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The Best ? is a term that cannot really be answered, unless you have met all the women :). This is a term that is very subjective. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Women come in all shapes, sizes and colours. We all have our own preferences. Also, comes in play is chemistry and YMMV. One person's experience may be great because of the connection, another may not be good, because of hygiene. Some hobbyist based their opinions on only few SP/MA experiences. Each experience is different each and everytime. The women that have a large number of recommendations will provide consistent and great service. But every session can't be great, everyone has off days or lack of chemistry may be at play. The term "The Best" should be replaced with "Your favourite ?" as this would be based on your opinion with your experiences. I think that all the women on Cerb that enjoy their job, sharing their best and intimate sides of themselves with the men of Cerb without regard to race or colour or disability are the Best period. Any woman that goes out of their way to make their clients happy and forget their troubles for the time together can be considered the Best :) Each experience has been the best, with the Best yet to cum :) This is my humble opinion.

Noooooo thank you. Harsh chemicals do not go near my nethers. It is absolutely normal and natural to have darker pigmentation near the anus - much like the labia, testicles, and nipples can be a darker colour - and has nothing to do with cleanliness.

My experience when answering the phone for an agency, is that I will not confirm that a lady provides a specific service. So, if you ask if she provides daty, I would indicate that her services are for her to declare to you. However, if you follow my lead, I will say she loves providing a GF experience. I will also say XXX is available if you have asked for specific services, whereas XXX is not available if I know she does not provide that service. Another way of pointing you in the right direction. This harkens back to the days where we could not discuss specifics of other ladies in the event of LE calling. Agencies had to worry that they would be charged with procuring prostitution services - we were only sending out ladies for a set amount of time, and the sale of sexual services were not allowed. Never did have any issues, but that's how I was trained. However, when they were calling asking about my services - I would have no problems stating what I do and do not provide. This is why independent sp's who have a website with their services makes it easier to find the right match for you.

I will attend. There is a first time for everything. Valerie

I have been to different Spas and have also seen indy MAs and I never had issues with time. If anything I would say on many occasions the session was probably longer not shorter. The ladies were really good at timing when to start the happy ending so I would have a good combination of massage and release. As for the massage itself the ladies were good at taking care of all my muscles. Often the ladies would ask if I wanted soft or hard massage. I always had good to great experiences with MAs!

Why? Just as hobbyists have preferences so do we:) Some like older, younger, all ages and everything in between . So long as both parties are willing and legal I guess it's their choice:) Really nothing should be of a surprise in this business, lol, as just about anything goes. If it's legal that is;) Just don't take anything personally, as one persons taste and preferences aren't another's:)

My first reaction, WTF is anal bleaching!!!...:icon_eek: Second reaction, bleach is for laundry, not the anus RG

Can we move the venue to Cuba so I may attend? Damn, gonna miss this one.

Nailed it RG...!! This is the main reason why I prefer NOT to post recos. Perhaps some ladies would like recos, but that's just me.. I believe this is more than just a business, while respecting the boundaries of this discreet world. The time I spend with a special lady - Is just that.. its what we shared, 2 people.. My 2c D.

Everyone can have a favorite which they personally prefer over others. That favorite may be best for them.

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Alexxandria at ALO Spas/Luna Spa...so beautiful, such a wonderful smile, so warm, so sexy, so classy, and so smart! A wonderful woman you absolutely want to be with!

