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The Best ? is a term that cannot really be answered, unless you have met all the women :). This is a term that is very subjective. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Women come in all shapes, sizes and colours. We all have our own preferences. Also, comes in play is chemistry and YMMV. One person's experience may be great because of the connection, another may not be good, because of hygiene. Some hobbyist based their opinions on only few SP/MA experiences. Each experience is different each and everytime. The women that have a large number of recommendations will provide consistent and great service. But every session can't be great, everyone has off days or lack of chemistry may be at play. The term "The Best" should be replaced with "Your favourite ?" as this would be based on your opinion with your experiences. I think that all the women on Cerb that enjoy their job, sharing their best and intimate sides of themselves with the men of Cerb without regard to race or colour or disability are the Best period. Any woman that goes out of their way to make their clients happy and forget their troubles for the time together can be considered the Best :) Each experience has been the best, with the Best yet to cum :) This is my humble opinion.

Noooooo thank you. Harsh chemicals do not go near my nethers. It is absolutely normal and natural to have darker pigmentation near the anus - much like the labia, testicles, and nipples can be a darker colour - and has nothing to do with cleanliness.

My experience when answering the phone for an agency, is that I will not confirm that a lady provides a specific service. So, if you ask if she provides daty, I would indicate that her services are for her to declare to you. However, if you follow my lead, I will say she loves providing a GF experience. I will also say XXX is available if you have asked for specific services, whereas XXX is not available if I know she does not provide that service. Another way of pointing you in the right direction. This harkens back to the days where we could not discuss specifics of other ladies in the event of LE calling. Agencies had to worry that they would be charged with procuring prostitution services - we were only sending out ladies for a set amount of time, and the sale of sexual services were not allowed. Never did have any issues, but that's how I was trained. However, when they were calling asking about my services - I would have no problems stating what I do and do not provide. This is why independent sp's who have a website with their services makes it easier to find the right match for you.

I will attend. There is a first time for everything. Valerie

I have been to different Spas and have also seen indy MAs and I never had issues with time. If anything I would say on many occasions the session was probably longer not shorter. The ladies were really good at timing when to start the happy ending so I would have a good combination of massage and release. As for the massage itself the ladies were good at taking care of all my muscles. Often the ladies would ask if I wanted soft or hard massage. I always had good to great experiences with MAs!

Why? Just as hobbyists have preferences so do we:) Some like older, younger, all ages and everything in between . So long as both parties are willing and legal I guess it's their choice:) Really nothing should be of a surprise in this business, lol, as just about anything goes. If it's legal that is;) Just don't take anything personally, as one persons taste and preferences aren't another's:)

My first reaction, WTF is anal bleaching!!!...:icon_eek: Second reaction, bleach is for laundry, not the anus RG

Can we move the venue to Cuba so I may attend? Damn, gonna miss this one.

Nailed it RG...!! This is the main reason why I prefer NOT to post recos. Perhaps some ladies would like recos, but that's just me.. I believe this is more than just a business, while respecting the boundaries of this discreet world. The time I spend with a special lady - Is just that.. its what we shared, 2 people.. My 2c D.

Everyone can have a favorite which they personally prefer over others. That favorite may be best for them.

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Alexxandria at ALO Spas/Luna Spa...so beautiful, such a wonderful smile, so warm, so sexy, so classy, and so smart! A wonderful woman you absolutely want to be with!

Thanks everyone, I appreciate the support you've given my article. It's had a surprising amount of staying power, and is continuing to make the rounds on Twitter and FB, even almost a week after it was published. I also published it through HuffPo (as I do with all my sex work blog posts) and it seems to have been shared through that medium as well, which is encouraging. I'm of the mind that our best course of action is to continue muddying the waters on all proposed alternatives (especially the Nordic approach) while continuing to both outline all the reasons why it won't work, and why it would be a step backward instead of a step forward. Most critical at this juncture is the need to overwrite the stereotype with a new narrative - the popularity of the Nordic approach in recent discourse is inherently based on the victimization model that is so prevalent in the discussion. Without that stereotype, the value of the Nordic approach declines significantly, because it's all about "saving" victims of the trade while criminalizing the "violent rapists" (a.k.a. the clients) to "help" us fallen women see the light. We all know it's BS, but the general public remains oblivious, without evidence to the contrary. Many other courageous sex workers have already stepped out into the light, and told their stories, and we've seen some progress in this respect. However, the unspoken side of the transaction remains, and we need client voices more than ever. I realize this is a huge imposition to ask, and an impossibility for many of you; and tell his side of the story, and we will be forever grateful that he chose to do this for us. I can't possibly ask other clients to do the same, but I can facilitate client activism in other ways. I'm very friendly with a handful of writers and columnists in the mainstream media (those who have respected my privacy and have been very discreet when interviewing others in the industry) and I would gladly put you in touch with them if you wanted to anonymously tell your story. We have been so fortunate to have built a community of respectful, pleasant gentlemen who love and admire us because of what we do, not merely in spite of it. So, now we're asking for your help - we would benefit greatly from your contributions in this critical time, and I'm happy to help your voices be heard in a way that protects your privacy. Please PM or email me if you'd like more info, and if we show the country how good the industry can be when it's done right, perhaps we can run out the clock on any new legislation, leave the status quo in place, and improve things for all of us. Let me know if you'd like to help out! :)

