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A few days ago, a fellow came in for his first visit. He was very inquisitive, asking all kinds of questions. I find this is normal for most first timer's, they want to get into your brain. I don't know why really. As I am here to provide a service that you apparently want/need. BUT..... The problem is, don't ask questions that you do not want the truthful answers to! He asked me if I had a BF, so naturally I say yes! Even if I did not have a BF I might say yes, so that he doesn't try to date me. lol.. When I answered him, explaining that indeed I do have BF, but he does not live here with me, and has no say into my business what so ever, he continued to say" I have to say I am uncomfortable in knowing you have a BF" I even said " what don't you think I am deserving of love too?" He said of course, but still... WTF??? You are married, and I am sure she is NOT in support of you being here, whereas, my BF does support my decision to work this trade! I never understand how they expect me to reply, I mean...I could lie, but then the guy wants to wooo you, I am not into leading a person on. So if you tell the truth, you also face the possibility of loosing a client:( Would my clients prefer me to lie? Would not lying cause you to distrust me? Honestly, after he said this to me I am sort of reluctant to book him again, as I fear he will continue to try to learn more and more of my personal life:( So to my NB friends, Have you asked this question, only to find that you should have never asked it to begin with? Does an SP having a BF change anything for you? Have you ever stopped seeing someone ( an SP)because you found out they were in relationship or married? Should I lie? Tell the truth? Thanks in advance for anyone's input! This is a subject I continue to struggle with year after year! Like, why the hell can we not have relationships too? It is a double edged knife for me on this topic! felling frustrated:(

Anyone else not impressed with the majority of stories and articles about this event most often use pics of outdoor street workers, and not the more accurate use of just about anything else, including a picture of a banana, would be more useful than leaving an impression that LE visited street workers.

If 150 women are being trafficked here in Ottawa (and note, it is always "women", or more specifically "girls" used by the abolitionist groups and police; I suppose men can't be trafficked?), then where is the research to back this claim and more importantly, why did Ottawa police not find one single non-consensual worker in the "Northern Spotlight" visits? Just a thought.

There are risks to everything and there is no reward without risk. Driving is a huge risk on nice summer days, where you trust the oncoming car not to swerve into you, let alone on a snowy day where you are trusting all the cars around you to have decent tires and an awake driver. There are many streets in Toronto that I wouldn't want to walk down by myself during the day let alone at night. A lot of personal safety comes from situational awareness - if someplace looks shady, don't go there; if you find yourself someplace you'd rather not be, leave. The planet is an amazing place full of wonderful things for you to experience - you shouldn't let fear restrict you to a tiny part of it that in many ways is no safer.

This whole business of guys not wanting to give real information to someone they want to get naked with reminds me of a discussion I had last week. In general, providers and clients are engaged in a variant dance of Mutual Assured Destruction. [mutual assured destruction n. Severe, unavoidable reciprocal damage that superpowers are likely to inflict on each other or their allies in a nuclear war, conceived as the heart of a doctrine of nuclear deterrence.] Neither party particularly wants to be "outed" by the other and is highly unlikely to do so because of the "severe, unavoidable reciprocal damage" that would result. So gents, relax. Provide the requested information truthfully and enjoy the results.

Where are you? Why is it, the only posts here are simply asking for info but with no other contributions? WE WANT to hear from you!! You obviously have a screen name , you must have opinions? I look at other cities, and see much being learned and taught! yes I know we are small in population, but really, do you not have anything to say? Chat about anything, we are listening and want to engage! The benefits of US providers as well as YOU! It is well worth it! Talk to us, our community can only get better by hearing from you:) Give it a try...what excites you? What is it that get's your goat? What have you learned by being a hobbyist? What concerns you? You don't have to be a philosopher. but just be honest and respectful to others... hope to see more posts in NB:) It will help me, and you to get to know each other!

Thought it would be appropriate to point out a site -- independentescortsottawa.com -- that holds itself out as a group of independent Ottawa escorts working together but that, in fact, is not. The other day, I had an appointment with one of the "independent" SP from this site, thinking I was communicating with her directly to arrange the appointment. When the SP showed up, it did not appear to be the person represented in the photograph but I gave her the benefit of the doubt as the face was not clear on the site.... it became quite obvious when she removed her clothes that she was not that person. . . When I told her that nothing was going to "happen" as she was not who or what I thought, she quite candidly explained: > That it is not a group of independent escorts but an agency. > That they send whomever is available for the appointment > That, in fact, the pictures on the site are not of any of the girls that work there. The women pictured on the web site basically don't exist there and are not the real pictures of any of the SP there. So, FYI, be forewarned that this is but another cynical bait-and-switch.