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the support you've given my article. It's had a surprising amount of staying power, and is continuing to make the rounds on Twitter and FB, even almost a week after it was published. I also published it through HuffPo (as I do with all my sex work blog posts) and it seems to have been shared through that medium as well, which is encouraging. I'm of the mind that our best course of action is to continue muddying the waters on all proposed alternatives (especially the Nordic approach) while continuing to both outline all the reasons why it won't work, and why it would be a step backward instead of a step forward. Most critical at this juncture is the need to overwrite the stereotype with a new narrative - the popularity of the Nordic approach in recent discourse is inherently based on the victimization model that is so prevalent in the discussion. Without that stereotype, the value of the Nordic approach declines significantly, because it's all about "saving" victims of the trade while criminalizing the "violent rapists" (a.k.a. the clients) to "help" us fallen women see the light. We all know it's BS, but the general public remains oblivious, without evidence to the contrary. Many other courageous sex workers have already stepped out into the light, and told their stories, and we've seen some progress in this respect. However, the unspoken side of the transaction remains, and we need client voices more than ever. I realize this is a huge imposition to ask, and an impossibility for many of you; and tell his side of the story, and we will be forever grateful that he chose to do this for us. I can't possibly ask other clients to do the same, but I can facilitate client activism in other ways. I'm very friendly with a handful of writers and columnists in the mainstream media (those who have respected my privacy and have been very discreet when interviewing others in the industry) and I would gladly put you in touch with them if you wanted to anonymously tell your story. We have been so fortunate to have built a community of respectful, pleasant gentlemen who love and admire us because of what we do, not merely in spite of it. So, now we're asking for your help - we would benefit greatly from your contributions in this critical time, and I'm happy to help your voices be heard in a way that protects your privacy. Please PM or email me if you'd like more info, and if we show the country how good the industry can be when it's done right, perhaps we can run out the clock on any new legislation, leave the status quo in place, and improve things for all of us. Let me know if you'd like to help out! :)

No reviews shouldn't make you wonder as there are many who just don't like to write or involve themselves in them and there are many other reasons an sp might not have any. She may be to new, only has seen a couple of clients, only deals with sites like bp where most clients don't write reviews or reco's and so on. Check to see if her pictures are her own-tineye.com/google image search as many will recommend. Then call her, text or whatever her means of contact is. That's the best way imo to find out if an sp will be a good match is through personal communication between the sp and the hobbyist. Asking another's opinion, although helpful sometimes, certainly won't guarantee your success. Only you and she can do that. Best of luck:)

I am still happily married to my high school sweetheart for 30+ years so I don't have a lot of relationship breakups to add to this thread.... So I guess my worst Divorce will be my first one when my wife finds out about my Hobby. While I honestly believe that this hobby has in fact saved my marriage over the last few years...i am pretty sure that will be hard to convince her if she finds out.

Pretty please count me in too!!!!! Thanks so much Mistert and Loneskater. xo

Count me in!

Was wondering if anyone's thoughts where similar to mine. As I have found out that I am not the only man in my situation. According to Mazlo's Hierarchy of Needs we all require self actualization. Which for most men, can be satisfied rather easily. As long as you are honest with your own emotions. I love my wife and family!!! A wise man (thanks RNH) told me that you can not have guilt when it comes to this hobby, if you do....well I don't! The main question is am I the only one that this happens to? I may have only been with 2 SP's to date; BUT after each encounter I feel more and more alive. Not that an encounter was better than the other, but completely different, and both filled every need for self actualization I could ever have. Ever since my initial "enlightenment" (Thanks Cleo) my home life has never been better. It brought me out of my shell again. I feel alive. Since I met SexxyRebecca the other day, the same thing again. Am I the only one who doesn't have guilt, but it kind of has the opposite affect? Would love to hear what y'all think THANK YOU TO ALL THE CERB LADIES WHO HAVE HELPED MEN LIKE ME!!!!

All/most of the spa owners monitor their businesses pretty closely so a PM to the spa would likely give you some satisfaction.

I don't have such restriction so I may be a bit biased It is not uncommon for SP to have minimum ages restriction example 30 or 35 years old and over. What if the SP is young and don't want to see people 3 time her ages because she doesn't have any connection or sexual attraction to them?

I would definitely send a message to the beautiful Cleo Catra as she offers this wonderful service:)

Two words sum up the movie The Wolf of Wall Street. Debauchery and greed. Great performances by Leo DiCaprio and Jonah Hill.

