-4 mins to my block. If you do go to a ladies incall, consider discretion factors for yourself such as did you do all communications through text only. This i hate say is careless on the providers part as she should at least have you call before you given the address to confirm you are male, not wasted etc. and to protect her discretion. Her operating in a discreet manner, will most certainly affect the discretion of you as well. Also if a neighbor is around you may not want to address the lady by her sp name and simply act like you should be there until behind closed door of her space. When leaving try not to say in a loud voice... "Thank You it was so nice to meet you, or escort talk as leaving. This could get overheard by neighbors etc. Some ways to screen the quality of a ladies incall could be questions like "do you provide clean shower facilities and towels should I wish to have a quick shower? You may ask about pets, and definetly make aware of certain allergies you may suffer from such as perfume or lube or oils etc.And if you are ultra concerned about being seen entering or leaving a call, simply ask her of the probability percentage hall way neighbors etc, I always ask a gentlemen to call or text once parked but still in car. That way i can receive him without him lurking outside and possibly running into a neighbor or looking unusual. Your discretion depends on her discretion in my opinion. If she requires you to call from a intersection close to her place, call from corner. She does to dramatically reduce the number of people who get the address early and then don't show.

My opinion would be "depending" on where you are. However since this thread is under Winnipeg MB section then having time ahead would be helpful to those that you plan to see would be beneficial to you. Myself, I am the kind of client that like to be spontaneous and just go with the flow. However that burns me most of the time when i come to Winnipeg because my schedule is so tight i am usually looking for last minute hook ups, if i am lucky. However if i am in other parts of the world like Asia or Europe then that's another schedule to work with etc. I hear and read that "deeper connection" has great reviews! so if you ever have a chance to meet with her, i doubt you would regret it. Have fun, be safe! Cheers

I just love the entire Sweet and Wilde Duos album! It is all very unique and pretty. This fun and sexy photo in particular is my fave, and quite creative indeed:

If you are new to this hobby NEVER see ladies in your home unless they have stellar reputations backed up by recommenadations from guys that you trust. Seeing a lady you know nothing about in your home has disaster potential especially if something goes sideways. As for the extra charge, that is normal if it is an SP that also maintains an incall. If the SP has an incall to maintain, then coming to you costs her extra money in transportation cost, especially if she has a driver. As well if she comes to see you that takes extra time away from her "office" so even though you are only paying her for 1 hour if it takes her 30 minutes to get to you and then home, you are actually tying her up for 2 hours. SP's that don't maintain an incall likely shouldn't charge more on top of their normal rate as they don't have the monthly overhead associated with an incall and the transportation, driver, etc. is jsut part of her costs of doing business. Cheers

I thought this would be a good thread to start. A place to post artistic or creative pictures from our own CERB Women. This picture from our own Claire Heaven is what gave me the inspiration to start this thread. This is a creative and artistic pose. And also one darn sexy woman :) Let's see what other artistic pictures we can find among our treasure trove of albums :)