No reviews shouldn't make you wonder as there are many who just don't like to write or involve themselves in them and there are many other reasons an sp might not have any. She may be to new, only has seen a couple of clients, only deals with sites like bp where most clients don't write reviews or reco's and so on. Check to see if her pictures are her own-tineye.com/google image search as many will recommend. Then call her, text or whatever her means of contact is. That's the best way imo to find out if an sp will be a good match is through personal communication between the sp and the hobbyist. Asking another's opinion, although helpful sometimes, certainly won't guarantee your success. Only you and she can do that. Best of luck:)

I am still happily married to my high school sweetheart for 30+ years so I don't have a lot of relationship breakups to add to this thread.... So I guess my worst Divorce will be my first one when my wife finds out about my Hobby. While I honestly believe that this hobby has in fact saved my marriage over the last few years...i am pretty sure that will be hard to convince her if she finds out.

Pretty please count me in too!!!!! Thanks so much Mistert and Loneskater. xo

Count me in!

I wrote a blog post today, outlining the case for no new laws, and detailing how existing provisions in the Criminal Code can already deal with the more harmful and negative circumstances associated with sex work. Please share widely, and feedback is appreciated. :) http://www.msnikkithomas.com/canadas-sex-work-laws-dont-break-what-we-worked-so-hard-to-fix/

A client took me to one of those spa places which also serves ladies. In my opinion, an hour is about sixty minutes and the massage should relax you during the time involved. I certainly enjoyed my relaxing massage. I have seen a RMT on a different occasion and that massage was actually painful but effective for the therapy. In both case, the massage was slightly under sixty minutes because the person needs time to clean the room and change the sheets. If a client wants to leave early, that is their choice. Otherwise, an hour is sixty minutes regardless of what you do.

Usually I remove these as they are complaints but as long as your not naming anyone I think we can have a adult discussion.

I've heard of this but don't know of anyone doing it around here-Nova Scotia. I don't think it's something I'd try but to each their own:) If someone doesn't like the color of my bum hole they don't have to look;)

I'm mixed on this one. In the video report 'mom' admits that the majority of the teens are doing this by choice, no one is coercing, luring or forcing them. So when she collects these addresses and/or makes contact, and then goes onto say she plans to save them, i am wondering who she thinks she is saving them from, other than themselves? I would think anyone with a teenager knows full well you tell them to not do something, and they go out and do it. You aren't going to convince a 16 year old that it is a bad thing for anyone to give her 100 bucks for spending 15 minutes with them, when she knows she can now go out and get whatever she wanted her parents to buy for her but they refused. In other cases, this would be a teen who breaks into houses and/or shop lifts to get what she wants. These are the same 'good good' family girls who do this, and shop lift. \ Also, how is 'young' in the ad automatically indicate someone is underage, and how, if she isn't knocking on the door and checking ID, she's just collecting addresses and reporting them, is that proof they are underage. I'm thinking 40 is a pretty high number. I think you might be hard pressed to find 40 different sps advertising in Halifax on CL under therapuetic (yes, i could be wrong, exageration for effect lol), but if there were 40, there must be at least 400 ads on there of sps who are of age posting on Halifax CL . Is that being done? Is that possible? Is CL that good a place to advertise in NS? I'm not saying there aren't underagers working or that they are not doing it by choice. I recently read a study by researchers looking for the teen girl lured by pimps and turned out onto the streets of NYC, and they also failed to find a significant number of them (when compared to all the teen SWs that is). 90% were there by choice which includes economic need, but eliminates coercian and force, and 50 % of the total were boys. General public want people to believe LE is understaffed and so therefore unable to address this real concern. My personal opinion, based on reading a lot of studies and artifcles, is that the issue does not exist nearly to the extent that people believe it does. LE isn't finding, 'saving' and/or charging thousands or hundreds of people weekly because they simply aren't there in those kinds of numbers. They find, rescue and save a handful of teenage sps because that is about all there are. The stats prove it. She even confirms it. The sps are easy to find, you simply contact anyone who posts an ad with an age of 18 and uses 'young' in the ad. It would take about 12 hours to make appointments, show up, check ID and confirm the age is OK or not OK. It is, as she says, only 40 different underage sps. How long can that take?