As long as we know the limits, I love been told what to do. I no how to be a good girl and obey although sometimes I can act out and I'l let you do the punishing! This Week, you can find me in the west end, Paradise Spa Wednesday 11-4pm Thursday 330-11pm 613-820-8887

Treat yourself to an unforgettable amazing erotic full body massage enjoy showers,bodyslides,Duos & lots of fun!I'm 5'8 tall & fit long blonde hair & beautiful blue eyes always ready to try new things absolutely experienced! Have any questions just ask me! Today @ Angels Touch Massage! 65 Bentley Ave. Click this bar to view the full image. Mon Jan 13 630-11pm Thurs Jan 16 630-11pm Sat Jan 18 10am-9pm Pm me or call spa for an apt @613-274-7073

Come get a relaxing massage by a hot little vixen xoxo About me- Sexy petite 21 year old with long red hair, sparkling green eyes! Out going, bubbly and ready to rock your world!! Providing- Flirty and dirty relaxation massage Soapy sexy showers Reverse4 massages Body slides- Duo massages(4 hands, 2girls) Hotub session9s & you'll leave happy. Schedule TODAY: 4-11 Rates- Single Massage 30mins: $50 45mins: $60 60mins: $80 Duo Massage rates also available upon request Location-Clean, cozy, discreet westend location 65 Bentley Contact-To book an appointment please send me a PM

I couldn't agree more with this statement. I've been disappointed a handful of times, and to be honest in only one of those sessions would I say that the lady simply wasn't interested in providing good service. In other instances, the service was fine/ok but I wasn't feeling the chemistry. I never discuss services in advance, the only thing I need to know is the expected donation. Good manners, gentlemanly conduct, proper hygiene and respect, respect, respect takes care of everything else. For sure, sometimes chemistry just isn't right, and there is little that can be done about that. But in general, it isn't or shouldn't be that hard to get to the top end of the YMMV spectrum, and when it does. WOW! are you in for a treat.

Well done Sir, I say... Keep 'um coming...!

We often hear about when ymmv turns out disappointing, but I think it turns out mind-blowing far more often than we hear about.

Woo-Whoo 1000 posts congrats on the great contributions :) Kisses babe!! XoX

There is a new study just wrapping up now, which is referred to if you go to this older study at http://www.johnsvoice.ca It should provide you with some stats to refer to, and people to also contact. Also, you can spread information by posting in the babble section of rabble.ca under topics started on the feminism forum and the sex worker forum. Every step and post is a step in the right direction.

Just started watching Season 3. It is an amazing series. "A Scandal in Belgravia" was definitely one of the best episodes...

I am anticipating meeting an amazing lady on Tuesday.... its been 4 weeks which is way way to long without seeing her.

I want someone back I need to learn how to live without them.

I apologize to everyone who has been trying to reach me over the past several days. I had something come up, and am out of town until this week. I will be available as of Tuesday, Jan 14th. Apologies once again. - Emerald Posted via Mobile Device

It is after great thought and consideration that I have decided that it is time to announce that I will be leaving the Massage business. I would like to thank all of you for the wonderful memories and I will never forget the kindness of you all. Thank you for teaching me so much about myself this business and how wonderful the world can be. CERB is a Great Community filled with wonderful people, and I am thankful that I have had the opportunity to experience some of that greatness. All that being said that I will be retiring from the business at the end of February, So you still have some time to live all of your Tiff Dreams ;) I'll be here at Angel's Touch all day today 10:00am-9:00pm then I'll keep you in touch for future days To reach me Call Angels at 613-274-7073 Text me at 613-277-4328 or Send me a PM here on CERB Hope to see you all soon for some Kisses Tiff XoX

