Leaderboard

I don't ask questions and I don't judge when I attend a gentleman's home ... but it's often quite evident if I'm in a room where a lady usually sleeps. I know sometimes I've seen attached gents and they have hosted my visit in a spare room. Whatever is more comfortable for them is fine... as long as it's clean. I have only once been contacted by a lady who was aware of my visit to her home, and that was not through any error on my part. He didn't delete his phone history afterwards. For shame! I am hardly the one to judge one of my gentlemen friends as vulgar or disrespectful towards their SO. Apart from what he chooses to share with me, their relationship is off limits. He's paying me enough to mind my own business.

far as I know those terms (except for SF/SS??) are accepted across Canada and in other parts of the world. Sex Professionals work across the globe, having a uniquely Canadian set of acronyms would be confusing IMO. I don't find anything degrading about the terms you've mentioned, and they are fairly self explanatory or easily google searched. Don't fix it if it ain't broke! :D

I can understand the fantasy of it, and I have visited gentlemen in their homes (although most of the time I believe the spouse was aware of our activities beforehand and it wasn't an issue). Personally though, I wouldn't be with a personal partner in my 'office'. That's where Cleo fucks. The other me has her own room :)

"the line" is in a different place for everyone :) aren't we all wonderfully unique?

Lol......I might be a little pragmatic about this but for those that use the excuse of, "it's disrespectful to the SO to do that" or "a home or bed is scared"......lol.....I'm sorry but if your SO is not fully aware that you are having sex with someone else, that ship has sailed......sorry to burst your bubble ;) I've hosted many times (for the reason that Ice4fun mentioned) but in a spare room. For me it's purely a matter of discretion and reducing the potential for problems. I get nothing in the form of a high from having sex in the same space as I live with my SO. I just like to host in my own space.

Not going to lie... I had to look up the word tryst lol As for would I? No, plain and simple... I would rather spend the extra and get a hotel room then to figuratively "slap my relationship" in the face like that. An ex of mine had 13 affairs in our bed... Maybe that's why my mind is the way that it is.

I wouldn't do that. Home has to be kept separate from this. Complete firewall.

How about: TPOTMLFS - Takes Pity on Toronto Maple Leafs Fans lol

I am a minimalist, I always keep what is really important to me. ask: Is this important to me? Will I use it again? Have I used in 1 year? If not, will others benefit from it as a donation? If not 100% sure, then I will keep it one more year. I do not like "stuff", counters cleared, few boxes in the closet or garage...that is all! I see when stuff when shopping, and ask myself, how can I use it? Where would it go? And If I cant answer this, then I say wait a week, and if I still want it, then will go get it. This way it is not just an impulse buy. GOOD LUCK!!

How About CGOTD Cerb Goddess Of The Day KCC Kissing Cuddling Conversation WCNOBGTSH Would Crawl Naked Over Broken Glass To See Her MMWITK Makes Me Weak In The Knees LBMAM Likes Bald Middle Aged Men A few made up ramblings RG :-)

Non-judgemental is a quality I value in a lady and one that helps me to decide to repeat with her or not.

This is a BIG no no, imo. Have I, I'm sure. I do visit residences and on some occasions I could tell it was a spare bedroom, on others it was "their" room and yes I was uncomfortable but did. If the bed were mine and it was my spouse or mate and they shared my bed, it'd be not good! I think if a gent was going to invite an sp to their home it best to keep their "spot" separate from the sp's "spot", but that's just me:)

I can only speak for myself but this is something I could never do. I consider the bed that I share with my SO sacred to just the two of us. We all have our reasons for doing what we do but this is something that is way too risky.

Ice cream! But if I wish for Neapolitan, does that count as all three wishes? :(

I myself have a couple of reasons, but one is similar to the above. I want to know who I am talking to, and who i am giving the info to. This is also why i won't 'put it in writing' so to speak, so not in pms, texts or emails. Gender, sobriety, and sincerity are far more obvious in a phone conversation, to me, and is how i screen. If the person doesn't sound right, there is no need to proceed. Not having $$ in the ads means they have to call, and that gives me insight into them. Also, many many many ad posting sites prohibit posting services, therefore there is no point in posting rates that are based on those services. Maybe the sp can post 'rates start at 100" but typically, according to the rules of the majority of ad sites out there, they can't post rates for FS, bjs, half hour FS GFE, or whatever combination of things. The fact that some sps do post all that info is neither here nor there if the sp in question is a rule follower, and/or has had ads deleted (paid for ads) due to breaking the rules. she is unlikely to continue to break the rules, she would rather have the ad up, and risk someone being too nervous to contact her for the info. And if you are too nervous to contact just to ask about a rate, then are you going to be too nervous to show up after booking an appt? Because skittish clients are not fun if they don't show up lol. So don't dismiss the ones who don't post a rate. Let's face it, there are a lot of rates posted in ads. Rates do NOT vary significantly, not enough that it matters that much if someone you call is not going to be more than 20-50 different than the ad rates you've already seen. Don't let a price decide for you who to see either, there are a lot of factors that make one sp more attractive than another, but personally to me if someone is only choosing me because my rate is 20 less than the other 10 sps ads he's seen, then that is not the guy I want to see. I want the guy who sees the ad, talks to me, and then decides that even tho my rate is 20 higher than the other 10 ads he saw, he still wants to take a chance on coming to see me. Based on who i am and what i offer, and our conversation.