Has anyone had the chance to read the article in our Daily Gleaner? It is the first time I read an article on prostitution laws that FINALLY stated that not all sex-workers are forced or oppressed or what have you. They seem to finally see that for many of us choose to do this as our profession! Brought up the fact that we could pay into the system like taxes, CPP, EI etc. To be treated and looked at as any other job, being able to complain to labour boards on health and safety, etc. I was so pleased to read this. I am of course aware of the challenges that some sex workers face ie: pimps, violence, trafficking. BUT it is far fewer then what most papers are trying to portray. They really seemed to have a grip on the actual facts. I tried to look up the article on line, but did not find it, perhaps if some does find it, you will post it in the "news" section:) I read it in the printed paper, Feb 06.

well i just watched the last show (again) of the tonight show with him, and i can say he will be missed. i still do not this that Jimmy Fallan will ever be as good as him but well that NBC. over all you could feel the emotion from Leno in the ep. tonight and i hope he moves on to other things. Cheers to Jay, Best of luck :chug:

Perhaps she has bad knees or lower stamina.... Why not ask if that could be a part of your session, hopefully your fantasy can come true!

I agree its very nice when someone contacts you to have a post history to look at briefly. It really does help us get to know you a little bit. I am often disappointed when I'm approached for a date and the person has little or no posts. Its a lot more fun guys if you share a little bit about yourselves. At least from my point of view if we have something to talk about you are going to have a much better experience. :biggrin:

Your ramblings makes all good sense! The line is different with us Sp's/Ma's as e might see 4 of you in one day. So to answer these questions with BS is a bit hardr, cause you need to remember each lie you tell. I do ask simple questons to my clients. watching their body language and know from there if I should continue. Perhaps for you ( hobbyist) , you might have 1 lady each week/month..whatever. The thing is, why is not suppose to bother us as SP/MA that YOU have an SO, or not? It doesn't not matter to us. As long as YOU are safe and happy. Your right, as is Meg,and Curious, we have on line persona, that is why you book us. If you all knew I was typing this in my slippers and house coat, with no make up, no music, just me....then I am guessing you probably wont book me hahahha, OK, there is my rambling RG hahahha, Love ya !

I agree with you RG however, there are many topics of conversation which do not include one's love life. I really can't recall a time that I have asked a companion about his marital status or current love life. I find that chatting about interests, hobbies a far more stimulating and telling conversation :)

My favorite is when the client go through the booking process, confirm and date and time, then when comes the time to complete my screening information in order to confirm the appointment, they disappear. Like they were hoping I would slack on my verification procedures. As stated on my website, on my screening form page: Being in my company is a privilege, not a right.

The Winter Olympic Games have begun with the official opening ceremonies having just been concluded. One thing that I have not lost with my advancing age is my sense of idealism. When the Olympics come around every two years and I look at the majority of the athletes, I see young people, kids mostly it seems to me, who have sacrificed their time and their bodies in pursuit of a goal. Some are certainly professionals, such as our NHL players that are going over, but most are ordinary people who obtain minimal monetary funding that allows them to train for this experience. They are living their dream on an individual level yet they also do represent us and our country in their endeavors. For their work, their effort, their personal commitment and the ideals that many of them truly do represent, I say "Well done." They make me proud.

I recently donated a small amount to a young man, who desperately wants to play hockey! He is talented, but his mom who is a single mom, and not much pennies to spare. One person said to me " ohhh that is a scam, there are many gov funded programs for this kid!" For me, there is a huge difference in a kid just wanting to play, from a kid who had a vision of real determination to go as far as he could. This kid is now 9 yrs. I was an athlete, I trained in gymnastics. I started at age 5, by the time I was 13 I was trained for nationals. Age 15 I had a life changing injury. I made it to provincial level. I was training that year for nationals. To this day, I can not imagine how my parents managed to pay for my training?? Even with both parents working Gov jobs, it was insane the amount of money they paid out! Thanks Mom, Dad! In the world of athletes, it is an early career, you need to start early, cause you will finish early as well. To see our young teams get this far, I am always in awww of their determination! So yes...I will always help a young one along their way, especially when this is in their bones:)

Quite frankly, does it really matter what we do or who we do it with during our personal time? No answer will ever be the right answer and therefor I prefer not to discuss my personal love life. You are coming to see me because of the persona I have created online, why ruin the fantasy? When you are with me I am Meg the super sexy MILF and that is what really matters :) PS, if it really matters that much to you, perhaps you are not ready to hobby!