I wanted to take a few moments to thank not only the gentlemen but the entire Cerb community for one of the best changes I've seen since my return to the hobby ( had been gone since 2008 )... During the pre-chatroom era ( circa 2005-2008 ) I was often chastised for being an SP who wasn't a size 0. I'm a size 12. You know who else was a size 12? Marilyn. I don't need to write out her last name, you know damn well who I am talking about. Over the last few months, I can see that the diversity of cerbites has increased greatly, which shows in cases like preferable women's sizes no longer being a biased, one-sided affair. Even if women my size are not your cup of tea, the respect shown concerning "to each their own" is staggeringly exceeding my expectations. Thank you cerbites for believing in "all women are beautiful in their own way" !!! An especially BIG thanks to the mods also, as this chastisement was allowed to take place on "the other board" which is the main reason for my switch to this one only :) I love your no tolerance for BS! ________________________________________________ FOOD FOR THOUGHT: 1. Marilyn Monroe's body measurements: Height: 5'5 Weight: 118-140 lbs Bust: 35-37 inches Waist: 22-23 inches Hips: 35-36 inches Bra size: 36D 2. Dove's "REAL BEAUTY" campaign: http://www.dove.ca/en/Social-Mission/About-the-Movement.aspx 3. Definition beau·ti·ful adj. a) Having qualities that delight the senses, especially the sense of sight. b) Excellent; wonderful. beauti·ful·ly adv. beauti·ful·ness n. Synonyms: beautiful, lovely, pretty, handsome, comely, fair All these adjectives apply to what excites aesthetic admiration. Beautiful is most comprehensive: a beautiful child; a beautiful painting; a beautiful mathematical proof. Lovely applies to what inspires emotion rather than intellectual appreciation: "They were lovely, your eyes" (George Seferis). What is pretty is beautiful in a delicate or graceful way: a pretty face; a pretty song; a pretty room. Handsome stresses poise and dignity of form and proportion: a very large, handsome paneled library. "She is very pretty, but not so extraordinarily handsome" (William Makepeace Thackeray). Comely suggests wholesome physical attractiveness: "Mrs. Hurd is a large woman with a big, comely, simple face" (Ernest Hemingway). Fair emphasizes freshness or purity: "In the highlands, in the country places,/Where the old plain men have rosy faces,/And the young fair maidens/Quiet eyes" (Robert Louis Stevenson). 4. Most importantly: BEAUTY LIES WITHIN THEY EYE OF THE BEHOLDER

Mmmmmm sexy and food... THe lovely SaraMQ and I did a foodfight shoot a couple of years ago...

You know I can definitely agree with Empty83 more than what he has written. Every word written is a testament of the truth and I think a lot of young men in particular suffer as a result of this negative perception of age. Being in my late 20's I can say that I have experienced a lot of people who seem to think that even though I am in my 20's I am naive and do not have the life lessons in which they do as they are older. It is a shame because I for one would never judge a person based on their age as to me it is just a number and does not equate the type of person they are.

I was a waitress in Halifax at one time..this restaurant was attached to a hotel. We served a continental breakfast for the quests of the hotel. Surprisingly We were rarely tipped. We worked our asses off. Keeping fresh muffins,fruit and serving coffee..There were usually 4 or 5 of us running around keeping up with everything {summer tours}. It wasn't a resturant that gave you paper plates and plastic cutlery.so we were busy busy. My point is- Tip the continental servers as well. some of them only work during breakfast hours. Breakfast is free so even a dollar makes them feel appreciated. I give more as I know the process.

Remember to tip the poor bastards who lug their guts out at minimum wage to get your brand new fridge safely inside your kitchen with no damage to either your appliance or your home, or those who move all your life's possessions from one home to another unscathed. Those guys get surprisingly few tips. :-(

Just as a sidebar, those ladies who think being youngest is best may in fact be doing themselves a disservice. For some of us guys, well speaking for me only, find myself attracted to women in their thirties and up, right up to their fifties. And seeing a girl who is twenty, twenty one, actually for me it's too young. My age limits are mid twenties and up Not putting down those that are younger, but if you are older saying you are younger, you may have unintentionally closed the door on a potential client Some early morning half asleep ramblings RG

Personally, I'd like to see more honesty in the industry regarding AGE. It's a pet peeve of mine that almost everyone's age is off by 5-10 years. I do not expect this to be a popular post, but it's how I feel.

I think if you pre discuss this reason as why you are seeking a late appointment it may increase the comfort level a sp has to take on a gentlemen she has not met previously. I shy away from these hours as it is an increase risk of winding up with an intoxicated individual. If you explain in advance your request for this hour is due to work hours etc. you may get more favourable results than simply asking for a last minute availability at the closing of bars and whatnot. Prebooking also helps the provider to not over book so she will have an appropriate energy level to entertain you.