So, let's say you're stuck on a tropical desert island. Just to add a little background ambiance, you were sightseeing on a small fishing vessel. Suddenly, a major sea storm blew in from nowhere and the dang boat sunk. So sorry, no refunds. You, the lone survivor, were washed up on shore during the night. Don't know why you were sightseeing during the night, but what the hell - this is just setting the scene. In the morning, you wake up in a daze, face-down in the sand. Mmmmm...sand. Ptuooeee..spit..spit..spit. You pick the sand crabs off your nipples and other parts (ouch ouch ouch) and stagger to your feet. Your clothes have mysteriously washed away to a bare minimum. Good thing too, cuz it's starting to get pretty hot. Under the brilliant sun, you wander along the beachfront hoping to find a telephone or convenience store. You come across a banged-up brass vase. "Well", you say to yourself, "it ain't a telephone, but it might make a nice souvenir for the coffee table". You're obviously not thinking clearly yet, because there ain't a coffee table in sight! You decide to pause and shine the artifact with the scant remnants of your clothing. With each slow, deliberate stroke the object vibrates and hums with increasing intensity. You linger and stroke and pay very close attention when rubbing the top of the vase. To your amazement, the top pops off and a wonderous, creamy vapour spurts and pours forth. In front of you stands a vision of joyous, incredible beauty. The creature introduces itself with a combination of dignity and sensuality that defies gravity (ok, screwy metaphor). It also gracefully offers a gift of 3 wishes - with restrictions naturally (the creature mentions something about no Greek): Ixnay on wishing for more ishesway Don't try to bring back the dead - they stink ....other than that - you're good to go. Don't forget you're on a desert island, no coffee table, no telephone, no boat, no clothes, no food or water.... What are your 3 wishes master?

Love, loved this girls voice, I hope you will as well. If you haven't heard of her yet I'm sure you will soon. If you have a clip, video or picture of someone or something you find amazing feel free to post it here, it can be a new thread for " amazing finds/talent/people/things:) more amazing:) http://www.buzzfeed.com/rachelzarrell/12-amazing-before-and-after-pictures-of-rescue-dogs-show-jus http://seriouslyamazing.si.edu/

instead may I suggest DF, dream fulfiller or EXP, extreme pleasure provider

Anything like furniture, household items that still work, clothing (that is wearable, ) ask your local shelter if they can take donations of usable articles. This way, someone starting on their own again may be able to benefit from what you don't need :) I did a purge a couple of years ago, and man, was I surprised at some of the 'things' I held on to. Sure, sentimental family things, yes, absolutely I held on to, but stuff from my college days, that stuff went. I gave duplicates of things to a local shelter and boy were they glad to get it. (I had two kitchens in my house, so they got everything from one!) It will feel good when you realize what you can actually live without.

http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/beloved-canadian-author-farley-mowat-dead-at-92-1.1810522 RG

I prefer the recycling route as well. Find the people who pick these things up, or will take the drop offs like thrift shops, family shelters, food banks, women's centres, seniors centres, and retirement homes will probably like the books, as well as useful things. If you aren't looking to make a profit on stuff, there will always be someone who can use it. Even the dumps in certain areas have recyclable places, where good used items can be picked up for 'nearly free' and gives it a chance to go to a new home, while you personally only have to take it to one place.

I try to purge at least once a year. If I have not used something in the past 12 months. I get rid of it. With the exception of family heirlooms -- they stay for ever. Speaking of which -- May is time for my next purge. ;)

A man who knows how to pay special attention to my feet or belly will have me eating out of his hand. But that said, I must admit that I'm often disappointed by those who approach me and announce that they have a foot fetish. When they do follow through (which is rare), they usually expect to get off super cheap (if not free). They often start off with a demand for a pic of my feet. Unfortunately, it rarely works out with guys who tell me they have a foot fetish, but that's certainly not because I'm not responsive to sensual attention to my feet!

GWG - girl with glasses lmfao ...

She has new pics they are super hot

Awww.... Why can't we just all get along, like them!! :)

I feel that some fantasy's should remain as a fantasy. Personally, I would decline a visit to a married man's home, or especially to the marriage bed. I have had a client here and there say that line " I think of you when I make love to my wife" and well it certainly does not get me wet upon hearing that, if anything it turns me off. I am not here to ruin or interfere with a marriage, but to allow gent's to have their needs met in a discrete manner. I feel for some marriages that I have helped them stay together happier, as they will far less chance of being caught running around. For this reason, booking is done at my location. It is not as personal this way, and wont feel the need to wash the quilt away after.

Personally, I really don't see the point. I never had an urge to do something like this. Also, this opens up the possibility of not keeping things discreet. The other reason would be that I would have to make the bed afterwards and that very act would get me busted ..... bed making is not my strong suit :-)

I just lost someone really close. I would go for this too.