In addition to what Suite Escapes says, there are a few things IMHO are important when we are travelling abroad. The first thing is - it is a very good idea to register at the Canadian Foreign Affairs's website before our travel. Here is their website - http://travel.gc.ca/travelling/registration This ensures that they know where you are and to make contact in case of emergency. I find it extremely helpful to do some research of the countries or places we intend to visit, the do's and don'ts, places to avoid etc. There are countries such as Japan, China, most European countries where I have no problem going almost anywhere alone in the daytime. No matter where we travel, it is important not to act like a tourist and carry expensive camera or video equipment in full view. Even places like Mexico, if you stick to your resort you are staying and only go out in an escorted group or a large group, there'll be no problem. While it is very tempting to rent a car and go sightseeing by yourself, the risk is high that you can be robbed or get into a car accident. What we should keep in mind is that the horror stories we are hearing are mostly isolated inccidents. For one incident, there could be thousands and thousands of travellers who have enjoyed the experience and never have encountered such bad problems.

News love fear mongering.. I guess it's not as interesting to report on the great and lovely vacations people have outside the country. There's is so much out there to discover, learn and see. I actually love visiting (parts) of South America. I heard a lot before going there, but I've never come across anything like bribes or abnormally high crime rates. (Though I did find a lot of people stand really close when they talk to you.) I've walked around at night in Asia, stayed with strangers in Europe... once you get out and start seeing places you start to see how similar people are no matter where they live. Don't let fear stop you. If you want to travel, you should.. you're probably just as likely to face unfair persecution here as you are in a lot of other countries. Edit: Oh and you can totally go missing anywhere! Even here.. Was just reminded of Owen Rooney, who was an Australian who went missing here, in Canada, after being beat up.

It is my understanding that NOONE including Asian agencies is allowed to post Fake Pictures here on Cerb... there is no Grace or favoritism.. as far as the pics they use on other websites or advertising.. there is not really anything we can do... and it would have to be the gentlemen who decide if they want to deal or no with them...

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My latest amusement with these guys is to interrupt them and ask the if their family is proud of them. "Does your father proudly tell his friends that his son steals money? Is your mother comforted in her heart that she raised a son who brings shame upon the family name?" Right around there is when they hang up. I recognize these guys are just doing their job but I also know that there are legitimate calls centres in India and Bangladesh where they could perform honourable work. So move along, guys. Nothing to see here.

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I personally do not required references on a regular base, sometime I will ask for it, but it is not that common. I do however have some people staying they have seen such and such...but please don,t contact me because I don't want them to be jealous or know I have seen you. I am starting to wonder if some guys are "ashamed" of seeing me because I am so heavily tattooed or something:/

thanks for posting this Emily. I had someone provide a 'fake' reference once long ago, and now I insist upon seeing a website and contact via email to verify the validity of the reference. It's also important to me that the lady be someone they have seen within the last six months. I check every reference too. It's bizarre to me that any gent would want to see someone that isn't comfortable seeing them, but it's something I've experienced too. Almost like when I said "no thank you" it became a personal challenge to somehow try to get around that. I wonder if sometimes rejection by a sex professional, even when done tactfully, is more than some can easily accept.

In keeping with the spirit of this wonderful community, this is a thread to recognize the contributions of our members in making this a vibrant and fun place to be. Not only to indulge our senses in sensual delights but also tempt and support our palates, minds, hearts, souls and everything else that makes us human. Let's use this thread to recognize and thank while also respecting those who have a differing opinion. Thank you to everyone who made your voices heard. :ThankYou:

It is illegal to use someone's copyright protected photos (in fact all photos published are copyright protected) without their consent. All sites if you report fake pics (with direct links to the source) are likely to edit the ads to remove the pics, usually actually easier to report on bp versus many other sites. As far as the B&S apologists go, they have a lot to answer for. We are usually seeing this acceptance on review sites. They will push and basically promote going to see these sps on the basis the rates are low and the services are high, whats a few fake pics and ages compared to that? They forget that one of the prime reasons for review sites was to actually report those things, not say they are OK as long as the sp advertised is cheaper than other options, or as long as they are in a micro/agency set up like these usually are. In other words, a white sp would be flayed online for fudging 3 years off her real age and/or using 'borrowed' photos, even tho the reason she gives is exactly the same excuse: she doesn't want to be recognized by family members. How many asian sps coming here from China and posting ads on Canadian escort websites really believe their photos, with heads cropped off, are actually going to be seen by their mainland china families?