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I agree with the previous comment, the exception being CMJ as they are a pvt club so you need to be a member to enter, so not sure how they are with walk ins..... That being said Angel's Touch and Paradise Spa both offer walk in appointments as long as one of the lovely ladies is free you are sure to be accommodated. A quick call ahead of time {613-274-7073 Angels Touch 613-820-8887 Paradise Spa} (even 5 min notice) will allow them to ensure that someone is available for you or will let you know when someone will be. Hope this info helps and enjoy your time in Ottawa Kisses Tiff XoX

Hey that's such a great idea!! Personally I lived in Paris for 17 years and U have such great lingerie there!! My favorite brand is Aubade but also Ravage et La Perla which is Italian. So I only wear sexy lingerie that match what I am wearing on top and stockings and high heels. It's so great to be a woman let's show it off!!

That is your humble opinion and your entitled to say that. Just like me saying you can't go wrong with ALO spa's, Paradise Spa,Angel's Touch Spa, CMJ Spa and Vibe Spa, each spa have beautiful women working for them, they are all great spa's. Ottawa also has many independent ladies too. As long as you act like a gentleman while you're there, show up for bookings, don't use false names and cancel on ladies that you've booked time with because you basically screw the lady out of coin,when there is others wanting to book with that lady. This does happen to the spa and the lady, we like to call theses guys "time wasters" "lurkers" "bad clients"......and well probably other choice names ;) All the Spa's have their unique style,atmosphere and of course many ladies, it is up to the gentleman lastly to book with a Spa,to visit that lady, OR an independent. Just check the recommendation section,for a lady that may interest yourself.

can you put me on the list! xo

I can't say exact numbers but what I can say is I have been in clubs where my friends have been back for awhile and it required a condom... I didn't ask questions nor did I want to know ... that's not what I'm looking for. If you really look at escorts vs dancer I really wonder where the money is ... escorts get payed by hour from what I've seen generally anywhere from 150-260h depending on what is offered ... a very good dancer can make 260 in 13 songs which is about 40 minutes of her time which doesn't involve having sex... I get its probably harder for a dancer to find multiple guys who want to go back for 13 songs in a row... but I've seen some dancers that I've wanted a dance with and I couldn't get in because they had a line up :) Its interesting I was talking about this with my friend yesterday who spends alot of money on his ATF and gets nothing in return sexually she's by the book, sometime she's naked sometimes she's not they talk, txt, see each other outside of the club for chats drinks, coffee but nothing physical... I joke with him that the money he spends on his ATF he could have a SP provide the same experience with a more beneficial ending ... finding a good SP who provides GFE and repeat visit enough I'm sure he'd get her number and they'd txt and chat if they connected mentally ... I don't understand either profession (but I'm glad they exist :P) Mainly because I'm a middle aged overweight guy who could never sell anything to anyone :P

I usually do a lot of cooking for Christmas . This year I am leaving all responsibilities behind, packing my 3 cats up and going to a posh hotel for the week of Christmas . Someone else will be preparing Christmas dinner , I'm really looking forward to that .

Looking forward to having my 3 kids home for Chrismas dinner! Apart from having my kids united on Chrismas day...For the past 3 years the holidays have been...kind on lonely so having great anticipation for the end of the holidays... Anticipating some "me" time in January...vacation!!! :) BJ xxx

There are many reasons to do this and as long as the reasons are good for you and important to you, then they are good reasons and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. As was already said, attraction and beauty aren't just skin deep. Attitude, manners, sense of humor, enjoyment, openness, hygiene, a positive attitude etc. all play into making someone attractive to others. Don't sell yourself short based on what you think you see in the mirror. Most of us have a skewed perception of ourselves anyway. Most SP's will welcome you with open arms and treat you wonderfully as long as you follow their personal guidelines and the common ones of being respectful, clean and friendly. Nerves will be present but don't let that stop you from jumping on board and experiencing something wonderful. Browse ads and profiles and find someone who appeals to you then begin a conversation. Follow your intuition and enjoy!

Had a visit there today, nice massage at a decent price, what more can you ask for!