Well maybe I will go see her guys but I'm not permitted to write a recco so someone better move on this.... :biggrin:

hurting someone can be as easy as throwing a stone in the sea . but do you have any idea how deep that stone can go ? the tongue is a small thing , but what enormous damage it can do . sometimes the easiest way to solve a problem , is to stop participating in the problem .

I just wanted to start a new thread because this lady deserves it.I have now seen her twice and the second was even better than the first. She is a true gfe and worth every bit and more. Very nice set as this is what made me try her and I am glad I did. She spends the entire time with you and treats you like a king, not like some who get you out of the doe sooner than you pay for. Try her and you won't be disappointed

The first link reminded of this: I don't watch the show, but stumbled upon this months ago and was blown away by this 13 year old. Not sure what she's doing now, hopefully something amazing. :)

GSG - Go Sens Go...... lol

Want to know more? Tues-Friday MA GFE ... NO FS

Adora usually works the day shift on weekdays.

I've always wondered why 'pearl necklace' got changed to russian.. if it was for a 'dressing' .. let's at least choose a white one. I dislike sp=service provider.. as it just makes me think of isp. internet sp.

kilts (worn properly) are super sexy :p barefoot on green grass or warm sand?

I do get it. Not that I view the issue as sacrosanct; it just crosses the line for me.

Had the opportunity tonight to chat with a good friend... so nice.

there is a Raquel that advertises on Backpage ..she has just come back from a leave of absence, she is about 48. I would assume that is the one we're talking about.

Finally watching American Courtesans. Such amazing woman and stories. Touches me in so many different ways.

Since my last post I have now entertained an SP in my home and it was a wonderful experience to host her and have all the comforts of my home available to us for the time we have had together. That said it was a bit nerve wrecking making sure that there was no evidence of the visit left for when my wife came home so while it was a great session I am not sure it will happen that often in the future but I am glad we did it. Just my opinion

No line-up is required. In Toronto, Edmonton and Vancouver and other locations in Ottawa, either a girl will come out to say hi at the entrance or in many cases, you are put in a room and they come by individually to say hi. Don't get me wrong, I think that AT/Par has very nice facilities and I have met some wonderful ladies there but I think that they are costing themselves business. I am a prime example as I have not met a new lady there to see in a long time while other places see me a lot. I learned a long time ago for my personal preferences, never to trust a picture. And I am not going to select a girl and then insult her by saying sorry once she comes in the room. Just my style I guess. Anyways, a policy is a policy and that is fine. All I can tell you is that I spend a lot more in Toronto at individual locations than here at Par/AT yet I spend much more time here. If it is not desired to do this for everyone, then perhaps for regulars/long time clients whom it is known will actually spend money at the location. Just trying to help give some more business to the local spas.

I have been in plenty of threesomes over the years.. both on and off camera.. and when I'm with a partner who I know is 'ooing' and 'awing' way over the top.. I'm completely turned off and have no clue what to do .. to either match her fakeness or just fade into the background. BUT when this happens I'd say 50% of the clients/viewers love it.. and the other 50% are turned off like myself.. When it's genuine fun.. I"m in heaven.. and have a blast.. and this is evident to the participants/viewers.. Unfortunately I don't usually know the lady in question is disingenuous until we're in the thick of things.. and she's practically cumming before we've even started! ugh.. bleh and ick.. lol.. I personally don't know how someone can fake it for an hour or two and not be strained from it..

I think it all boils down to acceptance. We are all human and as such, have fluctuations in how we feel, what we want/need and the energy we're feeling at any given moment. Some days you're in the mood for intimacy and snuggles while another day you just want to be taken and pleasured. Depending on your mood, you gravitate towards the ads (or to writing the ads) that match but it also means that those opposite might stick out. Sometimes depending on our moods, we ignore all that doesn't match us or they stick out like a sore thumb and turn us off. I don't think it speaks to the industry as much as it speaks to people and to sexuality. Even if you were not in this industry in any way, you would still have all the fluctuations. If you had a partner, one day you might want to wine and dine and then another to bend them over the kitchen table. It's also about those things that are "outside our norm" or not the way we would do things. Again, it's human nature to say "I would never do or say that". As has been pointed out, everyone does what works for them at any given time of the day. I'm sure outsiders reading it would judge the industry based on what they see but honestly, we do that among ourselves too, don't we?

I am an older guy now, in my 60's. I don't have any tatoos, and in many ways I don't understand how a beautiful woman would want tatoos. What could be better than a beautiful woman's natural skin? The wonderful woman I see most often does not have any tatoos. I find her so attractive ;) And yet, someone she knows, and likes, and respects - Cleo Catra - has a couple (lol) of tatoos/catoos. I find Cleo Catra's tatoos very attractive :) I mean, Cleo Catra is clearly a very beautiful woman! And when I was down in Florida recently and met a lovely, classy, very attactive young woman who had beautiful, very colourful tatoos on perhaps half of her body, from what I could see, I found her very desirable. I complimented her on her tatoos and her beauty, and she was perfectly charming. So, I guess I have a lot to learn ;) Maybe it is more about a particular woman's charm and beauty shining through rather than anything else.