There was a reason for my thread on the pregnant SPs. I am 19 weeks. i wasn't aware til two weeks ago. However, if there was a demand for it, I thought about sticking around the community. There is another SP that travels with me occasionally (or she did in the past) that was thinking about coming along for the ride...both of us are completely independent. I haven't yet taken any pics with the preggo belly, but I will post some soon. Please just send me a message if there is anything you'd like to know. Look forward to your responses. ;)

A tip is a great way to reward great service... and ensure that future service will be great as well! One of my biggest pet peeves in life is a person that treats "service providers" whether in food service, transportation, delivery or what we have here, as persons beneath them. It makes my skin crawl when Joe Average treats a waitress like dirt, or Jane Average gives a quarter on a taxi tip.... ARRRGHHH. I know that tips generally linger - and when you see a bartender that you have treated well or a waitress that has been well tipped, the likelihood is that they will deal with you faster, more efficiently and the gratuities might even flow both ways. I can't begin to tell you how many freebies I have had over the years at restaurants and bars because I have treated wait staff well! It makes you feel better, it makes them feel better and in the end, that's what life is all about!

I am WYSISWYG ( What You See is What You Get). I have been told many, many times that I have a genuine quality about me and this is true. However, there are some details about my life that are none of any one else's business and this can be said for clients as well. I don't need to know someone's life story but I have to say that if I'm comfortable with someone then over time they will get to know a little about me. If a client comes across as secret agent type and expects me to be an open book, forget it. I pick up vibes off people all the time and if I think someone could be stalker material or just plain nosy, they won't be hearing anything about me. In fact, I will take it to the extreme for them NOT to know anything and stop seeing them as a client.

I always tip the pizza delivery guy a minimum of $6 as he is in the service industry. In restaurants, I tip over and beyond what is expected. Those people work hard and if the service is good, they deserve it.

Definitely Emily J and Cleo Catra's!

I always say....''different strocks for different folks'' thats why there is a place for each and everyone of us! older, younger, thin, curvy, muscular....gents can have their pick ;) Feeling good in your own skin makes you beautiful :)

Well said, Cristy I couldn't agree more

Excuse me? See how far I can take it with her??? She clearly states no happy endings.

Don't be fooled by men who threaten to "crucify" an SP by writing negative reviews. You don't need reviews to survive in this world. Provide honest service and they'll come back, reviews or not.

Empty83, I used to think the same way you do but because I'm a few years older than you and out of my 20's, that doesn't seem to happen that much anymore. When I was in my 20's, I thought I had to prove a lot of things to other people in order to feel more grown up or accepted. I bought my first house at 23, a 60k vehicle and the whole nine yards. In essence I was keeping up with the Jones' who were 10 years older than me while many people my age still lived at home. I was also dealing with a lot of older people in my business and felt I couldn't relate to those who were actually my age because I left home at 19 and settled down at 22. By all outward appearances, I looked like I had my shit together but chronologically I was still 23 or 24 and was still viewed as "young". I believe life experience brings maturity ( not to say you are immature) and life experience brings you more self acceptance. I used to consider myself a materialistic person but have since learned that this does not buy happiness. I found once I just accepted myself for who I was ( flaws and all) that brought more inner confidence. When you know who you are as a person, you will reflect that and people will begin to take you seriously. Don't take this too much to heart about feeling too young. The more you feel this way about yourself, people will get the same vibe off of you and think the same way. Yes, you are still young ( assuming by your handle that you were born in 1983?) but enjoy your youth while you can and don't sweat the small stuff. When we're young, we want to be grownups, do adult things and be accepted. Sure, people judge a book by it's cover but don't get too caught up in trying to prove a point. When we do this, we aren't trying to prove this to other people but more to ourselves. As long as you know who you are, there is nothing to prove. Don't worry though, you will begin to see this in time as you get to know yourself better. And interestingly enough, I sound very young. I've had telemarketers call my home phone and asked if my parents were home. lol. I always laugh and take it as a compliment. Grandparents call and they think they're talking to their grandchild when it's really me! I just laugh esp when people still call me "Miss"!