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Yeah, it's more of an issue outside of cerb and you're right there is a general acceptance that what you see is likely fake. My personal experience has been that photos used on cerb by Asian ladies were in fact the ladies when the door was opened, albeit the pics were photo shopped quite a bit . Outside of cerb I've booked with the expectation of a B&S and discovered that my expectations were right. Not to condone this but I think that they get a little more leeway dfrom guys as you mentioned because it's somewhat of a niche area. If a guy has a particular attraction to Asian ladies and supply is limited then he might find himself in a "take what you can get" type of position. Outside of certain urban centers with larger Asian populations "take what you can get" is certainly an issue for guys that find their tastes drawn to the Asian variety.

But not missed by Conan, David Letterman or Howard Stern. :vl:

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A quick question about references. Does anybody know how many SP's require a reference for the screening process?

I like to think of my MA lifestyle part of my double life, although living this lifestyle is definitely a part of who I am, and the people who are closest to me in my life know about my profession (to some aspect) and are for the most part of with it....Im not at all ashamed of this profession, however there are some people in my life that I choose not tell them about this lifestyle simply because it is none of their business.... Everyone is entitled to have their own privacy and their own secrets I believe that everyone in life has their own double life, even if its something as small as walking around the house naked when no ones around...(i know thats nothing compared to our double lifestyle, but to that person its as big as ours) I have been caught once (by a close friend) and I tried to deny it at first, but then I realized that if this person truly loves and cares for me, and values our friendship, then they should be able to accept me for me, and they did :) I love this lifestyle and I have no reason to deny it, but I do enjoy the sneakiness of it all ;)

I learned that I am going to be a first time grandfather, with the due date on my own birthday.

There are many that stand out and who should be recognized I think and deserve continued thanks and appreciation for their contributions here, for their insight, intelligence, ability to voice an objective and understanding opinion, who don't pick sides, who are wise beyond words and who's posts I enjoy reading. these are the ones at the top of my list: Cat-A woman who knows how to put things into perspective. I think I know what I'm talking about when I respond to a thread until I read her response. She truly "gets" it and causes me to think again, to look at things in another way, usually the right way. To her I thank, admire and always look forward to reading her responses. I just wish she would post more:) Tracie-Midnight-like Cat, she has a way with looking at things fairly, with understanding and has never imo passed judgement. She could teach us all something imho:) Mightypen-just a smart guy. He too can put things into perspective, always, imo has the right answer. I just admire him and respect his opinions:) RG- A man I feel I could tell my secrets. He makes me feel safe even though we've never met. Just a good soul, we need more like him:) Brad-Smart, informed, fair and just a nice guy:) Miss jane TG-Her posts are intellectual, informed, to me always valuable and worth reading. There are many others here that are smart, informed, well spoken, and we are lucky to have them. I apologize for not naming them all as I feel they too are stand outs . But the ones named seemed to be at the top of my list. We all have something to offer and to be thankful for. What makes some different imo is how they can articulate their posts without judging, criticizing or being biased. Traits I know I don't often have and ones I envy. So to the ones I've listed- thank you:)

NOPE. Me? Porn? Not ever. ;) Oh yes. Yes yes yes. And Stoya.

Remember boards like these thrive on traffic. Reduce the board to just ladies advertising and men posting recommendations CERB would quickly fold because of little or no traffic...people just wouldn't come back. I suppose for those that don't like the recognition threads, seeing them as serving no purpose they must also feel that giving nominations, rep points/comments and thanks is also a waste of time...even though they too, are just another way to acknowledge a member...be it through a milestone or a post. CERB has many venues to attract a diverse community of people sharing a common interest Tracie, keep up the good work, it is noticed and appreciated And now I'm going back to the music thread ;-) RG

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I'm fine with them. And like others, I fail to see how scrolling a bit or clicking through to page 2 (or 3, or...) is an unbearable hardship.

I kinda like the recognition posts.... I have to think they serve some purpose because lots if people participate in them. Just my opinion

I'd like to nominate our very own Kathryn Bardot. She walks among us mere mortals and we are glad.

Mr Dressup, Disney, HR Puffnstuff, Friendly Giant and Take 30, for some reason.

The earliest, well at that age tv was jumbled so no one concise earliest memory...but some from that era The Friendly Giant Hercules (cartoon) Spiderman (cartoon) Bugs Bunny Road Runner Hour (cartoon) Get Smart Batman (the campy one with Adam West) Star Trek RG

What can I say, I'm a nerd :)

Bleu nuit :cooter:

that's why i think there are different levels of ladies...there is one that offer ssog and or have menus..i wouldn't call these ladies escorts...then there are escorts or as i would rather be called a companion...where we offer not only msog but so much more then the wam bam thing...i hate the wam bam thing...most of the gents i see book 2 or more hrs and belive me they leave happy...lmao...because i'm not counting...