I am not suggesting that this business is about anything other than business... what I am saying is that if I understand what the expectations of my partner are and I let her believe I accept those expectation then when I do something that I know goes against those expectations then I am cheating. It's not a value judgment on whether monogamy is right or wrong I believe everyone can make their own choice it is just my saying that for me...if I have let my significant other believe that I will not have sex with anyone else and I do... i have cheated and I cannot blame her for being upset only myself for not being honest enough to truly tell her how I feel about monogamy. Just my opinion....

You are not alone. I have met many hobbyists like yourself, who, like to keep the details of an encounter private. I too am leaning in that direction. However, lacking reco's, especially new reco's, lead many to believe that something may be lacking with the sp or her service or both. Sadly more reco's equal more business, I've noticed that when a new one is posted for myself I suddenly get a burst of new inquiries, coincidence? Perhaps, but it is a constant one.

Two words sum up the movie The Wolf of Wall Street. Debauchery and greed. Great performances by Leo DiCaprio and Jonah Hill.

I don't feel guilt as I'm in a sexless relationship - her choice not mine. I still love her but I also still need to have sex and you can only take so many long showers. This hobby allows me to take care of that need and the lack of sex in our relationship becomes a non-issue for me. I may be rationalizing but it works for me and I'm going with it.

not real pictures.

Congrats on your 1k milestone!

Congrats sweetheart.. hoping to hear lots more from you!

Congrats on reaching the 1000 post mark emiafish!

We often hear about when ymmv turns out disappointing, but I think it turns out mind-blowing far more often than we hear about.

There is a new study just wrapping up now, which is referred to if you go to this older study at http://www.johnsvoice.ca It should provide you with some stats to refer to, and people to also contact. Also, you can spread information by posting in the babble section of rabble.ca under topics started on the feminism forum and the sex worker forum. Every step and post is a step in the right direction.

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Schedule Jan 13th - Jan 17th Today 12-9pm Tuesday (@AngelsTouch) 330-11pm Special BIKINI Party ;) Friday 11am-7pm Hello Gentlemen.. My name is Mandy! I have green eyes, long dark hair, and a naturally fit body...I am a classy girl, and I take care of myself very well. I've been working in the massage industry for 9 months now! & I love what I do... My services include sexy body slides, full body massage, reverse massage, teasing, shower for 2 and lap dances if requested!... I am very easy to talk to and have a great personality... So why not come enjoy my beautiful behind, tight body and 36C natural breasts, you will be sure to leave with a smile! =) Feel free to check out my profile & peep my sexy pics! You can find me at Paradise Spa, conveniently located in the west end of Ottawa... It is an upscale, clean, classy and discreet spa!... Rooms include large mirrors, music, showers, and black lights to intensify your sensual experience... In calls only! Please PM me or simply call 613-820-8887 to book an apt, CandyXO

us! ;) Beautiful day with a beautiful girl? Soft skin and smooth complexion...sweet touches too. Working today until3pm...need a treat. Need company? maybe you just need to see something you can have.

You can't go wrong with Passion Vitto - great body and very friendly. Ask her to wear her Halloween Wonder Women outfit!

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I would suggested established duo partners, as well. I have several ladies that I work with and we enjoy working together and have fun. This makes for a terrific experience for all. In my earlier years, I once had a client pick a duo partner for me who I did not know. The duo partner and I did not click and it created a bad experience for all. Now, I provide anyone interested in a duo with a list of ladies who I am happy working with and he picks one who suits his mood.