Thanks to everyone who attended CMJ BeerFest Friday night, it was a mouth watering event. Our next event will be our Summer Solstice Toga Bash. Our events our legendary and not to be missed! Its an exciting week at CMJ! 3 new hostesses - 2 East, 1 West and they are all super hot hot hot! Geri is in town for a visit! Tuesday is Destiny's last shift... She is retiring! We wish her every success in her new and exciting life adventures - we will miss her beautiful smile dearly! _______________________________________________ Monday May 27th 10-4 Audrey Kelly Destiny 11-7 Monica (Training/NEW) Blond Spinner 4-10 Justine Lilith Tuesday May 28th 10-4 Kelly Destiny Mandy (9-2) 11-7 Geri (10-5) Cassie 4-10 Alexxxis Inara-Lee Wednesday Wednesday May 29th 10-4 Kelly (10-5) Geri Mandy (9-2) 11-7 Monica (training/NEW) 4-10 Justine Molly Thursday May 30th 10-4 Kelly Alexxxis Denise 11-7 Justine 4-10 Cassie Monica (training/NEW) Friday May 31st 10-4 Kelly (10-5) Mandy Molly 11-7 Cassie Monica (training/NEW) 4-10 Alexxxis Molly Saturday June 1st 10-4 Molly Mandy 11-7 Justine 4-10 Lilith Inara-Lee Sunday May 2nd 10-4 Lilith 11-7 Cassie 4-10 Monica (training/NEW)

When I was younger, I'd slip the doorman a $20 and say, "If I get out of hand, please be gentle with me". They appreciated it and I got escorted out quietly, if required. Some of those guys were hopped up on roids and just loved using drunks as punching bags; mostly the smaller guys; the big guys always seem like huge teddybears. It may be tipping in the name of self preservation, but it's still tipping. :P

Alexxxis has skills that will blow you away....... ha see what I did there!

lol Always such great threads from you Cato

Come in for a pampering massage, not a rub, a massage....and let me make you feel so comfortable its like I'm your girlfriend. Or massage me, les have some fun :) can you teach me anything??? 613.820.8887 located in Bells Corners in room clean showers, the quality of a female you deserve to see

Wishing you a sexy a happy Bday! Xxoo

Have an incredible day you sexy, sweet sonofagun! :)

Happy birthday. Hope its a great one!

There are a couple ladies I see because now I consider them first and foremost friends and I do cherish our time together. But I don't remain exclusive to them, and they aren't exclusive to me, nor is there any expectation of exclusiveness on anyone's part. This lifestyle is by nature poly amorous, not monogamous. The ladies, even those who are friends, are still professional companions, and they understand that you will see other women, just as you understand (or should understand) that they will have other clients and that this is their livelihood. Jealousy really IMHO has no place in this lifestyle. If a lady expects exclusiveness on your part, is she going to reciprocate and be exclusive to you too? Likewise if you expect a lady to be exclusive to you, are you going to reciprocate and only see her Long story short, if you want exclusiveness get a girlfriend, C/L or a wife. And this lifestyle is not about exclusive relationships, it is about a poly amorous lifestyle A morning rambling RG

Simply put, maybe I will have to have a little basket where glasses, cell phones, watches and keys can be put into it with a lid on it of some sort. It can be put in view in bedroom so customers don't have to worry about their belongings. This will also serve as a useful purpose since many people have forgotten things at my place and had to come back for them when I called them. Who the hell would want to wear these? They look dorky looking. If someone comes to visit me with these on, the door will be closed in their face.

My fave's includes but not limited to: Gabriella Laurence, Georgiana Sweet, Nathalie Lefebvre, Michaella's Caress and recently... EmilyOreo -- short yet so provocative on this one.. lol.

All the names mentioned here so far, I'm a fan of your ads. I want to add some names to this list: Gegefatale, Alexxxis, Georgiana sweet, Natalie Lefebvre and I can't forget Old dog for the BBM, I mean if I was a girl he would be on the top of my list just by the words he uses.

Well done, Woody. Thanks for the Layah reco, in particular.