Most spas take walkins.. so dont worry as mention before ALO has 5 different Licensed body Rub locations by city of Ottawa.. Is the only chain of licensed body rubs in the city... In addition, as mentiin by Curious we cover all the areas in the City Downtown, east, West and south. .so ALO Is close to you no matter where you are. .. in terms of CMJ I do believe that they have guests passes... Bo matter where you decide to go.. Ottaws Ottawa offers great massage options

Sensual Erin. Enjoy.

What he says to keep the support of those opposed and what actually happens are two different things. I suspect they will drag their feet, take too long examining the options etc, and then the point will be moot. And again, remember it is not the right pushing the Nordic model. It is those who think they are helping by pushing it. And IMHO, they would not be so stupid as to put in Nordic model as it exists in Sweden and other places. That would fail the charter test, and I am sure their lawyers will advise them of that. If they chose to act they will criminalize the act, and all involved, the client and the provider. No nasty charter challenges then.

That is your humble opinion and your entitled to say that. Just like me saying you can't go wrong with ALO spa's, Paradise Spa,Angel's Touch Spa, CMJ Spa and Vibe Spa, each spa have beautiful women working for them, they are all great spa's. Ottawa also has many independent ladies too. As long as you act like a gentleman while you're there, show up for bookings, don't use false names and cancel on ladies that you've booked time with because you basically screw the lady out of coin,when there is others wanting to book with that lady. This does happen to the spa and the lady, we like to call theses guys "time wasters" "lurkers" "bad clients"......and well probably other choice names ;) All the Spa's have their unique style,atmosphere and of course many ladies, it is up to the gentleman lastly to book with a Spa,to visit that lady, OR an independent. Just check the recommendation section,for a lady that may interest yourself.

Guys should respect that dancers are in the club to earn money. A few dancers have confided to me that some guys actually pay them to hang with them. I work with a guy that told me that he does not mind tipping girls to talk to him. That is cool. Usually, I will tell a dancer what I am in the mood for - sometimes I will be catching their drinks but will warn them that I have to leave the club by a certain time or intend to have only 1 or 2 dances. I have been around the block many times... if a dancer walks up and asks right away if I want a dance, if she seems interesting or extremely smoking hot, I would invite her for a drink. We are all human in this life and it is not just about mileage as much as intimacy and feeling comfortable to express affections. It is tough when a young lady has to make rent at the end of a month and guys at the club do not want dances and are not even buying them drinks. Guys should have a bit more class and consideration, no?

Harboursmoke, no disrespect meant and I certainly wasn't implying that you don't know your way around. I know you have been around along time as I've seen many posts from you. Thus, I know you are an informed hobbyist. Just was thinking it was perhaps one of those times where we see something and impulse takes over...haha Many thanks for reporting back though, as not all do their research. Cheers MB

Seeing my mom, it's been a couple of months and Christmas with family. I know I'm grown but my attachment to my parents is still as needed and as strong as it was when I was young. I miss my dad terribly, so any moments I get to spend with my mom I cherish dearly. Perhaps had I had children I might feel differently, who knows, but my life certainly changed when my dad died. The thought of losing my mom is almost unbearable, even though I realize it is a part of life. so again, I am excited to see her for Christmas:)

I usually do a lot of cooking for Christmas . This year I am leaving all responsibilities behind, packing my 3 cats up and going to a posh hotel for the week of Christmas . Someone else will be preparing Christmas dinner , I'm really looking forward to that .

Hello Gentlemen, I am no longer available at Vibe Spa. If you are interested in seeing me I will be taking clients at a private location. For more information you can contact me directly through PM, email, text or call me and leave a voicemail. xoxo Rose Email: [email protected] Call/TXT: 343-882-6804

There are many reasons to do this and as long as the reasons are good for you and important to you, then they are good reasons and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. As was already said, attraction and beauty aren't just skin deep. Attitude, manners, sense of humor, enjoyment, openness, hygiene, a positive attitude etc. all play into making someone attractive to others. Don't sell yourself short based on what you think you see in the mirror. Most of us have a skewed perception of ourselves anyway. Most SP's will welcome you with open arms and treat you wonderfully as long as you follow their personal guidelines and the common ones of being respectful, clean and friendly. Nerves will be present but don't let that stop you from jumping on board and experiencing something wonderful. Browse ads and profiles and find someone who appeals to you then begin a conversation. Follow your intuition and enjoy!